July 28, 2025 • 5 mins
On this episode The Doza chronicles a journey into a form of self care he once deemed "soft".
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Why According to the dozen episode foe, you've been on
the streaking thank you, thank you, because you could have
been anywhere in the world, doing anything.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
In the world, but you then chose to shut this
moment with me.
Speaker 1 (00:15):
And today's episode, we're gonna focus on wrong. You know
what I'm saying. I don't know how many, no matter
how long we do, you know, according to the Dozen,
I'm gonna you know, touch on some I need to
be right more than wrong. But the other day I
had an epiphany of sorts, like it's I like to
be wrong about shit, you know what I'm saying, Like,
(00:37):
especially as you get older, you should kind of get
stuck in your ways, so you not so receptive to
new knowledge, even though it's hell of beneficial. It's sometimes
I catch myself, It's like, I don't.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Live this long.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
I'm Mo, Mo, Mo, thirty eight years old. I ain't had
the change, Like you know what I'm saying. I've been
right about a little bit of shit. I ain't always
the most right, but it works for me. I ain't
in jail, dead, homeless yet, you know what I'm saying,
I'm doing the best I can. So it becomes kind
of like difficult to listen to other outside sources sometimes
because you get real set in your ways and shout
(01:09):
out to my my homie Montreal.
Speaker 2 (01:11):
I worked with him over at the hotel and shit,
and this was.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
Like, I don't know if it was like a year ago,
bro ass had came and he had got a facial.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
So all the.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
Women's they're like, oh my god, look at this nigga facial.
Look at this nigga facial. I'm like, man, what the fuck, Like,
what do y'all see that I'm not seeing? Like just
the regular same light skinned nigga that was here last week,
Like what am I missing? And my homegirl she put
me to the say she's like, man, I asked her.
She's like, man, it's his facial, like his shit glooming
woo woo. So I'm like, damn, you know, I want
that reaction. I want that reaction. But of course, the
(01:41):
way I was raised, well, you know, we grew up.
I grew up fatherless for the most part of my life,
and most of my friends were fatherless and shit. So
you know, the niggas who had dads and shit, they
was like super tough niggas or hard working motherfuckers.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
That went to work here. They kept their head down.
You know. You know, how can I say this is
like blue cow? I love motherfuckers.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
So it wasn't like executives or niggas that you know,
it was metrosexual back in the nineties, and shit, really
two thou niggas wasn't like that like niggas hoop or
your daddy drunk or you know what I'm saying. Hell,
you know what I'm saying. He was a smart nigga,
book nigga. You know, it really wasn't no display of
I don't even want to say femininity because that's self care.
(02:22):
You know, I had to admit I was wrong about
the whole situation. So I've been I was telling my
hommy for months, like man, I'm gonna get a face.
W I'm gonna get a facial But it's not something
I hadn't put in my routine. I ain't had no
lady of a consistency of sorts like lately. So you know,
your women she suggested like that, but you know some
women don't even suggest it because they see the type
(02:43):
of nigga.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
You was like, I know women that's like I did
dated women.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
That's really into theyself cann out the rest of that shit,
and I just deemed that shit for the girls like
I do my own feeling shit, keep my tone, my
nails clean and clipping and shit. But I don't see
the need as a man like to go do this
shit myself again admitting I was wrong. So my hommie
digity shot out the bro man. He just did big
ship last night at his reception. Him and Anita just
(03:09):
joined beautiful, beautiful ceremony, beautiful heir thing. Man, We had
a ball, had a blast. Whenever you do a within
and make sure it's an open bar, niggas enjoy that.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
Like the food.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
Don't even got to be all that cause niggas is
just trying to consume as much as they can, especially
in the middle of the summer. You get back us, well,
I was so motherfucking drunk. But that's not the That's
neither here nor there. Bro had booked the fucking defections
with his homegirl shit in the whole time. The women
who performed it, I don't know her name, Jay or
something like that. I'm gonna get Bro. We put the
information in that y'all should fuck with her. She took
(03:40):
her time with her, like, man, it felt like really
good to yeah, she thinking hell all that. So it
was like a good experience and for the most part
for me, but actually like seeing what it took to
And I was sitting there like, damn this shit taking
a minute, like what the fuck? I thought you just
watching nigga face put You know, when I got up
and through the processing shit, I was kind of you know,
I was kind of dis made. I ain't gonna I
(04:01):
was kind of upset because I went to the mirror.
Shit I'm expecting to see no, no hormo shit, no, no,
really just real shit. I'm like, damn, I thought like
that should make you didn't tail or something saying ugly?
Speaker 2 (04:10):
I think I was that shit was fucked up, like
what the fact? What was the pointed? Is like?
Speaker 1 (04:16):
But not neither here nor there, Like as the day progressed,
and I, you know, just got out of my own
head about what the expectation because my homielling me like, bro,
it's not gonna change your life. Bro, it's just good
for your skin and shit you're going, oh, we can
tell it difference. So, you know, as I was the
day progressing, shit, I'm looking like damn, I you can't
see it like okay, okay, okay, and I'm I was
at work later that night and the lady he was like,
(04:38):
many shit, your pretty ass down.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
I'm damn okay okay, admitted I was wrong.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
I'm not saying it just from that reaction period, but
for the whole experience. Sometimes like we us as men
that are adults, like we've went through our whole adolescent
stage kind of entering your unkas you know what I'm saying,
the old schools type shit, you gotta still be receptive
to new knowledge, like had I not ever experienced that?
(05:06):
And I ain't saying I'm next week, I need to
go get another one, or maybe in a month or so,
I might not like I'm probably not gonna happen, but
I probably keep that, you know what I'm saying. I
always remember that, like man, hold on, wait, I just
part time my skin. That shit was a It's a
decent experience, and it be like, I don't know, maybe
it's because it was black owned.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
That shit was a was a vibe. It was an experience,
you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
And one of the first times on this podcast, I'm
in mid I'm a wrong, but I'm gonna trying to
make it a regular thing because if I can't show
you my growth, how we gonna all grow together.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Man. We're trying to grow this ship here. Man.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
So it's been according to the Doll's just something quick,
sweet for your you know what I'm saying. Congratulates, Tell
my homie diggity we had a nice time again. Shout
out to everybody after that's tuning in, whether you're six months,
six second, six millenniums.
Speaker 2 (05:52):
Thank you,
Why According to the dozen episode foe, you've been on
the streaking thank you, thank you, because you could have
been anywhere in the world, doing anything.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
In the world, but you then chose to shut this
moment with me.
Speaker 1 (00:15):
And today's episode, we're gonna focus on wrong. You know
what I'm saying. I don't know how many, no matter
how long we do, you know, according to the Dozen,
I'm gonna you know, touch on some I need to
be right more than wrong. But the other day I
had an epiphany of sorts, like it's I like to
be wrong about shit, you know what I'm saying, Like,
(00:37):
especially as you get older, you should kind of get
stuck in your ways, so you not so receptive to
new knowledge, even though it's hell of beneficial. It's sometimes
I catch myself, It's like, I don't.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Live this long.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
I'm Mo, Mo, Mo, thirty eight years old. I ain't had
the change, Like you know what I'm saying. I've been
right about a little bit of shit. I ain't always
the most right, but it works for me. I ain't
in jail, dead, homeless yet, you know what I'm saying,
I'm doing the best I can. So it becomes kind
of like difficult to listen to other outside sources sometimes
because you get real set in your ways and shout
(01:09):
out to my my homie Montreal.
Speaker 2 (01:11):
I worked with him over at the hotel and shit,
and this was.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
Like, I don't know if it was like a year ago,
bro ass had came and he had got a facial.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
So all the.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
Women's they're like, oh my god, look at this nigga facial.
Look at this nigga facial. I'm like, man, what the fuck, Like,
what do y'all see that I'm not seeing? Like just
the regular same light skinned nigga that was here last week,
Like what am I missing? And my homegirl she put
me to the say she's like, man, I asked her.
She's like, man, it's his facial, like his shit glooming
woo woo. So I'm like, damn, you know, I want
that reaction. I want that reaction. But of course, the
(01:41):
way I was raised, well, you know, we grew up.
I grew up fatherless for the most part of my life,
and most of my friends were fatherless and shit. So
you know, the niggas who had dads and shit, they
was like super tough niggas or hard working motherfuckers.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
That went to work here. They kept their head down.
You know. You know, how can I say this is
like blue cow? I love motherfuckers.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
So it wasn't like executives or niggas that you know,
it was metrosexual back in the nineties, and shit, really
two thou niggas wasn't like that like niggas hoop or
your daddy drunk or you know what I'm saying. Hell,
you know what I'm saying. He was a smart nigga,
book nigga. You know, it really wasn't no display of
I don't even want to say femininity because that's self care.
(02:22):
You know, I had to admit I was wrong about
the whole situation. So I've been I was telling my
hommy for months, like man, I'm gonna get a face.
W I'm gonna get a facial But it's not something
I hadn't put in my routine. I ain't had no
lady of a consistency of sorts like lately. So you know,
your women she suggested like that, but you know some
women don't even suggest it because they see the type
(02:43):
of nigga.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
You was like, I know women that's like I did
dated women.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
That's really into theyself cann out the rest of that shit,
and I just deemed that shit for the girls like
I do my own feeling shit, keep my tone, my
nails clean and clipping and shit. But I don't see
the need as a man like to go do this
shit myself again admitting I was wrong. So my hommie
digity shot out the bro man. He just did big
ship last night at his reception. Him and Anita just
(03:09):
joined beautiful, beautiful ceremony, beautiful heir thing. Man, We had
a ball, had a blast. Whenever you do a within
and make sure it's an open bar, niggas enjoy that.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
Like the food.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
Don't even got to be all that cause niggas is
just trying to consume as much as they can, especially
in the middle of the summer. You get back us, well,
I was so motherfucking drunk. But that's not the That's
neither here nor there. Bro had booked the fucking defections
with his homegirl shit in the whole time. The women
who performed it, I don't know her name, Jay or
something like that. I'm gonna get Bro. We put the
information in that y'all should fuck with her. She took
(03:40):
her time with her, like, man, it felt like really
good to yeah, she thinking hell all that. So it
was like a good experience and for the most part
for me, but actually like seeing what it took to
And I was sitting there like, damn this shit taking
a minute, like what the fuck? I thought you just
watching nigga face put You know, when I got up
and through the processing shit, I was kind of you know,
I was kind of dis made. I ain't gonna I
(04:01):
was kind of upset because I went to the mirror.
Shit I'm expecting to see no, no hormo shit, no, no,
really just real shit. I'm like, damn, I thought like
that should make you didn't tail or something saying ugly?
Speaker 2 (04:10):
I think I was that shit was fucked up, like
what the fact? What was the pointed? Is like?
Speaker 1 (04:16):
But not neither here nor there, Like as the day progressed,
and I, you know, just got out of my own
head about what the expectation because my homielling me like, bro,
it's not gonna change your life. Bro, it's just good
for your skin and shit you're going, oh, we can
tell it difference. So, you know, as I was the
day progressing, shit, I'm looking like damn, I you can't
see it like okay, okay, okay, and I'm I was
at work later that night and the lady he was like,
(04:38):
many shit, your pretty ass down.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
I'm damn okay okay, admitted I was wrong.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
I'm not saying it just from that reaction period, but
for the whole experience. Sometimes like we us as men
that are adults, like we've went through our whole adolescent
stage kind of entering your unkas you know what I'm saying,
the old schools type shit, you gotta still be receptive
to new knowledge, like had I not ever experienced that?
(05:06):
And I ain't saying I'm next week, I need to
go get another one, or maybe in a month or so,
I might not like I'm probably not gonna happen, but
I probably keep that, you know what I'm saying. I
always remember that, like man, hold on, wait, I just
part time my skin. That shit was a It's a
decent experience, and it be like, I don't know, maybe
it's because it was black owned.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
That shit was a was a vibe. It was an experience,
you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
And one of the first times on this podcast, I'm
in mid I'm a wrong, but I'm gonna trying to
make it a regular thing because if I can't show
you my growth, how we gonna all grow together.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Man. We're trying to grow this ship here. Man.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
So it's been according to the Doll's just something quick,
sweet for your you know what I'm saying. Congratulates, Tell
my homie diggity we had a nice time again. Shout
out to everybody after that's tuning in, whether you're six months,
six second, six millenniums.
Speaker 2 (05:52):
Thank you,
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