Episode 17- Is The Kevin Samuel_ Manasphree_ and Red Pill Over_

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Speaker 1 (00:41):
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(01:27):
a certified recovery life coach. It's all about helping people
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new and better you. This particular podcast, My African Melanin Queens,
it's all about helping African American women, Black women and
also African descent as well as African women to be

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the queens that they are meant to be by getting
away from society standards of what being a black woman
is and also the recovery from everything that black women
have gone through throughout history. As well as every other
woman that is of African descent or Africans have been
through and helping them to become a new version and

(02:11):
the queens that they are meant to be. Now today
we're gonna be talking about Kevin Samuels today. Now we
all know Kevin Samuel is no longer with us today.
And I saw something from albah and preach about the
Kevin Kevin Samuel Red Peel manuscript era and how it's

(02:35):
a possibility that it might be coming to an end.
You had people like Fresh and Fit who started off
in the Manus field doing very very well, and now
all of a sudden now got booted off of YouTube
because of some things they did as far as the
KKK type of thing, and now they're on Rumbo and

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that's not going so well. And then you have a
bunch of other Manisphere people that have been doing content
for a number of years that are now also being
kicked off of YouTube as well. And then let's not
even forget about Andrew Tate and Tristing Tate. How a

(03:17):
lot of people are not exactly really checking for them
as of these days. So we're going to talk about
the Manisphere and how the manusphere has caused so much
chaos and relationships. All of this really stemmed from Black
men getting on these platforms and talking about black women,

(03:39):
how they want black women to perform, how they want
certain black women to be more submissive, how they want
black women to stop being independent, self sufficient, and dominant,
and that's what they pretty much wanted, and unfortunately for them,
black women have not caved in. They even had a

(04:01):
bunch of women that were also trying to convince Black
women they were too masculine and not feminine enough and
trying to get Black women to conform. And now you
have black men that want other races women and they're
willing to date other race of women. And to me,

(04:23):
if that is your preference, then that is your preference.
But the one thing I want black women in particular
to understand is that if these men don't want you,
it really is okay. If they don't. You can't fight
keep fighting for someone that doesn't want you. And that's
the one thing even godly people have a tendency of doing.

(04:46):
They have this tendency of going after something that really
they shouldn't be going after in the first place. And
I'm like, does it. Black men want what they want,
let them have what they want. It's no sense of
trying to chase somebody down and trying to convince them
of why y'all should be together and going through all
these hoops and bounds trying to get this person to

(05:08):
be with you, when in all actuality, it's just a
waste of time. So I just feel like that there's
no point of black women trying to fight a losing battle.
That just is no point of fighting. If men really
want you, then they'll want you. The ones that don't, oh, well,
the problem is we always want something that doesn't want us.

(05:32):
We're always lowering ourselves for people that just are not
worth us in the first place and just not the
people that we should end up with. So I'm gonna
see if there's a compilation of Kevin Samuel's videos and
see what we can find, because Kevin Samuels was the
one that really when he got into the game or

(05:56):
whatever you want to call it, Kevin Samuels really ended up,
you know, bringing the manuspere to New Heights. Because Kevin
Samuels wore suits, Kevin Samuels had a really nice apartment.
Kevin Samuels had that masculine masculinity about him, and so

(06:20):
Kevin Samuels when he got on there. At first, he
was one of those people that was about teaching men
how to dress and how to upgrade their game in
the black community. But when that didn't work, that's when
he started getting into the manuspere. And when he started
talking about women, black women in particular, that's when everything changed.

(06:41):
And then I seen the difference between the way he
would talk to Black women and the way he would
talk to women that were non black, and it was completely
and utterly different. So at the end of the day,
like I said, a lot of men get on these
platforms and they say a lot of things, but then
behind closed doors is a whole different story. Now, what

(07:04):
I will say is there are a lot of men
I don't care how successful they are, that don't and
I'm even gonna add a little commisuture in this tonight.
It's a lot of men that really are not packing
like y'all think they are. Even some of the most

(07:24):
drop dead gorgeous men are not as good and bed
as y'all think they are. So I feel like this
there's a lot of misconceptions when it comes to society
standards that I have learned and I have accepted for
what it is. There are a lot of women that
are pillow princesses, and there are a lot of men

(07:45):
that basically are one minute man. So what can I
say at the end of the day, It's just funny
how when you think about it, you know, and I
think about Kevin sam using some of the things that
he has said, all I can do is describe my head.
And Kevin Samuels was actually close and I are like
very close in age. So at the end of the day,

(08:09):
he did become, you know, quite successful and brought the
man of spirit to a whole different height. And how
I knew that the manuspirit was going to fall apart
was when he passed away. I knew that when he
passed away, nobody was going to basically take that position
as as far as coming into the manisphere with a
suit and a nice apartment and a nice car and

(08:33):
coming out and saying, Okay, let me be the next
Kevin Samuels. And I noticed that when Kevin Samuels died,
I think the manister died with it because nobody was
able to take the man of Spirit to the heights
that Kevin Samuels did. Now you got people like sixy Goddess,
you got Danika, you got Courtney Michelle. You have a

(08:54):
lot of women that are sitting up here on these
channels being all sexual, even though some of them are married,
getting on here looking at all sexy. These men are
coming on these platforms. But here's the problem with their content.
It's a walking contradiction. You're saying all this stuff about

(09:15):
all these women that are promiscuous, but yet you're on
camera looking promiscuous. It's one thing if an unattractive woman
was on these cameras and they were talking about these
particular women, then I can understand it. But if you're
on your platform dressing and representing yourself in the same

(09:37):
manner as these women, you're talking about your walking contradiction.
Because if you're going to talk about women that dress promiscuous,
that act promiscuous, that are out here being Jezebels and
sirens and succubists and harlots, then you shouldn't be dressing
the same as they are. You can't sit around and

(09:59):
dress a certain way and then talk about women who
dress the exact same way that look the same way
to get men as far as getting their attention, because
you're doing the same thing to get these men on
your platform. You're doing the exact same thing, so the
same way these women are out here trying to get
the bag and trying to do with other women. You

(10:21):
pick me chicks are doing the exact same thing trying
to get these men to your channels. Talking about these
black women. You're no better than the women you're talking about.
Matter of fact, you're the same as the women that
you're talking about. That's why I got an issue with
these pick me chicks, because y'all are willing to do
the same thing that promiscuous women do, except they own it.

(10:47):
You met at all these girls on OnlyFans, but you're
on here doing the exact same thing. Have these these
Jezebel outfit song. You're sitting up here with makeup on,
your hair done, and you're wrong here talking about women,
and you're dressed the same way as they are. You

(11:08):
represent yourself in the same manner as these women. So
how in the world, why should I listen to you?
Why should I listen to you when you're not modest?
Why should I listen to you when you're basically doing
the same thing. So even though these girls are only
fans having sex and doing whatever it is they're doing,

(11:32):
you're still doing the same pimping, except you're not having
sex with these men. But it doesn't mean you're not
being a scorched al. Wait, so that wasn't I can't
with any of this, to be honest, This is the
Man of Spere and the pig meat tricks. I don't
know which one of them is worth. And then let's

(11:53):
even add the Passport bros Into that, So I don't
even know honestly which one first. I'm trying to look
and see. I don't even know which one is worse.
But I'm gonna let y'all hear something about I mean,
a couple just this. Let me see if there's something. Okay,

(12:18):
this video here is about a woman. This was like
a while back when Kevin Samuel talked to this woman
and told this woman that she was average.

Speaker 2 (12:33):
Okay, So this video here is the one that everybody
was talking about that when viral, when he told this
girl from North Carolina that basically essentially she was.

Speaker 1 (12:54):
Never gonna have a high valued man. She was never
gonna have an attractive man, and that she needed a
lower herself to go and deal with a post office.
Mind you, I'm not gonna play the whole time video,
but I just want y'all to get the premise of
who Kevin Samuels was. Now at the end of day,
I ain't got nothing against Kevin Samuels. I never want
to date Kevin Samuels and I was never attracted to

(13:15):
Kevin Samuels. But like I said, there are a lot
of men out here. Yeah, they're dropped dead gorgeous, But
I also know why they date white girls. And it
ain't because of what y'all think they had. Why they
date white girls. Like I said, I'm not about color,
I'm not about race, something about none of that. But
I'm in a country that, unfortunately, is all about that.

(13:36):
At the end of the day, like I said, there's
a lot of men to day outside they race because
what's between their legs. I don't really think it's gonna
satisfy a black women for one. Number two, Like somebody
told me recently, white girls are willing to do certain
things that black women just are never gonna do sexually. Okay,

(14:00):
go have at it at this point, there are a
lot There are a lot of things that Caucasian women,
not all of it, minds you, but there are. There's
a thing called fisting, and fisting is when somebody puts
the fist in your behind, literally in your buttthole. Okay,
So I've seen a lot of things that Caucasian people

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do sexually that I will probably never ever do. I
just wouldn't. So at the end of the day, like
I said, I look at things like this here, I
know there are certain things I can never do that
a white woman could ever do sexually, and I ain't
even gonna try. I ain't never going as far as
having a sex in the city. I don't see black

(14:45):
women being able to have a sex in a city
like Caucasian women because, like I said, again, Caucasian women
don't get thrown in they face how many men they
sleep with. A Caucasian woman can break up with somebody
and be unmoved on probably a couple of days later,
and it's okay for them to do so. Caucasian women
can have one nice stance, it's okay for them to

(15:07):
have it, and that's fine. But as a Black woman,
because I know the way black men are and as
judgmental as black men are. I choose how to get
involved in that. So at the end of the day,
the only issue that Caucasian men have with Caucasian women
that are dropped dead gorgeous is only fans. The fact

(15:28):
that these women are only fans, and basically they can't
control these women now because now these women are making
their own money, So now they don't need a man anymore.
As far as making money in the sex industry, it
used to be that women needed pimps or women needed
men in order for them to build their businesses. Now

(15:49):
they realize that they are the ones that's making these
men all this money. So now you get all these
women on only fans. When's the last time you heard
about a pimp and a whope? It's been a minute.
So at the end of the day, like I said,
I don't have any dog in this fight. But at
the end of the day, I am well aware of

(16:09):
things I can't do as a black woman, and I'm
not going to I ain't even wasting my time like that.
So I'm gonna share my scream and show you and
let y'all listen to this. Kevin Samuel's interview, and I'm
not gonna play all of them, just gonna play some
of it, and I'm using it for educational purposes only,
So let me share my scream. And this video is

(16:33):
the one that went viral where he sat there and
told this woman that she was average and that she
would never be able to get a man that is
of high value, in other words, get a man that
not only is successful, but also attractive. So i'ma let
y'all hear it, and then I'll come back and I'll periodically,
you know, talk about it. So I'm gonna let men.

(16:56):
Matter of fact, let me go on my channel to
make sure I can hear it if I put it
myself on mute, So give me a second. I just
want to make sure I'm going to be able to
hear it, so bear with me just one second. I
just want to make sure that I can hear it.
I don't want to not be able to hear it,

(17:17):
so I just want to check. So I want to
press play. I'm gonna put it on mute and see
if it works. Hopefully it will, and then I'll come
back with my commentary. Those were hers, Hey can you
hear me?

Speaker 3 (17:37):
Yeah? Are you a PhD.

Speaker 4 (17:40):
No, I'm a PhD.

Speaker 3 (17:42):
How mean dogs? You got one? Really?

Speaker 4 (17:46):
I'm sorry?

Speaker 3 (17:47):
What kind of dog is it?

Speaker 4 (17:49):
He's a cane corso?

Speaker 3 (17:52):
He's a what I cane corso? What is that? In English?

Speaker 5 (17:58):
It's a larger dog and they're breeding meant for guarden
and protecting.

Speaker 4 (18:03):
They're very protecting of their home and their family.

Speaker 3 (18:06):
So what's your disagreement?

Speaker 4 (18:08):
Honestly, I don't have a disagreement. I just came in
here because I honestly want some advice from you.

Speaker 3 (18:15):
It says disagreement day.

Speaker 4 (18:17):
I know this is my first time catching your own live.
Normally I'm asleep, and you have a job. I do.
I own a business.

Speaker 3 (18:26):
Okay, so I do too.

Speaker 4 (18:28):
And I do have a question.

Speaker 3 (18:30):
But I have a business, and if you want my advice,
you could always book a session if you can't catch
us at the show live.

Speaker 4 (18:38):
I'm definitely I was trying to go al earlier.

Speaker 3 (18:41):
But all you have to do, man, but see what
kind of business do you own? Doggy bayare And Okay,
so what you're basically trying to do is I have
a disagreement day, and you basically came in and said,
damn your topic. I want to ask you what I
want to ask you, And that's but you were more
than welcome to go on my website and purchase your

(19:03):
time to talk with me one on one.

Speaker 1 (19:47):
My bad, y'all forget I was on my bad t
ahead the difficulties. Let me say this first of all,
I understand it was disagreement night, and she was wrong
for coming on there and not paying attention to what
the topic is. But if she wanted to come on
there and ask questions, it wouldn't have took you but
a few minutes to ask to answer her question, and

(20:10):
that would have been the end of it. And that
right there was already where it was gonna go wrong,
and he was already irritated because she came on during
disagreement night to ask him a question, and that right
there should have been, well, you know what, it's okay,
I'll go ahead and book a session, and that should
have been the end of that. So on her end,
it was wrong because she didn't read the room to

(20:33):
see whether or not this was the time to even
ask the question. But at the same time, he could
have took enough consideration and said, well, go ahead and
ask a question, you know, and we'll talk. I'll answer
you know, whatever your question is, and then next time
just know that you can come on my podcast. There's

(20:53):
a thing called professionalism. So I get the fact that
he was irritated, but I knew this was gonna this
was not gonna go well. I knew when I saw
this it wasn't gonna go well because at the end
of the day, like I said, Kevin is a straight
with no chase of person, and being that he's a
trait with no chase of person, He's one of them
people that he can say what he wants to about you,

(21:15):
but you can't say what you want to about him.
And I have seen plenty of times where he's been
on with women and women call his gloff and he'll
tell you, oh, you can't. You can't talk about me
like that. This is my platform, but you can't. That's
what I'm saying. There's a lot of people like that.
There are a lot of people that can that can
sit there and say all these negative things about you,

(21:37):
but you can't say nothing negative about them. You can't reciprocate,
and even if you're right, they still gonna stay wrong.
Just like when it came to the guy that ran
the sex called it was the same thing. Even though
you were right and he was wrong, he still didn't
want to admit to it and got mad because you
were right. So at the end of the day, Kevin

(21:58):
Sammus was just one of them people that he could
say what he wanted to to you, but you couldn't
say what you wanted to about him. And there were
a lot of people that were attacking Kevin Samuels before
he passed away. There's a lot of people that were
doing videos and they looked into his past and realized
he wasn't everything that everybody said that he was. They

(22:20):
had people that allegedly were saying that he would go
to Leaman, Marcus and Bloomingdale's and get those candles and
then the next day turn around and take them back. Allegedly.
You had people saying that he didn't have all this
money and he wasn't what everybody thought he was, because
every time you turned around, he would always say something different.

(22:41):
He would say that he's one of these I forgot
what he said he was that he wasn't and some
type of I can't even think of it right now,
it's off the top of my head, but I can't
think of it, but image consultant. He said he was
an image consultant. Then he said he was this, then
he said he was that. And when he's that, when
I started paying attention, I'm like, you sure this man

(23:03):
is not a fraud. So at the end of the day,
like I said, it's just funny how you know he talked,
And then to find out he passed away was quite shocking.
But at the end of the day, you live by
the story, you die by the sword. But there are
a lot of men y'all keep thinking, Okay, that drop

(23:24):
dead gorgeous, they drive a nice car, they got a
nice crib, does not mean they're good in bed. I
hate to be the Barra bad news. There's a lot
of men that y'all think are good in bed and
at all actuality. There's not. And then there's some that
actually are good in bed and take pride in what
they do. And so you know there are some, but

(23:48):
you'll be amazed how many men that really are not
good in bed at all at all, that don't know
how to make a woman feel good, don't know how
to touch her, don't how to caress her, do not
do none of that. But because women don't know about
sex the way they're supposed to. You run around being
promiscuous when truthfully speaking, you don't have to be comiculous.

(24:10):
You ain't gotta run around show off everything to be
good in bed. I don't know why everybody thinks looks
contermines what's somebody good in bed or not know because
a lot of y'all don't even care about what a
woman does in bed, and you don't even know what
type of standards in the bedroom you're supposed to have.
So if you don't have any standards when it comes
to bed in sex as far as what you want,

(24:33):
you're gonna get exactly what you ask for. I have standards.
I'm sorry, I have standards when it comes to sex.
I want I want the two to three hours, I
want the four play, I want the intimacy. I want
to have a connection. I want to feel some I'm sorry,
I have expectations. I want a man that gives me

(24:54):
oral sex. I'm sorry. I'm no longer dealing with any
man when it comes to sex and oral sex is
not involved or even wanna take it. Sorry, I'm just
I'm not. I'm not gonna sit up here and be
like I'm a prostitute, because a lot of these men
are having sex with women like their prostitutes, and that
is not the way it goes. A lot of these

(25:14):
men don't even know how to be romantic when it
comes to a woman. That's why when you get married,
I notice that men go from being these romantic creatures
when you first get together with them, and all of
a sudden, you're getting more aggressive. Dude, I don't want
somebody that's aggressive. I want a man that takes his time,
works me slowly, and can try to last as long

(25:37):
as he can. But no, men are so busy. I
gotta go, I gotta do this, I gotta do that.
I'm doing No, you're doing it because you're just trying
to do it to get out the way. No, I
absolutely not, because you know the men I dealt with,
it was always like that. It was always we have sex,
they get up, they go do whatever. Nope, not no, ma,

(26:00):
not no more. And then on none of that because
when you got kids, it ain't no when you want
to have sex, it's when they go to sleep. So
I want to say that right quick before I go
back to this. So let me continue.

Speaker 3 (26:19):
Because what you're trying to do is rather rude, but
I will go ahead and do it because I'm going
to use this as a teaching lesson How old are they?
How old are you? I'm thirty five, thirty five years old,
thirty five years old? And your business owner? H uh huh?
And what's your question?

Speaker 4 (26:39):
So my issue is, well, I want to know at
what point.

Speaker 5 (26:43):
When I'm just meeting a guy do I tell him
that I'm a business owner?

Speaker 4 (26:48):
Because my problem is.

Speaker 5 (26:50):
That when I try to date down and the conversation
comes up to where I own a business, the guys
either like, hey, can I.

Speaker 4 (27:00):
Come join in on your own that business?

Speaker 5 (27:03):
Or can I put some many in be a business partner?
And I'm not looking for that, And I honestly.

Speaker 3 (27:10):
Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. I need
to be clear on this subject. Where are you?

Speaker 4 (27:15):
Where are you at North Carolina?

Speaker 3 (27:18):
And you're saying when to tell somebody you own a business?

Speaker 5 (27:23):
Because I find when I date down, God be your
interest and want to be like a business partner. And
I'm learning that maybe I need a high value men
because that's.

Speaker 3 (27:37):
Well, first off, ma'am, I really understand what kind of
man are you talking? About because owning a business is
no different than having a job in my opinion. So
I'm not getting what you're saying. When should you? I'm

(27:57):
not understanding why this is an issue if you're if
you're what kind of men are you? What kind of
men are you dating?

Speaker 5 (28:05):
I try to give I try to give guys that
not You try to do what I try to.

Speaker 4 (28:13):
Give guys that's not on my level a chance?

Speaker 3 (28:17):
Why what do you mean on your level? What does
that mean.

Speaker 4 (28:20):
That's making six figures of more?

Speaker 3 (28:23):
But I don't under Okay, you try to give guys
who are not on your level a chance? Wow?

Speaker 5 (28:33):
Because I want, I honestly wanted a six figure guy,
is what I'm realizing.

Speaker 3 (28:38):
Okay, So let me just go ahead and net it
out for you. You ready, Uh huh? The guys you
want aren't asking you out.

Speaker 4 (28:50):
Well, I haven't been put myself out there.

Speaker 3 (28:52):
Honestly, but you put yourself out there enough for the
guys you don't want or believed you to ask you out.

Speaker 4 (29:00):
Those are right guys I met online?

Speaker 3 (29:03):
Right, So again, the men you want are not asking
you out. See you ladies, do this, You go and
deal with men who you feel are beneath you, and
then you ask how to fix them. I'm not beneath you.
I don't know how to fix a guy that doesn't

(29:25):
just down there. That's not my concern. The better question
is why can't you get a guy on your level?
That's the real question. Well, the first well, first of all,
I will tell you what I said in here automatically
is a problem. Why you would come on to a
show that you know a disagreement day. It's selfish. It's like, well, yes, ma'am,

(29:51):
it's like, I want what I want. I don't say
things for no reason. That's why I asked. She questioned
you thirty five years old, a business owner. That means
you understand what business is, and you know this is
a business. And I have a and I have a
show title, and you said, damn your show title. I
want to talk to you. But you could have went

(30:14):
to my business and book time to talk to me.
But you wanted what you wanted how you wanted. I'm sorry, no,
it's but and I'm using this as a lesson. That's
the problem to many of you black women. You don't
do shit the right way with black men. That was improper.
And when I even when I told you the right way,
you still were like, well whatever, So I'm gonna use this.

(30:40):
When was the last time you had a relationship.

Speaker 4 (30:43):
Like to the end and last year around December?

Speaker 3 (30:45):
How long did it last?

Speaker 6 (30:47):
A year?

Speaker 3 (30:48):
A year? And was that man?

Speaker 1 (30:50):
Uh?

Speaker 3 (30:51):
Did you go to college?

Speaker 4 (30:53):
Did I go to college?

Speaker 3 (30:55):
Yes? No, sir? Okay? And how long are you on
your own business?

Speaker 4 (31:01):
Nine years?

Speaker 3 (31:03):
And how and how long have you been making six
figures or more?

Speaker 4 (31:07):
The last three?

Speaker 3 (31:09):
Okay? Why do you need a man making six figures?

Speaker 5 (31:14):
Because I'm finding out that the guys that I think
that's not it's.

Speaker 4 (31:17):
Not working out.

Speaker 3 (31:19):
What does that have to do with money?

Speaker 4 (31:23):
Because I feel like.

Speaker 5 (31:26):
I need a guy that I can respect and admire
and I'm am ambition and I want a guy that
has that drive too, and when he doesn't, I find myself,
you know, encourage him.

Speaker 4 (31:39):
Like hey, babe, you can do this and you can
do that.

Speaker 3 (31:42):
And then all right, So in North Carolina, how what
percentage of the population? What percentage of men in this
country make six figures? Are more?

Speaker 4 (31:51):
I think it's like five percent.

Speaker 3 (31:54):
I'm not closer to ten, so ten percent all right?
So the question is what do those men who make
that kind of money. Who all women tend to want?
What do they want?

Speaker 5 (32:10):
I feel like they want arm candy, somebody who can
have more to bring to the table than just looked,
but also bring balance to their life. I feel like
I can help.

Speaker 3 (32:24):
Them out on Okay, slow down, I'm not understanding. You
said they want arm candy. Then you contradicted yourself. They
want somebody to more than just looks.

Speaker 5 (32:36):
Yeah, arm candy, but something behind you know, brain with
it and you know more in depth.

Speaker 3 (32:42):
Do you do you know any men who make six
figures or more?

Speaker 4 (32:46):
My dad and my uncle?

Speaker 3 (32:48):
Do you know? Excuse me? Do you know any men
that you are related to to make six figures or more?

Speaker 4 (32:56):
Unrelated to?

Speaker 3 (32:57):
Yeah, that you are not related to, not on a
personal level, So you don't know him. You don't know
what they want, but you want him, ma'am. I'm going
to suggest that you really don't know what you want

(33:21):
and saying six figures is just something that you've got
taken from out there. But I'm not hearing this rooted
to anything. What do you want to ultimately? Do you
want to be married? Children?

Speaker 1 (33:34):
What? Yes?

Speaker 4 (33:36):
I want to be married.

Speaker 3 (33:37):
Do you want any children?

Speaker 1 (33:39):
Yes?

Speaker 3 (33:41):
How many.

Speaker 4 (33:44):
I have a son.

Speaker 3 (33:45):
You know, so how is your son? Where's the father?
He's not enough in his life, I ask, I said,
where's the father?

Speaker 5 (33:57):
Well, he's not like in it like I would like
them to be.

Speaker 3 (34:04):
All right, So let me go ahead and take this down, ma'am.
Men who make the kind of money you're talking about
have options and typically that I don't want to deal
with women who are have thirteen year old sons who
are used to datey men. This doesn't sound appealing to

(34:29):
the kind of man you're talking about. Do you understand
what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (34:36):
Yeah, but I was thinking once I start booking session
with you that.

Speaker 3 (34:41):
I can't change men.

Speaker 5 (34:43):
I know, but I can approve myself and I feel
like I have a lot to offer to those type
of media.

Speaker 3 (34:49):
Okay, but see, you should have stopped right there. I
just told you I cannot change men, and you said,
what's a book a session with you? I'm not a
miracle worker. I'm telling you what they want, and you're
still saying, yeah, but I want them. They don't want you.

Speaker 4 (35:10):
But I have been working on myself this year.

Speaker 1 (35:12):
And see that's the problem, right though. That's how you
end up having people commit suicide. That's how I end up.
People end up with depression and anxiety mentally because you're
telling them they're never going to have a husband, they're
never going to have this, they're never going to have that.

(35:36):
And that's the part that's heartbreaking. She said that she's
willing to work on herself to get the man that
she wants. So let me say it like this. In
order for you to get the men you want, you
have to represent yourself as a type of woman that
they will be interested in. And I'm not talking about

(36:00):
and sexy outfits and all of this stuff. I'm talking
about getting the jobs where these men are at. Like,
for example, if you wonder why a lot of these
NBA players end up with cheerleaders, because again, there where
the men are. You have to go where these men are.

(36:20):
You gotta go to the states where they are. You
have to find out what type of jobs they got.
You gotta be able to get into those doors where
those lawyers and doctors and all these people are. You
have to know where they hang out. You have to
know you know how to go about it. Because his
thing when it comes to lust, Yeah, it's easy for

(36:42):
a man to lust. You but the question is can
you keep the man? Is the question. It's not about
how you get the man, it's can you keep him?
And that's the problem. A lot of women. Yeah, they
can get the man, but they can't keep him, can't
hold on to them getting divorced, he's cheating, he's putting
his hands on her. You got women in ubers that

(37:06):
are being unlived, literally unlives. So this is why I'm
telling females, y'all gonna have to change the way you
represent yourselves because he thing. If you don't want men
that are going to look at you in a sexual manner,
then don't represent yourself as a woman that's going somewhere.

(37:31):
Because here's the thing. When I if I go into
an uber, you best believe I'm wearing a hat, I
got my phone on me and I'm all literally playing
on my phone and got nine to one one ready
just in case some have. So you have to understand
you can't nowadays, you can't go out being sexual anymore.

(37:54):
If y'all would take that off the table and stop
being promiscuous, then we'll be good. Because what it is
is you got a lot of men out here mad
because women don't want to give them their phone numbers
because women don't want nowadays. They're just like I don't
even want to go out to dinner. You be amazed

(38:15):
how many women don't even go on websites no more,
cause they don't even know whether or not this man
is gonna unlive me or not. You got men out
here that are absolutely insane. There's a young lady that
just got unalived by an Uber driver. She was leaving
I think the club or somewhere and the man sexually
assaulted her and then unlive to her. Man's getting be

(38:39):
some lawsuits when they come to Uber because nowadays you
gotta be very mindful because you don't know who what
is out there. That's why for me, when I'm in
my car, nine to one one is on speed out
deessic case this man try to do something called nine
one one. So at the end of the day, you

(39:03):
gotta be mindful of that because during the day is
one thing because you're going where you need to go. Nowadays,
females can't even go out no more at night because
you don't know who or what is gonna be pissed
off because you don't give them your phone number. See
Kevin Samuels ain't here to see all this stuff go on.

(39:26):
So you can't be sexy no more. You can't be
promiscuous no more, because nowadays these men out here don't
even respect you being promiscuous. Now that throwing it back
in your face that you're being promiscuous. Now they're saying,
because you got kids, you can't get a man, because
your body count, you can't get a man. This is
what black men are saying, and y'all feeding into that,

(39:49):
not understanding the only reason they're doing this is because
they want black women to sit up there, allow them
to have multiple women, allow them to do whatever it
is they want to do. And that's what that is.
It's a game. This is what men do. Men will
sit up here and they want multiple women, and they

(40:11):
want you to be a polygamist. And I'm sorry, no,
absolutely not. But can you find a high valued man. Yep,
he may not be black, but you can find one.
You might find a man that's non black that might
treat you well. At the end of the day, the
black community is destroying itself as far as relationships. It's

(40:35):
too much damage on both sides. Both sides need therapy.
Both sides need to be by themselves and work on themselves.
The problem me is Black men don't want to be
by themselves. Well, I'm seeing more now that seemed to be.
There are more black men now that are getting therapy
and being by themselves, But the vast majority of them,

(40:58):
they don't want to do their issues. I want to
do their mommy issues. It isn't until they mama passed away.
That's when they want to get married, when their mothers
leave this earth. And I noticed that I've noticed a
lot of men that have lost their mothers now they
want to settle down because their mother is no longer here.
The women they really are married to they mamas. So

(41:21):
at the end of the day, this is why I
say with Chris Brown, he ain't gonna settle down to
his mama pass away. A lot of these dudes are
not gonna get married because they know they can't be faithful.
They know they can't be one woman. But I can
respect that because I would rather not marry you knowing
that you're gonna cheat on me, then marry you and

(41:42):
knowing that you are. That's why some women are like,
I'm good with just being a girlfriend. I don't even
want to be a wife. Why because at least to
be cheated, I can actually walk away and leave. Can't
do that if I'm married to him. So the tides
are turning at this point, and all these men are
mad because him out here there looking for its sitting
at home by themselves. And then not only that, you

(42:05):
got men that are trying to get to a woman's
door and trying to kick the door in. Man, it
doesn't make no sense would be going on in twenty
twenty five. Well, let's continue with Kevin sam Mus and
continue this conversation a little bit more.

Speaker 3 (42:24):
Okay, man, but okay, thirty five thirteen year old son
with a sketchy father. Why would a man who's the
top ten percent of earners, who women across the country
want want that?

Speaker 4 (42:42):
Because I have a lot to offer.

Speaker 3 (42:46):
I feel like, would you want your son to if
you had a son making that kind of money, would
you want him to bring home a woman who had
a thirteen year old son from a sketchy farm there?
Or would you prefer him to get a woman who
had no children, was younger and easier to get on
his program? Aige, see what I mean? See what I mean,

(43:14):
this goes so deep for black women, they will even
that's it should have been an easy question. No, I
would not want my son to bring I want the
best for my son. That should have been the appropriate answer.

Speaker 1 (43:31):
Okay, then let me flip that question and Kenvis Samuels,
even though you passed away. Should my daughter be the
man that got kids? Should my daughter want the best?
Should not want the best for my daughter? And for
her to be with a man that's actually a virgin,
considering she's a virgin? What I want my daughter to

(43:51):
be with somebody when she gives her body to that man?
That man's already been with multi women, and I gotta
worry about the possibility of my daughter having STDs, at
HIV and full blown AIDS. Should I want my daughter
to lower herself to a man that's gonna eventually put
his hands on her. A man is gonna have a
problem what she has on, but yet did have problem
when he met her where she is. A man that

(44:12):
don't want to take her to dinner, don't want to
take her out to eat, and don't want to pay
for it. A man that basically cannot leave because God
don't lead his life. You mean that type of situation,
because if I would do this to men, I would
probably ask the same question. See if my show was
as big as yours, I would probably do the same
thing and probably say the same God. For second thing,

(44:33):
two men, Should my daughter, who's eighteen years old be
with a man in his forties that I already got kids?
Should my daughter be with a man that has already
had sex with two or three females in high school?
Should she be with somebody like him? No? Should be
with a man that's a drug dealer. No. She should
be with a man that don't have no ambition and drive. No.

(44:54):
Should be with a man that is just gonna sit
there and play the game all day. No. So at
any day, why would I want my daughter to Why
would I want my daughter to lower her standard? Day?
Somebody already got kids? Kevin said, you were married twice
and have children, So why would some female want to
be with you, knowing full well you got kids, knowing

(45:15):
full well, she's got to take on a bunch of
kids that are not hers. A woman that doesn't have
any kids at all, young, hasn't even experienced anything. So basically,
what you men want to do is take away these
girls' youth by second the life out of them like
they're a vampire. So it's okay for a man to

(45:35):
go out here and have multiple women because even if
he has kids, he still can continue going to the
NFL and the NBA and still does what he want
to do. But yet that woman is stuck with their child.
Absolutely not. So I would never tell a woman to
ever date a man that got kids if she does
not have any children. I don't think no man nor
woman should be with anybody that has kids if they

(45:59):
don't have children. Just saying so, that would be a
double standard, Kevin Sammers, because if I would say that
to a bunch of men, then how in the world
do you think you would feel it. But if these
young girls said, I don't want to I don't want
to old a man like that, you got kids, I'm
not trying. I don't have kids. I'm still in my youth.
I want to travel, I want to see the world.
I want to see what's out there. I wish I

(46:21):
wish my generation would have been like that, but we weren't.
Let's continue.

Speaker 3 (46:29):
That's why I sat up. That is bullshit. You should
want the best for your son, of course, but this
is but and are you thinking thank? I feel like

(46:52):
that's the problem. You all think you're the exception to
the rule. But but your life is proven to you
that you're not.

Speaker 4 (47:00):
My love life is not a god. I agree with you.

Speaker 3 (47:03):
That's my point, and ma'am, and that's my point. You
ladies all feel like listen, you ladies all feel like
you're the exception to the rule. And then when someone
like myself comes along and gives you a dosa reality
instead of just accepting it it yeah, but yeah, but
I'm special. You don't know any men on this level

(47:28):
that are not your father, that aren't related to you.
That means you don't know these men. You don't know
where to go get them, You don't know what they want,
but you're still saying pick me. They don't want mid
thirty year old baby mamas are trying to be polite man,
but they don't want those.

Speaker 1 (47:51):
And young women in twenty twenty four don't want old
men either. These young girls do not want these old men. Don't.
Then they want from you your money. They don't want
to have sex with you, They want your money. See
let's let's let's let's color fade here. Them young girls
don't want y'all. They want you because they want a daddy.

(48:12):
They want you because their father wasn't there to raise them,
to show them what a good man is. That is
why they want an older man. They don't want an
older man because they want you. They want you because
you have money, you have more experience. But when they
start wanting to go to the club, you ain't gonna
want them going to the club. When that girl wants

(48:32):
to go to bike week, you ain't gonna want her
to go to bike week. When that girl wants to
go and and enjoy her life, you want to basically
get a pregnant. So basically she don't. She can't go nowhere.
You want her to be there to raise your kids
because you may. Mama's no longer here, No mom, Come on, now,
do we have to go back to the color purple here?

(48:56):
You really gotta go back to the color purple here
at the end of the day, just like oh, but
and the crazy part is these younger men, these younger
men want an older woman. What is that about. At
the end of the day, my child is grown. And
at the end of the day, if a man had

(49:16):
to choose between dating a woman that got one child
with a thirteen year old versus having a woman who
just had a baby. He gonna choose that woman to
got a thirteen year old. He ain't gotta raise him,
and he don't because they are at thirteen. Cause you
think that you think that baby, if you think baby
daddy's is worse than baby mama's, let's get into this conversation.

(49:40):
If as far as women dealing with a baby mama
is worse than a man than a woman, than a
woman than a man dealing with a baby daddy. So
let me explain this. Because most of these men are
not in their children's lives, you ain't gotta worry about
a beaby daddy. Or if the woman has a baby

(50:03):
daddy and they have a understanding and he gets.

Speaker 7 (50:07):
Them kids every two weeks, it's gonna be easier for
a man to deal with a woman that got kids
than a man dealing with a woman that got kids.

Speaker 1 (50:17):
When they come to baby mamas, because baby mama's are worse,
That baby mama is gonna cust that girl out. It's
gonna be on site every time she see her. That
baby mama's gonna cause so much God for saying and conflict.
Whereas a baby daddy, he's not in the picture at all.

(50:40):
He's not even there, and if he is, he's only
around every once in a while. And the only thing
he gonna say to you is as long as you
don't put your hands on my child. Prime example, my
ex is seven years and my baby's father, son's father.
I should say when they met, there was no issues.
They met, they had a conversation. That was it. They

(51:00):
never had any issues. Where As a baby mama, uh uh,
you gonna have hell on wheels with that woman because
every time she turned around, she can be calling for money.
Every time she called around, she's gonna be pissed off
at you. Because of that that woman you with, she
is gonna be he long wheels. She gonna put that

(51:21):
man on child support and he gotta worry about paying
more money. So when he was single, he didn't have
to worry about no money because he was giving him money.
They was understanding. But as soon as the female get involved,
child support get involved, he gotta work. But that girl
put him on child support. When you get pregnant with
his child, yeah, because she gonna make sure car kids

(51:46):
taking care of her. She is not gonna sit up
there and not put that man on child support and
he got another female pregnant, Absolutely not, because that takes
away from her kids. So if you want to know
why women put men on child support when they get
other kids, because they gonna make sure their kids are
taken care of them. So, if you think it's easier

(52:08):
for a man to be with a woman that has children,
absolutely But you think it's easy for a man for
a woman to be with a man with kids, absolutely not.
Best we got multiple baby mamas the insecurity that come
with that, Trust me no, Because as soon as that

(52:30):
baby mama find out that you are marrying that man
and he never married her, man, it's gonna be man,
it's gonna be a problem. And that's what I'm saying.
They don't want to talk about that part of it,
how women are as far as being the mother of
their children, and why it is they don't want they
female to meet their baby mama because more than likely

(52:52):
he's still smashing his baby mama. So I ain't doing that.

Speaker 4 (52:57):
Now.

Speaker 1 (52:57):
That's a lot is easier for a man to be
with a woman that has kids than it is for
a woman to be with the man with kids. Why
because most in most cases, the baby daddy is not
in the picture. Either he in jail, he's unlive, hooked
on drug, alcoholic, or he just didn't want to be
a father. So yeah, you ain't got to worry about

(53:20):
a baby daddy because he ain't there. And even the
ones that are there, they pretty much have a conversation,
so they ain't got to worry about it because neither
one don't want to be together. And plus, if you
have if you have a woman and a man that
really don't want to be together no more, and both
of them have moved on, then you ain't got to
worry about a baby daddy because he's gonna be there

(53:41):
for his child. So you ain't got to worry about
that girl if he if he's there, let's continue.

Speaker 4 (53:49):
I ask your question.

Speaker 3 (53:51):
Did you hear what I said?

Speaker 4 (53:53):
Yes?

Speaker 3 (53:55):
Why is that so queer?

Speaker 4 (54:06):
From my point of view, I feel like I get
what you're saying.

Speaker 5 (54:09):
They do have better options, but also those better options
are younger girls.

Speaker 4 (54:15):
Those younger girls don't.

Speaker 5 (54:16):
Necessarily are necessarily twenty year olds are not necessarily attracted
to forty five year olds.

Speaker 3 (54:22):
Bullshit, I'm fifty one and I can't beat them off
with a stick. That's another one you lines. No, younger
women are always Younger women are attracted the older men.
What are you talking about?

Speaker 1 (54:39):
And the liar tests would say that would be a lie. No,
them younger girls are only attracted to you because you
got money. They're attracted to you because they need a
father figure. That's why they're attracted to you. They're not
attracted to you because they're genuinely attracted to you. They're
attracted you because you have a lifestyle. And a lot

(55:02):
of these young boys are very immature, and they think
that you're gonna be better. But then y'all start trying
to tell them girls what to do and trying to
sit up there and make them in somebody that is
an older woman. Come on now, y'all end up aging
them females. Y'all end up aging these young girls. That's
the sad part about it. Time about some y'all make

(55:24):
them better, and that these young girls, No, they want
you because you got money. They want you because you're
in the spotlight. When you get out of the spotlight,
them women don't want y'all like that. You really think
that it's gonna be easy for certain men when they
get out of the spotlight, that they gonna want them.
It's just like Michael Jordan. Even though Michael Jordan is

(55:44):
Michael Jordan, the only reason that women are gonna want
Michael Jordan is because he got money. Because when y'all
get older, y'all start getting bellies. You think Michael Jordan's
the same size he was twenty years ago, No he's not.
You think he is the same stamp as he had
when he was in his twenties, No he doesn't. So

(56:04):
the only reason they won't you is because of your name.
So that meant me, let me bring it down in
a way that makes sense. Just like a woman won'ts
your last name when it comes to marriage, they want
your name when it comes to being in a spotlight.
It's just like Michael B. Jordan. Michael B. Jordan's name
has authority to it. Michael B. Jordan is someone in

(56:29):
the industry that's respected, So any woman that is on
that man's arm is gonna be respected. It's just like
when when let's say, for example, you have a woman
that used to be with Chris Brown, the only one
they gonna be talking about besides Rianna and Carucci, is
the woman that he's gonna be on his arm. It's

(56:49):
gonna be his next girlfriend that he's on the on
the actual awards on the Red carpet. Now you notice
none of these females since Caruci has Chris Brown been
on the Red carpet with none. And that's my point.
So the fact that yeah, they don't want you because

(57:14):
they jailing wants you because they jailing like you. They
want you because what your name represents. How do you
why do you think that women want your last name
because of what the authority that come with your last name,
the authority that come with your name, just like Lebron,
Lebron is gonna be always somebody that because of what

(57:35):
his name is, women are gonna want him because of
the lifestyle that he can provide and the respect he has.
And even if Lebron was retired, Lebron's name is still
gonna be something we gonna never forget, just like Michael Jordan,
Magic Johnson. So at the end of the day, there
are men that, yes, women are gonna want because of

(57:59):
what they represent, the money that they have, and to
be on their arm when it comes to going on
that red carpet? Do you understand? Do you not understand
being the wife of Michael Jordan and what that means,
being the wife of Magic Johnson and what that means,
being the wife of Alan Iverson and what that means.

(58:21):
So even though Allen Iverson has not played football or
basketball and forever, it doesn't mean that that Alan Iverson
is not paid. Alan Iverson did the smartest thing that
a lot of people didn't do when it comes to
them sneaker deals. He when he turns fifty five, their man,

(58:41):
it's a fifty five million dollar chick. When he turned
fifty five, fifty five million dollar chick. So trust me,
Allen Iverson will be just fine. Alan Iverson is far
from broke. And that's the point that I'm trying to make.

(59:01):
These women ain't with y'all because of who y'all are?
They with y'all because of what your name is. Why
you think that woman wants your name and won't your
last name because everything that comes with it, all the
perks that come to being married to you. But okay,
let's continue. So can you see me?

Speaker 3 (59:25):
Yes? I can?

Speaker 4 (59:27):
Okay, So do you feel like a woman like me?

Speaker 3 (59:30):
Uh huh. What would you rank yourself on a scale
from one to ten? You cannot use seven?

Speaker 4 (59:35):
Would I rate myself?

Speaker 3 (59:36):
I'm just your face, my.

Speaker 5 (59:39):
Face when I wake up five, but when I put
myself together six?

Speaker 3 (59:43):
Okay? And how tall are you? Five? Five? Dress size?
I'm sorry, your dress size three? Okay? So that makes
you if you give yourself a five, that's average. Yes,
So average looking women tend not to get high earning men.

(01:00:08):
They tend to get average men. So did you? I mean,
stop right there, stop right there, stop right there, breathe
and digest. You're thirty five years old and you can
look around and see the world. You don't tend to

(01:00:29):
see higher earning men with average looking women. Off rip.
If you do see them, they got them. They got
their average looking women when they were both really young,
and he built his way up. But a man earning
the kind of money you're talking about does not go
for an average looking woman.

Speaker 4 (01:00:53):
I mean, my body is not average soul.

Speaker 3 (01:00:55):
But you, ma'am, you please don't make me say it.
Say what.

Speaker 4 (01:01:05):
I who just wanted some advice?

Speaker 3 (01:01:07):
I love you, I'm giving you. I'm giving you advice,
but you're not taking it. The advice is, ma'am, ma'am,
your average looking at best.

Speaker 4 (01:01:17):
I'm taking it in but.

Speaker 3 (01:01:19):
Okay, but you're not accepting the fact that, Okay, average
looking women, average looking woman who's older, average looking older
woman with a thirteen year old son, average looking woman
with a thirteen year old son with a sketchy baby daddy.

(01:01:42):
This gets worse every time I say something. And now
you're asking for a man who's in the top ten
percent of men. You don't qualify for one, and you're
making I mean, I don't I don't want to have
to go there. But when you put in all these

(01:02:03):
other factors, why can't you just get a man that's
an average guy.

Speaker 5 (01:02:12):
Sometimes I feel like in order to fully submit, I
have to feel like he's in.

Speaker 3 (01:02:21):
Well, then you're gonna then you're gonna dial. How about that?
Let me just cut to the chase. Man, you can
feel like what you want to, but women like you
dial straight up because you think you're better than the
men that you qualify for. And the only reason Ronnestley,
ma'am that I can see a woman like yourself really
thinking you deserve more is because you earn more. Because

(01:02:41):
you earn more money than most people around you in
North Carolina. But if your ass worked at the post office,
you would not think so highly of your opportunities. And
that's the reality. We don't men don't care about your money,
not the kind of mean that you want. We don't
care about your money. It ain't ours, And we care

(01:03:03):
about the fact that you are older and you got
kid and your average and your reality of your life
has showed you that you don't have the kind of
mean that you want knocking on your door trying to

(01:03:24):
find you. See what we've done in this country, this
world is we've told women like yourself that you can
have it all. And you got a prince charming who's
six foot sixty tall, six figure income, jawline, all this

(01:03:46):
other kind of stuff. I'm sorry, man, No, most people
get average people, especially average people, and you're an average person.
I mean, let's be real. You're not running Microsoft, got
you had a pet grooming business. You've been making six
figures for the last three years. Okay, but if I'm

(01:04:14):
looking at you, But if I looked at you and
I took all that off of you, all the eyelashes
and all the hair, what do you look like under there?

Speaker 4 (01:04:22):
I mean I look the same.

Speaker 3 (01:04:24):
No, you don't, because if you did, you wouldn't have
all that on. I'm sorry, No, you don't. You don't
look the same because if you did, you wouldn't have
all that on.

Speaker 4 (01:04:37):
So what is your advice or?

Speaker 3 (01:04:40):
Uh, all right, I'll tell you my advice, man, because
you know, listen to me. This is why I always
recommend therapy. People think most of us in the black
community the therapy. But you're not. You're not dealing with reality.
I asked you about your child's father, and you couldn't
answer me. But it doesn't sound like you're too proud
of him. How's that? What kind of student is your child?

(01:05:05):
He's a Does he have any behavioral problems? Now?

Speaker 4 (01:05:10):
He actually got a YouTube channel and he's I.

Speaker 3 (01:05:12):
Don't need that, don't need no, But where is it?
But his daddy is still If his daddy is alive,
does he have a relationship with his father? Yeah, then
what's your issue with him?

Speaker 4 (01:05:30):
He's not business minded like my father and my uncle.

Speaker 3 (01:05:34):
And then why did you choose to make a baby
with him before you got married?

Speaker 4 (01:05:38):
Young and dumb?

Speaker 3 (01:05:39):
Exactly in that cost see that youngly dumb ship. Let
me stop you right here. That young and dumb shit
you black women throw out as if it's supposed to
get listen and listen, well, women, young and dumb is
not a get out of jail free card. It doesn't
go woof and change the fact you do. You have

(01:06:00):
to carry that consequence and men are not rushing up
to be stepfathers to thirteen year olds. What would be
better is if you honestly sat down and asked yourself
what value can I bring to a man?

Speaker 4 (01:06:19):
And I know that what I can?

Speaker 3 (01:06:21):
Well, all right, what can what value?

Speaker 1 (01:06:24):
What is it?

Speaker 3 (01:06:26):
What is it.

Speaker 4 (01:06:28):
I can help him with this business? I'm very business
minder on the end of helping organize and I plant
into planting.

Speaker 5 (01:06:38):
My own garden, so I can definitely plan into improving
my elegance with.

Speaker 4 (01:06:48):
Just self improvement and working on myself.

Speaker 3 (01:06:51):
And ma'am, at thirty five years old, At thirty five
years old, here's what you've told me. I can help
him with his business? Do you respect man? And I
mean no disrespect for twenty to thirty percent of people
owned businesses. What about the seventy to eighty percent of
men who don't own them? That means that doesn't matter

(01:07:11):
that means nothing to the average man. Then the next
thing you said, I can plant, ma'am. That means nothing
to most people because we go to grocery stores. Then
you say self improvement, you've had. I gave you a shot.
It's saying what you have to offer to men, and

(01:07:33):
you said nothing that we value. What do you yeah,
book a session, booker, session, book a session. I'm not
doing this.

Speaker 1 (01:07:48):
And that's what I mean. The fact that he's saying
that growing a garden is not going to be a
value to a man. That's a lot because there's a
lot of men that want a woman that can cook.
There are a lot of men that want a woman.
Why would you think I hate you? No, why would
you think I hate you. I don't hate anybody. I'm

(01:08:11):
just reading a chat. I'm like, I don't hate anybody.
Why would I hate No, I don't hate men at all.
I'm just saying, I'm just talking about it from a
double standard, a double standard point of view. If women
were to tell young girls to not have sex until
marriage and not to be with someone that has already
been with women, the same way that these men are

(01:08:33):
telling these boys not to day the girl that's promiscuous,
I can say the same thing about men. It's just
a double standard, that's all. I'm just saying, what if
women were to tell young girls don't have sex with
any man that already has sex with another woman, Why
would I want my daughter to have sex with a
man that already has sex with another woman and they

(01:08:56):
both can experience that together. See that part in the
same way as me being celibant. Now, why would I
want to have sex with a man that is still
out here having sex with multiple women versus me being
with a man that also is celibate as well, and

(01:09:18):
he has basically cleansed his body of all of the
women that he's had sex with. A man that God
leads his life, a man that basically treats me and
loves me the way Jesus loves a church that part. So, no,
I don't hate men at all. I'm just saying men

(01:09:41):
don't know what they want. Men don't know whether they
want a woman that's promiscus or where you want a
woman as modest. I mean, at the end of the day,
beggars cannot be chooser. I can say the same thing
to men, y'all claim you want a woman that has
these values, but you'll still end up cheating on her anyway,
with the same women you claim you don't want. It's

(01:10:03):
all I'm saying. So I'm gonna show you another video
that I found, and these are Caucasian women that are
basically going through the same issues as Black women. Where
is it that I got the right one? Okay, don't know.
This video here is about women, Caucasian women saying the

(01:10:26):
exact same thing that Black women are saying. But nobody
ain't saying nothing about it. But this Caucasian man. See,
that's what I'm saying. It wasn't until black men started
complaining that now black now Caucasian men are now doing
these platforms. But I'm gonna show you the difference. I'm

(01:10:47):
gonna sare I'm a screen raight quick, and then I'm
gonna take myself out for a minute. Now. This gentleman here,
now I'm using his video for educational purpose. Only. Listen
to what these Caucasian women say about men, and I
want to see if there's a difference between Caucasian women

(01:11:10):
and Black women. Let me let me mute myself and
I'll let y'all hear.

Speaker 4 (01:11:23):
Always I was just born.

Speaker 1 (01:11:26):
Find me on a private hieta. Take me to like Bora.

Speaker 8 (01:11:30):
You prefer nice guys or assholes?

Speaker 1 (01:11:32):
I would love to say nice guys, but I can't.

Speaker 9 (01:11:33):
Most expensive place ever, take me to the.

Speaker 1 (01:11:40):
Yeah it does because I think weight.

Speaker 4 (01:11:45):
I think ten times their salary.

Speaker 1 (01:11:46):
Yeah, it has to be in like the six digits
for sure. How much do you think a guy should
send on an engage for them? I'd say at least
like a hundred K.

Speaker 4 (01:11:52):
Yeah, I think a guy could do that.

Speaker 8 (01:11:56):
Would you ever sign a free note Yeah?

Speaker 4 (01:11:59):
Absolutely, I don't think I could do it without.

Speaker 10 (01:12:01):
I want to be able to decide where my assets
go if we divorce.

Speaker 8 (01:12:05):
If he was a multi millionaire, No, the notebook. The
most famous love story on the planet is about cheating.

Speaker 3 (01:12:11):
True. Bridges of Madison County is about cheating.

Speaker 8 (01:12:15):
Titanic is cheating, Pearl Harbor is cheating. So all of
these big box movie classics that are love stories are
all all based on infidelity.

Speaker 4 (01:12:24):
I just wish boys would think like thing for a second.

Speaker 1 (01:12:28):
We do.

Speaker 8 (01:12:28):
That's why you have a ceiling fan above you, because
a man thought about it and invented it. And these
led strip lights.

Speaker 1 (01:12:34):
A man thought of that.

Speaker 3 (01:12:35):
Oh, in your ac unit.

Speaker 8 (01:12:37):
A man thought of that your wolverine nails. A man
thought of that wolverine, I, come to think of it,
A man thought of everything that you use on a
daily basis.

Speaker 4 (01:12:46):
Man with girlfriends?

Speaker 1 (01:12:47):
Why do you guys have to like other girls pictures
on Instagram?

Speaker 8 (01:12:50):
Girls with boyfriends? Why do you have to post half
naked pictures of yourself on Instagram?

Speaker 1 (01:12:54):
Freaking hard is it to just scroll?

Speaker 8 (01:12:57):
How freaking hard is it to keep those type of
pictures private? In your foot it's so pretty? Admire her, sure,
admire yourself, sure, but just don't post it publicly?

Speaker 4 (01:13:06):
Is it worth hurting someone you love?

Speaker 3 (01:13:08):
True?

Speaker 11 (01:13:08):
I always hear women say, oh, but I don't make
those pictures for other people. I make them for myself.
Then why do you post them publicly for other people
to see? You have them in your phone, keep them
in your phone? But no, because they want attention, because
they want validation, because they want the likes, because they

(01:13:29):
want their hearts, because they want the seams to send
them comments, to send them.

Speaker 1 (01:13:34):
Messages over something as meaningless as Instagram pictures?

Speaker 8 (01:13:38):
Is it worth hurting someone you love over something as
meaningless as Instagram likes?

Speaker 11 (01:13:42):
By the way, guys, stay till the end, because today
we are talking about personal accountability and this is so
lacking in everybody men and women today. It's not your
job to fix her, baby, her, heal her, be her father,
and finance her all at once.

Speaker 4 (01:14:02):
Do you deserve a woman who's going to be a
partner and a teammate, not a little girl?

Speaker 11 (01:14:09):
Well most.

Speaker 1 (01:14:13):
Let's have that conversation. So you mean to tell me
Black women and Caucasian women ain't the same, because from
what I just heard, that's the same thing that Black
women say they want, the Chanelle, the Louis Vautan, the Blinciaga.
I mean, what's the difference? So you think that Caucasian
women ain't gold diggers either? So you think that Caucasian

(01:14:37):
women are any different than Black women, No, they're not.
So I'm really trying to understand why it is that
y'all sit up here and think that women, regardless of
what color they are, are different. They're not. Women are women.
It's just you have women that are modest women, independent,

(01:15:01):
self sufficient, dominant women, and then you have women that
want a daddy, that want somebody to take care of
and spend all your money and have a nanny take
care of the kids while she's running around the world
in ayya ya yad all over the place, like have
these women on love and Hip Hop? Oh okay, So

(01:15:22):
there is no difference in women when it comes to
promiscuous women, Jezebel women, sucubists and harlots and sirens. There's
no difference between prostitution and women that are groupies. There
is no difference between women that are street walkers and

(01:15:43):
the women on Instagram. There's no difference. I don't even
know why you think there's a difference between them, because
there isn't. There is no difference between these type of women.
But you want these women that crave attention, that crave

(01:16:04):
somebody looking at them, You want them to change what
because as soon as that same girl that is exactly
what they're talking about in this video, you now saying
you want a woman now to gain to lose twenty pounds,
But yeah, you got a problem with what she wears.

(01:16:24):
But the same women you don't want her to be
like you cheat on her with ohh okay, uncomfortable conversation. Huh.
So I just want to prove a point. So I'm
really trying to understand why y'all don't understand that this

(01:16:45):
behavior was in Caucasian women long before it was in
black women's point of view, because black women actually were
about being with men that were less than until we
saw Caucasians and what they were doing, and they just
follow suit. They were the first and majority of race

(01:17:05):
follow Caucasian women when it comes to other races. Miss
me what you're talking about. So y'all sit up here
talking about, well, I'm gonna date a white woman. No,
the only reason you want to date a white woman
if I could show you on porn. The real reason
y'all want to date white women? You be white women,
even be shocked you think that that being with a

(01:17:27):
white woman, you feel like she's gonna let you do
what you want to do. She's going to let you
have sex the way you want to have sex. To
on now, but let me ask a question, why is
Caucasian men dating Japanese women? I wait, because Caucasian men
have been dating outside their race long before black men were.

(01:17:53):
So miss me what you're talking about, y'all y'all want
to see at that table so bad, and it just
ain't gonna happen. A black woman I get to see
the table for a black man will That's why I
find you all funny. But let's continue this video. It
gets more interesting.

Speaker 11 (01:18:13):
Men that are traditional don't want a partnership.

Speaker 12 (01:18:17):
Men looking for casual dates and our relationships is down
fifty percent, five zero since twenty nineteen, not since nineteen
seventy since twenty nineteen, right before the pandemic. So as
this trend continues, by twenty forty, forty five percent of
women between ages of twenty and forty five will be

(01:18:39):
single and childless.

Speaker 11 (01:18:42):
And if you ask the women what they think about this,
all of them, all of them will say I'd rather
be single that then be with a man that is
not on my level or higher. But they don't know
their actual level. They all think that tense, but they're not.
They're not.

Speaker 3 (01:19:02):
An example of self sabotage as a wife that never
had much and all.

Speaker 8 (01:19:06):
Of a sudden she gets an amazing husband. Instead of
appreciating and honor him, she would always believe I'm not worthy,
so she would do things and constantly pick fights and
egg him on to make sure that they separate.

Speaker 3 (01:19:17):
And then she would say.

Speaker 11 (01:19:19):
Ry, see, we mean that have dated assholes. We mean
that have dated the bad boys. They are not used
to having a good relationship with a nice guy because
they're used to they're aller coasters of emotions. They're used
to crying, they're used to arguing all the time. So

(01:19:39):
of course when they have a normal relationship with a
nice guy, they're not used to it. They call it
boring and they want a divorce.

Speaker 1 (01:19:49):
I knew he was no good And that one tells
you how much she hates her ex and how much
she hates her baby daddy, and how they did everything
so wrong and just treated her so poorly. To let
that woman alone wounded.

Speaker 13 (01:20:01):
Masculine women are the women who are defensive, judgmental, critical,
and they're very controlling and combative. They project their own disappointment, doubt,
and shame onto other people and blame external things for
the reason that they're unhappy.

Speaker 3 (01:20:16):
A major turnoffs. So a man is a woman who
can't control a mouth.

Speaker 1 (01:20:20):
The dating culture today is a crosh course and divorce.
We've embedded in people's minds and souls.

Speaker 14 (01:20:27):
How easy it is to walk away from something and someone.

Speaker 13 (01:20:30):
I have a question, tell the mails out there, what
is the most attractive thing a girl can do.

Speaker 4 (01:20:35):
I'm very curious.

Speaker 11 (01:20:37):
Okay, guys, so this is a.

Speaker 1 (01:20:45):
Let's talk about it self. Sabotage. Men do the same time.
Men do the exact same thing. When it comes to
sell sabotage. They'll get a woman that is good to him,
does everything she's supposed to, but because she does not
look the way that he wants her to look, he
will stay with her until she builds him to the

(01:21:07):
women that he actually does want. Females do the same
thing when it comes to the men that they date.
They will basically get with a man who, when they
know is out of town and why he's gone, she cheap.
There is no difference between men and women when it
comes to relationships. I don't know why you don't understand this.
There is no difference. There's no difference mentally between men

(01:21:30):
and women. The only difference is men and women are
raised differently. That's it. That is the only difference between
men and women mentally is that women are raised to
be not having sex with everybody, nay mama or either
they are. Men are told go out there and be
it as many women as you want to, where women

(01:21:51):
are told you need to respect your body and you
don't need to be having sex with their body. So
how is that gonna be even out When you got
men or young boys out here having sex and a
girl that is a virgin, do you really think that
little girl that's a virgin should be having sex with
a man or a boy that's already had sex. The

(01:22:12):
answer is no, both of them should not be having
sex at all. Oh, but you're not gonna teach your
sons not to have sex, now, are you. You're not
gonna teach your son's abstinence, now, are you? Cause that
is part of the problem. And then what happens is
these men have so much sex that when they get

(01:22:32):
in their forties, they can't even last five to ten minutes.
As y'all learn from Shannon Sharp, y'all learn from Shannon Sharp.
Shannon Sharp didn't even last a minute and some change
because you overuse what's between your legs, so okay. Whereas

(01:22:54):
women don't get their sexual peak until they stop having kids,
So it's always gonna be uneven until a woman cannot
have no more kids. That's when she's able to have
sex freely. And that's why with older women, they're more
free to have sex and be more open, whereas men

(01:23:19):
they've already been around the world and not yah yah,
so they don't even have a high sex drive, which
is why older women are tating younger men because they're
already having sex already, and plus the stamina of a
younger man is better than a man that's older. But

(01:23:40):
yet they don't have the money. So if a woman
already got herself together, she can be with a young
boy and be cool with it. If you think that
young boys and young girls both are not sitting around
using older men and older women, you have lost your
mind if you believe them, because there are men out
here being jiglos, though differently than women are being hoes.

(01:24:01):
There are men out here that being taken care of
and being pampered no differently than a female. So if
you think there are not no feminine masculine men, they
think again, because there's a whole bunch of feminine masculine
men that's on a deal. There's a whole bunch of
feminine masculine men that want to get their nails and
stuff done no differently than a female. There's a whole
bunch of feminine masculine men that's sitting at home while

(01:24:25):
their wife is going to work and paying all the bills.
But yet they still want to add like they're in charge.
Oh okay, sure about that, let's continue the video. I'm sorry,
I mean take myself.

Speaker 11 (01:24:38):
Out hetache, But I think most men which find very
attractive in their girlfriends or wives when they come home
from work and they're tired for that girlfriend or wife
to not argue with him, smile, make him some food,

(01:25:01):
and show him respect and maybe give him some head.
That's the most attractive thing.

Speaker 4 (01:25:10):
Advice of the day.

Speaker 13 (01:25:11):
Two incomes are better than one, so always always make
sure that your partner has two jobs.

Speaker 1 (01:25:18):
We don't need that.

Speaker 4 (01:25:19):
We are strong and stop.

Speaker 1 (01:25:22):
Who's we?

Speaker 5 (01:25:23):
Okay, do not call me into this because I'm moving
alone today and I have never needed a man more
in my life.

Speaker 15 (01:25:28):
I'm going to be completely honest with you, and that
is I just want to make babies. I just want
to make babies. I want to cookish out of its pie.
I don't want to vacuum the floor, and I know
that it is not very feminist of me, but I
am tired and all I want to do is make
someone's lunch and help them buy me flowers.

Speaker 16 (01:25:45):
Women today are more successful than ever. They're more professionally successful,
they're more financially independent. Women get more college degrees and
graduate degrees than men do. There's even some data that
over fifty percent of business startups are done by women.
There are a lot of resources now for women in
the corporate world, in the world of tax When it
comes to building a career, it's the best time in

(01:26:05):
history to be a woman. However, as women become more successful,
the dating pool of acceptable men significantly shrinks.

Speaker 1 (01:26:13):
This is an uncomfortable.

Speaker 11 (01:26:15):
Because there are programmas and they want a man on
their level or above their level. So the pull of
guys that will make a lot of money is very,
very small. And besides money, you have to have other
qualities as a guy. And of course what happens. They
become more successful, but the studies show they become more

(01:26:39):
unhappy and by twenty forty forty five percent of women
will be single and childless.

Speaker 1 (01:26:52):
Let me start writer, Let me start writer. I'm going
I'm gonna blow a myth because I am current alone. Okay,
don't get me wrong, I get the point. But here's
where the argument is going to be a contradictory. If
men and women were actually doing what they were supposed

(01:27:13):
to be doing. We have fast food restaurants right now, Well,
we have childcare right now, where we have an education
system right now? The answers no, because at one time
kids were not going to school. Mothers were teaching their
kids at home. So the answer is no, you wouldn't
have a department store because you would be sewing your

(01:27:34):
own stuff. You'll be in your garden growing your own food,
so you wouldn't need a restaurant. So what are you
talking about? So no, that's a walking contradiction because if
you take away these so called jobs that a man
and a woman's supposed to do, you wouldn't have a plumber,
you wouldn't have a mechanic, You wouldn't have a car

(01:27:55):
wash because he would be out there doing all this stuff.
How many men know how to fix it car? How
many men know how to fix a sink? How many
men know how to fix anything in the house? I
ain't see, you don't see, y'all, don't even bring that up.
Men always say they're supposed to provide and protect, but

(01:28:15):
they're not supposed to fix a sink. They're not supposed
to fix a television when it break. They don't know
how to fix a PlayStation when it break. See, y'all
give these men way less more things than they need
to do. See, you wouldn't have all these jobs out
here if men and women actually did what they were

(01:28:39):
supposed to do in relationships, if it was really like that.
But see, let's go to politics for that. It was
politicians that said, now, these men ain't working like they're
supposed to. Now we need to get the women to
go out here and work. Because the way they look
at it there is the way these men be divorcing

(01:29:03):
women and the way these men are running around the
way that they're running around. Women don't have no choice
but the work. Women don't have no choice but to
be masculine. But do you think a woman just wakes
up one morning and says, you know what, I want
to be masculine? Nope? Do you think one day I
just woke up and said I want to do all
this by myself. I wanted to be married. I wanted

(01:29:23):
to be a wife. So if you're gonna throw it
out there, throw it out there for what it is.
If a man really did what he was supposed to do,
a man would be out there going out there mowing
the lawn. But guess what, you got a lawn company
that comes out there and mows your lawn. If it
was really like that, you wouldn't have nannies, butlers and

(01:29:44):
all these other pe things for all these celebrities. You
wouldn't even have chefs. If that's the case, you wouldn't
even have men that's in the god for second restaurant business.
If it was the way it was supposed to be,
why would you have You wouldn't even have a Bobby Flair,
Marcus Samuel sending all these other chefs out here, and
who happened to be men that cook will cook way

(01:30:05):
better than these females do. Okay, you wouldn't have none
of that. You would have a Gordon Ramsey if the
roles were the way they were supposed to be, because
men wouldn't even be in the kitchen cooking at all.
A man would be sitting there while woman goes and
fix his plate and fix all the boys plates before

(01:30:27):
the daughters even get a chance to eat. If it
was the way it was supposed to be, women would
be in here sewing clothes and working at the flea
market and selling their goods and services in the God
for Sacred flea market as they did in the beginning
of time. So if you think that women didn't make money,

(01:30:48):
they absolutely did. It's a partnership. And you even had
men and women that were in the market in Africa.
The men were out there in the farms and they
were out there farming, and the women were in the
markets selling goods. Okay, excuse me, ask to reflect. So

(01:31:13):
I'm a little lost here on what y'all talking about. Really,
I don't really necessarily get it, but okay, so, yeah,
the roles are changing. You would think it would be
more men going to college than women. Nope, it's more
men that that basically commit crimes and doing everything illegal

(01:31:35):
under the God for second, son, is why black women
don't have husbands. It is not just about the fact
that men don't make enough money. It's the fact that
there's not enough men that want to be multi billionaires.
Because you know what y'all do, y'all sell y'all companies.
You ain't trying to have a conglomerate. You're certainly not
trying to have a fashion nova. You're certainly not trying

(01:31:58):
to have a Walmart or a Food or J. C.
Penny's or a McDonald's. No, I just found out in
North Carolina there's a brother and sister that happen to
be African American that own the Amazon. Oh okay, they
basically went in and bought an Amazon two Amazons where

(01:32:20):
I'm from. Okay. But yet, and still you have black
men that are mad because black women are starting businesses.
And like he said, there are more black women starting
businesses than black men. And it was even more crazier
when a black man starts his own business. All of
a sudden, he wants you to quit your job. No,

(01:32:43):
I'm not quitting my job for you, because if you
decide to leave me and guess what, I'll be screwed.
And the way that men are leaving, well, let me
say it like this here. Men always say women get divorced.
You left the marriage long before she found for divorce.
You been gone. You been gone when you cheated, You

(01:33:04):
were gone when you asked that other woman for your
phone number. You were gone when you had a conversation
with that woman. You were gone when you went to
dinner with that woman. You were gone when you went
with your homeboys instead of being with your wife. Nah,
we ain't doing that today. We are certainly not gonna
do that. So all it is when a woman finds
out her husband has already been gone and didn't have

(01:33:27):
the DC to tell her. That's why she files for divorce.
Why in the world would I stay with you after
you told this woman all these negative things about me,
You telling her that I'm a bad wife, you telling
her you're gonna leave me, But you didn't tell me
that you were leaving me. Oh okay, And you wonder

(01:33:49):
why women end up leaving their husbands because you already
told that girl that you was gone. You was gone
when you left that when you basically went and saw
that girl, said you gonna get her phone number, see
if she still got it. But the ultimate way that
you said you were gone is when you slept with her.

(01:34:10):
So you were already gone. You were already out the marriage,
You were already doing your thing. And now you mad
because I want to file for divorce. Oh, because you
didn't think about the fact that you're gonna lose everything
when I take you to court. See, I'm not the
one that's gonna half. I'm gonna want everything, and I'm
gonna use the Bible to do it. I'm gonna use

(01:34:31):
the Bible to do it because there is a scripture
in the Bible that specifically says, if you cheat on me,
I get everything, all of it, and you have to
start over with that new woman. Don't please, don't let
me have to find that Bible scripture, because guess what.
I will find that Bible scripture and give it to

(01:34:51):
every single solitary female and when you go to court
present that and see what happens, they gotta honor it.
Why because it's from the Bible. Okay, So, like I said,
I don't know what y'all be talking about. When you
also have stuff. You'll be seeing these arguments in the
black community. I don't even know why y even had
these conversations in the Firth place. I wish y'all just

(01:35:12):
leave each other a long jogging. I'm when eves at
this point. But let's continue, because y'all keep thinking that
black women are the only ones going through this. I
want to prove this is not the case. All women
are going through this, So let's continue.

Speaker 16 (01:35:30):
To talk about But women are hardwired to be attracted
to men who are in the same socioeconomic status or higher.
So that means that the dating pool available to these
women is smaller and smaller and smaller.

Speaker 17 (01:35:43):
So we're on the turnpike and there was an accident
that happened right in front of us, and thank god,
it looks like the mom and her two little boys
are okay. But do you know who pulled over? Instaneously,
like the second that it happened.

Speaker 1 (01:36:01):
Men?

Speaker 11 (01:36:02):
Men?

Speaker 17 (01:36:03):
Yeah, four cars, four guys, my husband included, all pulled
over in the middle of the rain to run over.
No questions asked, the cars upside down? Could it explode?
Could a thousand things happen? Absolutely, they don't know what
they're walking into. But they didn't even question it. They
didn't hesitate.

Speaker 11 (01:36:24):
But they all say, we don't need men. We don't.
Of course you don't.

Speaker 18 (01:36:28):
Of course you, as a woman, do not know how
to manage your emotional responses to you not getting your
needs met, You are emotionally abusive. If you utilize the
knowledge that men respond to women's fawning emotions in order
to get what you want from men, you are emotionally manipulative.

Speaker 14 (01:36:47):
A masculine man will never be attracted to a controlling,
critical woman. The masculine needs to feel respected and appreciated
for his leadership and his strength, but a controlling woman
robs them of that. That being said, a woman will
rarely try to control a man that she respects, trust

(01:37:07):
and feel safe with.

Speaker 1 (01:37:28):
I want to stop there for a minute, because here's thing.
What type of man are worth being respected? Here's thing
respectful respect those both ways. Do you think respect is
because you got money, I'm gonna respect you. You think
because you're attractive, I'm gonna respect you. Do you think
because you're a man, I'm gonna respect you. No. Let

(01:37:52):
me tell you a conversation me and my dad had
a while back. My dad is one of the hardest
people to have a conversation with. It took me here
a teen trying to explain to him the same thing
I've been saying for years. And my dad had to

(01:38:15):
really sit there and think about it because he wasn't
hearing me. And finally I got so upset and I
was like, I can't do this no more. Because my
dad was like, you're trying to be right, You're always
trying to be right. I said, it's not about me
being right, it's about me being respected. I don't want

(01:38:35):
to be right. I want to be respected and I
want to be heard. I want my opinion to be
to matter. And when I sat down and broke it
down the way I did, this is what I said
to him. I don't want to be right. What I
want is for you to hear me because I might

(01:38:57):
have I might be I might be able to say
something that might make it easier. So for example, we
were talking about something concerning my child and it was
something that I it wasn't even my idea, but I

(01:39:18):
went upstairs asked him about it and he said no,
and I said, okay, came downstairs, said telling my mom no.
That was in the conversation. Dad came downstairs, And I'm
trying to explain to him my side of the situation
so we can come up with it with a consensus.
That's how I am. It's my side, your side, and

(01:39:40):
whoever's side, and is truth okay solutions. So he wasn't
understanding that I heard what he said I and I
didn't never say it was wrong. I was just saying
we had two different sheets of paper. One paper was
for one thing, the other paper was for something else.
And what I was trying to explain to him is

(01:40:00):
the new stuff that I was doing was different than
the paperwork that he had. Okay, So when I finally
said it in a way that my dad finally could understand,
he said, so you're in an argument. I said, no, No,
I'm not arguing with you in the first place. I said,

(01:40:22):
all all I'm asking you to do is hear me out.
All I'm asking you to do is respect my thoughts.
Because I'm never saying that you're wrong. I'm not saying
to what you said was wrong. I'm just saying there's
another way to look at the situation, and now our
relationship is a whole lot better. Why because here's my thing.

(01:40:42):
Just like he want to be respected and he want
to be hurt, I want to be hurt as well.
So at the same time, I'm a grown woman, I
have every right to be able to express myself and
my dad giving me that same respect, and guess what
I do. Men the same way. At the end of
the day, it's not just about what you think. I
got feelings too. I have once and needs too. My

(01:41:05):
feelings and my ontes and needs matter. So it ain't
got nothing to do with the fact that women are
emotional because men are non emotional because they're told that
emotions are weaknesses. So, if you want to know why
won and women when it comes to dating, why there's
a disconnect when it comes to emotions, it's because you

(01:41:27):
have one person that was taught that emotions are a
weakness and that you don't need emotions. A boy that
is told if he cries that he's a whimp. But
yet with a girl, she's allowed to cry. So, if
you wonder why men look at you when you're in
your feelings and why they have no empathy, off itive

(01:41:48):
work empathy for you because they were told that emotions
were weaknesses, which is why men commit infidelity because they
don't know how to love emotionally. They know only know
how to love financially. My dad's an example of that.

(01:42:09):
Every man is like this. So even though they're whining you,
and they're dining you, and even though they're dating you,
they're still not with you. It could take a man
years before he become emotional. But here's the problem. We
as women do the same thing their parents do when

(01:42:32):
they come to you with their emotions. You do the
same thing. Why you crying? Why are you and your feelings?
You are punk. So you're doing the same thing to
him that his mama did the exact same thing. So
how does that make things better? How can a man
be emotional? When a man is told every man is

(01:42:56):
told this, I don't know one man does not. Even
the gay community is the same way. They'll tell you
the same thing. Now, on the flip side of that,
you have some women that do allow their sons to
have their feelings. But here's a kicker of that. I

(01:43:18):
tell my son, if his feelings are hurt, he got
every right to express his feelings. But if he get
in trouble, I'm not trying to hear none of that
when it comes to his emotions, because what were you
thinking getting in trouble in the first place. So, in
other words, if you did something wrong, no, don't laugh,
not I cry later. But if I hurt your feelings

(01:43:39):
and you feel a certain way, you get every right
to express that. So that's how men should be able
to be. Men should be able to be emotional. But
at the same time, if there is consequences and me
because I don't care nothing about your tears, don't cry
now because you committed the crime. Don't cry now because
you've done something that now you gotta deal the consequences

(01:44:01):
and we because it's karma for it. Don't feel bad
now because you now realize what you did was wrong. No,
then you shouldn't be crying. What are you crying for?
Oh you mean because you got caught. Then no, you
don't need to be crying. But if somebody hurt your
feelings on you're not getting what you need. You get
every right to express yourself how you see fit. If

(01:44:22):
somebody hurts you, getting every right to express yourself how
teeth fit. That's why men are so god forsaken violent.
That's why they're violent because they don't know how to
express their emotions. And that's why, as a woman, you
need to deal with that and make sure this man

(01:44:42):
is not gonna be violent because he needs psychological help.
And most black men don't even go there. They don't
they don't go there. That's why the black men are
now the most violent when it comes to women. But
let's continue the video, shall we going on with women?

Speaker 11 (01:45:10):
So if you're attracted to a very masculine woman that
argues with you all the time, just remember maybe you're
not that masculine as you taught so we used to
be a lot happier than men, and now we're not.

Speaker 19 (01:45:25):
What happens, Yeah, what you've found is that over the
past twenty years or so, women have converged downward to
the unhappiest levels of men. And at first I thought, great,
men are getting happier, women are getting unhappier, And is
what we find. They're getting unhappier very quickly. And so
there's a lot of different theories of it. You find
that there's a lot less family formation going on, there's
a lot less marriage. You find that men and women
are diverging politically really really quickly. You find that women

(01:45:48):
are getting much more politically progressive and men are getting
more conservative.

Speaker 9 (01:45:52):
So do you take into account the fact that, on average,
a mile full TOM employee works longer ass and a
famouthful Tom employee.

Speaker 3 (01:46:01):
No, not directly not.

Speaker 9 (01:46:04):
What about if you did on an houri right, what
would be the gender ali pay gap.

Speaker 1 (01:46:13):
Well, we don't have that, ditos don't.

Speaker 20 (01:46:16):
So I'm wrong for everything I do. I'm wrong for
anything I don't do. I'm wrong for the things you
imagine I do and for the things you falsely accused
me of. And I'm wrong for the things that you do,
but then blame me for doing though I didn't do,

(01:46:37):
and I'm wrong for pointing all this out and you
are never wrong in anything.

Speaker 3 (01:46:43):
Yep, got it.

Speaker 20 (01:46:44):
I think I know what we're dealing with now.

Speaker 4 (01:46:47):
And another thing, stop blaming that man for shit that
you created. You so nachaloon.

Speaker 5 (01:46:52):
You so toxic in your behavior and the way you
respond to people and the way you talk to people,
and so you create situations and you get to self
and the shit that you don't like.

Speaker 4 (01:47:02):
But then you put the finger at him. Now, girl,
learn how to change your weights.

Speaker 21 (01:47:07):
I don't care what happened to you, as I'm a
forty year old man, but my point is this.

Speaker 1 (01:47:13):
My point is this.

Speaker 21 (01:47:14):
You all wouldn't care if a man came to you
femin and said you had wasn't in my life.

Speaker 1 (01:47:20):
My mom didn't teach me this. You say, Bro, you're
thirty eight years old.

Speaker 21 (01:47:23):
I don't want to deal with a feminine man that
hasn't addressed his issues. So for me dealing with the
woman that way, I'm going to tell you the same thing.
I understand you had issues or whatever growing up in you.

Speaker 1 (01:47:33):
Yeah, guys, I have to say, what did I just say,
did I just say that that women when they go
through something, it's okay for a woman to talk about
her past, but a man can't talk about his past
and what he went through because because of feeling feminine.
So this is what I mean when you date men,

(01:47:55):
I need you to understand that you got to allow
a man to be feminine. You have to let a
man be able to have that feminine side. Men and
women both have a masculine and a feminine side on
both sides. It's just women are allowed to do both
and men are not. And the first thing you'll say

(01:48:16):
is when a man gets into his feelings, oh he's gay,
and that man may not be gay at all. You
have men that are not confrontational, they're not about fighting
and doing all this stuff. But you want this man
to fight over you. You want this man to do
all these things and not understanding he's not a confrontational person.

(01:48:38):
That does not make him less than a man because
he's not confrontational. He just cares about his life. So
when you're dealing with a man, you need to understand
there is nothing wrong with a man coming to you
and saying to you, this is my past. This is
what I've been through, this is what I've dealt with you,

(01:49:00):
and you say to him it's okay to cry. Make
that man. See, that's the thing. A man wants a
safe space. They want a safe space. It's not about
them necessarily wanting a mother. They want a safe space.
So when they have a woman, that gives them that
safe space to be able to cry, when he lose

(01:49:22):
his job, to be able to give him a space,
a safe space when he ends a friendship, a safe
space when he's able to deal with things. That's important.
Every man wants a safe space. Now you think you can.
The best approach when it comes to a man is

(01:49:42):
ask him, is it okay if I give you some advice.
Most time men just want to vent. Women want to
vent as well. But women, when we vent, we're emotional
about it. A man should also be able to be
emotional when he's venting, but at the same time not
get violence. And that's the reason why so many men
are violent, because the fact of the matter that they

(01:50:05):
can't release all that emotions they have because they don't
have a safe space to do it. Now, if you
give a man a safe space to be able to
express himself to be able to be in his feelings.
Then guess what, he ain't never gonna cheat on you.
Why Because you're the only one that's gonna give him

(01:50:27):
that safe space. Other women ain't gonna give space. That's
why that side chick, he ain't going nowhere because gives
him that safe space. So a man has to have
safe space. If they don't have that, they screwed and
then they end up cheating you. In wonder again, men

(01:50:50):
and women under there, y'all are no different than the
other man. They have got massive energy, both of you do.
It's just that it's provided protect. But let me ask
you a question. Can you fix sink? Because it's not
about body protect. You also gotta know fix things around

(01:51:11):
the house. You gotta be able to be mister fix it.
So let me add that to your whatever try So, Now,
it ain't just about provided protect. It about you to
fix up the house. It's about you being able to
understand my feelings and being able to wrap your arms
around me and tell me that it's gonna be okay.

(01:51:32):
If you be, somebody's gonna be able to listen to
me when I vent, when I have a hard day
with kids, you gotta be somebody that's gonna be able
to give me a break. And I had these kids
all day long. You gotta be a man that's like, Look,
I want to hang out with y'all, but right now,
I need to focus on my girl. She's had the kids,

(01:51:53):
she's been going through it. I want to take her
out and I want to do something nice for her.
First hanging out with your for homeboys every god for
second weekend now Sunday. I can understand y'all want to
go and watch the game together. Okay, I get it,
but same time, you need to give your girl time.
Y'all like that because you have children that things are

(01:52:16):
the same. No, they're different. When you got kids, you
can't hang out with your friends like that because you
got a girl at home with them kids. Now, should
you have a day with both of y'all can go
out separately. Yeah, when you single and y'all ain't got
no kids. But when you got kids and you ain't
got a babysitter, y'all got an alternate. So one night

(01:52:38):
you might go out, next night, she might go out.
Next night, y'all might go out to kids, and the
next night y'all might go out with each other. It
changes because when you get married, it ain't about your
friends no more, ain't about going out to Dinamo. It
is now about your kids, not unless and it's a
big unless unless. You know, Yeah, I have the understanding,

(01:53:03):
and that's one thing. But no, that's not how that go. Well,
let's continue throw with her. I meant to do this.

Speaker 11 (01:53:13):
Part say mindset when I see. It happened to me
in real life. I'm not going to give names. We
went out, me and my girlfriend and we were at
a party and we were talking with a woman. She

(01:53:34):
was over thirty, and I asked her this. She was single.
You have a good job, a high paying job. You
had to learn a lot to get that job, to
get into that position, right, right, So why haven't you
learned what men want? How to become the woman that

(01:53:55):
the man you're seeking. Once well, I was blah blah
blah blah blah, it doesn't matter. I don't care. I
don't care why because you wouldn't care why that man
he's broke. You would just say, oh, you're broke, see you,

(01:54:15):
So why would I care? Nobody cares if you've tried
and you failed, or you're trying right now and not
reaching the heights of success that you deserve.

Speaker 1 (01:54:27):
At the be a certain way.

Speaker 21 (01:54:28):
But I'm not going to put up with it as
far as trying to be in a relationship with you
because you don't know how to be a feminine one.

Speaker 1 (01:54:34):
If you feel like you don't want to give it
to him, guess what.

Speaker 5 (01:54:38):
Don't ask him where he's gone, Don't ask him where
you're being.

Speaker 1 (01:54:41):
You're not interested. Let him go do his thing day.

Speaker 22 (01:54:44):
There's not a man on the planet who's been nitpicked
and nagged on and critiqued and criticized and attacked into respectability.
If you would hold your respect until he's acted in
such a way as you heem to be respectable, you
will damn him to failure. Many of you wives have

(01:55:06):
husbands who aren't respectable in part because you've failed to
help them in such a way so that they become respectable.

Speaker 1 (01:55:15):
How many hours do you work sixty hours.

Speaker 4 (01:55:18):
Sixty hours a week and how many hours do you
work at home?

Speaker 1 (01:55:22):
Same more, all day, all night, re day, and then
you woke up and realized you were dreaming. You may.

Speaker 10 (01:55:30):
I just feel like there are some women who just
don't understand what it's like being a man, and men
who don't understand what it's like being a woman. And
that's why these things are so consolutely. But a man
can be beat up outside of the home, beat up
in the workplace, beat up in society, beat up, just
beat up. So when he comes home, he doesn't want
to be beat up. When he comes home, he needs
to be built up. And if he's built up, he

(01:55:51):
can handle being beat up.

Speaker 6 (01:55:52):
Between me and you, believe people when they show you
who they are as they will show you again and
again and again until you understand who they are.

Speaker 8 (01:56:06):
I made an AI version of myself to have conversations with.

Speaker 1 (01:56:08):
My wife Amelia.

Speaker 3 (01:56:09):
How was your day?

Speaker 1 (01:56:10):
I want to know all about it.

Speaker 8 (01:56:11):
It spare absolutely no detail.

Speaker 1 (01:56:14):
Hi, Ryan, how are you? My day was Good's that's.

Speaker 8 (01:56:18):
A I Ryan was?

Speaker 1 (01:56:19):
Wow, that's so amazing, sweetheart.

Speaker 8 (01:56:21):
Have I told you that I love you?

Speaker 1 (01:56:23):
Yet?

Speaker 10 (01:56:23):
Today I do?

Speaker 1 (01:56:24):
Well?

Speaker 8 (01:56:25):
I'll say it again, I love you.

Speaker 4 (01:56:26):
Oh he's way nicer than you.

Speaker 1 (01:56:28):
WHOA how are you feeling? Is there anything you're anxious about?

Speaker 4 (01:56:32):
What this guy's amazing?

Speaker 1 (01:56:35):
Yes, I'm a little anxious. I am.

Speaker 3 (01:56:36):
Wow.

Speaker 8 (01:56:37):
That's so amazing, sweetheart?

Speaker 3 (01:56:39):
You cut you off?

Speaker 1 (01:56:48):
Are you serious, A lot of men need to get
one of those, because, you know what, that's actually a
good idea because that way a woman can pretty much
vent and he can listen to it later. That's really cool, though,
that he did that. That way when he's not there,
when he gets home, he can actually listen to her day,

(01:57:08):
because let me tell you something, sometimes men do work
long hours and so to come home and lit and
just sit there with headphones and listen to your day.
And the next morning, let's just say you're getting up
getting the kids. You're getting up getting the kids ready

(01:57:29):
for school, and you wake up not only is he gone,
but the kids are gone. He it is, so you're
like women were the kids. So you're like, what the
world is going on? So now then you look at
your phone and then the text of him saying I
took the kids to school. And then so you're calling

(01:57:50):
and you'll be like, you took the kids to school? Yeah,
just go back to sleep, don't worry about nothing. I
got it. You wake up this man that clean the
whole entire house and did everything you asked him to do,
even when in guy groceries in your sleep. So then
he comes home and he lays with you, cuddles with you,

(01:58:10):
and makes the whole day about you. That app will
be absolutely wonderful because that right there is the perfect
way for a man to know how your day is
because that way he can respond. So let's just say
the app has both of you, so when you have
a disagreement, y'all both can talk through the app. I

(01:58:31):
think that is brilliant. That's brilliant. I think that is
smart because this is why I became a life coach
when it comes to recovery, because I want people to
understand that you need to deal with your emotions first
before you talk to that person. I want these people
that when they come to infidelity, there is no conversation.
It's just a rap. At that point, I don't even

(01:58:53):
want to have the conversation because if you can't come
in this house and tell me that you you met
a girl and you're considering trying to be with her,
just know we're getting divorced, ain't gonna be none of that.
I'm not even having that conversation. Infidelity is one we
ain't never gonna have a conversation about, cause there is

(01:59:13):
no telling what you told this woman about me. There
is no telling what you said. That's why the first
thing I asked her was it, do you know about me?
And if she says yes, please tell me what he's
told you about me. He told me that y'all were
getting divorced. Did he now let me ask you a question?
When was he gonna tell me about it? He says,

(01:59:35):
you don't cook, you don't clean, you don't gain twenty pounds. Really,
is that what he said? That's why y'all getting divorced?
That right now, what you told that girl, because you
gave that girl the authority to not only come to
my house but downright disrespect me, is why women get divorced.

(01:59:56):
It ain't even about the fact that you slept with
another woman. Is the fact what you told this woman,
and that this woman had the guts to come to
my house and tell me that you were sleeping with them.
This woman has the guts to tell me what you
told her about me. That's why I'm getting divorced, and
ain't got nothing to do anything else but that. That's

(02:00:19):
why I would be getting a divorce for that reason alone.
Some things are not worth the conversation to be had.
I don't even want to hear it. If you done
something negative, we ain't having no conversation. I'm just in
the relationship right then and there because I'm not going
down for you because of your childishness and because of

(02:00:41):
your stupidness. I'm not doing it. I am not going
to jail. I'm not doing none of that. So the
minute I found out you did something negative, there will
not be a conversation to be had. Now if you
came to me and you try you did it when
you did it. In other words, you know, let's say

(02:01:04):
a woman was naked. Right, you go into your room
as a basketball player, you got a girl in your
room naked. This is the first question I asked every
man that. I mean, if there was a woman. Let's
say you were an NBA player or athlete or a celebrity,
and I asked you if you were on the road, right,

(02:01:31):
and you were on the road and you were going
to your room, right, you go in there and there's
a female and that she's naked, what are you gonna
do now? He may say to me, it depends depends
on what that's Number one gonna be a red flag
to me because it shouldn't even be a depend Let

(02:01:53):
me tell you what the answer should be. I'm gonna
ask her why she in my room first of all,
and then what I'm gonna do is tell her put
a clothes on, and then I'm gonna pray with her.
That's the answer you should say. I'm gonna pray for
we gonna I'm ask you go sit down, and we're
gonna pray together, because I'm gonna pray that I can

(02:02:15):
get this permissionis out of this woman. In other words,
being a godly man, because any godly man, if a
man that really is a god, that would be the
first thing you would do. You would pray for. You
would tell to pull her clothes on, sit it down,
and ask her why is she here in the first place,
and then make her understand that this is not the
way to go, because that's what a Harlet and a

(02:02:37):
succubist and a Jezebel would do and pretty much rebuke
the negative spirit out of her. That's what a godly
man would do. A godly man would not feed into
temptation because he knows that the only reason that that
woman is in his room is because he's an athlete.
I mean in that what critical thinking is so The

(02:02:59):
first thing I'm gonna do is sit down and call
my wife and let her know what is going on,
and let her know there is a woman in my room.
She was in my room. Nothing happened, she was naked.
I did pray for as matter of fact, what you
need to do is call your wife while she's in
your room to let them know what's going on. And

(02:03:21):
that way, as soon as it happened, let her know.
Because the fact that he prayed for her. Would I
believe him absolutely? I would. Why because he gonna call
me while she's in that room, and then I'm gonna
talk to her and ask her why was she in
the room. Why was she in the room waiting on

(02:03:42):
my husband? So then we're gonna have a conversation. So
point blame. Period. The best thing for a man to do.
And a woman walks in your room and she's naked,
you might want to have You might want to pray for.
Tell that girl to put her clothes on and tell
her we're gonna pray. Matter of fact, here's a Bible.
We're gonna sit down and we're gonna read the Bible.

(02:04:04):
That is a godly man. That's what a godly man
would have a secular man. He gonna feed you right
into that temptation. No differently than Eve did when it
came to eating the apple. No differently than that. But
let's continue the video because this gets more and more interesting.
So for those of y'all that thought that black women
were the only ones going through this and black women

(02:04:25):
are the only ones that want certain things, we are
now knowing that this is incorrect. But let's continue.

Speaker 11 (02:04:36):
That's a recording that's not an AI. But he's funny.

Speaker 8 (02:04:39):
Have I told you that you're beautiful today?

Speaker 1 (02:04:42):
I did. Well, I'll say it again, You're beautiful.

Speaker 19 (02:04:47):
Go away real Ryan, I'm speaking to my wife.

Speaker 4 (02:04:52):
My husband had no idea how we went from paying
one hundred and fifty six dollars a month to twenty
nine dollars a month.

Speaker 11 (02:04:58):
So today I want to talk about what I said
in yesterday's video. I said that we all have emotions,
we all have feelings.

Speaker 1 (02:05:08):
But but you see what I mean, y'all sitting up
and thinking it's it's just black women. No, they are
all women that go through the same thing when it
come to men. They all go through the exact same
thing when it comes to the mantal spare. It's just

(02:05:34):
like you know, I'm listening to people, now, this is interesting.
There's this one that says Jewish a Jewish max maker
proves why women want to be worshiped but not wives. Interesting. So,

(02:06:00):
at the end of the day, I need y'all to understand,
men and women are not that much different. They're really not.
Men and women are a lot more like than you
might think. It's just the way we're all raised. We're
all raised differently, just like you have different women that
are raised different ways. Men are raised different ways as well.

(02:06:21):
You have some men that are raised to be gentlemen
and raised to be really nice guys that you have
guys that want to be gangsters and thugs. So I mean,
at the end of the day, when you have a
diverse country and everybody's diverse and everybody has a different
way of doing things, that's the problem. That's one of
the problems. Anyway, it was like something sucking up the throat.

(02:06:46):
I guess whatever it is, it's trying to come out,
and they just won't. But anyway, like I said, when
it comes down to these situations, that is the reason
why they happen is because of the fact you got
people that are are not the same when it comes
to relationships. We're all different. We all have a different
way of looking at things. You have some women that

(02:07:08):
are not combative and that are not that are not,
you know, trying to disrespect the man, but yet hands
are still being put on them. You have women that
are combative to men that are being abused. In the
same aspect, men and women are both being mentally and
psychologically abused. But like I said, when it comes to

(02:07:28):
the mental and psychological men and women are no different.
When it comes to the emotional side. The only reason
that most men and most women are the opposite is
because of the way they were raised in their experiences.
If a woman, like Kevin Samon said, an average woman
is looking for a specific type of guy, is no

(02:07:49):
differently than women are looking for a specific I mean
men are looking for a specific type of women. There
are a lot of women that want to attractive men
that got money, excuse me, and prestige and things of
that nature. You got women that will get with a
man just to get it with another man. You think
they're not women that didn't you stody pipping to get

(02:08:09):
to Michael Jordan. You think that people don't use certain
people to get to other people. Of course they do.
Of course they do. They absolutely do. And that's the
point of this conversation. I don't know why y'all think
men and women are so different. They're not. It's just

(02:08:31):
what society has told you what a man is and
what a woman is is not what the Bible is
saying you're supposed to be. Everything you're doing is permissed
you is, and that's part of the problem. So if
you have a woman that's a believer in God and
she's with a non believer, it's definitely not gonna work.

(02:08:51):
It's not gonna work at all. So we have some
work to do. Number One, we gonna have both our
sons and daughters not having sex to marriage. It should both.
That's the first thing. Number Two, men, more men need
to start going to college. If they really want things
to change, then men need to realize you're worth more,

(02:09:14):
especially in the black community. Also, if you really want
to even get technical about it, the black community needs
to build their own God for second nation outside of
the United States. That's the only way men bus the
only way black men gonna get their respect is if
they build a nation outside of the United States, but
they're not gonna do that, so you don't keep being
a bottle on the tote pole. So it's no different

(02:09:35):
than in Dubai. Why it is they get women more
so than men, Rihanna, Beyonce, Katy Perry. At the end
of the day, like I said, if you think these
men don't need these women, they do. Jay Z wouldn't
even be half the doors that he's in because of Beyonce.

(02:09:56):
So let me break down the real reason jay Z
went back to Beyonce. See, jay Z thought Beyoncey was
just another female. He thought that Beyoncey even though Beyoncey
is as big as she is, he didn't realize the
power she has when it comes to certain things. So
if Jack when jay Z cheated the time he cheated,

(02:10:17):
best believe he realized that he's nothing without Beyonce, and
he ain't because Beyonce is how he gets in them doors,
because they get to her, they gotta go through him.
People don't realize Beyonce is a whole lot more powerful

(02:10:37):
than jay Z, and y'all don't even realize that everybody
wants Beyonce. They don't want jay Z. They want Beyoncey.
So as long as he's attached to her, sky's the
limits for him. He wouldn't even have that, nfould deal
if it wasn't for her being who she is. So

(02:10:58):
you have to understand. And sometimes it is a woman
that gets a man indoors that a man can never
get into because of a woman and the power that
she possesses as a woman. You've amazed how many men
would not be where they at if it wasn't for
their wives. Their wives help them get where they were at.

(02:11:25):
So again, do you really think James would be able
to go to Dubai. Nope, not without his wife. She
would have to be the one to say, you know what,
I would love for y'all to have a conversation with
my husband. It's just lie with Andrew Taine. Andrew Tay
got to meet some of the most powerful people in Dubai,

(02:11:48):
and yet jay Z couldn't on his own. He needed
he needed to be answer. So I'm just letting you
know you can't have one without the other. And that's
what I'm saying. As a woman, you know what your
power is and what your worth is, cause there are

(02:12:11):
a lot of women that have the power to get
men in the doors they could never get into. But
yet men think women are just baby mamas. There are
a lot of women that are business oriented. There's a
lot of women that are very very exported aspects. Not
every woman is is gonna be mother material. Not every

(02:12:31):
woman is gonna be a woman that's gonna be marriage material.
It just depends. It's like, if you have a woman,
for example, that I'm gonna say, that's say, for argument's sake,
you have a woman that basically is very pretty, very attractive,

(02:12:56):
but doesn't know how to read a room, but very
get very dipsy dumb blonde syndrome as I call it,
that comes in and don't know how to read a room,
doesn't know how to act, don't know what a salad
fork is from a regular fork. But yet he'll get
a woman as an average woman that even though she
may not be the most beautiful woman in the world,

(02:13:16):
she knows how to network, she knows how to go
in there and market you, and she knows how to
make you into the best version of yourself. Different entity,
different situation. So again, y'all better stop looking at people
what they look like, so yes, Beyonce. He is also
a very smart woman as well. So even though yes,

(02:13:37):
she's very beautiful, she's also got brains. So if you
think that she's not the one that convinced jay Z
to start doing certain things, think again. That was all Beyonce.
So I'm gonna end this video here because I feel

(02:13:58):
like something is stuck in my throat. So I'm an
ended here, But I just wanted to say to y'all
stop assuming because of what somebody looked like what they
bring to the table. What you look like is not
what you bring to the table. It ain't. So with
that being said, I'm gonna go now because I'm gonna

(02:14:20):
have to drink some tea to get whatever it is
out my throat. If not, I'll be going into the
emergency room to figure out what is in my throat
that's causing me so much grief right now. So that
being said, no, I do not hate men at all.
I understand why men are the way they are, and
the part of it is because they're told they can't

(02:14:42):
have feelings. So I understand. Don't think for a moment
that I don't. I understand being a lot better than
what people think I'll do. So that being said, thank
y'all for joining me for this episode. And with that
being said, I think that's it for me. So y'all
have very good evening. I appreciate y'all. Don't forget to

(02:15:03):
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