Episode 20- Why Women Can't Be Feminine And Queens of Your Castles

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and multiple other streaming companies as well. Now, as for me,
I've been feeling kind of groggy. I've been feeling kind
of weird. Fast twenty four. A couple of days, I've
been feeling kind of weird. So today I wanted to

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get on him. No, I'm not together right now. My
stuff is like, oh, extend together, Okay with it now.
So I've been playing around with these things, trying to
figure out which one works. So I've been playing around
with this thing. So I'm trying to see which one works.
While I'm doing that, I want to talk about a

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few things. First of all, before we get into the topic,
I do want to talk about the fact of the
situation with Young Thug and all of them. We all
know that they're negotiating what's gonna happen with this trial.
Do I think that the trial is going to go on?

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It's possible. But if it does go on, what could
possibly happen is that it would expose all of Fulton County,
and I'm gonna do a video about that when it
comes to Pandora's Box because I want to get in
more detail about how the prosecution not only exposed themselves

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for the coruction they do, but also the police department
and the whole entire judicial system in Fulldin County. So
we're going to talk about it from that perspective because
I'm not gonna talk about it the way everybody else
talks about it because I have a different perspective on it. Also,
Little Dirt is currently right now dealing with his own problems.

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Tory Lanez might be getting an appeal, So there's a
whole lot going on that I'm gonna talk about when
it comes to the ynsl trial, Little Dirk, p Diddy,
and also we're gonna talk about We're also gonna talk
about Little Dirt, no Yl Diddy, Little Dirt, and Tory Lanez.

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We're gonna talk about that in opening Pandora's Box because
I wanted to talk about the importance of why black
men need to stop committing crimes and doing negative things
that they shouldn't be doing in the first blow, that
ain't right, So before we get started, I'm gonna pray
because helly Father, please think everybody that comes to this room.

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May you bless this room. May you protect all these
people from harm and all these things that are gonna
cause people any type of negative trauma. May you forgive
all of our sins, and may you basically forgive us
for any sins we did up until today, before we
repented for our wrongs, made amends to the people who
are wronged us and who we've wrong and we basically

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have learned, grown and evolved from those experiences. Made this
particular episode basically help people in their past, their journeys
and their purpose to a new embeddle you as far
as being the queens, the modest women, and the godly women,
the African American women, African Melanin women, African Melanin people,

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and African descent people in Jesus name, Amen, Now, let's
get started this conversation. Black women, Black women, y'all know.
I love y'all, y'all you know I do. I love
y'all dearly. I rock with y'all down. I'm in Black women,
So I rock with y'all. Be on the shadow of doubt. Now, Okay,

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I really do, but I need Black women to basically
understand where I'm getting ready to go with this. All right,
the topic for today is why Black women in particular
cannot be feminine in queens of their castle. Now, this

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can go for all women, So that's why I put
women because this can go either way regardless of what
race you are. This all applies, but this applies to
Black women in particular because Black women can't be feminine.
Black women can't be weak to save our lives, we

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just can't. We try our bess to, we try to
be feminine to the best of our abilities, but we
just can't do it. We're not allowed to be feminine.
We're not allowed to be submissive. Black men always talk
about they want a woman to be submissive, but it's
God hard to do that when you're not being submissive
to your wife opertive word your wife. When you out

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here having sex before the woman and that you're going
to marry, Why should she marry you and you already contaminated,
You've already been you've already been touched. And this is
the thing I wish to God that black women would understand.
If a man has already been touched, and you are virgin.

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You ain't supposed to touch him. He ain't the man for you.
And I'm gonna get into that a little bit later. Now,
pot I do that. Y'all know, I got to do
my prayers for the evening. Y'all know I gotta do
it on an episode. Now, I gotta do a prayer.
So I'm actually literally gonna do a prayer. So give
me a minute. I thought I did one, but I

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guess I didn't. So give me a minute to mean no,
I think no, never mind, I did it early, Okay,
But I am gonna read something. Give me a sick
I'm gonna read back, will take to inspire awe in

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the world and in one another, and so love. Okay,
here it is. Let read something y'all that touched my spirit.
It says, do you realize what you were? Purposely, lovingly
and carefully designed by God? David said it like this,
For you formed my inward parts, you knitted me together

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in my mother's wound. I praise you for I am
fearful and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works. My soul
knows it very well. Psalms one nine thirteen fourteen, your eyes,
your brain, heart, muscles, nerves, fingertips, eyelash, your smile, and everything.

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Not only are you wonderfully complex, but you were also
playing before life as you know it even existed by
your heavenly fond even as your own I'm gonna go back. Hold,
I'm trying to go back because I hate the wrong button.

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Why is this doing to me today? Okay, it says,
even as you read these words, your body is doing
some incredible things without your conscience consent. Your fingers are strolling,
your eyes are capturing, Your brain is processing all the while.
Your heart is pumping blood. Your lungs are managing your breaths.

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Your eyelids are blinking away dryness. Your cells are multiplying
by the second. Your brain is directing your body while
stimulating story, memory, and so much more. David also pointed
out that there are other portions of Psalms one point
thirty nine. That God knows everything about us. His presence

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is inescapable and the and he thinks about us so
much that such thoughts cannot be numbered. That point the point.
You are uniquely and intentionally created by God to love
Him and the people around you, to know him and

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make him known, so be encouraged. And you are made
for this. Now, why is that important? Because black women,
I'm sending that to y'all. Okay, I'm gonna send it
to y'all because y'all are sitting up here, and a
lot of y'all do not understand what being a queen

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is a lot of y'all don't understand why being a
queen is so important, and why being a mother and
teaching your daughters how to be a princess is so important,
and why daddies are so important when it comes to
your daughters. Now, I won't I want women to understand

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that that you got this. I don't care if this
man walks out your life. You got this. You absolutely
got it. Now, Black women, I understand, and right now,
we are in the bottom of the totem pole. When
they come to marriage, we are the highest. When they

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come to be in single mothers where the highest when
it comes to a lot of things. But a lot
of this wouldn't happen if black women would have never
let black men tell them you ain't nothing, but who
your mama, Hump back, hume back, woo your mama, You
ain't nothing. But who your mama, Hump back up, back
hoo your mama. If we would have never let rap

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music tell women what they were supposed to be, we
wouldn't be where we're at right now. If your like
need to be real with it now, Black women, there
are so many young girls being molested because of your
boyfriends and family members, and y'all allow it. What's even

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worse is the fact that you got women out here
that are sitting up here and will not break up
with the man that molested your daughter. You'll stay right
with him, and you will stay with him no matter what,
which is the sad part about all of this. There's

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a lot of y'all that are so scared to be
alone that you won't even have a problem with that
man molest in your daughter. Now. I get the fact
that being alone to some of y'all may seem like
it's the worst thing ever, But in all actuality, it's not.
I'm a living testament of it. Being alone is not
as bad as y'all think it is. It really ain't.

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The only reason that people want you to be in
relationships is so they're the ones that get to do
whatever they want to, and you got to sit there
and take their nonsense. Now, Black women since slavery, Black
women have been sexually assaulted. Black women have had children
out of wedlock. Black women have lost their children when

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they first got over here, and their husbands. Women. Black
women have been stripped of men since the beginning of time.
So let me break down something about black something that
Black women do not understand. The other race, the other
African descent and African Americans and African descent people understand.

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First of all, we are tribal people. We've always been
tribal people. Number two, We've always been at each other's
throats when it comes to battling it out. We will
never go against another race of people and do anything
to a bunch another race of people. We just don't

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and we just want how you doing. So I'm a
little lost on this because even when the Portuguese and
the Hispanics and the Dutch came over to Africa the
Gifts in the first place, do you not know, we
were already fighting, We were already at war, and that

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black women, well formerly African, we're still African descent. I
don't care what nobod say. African descent people in this
country do you not understand that African women, young girls
at the age of five years old had to be married.

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That a lot of African young girls even to this
day are married by the age of nine to a
man twice their age. Don't this reminds you of people
in India? Do you know our culture is the same
as the Indian culture and also the Dubai Abu Dhabi,

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Saudi Arabia culture, Arab culture. Do you know? The a
Rabs and the African culture are almost identical. Matter of fact,
they are identical. There's nothing different between the African culture
and people that are A Raps. We have the same culture,
maybe a couple things differently, but not really because Africans

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actually practice the Muslim religion and so do the a
Rabs because Muhammad did go into Africa, so yes they did. Now,
being that we're tribal people, being that we're people that
are all about tribal which is why we're so talented

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as far as music, because that is something that we
have always He's done. We came over here, we spoke Creole.
Now mind engineer, are some people that spoke English and
could speak it, But a lot of y'all don't even know,
the first slaves didn't come in fourteen ninety two. They

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came when Vascuas discovered America and the Spanish brought indigenous
servants to America. So for those of y'all that said
black people have always been here, you are bold face alive,
that is not true. We were not always over here.
The reason why when the Americans came, well, British Americans

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at this point came to the United States and took
over America. The reason why they were black people already
over here because the Spanish had already built a community,
which is Florida. Do you not know that Florida and

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Texas are actually Mexican Mexican and Hispanic colonies. That part
because with y'all keep forgetting that it was the Portuguese,
the Dutch in these Spanish that came over there that
got slaves loan before the French came over. British Americans

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never came toa never came to Africa to get slaves.
They never did. And the only way that the French
knew about us because when they married the Spanish, they
had indigenous servants that were actually a part of their party.
So yeah, y'all need to learn slavery from outside of

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the United States, because you'll learned so much. When I
was in Germany, I heard a lot about slavery within
the within the Europeans. Germany never has slaves, Russia never
has slaves. I think Switzerland never has slaves. Australia never
had slaves. So there were a few countries that never
had slaves. It was primarily just England, France, Spain, the Netherlands,

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and I think that was pretty much about it. A
couple of all places I can't remember maywe I'm tired
maywey was. I ain't feeling good Bayway. So if y'all
would do your research, then you know you didn't come
from here. You didn't. The Spanish just so happened to
create Florida. That's why the majority of people in Spain

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in Florida not only are African migrants or African indigenous servants,
but also the Spanish community, just like Texas, it's Mexico
Spanish communities. That's why the majority of people in Texas
and Mexico are Spanish or either African or African descent.

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Why because you were brought over here as indigenous servants.
So the way to buy back your freedom. You decide.
They decided to stay here. So Africans decided to stay here,
and they ended up meeting Indians during the time that
they were here, and that is how Indians and Africans
not only got married but also had children. That's how

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that happened. Y'all need to start paying attention in history class.
I know there's a lot of y'all never paid attention
to history class, but yet y'all talk like you do. Now,
why is all of this important? Because you can't act
like that Black women ain't been through the ringer, because
we have been through the ringer in more ways than one.

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The first prostitution was African was actually biracial, actually, because
there was a biracial woman that actually had biras raise
your women having sex with Caucasian men. And that was
in New York City came remember what year it was.

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But anyway, the one thing my great grandmother and my
grandmother always told me, you can never do what a
white woman does, and advious you I wouldn't. She's right,
and I could never get away with what Caucasian women
get away with. And I ain't gonna try. I know,

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as a black woman. I could never get away with
doing some of the things that they do, and that's
why I don't do it. I'm not being promiscuous out here,
and I certainly am not doing threesomes and all of
this other stuff at this point in my life out

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of the world, at this point of my life. Trust me,
there are a lot of things that Caucasian women will
do sexually that I will never in my life evidence
I just won't. So let me break down something a
lot of Black women don't understand from somebody that lived
overseas and somewhere somebody where sex is really much liberated.

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The United States knows nothing about sex compared to the
other these other cultures. They just don't ed they don't
now don't'ing wrong. Sex is a fantastic thing, but as
a godly woman, you ain't supposed to be doing that
to marriage, and you're supposed to be with a man
that's evenly yoked to you that's not having sex either.

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It's one thing if you just you have sex and
then say, you know what, I ain't having message sex
no more to marriage. There are a lot of men
that sit up here and lie and say, oh, I'll
wait with you, No, they ain't. They ain't gonna wait. Now,
there are some men that are also celibant that's not
having sex, because I just seen a skit of Country

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Wayne where he had a guy that was a doctor
and he was celibant, and Brittany was like, he's celibate. Yeah,
he's celibate because he's waiting on his wife and she
feels some type of way because he's not running around
dropping it and getting it with everybody. And yes, there
are men out here that are not having sex like that,

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and they're not They're waiting on their wife, no different
than a woman waiting on her husband. But when it
comes to discipline, women are better as far as disciplined
than men are. We've always been disciplined. A woman is
not that easy for her to go out here and
sleep with another woman, to sleep with anybody. If she's

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not a godly person. If she's a godly woman, she
ain't a godly woman. Is a woman that is actually
the opposite of what y'all think she is. A godly
woman is somebody that is artist. She ain't showing off everything,
she exposing everything, Which is why in a lot of countries,

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a lot of these women. If you go to India,
if you go to Dubai, if you go to all
of the Arab communities, you will notice they're fully dressed,
fully dressed, beautiful women, fully dressed, and they wear those
those things on the top of the heads I can't

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think of right now, on the top of my head.
But they're not showing off everything, they're not exposing everything.
And what I want Black women to understand is that
is also a part of our culture now. When it
comes to African tribes to each its own, every last

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one of them are different. There were women that were
queens that y'all know nothing about, that were in Africa
that went against Rome. So at the end of the day,
what I want you to understand is we've always been queens.
We've always been women that were held at the highest standard.

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Especially when it came to Egypt. You had Nepu Tit,
you had you had ox Sellar Moon. Yeah, that really
is a real, actual queen. There's multiple women Cleopatra that
were very able to run a country. So what I

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want people to understand is that can a woman want
to run a nation? Absolutely she can. So let me
show you why I say that I'm gonna find this
video right, and this is about African queens that a
lot of y'all don't know about. And the reason why

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this is important is because y'all need to know about
these women. So I'm gonna play meet the most Dangerous
Queens in African history and then they have thirteen of

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the most powerful queens in African history. Why is this important?
This is important because I want Black women to understand
what your power is. Y'all keep thinking your power is
being with a man. You think your power is just
being a mother. You think your power is just running

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around here and getting plastic surgery, and you think your
power is your looks. Honey, that's the American version of
your power. That is not your African version of your power,
because it ain't, honey. There was some very powerful African
queens that did not have a king, that ran a

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nation by themselves, who did not want to get married,
who did not want a husband husband, and if they did,
their husband passed away or their father put them in
that position because the son wasn't doing what he was
supposed to do. So for those of y'all who think
that black women can't be queens, that Kamala cannot be president. Well,

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I'm gonna show you two videos that's gonna prove you wrong.
A why Kamala can run this country just fine. Now
she see this and she played, Hey, I've done my job.
But it is time for black women to stop being
harlots and sucubists and Jezebels and run around here having

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these babies. All you are is just cooking and cleaning,
and that is all you are. That is not all
that a black woman is. If you don't know what
your power is, then I'm gonna need you to get
off here. If y'all so you're if all you think
of is a running around with that Jezebel spirit, run

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around being a succubist, trying to have all these babies.
So I'm an break down also with a succubist, a harlet,
a Jezebel, and a siren. Is because some of y'all
have that spirit that you need to rebuke and get
rid of it. As a black woman, you shouldn't even

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want to be promiscuous. As a black woman, you shouldn't
even want to settle when it comes to what you want.
When it comes to a man, I don't care what
you look like. The way that I have set up
here and watched not all, but the vast majority of

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black men talk about women being promiscous tpped by Black
women are just baby mamas, but yet instill they want
you to accept Poligny. Let me tell you where it
went wrong for Black women, befo, I play this video.
When y'all went wrong was when the South took over

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when no, I say that back. Where black women went
wrong was when California took over rap, when Too Short
an Ice Tea came out and they taught about the
bitchs and y'all fed into that, and then it went
to Luke, and then it went to the s, it

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went to Atlanta. That's when black women went wrong because
when rap went to the South, it was the strip
of culture California, it was a whole culture and Luke
and them was like the houchie mama culture. So when

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that happened, that's where black women went wrong. Freaknik Bike Week,
all of that, that's where black women went wrong. Black women.
I mean, if y'all really knew your history, y'all would
not be out here having sex before marriage. I promise
you you wouldn't Hello you wouldn't at the end of

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the day. So if you really knew the history of
Black women, a lot of y'all would not be doing
what y'all doing right now. There's a reason why your
mother's told you not to have sex for a marriage.
As Black women, there was a reason why black your
mothers were telling you to let a man court you,

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to let a man take you out on a date.
But also my generation, I know, Hello, at the end
of the day, Black women, I love y'all, I do,
but it's time for y'all to put your crowns on

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and be I miss y'all too, and be the queens
that you are supposed to be. It is time for y'all,
if you don't got a man, to step into your
role and raise your princesses and your princesses that are
growing going to grow up in this world. I love

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you too, girl, but I need Black women to understand
that with or without a man, you will survive. If
you have one, that is great, But if without one.
There have been many women that have raised phenomenal children
and did not date, and they took care of their children.

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Okay they did, then I love me wrong. Not all
Black men are terrible, terrible men. I am not gonna
say that in any capacity, but as a black woman,
you already know your circumstance. So let me break down
the history of black women that way, y'all can understand this.

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Even when we were in Africa, we were stripped of
our husbands and we were stripped of our children because
they were battles in Africa. And matter of fact, Africa
is not even the original name that our culture came from.
Ethiopia was not the original name. They were renamed by

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the Spanish to Portuguese, the Dutch of the France. Okay,
start there. So before they came, we were all fighting
amongst each other, the first gladiators. Girl. Please, I'm on
a hair journey. Please don't start with me. I'm on
a hair journey. I'm on a journey of growing my hairback,

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trying to see how much it's gonna grow back, and
then I cut it. I keep it for two or
three weeks, and then I see how much it's growing,
and then I cut it until it's fully grown, and
then I'm gonna grow it out. So I have to
keep track of it. So I'm on a hair journey.
So if that's why you see my hair like this.
I want a hair journey, on a journey period. So,

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like I said, there have always been battles when it
comes to all of the different tribes, and there were tribes.
I'm still trying to see how it's gonna grow back,
if it's gonna grow back at all. I mean, it's
just a part of my journey. Honestly, I'm just trying.
I mean, I probably will keep it bald. I don't

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know yet. I haven't made a decision. I'm just trying
to see if it's gonna act to grow back. In general,
it almost is growing back. It's just a certain spot
I gotta try to work on. But I just want
I just want to grow my hair. I just want
to know that my hair can as to grow back.
That's what I'm trying to do. Whether I keep it
bald or not, I have not made that decision yet.

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I know when it actually grow back, then i'll let
you know. But until it probably be cut. I'm not
trying to do anything. I'm just saying I'm just on
a journey. I'm on a journey of growth, and that's
every part of me trying to see what's healthy and
what's not. My hair is included. I'm in a healthy journey.
So like I said, I don't know what them do yet.

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I'm just trying to basically be healthy in all aspects,
including my health, and including working on my flaws and imperfections.
So I'm working on every part of myself anyway, that's
that was saying. But when it comes down to Africa,
we've always been battling against each other. So I'm not

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surprised about our community going at each other's throats because
we've always done that. Even in Africa, we were fighting
over territories, we were fighting over many different things. So
when the Portuguese, the Spanish and the Dutch came to Africa,
that's what we were doing, fighting amongst each other. So

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when they saw the guns, they saw all of that.
Instead of them giving them the resources, at first, it
was about, okay, we just want the weapons and you
can take these people that we enslaved. They took the
people who they enslaved and made them into slaves. That's
how that happened. And at first we weren't originally slaves.

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We were indigenous servants. We went from indigenous servants to
slaves when we came to America because we were able
to buy back our freedom. If any of y'all ever
seen Queen Charlotte, then you'll know what I'm Yeah, I'm
getting used to it first year of it, but that's

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how we started off as indigenous service. We were able
to buy back our freedom. If you see Queen Charlotte,
then you know that Queen Charlotte was deaf only. Queen
Charlotte was definitely a woman that was bi racial that
was married to King George. Now let's talk about that

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for a minute. Why out of every single woman, they
chose a black woman to date a man that has schizophrenia?
Why is that a black woman? A lot of y'all
never paid attention to that, and a lot of y'all
never questioned that, why is it that they let a

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biracial black woman marry a man with schizophrenia? We now
know that King George had schizophreniae. Why because only a
black woman would be able to handle that. So if
you don't know the power of a woman, watch Queen Charlotte,

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then you'll see what I'm talking about. Every time it
comes to something that a lot of people you can't handle.
Black women African descent and African women can handle situations
that a lot of people can't that a lot of
us other race of women could never handle. Y'all have

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no idea the strength you are. Because why is it
that when it comes to voting, it's Black women that
are the ones that are always voting the way they're
supposed to. Why when it came to the ending slavery,
it was black women that were getting these people out,
not black men. Black women ran Tubbman Rosa Parks. It

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were black women. But they don't talk about all the
black women in history that ended slavery. It was black women,
not black men. It were black women. Black women are
the ones that were being sexually assaulted. Black women were
the ones that were the ones that had a lot

(37:02):
more power than black men had. Believe it or not,
Black ain't the way they telling it cause black men
the wayne they just sat there and didn't say nothing
when women, black women were being sexually assaulted, when black
women were first divorced to have all these kids in
order to keep slavery alive. You're gonna tell me black

(37:25):
women ain't the most strongest women in the world. Considering
that we lost our kids, considering we came over here,
we were sexually assaulted, considering the fact that we had
babies by some of the most wealthiest men that they
will never to this day ever acknowledge. That's not Let's
not even talk about the fact that we still don't
know Thomas Jefferson's kids that he had by Sarah. How

(37:49):
some of these presidents have have kids that are biracial
that we ain't never gonna know about. We ain't never
gonna know Abraham Lincoln's biology kids thought it happened to
be biracial. So at the end of the day, uh uh,
that's how that works. So black women have had to

(38:12):
deal with being single mothers longer than in this country.
No matter what we go through, and we can lose
it all, but guess what, Black women will figure out
how to get back. We are some of the most

(38:33):
resilient women in the whole entire world, but we don't
get the credit that we deserve. We will sit up
here and hold black men down no matter how we
are being treated. But black women are not allowed to
or are not allowed to be feminine. We are not

(38:53):
allowed to be weak because we can't because every time
we think we can break down our defenses. Every time
we think we can be vulnerable, we are being attacked
not only by other black women, but black men and
every other race of men and women. So when I

(39:14):
see black women with other races of men, I can't
be mad at it. Mad at it for what if
black men don't want you to find love where you
feel you can find it at So it's important that
black women understand what your power is. You don't have
to accept with these black men that don't got no money,

(39:38):
these black men that are not on the level of
some of these other race of men, because I don't
hear none of these dudes in the industry talking about
black women the way these dudes are that don't got
no job. And y'all up here arguing with these men,
were they the ones telling you they wanted you in

(40:01):
the sex industry. Let's let's get into the let's get
into it. Caucasian women would prostitutes, groupies and all of
this before black women. It was Caucasian women when the
first one doing three sums and everything else under the sun,
before black women even got involved. A Caucasian woman, even
if she is a serial dater, even if she is

(40:24):
doing a bunch of one nice stands and doing whatever.
She's still gonna get married. She can be a heavy
set woman and she's still get married. Regardless, she's gonna
get married. Black women, that ain't the case with you.
I need you all to stop lying, because there's gonna

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be a lot of Black women that are gonna be
single because they got flaws and imperfections and they're just
not perfect. Okay, It's gonna be a lot of women
that all they won't is to be married. All they
won't is have feeling. All they won't is to be
in a relationship. Probably means these men don't want them,

(41:10):
they want no parts to them, And y'all keep telling them, oh,
if you do this, you know it's gonna be the
same result. There will be women that probably will never
get married. And that's just the way it is. They
gonna be women that's probably gonna be virgins the rest
of their life. So at the end of the day,

(41:34):
if black women really knew their power, a lot of
y'all will not be doing the stuff you doing because
you will keep your standards. You don't understand the power
of standards, the power of you saying I'm not having
sex to a marriage, and that is a non negotiable.
I'm not gonna date a man that I got the

(41:56):
I gotta come to where he is and bring me.
I'm not dealing with a man that I don't have
dreams and goals and he's telling me, oh, no, you
just need to stay home and take care of kid.
Absolutely not. I have dreams, I have goals. I want
to see the world. I don't want kids in my twenties.

(42:18):
I don't want kids until I'm thirty five. I don't
want no. I just want to and that's it. I'm
not worried about my biological clock ticking. I want to
live my life. I want to live my truth. That
is a non negotiable. I want to travel. I want
to see a world, see the world, non negotiable. I'm
not giving up my business for you, non negotiable. I'm

(42:41):
not giving up everything I worked hard for before I
met you. Non negotiable. If you got insecurity issues, can't
deal with you, non negotiable. If we're not evenly yoked,
if we're not fifty to fifty, non negotiable. Because you
are not leading me nowhere, and you not gonna sit
up let me tell you why I will never let

(43:01):
a man not not pay all the bills. I'm not
doing it. Why because I live in his house too.
If that man lose his job, at least I know
I can step up and pay them bills. I'm not
going down. I'm sorry, I'm just not. I'm not going
to be homeless. He might be, but I ain't. So

(43:24):
at the end of the day, I have no problem
paying half the bills, half the bills, half the decisions.
Because not every man can lead, not every man can
be a businessman. Not every man wants to be a billionaire.
Not every man want to do what's right. And sometimes
women are better than paying bills than men. Women can
run a household better than men. There are men that

(43:46):
can cook better than women. There are men that can
clean better than women. So when the gay community came, now,
let me let me bring this down where everything now,
why there's no mailing female roles, no more the gay community,
lesbian community. That's why there's no more gender roles. So

(44:09):
now ain't it ain't no longer a male's job and
a female's job is whoever is the best one at
It ain't no more of that because you have two
men and two women having kids and raising kids. At
this point, ain't no more, none of that. They have
proven I don't need to have sex with you to
have a baby. I can always adopt if I can't

(44:35):
have kids, and I'm okay with that. I had one one,
that's it, won't have it no more. I wasn't about
to be a multi baby mama, especially after what I
went through, no that experience. I was never not having
another baby less I was married. I put that in
God's hands, in God's saw to that, because I can't

(44:58):
have no more kids. That's it, that's all. He's my everything,
he's my joy, my he's my everything. So my son's
father gave me a beautiful son, and I'm happy about that.
So at the end of the day, No, some of
us know, we did not make that mistake. Twice we

(45:18):
had one, and it was not because we were irresponsible.
Kandam got stuck. That's how I got pregnant. Was never
our intention to be pregnant. I was never somebody that
was not careful. And even when I tried to have
a second one that didn't work out, I'm okay with
that because God said you ain't married. I'm not giving
you anohing back. So you said you said you didn't

(45:40):
want no more until you were married, Okay, I stuck
with that, honey. There are women out here that had
been taking care of grown men like they mama for
quite some time. There are a lot of women that
if a man walk out, should be just fine because
she can pay the bills by herself. There are a

(46:01):
lot of women there is a reason why they will
never give up nothing. Why cause if you leave me,
I'm not being stuck with nothing. I want them female.
I just want my name, and you take care of
your kids. I don't care if you don't take care
of me. I want you to take care of your children.
I see a bunch of women out here homeless with

(46:22):
their kids and the baby daddy won't even take. The
kids won't even take. What's worse is it's so many
women so scared to be alone that they are willing
to bring a man into their house and that pretty
much wants their daughter. You know how many men date
women just to get you your daughter. They because they
want your daughter cause they are pedophiles. You got to

(46:48):
understand when you have kids, guess what you can't there
as a woman. I hate to say that, but you can't.
Why because you have to protect your daughters. In particular.
I don't want to have men in there with your
sixteen year old daughter. Absolutely not. That's why I said
I would if I was with somebody. Number one, we

(47:09):
would not be living in the same house. Number two,
he would not be spending night at my house, not
till she's eighteen, and not the house. So when you
are a mother, you're not supposed to be having another
man living in your house while your children are at
the house. You made a choice to have these kids.

(47:30):
So let me say something that I want women to understand.
There's a difference between women that have chosen a man
and a woman that accepts a man. There's a huge
difference here. A woman that choose a man is a
woman that is chasing a man Minie, She's chasing Chris Brown,
She's chasing groupies, sex workers, Instagram models. These are women

(47:57):
that are chasing after these men, so they've chose them.
A woman that accepts a man is a man that
walks up to her, introduced himself. They have a conversation,
exchange phone numbers, and after getting to know him, she
decides to accept him and decides to be in a
relationship with him. So there's the difference between a woman

(48:20):
that chose somebody and a woman that actually accepted the person.
They didn't choose him because that person chose them. They
just accepted that person. Problem is that some of these
people don't know the definition of that. So I'm gonna
show y'all this video. I gotta find out where I
put it at. Hold on, that's about food. I got

(48:43):
all these YouTube channels up, so I to make sure
I know which one it is. Okay, I'm trying to
find the video. It was just about the Okay, here
it is. Okay, I'm gonna play this video about meet

(49:05):
the most dangerous queens in African history, just to give
you an idea of what it being a African queen represents,
and then playing the other video of the thirteen queens
that y'all don't know about in your history y'all should
have been paying attention to history class. But I'm gonna

(49:27):
give you a history lesson on some of the most
dominant queens in African history that were some of the
most phenomenal women. And not only were they phenomenal, they
were also strong, and they were warriors, and they fought
alongside their soldiers in battle, and they were better than
their brothers were. So if you really want to know

(49:49):
the powerful woman is one of these women, if not
multiple of them, I'm gonna describe you. Maybe by showing this,
women will see and hear what their true power is.
Y'all think a lot of y'all have any idea what
your power is. And it's not what's between your legs,
that's part of it, but a lot of but a

(50:11):
lot of y'all don't even know how to use that correctly.
You can be the most unattractive woman and still get
a Chris Brown and a Trey songs. Like I said,
a lot of y'all don't understand what sexuality and sensuality
is and that you don't have to do anything to

(50:34):
be sexual. You don't. You ain't gotta do nothing to
be sential. You ain't got to do nothing to get
men to won't you. You ain't got to do all that.
Y'all be doing too much. So I'm gonna share my
screen and don't play this video because I you know,
I feel like y'all need to see it. And then
we'll go from there. So I I mean, I'm gonna

(50:56):
I might pop in periodically, but I'm a mute my
I'm a mute myself because I don't want it echoing.
And then I'll be back in a minute. Let me
make sure I'll make a disclaim. The video that I'm

(51:17):
using is for educational purpose only, to educate Black women
on the history of African women that were queens and
showing them that there are more than just being baby
mammals and more than just being women chasing behind men
and being housewives. So I'm using these videos for educational

(51:41):
purposes only. Okay, I'll be back now.

Speaker 2 (51:51):
Throughout African history, women have played hugely significant roles in
the story of the continent and how it's evolved. Whatever
unite vast ladies, feminists, women, right activists, dictators. These African
queens and warriors led men to war, ruled kingdoms, and
called the shots.

Speaker 3 (52:13):
Throughout the ages, some women have managed to dominate in
a man's world. They gained unprecedented power, riches, and glory,
which made them respectable rulers of the land. These powerful
figures had significant influence over the affairs of the kingdom.
They led the kingdom with precision, creating a dynamic environment

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for the common folk. But every ruler has their own
story to tell. Let's take a look at some of
the most powerful queens in African history. Number one Queen
hat Shepsuit Ancient Egypt rule fifteen oh seven BCE to
fourteen fifty eight BCE. Hot Shepsuit was the first female
pharaoh to rule Egypt as a principal monarch. At first,

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she was the regent to the young Thutmost the third,
but she carried out a remarkable power play which landed
her at the throne. She held the seat for twenty years.
During her reign, the land prospered. She renewed trade with
the Aegean islands to the north, western Asia to the east,
and punt to the south. She undertook massive architectural projects,
including the obelisks at Jesujesuru, which was her mortuary temple,

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and at Karnak. Many historians consider hat Shepsud to be
one of Kimmit's most successful pharaohs. Queen Nefertidi Ancient Egypt
ruled thirteen fifty three PCE to thirteen thirty six PCE.
Some historians estimate that Nephertidi might have acted as her
husband's co ruler instead of his consort. She played a

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key role in religion alongside King Aknatan. Nephertidi is known
for changing the traditional polytheistic religion in Egypt to a
monotheistic one by the fifth regnal year of Aknaton and
became the main national god. This change was most likely
meant to give Nefertiti more pan power within the official She,
without a doubt, remained some of the most influential queens

(54:05):
in ancient Egypt. Number three Queen Amana of Zaria rule
fifteen seventy six to sixteen ten, also known as the
Warrior Queen. Amana, Queen of Zaria, was the first woman
to become queen in a male dominated society. She remained
at the seat of power for thirty four years and
managed to expand her kingdom through conquests. She also opened

(54:26):
up valuable trade routes, which brought prosperity to the land.
Under her rule, the kingdom controlled more territory than any
other ruler before. To protect and mark her land, Amana
used earthen walls to surround her cities. These walls became
common until the British conquest of Zaria in nineteen oh four.
Here's an interesting legend. It is said that in every

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town she went, Amana took a new lover, but every
single one of them would meet a terrible fate. The
next morning they would be beheaded, so that no one
would survive to tell the tale. Number four Queen Kunduki
the montere The Kingdom of Cush rule forty BCE to
ten BCE. In thirty BCE, Caesar Augustus conquered Egypt. Right

(55:09):
after his triumphant victory, the Roman emperor focused his attention
on the Kingdom of Cush, but Condecae Monorinus was ready.
She led her army against the Romans in a war
that lasted for three years. It is because of the
Kushite army that the southward expansion of Rome came to
a halt. After the first battle, the Kushite army took

(55:29):
three Roman cities and many Roman captives. They also destroyed
a number of monuments dedicated to Caesar Augustus. Rome continued
to fight. It reclaimed some of its lost cities and
targeted kush But the queen never faltered. Despite losing an eye,
she healed and returned to battle. During the Meroitic War,
Queen Kundickee lost her son. In twenty two BCE, Cush

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and Rome agreed to a peace treaty. This meant that
the Kushites would keep their territories. The Romans also took
their army out of Egypt. Compared to the other nations
near its borders, the Kingdom of kush didn't send any
resources or paid tribute to Rome.

Speaker 1 (56:05):
For anyone who has developed a brain or spinal tumor
after using birth control shots, this is number five.

Speaker 3 (56:12):
Queen Makeda Ethiopia rule tenth century BCE. The Ethiopian Makeda,
also known as the Queen of Sheba, is a mysterious
and majestic ruler. Not much is known about her, but
based on the references in the Hebrew Bible and later
in the Islamic Koran, experts estimate she was referred to
as a rich, gorgeous, and intellectual queen. During her reign,

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there was someone who caught her attention. King Solomon had
a great reputation in the ancient world as the wisest
of all kings. Makida had long heard of his wisdom
and longed to visit him. She assembled a large retinue
carrying gifts to pay homage to the great King. The
queen received a warm welcome and tested his knowledge with
a wide range of riddles in questions. The Old Testaments

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claimed that Makeida was impressed with Psalomon kingdom and his intellect.
They may or may not have had an affair, but
the royal family of Ethiopia does claim a lineage that
traces back to King Solomon Number six. Queen ya Asantowa
Ashanti Empire rule eighteen eighties. Ya Asantowa was the queen
mother of the Ashanti Empire at the start of the

(57:19):
twentieth century. She remains a powerful symbol today. Before earning
the title Queen Mother in the eighteen eighties, she was
a skilled farmer. Some believed she was chosen as the
main adviser to the king because of matrilineal aspect of
the Ashanti culture. Her older brother was a strong ruler
at the time, which might have paved the way for
her to be appointed to this role. Nevertheless, she held

(57:41):
the second highest position in the Ashanti Empire. Throughout her life.
Assanti Wa saw a number of life changing events. The
Civil War from eighteen eighty three to eighteen eighty eight
posed a severe threat to the Ashanti Empire. Her grandson,
whom she nominated as the next Adjisu Heni, was exiled
by the British, which led her to become the regent
of the ajsu Juaban District. Assanti Wa was dedicated to

(58:05):
protecting the sacred symbol of the Ashanti known as the
Golden stool. Ya Santawa participated in secret meetings against the
British and reminded the people of the bravery of the Asante.
Her inspiring, courageous and impressive words led to the Ashanti uprising.
Ya Santoa was elected as the only and first woman
war leader in Asanti history. She led five thousand warriors

(58:28):
and bravely fought against the British invaders. Number seven Queen
Nandi Zulu Kingdom rule eighteen sixteen to eighteen twenty seven.
Queen Nandi of the Zulu Kingdom was a powerful figure
with a complex history. She had a remarkable legacy intertwined
with that of her son Shahkazulu. Those who didn't cry
at her funeral were most likely executed. A heroine overcame

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the animosity and rejection of her people. She dedicated her
entire life to her children and opened the path for
her son, King Shahkazulu, to transform and reshape the Zulu
kingdom into one of the most formidable civilizations. Nandi had
an affair with Sinza Kakona kaJama, the king of the Zulu,
and was impregnated out of wedlock. Sinza Gakona tried denying

(59:12):
paternity a number of times, but had to eventually marry Nandi.
She was highly shamed and placed in the lowly position
of a third wife. Shaka and Nandi were consistently bullied
and tormented, which is why she took her son and fled.
Over time, she taught her son values and molded him
into one of the greatest kings. After the death of
Sinza Gakona, Shaka was compelled to return to the tribe

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and reclaim his throne. After all those years, he still
remembered how the tribe treated him and his mother, so
he appointed Nandi as the Queen of Zulu and his
personal adviser. He held his mother in high regard and
never married. Together, they expanded the kingdom and fought slave traders.
Number eight Queen and Zinga of Nandango and Matamba rule

(59:56):
Bendongo sixteen twenty four to sixteen sixty three and Matamba
sixteen thirty one to sixteen sixty three. And Zinga was
a powerful woman and an exceptional leader. She distinguished herself
through espionage and military tactics, which helped her form numerous
strategic alliances and gather knowledge of religious problems and trade.

(01:00:17):
These efforts helped her resist the aspirations of Portugal's colonialists.
In Zinga inherited the throne of Indongo. During this period,
the kingdom was under attack from neighboring aggressors and the Portuguese,
so in Zinga made this strategic decision to reposition her
land as an intermediary instead of a supply zone in

(01:00:37):
the slave trade. She formed an alliance with Portugal and
ended the Portuguese slave raiding in the kingdom. But in
sixteen twenty six, Portugal betrayed in Dongo and the queen
fled with her people to the west. Here, they founded
a new state called Matamba. To strengthen her forces, the
queen invited sanctuary to run away slaves and soldiers. She
then formed a military organization called Colombo Training the youth

(01:01:00):
to fight against the Portuguese. She instigated a rebellion in Nindongo,
but failed to drive out the Portuguese from the region. Nevertheless,
by the time of her death, Matambo was a remarkable
commercial state that fought with the Portuguese on equal ground.
Number nine Queen Moremi elay Efe Kingdom, Nigeria Rule, twelfth century.

(01:01:22):
Queen Moremi was a full heroine in a legendary Eruba queen.
She helped liberate her kingdom from the Ugbo Kingdom. She
was a gorgeous and brave woman. During the twelfth century,
her homeland was constantly raided by its neighboring tribe. During
a siege, she offered herself to be captured by the
raiders and taken as a slave. Because of her beauty,
the Igbo ruler took her as his queen consort. She

(01:01:45):
learned the secrets of her husband's army and escaped to
ilay Efe. She then revealed her intel, which the Yorubas
used to defeat the Ugbo kingdom in battle. Ali and
Anna seemed so perfect.

Speaker 1 (01:01:58):
What people didn't know was she was screaming for help.
He am you want to scream for as sa come
looking for something, but while I'm looking for what I'm
looking for, I want people to understand that this is
why history is so important and why black people need

(01:02:22):
to look outside of the United States to learn your history.
Then you'll understand how we ended up where we're at
because we were a great nation and we allow people
into our territories and they took over and they have
stole things and we still ain't got the money from

(01:02:42):
all of the things that were stolen. And that right
there shows you who we are. We are not people
that attack other race of people. We might destroy each other,
but we will not destroy other people. That's one thing
we will not do. We will not destroy another race
of people, but we will destroy ourselves, which is the

(01:03:05):
reason why. Yeah. True, but it's important that we know
our history as black women, because we are queens. We

(01:03:25):
are rulers. We're rulers of our own castles. Whether it's
Section eight, whether you buy a house, whether you're successful,
you're still a queen. And you gotta represent yourselves as
the queens that you are, because, like I said, if
a lot of people really knew that.

Speaker 4 (01:03:45):
My grandmother and great grandmother and all of them went
through you have no idea had to endure, but it
was terrible.

Speaker 1 (01:03:58):
So I'm just looking at I'm going through something real quick.
But i just want people to understand that it's not easy.
But there's a video that shows about breeding and about
what black women went through during the breeding stage, when

(01:04:20):
Black women were forced to have sex to breed new slaves.
This is stuff that needs to be addressed because Black
women need to understand what it was like. My grandmother,
my great grandmother, my mother, and the women before. They
would never want us to be like this. They would
never want us to be promiscuous. They would never want

(01:04:43):
us dressing and acting the way that we do. They
would never want that for us. If anything, they would
want us to be independent, self sufficient, and dominant and
dressing in a way that is sophisticated, classy, elegant, and
also modest. I'm all for sexual empowerment with your husband,

(01:05:06):
with your husband, but the problem is for a woman,
every time she thinks she can get comfortable with a man,
he ends up hurting her. So Black women have never
been able to be comfortable when it comes to men.
And even though we try to get our power back
when it comes to sex, after being sexually assaulted. The

(01:05:27):
damage is still there. So black men want to know
why Black women have so much anger. I'm gonna tell
you why. Because Black women were forced to have to
have sex with our with our the people that had
us a slave slavery, and y'all had to sit there
and watch and were forced to be single fathers. See

(01:05:49):
now it makes sense. It took me a while to
figure this out. I know why black men have an
issue with single mothers because during slavery, black men were
forced to have to raise a Caucasians the B word child.

(01:06:10):
Yeah that part, and I don't think black men have
ever let that go. And I really believe the reason
why black men hate Black women so much is because
of that, because the fact that they had to be
with women they didn't really want to be with women
that were soiled goods because they were forced into having

(01:06:33):
sex with massa and creating kids, and they had to
raise them if they looked like they were black. Oh, okay,
we get it now. So there's a lot of things
y'all ain't paying attention to that all stems from slavery.

(01:06:55):
So black women when it comes to sex, for y'all,
I need y'all to be honest about something. You don't
enjoy sex like most women do, and that is why
we've been wearing a scarlet letter for God for thinking
so long we have sex against our will because this

(01:07:15):
is what we have programmed to do, and it has
passed down from generation to generation to generation to generation.
Black women are not allowed to keep their virginity. Black
women are not allowed to have sex when we choose to.
We're always being forced into having sex or manipulated into

(01:07:36):
having sex. And that's why most Black women don't really
enjoy sex. And I want you all to stop lying
about that you do not enjoy sex the way you
think you do, because I promise you, if you knew
the history of history that my grandmother and all of
them told me, you look at sex very differently, very

(01:08:01):
very differently. So again, I want people to understand that
it's time for y'all to put these crowns on your
heads and do what you need to do to take
care of yours and protect yours. Is raising kids by
yourself easy? Absolutely not. It's hard. It's not easy at all.

(01:08:26):
But are we gonna step in and do what we
need to do? Absolutely? But who I got it. Who
I do got an issue with is this new generation
of women because they are leaving their kids and going
to the clubs and doing all this other stuff, and
and and leaving and doing all this stuff to their
kids because they're no longer with the baby daddy. That's

(01:08:49):
who I got an issue with women that giving their
kids up and put them up for adoption given to somebody.
That every woman is ready to be a mother. And
the sad part about it is when you do have
children all of a sudden, when basically have your freedom.

(01:09:09):
When you had the freedom, you would be dealing with
another child, which is a man. You was worried about
a man and everybody else somebody said jump you see
how high? And now you mad because your kids ain't
gonna let you go out to the club every weekend. Okay,
So I found this video and I found it very fascinating,

(01:09:32):
and I'm gonna show it to y'all. If this video
does get blocked, I don't know, tell y'all least y'all
seen it before it get blocked, I hope. But let's
continue because I want to show this because I want
to show what breeding was like when it came to
women and having sex. Think y'all need to see this,
So give me a second, and I'm going to mute

(01:09:55):
myself so that way y'all can hear it without the echoing.
I reckon man.

Speaker 3 (01:10:09):
The topic of slave breeding is a sensitive and complex one,
as it involves the coerced reproduction of enslaved individuals during
the era of American slavery. While the historical understanding of
this topic has evolved over time, in this video, you'll
discover ten lesser known, harrowing facts that shed light on
certain aspects of slave breeding in America. Before we delve
into the history of the dark and deeply troubling practice

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of slave breeding in America, I think you should know
what slave breeding means. Slave breeding was a slave multiplication
agenda implemented by slave owners through forced sexual relations between
male and female slaves and between slave owners and those
female slaves. This sexual relationship was solely intended to reproduce
slave children as essential stock for trade. The practice was

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prevalent in Southern sex farms and slave breeding farms after
the abolition in the early nineteenth century. Unfortunately, these are
slave facts that schools have failed to teach over the years,
So that's exactly what we're going to cover in this documentary.
Let's get into it. The movement to abolish slavery in
America gained strength from the eighteen thirties to the eighteen sixties,

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led by free black people such as Frederick Douglas and
Harriet Tubman, and white supporters such as William Lloyd Garrison,
founder of the radical newspaper The Liberator, and Harriet Beecher Stowe,
who published the best selling anti slavery novel Uncle Tom's Cabin.
A prohibition on the importation of slaves into the United
States after eighteen o eight limited the supply of slaves
in the United States, so slave owners created the slave

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breeding program to ensure they didn't run out of labor.
What you're about to learn may be uncomfortable, but they
were the realities slaves who were subjected to the most
inhumane forms of oppression. So, starting with fact number one,
number one, slave breeding was a practice employed by some
slaveholders with the intention of increasing their enslaved labor force.
Enslaved individuals were forced to reproduce to produce more enslaved

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people who could be used as laborers. Slave owners slaved
individuals as valuable assets and sought to expand their workforce
by encouraging or coercing their slaves to have children. The
offspring of these slaves would become property and contribute to
the slaveholder's economic interests. This practice was prevalent, particularly in
the Southern States. Enslaved women in particular, were seen as

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valuable commodities, the reproductive capabilities explitted to fulfill the economic
interests of their owners. To understand the lived experiences of
these women, we turn to various historical accounts, including testimonies
from enslaved individuals themselves. Although a lot of evidence has
been buried and some destroyed, we can draw upon broader
narratives and personal testimonies to grasp the impact of this practice.

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Frederick Douglas, a prominent abolitionist and former enslaved person, provides
insight into this disturbing reality. In his narrative, he vividly
describes the harsh circumstances faced by enslaved women, recounting their
exploitation as breeding machines. In his words, I have often
been weakened at the dawn of day by the most
heart renting shrieks of an owner antipline, whom he used

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to tie up to a joist and whip upon her
naked back, so she was literally covered with blood. No words,
no tears, no prayers. From his gory victim seemed to
move his iron heart from its bloody purpose. The latter
she screamed, the harder he whipped, and where the blood
ran fastest, there he whipped longest. Testimonies like Douglas's shed

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light on the brutal treatment endured by Enslaved women were
subjected to forced breeding. They were often separated from their
partners and forced them to unwanted sexual relationships with several
men to bear children for their owner's economic gain.

Speaker 1 (01:13:40):
What does that sound like in today's society? As far
as black women having all these babies, y'all sit up
here and you have sess with these men, no differently
than back then. And the fact that black women were
taken from their husbands or their significant soon to be
some other and forced to have sex with multiple men.

(01:14:05):
And you mean to tell me this younger generation don't
know about this, They don't know nothing about this history,
because I certainly did. I knew about this a long
time ago. So again, the strength of black women, y'all
have no idea what the strength of a black woman
is to have to endure being forced to have sex

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with a man that you don't love, being force to
have sex just to have children. The only difference is
you're still doing it in twenty twenty four. Because these
women didn't know who their baby daddies were, and these
men were forced to basically raise single raised kids that

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weren't theirs. So if you want to know why men
are saying this now, is for that exact reason. That's
why Black women got to stop being single mothers and
stop thinking you can be promiscuous, because you are disrespecting
all these women that were forced to have sex with
men they never wanted to have sex with in the

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first place. So I think some of y'all might want
to thank your perspect for perception when it comes to
men and when it comes to how you want to
be treated. But let's continue.

Speaker 3 (01:15:37):
Furthermore. Historical documents provide additional evidence of this dehumanizing practice.
For instance, plantation records and advertisements for the sale of
enslaved individuals frequently mention their reproductive capabilities as a selling point.
These documents demonstrate how the institution of slavery reduce women
to objects solely valued for their reproductive abilities. Another compelling

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testimony comes from Harriet Jacobs, an enslaved woman who authored
an autobiography, Incidents in the Life of a Slave Girl.
In her powerful narrative, Jacobs recounts her experience of being
sexually exploited and coerced into bearing children. She writes, no one.

Speaker 2 (01:16:13):
Seems to know this, but Amazon actually has a fifty
million dollar fund that they have to pay.

Speaker 3 (01:16:18):
I knew nothing would enrage doctor Flint so much as
to know that I favored another. I had a woman's
pride and a mother's love for my children, and I
resolved that out of the darkness of this hour, a
brighter dawn should rise for them. These testimonies and historical
documents serve as a haunting reminder of the deep rooted
horrors of slave breeding. Fact number two. The slave breeding
industry was more prevalent in the Southern states of the

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United States, where a large scale plantation agriculture was the
primary economic system. The demand for labor on these plantations
cultivating crops such as cotton, tobacco, and rice was insatiable.
The Southern States boasted vast plantations that require significant numbers
of enslaved laborers to toil in the fields. This demand
fueled the prevalence of the slave breeding industry in this region.

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The uncomfortable truth is enslaved Africans formed the backbone of
the Southern plantation economy. They were forced to endure grueling
labor under oppressive conditions, working from dawn till dusk. To
sustain its labor force, slaveholders turned to slave breeding. Historical
records and documents offer insight into the widespread nature of
the slave breeding industry in the South. Accounts of slave

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auctions and advertisements for selling enslaved individuals often referenced to
their breeding capabilities as a significant selling point. For instance,
an advertisement from some of the Southern newspapers in the
eighteenth century could read something like an excellent breeding woman
aged twenty five with four young children. Plantation owners selectively
paired and slaved individuals based on perceived physical attributes or

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skills to produce offspring suited for specific tasks or trades.
This relentless pursuit of profit came out a significant cost
to enslaved families. The breeding industry frequently resulted in the
separation of spouses and children, as slave owners prioritized their
economic interests over preserving familial bonds. The deep entrenchment of
the slave breeding industry in the Southern States perpetuated a

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system of human bondage and dehumanization. The economic imperative of
maximizing enslaved labor drove this cruel practice Fact number three.
Slave owners saw their slaves as valuable property and sought
to maximize their investment by increasing the slave numbers through
forced breeding. This dehumanizing perspective reduced human beings to mere commodities.
Slave owners considered enslaved individuals as capital assets, treating them

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no differently than other forms of property, and sometimes as animals.
Their primary concern was to expand their wealth and aperflores,
often at the expense of the physical and emotional well
being of the enslaved. Insights into the mindset of slave
owners can be found in diaries and accounts from the time.
They revealed the callous manner in which enslaved people were
regarded and exploited. Enslaved women were particularly targeted for forced

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breeding due to their reproductive capabilities. They were not only
subjected to forced relationships, but also endured extreme sexual abuse
at the head hands of their owners. One notorious case
that highlights this extreme sexual abuse is a relationship between
Thomas Jefferson, the former president of the United States, and
Sally Hemmings, is slave. It is widely believed that Jefferson
fathered several children with Hemings, but never acknowledged them as

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his children. Another distressing example is the case of Celia,
an enslaved woman in Missouri, and her owner, Robert Newsom.
Celia was repeatedly sexually assaulted by Newsom, which eventually led
her to defend herself, resulting in his death. Despite the circumstances,
Celia was still regarded as property and was convicted and
executed for the act. Celia killed Robert Newsom by accident

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and self defense to stop Newsom from bring her, which
was a controversial argument at the time. She was ultimately
executed by hanging following a denied appeal in December eighteen
fifty one. Testimonies from formerly enslaved women provide first hand
accounts of the extreme sexual abuse they endured. The pursuit
of profit through forced breeding emphasized how slave owners viewed
them solely as investments rather than human beings, and slave

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people were frequently bought and sold based on their re
productive capabilities. Fact number four. Enslaved men were also vulnerable
to being used for breeding purposes. They were often selected
based on their physical attributes and health. While the focus
of slave breeding often centers on enslaved women, it is
important to acknowledge that enslaved men also faced vulnerability and
being used for slave breeding purposes. They too were subjected

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to the exploitation of their bodies and treated as commodities
within the system of slavery. Enslaved men were often assessed
based on physical attributes and health to determine their suitability
for breeding. Like enslaved women, they were objectified and evaluated
solely for their reproductive potential. On plantations, slave owners would
select certain enslaved men who exhibited desirable traits toug just strength, endurance,

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and physical stature. These men were then paired with enslaved
women being suitable for breeding, with the intention of producing
offspring who would contribute to the labour force and increase
the wealth of the slaveholder. They were often referred to
as studs or breeding stoff reducing their humanity to mere
breeding tools. While specific testimonies from enslaved men regarding their
experience as breeding subjects may be limited. The writings of

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formerly enslaved individuals shed light on their vulnerability and their narratives.
They discuss the dehumanizing treatment in the physical and emotional
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you more high level documentaries. Fact number five. Some plantation
owners often rewarded enslaved men who can impregnate the most women.
It is believed that slave masters and symptivize the ability
to impregnate the most slave women. This sounds crazy, but

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it was the reality of these men. The dehumanizing and
exploitation within the institution of slavery extended to a disturbing practice.
Or some plantation owners insymptivized and rewarded enslaved men who
can impregnate the most women. Enslaved men who were successful
in impregnating moremultiple women became objects of admiration and envy
within the enslaved community. However, this so called reward system

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further perpetuated the dehumanizing and objectification of enslaved individuals, reducing
them to mere breeding machines. Thomas Nicholson, an enslaved man
owned by John Randolph of Virginia, was another individual who
was rumored to have been rewarded for his ability to
father children with multiple enslaved women on the Randolph plantation.
His role as a breeding stud earned him certain privileges

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and as somewhat elevated status compared to other enslaved individuals.
Another disturbing example of this practice is the case of
one wealthy South Carolina plantation owner, James Hammond. In his diary,
Hammond detailed how he bred enslaved people for profit and
offered rewards to the enslaved men who could impregnate the
most women, adding that it was a great stimulus for them.
Some of these rewards include extra food, improved work conditions,

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and better clothes. Despite these special privileges, these men were
still subjected to the brutal conditions of slavery. These stories
highlight the twisted mindset of slaveholders, who saw the exploitation
of enslaved bodies as a means to increase their wealth
and power. Fact number six. Slave breeding often involved the
strategic sale and purchase of enslaved individuals. Slaveholders would buy
or sell enslaved people based on the reproductive capabilities or

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the potential value of their offspring. The institution of slave
breeding was not only marked by the forced reproduction of
enslaved individuals and brutal sexual exploitation of enslaved people, but
also by the strategic sale and purchase of new breeds
of enslaved people. And the context of slave breeding, enslaved
people were bought and sold based on their reproductive capabilities
or the potential value of their offspring. Slaveholders meticulously assessed

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enslaved individuals, examining their physical attributes, health, and perceived fertility.
Enslaved women were often scrutinized for their age, physical strength,
and ability to bear children, while enslaved men were evaluated
for their physical prowess and reproductive potential. Enslaved women were
then made to breed with enslaved men who were not
their husbands or partners. The kids were sold as well.

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They were often separated from their mothers and auctioned off
to other plantation owners. Younger enslaved people were often sold
at exorbitant prices because of their potential. Auction advertisements from
the time provide evidence of this strategic buying and selling.
They would highlight the reproductive abilities of enslaved individuals, explicitly
mentioning their capacity to bear children or their existing offspring.

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For slave breeders, the value of an enslaved person was
often tied to their reproductive potential. The strategic sale and
purchase of enslaved individuals had devastating consequences for families. Enslaved
men and women could be forcibly separated and sold to
different owners, instructing the bonds that held them together.

Speaker 1 (01:24:35):
And y'all think that's not happening today in our relationships today,
And y'all wonder why it can't work. Huh, there's your
answer right there, there's your answer. We've been separated as
single parents for a very long time. Women have lost
eight children. That's why I say, we don't know if
we're dating our siblings or whoever, because we were separated.

(01:24:58):
And like I said, we're the only group in history
that don't know our hair entire history. We still don't
know our whole entire history. We don't know what it's
like in France and Scottish and all them other places
where indigenous servants were. We don't know. There's three different
types of slaves, and those are the two I know about.

(01:25:19):
The other one I can't think up off the top
of my head. But yeah, again, this is what black
women had to endure, where African descent women had to endure.
So there you go, and y'all talking about some still
trying to do these other risks of women can do.
You cannot do what these other risks of women can
do because you're a Black woman. And this is what

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black women had to deal with. And that's why when
it comes to black women, y'all think y'all getting y'all
power back by having sex. No, you're not just feed
into a Jezebel spit spirit that you need to leave alone.
Well let's continue, ba back in a minute.

Speaker 3 (01:26:01):
Many formerly enslaved people told the stories of how the
children of enslaved women were sold to other plantations solely
based on their potential to produce valuable offspring. These accounts
are a poignant reminder of how enslaved individuals were treated
as commodities but anseld for their reproductive abilities.

Speaker 1 (01:26:18):
All right, so listen, stave farm was trying to charge
me one hundred and ninety seven dollars for corn charts.
No thank you, I got a friend who.

Speaker 3 (01:26:26):
One example is the story of Margaret Garner. Margaret Garner
was an enslaved African American woman in pre Civil War
America who killed her daughter rather than allowed the child
to be returned to slavery. Garner and her family had
escaped enslavement in January eighteen fifty six by traveling across
the frozen Ohio River in Cincinnati, but they were apprehended
by US marshals acting under the Fugitive Slave Act of

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eighteen fifty Garner's defense attorney, John Jolliffe, moved to have
her tried for murder in Ohio to get a free
trial and challenge the Fugitive Slave law. Historical documents revealed
the cold calculations that government the trade of enslaved individuals.
Slaveholders sought to maximize their economic gains by strategically acquiring
enslaved people who could contribute to the growth of their
labour force through forced breeding Fact number seven. Enslaved individuals

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were often separated from their spouses or children as slaveholders
prioritized their economic interests over maintaining familial bonds. Families were
frequently disrupted through the practice of slave breeding. Enslaved individuals
experienced in measurable pain and trauma as they were forcefully
separated from their loved ones, but their owners were only
moved by their economic interests. The institution of slavery not

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only inflicted physical and emotional suffering on enslaved individuals, but
also tore part families. Driven by their economic interests. Slaveholders
routinely separated and slaved individuals from their spouses their children,
disregarding the profound human toll it exacted. Despite enduring unimaginable hardships,
enslaved families often sought solace in their familial relationships. However,
these fragile bonds were constantly threatened as slaveholders treated them

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as mere property to be sold, bought, and divided up will.
Slave auctions were harrowing events where families were forcefully separated
with spouses and children torn away from one another. The
anguish of those who were sold away from their loved
ones echoed throughout the slaveholding South fact number eight. Some
slaveholders resorted to extreme measures to ensure successful breeding, such
as physically forcing enslaved individuals into sexual relationships. The horrific

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institution of slavery knew no bounds when it came to
controlling and exploiting the bodies of enslaved individuals. Some slave
owners went to extreme links to ensure successful breeding, resorting
to physical coercion, sexual relationships, and sexual violence. Historical accounts
recount instances or enslaved individuals were physically forced into sexual relationships.
These acts of coresion stripped them of their autonomy, dignity,

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and bodily integrity. Acts of sexual exploitation and abuse further
perpetuated the cycle of forced breeding. The profitability of breeding
enslaved people for profit can be seen in the records
of Thomas Thistlewood, a Jamaican plantation owner who kept meticulous
records of the slave breeding practices between seventeen fifty and
seventeen eighty six. This a Wood succeeded in breeding over
three thousand children on his farm, most of which were

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through forced breeding. Thomas kept detailed records of these births,
which would be revealed centuries later. This man saw breeding
slaves as the best way to increase his wealth. Testimonies
from formally enslaved inividuals shed light on the unspeakable horrors
they endured. Other records for count instances where enslaved women
were specifically selected for their perceived attractiveness and forced into

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sexual relationships against their will. During pregnancy, enslaved women worked
in the fields up until childbirth, performing small tasks. Four
weeks appeared to have been the average confinement period or
lying in period for Antebellum slave women following delivery in
the South. As a whole, slaveholders in northern Virginia, however,
usually only permitted an average lying in period of about
two weeks before ordering new mothers back to work. Enslaved individuals,

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both women and men, were subjected to unimaginable trauma and
violated in the most intimate ways. The pursuit of increased
profits through forced breeding left lasting scars on their bodies
and minds. Recognizing the strength and resilience of enslaved women
who endured these acts, of violence is essential Fact number nine.
The children born out of slave breeding faced a lifetime
of enslavement, perpetuating the bondage cycle from one generation to

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the next. The cruel reality of slave breeding extended beyond
the immediate suffering endured by enslaved individuals. The children born
due to forced breeding face to grim fate as well,
Destined to inherit the shackles of slavery from their very birth,
Enslaved children were not granted freedom or a life of
their own. Instead, they became part of the system that
perpetuated the cycle of bondage from one generation to the next.

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They were weaned early and separated from their mothers and
other family members for auctioning. From an early age, these
young souls were subjected to the toil and labor that
characterized the slavery experience. Denied the joys of childhood and
the chance for education or personal growth, they were consigned
to a lifetime of servitude. For such children, life outside
slavery was strange. Despite how harrowing their experiences were. The

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sale of enslaved children was a common occurrence as families
were torn apart and simply separated. The heart reaching scenes
of child. Children being forcibly taken away from their parents
underscore the dehumanization of enslaved individuals and the disregard for
familial ponds. Slave auctions where children were paraded before buyers
were a chilling reminder of the commercialization of human lives.

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Their fate was determined by the highest bidder, perpetuating their
enslavement and further entrenching the cycle of bondage. As these
children grew into adulthood, they inherited the same subjugation in
oppression that plagued their parents. Fact Number ten. Plantation owners
often hired doctors to ensure that pregnant slaves were properly
treated and any medical conditions were handled professionally. While the
institution of slavery was marked by pervasive exploitation and dehumanization,

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some plantation owners recognized the need for medical attention during pregnancy.
They would hire doctors to ensure that pregnant slaves received
proper care and that any medical conditions that arose were
handled professionally. Plantation owners understood that the health and well
being of their enslaved women during pregnancy were crucial for
maintaining a stable slave workforce and producing profitable offspring. They

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recognized that ensuring proper medical care was a means to
protect their economic interests. Historical records provide glimpses into the
hiring of doctors and the attention given to pregnant slaves.
Implantation diaries and correspondence references can be found regarding the
presence of medical professionals on the plantations. These doctors would
examine and provide medical care to pregnant enslaved women, monitoring

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their health and addressing possible complications. They played a role
in ensuring that the women and their unborn children received
the necessary medical attention. A notable example is doctor J.
Marion Sen, who was regarded as the father of modern
gynecology and for his discoveries during anesthetized procedures on pregnant
slaves in the mid eighteen hundreds. While hiring doctors by
plantation owners might seem contradictory within the context of slavery,

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it highlights the recognition that pregnant and slave women required
medical attention. However, it is essential to acknowledge that this
care was often motivated by the desire to maintain a
healthy workforce rather than out of genuine concern for the
well being an autonomy of enslaved individuals. Slavery was officially
abolished in the United States on December eighteenth, eighteen sixty five,
when the Thirteenth Amendment was adopted as part of the

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United States Constitution, but that didn't necessarily improve the conditions
of Black Americans at the time. This documentary was truly
tough to make, but I hope you all took something
from it. The crazy part is we're just scratching the
service on all of this. The video on the screen
shares some more hidden black history that they never taught
us in school. Click on it now to watch. We'll
see you over there.

Speaker 1 (01:33:27):
Well, direga. Now, I wonder what would have happened if
the younger generation got to know all of this. Would
there be a bunch of single mothers? Probably not. Maybe,
So we'll never know at the end of the day.
That's why I want to show these videos. I feel
like it's important that people understand our history and what

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we went through as black women and what we had
to endure. Was it easy being in these situations? Absolutely
not not at all. And there were African queens that

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actually change history, some of them. You've seen some of
them you haven't seen, but I love the facts of
the way they bring these women up in these veels.
But being an African American queen, it's something that you
should be proud of. It should be something that you

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should stand up in pride, because at the end of
the day, like I said, black women are losing their
queendom because y'all want to be hard at suckubits and
sirens and Jezebel spirits. You're trying to follow behind a
culture that isn't even your culture. That's sad part about it.

(01:35:00):
Think you can do what Caucasian women that can do,
but you cannot. You cannot be going out here having
sex with everybody named Mama. It's not gonna work for you.
Even for Caucasian women. It don't apply cause y'all believe
it or not. Caucasian women have been through some things too.
Don't get a twisted They don't been through some things too,
don't don't get twisted. Women women as a whole have

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been through a lot, but not compared to Black women.
All I'm saying is put your put your crown on
your head, and run your nations. Raise your children to
be the best versions of themselves. Don't allow people to
molest your children or sex they assault your children. Make

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sure they have that whatever they're gonna need to survive
in the world, because that is important. But there's more.
There's more, but I have to look for it, cause,
like I said, he did a phenomenal job. Whoever did
the documentary did a phenomenal job when it came to this,
because it wasn't just black women that went through it. It

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was black men that were also forced into this. So
at the end of the day, the problem is that
behavior still goes on in twenty twenty four, and now
you know where it came from. Now you know why
men are abandoning Black women when they get pregnant. That's
because it's programmed behavior. When y'all moved into the ghettos

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and we were forced to live in the ghettos, that's
when all of this changed. That's when all this behavior started.
So I want you all to understand that in order
to be a queen, you gotta be able to step
on your throne. But you also gotta know how to
fight for your throne. Honey, It's not about having a man,
it's about fighting for what's yours. So I'm gonna read

(01:36:46):
that scripture that I saw, and this one is praised
the all knowing God. Now it was one I seen.
D I'm trying to think which one is gonna be

(01:37:11):
hm hmm. I read it because this was actually the scripture,
and it was fourteen. Okay, I'm reading one thirty nine
fourteen fifteen to twenty three. It's as I were, praise THEE.

(01:37:32):
For I am fearful and wonderly made. Marvelous are that works,
and that my soul know it's right? Well. My substance
was not hid from the when I was made in secret,

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the curiosity walked in the lowest part of the earth.
My eyes did see that my substance, yet being unperfect,
and in Thy book all of my members were written,
which in continuance were fashioned, when as yet there are

(01:38:16):
there was none of them. How shall precious? How precious
also are thy thoughts unto me? Oh God, how great
is the sum of them? If I should count them?
They are more than in number than the sands. When

(01:38:38):
I awake, I am still with THEE. Surely thou with
slaves the wicked, Oh God, depart from me. Therefore, ye
bloody man, for they speak against the wicked and thine enemy.
Take thy name in vain. Do not hate them, O Lord,

(01:39:04):
that hate THEE, and I am not, it says, am
I not. I agree with those who rise against THEE.
I hate them with perfect hatred. I count them my enemies.

(01:39:26):
Search me, oh God, and I know my heart. Try
me and you'll know my thoughts, and see that here
are to see if there's any wicked ways in me,
Lead me in the way of everlasting. I didn't read

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the top part because I think it's going to be
another scripture associated with that. So, like I said, let
go of what was and focus on what is is
and what will be. Start. The one thing I say
to men now is I'm celevant and I'm not having
sensul marriage. Is it gonna be a problem for you?

(01:40:09):
If it's gonna be a problem, then the answers, no,
I can't deal with you. Keep pushing. You're eliminating a
lot of things by being able to find out for
yourself what works for you. Because like I said, it
works for some people, they don't work for everybody. That's
the part that a lot of people don't understand. Now,
everybody's supposed to view your videos. Now everybody's gonna be like,

(01:40:30):
oh and watch this video and get some type of
context from it, because they're just not at the end
of the day. So what I will say is dumb wrong.
If you find the love of your life and you
find somebody that's gonna be by all means, go for it.
But for those of y'all who don't, it's okay. If
you don't, you get to work on you into the

(01:40:51):
right people coming to your world. And maybe God is
pulling you away from the world because of craziness that
you are dealing with, who knows. But whatever way, I
want black women to pick up their crowns and sit
on your thrones and not worry about all this other
stuff because it will be all right regardless, it will
be fine because at the end of the day, like

(01:41:12):
I said, I live my life based upon peace, quiet
and tranquility, and that's pretty much how I live my life.
But as a black woman, I were my queen. I
wear my crown every day. I'm a queen and I
represent myself as a queen. So don't get me wrong.
You might see me on here as I am because
God told me to come as I am. God didn't
tell me to come over here with no fake hair,

(01:41:32):
fake nails and all this other stuff. Even though I
got three I gotta take off. But still God made
me as I am, and I love the person that
I am. I love the woman that I am with
or without a man. If it's meant for me to
have a man, I'm not going to go look for it.
God is gonna bring it to me. And don't get
me wrong, I can go on multiple streaming things and

(01:41:54):
go on multiple dating sites put my picture up, but
am I gonna be chasing somebody. I'm not chasing nobody.
All I did was just put up the picture earlier.
If somebody notice it, thing cool. But the only thing
about it, I gotta make sure they're not trying to
capa decapitate me and un alive me. All I gotta
worry about is not being you know, sexely assaulted and

(01:42:16):
all this other stuff. And we should be good. But
these are things that certain people didn't tell people. So
it is what it is. So y'all, I am about
to get me some sleep. I'm tired. I've been tired
of for the past couple of hours, but I wanted
to come on here. Because I wanted to start this

(01:42:38):
documentary about the black history of black women, all the
black women that have achieved so many things, not only
in Africa but all around the world, not yah yah,
and showing black women there what their purpose is. And
it's not to just be married with kids. I can
tell you that much. It's way more than that. It is.

(01:43:00):
So I said, if you find a good person, cool,
But at the end of the day, I'm not gonna
sit there and wait for having a day for me
to find somebody that's not meant for me. Whatever's meant
for me, God would bring it. Don't get me wrong.
The devil will come around as well, but doesn't mean
that I have to entertain it if I don't want to,
if I choose not to. So that's how I feel

(01:43:24):
about that. Like I said, black women, you are beautiful,
You're accomplished. You can do anything you set your mind to.
With or without somebody, you'll be fine. So with that
being said, I am going to go get some sleep.
I appreciate y'all, I love y'all. But I am on
a journey. I am on a journey in all aspects

(01:43:47):
of my life. I'm a journey on my hair, my
flaws and imperfections, emotional, mental, psychological experience. That's where I'm
at right now, y'all just seeing my journey and me
along the way. So that being said, there will be
some changes, there will be some things going on. But
the one thing I'm learning to do is move in silence.

(01:44:09):
The one thing I'm learning is to do things that
I choose do. So what I'm gonna do is get
some sleep. So I appreciate y'all for joining me for

(01:44:31):
this episode. Don't forget to hit the license gribe notification
button then please check it out on my sprinkle dot
com channel. And with that being said, I am going
to go to sleep come time because I'm supposed to
be in sleep. Body just wanted to come on here
and do this video because, like I said, I saw somebody.
I saw Priscilla the Let me see if I can

(01:44:54):
find her video. Give me a sick and me. First
of all, I'm in mute this so I can find
her video. And what means me inspired to do this
video because she did inspire me, she really did. She
really did inspire me to do this video. But I
can't think I just was looking at her video not
too long ago, so gave me a second. I think

(01:45:18):
the name it was is define feminism a destroyer. So
it just depends. So I just wanted to come on
here and pretty much talk about it from that from
a different respective. Like I said, I understood it. I
understand what Pascilla says. I don't always agree with everything
she says, but there are things she says is absolutely

(01:45:39):
make a lot of sense, and this topic was one
of them that I wanted to talk to. I just
didn't want to come off in the same way. Clearly,
there are things I agree with and there are things
I disagree with. So, like I said, you know, sometimes
no matter how much we want to hold onto something,
sometimes we have to let go of what was and
focus on what it is and what will be. That's

(01:46:01):
just it on that. So with that being said, I
appreciate y'all. I love y'all. I'm off the bed. I
will see y'all next time, and until then, we will
talk soon, and next week we will start the journey
of the Jezebel, the Harlot and the succupists and the
siren phase that most people go through. So so with

(01:46:36):
that being said, my head hurts Oh my head hurts.
My head has been killing me O day. I still
gotta take some medicine anyway, So I'm off the bed
because my head is hurt. I always talk to you
later because I gotta get to get a new pair
of glasses, and I put these on there make me
have a headache. And sometimes I have to sit for
a minute just to bit, just to get my thoughts

(01:46:57):
because thatsache. So if Phelis are coming off, I'm going
to go climb in the bed. Hopefully I'll be able
to get uber to mar and go get my glasses. Second,
drive start driving. At the end of the day, I'm
just gonna end it like this here. You can't hold
on the people that don't want to be kept as
letting them go because a lot of people are not
around you for the right reason. They're not there because
they genuinely want to be there. They're there because of

(01:47:20):
what you can do for them. What you got, that's it.
That's all. So all you can do is just sit
back and be patient and be the best version of yourself.
That's it. Focus on yourself and whatever it is it's
meant for you will be given to you. Once you
get on the right path of what you're supposed to
be on versus I'm being on everybody else's path. Focus
on your own path. You don't know how precious your

(01:47:42):
past is until you get to see it. You don't
know what your path gonna be. Sometimes your path, your purpose,
and your journey can be something completely different than what
you normally do. Well, guess what it'd be worth it.
In the end, you figure out what it is.

Speaker 5 (01:47:56):
So so that being said, I'm off the bed, so
I will see y'all next time, and until then we
will talk soon.

Speaker 1 (01:48:10):
Bye y'all. S

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