Alcanzando La Felicidad

Episode Transcript

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Welcome back here to reach happiness.My name is Caesar to Galvis. Another
episode is about situations in daily lifethat make us more useful, more productive
and, as I always say,happier people. This is really the essential

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reason that I can make these videosand that you take them out. I
really provide for you to sit downand spend a few minutes on you and
help me bring more joy to peoplethan in some way, as you interact
with me through videos and social networks. My name is César Galvis. There

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you can find me on Facebook orCesar Galvi one on Instagram. There you
will see my video and with pleasure, because we can share me. You
can write to my email and enjoythese kinds of very useful conversations these days.
Today has been a topic that Ihave been thinking about for a long

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time and is the subject of relationshipsbetween couples. Always at some point,
within my meetings, I' vebeen told by Mira César that you believe
in that situation and I always seethat people. Part of people' s
happiness is that being in company,being able to share, being able to

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deal with everyday life situations with someoneelse. And then, that' s
why today' s topic, howto really get that person you want to
have on your side, right?So I decided to start this topic.
How to get that soul mate,that person you want, that you want

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to share, or that you wantto share with that person. So,
let' s talk about this today. One of the main reasons why you
really don' t find your partnerat some point or are being told hard
is to really think about yourself.When I was analyzing this topic, I

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was watching a few books, watchingmany very good videos. On social networks
related to couples there are good tips. Visit places, see social networks to

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say that you would like to meeta person with certain characteristics, visit places,
make your daily life, in orderto try to find any point to

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find that soul, that person thatyou want to be by your side.
And all the people I heard,because they have very valid points, they
don' t look at me checkout your energy check out, why you
want to get a couple, whereyou want to be, what is the
purpose at last all those situations thatyou' re asking yourself and that I

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at some point also wondered, butI started to think why you keep getting
us so hard to get the couplelook at you. I can say something
to begin with, and this youcan find in any video you find about
couples. How you' re reallythinking and if and you' re feeling

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inwardly, it' s essential.How you feel inside. That should be
the step before you think about yourpartner, before you think about where I
can find a partner, before youstart any situation in your life, how

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I am feeling inwardly and this Italk about and this I say for many
purposes that during the video I willexplain it to you. Second, that
feeling, what makes you think whereI come from, who I am,
because I make certain situations of whatI feel. I have a thought,

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and not just this feeling, tothinking how I act according to that thought.
So that' s three things weneed to keep an eye on.
What I feel, what I thinkand what I do. When you young

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person who is listening to me,person who is listening to me, think
of those three things, believe methat the odds of you getting a couple
are immense. Why, because I' m feeling that I should go somewhere
to enjoy that I do why Ithink about it, because I think that
I enjoy my life finished way andhow I act going to that place.

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And I' m going to giveyou a clear example. If you,
if most people say look, youhave to go to social gatherings, because
there' s going to be morepeople there and there' s a chance
that you' ll find your partner. But if your inner mind disagrees with
that activity. If what you thinkyou know this place is not going with

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you and you act the other wayyou' re feeling, then it'
s almost impossible for you to findyour partner there. Why, because people
who are going to feel that placeare going to find you a boring person,
you are going to a person whois not with the energy of them

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you are going to a person whois not talking then it is not that
you are really like that you arein the place that is not indicated for
what, for you. There aremany people who are fascinated by bars,
discotheques. That' s great.Now that' s the kind of person

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you want to ask yourself now isvery correct. I' m not that
I' m against discotheques or bars, but that' s really the kind
of person you want to look foror or and you want to find someone
else who will end up with yourvalues and with your daily realizations, that

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thought, that desire to do somethingpositive for your life. That' s
where you' re going to findyourself in those places, and that'
s where other people are going toexplore who you are. Second, you
really have to leave the past andnot leave the past because there was no

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past, because you have to startlearning the lessons that maybe at other times
you made certain mistakes, or notcertain mistakes. You had to go through
certain situations to learn. I'm asking you this question. You learned
what lesson he has learned from yourpast. Those are situations you have to

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think about. So, you havea lot of situations in your favor so
you can find your partner. Andwe are then in this moment where we
also have to think about ourselves whatkind of thought impregnates us daily. Who

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am I as a person? Comeback and I' ll tell you again.
Who am I as a person,what is the energy that seizes me?
And I' ll give you anotherexample? I' m going to
exercise, an example. If youare going to walk or go to the
gym to exercise, what is yourinternal motivation. You really want to be

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exercising, you' re going toexercise and if you don' t want
to, really what' s goingto happen to the or other people.
They' re going to notice itin your body, in your body expression
so that inner energy you have isreflecting it towards others. Believe it or

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not. Body language is essential toyour search for another partner. Fashion as
the way you move your hands,your eyes, the way you express your
walk. Whatever inside is invading you, you reflect it in your body so

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look at all these kinds of thingsthat you have to consider in order to
get a partner. When you reallyregret thinking about how I walk as I
have seen myself, what' sthe reason for me to wear a certain

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snack, a certain way, whenI perceive and realize what I' m
doing with my person, c Iassure you, I assure you that your
life with other people will change andthen as you say look. I'

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ve seen myself like this. Ilike such food. I like to go
out. I like staying at myplace. I like being in my house.
All that kind of reflexes makes youlook for a person with certain characteristics
and every day it' s goingto be more specific. So, when
you get the chance, when youget the chance, you go out to

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the supermarket, you go change theoil, the car, you go to
the bank, you go to arestaurant. When you are perceived in a
certain way, a certain way youwill be able to say. I'
m looking for a couple. Thisis what I want and people will perceive
it. Man or woman, peoplewill perceive it. Maybe you don'

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t like it, you can be, maybe others do, but then that
' s what it' s aboutto find a partner. Now, finally,
finally, I' m going totell you something very clearly and ask
this question. Why do you wantto, why do you want to find

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a partner? Ask yourself, whydo you want him to ask maybe a
little silly, but he' snot that silly, because I' m
really going to tell them something yougive yourself up and you want to form
a couple. Not because that coupleis going to give you happiness, they

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' re not going to do itin that couple, that person you want
is going to share with you,they' re going to provide maybe certain
things that you like to do.But really happiness is not in the other
person or in things outside of You. Happiness goes with you, and that

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' s the best way. That' s the best way for you to
share your life with someone else,because they' re going to feel safe,
they' re going to feel loving, they' re going to feel
happy, they' re going tobe progressive, they' re going to
see you successful, they' regoing to see you from a very different

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world, they' re going tosee you safe or secure from yourself.
So, think again because you wanta couple, you want to contribute to
that person' s happiness. Youwant to be part of the other person
' s success. You want toshare that success. You want to give
something to another couple. That's why you' re looking for a
partner. You' re not lookingfor a couple to see. You are

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looking for a partner to share andbe essential in the life of another human
being, because in your life thathappiness is born in you, that security
that you, that you and everyoneelse have. Therefore, I invite you
to reflect on yourselves and to knowthat, compare or without partner, you

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can be a supremely happy person.Welcome back here to reach happiness. My
name is Caesar to Galdi. Behappy.