October 17, 2024 • 38 mins
In this episode of the Aligned & Magnetic Podcast, Lauren discusses how to step into your power as a spiritual entrepreneur by tapping into your intuition and cultivating self-trust.
Here’s what you’ll learn:
Connect with Lauren:
Ready to stop holding yourself back and finally step into your power to make your deepest vision a reality?
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Here’s what you’ll learn:
- Why implementing other people’s business strategies can crush your creative essence and leave you feeling disconnected.
- How to tune into your inner goddess to guide your business decisions, ensuring they align with your unique vision and energy.
- The difference between following someone else’s "proven strategy" versus creating your own intuitive path to success.
- Why balancing masculine (strategic) energy with feminine (intuitive) energy is essential for sustainable business growth.
- Lauren shares her personal journey of trial and error, illustrating how trusting your own voice leads to deeper fulfillment and authentic results.
- How outsourcing your power to mentors and programs can cause you to lose touch with your intuition and how to reclaim it.
Connect with Lauren:
Ready to stop holding yourself back and finally step into your power to make your deepest vision a reality?
Access the Awaken the Goddess Within free Masterclass here: https://coachlaurenashley.com/goddess-within-live-series/
Join the waitlist for Rise Goddess here: https://coachlaurenashley.com/rise-goddess-womens-circle/
DM Lauren on Instagram to learn how she can support you in building a business aligned with your true self: https://www.instagram.com/coachlaurenashley/
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
If you're constantly asking others what you should do, then
you are disconnected from your own internal.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Power, in your own internal truth.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
Welcome to the Aligned and Magnetic Podcast. I'm your host,
Laura Ashley, Intuitive business coach certified by the International Coaching Federation,
and they call me the Money, Mindset and Manifestation Queen.
I take a spiritual and practical approach.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
That's backed by neuroscience to help you make your vision
a reality, but more importantly, doing it.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
In a way that lights you the fuck up.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
If you're ready to create an aligned, magnetic, and profitable
business so you can live a life and do the
work you are absolutely in love with, you're in the
right place. Get ready to hear the powerful questions and
raw lessons that you need to create success your way.
Thank you so much for being here. Let's dive in.
Hey loves, really know where this episode is going to
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go today, but I want to talk about your inner
goddess and how I choose to work with my clients
and how I help them to cultivate confidence, self trust
in the leadership to achieve the results that they desire
their way. Instead of just replicating what everyone else is doing.
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It's so interesting because I don't think that if I said, like,
stop repeating what everyone else is doing, I don't think
you would associate or resonate with that. Because we do
this subconsciously. We look at what other people are doing
and we think, oh, I should do something like that,
or oh maybe I should try this, or maybe I
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should try that. And I think this is a very
normal process. And for people like manifesting generators and generators,
we do respond to what is out there, and that's
good for our energy, except when it is crushing your soul,
except when it is overshadowing your creative essence, except when
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it is overpowering your intuitive nudges. And I know that.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Life can get busy. I know that.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
It can feel overwhelming to run a business, and I
also know that leading your business forward using your intuition
as your number one guide is probably a tool that
you will use for the rest of your life. So
let me tell you a little bit about what I
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see happening and what happened to me too when I
first started my business. So this is it's so prevalent
these days that so many people are downloading or purchasing
these What the fuck it? I'm I'm our multi master
resell rights.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
So in my.
Speaker 1 (03:06):
World, are our is monthly recurring revenue, but it's turned
into this master resell rights thing where you just buy
this thing and then you sell that thing to other
people even though you have no idea what the fuck
you're doing.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
Hey, guys, a welcome to editing day.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
This is what we look like.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
So I'm going through the episode and editing for release,
and I've realized that I hyper fixated on mr R, which, like,
I don't know what was going on for me that day,
but apparently that's what felt like the right thing to do.
And I want to just come in and clarify because
what I'm talking about today happens.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
Far beyond mr R.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
Right, there are so many people that I have worked with,
clients of mine and just people in the industry that
I have, you know, communicated with, who have you know,
paid thousands of dollars to be in these programs where
these people just sell them on a proven method, a
proven strategy and you know they guarantee those results. Well,
(04:07):
a lot of the clients that come to me are like, yeah,
well you know they I didn't get results, and I
am coming to you to figure out why. So I
want to clarify that because, like I said, it goes
far beyond MRIR. It's in MLM, it's in online digital courses.
It's huge there, and so we're going to dive a
little bit deeper. I'll pop in if I need to again,
(04:29):
but just wanted to clear that up, and I hope
you're enjoying the episode so far. I want to just
say I get that because I started my business in
multi level marketing and I didn't really know any better.
I didn't know that there was something else that I
could really provide. I just like sold the thing that
I knew I had to sell and that people were
telling me to sell.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
But all along there was something within me that was like, no, this.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Isn't it, this isn't right, this isn't what you're supposed
to be doing right, And I didn't really listen to
that voice. I also didn't have the resource is to
question that. Actually that's a lie. I did have the resources.
I didn't realize I needed a coach at the time,
and had I invested in a coach at that time,
I would have been able to definitely access my intuition
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a lot sooner. Access my internal power a lot sooner
and understand what that inner feeling was for me had
I gotten support earlier in my business. I don't regret anything,
but I just am saying this because if you are
in your business and you know that something just isn't right,
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or you feel like off about something that you're doing,
a coach can help you. And that's something that I
particularly specialize in. So if you feel a connection to
me and you like the work that I do, then
please reach out and we can book a connection call
and I would love to support you in exploring that
feeling that you're getting that just feels off.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
The other thing that can happen in business.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
So we're looking at our mentors, the leaders, the people
who have the results that we want, and we are
trying to execute the exact thing that they're teaching us.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
Now.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
The issue I find is that and this has happened
to me a few times, where other people don't really
get what it is that you're doing. And this is
exactly why I started my Done with You Marketing services
because I know how it feels when there's even like
other coaches who are like that's not a tangible result,
or that's not this, or that's not that, or like,
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I don't believe in what you're doing, And it's really
defeating when you hear that from a coach who's who's
supposed to help you and not like completely turn you
around to something else.
Speaker 2 (06:48):
I get that.
Speaker 1 (06:49):
So I started my Done with You marketing services for
that reason because I do understand a lot of the
healing and a lot of the energetics and the potency
behind these things that a lot of marketers and honestly
coaches just don't understand. Anyway, I digress. So a lot
of these leaders and people with these proven strategies, while yes,
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their strategies might be proven for them, they are not
necessarily the strategies that are appropriate for you.
Speaker 2 (07:17):
Here's an example.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
You start your business, you absolutely hate social media, but
you are trying to implement a strategy that is revolving
around social media.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
Why why? Right? It doesn't make sense.
Speaker 1 (07:34):
So, yes, having a social media presence is important, but
if you don't like social media, why are you focusing
all of your efforts in social media? This is just
one example. Another example is maybe even you know, creating
like a free checklist or creating something that just doesn't
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really feel like you or something that you believe in. Now,
I I think that we have to go through some
of these trials and errors.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
To get to where we're supposed to be in business.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
Had I not had those initial kind of fuck ups,
or like, had I not put those things out there
in the beginning, I don't think I would be where
I am today because each and every trial and error
brings you closer to what you are here to do.
And honestly, this whole message around like following your intuition
and manifestation and co creation and energy. Even though before
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I was doing it in health coaching, I'm realizing today
that my message doesn't change because that is the core
of who I am. That is everything that I literally
work on every single day for myself and help my
clients to work on as well. And while yes, of
course there's some strategy in there, it always revolves around
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the individual and their intuition and what they feel really
lit up and excited for. So these topics that I
now bring to you today are top that I never
really knew I had in me until I went through
my phase of trying all these things on that didn't work,
that I didn't love that I didn't enjoy asking for opinions,
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asking for feedback, asking for guidance. And I see this
so much, you guys wear I'll hop on a call
and I just I observe, right, And there are so
many different ideas. People are not short on ideas, Like
we have ideas, and sometimes somebody does need an idea,
and that's okay, But often what people need is to
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feel supported in customizing their idea or accessing their intuition
to execute an idea. Because here's what happens. We will
see an idea, we will know it's effective, we don't
know how to apply it to our own businesses. And
when we stay stuck in that like oh, I just
need to do this, I just need it, I need
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it to look this way, but I don't know how
it relates to my business. Or they try to templatize
your niche or your offer, like what it is that
you do, but it's not actually speaking your essence. And
so here's where this balance comes in, Like there is
a balance between strategy and intuition. There's a balance between
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that masculine and feminine. If we're not consulting our inner
guidance to support us in creating these more masculine structures,
if we're not support if we're not consulting our inner
guidance to support us in our messaging and all of
these things that like everyone else is trying to fit
you into a box and like help you to like
a niche and like communicate your thing properly. But if
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it's not reflective of your work, and it's just sounding
like everybody else and like you're using the exact same words,
and while this is supposed to convert, then it's just
not going to work.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
So something that has served.
Speaker 1 (10:50):
Me really well is really learning how to tap into
and access my inner goddess and build a relationship with her.
And inner goddess really just means like the person who
you are meant to be all along. The inner goddess
to me is definitely your intuition. It's also the confident
version of yourself that is deep within you, but and
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that who you really are.
Speaker 2 (11:13):
Like, think of this girl or this.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
Man, whoever, whatever you associate with this person, think of
this soul as the soul that comes out when you
feel truly safe to be your authentic self. I'm so
lucky that I have that with my partner, and I
can be my silly, goofy authentic self with this person.
And I also feel on many levels that I can
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be that online as well. Of course, there's always, like
I think, nuances to our personalities, like you don't always
see everything that I am. But when we can be
who we really are and know who we really are
and bring that into our business, it can feel a
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lot easier because we are heart centered beings, like we
are all here to have an impact. But you can't
have an impact if you're trying to be somebody that
you're not, if you are trying to put on a
mask and fit into some sort of proven strategy that
so and so said you should do, but that's not
really you. And you know, I've even heard from clients
a lot of the time too that they've learned all
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these strategies that sure maybe are effective for some people,
but they feel like they don't have substance, Like they
just feel like they're not them right. So if that's
something that you struggle with, I can help you. Just
send me a DM. I have so many different offers
that I can support you in, but send me a
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DM with what you're struggling with. And I'll point you
in the right direction. But basically, when we look for
these answers from other people, Okay, let me take it
back a little bit. So I was someone, for context,
who did all the things that I was supposed to do. I,
for the most part, was a very well behaved young lady.
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There were a couple times where I snuck out at night,
but for the most part, I was always home at
the time that I was expected to be home. I
didn't smoke weed until university, when like a bunch of
people were smoking weed in high school and showing up
to class high I didn't even drink alcohol until like
my grade twelve year, I think I was like sixteen
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or seventeen something like that. I was a goodie two
shoes and I was very focused on abiding by the
rules and living life according to what I saw or
thought as to be appropriate. Then I I think just had,
like I don't know, my life took a turn. So
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I got married to my ex who was Mexican, and
a lot of you do know my story already. If
you don't, then I married a Mexican. I'm now divorced
and remarried technically not legally, but Anyway.
Speaker 2 (14:04):
That's a whole other story.
Speaker 1 (14:05):
You can learn about that story on season two, episode one, two, three, four,
and five of the podcast. So I ended up moving
to Mexico. The only reason I moved to Mexico, though,
is because I got my contract at my job that
I was planning to stay out for the next like
five years did not get renewed even though it was
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supposed to. Some internal office dynamics happened, and I realized
in that moment that life is too fucking short, and
I wanted to be in control of my destiny. I
didn't want somebody else to have that over me, like
to not feel that sense of security and safety. Hey, Love,
(14:50):
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Speaker 1 (16:25):
I literally recently re listen to it and it helped me,
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Speaker 1 (16:33):
And it's funny that I turn to entrepreneurship. There is
a lot that goes into building a business, and I
see all of the behind the scenes from all of
the clients that I get to work with, and I'm
so grateful to be with them on that journey and
to help them find easier ways of building their business
and ways that feel more true to who they are.
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Because something that I deeply believe in is that if
you don't enjoy the path to getting to the result
that you desire, then like what are you even doing
it for? Because the journey is not about the destination.
Once you get to that destination, the destination is going
to move somewhere else. Right you go to freaking Japan, Well,
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next Ye're going to Australia and the next year going
to Hawaii. Like you don't just stop when you end
up where you want it to be.
Speaker 2 (17:21):
You keep going.
Speaker 1 (17:23):
And so that's why for me, it's so important to
always be looking at like, Okay, what is it that
I'm investing my time and resources in and is this
something that does really excite me and light me up.
There are obviously going to be days where it's not
going to be fun and exciting and rainbows and all
of that shit, But I think that it is very
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helpful and important that we devote our time and energy
to the things that truly do excite us. And guys,
I just want you to know, like I have so
many conversations with clients on the back end of my
business and I don't tell you about and just because
I forget and there's so much always to share, but
there are a lot of people who are doing business
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in very unconventional ways and they are experiencing success. And
I say that because I want you to know that.
Just because you think you have to show up on
social media and run a webinar and do the if
that is just not your freakin' jam right now, Like
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that is okay, And it is so important to build
this awareness, this self awareness and who we are as
leaders and really get to know who you are, because
if you don't know who you are, then you can't
ever customize your business to you. And I believe that
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your business should be customized to you. It should one
hundred percent be customized to you. Because you are the
one that's leading it forward. And if you don't know
how to listen to that internal guidance, and you're constantly
outsourcing your power to your mentors, to your coaches, at
seing other people what they think and what they think
you should do, which I say this from my own experience,
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like I was here. If you're constantly asking others what
you should do, then you are disconnected from your own
internal power and your own internal truth. When my clients
asked me, Lauren, what do you think I should do?
What do you think about this? I say, well, here's
the benefits of this, and here's the benefits of that.
Speaker 2 (19:25):
What do you think? What do you want to do?
Speaker 1 (19:26):
What is your intuition telling you? Because what I think
doesn't matter. What your mentors and coaches think doesn't fucking
matter because what they think is only coming from their
limited experience on earth. What they think is only coming
from what they have been exposed to and we haven't. Like,
I know a lot about business, and I can offer
a lot of that, and I also work really hard
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to know when to offer my experience and when my
clients need to tap into their own internal power. And
this is a really big focus for us. This is
a really big saying that we center a lot of
our time and energy on because a lot of my
clients have been told from the moment they were born
how to do things, what to do to be successful,
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who they should be, who they shouldn't be. Why are
you posting that? Why are you saying things like this?
Maybe you shouldn't be so vulnerable online. Maybe you shouldn't
share that online. Maybe people who want to hire you
don't want to hear that from you, like shit like that,
And I'm sorry, but that is not you. The stuff
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that you are hearing from everybody else doesn't matter, because
what matters is what you are here for. I know,
and I got some backlash from posting my series of
Season two, and there are parts of that that I
am proud of in parts that I'm not proud of,
and maybe I'm just making that up in my head.
I know that I probably could have approached different conversations differently,
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and that's okay. I can.
Speaker 2 (21:00):
I'm learning as well.
Speaker 1 (21:02):
I'm not perfect, but what I am here to do,
and what I know is that I am here to
share more love and truth and just have hard conversations
that other people aren't willing to have and I know
that I am here to lead from my own experience
and to be an example. That is something that unfortunately,
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fortunately or unfortunately has always been part of my journey.
You know, when I was growing up, I was an
example for my siblings, and now I'm a messier version
of an example for others because I think that life
is messy, and I think that I think that so
many people are hiding behind their experiences and hiding behind
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these people that they think they have to be. And
I don't believe that people are always happy with that
I felt. I feel really good about sharing from my experience.
I feel really good about sharing with you what is working,
what's not working, what I believe, what I don't believe,
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And that is just part of what I know that
I am here to bring to my audience. That is
just part of what I know my life path to be.
I'm an open book and I gain a lot of
fulfillment from sharing and from providing validation to other people
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and an open space. So how this works in my
business is like it's not just all about me. But
the reason that I share a lot with you guys,
is so that you feel comfortable then sharing with me,
because if you can't tell me the deep dark secrets
that you hold and you don't have to, I'm not
saying that that is a requirement, but if you feel
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like you have to wear a mask with me, then
how am I supposed to help you to take that
mask off in your business?
Speaker 2 (22:57):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (22:59):
And I feel like there's so much magic that can
come from being in a space where you can really
share the thoughts that are on your heart and the
things that you feel like you can't tell anybody. I
think that we actually end up battling ourselves a lot
when we hold in secrets that we don't want anybody
to know about, and it makes life a lot harder.
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So when we can share that with somebody else or you,
just it lifts this weight off, right, because we're then
able to process it and just look at that and
be like, oh, maybe that's not actually as bad as
I thought, or maybe that's not actually I don't know,
like maybe that's not actually true for me, or maybe
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that's just not a valid fear to have, or maybe
whatever it is right, but we can't move past it
if we're constantly just like holding that shit near and
dear to our hearts. So anyway, a little tangent about
me and myself, but tapping into your intuition, understanding who
you are and learning how to co create with the
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universe by stepping into your power is one of the biggest,
most helpful things I think that you can learn as
an entrepreneur. Why because we are the ones leaving this
business forward. You are not always going to have a
coach or somebody else to bounce ideas off of, and
speaking from experience, you know you better than anybody else
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knows you. And so if somebody else is trying to
tell you, like, oh, you should do this strategy, it's
going to like totally exploit your business. But you don't
feel lit the fuck up about that strategy, or you
have reservations, or you're like, yeah, I'm just like not really.
Speaker 2 (24:46):
Excited about that.
Speaker 1 (24:47):
Then like you need to be one hundred percent behind
the thing that you are doing, because at the end
of the day, you are the one taking the actions.
You are the one has to move the needle forward.
I can't do that shit for you. And so that's
why figuring out how to trust in who you are,
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how to connect with yourself, how to lean into your intuition,
how to understand your body's signals. And this is why
take a holistic approach, because not everything is mental. We
get a lot of signals through the body and through
different I guess mechanisms in our body, like some of
us experience gut feelings, or some of us experience, you know,
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just a knowing in our chest. But when we create
the space to really connect with our body and listen
into like what our energy is saying, then we can
be so much more powerful and effective in our business.
Knowing yourself and having that awareness of who you are
also means that it's going to be easier to identify
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your mindset blocks. A lot of people get stuck in
their mind, a lot of people get overwhelmed in their mind.
And I even have conversations about this with clients who
have been in business for years and who have done
a lot of work on themselves.
Speaker 2 (26:06):
Right, but we.
Speaker 1 (26:10):
Sometimes need that reminder to drop into who we are,
to connect with our inner guidance, to connect to a
higher power that is not just us and our brains
trying to like work out the solution and how to
get to the thing that we want, but really just
rooting into what is it that I believe to be true,
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what is something that can help me navigate this path
to get wherever I'm headed, and really being open to receiving.
And this is something that I talked about in a
past episode, but really leaning on your spirit team. So
in my program, Rise Goddess, in own your intuition, in
Awaken the Goddess within. These are all this is my
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series essentially on really learning how to trust in your
self as a leader, really learning how to navigate who
you are, learn about yourself. It's a self awareness journey.
It is a journey of deeply knowing yourself, your gifts,
your mindset, blocks everything about you so that you can
lead your business to where you want it to be.
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All Right, something that I talked about in a recent
episode is really leaning on your spirit team.
Speaker 2 (27:23):
And so a lot.
Speaker 1 (27:24):
Of this, okay, let me explain it like this, A
lot of y'all are running around like chickens with your
head cut off, navigating life like doing all the things,
but knowing the next move and feeling confident in that
and feeling confident in who you are really comes from
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this peaceful state of again knowing yourself, trust and faith
that there's a higher power out there that is supporting you.
And that is something that I cultivate and help you
to really learn inside of Rise Go because I believe
that each of us were born great, that we were
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born perfect, we were born capable, we were born motivated,
determined wise, and we were born with access to the
answers that we need to have that each individual needs
to have. But we are so disconnected from that because
of societal conditioning, because of what everyone else is telling
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you to do. And I think that the more that
we can become stronger in who we are, the more
that we can learn to speak up, communicate clearly what
we feel, what we believe to be true, follow through
on what we say we will do for ourselves. Right,
Like a lot of you guys make plans and then
you're like, oh, well, I just like I'll put it aside.
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Like for myself as an example, like I've been trying
to get back into yoga for so long, and I
create excuses and every time that I don't show up
for myself to practice yoga, I am pretty much telling
myself that I don't have my back, that I am.
Speaker 2 (29:08):
Not there for me.
Speaker 1 (29:10):
And so every time you make excuses or you make
a to do list, or you say oh, I'm going
to launch this thing, or like I'm going to do
this thing, but then you don't do it, you are
breaking promises to yourself and you're showing yourself that you
actually can't follow through on what you say you will do.
And so there's different techniques obviously to address this, depending
on your circumstances in your background. But it's so important,
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I believe, to connect with ourselves, with our intuition and
to decondition, to learn how to.
Speaker 2 (29:43):
Tap into who we are, to learn.
Speaker 1 (29:46):
Who we are at our core, and to learn what
is maybe something that we've picked up that's not helpful,
what is maybe like a belief or a thought process
that we learned from maybe our parents or siblings, or
an experience that we had, and to really decipher like, Okay,
what is me and what is not me? Or what
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is maybe just a part of my experience that I'm processing.
Because what can happen is if we're not intentional about this,
if we don't know these things about ourselves, like I've said,
it can get in the way. It does get in
the way you'll see yourself making excuses avoiding. Those are
the two major ones, making excuses and avoiding doing the
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thing that you know you have to do. So if
you're ready to stop hiding out, if you are ready
to be who you came here to be and fulfill
that deeper calling that is within you, and to step
into your magnetism in a way that feels aligned and
authentic to who you are, then you are absolutely going
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to want to be inside of Rise Goddess. This is
my most transformational program. This is the program that will
help you to build a really compident foundation within yourself
so that no matter where you go in business and
in life, you can always reconnect with who you are
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and reconnect with that intuitive part of you, reconnect with
your higher self, and not even just like with yourself,
but learn how to lean into the support of the universe.
I believe that the universe is always supporting us or God,
whatever you choose to believe in spirit, like I believe
that there's an existence, an energy that cannot necessarily be seen,
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but that is very evidently there. It comes in synchronicities,
It comes in the perfect thing popping up at the
perfect time. It comes in the form of divinity and
chance meetings, and it comes in the form of miracles
and blessings and shit happening that you just couldn't believe possible.
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I believe that that is accessible for all of us,
and I also believe that all of us, not all
of us, many are doing a disservice to their existence
on earth by taking on the pressure and burden of
making everything happen on their own. When I first started
my business, I definitely felt like I had to do
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all of the things, and I felt like I had
to figure it out, and I felt like I had
to you know, it was just so much pressure to
put all of this energy into the numbers and the
this and the that and figure out the perfect optimized
headline and.
Speaker 2 (32:36):
Blah blah blah, blah blah.
Speaker 1 (32:37):
It left no room for my creativity. And at the
end of the day, I felt completely zapped. I felt like,
why am I even doing this? I'm not having fun
with this. And I've spoken to so many entrepreneurs since then,
some who have made a couple thousand dollars in their business,
some who have made millions in their business, and this
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is something that everybody experiences and until you go through
a journey of really understanding who you are, tuning into
your voice, your confidence, yourself, so that you know when
something is or is not right for you, and you
are able to trust that and speak that. That is
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where I want you to be. That is where nothing
will hold you back, nothing will get in your way.
When we don't trust ourselves, we are walking on really
shaky ground. We don't really have any legs to stand on.
You are always going to be relying on other sources,
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other people's opinions, and all of that jazz to tell
you what to do. But at the same time, you're
doing a really big disservice to yourself because you're ultimately
not actually tapping into the thing.
Speaker 2 (33:56):
That you really want to do.
Speaker 1 (33:58):
And here's the thing, right, like, when I say, oh,
you're not doing the thing that you really want to do,
you may have an idea of something that you want
to do that you're holding yourself back from doing. But
usually what ends up happening is the things that we
actually really want to do, Like we're not fully aware
of them yet because we're not giving them space to
even exist, because we are so distrusting of ourselves, because
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we are so focused on reaching our goals and getting
to that finish line and strategically making the right moves
and all of this stuff that ends up actually blocking
our connection to our intuition. Anyway, if any of this
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resonated with you, if you're ready to step into your
power and to create the results that you know you
came here to create, with the impact you came here
to create, I would love it if you applied for
Rise Goddess, or if you messaged me about it, if
you've been thinking about it. I have a feeling that
this pro will be a totally up your alley and
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will help you to really step into your inner power,
to let go of what's not serving you, to release
the mindset blocks, and to really just start to radiate
the essence of who you are into the world so
that you can start to attract the opportunities that you
really dream of attracting. What most business owners fail to
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understand is that their lives and the way that their
lives have been shaped greatly influenced the actions that they're
taking today. If you are somebody who knows that you're
here for a greater purpose, you have an impact to
make in the world. But when you look at your actions,
there may be not lining up with that future version
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of yourself. This could mean that you are playing small.
This could mean that you are doubting yourself. This could
mean that maybe you're keeping yourself busy with things to do,
but they're not actually moving the needle forward toward your
dream life in business, I have a master class for you.
It's called Awaken the Goddess Within. In this master class,
we're going to be identifying, well, first, we're going to
(36:07):
reconnect with your inner goddess. I'm going to walk you
through a really powerful meditation to reconnect with your goddess.
Can here my dog licking incessantly her freaking bowl? Okay,
a powerful meditation to reconnect with your inner goddess. We're
going to identify the limiting beliefs, habits, and behaviors that
are holding you back from realizing your vision. And then
(36:28):
we're also going to go over how to hack your
brain so that you can manifest the life and business
of your dreams. This masterclass is less than two hours.
If you listen to it on one point five speed,
it'll be probably like sixty.
Speaker 2 (36:40):
Minutes, so worth your time.
Speaker 1 (36:42):
I literally used it myself recently, and it helped me
see the ways in which I was holding myself back because,
contrary to what you might think, I'm human too, and
we all experience this at different levels of growth in
our business. So if you are ready to start taking
a line action toward your bigger vision, and you are
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ready to do the mindset work that is required to
realize your vision, and you are ready to step into
the confident version of yourself who has what she wants already,
then make sure that you sign up for Then make
sure that make sure you sign up for the Awaken
the Goddess within masterclass. You are going to get instant
access and the link can be found in the show
notes or the description box below. I love you anyway.
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If you had any questions, if you enjoyed this episode,
I would love it. First of all, if you shared
your questions with me, I would love to answer them.
And second of all, if you shared this episode with
somebody that you maybe thought of or that could benefit
from this, I will see you in the next episode.
Sending you so much love and abundance. Thank you so
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much for tuning into the podcast today. If you like
what you heard, I would love it if you left
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Make sure you check the show notes for any other
links that I mentioned today, and until next time, I'm
sending you waves of abundance.
If you're constantly asking others what you should do, then
you are disconnected from your own internal.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Power, in your own internal truth.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
Welcome to the Aligned and Magnetic Podcast. I'm your host,
Laura Ashley, Intuitive business coach certified by the International Coaching Federation,
and they call me the Money, Mindset and Manifestation Queen.
I take a spiritual and practical approach.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
That's backed by neuroscience to help you make your vision
a reality, but more importantly, doing it.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
In a way that lights you the fuck up.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
If you're ready to create an aligned, magnetic, and profitable
business so you can live a life and do the
work you are absolutely in love with, you're in the
right place. Get ready to hear the powerful questions and
raw lessons that you need to create success your way.
Thank you so much for being here. Let's dive in.
Hey loves, really know where this episode is going to
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go today, but I want to talk about your inner
goddess and how I choose to work with my clients
and how I help them to cultivate confidence, self trust
in the leadership to achieve the results that they desire
their way. Instead of just replicating what everyone else is doing.
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It's so interesting because I don't think that if I said, like,
stop repeating what everyone else is doing, I don't think
you would associate or resonate with that. Because we do
this subconsciously. We look at what other people are doing
and we think, oh, I should do something like that,
or oh maybe I should try this, or maybe I
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should try that. And I think this is a very
normal process. And for people like manifesting generators and generators,
we do respond to what is out there, and that's
good for our energy, except when it is crushing your soul,
except when it is overshadowing your creative essence, except when
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it is overpowering your intuitive nudges. And I know that.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Life can get busy. I know that.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
It can feel overwhelming to run a business, and I
also know that leading your business forward using your intuition
as your number one guide is probably a tool that
you will use for the rest of your life. So
let me tell you a little bit about what I
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see happening and what happened to me too when I
first started my business. So this is it's so prevalent
these days that so many people are downloading or purchasing
these What the fuck it? I'm I'm our multi master
resell rights.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
So in my.
Speaker 1 (03:06):
World, are our is monthly recurring revenue, but it's turned
into this master resell rights thing where you just buy
this thing and then you sell that thing to other
people even though you have no idea what the fuck
you're doing.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
Hey, guys, a welcome to editing day.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
This is what we look like.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
So I'm going through the episode and editing for release,
and I've realized that I hyper fixated on mr R, which, like,
I don't know what was going on for me that day,
but apparently that's what felt like the right thing to do.
And I want to just come in and clarify because
what I'm talking about today happens.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
Far beyond mr R.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
Right, there are so many people that I have worked with,
clients of mine and just people in the industry that
I have, you know, communicated with, who have you know,
paid thousands of dollars to be in these programs where
these people just sell them on a proven method, a
proven strategy and you know they guarantee those results. Well,
(04:07):
a lot of the clients that come to me are like, yeah,
well you know they I didn't get results, and I
am coming to you to figure out why. So I
want to clarify that because, like I said, it goes
far beyond MRIR. It's in MLM, it's in online digital courses.
It's huge there, and so we're going to dive a
little bit deeper. I'll pop in if I need to again,
(04:29):
but just wanted to clear that up, and I hope
you're enjoying the episode so far. I want to just
say I get that because I started my business in
multi level marketing and I didn't really know any better.
I didn't know that there was something else that I
could really provide. I just like sold the thing that
I knew I had to sell and that people were
telling me to sell.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
But all along there was something within me that was like, no, this.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Isn't it, this isn't right, this isn't what you're supposed
to be doing right, And I didn't really listen to
that voice. I also didn't have the resource is to
question that. Actually that's a lie. I did have the resources.
I didn't realize I needed a coach at the time,
and had I invested in a coach at that time,
I would have been able to definitely access my intuition
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a lot sooner. Access my internal power a lot sooner
and understand what that inner feeling was for me had
I gotten support earlier in my business. I don't regret anything,
but I just am saying this because if you are
in your business and you know that something just isn't right,
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or you feel like off about something that you're doing,
a coach can help you. And that's something that I
particularly specialize in. So if you feel a connection to
me and you like the work that I do, then
please reach out and we can book a connection call
and I would love to support you in exploring that
feeling that you're getting that just feels off.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
The other thing that can happen in business.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
So we're looking at our mentors, the leaders, the people
who have the results that we want, and we are
trying to execute the exact thing that they're teaching us.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
Now.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
The issue I find is that and this has happened
to me a few times, where other people don't really
get what it is that you're doing. And this is
exactly why I started my Done with You Marketing services
because I know how it feels when there's even like
other coaches who are like that's not a tangible result,
or that's not this, or that's not that, or like,
(06:35):
I don't believe in what you're doing, And it's really
defeating when you hear that from a coach who's who's
supposed to help you and not like completely turn you
around to something else.
Speaker 2 (06:48):
I get that.
Speaker 1 (06:49):
So I started my Done with You marketing services for
that reason because I do understand a lot of the
healing and a lot of the energetics and the potency
behind these things that a lot of marketers and honestly
coaches just don't understand. Anyway, I digress. So a lot
of these leaders and people with these proven strategies, while yes,
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their strategies might be proven for them, they are not
necessarily the strategies that are appropriate for you.
Speaker 2 (07:17):
Here's an example.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
You start your business, you absolutely hate social media, but
you are trying to implement a strategy that is revolving
around social media.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
Why why? Right? It doesn't make sense.
Speaker 1 (07:34):
So, yes, having a social media presence is important, but
if you don't like social media, why are you focusing
all of your efforts in social media? This is just
one example. Another example is maybe even you know, creating
like a free checklist or creating something that just doesn't
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really feel like you or something that you believe in. Now,
I I think that we have to go through some
of these trials and errors.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
To get to where we're supposed to be in business.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
Had I not had those initial kind of fuck ups,
or like, had I not put those things out there
in the beginning, I don't think I would be where
I am today because each and every trial and error
brings you closer to what you are here to do.
And honestly, this whole message around like following your intuition
and manifestation and co creation and energy. Even though before
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I was doing it in health coaching, I'm realizing today
that my message doesn't change because that is the core
of who I am. That is everything that I literally
work on every single day for myself and help my
clients to work on as well. And while yes, of
course there's some strategy in there, it always revolves around
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the individual and their intuition and what they feel really
lit up and excited for. So these topics that I
now bring to you today are top that I never
really knew I had in me until I went through
my phase of trying all these things on that didn't work,
that I didn't love that I didn't enjoy asking for opinions,
(09:11):
asking for feedback, asking for guidance. And I see this
so much, you guys wear I'll hop on a call
and I just I observe, right, And there are so
many different ideas. People are not short on ideas, Like
we have ideas, and sometimes somebody does need an idea,
and that's okay, But often what people need is to
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feel supported in customizing their idea or accessing their intuition
to execute an idea. Because here's what happens. We will
see an idea, we will know it's effective, we don't
know how to apply it to our own businesses. And
when we stay stuck in that like oh, I just
need to do this, I just need it, I need
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it to look this way, but I don't know how
it relates to my business. Or they try to templatize
your niche or your offer, like what it is that
you do, but it's not actually speaking your essence. And
so here's where this balance comes in, Like there is
a balance between strategy and intuition. There's a balance between
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that masculine and feminine. If we're not consulting our inner
guidance to support us in creating these more masculine structures,
if we're not support if we're not consulting our inner
guidance to support us in our messaging and all of
these things that like everyone else is trying to fit
you into a box and like help you to like
a niche and like communicate your thing properly. But if
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it's not reflective of your work, and it's just sounding
like everybody else and like you're using the exact same words,
and while this is supposed to convert, then it's just
not going to work.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
So something that has served.
Speaker 1 (10:50):
Me really well is really learning how to tap into
and access my inner goddess and build a relationship with her.
And inner goddess really just means like the person who
you are meant to be all along. The inner goddess
to me is definitely your intuition. It's also the confident
version of yourself that is deep within you, but and
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that who you really are.
Speaker 2 (11:13):
Like, think of this girl or this.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
Man, whoever, whatever you associate with this person, think of
this soul as the soul that comes out when you
feel truly safe to be your authentic self. I'm so
lucky that I have that with my partner, and I
can be my silly, goofy authentic self with this person.
And I also feel on many levels that I can
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be that online as well. Of course, there's always, like
I think, nuances to our personalities, like you don't always
see everything that I am. But when we can be
who we really are and know who we really are
and bring that into our business, it can feel a
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lot easier because we are heart centered beings, like we
are all here to have an impact. But you can't
have an impact if you're trying to be somebody that
you're not, if you are trying to put on a
mask and fit into some sort of proven strategy that
so and so said you should do, but that's not
really you. And you know, I've even heard from clients
a lot of the time too that they've learned all
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these strategies that sure maybe are effective for some people,
but they feel like they don't have substance, Like they
just feel like they're not them right. So if that's
something that you struggle with, I can help you. Just
send me a DM. I have so many different offers
that I can support you in, but send me a
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DM with what you're struggling with. And I'll point you
in the right direction. But basically, when we look for
these answers from other people, Okay, let me take it
back a little bit. So I was someone, for context,
who did all the things that I was supposed to do. I,
for the most part, was a very well behaved young lady.
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There were a couple times where I snuck out at night,
but for the most part, I was always home at
the time that I was expected to be home. I
didn't smoke weed until university, when like a bunch of
people were smoking weed in high school and showing up
to class high I didn't even drink alcohol until like
my grade twelve year, I think I was like sixteen
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or seventeen something like that. I was a goodie two
shoes and I was very focused on abiding by the
rules and living life according to what I saw or
thought as to be appropriate. Then I I think just had,
like I don't know, my life took a turn. So
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I got married to my ex who was Mexican, and
a lot of you do know my story already. If
you don't, then I married a Mexican. I'm now divorced
and remarried technically not legally, but Anyway.
Speaker 2 (14:04):
That's a whole other story.
Speaker 1 (14:05):
You can learn about that story on season two, episode one, two, three, four,
and five of the podcast. So I ended up moving
to Mexico. The only reason I moved to Mexico, though,
is because I got my contract at my job that
I was planning to stay out for the next like
five years did not get renewed even though it was
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supposed to. Some internal office dynamics happened, and I realized
in that moment that life is too fucking short, and
I wanted to be in control of my destiny. I
didn't want somebody else to have that over me, like
to not feel that sense of security and safety. Hey, Love,
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I hope you're enjoying this week's episode so far. I
need to stop and let you know about the Awakened,
the Goddess within Free masterclass. This is this is honestly
a masterclass that has helped me and has been so
valuable and impactful in my client's lives. So, if you
are somebody that knows that you have a greater vision,
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a greater impact to make, and you can see that
you're maybe not showing up for that vision or you're
doubting that vision, this is the master class for you.
So basically, what we're going to be doing in this
masterclass is talking about and I'll be teaching how to
reconnect with your inner goddess. I'm going to walk you
through a really beautiful meditation to connect with the goddess
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within you. We're going to identify the limiting beliefs that
are holding you back from taking really big, aligned action
it doesn't even have to be big, but aligned action.
Speaker 2 (15:44):
And moving forward toward your vision. And number three, we're
going to talk about how to.
Speaker 1 (15:48):
Hack your brain to manifest the life and business that
you desire. So if you are an entrepreneur or somebody
who knows that they're here to have a greater impact
in the world, whether it's through healing, coaching, whether it's
even just through your everyday work, then Awaken the Goddess
Within is the masterclass for you to step into the
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version of you who has the life and business that
she desires with more ease and confidence. And the best
part is it's less than two hours. Get the link
below to register and you will get instant access to
this masterclass.
Speaker 2 (16:24):
I am not kidding what I tell you.
Speaker 1 (16:25):
I literally recently re listen to it and it helped me,
so I am sure that.
Speaker 2 (16:31):
It will help you too. Okay, see you in there.
Speaker 1 (16:33):
And it's funny that I turn to entrepreneurship. There is
a lot that goes into building a business, and I
see all of the behind the scenes from all of
the clients that I get to work with, and I'm
so grateful to be with them on that journey and
to help them find easier ways of building their business
and ways that feel more true to who they are.
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Because something that I deeply believe in is that if
you don't enjoy the path to getting to the result
that you desire, then like what are you even doing
it for? Because the journey is not about the destination.
Once you get to that destination, the destination is going
to move somewhere else. Right you go to freaking Japan, Well,
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next Ye're going to Australia and the next year going
to Hawaii. Like you don't just stop when you end
up where you want it to be.
Speaker 2 (17:21):
You keep going.
Speaker 1 (17:23):
And so that's why for me, it's so important to
always be looking at like, Okay, what is it that
I'm investing my time and resources in and is this
something that does really excite me and light me up.
There are obviously going to be days where it's not
going to be fun and exciting and rainbows and all
of that shit, But I think that it is very
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helpful and important that we devote our time and energy
to the things that truly do excite us. And guys,
I just want you to know, like I have so
many conversations with clients on the back end of my
business and I don't tell you about and just because
I forget and there's so much always to share, but
there are a lot of people who are doing business
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in very unconventional ways and they are experiencing success. And
I say that because I want you to know that.
Just because you think you have to show up on
social media and run a webinar and do the if
that is just not your freakin' jam right now, Like
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that is okay, And it is so important to build
this awareness, this self awareness and who we are as
leaders and really get to know who you are, because
if you don't know who you are, then you can't
ever customize your business to you. And I believe that
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your business should be customized to you. It should one
hundred percent be customized to you. Because you are the
one that's leading it forward. And if you don't know
how to listen to that internal guidance, and you're constantly
outsourcing your power to your mentors, to your coaches, at
seing other people what they think and what they think
you should do, which I say this from my own experience,
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like I was here. If you're constantly asking others what
you should do, then you are disconnected from your own
internal power and your own internal truth. When my clients
asked me, Lauren, what do you think I should do?
What do you think about this? I say, well, here's
the benefits of this, and here's the benefits of that.
Speaker 2 (19:25):
What do you think? What do you want to do?
Speaker 1 (19:26):
What is your intuition telling you? Because what I think
doesn't matter. What your mentors and coaches think doesn't fucking
matter because what they think is only coming from their
limited experience on earth. What they think is only coming
from what they have been exposed to and we haven't. Like,
I know a lot about business, and I can offer
a lot of that, and I also work really hard
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to know when to offer my experience and when my
clients need to tap into their own internal power. And
this is a really big focus for us. This is
a really big saying that we center a lot of
our time and energy on because a lot of my
clients have been told from the moment they were born
how to do things, what to do to be successful,
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who they should be, who they shouldn't be. Why are
you posting that? Why are you saying things like this?
Maybe you shouldn't be so vulnerable online. Maybe you shouldn't
share that online. Maybe people who want to hire you
don't want to hear that from you, like shit like that,
And I'm sorry, but that is not you. The stuff
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that you are hearing from everybody else doesn't matter, because
what matters is what you are here for. I know,
and I got some backlash from posting my series of
Season two, and there are parts of that that I
am proud of in parts that I'm not proud of,
and maybe I'm just making that up in my head.
I know that I probably could have approached different conversations differently,
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and that's okay. I can.
Speaker 2 (21:00):
I'm learning as well.
Speaker 1 (21:02):
I'm not perfect, but what I am here to do,
and what I know is that I am here to
share more love and truth and just have hard conversations
that other people aren't willing to have and I know
that I am here to lead from my own experience
and to be an example. That is something that unfortunately,
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fortunately or unfortunately has always been part of my journey.
You know, when I was growing up, I was an
example for my siblings, and now I'm a messier version
of an example for others because I think that life
is messy, and I think that I think that so
many people are hiding behind their experiences and hiding behind
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these people that they think they have to be. And
I don't believe that people are always happy with that
I felt. I feel really good about sharing from my experience.
I feel really good about sharing with you what is working,
what's not working, what I believe, what I don't believe,
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And that is just part of what I know that
I am here to bring to my audience. That is
just part of what I know my life path to be.
I'm an open book and I gain a lot of
fulfillment from sharing and from providing validation to other people
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and an open space. So how this works in my
business is like it's not just all about me. But
the reason that I share a lot with you guys,
is so that you feel comfortable then sharing with me,
because if you can't tell me the deep dark secrets
that you hold and you don't have to, I'm not
saying that that is a requirement, but if you feel
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like you have to wear a mask with me, then
how am I supposed to help you to take that
mask off in your business?
Speaker 2 (22:57):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (22:59):
And I feel like there's so much magic that can
come from being in a space where you can really
share the thoughts that are on your heart and the
things that you feel like you can't tell anybody. I
think that we actually end up battling ourselves a lot
when we hold in secrets that we don't want anybody
to know about, and it makes life a lot harder.
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So when we can share that with somebody else or you,
just it lifts this weight off, right, because we're then
able to process it and just look at that and
be like, oh, maybe that's not actually as bad as
I thought, or maybe that's not actually I don't know,
like maybe that's not actually true for me, or maybe
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that's just not a valid fear to have, or maybe
whatever it is right, but we can't move past it
if we're constantly just like holding that shit near and
dear to our hearts. So anyway, a little tangent about
me and myself, but tapping into your intuition, understanding who
you are and learning how to co create with the
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universe by stepping into your power is one of the biggest,
most helpful things I think that you can learn as
an entrepreneur. Why because we are the ones leaving this
business forward. You are not always going to have a
coach or somebody else to bounce ideas off of, and
speaking from experience, you know you better than anybody else
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knows you. And so if somebody else is trying to
tell you, like, oh, you should do this strategy, it's
going to like totally exploit your business. But you don't
feel lit the fuck up about that strategy, or you
have reservations, or you're like, yeah, I'm just like not really.
Speaker 2 (24:46):
Excited about that.
Speaker 1 (24:47):
Then like you need to be one hundred percent behind
the thing that you are doing, because at the end
of the day, you are the one taking the actions.
You are the one has to move the needle forward.
I can't do that shit for you. And so that's
why figuring out how to trust in who you are,
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how to connect with yourself, how to lean into your intuition,
how to understand your body's signals. And this is why
take a holistic approach, because not everything is mental. We
get a lot of signals through the body and through
different I guess mechanisms in our body, like some of
us experience gut feelings, or some of us experience, you know,
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just a knowing in our chest. But when we create
the space to really connect with our body and listen
into like what our energy is saying, then we can
be so much more powerful and effective in our business.
Knowing yourself and having that awareness of who you are
also means that it's going to be easier to identify
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your mindset blocks. A lot of people get stuck in
their mind, a lot of people get overwhelmed in their mind.
And I even have conversations about this with clients who
have been in business for years and who have done
a lot of work on themselves.
Speaker 2 (26:06):
Right, but we.
Speaker 1 (26:10):
Sometimes need that reminder to drop into who we are,
to connect with our inner guidance, to connect to a
higher power that is not just us and our brains
trying to like work out the solution and how to
get to the thing that we want, but really just
rooting into what is it that I believe to be true,
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what is something that can help me navigate this path
to get wherever I'm headed, and really being open to receiving.
And this is something that I talked about in a
past episode, but really leaning on your spirit team. So
in my program, Rise Goddess, in own your intuition, in
Awaken the Goddess within. These are all this is my
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series essentially on really learning how to trust in your
self as a leader, really learning how to navigate who
you are, learn about yourself. It's a self awareness journey.
It is a journey of deeply knowing yourself, your gifts,
your mindset, blocks everything about you so that you can
lead your business to where you want it to be.
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All Right, something that I talked about in a recent
episode is really leaning on your spirit team.
Speaker 2 (27:23):
And so a lot.
Speaker 1 (27:24):
Of this, okay, let me explain it like this, A
lot of y'all are running around like chickens with your
head cut off, navigating life like doing all the things,
but knowing the next move and feeling confident in that
and feeling confident in who you are really comes from
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this peaceful state of again knowing yourself, trust and faith
that there's a higher power out there that is supporting you.
And that is something that I cultivate and help you
to really learn inside of Rise Go because I believe
that each of us were born great, that we were
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born perfect, we were born capable, we were born motivated,
determined wise, and we were born with access to the
answers that we need to have that each individual needs
to have. But we are so disconnected from that because
of societal conditioning, because of what everyone else is telling
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you to do. And I think that the more that
we can become stronger in who we are, the more
that we can learn to speak up, communicate clearly what
we feel, what we believe to be true, follow through
on what we say we will do for ourselves. Right,
Like a lot of you guys make plans and then
you're like, oh, well, I just like I'll put it aside.
(28:50):
Like for myself as an example, like I've been trying
to get back into yoga for so long, and I
create excuses and every time that I don't show up
for myself to practice yoga, I am pretty much telling
myself that I don't have my back, that I am.
Speaker 2 (29:08):
Not there for me.
Speaker 1 (29:10):
And so every time you make excuses or you make
a to do list, or you say oh, I'm going
to launch this thing, or like I'm going to do
this thing, but then you don't do it, you are
breaking promises to yourself and you're showing yourself that you
actually can't follow through on what you say you will do.
And so there's different techniques obviously to address this, depending
on your circumstances in your background. But it's so important,
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I believe, to connect with ourselves, with our intuition and
to decondition, to learn how to.
Speaker 2 (29:43):
Tap into who we are, to learn.
Speaker 1 (29:46):
Who we are at our core, and to learn what
is maybe something that we've picked up that's not helpful,
what is maybe like a belief or a thought process
that we learned from maybe our parents or siblings, or
an experience that we had, and to really decipher like, Okay,
what is me and what is not me? Or what
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is maybe just a part of my experience that I'm processing.
Because what can happen is if we're not intentional about this,
if we don't know these things about ourselves, like I've said,
it can get in the way. It does get in
the way you'll see yourself making excuses avoiding. Those are
the two major ones, making excuses and avoiding doing the
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thing that you know you have to do. So if
you're ready to stop hiding out, if you are ready
to be who you came here to be and fulfill
that deeper calling that is within you, and to step
into your magnetism in a way that feels aligned and
authentic to who you are, then you are absolutely going
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to want to be inside of Rise Goddess. This is
my most transformational program. This is the program that will
help you to build a really compident foundation within yourself
so that no matter where you go in business and
in life, you can always reconnect with who you are
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and reconnect with that intuitive part of you, reconnect with
your higher self, and not even just like with yourself,
but learn how to lean into the support of the universe.
I believe that the universe is always supporting us or God,
whatever you choose to believe in spirit, like I believe
that there's an existence, an energy that cannot necessarily be seen,
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but that is very evidently there. It comes in synchronicities,
It comes in the perfect thing popping up at the
perfect time. It comes in the form of divinity and
chance meetings, and it comes in the form of miracles
and blessings and shit happening that you just couldn't believe possible.
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I believe that that is accessible for all of us,
and I also believe that all of us, not all
of us, many are doing a disservice to their existence
on earth by taking on the pressure and burden of
making everything happen on their own. When I first started
my business, I definitely felt like I had to do
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all of the things, and I felt like I had
to figure it out, and I felt like I had
to you know, it was just so much pressure to
put all of this energy into the numbers and the
this and the that and figure out the perfect optimized
headline and.
Speaker 2 (32:36):
Blah blah blah, blah blah.
Speaker 1 (32:37):
It left no room for my creativity. And at the
end of the day, I felt completely zapped. I felt like,
why am I even doing this? I'm not having fun
with this. And I've spoken to so many entrepreneurs since then,
some who have made a couple thousand dollars in their business,
some who have made millions in their business, and this
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is something that everybody experiences and until you go through
a journey of really understanding who you are, tuning into
your voice, your confidence, yourself, so that you know when
something is or is not right for you, and you
are able to trust that and speak that. That is
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where I want you to be. That is where nothing
will hold you back, nothing will get in your way.
When we don't trust ourselves, we are walking on really
shaky ground. We don't really have any legs to stand on.
You are always going to be relying on other sources,
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other people's opinions, and all of that jazz to tell
you what to do. But at the same time, you're
doing a really big disservice to yourself because you're ultimately
not actually tapping into the thing.
Speaker 2 (33:56):
That you really want to do.
Speaker 1 (33:58):
And here's the thing, right, like, when I say, oh,
you're not doing the thing that you really want to do,
you may have an idea of something that you want
to do that you're holding yourself back from doing. But
usually what ends up happening is the things that we
actually really want to do, Like we're not fully aware
of them yet because we're not giving them space to
even exist, because we are so distrusting of ourselves, because
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we are so focused on reaching our goals and getting
to that finish line and strategically making the right moves
and all of this stuff that ends up actually blocking
our connection to our intuition. Anyway, if any of this
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resonated with you, if you're ready to step into your
power and to create the results that you know you
came here to create, with the impact you came here
to create, I would love it if you applied for
Rise Goddess, or if you messaged me about it, if
you've been thinking about it. I have a feeling that
this pro will be a totally up your alley and
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will help you to really step into your inner power,
to let go of what's not serving you, to release
the mindset blocks, and to really just start to radiate
the essence of who you are into the world so
that you can start to attract the opportunities that you
really dream of attracting. What most business owners fail to
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understand is that their lives and the way that their
lives have been shaped greatly influenced the actions that they're
taking today. If you are somebody who knows that you're
here for a greater purpose, you have an impact to
make in the world. But when you look at your actions,
there may be not lining up with that future version
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of yourself. This could mean that you are playing small.
This could mean that you are doubting yourself. This could
mean that maybe you're keeping yourself busy with things to do,
but they're not actually moving the needle forward toward your
dream life in business, I have a master class for you.
It's called Awaken the Goddess Within. In this master class,
we're going to be identifying, well, first, we're going to
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reconnect with your inner goddess. I'm going to walk you
through a really powerful meditation to reconnect with your goddess.
Can here my dog licking incessantly her freaking bowl? Okay,
a powerful meditation to reconnect with your inner goddess. We're
going to identify the limiting beliefs, habits, and behaviors that
are holding you back from realizing your vision. And then
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we're also going to go over how to hack your
brain so that you can manifest the life and business
of your dreams. This masterclass is less than two hours.
If you listen to it on one point five speed,
it'll be probably like sixty.
Speaker 2 (36:40):
Minutes, so worth your time.
Speaker 1 (36:42):
I literally used it myself recently, and it helped me
see the ways in which I was holding myself back because,
contrary to what you might think, I'm human too, and
we all experience this at different levels of growth in
our business. So if you are ready to start taking
a line action toward your bigger vision, and you are
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ready to do the mindset work that is required to
realize your vision, and you are ready to step into
the confident version of yourself who has what she wants already,
then make sure that you sign up for Then make
sure that make sure you sign up for the Awaken
the Goddess within masterclass. You are going to get instant
access and the link can be found in the show
notes or the description box below. I love you anyway.
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If you had any questions, if you enjoyed this episode,
I would love it. First of all, if you shared
your questions with me, I would love to answer them.
And second of all, if you shared this episode with
somebody that you maybe thought of or that could benefit
from this, I will see you in the next episode.
Sending you so much love and abundance. Thank you so
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much for tuning into the podcast today. If you like
what you heard, I would love it if you left
a review.
Speaker 3 (37:52):
If you like my vibe, come and hang with me
in my Facebook or Telegram group. I'll drop the link
to my email list below, or you can get instead access.
Speaker 1 (38:01):
Make sure you check the show notes for any other
links that I mentioned today, and until next time, I'm
sending you waves of abundance.
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