2.24 Healing Relationship Patterns: Attract Your Ideal Partner w/Psychic Healer Christine Forde

In this enlightening episode, we welcomed Christine Ford, a psychic healer and relationship guide for female entrepreneurs, leaders, and professionals with spiritual awareness. We dive into topics such as energy work, emotional healing, and the importance of addressing unresolved issues before entering new relationships. Christine emphasized the value of aligning with one's soul desires rather than conventional approaches to dating, and offered advice on manifesting answers and taking action on intuitive guidance.

Get ready to learn:

• How to become a magnet for your ideal partner
• The value of addressing unresolved emotional baggage before dating
• The benefits of creating conscious relationships over conventional dating
• How to align your heart and soul in the dating process
• Strategies for manifesting answers and guidance
• The significance of taking action on intuitive nudges
• Understanding that it's never too late to move forward in your journey
• The power of self-compassion in personal growth

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DM Christine directly for info on her mini-mind, Date from a Clean Slate! 

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's not easy to do this work, and sometimes it
requires confronting things that you're like, can it just stay
in the past. I just don't want to think about
it anymore. But even saying that you're still thinking about it,
it's still living in your head.

Speaker 2 (00:14):
Rent Free, Welcome to the Aligned and Magnetic Podcast. I'm
your host, Laura Ashley, Intuitive business coach, certified by the
International Coaching Federation, and they call me the Money, Mindset
and Manifestation Queen. I take a spiritual and practical approach

(00:36):
that's backed by neuroscience to help you make your vision
a reality, but more importantly, doing it in a way
that lights you the fuck up. If you're ready to
create an aligned, magnetic, and profitable business so you can
live a life and do the work you are absolutely
in love with, You're in the right place. Get ready

(00:56):
to hear the powerful questions and raw lessons that you
need to create success your way. Thank you so much
for being here. Let's dive in. We have a guest today,
Christine Ford. Christine is a psychic healer and relationship guide
for female entrepreneurs, leaders, and professionals with spiritual awareness who
are yearning for a healthy fulfilling romantic relationship. And what

(01:19):
I love about what you wrote in your bio is
that people already have that spiritual awareness because like it
connects to exactly what we were just talking about, right, Like,
I think more of the people who are really in
tune with their heart and in tune with their soul
need that extra layer of support that I don't know
what you would call it, but like that traditional approaches

(01:43):
just don't really address, if that makes sense. Yeah. So
it's so funny because Christine and I actually connected in
a networking event and we're both like, oh, we want
to do like more podcast guesting or whatever. So I
reached out and I was like, let's, you know, do
a podswap, and we hopped on a call because I

(02:03):
always liked to come up with some topics prior to
getting on an interview and make sure that there's actually
a connection there. And we found that we actually have
a lot of similarities. So we grew up like forty
five minutes apart in different cities, and we went to
the same university. And I can't remember if there were
other things, but I think like some of the things

(02:23):
that we were experiencing when we connected were also really
similar as well. So I say that because I think
it's so beautiful when you start to detach from like
the how am I going to get my next client
or how am I going to do this, this, this, this,
and really just step into the This might sound so weird,
but the word that's coming up is like intergalactic web,

(02:45):
like when you step out of the fixated mindset of
like how am I going to make this much money
and really just focus on business in a much broader
picture and just connecting with the people around you and
really leaning into the things that you feel called to
lean into. For me, that's always where the magic lies.
So I want to share that just because you know,

(03:07):
if anyone's listening and they resonate with that, then you
can take what you will from that. Yeah, is there
anything you want to add before I jump in with questions?
Because I have questions aesome.

Speaker 1 (03:16):
I feel like, yeah, it's multi dimensional too, because we're
connecting on different levels and layers, and nothing is the
way that it appears. I was thinking about this this morning,
that this idea of like oh everyone, this is just
my my you know, monkey brain. Okay, So I recognize

(03:37):
it's not the truth. But my thought was everyone has
made it successfully. They all have a material world sorted,
and I'm not there, and I'm slow, and you know,
I'm behind, and all these weird thoughts. And I was like, well,
what was I doing when they were working through their
material world mastery if you will, like how to function,

(04:00):
and I was doing all my spiritual stuff, Like I
didn't even speak for a while when I was little,
And when I tune into that, and I asked my
soul why that was? Why did I have hard time
learning to speak? Why was it so hard for me
to figure out physical things. It's like, because seventy five
percent of you was in the spiritual realm working on

(04:22):
your spiritual evolution and working on your gifts, like connecting
to your gifts and working with them. Most people aren't
doing that. Their whole attention is on the physical world.

Speaker 2 (04:34):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (04:35):
Like, it's like your energy was split at that time,
which is why it seemed like it was slow, but
you were actually accelerating in an area that isn't recognized
by the average person.

Speaker 2 (04:46):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (04:47):
So it just brought a level of compassion back to myself.
It's like, no, you're not behind, You're exactly where you're
supposed to be because your soul knew that it was
going to come in with the gifts, have to develop them,
and up looking like you're behind everyone else when you're not.

Speaker 2 (05:04):
And I think it's such a I love that you
bring that up because I think that's something that everyone
goes through, like whether you've made it or I mean,
I think we've all made it on some degree, Like
if you're working toward getting yourself out there, and like
it just that comparing yourself, you know when you really
see it objectively, like why is why are we comparing

(05:29):
ourselves to a standard of success? Like yeah, that might
be what we want, but what does it even mean
that we're behind? Do you know what I mean? So
I love that you. I love that you shared that
because there are different things that different people are working on,
And some people are working on the very physical things
and other people are working on their spiritual gifts, and

(05:50):
I think we get the opportunity to work on all
of it throughout our lifetime, but everyone's journey looks so different.
So yeah, that's beautiful, thank you. Okay, So when we
were chatting on our connection call, you had such an
interesting backstory and I would love to know how you

(06:10):
made it here to psychic healer and relationship guide. I
know that's a big question.

Speaker 1 (06:18):
There were a lot of bumps in the road. When
I was little, I saw spirits. That was very normal
for me. My family also did, and so it wasn't
that weird, but it was weird enough that everyone who
everyone in my family who did see spirits or had
spiritual experiences would just pretend like it didn't happen. They

(06:39):
told me would it happened, and they'd say, what happened,
And then, you know, weeks later, months later, or a
year later, I'd bring it up and they'd say, oh,
that was just that didn't really, that wasn't really what.
It almost like gaslighting me in a way, And I
just thought it was strange because I'm like, but why
wouldn't you want to recognize that, Why wouldn't you want
to be present with that? Why wouldn't you want to

(07:00):
develop that? But that was me imposing what I think
somebody should do on other people. And it's like started
to realize, well, we're hanging on a second. That's not
everybody's path. So for some reason, I'm interested in this,
For some reason, I'm developing this for some reason, I
actually want to be very proficient at this. So as

(07:23):
I got older, and you know, I had various life experiences.
I got to a really low place around twenty fifteen
and ended up in England after you know, having some
prophetic dreams. I had my first Stakoshic Records reading and
I'd been given this awareness of like that I was
in fact a healer, and I couldn't understand that what

(07:46):
that meant because I didn't feel at all like I
was good enough to do that. I'm not in a
good state, so why is that happening? Like why you know,
like I need to be in a better I need
to be fully healed in order to heal. Like that's
also not true. You know, of course, you can continue
to work on yourself, and I recommend that if somebody's

(08:06):
a healer or you know, an intuitive that you do
just so that you can kind of stay on top
of your own stuff and not project it onto other people.
It's just sort of a self responsibility and energetic hygiene.
And so yeah, what I you know, when I went
through all of these different experiences, it's you know, continuously
getting the message you already know what to do? Why

(08:28):
are you asking for help here? Why do you need more?
Why do you need somebody to tell you that you
that this? And every time somebody would tell me something,
it would ring in me. Well I already knew that.
Why you know this is a repeat of what I
already knew. But my human self that felt very insecure
and very unaware and very like, well, I'm not good

(08:48):
enough to do this whatever needed the validation, and so
that was like a huge trap for me for a
long time. And now I'm able to do that for myself, thankfully,
after all. And I still fall down once in a while,
when you know, we all go back to sleep metaphorically,
and so yeah, it just feels like this whole journey

(09:11):
has taken me back to myself in a way, and
the work that I've been able to do with myself
and then work with others, because most of the time
i'll do something, I'll get it a download or get
an idea or thought like ooh, I'm going to try
this healing modality that just dropped in, and I try
it on myself for a period of time just to
experiment with it and see what it does. Then I

(09:33):
try it on a close friend, and then I bring
it to my clients slowly but surely. And so this
is my developmental process when I bring in new modalities
and they're not most of those modalities don't come from
external sources. They're all come from like that hot my
higher self essentially. And then sometimes I'll find things in

(09:54):
the external world that overlap that and it makes me
laugh because it's like, oh, I already know, but that's
just the physical world modality that exists, and that's fascinating
to me. Like human design, for example, I have a
friend of mine who's a human design reader and we'll
read for the same person. I'll read their energy and
she'll read their human design charts with all the birth

(10:16):
charts and all of the planetary alignments and all of
that stuff, and we'll get almost the same information.

Speaker 2 (10:22):
That's amazing.

Speaker 1 (10:24):
So it's like, okay, but I do it my way
and she does it her way. But you know, there's
a part of me that wants to like, oh, well,
like I want the valid way that the world perceives
as valid, and it's like, but why do I need that.
That's kind of like when people accumulate certifications and degrees
and stuff like that. But it's like, but you already

(10:46):
know how to do the thing, and you have the experience,
and you've seen results from it from yourself and from others,
and why isn't that enough for you?

Speaker 2 (10:56):
That's literally what I was just thinking of as you
were saying that, is it's we, I feel like, tend
to have this tendency to run away from what we
know to believe to be true for whatever reason. I
think from childhood we kind of get taught that you
can't really trust yourself and all of that. So I

(11:19):
imagine for you there was like a lot of rebuilding
of that self trust and that relationship with your intuition
to be able to actually like confidently take a leap
on it and step forward with the information that you
already knew to be true.

Speaker 1 (11:36):
Yeah it's true. And another big thing for me was
this notion of fitting in and so but what it
really was was seeking connection. And so that's when I
knew like that relationships were a big thing in my life,
and so it was something that I would always be
brought back to through anything I did. If I was

(11:58):
doing something like say I was you know, for a
few years, I did teach on money energetics and like
business and stuff like that. And that was pretty easy
because I felt very detached from it. But then it
was funny because like my higher self would always bring
me back to well, yeah, you can clear that money block,
but it's just going to come back because you ain't

(12:19):
get into the root cause. And guess what the root
cause is. Well, in this person's case, random person A, right,
random person A, the root cause is a falling out
between her and her father and that never got resolved,
Like that was between her and her inner child maybe
six years old and the father figure. And that was
the actual root cause of this person's financial issue. For example,

(12:42):
right or person B, it's not being able to trust
that money could come in because again and again for
that person might have been a parent not being consistent
with them, so you know. And then in other cases
it went deeper and it was like, okay, so it
was something from in the womb, more from a past life.
And it's so like these past lives can sometimes come

(13:04):
in to be cleared because especially for older souls, they
tend to that tends to be like a big theme
for really old souls, as if you have a lot
of things that are coming up that don't make any
sense to your childhood whatsoever. And you have to be
honest with yourself because some people will say, oh, I
have no trauma, and it's like, but like your mom
dropping you off at daycare could be interpreted at as

(13:26):
trauma by your child's subconscious, yeah, child subconscious. So to
say I don't have any trauma like is kind of
crazy to me because it's like most people have some
form of well, my need wasn't met in that exact
instant and registered in my system that it wasn't met,

(13:46):
and so I feel a certain way about it, and
that never went away because it never got addressed or resolved.
And so that's where resolution work comes in, where I'll
do like timeline work for example. And then there's ancestral
trauma too, like it's very similar to the past life
thing actually, but that goes down your ancestral lines. So

(14:08):
these things all come to play, and it's my thing
is not a specific modality. My thing is what does
the soul want me to do? What is it asking
of me? And how does it want me to carry
it out? How does it want me to deliver the message,
How is it going to best benefit the person's mind, body, energy, emotions,

(14:30):
et cetera. And how will they be able to integrate
it in the most effective efficient way. And everyone's different
with that. I love that.

Speaker 2 (14:39):
And just to go back for a second. So you're
a manifestor in human design, right, and I think what's
so cool about just hearing your journey and how you
work with new modalities and stuff like you are actually
designed to pull like ideas, concepts, tools out of thin air.

(15:00):
A lot of entrepreneurs who are generators, even like projectors
manifesting generators, can get frustrated because they're like, well, I'm
trying to come up with this new idea and it's
not working. And I think we can all tap into
our higher selves and stuff like that and receive ideas
and receive direction. But I just think it's so cool

(15:21):
to hear how you are embodying your authentic energy, like
within your practice and within you know how you choose
to help and support people. It's really amazing.

Speaker 1 (15:35):
Thank you Human design. With such a newer concept. I
think I only became aware of it in like twenty eighteen,
so I've been dipping in and out of it because
I have a thing about external modalities. I'm like, I
don't want to trust them too much, but I also
because I don't want to get codependent on them. Yeah,
because that is a tendency that I have. And so

(15:56):
it's like I just have to be very mindful to
create a little bit of distance and not get overly
pedestalized with it.

Speaker 2 (16:04):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (16:05):
Absolutely for me, I love it because it actually supports
what I already connect with. And that's actually how I
do it is I look at the modality and I say, okay,
well it's telling me this, and then let me have
a conversation with my higher self, with my soul, with
my subconscious what's going on? Does this make sense? What's resonant?

(16:25):
What isn't resonant? And so, honestly, though a lot of
it is very resonant, it's just that I have to
go through the self discovery process. So I'm a three
to five emotional manifestor so that three is like that
experimental thing, and so it makes sense that I'm like
that where I don't really trust a thing at face value.

(16:47):
It's like, no, I just need to see how it works. Yeah, Like,
give me a thousand ways to not build a light
bulb and I'll try all of.

Speaker 2 (16:54):
Them and until I come to the way, till I
find the way. I think it's so interesting, though, right,
because that's such a big part. We were talking at
the beginning about how you've been experimenting with different things
and you've seen that through different phases of your business,
and those are elements that like, those are elements in

(17:14):
that are so unique to each leader of each business
that I think is not really addressed or looked at.
And I think once we've accept who we are as
individuals and lead with that acceptance and see that stuff
as strengths instead of weaknesses, then I think we can
not just build something that's more successful, but also just

(17:36):
be at peace with our progress and our journey. And
I think that that's a really big thing for me,
because if you just spend your life fighting yourself and
fighting back against what you're doing, then I mean, you
can't really find happiness. Right.

Speaker 1 (17:52):
So it's like saying, like the happiness is just over there.
I just have to get over there. You get over there,
You're always here, You're always exactly where you are. I've
done the runaway to a different country, and hopefully my
problems will disappear. But guess what I brought myself with me?
So yeah, my problems came with Yeah, yeah, same thing.

(18:18):
It's like, oh, well if I jump this person then
and get a new figgured about this thing anymore and
you get into the next relationship. Oh shoot, this person's
also triggering me in this same issue, maybe just in
a different way. What's going on.

Speaker 2 (18:34):
Exactly? So yeah, I love that you bring up the
relationship piece. Can you tell us more about what you
do as a psychicealer and relationship guide, like how do
you work with clients? Who do you work with? How
do you help them?

Speaker 1 (18:47):
I'm really you know, like I said, I'm in an
experimental I've just come out of an experimental phase. So
one of the things that I noticed is that I
just get a lot of I go through with certain
life experiences. So for a lot of times, I have
life experience of needing to learn, enforce and master my boundaries.
So that might be like articulating the boundaries that you know,

(19:08):
and then there's energetically embodying the boundaries. Then there's okay,
well where are the cracks in my boundaries? Like the exceptions?
Where am I making exceptions that are not actually aligned,
but they're something that my ego thinks I need to
keep so that I can be liked or I can
fit in, or I can have a certain thing that
I think I need, which is very shady behavior really

(19:32):
if you look at it from that perspective, it's like, okay,
but that's the part I need to have compassion with
and work through and say, Okay, I acknowledge that this
is shady. I'm not going to do this anymore because
this isn't right, doesn't feel good to my soul, and
I don't get great results from it, like I want
long lasting, healthy relationships, not this mess right. So for me,

(19:53):
it's like having to go through a process, say something
like that, and then embodying it and then coming into
a place where Okay, now I don't even necessarily need
to articulate a boundary. I can actually energetic be energetically
owning the boundary. So my energy is the boundary. And
so now that I'm at that point, for example, that's

(20:14):
where I'm going to go and focus on helping people
with boundaries and standards and things like that, like energetic
standards and then healthy boundaries and what that actually means
and I've already done some of that with past clients
and things like that. You know, another thing was getting
into the heart, like really being in your heart with
another person. Like that's extremely vulnerable and extremely uncomfortable for

(20:39):
people who have a lot of barriers in their heart
or a lot of hurt in their heart. So they'll say, oh,
I you know, I really want to have a relationship
with this person, but your subconscious is saying, hell, no,
I do not want that. And so part of my
gift is to be able to see through people's words.
So it's like your words are saying but your energy

(21:01):
is saying that. And because there's such a disconnect, like
there's complete opposition between the two, you're misaligned. And you're
being been authentic, not that you're trying to be. It's
not like you're trying to do it. It's not conscious,
but it's like I almost like I'm trying to override
what I really feel. And it's like you can't override
what you really feel. You have to face what you

(21:22):
really feel. You have to own what you really feel
or think. And even if those things aren't true to
who the core of who you are, they're true to
some part of you. They feel true to some part
of you, maybe the part of you that was conditioned,
maybe the part of you that was hurt, and so
you actually have to deal with that. It doesn't just
go away because you throw some affirmations at it. And

(21:45):
affirmations are great. I'm pro affirmation, but clean up your
stuff before you put the affirmations, and you don't want
to put paint gold on poop like it's still poop.

Speaker 2 (21:56):
I love that I call affirmations band aid like when
they're not coupled with that deeper introspection, because yeah, you
bring up such a big part of I mean like
life and manifestation and getting what you want. Because I
also hear a lot of people saying this, but then

(22:16):
when you watch their behaviors and how they even present
themselves to the world, it says something completely different and
you can't like it just doesn't. It doesn't work that way.
There's so much in our work and so many layers
to align both the subconscious and the conscious, the energy,

(22:38):
the mindset, even the actions right and looking at what
actions are going to align with what I'm saying I
want or what I'm saying I need or whatever. What
I'm saying that I'm not going to do anymore. So, yeah,
it's big work.

Speaker 1 (22:53):
It's good work, but it doesn't have to take over
your whole life.

Speaker 2 (22:57):
No.

Speaker 1 (22:57):
Yeah, I'm a proponent of don't put your life hold
and then go do healing for five years or two
years or whatever. Don't do that. You're still gonna have
to live a life. We're here to live lives. Every relationship,
interaction you have, every issue or problem that you come
up against, is part of you becoming aware of something

(23:18):
that is maybe conditioning wounding not you, not self if
you will, and then making an adjustment. Okay, I recognize this,
and what do I need to do to release this?
What do I need to do to accept this? What
do I need to do to Maybe I just need
to cry. Maybe I need to give myself an hour
to cry about this particular thing that happened when I

(23:40):
was five? Did I ever really cry or grieve it? No? Okay,
well guess what that grief is still stuck inside of you,
and so you're gonna have to give yourself some time
to do it. You can build that into your day.
If you don't have to spend a week on this,
you could spend. You could tell yourself, Okay, me and
inner child, we're gonna have a meeting at six o'clock

(24:01):
and we're going to cry for half an hour about
this particular thing because I'm still feeling a lot of
feelings about it and I just need to emote. And
so if I give myself time, if I schedule time
with myself throughout my life, throughout my week, it's practical.
You can break it down. It doesn't take over your
whole life. In fact, the more you avoid it, the

(24:22):
more it does take over your whole life, because it
keeps coming back. It keeps circling your head like a
hornet or something, and it's like, hey, guess what, I'm
still here, your heay, because when I'm still and it
takes up way more of your energy. That way to
do it than to just make a decision that you're
going to deal with this. You're going to work with
it with whatever's coming up right now, and then I'm
going to schedule time for myself to do it. Every morning,

(24:45):
I wake up and I do reiki, I do a meditation,
I do visualization. I do those things, and then I
go and make a plan for what I'm going to
do for my day to strategize. Okay, well, I'd love
to do this. Am I in alignment with it? Yes?
I am. Okay, Okay, let me move forward on that thing.
What about this, Well, I'm not totally in alignment with it.
I have a belief about it, Okay, So I know

(25:07):
I need to work on that or I need to
just let it go whatever I can do. If I
can't just let it go, then I have to be
real with myself about that, because there's a reason I
can't let it go. There's a reason I'm holding on
to it. Some part of me doesn't feel safe until
I accept something or work through something. So it's being
real with yourself. And I think that's the most challenging

(25:29):
part is that it's not a linear process. It's not
a one size fits all. Every person has a different
process at any given time. It's going to change. So
I don't try to make it all the same way
all the time. Give yourself flexibility to move through things
with more ease and grace and understanding and empathy, because

(25:50):
it's like having empathy for yourself.

Speaker 2 (25:52):
Yeah. Absolutely, I love that. And I think one of
the biggest obstacles that I've seen. I don't know. You
can tell me if this is something you've seen as well.
But one of the biggest obstacles is that people don't
So maybe they'll schedule the time in to sit with themselves,

(26:14):
but then they'll create every excuse to not or if
they're not creating it, other things just conveniently pop up
into their lives and oh, I can't do that thing
that I scheduled. What are your thoughts on that, because
I know a lot of people in my circle struggle
with that.

Speaker 1 (26:32):
That is pure resistance and self sabotage because you're on
the one hand, it's like, maybe I don't fully understand
the value of doing this. I think it's just going
to be another task for me to do and it's
going to be ridiculous and a waste of my time.
A lot of times, that excuse underneath it is I

(26:55):
am scared beyond belief. I do not want to face this.
I do not want to look at this. I am
not ready. And if I were in that person's position,
what I would do is I would face that fear
and I'd say, Okay, I understand you. You're here, you're scared,
and are you willing to just acknowledge that with me,

(27:16):
I'm gonna just be with that fact that I'm scared
of it. I don't really want to do it because
I'm scared of what's gonna come up. I'm scared of
what I'm gonna have to change. Maybe I'm gonna have
to get out of this relationship, because I already feel
like I'm gonna have to get out of this relationship.
And I don't want to face that because it's going
to turn my life upside down and I'm not gonna
know what to do, and this person's gonna be mad

(27:38):
at me, and that person's going to be disappointed in me,
and then these people aren't gonna like me anymore. And
we have all these things that just randomly come up,
and that's the real reason why you don't want to
do it. And so that's very rational for the mind
to do. And so it's facing that, Okay, Like, I
get it. You don't want to face this, you're scared
of this, you're afraid of that. You could write down

(27:59):
all your fears. You could. I'm afraid of these things
and if they happened, would it be the end of
my life? Would it be the end of everything, Would
I die like I Sometimes I'll go to the extreme.
It's like I would it cause me to die? Well, no,
but it would be uncomfortable. But would I find a
way to deal with it and work through it?

Speaker 2 (28:19):
Well?

Speaker 1 (28:19):
Yeah, And so you kind of have to have this
little back and forth between you and yourself to just
basically get yourself to the point where Okay, okay, I'm
gonna do it like I'm gonna do it. I'm gonna
have that conversation that I'm afraid of. And maybe sometimes
they don't even happen. Sometimes these fears are like catastrophicizing,

(28:40):
and it's the worst case scenario because it's your mind
trying to protect you, and so that doesn't necessarily mean
it's going to happen. I'll give you an example. I
was This isn't a relationship thing, but it was something
I really wanted. I was going for my driver's test,
my final highway test or whatever, and I really real
with the fact that I might fail. I was doing

(29:02):
a lot of different things. I was doing a hypnosis.
I was practicing to get more confident. I was asking
people to point out where what I was doing wrong
so that I could improve it. I was doing all
the things right to prepare and then I was like,
but if I failed, what would it mean? Well, maybe
I would have to restart and do all the tests
all over again. But do I still want the thing

(29:25):
that I want that badly that I would be willing
to do that if it happened. Hell yeah, without a doubt.
I am getting this thing. Whether I get it tomorrow
or whether I get it six months from now or
two years from now. I don't care when it happens.
It's going to happen because I really want it. It's
important to me. And so if you can have that
attitude like, yeah, if the worst thing happens, will I

(29:49):
still be okay? Will I still be able to dust
myself off and try again. If I can do that,
then it just it creates more confidence in it, It
creates less attachment to something happening or not happening, and
it lessens the fear too. And it just puts you
back into your body too, And that's really important because

(30:10):
you're just in your mind when you're in that state,
when you're in the self sabotage. And that's the other
thing you mentioned about, Oh, just stuff, just randomly happens
and then prevents me. I've done that too. I broke
both of my feet to sabotage myself in a span
of five years.

Speaker 2 (30:31):
But that's wild.

Speaker 1 (30:33):
This is crazy. It's like, are you kidding me? And
the way that it happened was so ridiculous too, And
so it really forced me to confront like what am
I running away from? What do my feet try to
take me somewhere where my soul is saying, Nope, we
ain't going there. Sorry, you're gonna sit your butt down.
You're gonna focus on your healing. You're going to face

(30:54):
the things you're afraid of in this home with these people,
and that's gonna be what it is going to be.
And you don't have a choice in this matter. Because
I made an agreement with my soul that I wasn't
going to run away anymore. At some my subconscious tried
to make that happen. There was an intervention. Now, did
it have to be that extreme? No, But like if

(31:15):
I'd been a little bit more you know, maybe I
don't know, but I think if I'd been a little
bit more like honest with myself, like I'm scared of
this and I don't really don't want to face this,
but I'm going to anyways, and I know I'm going
to be supported by my guides, by my higher self,
by other people who care about me. I can bring

(31:36):
support in. I'm worthy of that. Like that took practice
to get me to the point of being able to
accept that, allow that, and I'm still working through some
of that, right, but it's part of the process. And
so if it's like, Okay, I want to do this thing,
but I'm not letting myself do the thing, just get
honest with yourself. So you really don't want to do it,
you're not in the right place for it, but at

(31:58):
some point or another, you're going to have to do it,
Like you're gonna have to. It's either gonna be the
easy way of their hard one.

Speaker 2 (32:04):
Say well, And I find it's funny that you mentioned
breaking both your feet, because I find that the more
we ignore what our internal voice is telling us, the
like you get to a point where something physical does intervene.
I had that happen a couple weeks ago, where I
kept saying for the entire month of August, like I
just need a break, I just need a break. I

(32:25):
just need a break. But my ego is so focused
on what's next, what's next, what's next. I got to
launch my next thing. I got to launch my next thing,
And so I didn't let myself like I was working
as I could, because I always reached this point in
the summer where my energy just drops and I can't
accomplish as much. But yeah, I got to this point
where I don't even know how it happened. I couldn't

(32:47):
tell you because there was no moment that was like,
this is what happened. But yeah, I totally sprained my
ankle and I literally couldn't walk. I was hopping around
and crawling for a solid couple of days. But I
that happened, and I was like, Okay, it's a clear

(33:08):
message like I need to chill out and stop and
if I need to take a break, I need to
take a break. If I need to put this launch
on hold, I need to put the launch on hold.
But you know what happens. I think that we're both
talking about is that we really try to force our
way and force our desires, our mental desires, like our

(33:30):
desires that maybe we don't trust or believe that everything's
going to unfold and divine timing and that everything is
going to be okay, and that you can take a
break and you can take time to heal in your
day to day life, and you can take time to
look at the thoughts that are scary for you. And
if you don't, then you know it's not going to
be a complete surprise when something physical happens.

Speaker 1 (33:53):
That's why I don't always like and this might be
a contentcious topic, but I don't believe in accidents. Yeah,
I don't believe anybody just randomly gets in an accident.
I don't believe in randomness personally because when I look
at the energy, because if I stand back and I'm like, okay,
well let me just look at the energy. What am
I seeing? I'm clairvoyant, I'm Claire Audien, Claire Alien, Claire, sentient.

(34:16):
I have it all and I can see it all
really clearly. Especially it's so easy in other people. Yeah,
because we have our own blind spots, which is why
I work with somebody. But when I look at the energy,
I'm like, well, that energy actually started back you know,
ten years ago. That's when that energy initiated. And so

(34:37):
now you're at this sort of peak point where okay,
like the soul saying, I'm we're done with this cycle.
Let's complete it now. It's time. Of course, you have
free will, and you're a human can say, hey, I'm
going to override that. We're going to keep that cycle
going on another three years because I ain't ready to
face it. Fine, but then there's a point at which

(34:58):
the soul says, okay, no, that's enough, Like you're literally
going to sabotage all these other things that are very
important for you to do in your life. And so
that's why I say, get really on board with your soul.
When your soul sayes it want something, or it wants
to accomplish something or do something or go for something,
it's really important that you allow that to move through you.

(35:19):
And like you said, things do happen in divine timing,
and all the things you're afraid of, it's never going
to happen. I'm never going to be successful. I'm going
to be broke forever, that I'm going to be single forever.
I'm gonna be alone forever. Whatever your fear is is
probably unfounded. And I always see them as these sort
of little energies that kind of infiltrate that wound, and
it's like, eh, let those go because they're actually not

(35:43):
helping you, and they're almost always stuck in the mental body.

Speaker 2 (35:45):
There.

Speaker 1 (35:46):
Never miss the soul aspect of your body. So your
soul's not going to take you off track. It might
not do what your mind expects it to do, but
it's going to get you to a place that feels
really good.

Speaker 2 (35:59):
Yeah. Yeah. I always say that our soul has the
it's like our GPS. Right, So when people talk about, oh,
I want to achieve all these goals, but they don't
actually have a clear idea of where they're headed, it's
really difficult to allow our soul to take us there
because we just try to mentally create like some sort

(36:23):
of pathway. But I found in my work and in
my life that I can make all of the mental
gymnastics happen to reach a goal, but it's never going
to unfold the way that I think. So surrender and
letting go of control, letting go of the outcome has
been a huge topic for me on my path, and

(36:44):
I imagine that's probably something you work with a lot
of your clients onto.

Speaker 1 (36:48):
Oh, surrender is so important because it's you staying okay, Soul, okay, Universe, Okay, God, okay,
Higher Self. I trust you, Just take it out of
my hands. I've done everything I can physically to facilitate
and co create this experience or this particular desire or

(37:10):
this manifestation, and it's now in your hands. Yeah, and
you literally have to let it go. You literally, like
I sometimes will write down the desire it's like it
is done and then burn it or it into a
bunch of pieces because it's like I really need it
to go out of my energy.

Speaker 2 (37:29):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (37:30):
It doesn't mean I've given up on it. It just
means that I've decided that there's nothing more I'm going
to do on this. And my intention is very powerful.
I believe that our intentions are very powerful and manifest instantaneously,
but not always in the physical instantaneously, so energetically they're manifested.

(37:52):
You know, Universe works with all the other energies that
are on the planet to co create and facilitate the experience.
And then it's up to us to face our fears
and have courage to actually take the steps that we
need to take. Do the scary thing, make the call,
have the confrontational conversation with this person or whatever. Well

(38:14):
they won't like me after well they might not. Can
you be okay with that? Can you like yourself enough
that it's okay to have that conversation anyway? Can you
be courageous and brave and bold enough to do it anyway?

Speaker 2 (38:28):
Yeah? Absolutely, I love that. I think the biggest thing though,
that's yeah coming up for me is just that mental
mind game that we play with ourselves and just like
our intentions manifest instantaneously. And I was actually going to
add on to what you were saying about, you know,

(38:49):
burning what it is that you want, and you're right,
it's not about not it's not about throwing that vision
or that intention away, but rather just handing it over, right,
like passing it up off, choosing that you're not going
to obsess over how when if it happens, or try
to figure out how it's going to happen. But you're saying, like,
this is what I want. It's already happened, and show

(39:13):
me the way, God, show me the way, Universe, Spirit,
high yourself, whatever it is, and bring it to me.
So yeah, I love that you mentioned that. One question
that I always ask my podcast guess is what does
alignment mean to you?

Speaker 1 (39:29):
Alignment means clarity and connection and embodiment of the mind,
the body, the emotions, and the soul, and if one
of them is off, there's misalignment. It's kind of like

(39:52):
if you've imagine your physical body and your cells. They
all work together to you know, repair your liver or
to digest your food. If a bunch of them said, hey,
you know what, I'm just not going to do that today,
and then you had a bunch that were like, I'll
do it, but I got to do over time, Well,
you probably know some sort of issue or digestive problem

(40:14):
for example. Right, So when you're everything is moving in
towards the same direction with the same intention, that's alignment.
That's to me, a true alignment because it's just you're
all on the same page. You're all moving in the
same direction, you're all working together. You're all like, Okay,
this is my job, going to do it, This is

(40:35):
my job, going to do it. Everyone has their jobs,
and everyone doing their jobs gets the whole human body
or the whole human vessel towards where it wants to go.

Speaker 2 (40:46):
Mm hm, I love that explanation. That's a really good
image to put into perspective and just think about, because yeah,
every piece of us does have a function or like
a purpose, right, like a job to do, and if
it's stuck doing other jobs or it's like you said
the word earlier, if it's not what was the word

(41:08):
that you used. When they're not, they're disconnected or they're
just not.

Speaker 1 (41:12):
Dissociated, they're not on the same page. They're like pretty
much directions like so one is I'm going to go
I'm going to go process this fear because the breast
of the human part of me is not willing to
process this fear. So then there's a bunch of cells
in your body that are trying to tackle this fear
on its own. And then so it ends up creating

(41:34):
what I would call split energy.

Speaker 2 (41:35):
Yes exactly what Yeah.

Speaker 1 (41:38):
So you have like okay, well here's the digestive cells,
but here's the cells that actually that their job is
not supposed to be processing this trauma. That's another parts
of you job. But that part of you is being
blocked by your ego or by a story or by
a fear, and so you're not willing to do it.
So now these cells or this part of you has
to take over and then it creates thelo the split energy,

(42:01):
the issue.

Speaker 2 (42:03):
I love that explanation in terms of relationships. Do you
what would you say to someone who wants to have
more fulfilling relationships but they're struggling with repeating the same
patterns over and over again.

Speaker 1 (42:22):
Yeah, it's similar to what I was saying before. It's
really about getting real when you go into that next relationship,
are you doing it from a pure intentional place? And
what is your intention? Why are you in that relationship?
And if any of it is because I'm afraid of

(42:43):
because I don't want to deal with, because I'm scared of,
like I don't want to be alone, so I'm just
going to go be with this person even though I
haven't resolved whatever it was that I need to resolve.
There's something I'm avoiding about myself. So that's where I
often see pass terns of like relationships, like somebody like
a I guess, a serial relationship person where they're just

(43:05):
like in a relation, one after another after another after another.
And what I see under like from the root cause
of that is avoidance of self. Well, what's under the
avoidance of self? I'm scared to deal with whatever it is.
I'm scared to deal with this thing that happened with
my first boyfriend or my first friend. Even doesn't even

(43:27):
have to be a romantic part or it could be a
friendship that fell apart when you were a kid or
you were a teenager, and so since then, it's like
you've always had this sort of barrier between you and
other people, and so you end up manifesting similar types
of behaviors as maybe the friend that created the breakdown,
and the reason that that happens is because some part
of you is trying to resolve it. It's the same

(43:48):
with why a lot of people will manifest issues that
they had with their father. For example, especially women, they'll
manifest similar issues that they had with their father in
their current relationship. They might not look the same, it
might not happen exactly the same way, but the energy
signature is the same. And so what it is is

(44:09):
that you haven't resolved this thing with your father. You
haven't gone through whatever you need to do to resolve it.
That doesn't mean you have to go and forgive him
if he was being abusive to you, or that you
should have contact with him if you've gotten no contact
for very practical safety reasons, but it just means that
there's an energy between you two that has not been resolved.

(44:30):
And if you have anger, if you have resentment, if
you have judgment, if you have hurt and pain and
anything like that, that's not necessarily affecting him, that's affecting you.
It's like you're carrying around a truckload of stuff and
you're like, I need to hold onto this because I
need to justify my feelings about this person and what

(44:54):
they did. And again, it's not about excusing any bad
behaviors that this is a very internal process. It's very
much an energetic process. And so if you can confront
these things that happened and start slow, you don't need
to overwhelm yourself and try and do it all in
one shot. Like, Hey, maybe I'm going to work on

(45:15):
looking at my resentment today and I can recognize that
that's not helping me to move forward in a way
that I want to move forward in. And I feel
justified in being resentful because of what happened, and at
the same time, I recognize it's still not helping me.
So it's kind of finding ways that work for you

(45:38):
to work through these things. And I know that sounds
really vague because there's so many different ways you could
for practical reasons. You could start with EFT tapping, like
emotional freedom technique. That's a really great one. I had
a teacher for two years work with me on certain stuff.
It was great, and so it was like became a
modality that I turned to because it was very helpful
to me. Might not resonate for everybody. Maybe journalings more

(46:01):
your thing. Maybe you need to physically move the energy
out through exercise or some sort of a movement. Maybe
you need to ground more. Maybe you need to just
sit your butt on the earth or walk on the
sand on the beach. Whatever it is that helps you
to move those old, dense energies, that's going to start
to help. And that's the first step. It's about being

(46:23):
honest about what happened, is being honest about how you
really feel about it, and going to the part of
you that feels like, well, I want them to suffer,
so I'm going to continue to be mad at them,
But they're not suffering while you'd be mad at them.
You're suffering while you'd be mad at them. And so
it's recognizing that that's not going to get you into
where you want to go. And so if you're manifesting

(46:46):
the same relationship over and over again, I would say
pause and look at why you're avoid what you're avoiding,
what you're afraid of, and why you can't let it go.
What's your story about why you can't let it go?
I can't let it go because and really inquire about it,
ask it questions, because it's almost like you're asking a

(47:07):
part of you questions that has information that you need.
And this is why I love doing the work that
I do because I can look at that, pull those
and pull that information out and then we can clear
it very quickly. You know, of course, if that person
chooses to bring that story back, that's that's more work
that they're going to end up having to do. But
we can clear these things very quickly and bring you

(47:30):
to a clean slate. But that's on you to decide.
Are you really get real with yourself? Are you really
ready to let it go? Or some part of you
still getting something out of it? Is your ego still
getting something out of it? It's okay if it is,
like is this is not a judgment thing, This is
just being honest.

Speaker 2 (47:50):
Yeah, it's almost like a coming to terms with what
happened and with a way to move forward in a
way that's going to be almost like freeing and feel
like freedom for each individual person, whatever that looks like exactly. Yeah,
I have one more question that I want to ask.
So I went on a huge healing journey and I
feel like I got to a place where I was

(48:13):
super open with a lot of people, with strangers, with family,
with and then something's happened in my life where it
I felt like I closed off again, and so I
and I've been healing and working through that. But I
think a lot of people close their hearts or close
off parts of who they are for fear of repeating

(48:35):
the same patterns over and over again. And I wonder
what your thoughts are on, like, how do you integrate
those old experiences And there's obviously a purpose and a
reason behind closing yourself off, but also come to a
place where you can maybe have a little bit more
discernment but also be free to be yourself around those

(49:00):
that you love. Do you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (49:03):
Yeah, that's a big question. And there are installments or
like seasons that you've go through like kind of like
you know, this idea of like you're experimenting and then
you're in getting clear on something and then you're like, Okay,
i'm gonna do this and I'm going to focus on it,
and then I'm going to refine it, and then it's
going to break down and then I'm going to have
go through that cycle again. It's the same kind of

(49:25):
idea of that in a sense, not exactly, but it's
going through stages almost.

Speaker 2 (49:30):
Yeah, almost like the grief process of the grief cycle.

Speaker 1 (49:33):
Right exactly, And so I would even equate it to that,
but each person is slightly different as to like why
they're going through, like why that close hearted thing comes
up again. And for me, it's more valuable to look
at exactly what the root cause was, where it originally
came from, because sometimes it doesn't even make sense, like

(49:54):
I said, doesn't make sense to this lifetime. Sometimes there's
a soul contract between you and that per where it's like, Okay,
there's clearly an unresolved energy and so it keeps playing
out in every relationship and I don't know why. And
that's a blind spot. That's a real authentic blind spot.
For somebody who may not see it that way, right,

(50:17):
and so the way that I would do it, because
this is like, it's not easy, and I'm not going
to tell you that, oh yeah, just do this and
it's easy, it's done. No, it's a complex situation. Yeah,
it's a complicated situation because you have to go to
the places where you originally felt like you were constantly
let down or disappointed that when every time you were

(50:39):
your true self you got knocked down a peg, you
got you know, penalized for it, you got in trouble
for it, or something bad happened, you lost people because
of it. Now the other side of it is, well,
maybe I lost people, but was it the reason that
I thought it was me being authentic? Wasn't actually the

(51:02):
reason why this? You know, So the original root cause
might be something that had nothing to do with what
your brain thought it was or what your inner child
told you it was. Oh, here's the story, this is
what really happened, and this is why. And then when
you go from it from that bird's eye perspective, the
soul's perspective, the higher minds perspective, the soul says, no,

(51:23):
I had nothing to do with it. That was just
your story. You made that story up so that you
could understand why that person was behaving that way with you.
Oh okay, so it wasn't because I was being authentic. No,
that person had some sort of an issue and maybe
you being authentic emphasized to them that they were being
very disingenuous about something and they got triggered by it.

(51:45):
Does that mean you being authentic was bad? No, it
just means that they had a very strong reaction to
authenticity because they could feel in themselves that they were
not doing it, that they were ashamed of it, maybe
on some level felt bad about it, and you showing
up authentically just highlighted it for them and made them
feel uncomfortable with themselves. And so instead of, I don't know,

(52:10):
working on themselves, they decided to project you know. And
so it's really it's not always the case. Sometimes it's
not projection. So I wouldn't automatically assume it's that, but
I would just say explore could it be that? And
was there some sort of projection that I internalized or
that I interpreted as Like, because kids are very self focused,

(52:34):
so they think that everything they do and everything that
happens around them is because of them, and it gives
them also a sense of control too, like, well, if
it was because of me, I can fix that because
I'm the problem. And that's not always the case. Yeah.
Sometimes there's things that we do that we wish we
hadn't done. And then there's other times where it's like, no,
like this person being irrationally angry or miserable all the

(52:57):
time really had nothing to do with me. They were
being that way for whatever reason. They had their own
stuff going on. I have to basically make peace with
the fact that that person is miserable, that person is angry.
I can't control them, and I can't make them feel
better about themselves or their life. And that's where that

(53:18):
can be very hard for somebody who wants to love
and care about people around them or save them on
some level. And that's where you have to face the
fact that everyone's got their own things going on, and
they also all have connection to the Divine, to their
higher self, and they can turn to that at any time. Yeah,
and it's their choice whether they do so or not,

(53:39):
and you have no control over whether they do it.
You can suggest it to them, you can say, hey,
maybe look at this, and then they could just turn
around and not do it, And you have to be
detached from all of that. That can be very hard,
especially if you're very like compassionate person. Yeah, so it's
creating a little bit of detachment from that. If you're

(54:00):
working through something like that and you're noticing that these
sort of unfulfilling relationships continue to pop up, it's really, okay,
what's the underlying story here, what happened originally, And it's
always going to be one place, like there's going to
be one origin point where all started, and you might
not remember it, and that can be hard if you

(54:22):
dissociated when you're a child, because your memories literally don't stick,
but they stuck in your cells yourself remember. So you
could even talk to your body cells. I like to
do that sometimes like a scripting, like body cells, I
want you to talk to me about this body cells
on my liver. I want you to talk to me
about this and ask it questions. You know, and if

(54:42):
you have a strong connection to your intuition, you'll be
able to feel the difference between what's your conscious mind
or what's your higher self and these body cells. For example,
right it's going to feel very true when they speak.
When they say is going to feel true, and it's
not going to feel like completely are you sure? Yeah,

(55:05):
feel true. You're gonna have a connection to what they're
saying because you're gonna be like, oh, I know that,
and this is just confirmation.

Speaker 2 (55:13):
Yeah, that's amazing. Thank you for sharing that tool. I've
done some similar type of kind of visualization, but I
have never done it the way that you've shared, So
thank you so very valuable tool. Something that just came
up for me as you were talking is really just
I think our minds are so fixated on making meaning,

(55:39):
Like you mentioned right, and something that I used, I
think it was like one time with a client and
then she loved it so much that I'm like, I
need to use that more often with myself and with others.
But just really asking yourself, what if the thing that
you're making mean something so big actually means nothing. What
if it actually means absolutely nothing at all? Because people

(56:01):
will get stuck in their heads like oh, I can't
make money because I'm overweight, I can't make money because
I don't have any clients yet, I can't make money
because of this and that and the other thing, and
it's like, well, what if actually none of that is
real at all? And I think that that can sometimes
be a helpful place to just come back to neutrality
and just step into our power again and realize that actually,

(56:24):
at any moment, you can make whatever you want mean
whatever you want.

Speaker 1 (56:30):
I have this I bought this notebook a while back,
and it's like conversation says on the title of it.
It's like just a journal and it says conversations with
the soul. And I just thought about, you know, like
if you just talk to your soul about what is
going on and you could actually tune in and listen
to it and know in fact that it is your soul,

(56:52):
Like that's important, have a level of discernment where it
can work on that. Okay, but if you're at that
point where you can do that, ask your soul, well,
objectively or what is the actual truth of the situation? Yeah, right,
And so it might say, well, there's a lesson here,
there's again the situation. There's there's something that's actually in

(57:15):
service to you. You know, this person came out of
your life because your souls were no longer walking the
same path. It doesn't mean you did anything wrong. It
doesn't mean that. You know, if you feel you did
something wrong, address that and actually work through that, take
accountability within yourself for that if that's actually true. But
if you do that and you still feel like, but

(57:37):
I still must have done something else and I can't
fathom what it might have been, ask your soul. Ask
your soul. You could even have Sometimes I do this
before bed. It's like, if I have a question, I'll
say to my higher self or I'll just talk to myself.
I want to have the answer to this particular thing
that I'm dealing with through my dream state. Make up

(57:59):
the next day and I might get an obvious answer
like drop into my into my crown chakra and I
just hear it right away. And other times it just
happens through my life experience and I just see things
or I notice things and it's like, oh my god,
that's the answer. I'll go on Facebook and I'll see
like a thing that pops up and I'm like, okay,

(58:23):
you know, cute Twilight Zone music, but yeah, it's it's
you know, there's so many ways that we can communicate
with ourselves. You can even do it through nature. You
could talk to me truth. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (58:35):
I love bringing nature lessons into my life and just
leaning on the elements for support. Yeah, so you are
launching a mini mind. Do you want to tell us
about it?

Speaker 1 (58:49):
Yes? So this mini mind it's called Day from a
Clean Slate, and it's about discovering how to become a
magnet to your ideal partner. And it's really about the
dating process. It's about getting you into So if you're
somebody who is dating or wants to date like this
is and you're this typically for women. I mean, if

(59:11):
you're a dude and you want to come in, that's okay,
But just so you know, this is centered towards women.
But essentially, what we're going to do is that seven days,
we're going to go through different levels of connecting to
what's coming up and what's creating blockages within you that
keep facilitating similar experiences. Cause it's sort of like, oh,

(59:33):
you know, I'm going to show up for this date
and little does this person know I have all this baggage,
but I'm going to show up with a smile and
beautiful makeup on my face and I'm just going to
look like top tier and they're not going to know
about it until six months down the line or three
months down the line that I'm hiding a lot of
this old, unresolved stuff. I ex did this anytime that

(59:55):
you know, anything where it's like I was a victim
to the situation. These people always do this to meet
Like those kinds of things are things that we can
resolve through energy work, through emotional healing, through mental healings.
I'm going to be creating videos for this, and so
each day you're going to be able to receive and
a download basically that I'm going to bring through. We're

(01:00:17):
going to start with what do you want and get
clear on that and think about things that you know,
I don't think it's possible to have a really awesome
dating experience, if that's something you want, or really awesome
dating experience, or maybe you don't really want to date anymore.
You're like, I kind of want to meet somebody, but
I don't really want to do the traditional dating approach.
You know, I want something else. The reason your heart

(01:00:40):
is saying you want something else is because something else
is available and so or you're avoiding something. So we'll
figure out one of the two. One of the two
and so I'm going to be doing Q and as
throughout the challenge as well to just sort of address
people's stuff because as using my gifts, I can pinpoint
specific things and what you would need to do to

(01:01:01):
address it, and then we're going to probably do some
energy healing through it as well, so you'd be able
to attend those and so yeah, that's what I'm really
excited about delivering this because I think a lot of
people are looking for something like this. I know I
kind of wanted something like this, and I thought, you know,
this idea of like I don't have to kind of

(01:01:21):
try and sift and sort through a bunch of like
you know, like bargain bin bargain basement time dates. You know,
I can actually get myself into an aligned relationship without
having to put myself through really crummy experiences. And that
doesn't mean things aren't going to test your courage or

(01:01:42):
things aren't going to test your ego. It just means
that you're going to be on a higher path towards
a more conscious relationship. And so typically spiritual and conscious
women are going to be drawn to my work in general,
but especially to this program if you're just kind of like, yeah,
I've done this sort of like conventional matrix style dating,

(01:02:03):
and I'm miserable. I'm not happy with it. It's not
giving me what I want. I want something that's going
to light my soul up. You know, you might end
up with somebody or find somebody who you completely couldn't
even imagine you would be with. But because your hearts
are so aligned and you feel so loved in that relationship,
you're like, WHOA. I never would have imagined that my

(01:02:23):
soul could take me to this because my mind, sure
as heck wasn't and my mind was the one that
was basically trying to create all the dates and set
up all the dates and choose the right person. It's like,
but my mind is pulled in a dozen different directions.
It's got trauma, it's got conditioning, it's got you know,
fanciful ideas that are mostly disguised for avoidance. So let

(01:02:48):
me get onto track where my soul actually wants to go,
so that I can have that conscious relationship where I
feel the way I want to feel in the relationship itself,
and feel the way I want to feel while I'm dating.
Maybe I want a more exciting experience, a more fun experience.
You know, I don't want to be ghosted. Okay, let's

(01:03:08):
let's find out why you're getting ghosted all the time.
Let's sort out the real cause of that, Fredom And
so this is going to be very much tapping into
what are the fears coming up and what do we
need to do to release them specifically for you as
you come into the Master of the Mini Mind.

Speaker 2 (01:03:24):
Amazing, it sounds so good. Is pretty much doing all
of the work that we talked about today, like that
mental work, the emotional work, the healing work to be
able to manifest your ideal partners. So it's incredible. Thank you.
Is there anything else that you would like to leave
our audience with today, whether it's like a piece of
advice or just like anything last words that you would

(01:03:47):
like to share.

Speaker 1 (01:03:49):
Yeah, you know, it's it's not easy to do this work,
and sometimes it requires confronting things that you're like, can
it just stay in the past. I just don't want
to think about it anymore. But even saying that you're
still thinking about it, it's still living in your head.
Rent free. So if you have a bunch of that,

(01:04:10):
you know, like reach out if you're looking for additional support.
And if you're like, Okay, I kind of want to
figure out how to do this, start confronting it, start
your own process, you can work through that. Like you
know how I you know, I just basically started with
the inquiry. I want to figure out how to work
through this thing because I don't want it to be

(01:04:31):
a part of my daily life anymore. Like I'm over
this pattern. I'm tired of it. And so that actually
ended up manifesting me all the different tools and things
that I do. And that's how I get a lot
of my healing modalities. I'll just sit there and I'll think,
isn't there a faster way to do this? This and this?
And within usually a day or two, I get a

(01:04:51):
download of like here, try this, do this technique or
do this thing, and it's like whoa, that was way better.
And so those can be really easy like answers for me,
you know, because I have a belief that manifesting answers
is the easiest thing in the world for me, and
you know, I truly believe that, and I've experienced that.

(01:05:11):
And so if I can manifest an answer answer instantaneously,
I will. And so whatever your answer is you know,
those of you listening follow that trust that maybe it
is working with somebody. Maybe it is buying that book
you've been thinking about. Maybe it is doing this course
that you were you were you know, somebody your friend
recommended to you. Maybe it's working with that person that

(01:05:35):
your friend referred you to. Maybe it's listening to this podcast.
Maybe this podcast gave you the answer you were praying for,
And you don't have to actively be praying your mind,
your heart, your soul. We're all basically saying, I want this,
I want this. Help me to find this, help me
to guide me to this, connect me to this. You
just never know what you're gonna end up finding, and

(01:05:57):
don't be afraid to take the step.

Speaker 2 (01:06:00):
Yeah. Those are really great pieces of advice because we
can get all of the intuitive downloads and nudges that
we ask for, but if we don't actually act on it,
if we don't create this space to sit with ourselves
or reach out to the people we're thinking of, then
it's kind of weightless.

Speaker 1 (01:06:19):
Yeah. It's sort of like, well, you asked for the answer,
but you didn't do what. You didn't actually follow through
on it. Are you sure you really want it?

Speaker 2 (01:06:28):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:06:28):
Absolutely so. Sometimes that opportunity might disappear and I might
come back again, but you might have to wait another
six months. So you can either say yes right now,
or you can say yes six months or year or
two years or five years, or however long you want
to wait. You can wait as long as you like,
but you're going to keep moving through a similar pattern

(01:06:49):
until you say yes, and it's okay. You know. I
feel like I've had to learn compassion for myself taking
for something taking longer than I think it should because
I had a lot of unred all of fear, and
I wasn't ready to face it. It's never impossible for
you to move forward. You can move forward at any time.
But you can move forward now or you can move

(01:07:10):
forward later, and that's okay too. Either one is good.
But if you're ready to move forward now, take your steps.

Speaker 2 (01:07:16):
Yeah. I love that. That's really great advice. Thank you
so much for coming on and for sharing your journey
with us, and just for sharing all of the good
nuggets that you did. I really appreciate it, and I
will link all of your Instagram and your details below
Setter people can find you.

Speaker 1 (01:07:33):
Thank you so much for having me. I so appreciate it.
Leach a break and review.

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