August 1, 2025 • 9 mins
Deciphering whether she genuinely has feelings for you can be a challenging endeavor, often leaving you in a state of uncertainty about taking that next step. To help clear the fog of doubt, watch for these insightful signals that might reassure you before you boldly make your move.
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
And nine signs a woman is highly attracted to you
but wants you to make the first move. Welcome to
(00:25):
the alcabol and Love Podcast. Sometimes attraction isn't loud. It
doesn't come in the form of bold declarations or over
the top flirting. Instead, it hides in the subtle, a
lingering glance, a quick touch, a laugh that lasts just
a second too long. If you've ever felt like a
woman was into you but didn't quite say it, you're
(00:47):
probably right.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
But here's the thing.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Many women prefer to let you make the first move,
even if they're already deeply attracted to you.
Speaker 2 (00:56):
This isn't about playing games.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
It's often about self protection, cultural conditioning, or simply enjoying
the anticipation. So how do you know if she's waiting
on you? Here are nine revealing signs that a woman
is into you but wants you to take the next step. One,
her body language opens up around you. Literally, body language
(01:19):
often speaks louder than words. When a woman is attracted
to you but trying not to be too obvious, her
body still gives her away. Look for uncrossed arms and
legs when you're talking, leaning in slightly when you're nearby,
tilting her head while listening, mirroring your movements subconsciously. Most importantly,
observe how she positions herself in the room.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
Does she drift closer to where you are? Is she
always sitting near you when there's a group.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
These are classic signs of attraction, especially if they're consistent.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
Two, she finds subtle reasons to touch you.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
Physical touch is one of the mos telling signs of interest,
especially when it's seemingly casual.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
If she brushes.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
Against your arm when she laughs or accidentally bumps into you,
she may be testing your reaction. She might lightly touch
your shoulder during a joke, adjust your shirt, collar or hair,
hold your arm while walking across the street, tap your
hand or leg while talking. None of these are dramatic,
but taken together, and especially if they happen frequently, they
(02:27):
often mean I'm into you, but I want you to
act on it. First Three, she remembers the little things
you say. Attraction isn't just physical, it's attentional. A woman
who's drawn to you will remember your preferences, quirks, and stories,
even if they're off handed. She might recall your favorite
(02:49):
coffee order, that one book you said changed your life,
your dog's name, the childhood memory you shared weeks ago.
If she's tracking the details of your life, it's not random,
it's connection. She's listening with her heart, not just her ears,
and often she's hoping you'll notice that. Four she gives
(03:13):
you undivided attention in group settings. In a room full
of people, where does her attention go? A woman who's
attracted to you but hesitant to make the first move
will still direct her focus toward you, even if she's
trying to stay cool about it.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
Signs include laughing at.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
Your jokes more than others, making eye contact across the room,
asking you the follow up questions, positioning her body towards
you in a group.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
It's subtle, but it speaks volumes she's attuned to you.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
In Hidden Secrets of Buddhism, How to Live with Maximum
Impact and Minimum Ego, I write about how presence reveals
true desire. When someone's mind keeps circling back to you,
even silently, it's rarely act accident.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
Five she plays with her appearance when you're around.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
Preening is an unconscious attraction behavior rooted in evolutionary psychology.
If she's adjusting her hair, checking her reflection, or fidgeting
with her clothes more when you're nearby, there's a good
chance you're the reason.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
Watch for lip balm or gloss.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
Application during a conversation, hair flipping or tucking behind the ear,
adjusting her neckline, or outfit slightly checking her phone camera
after catching your glance.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
She's not necessarily being vain.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
She's aware of your gaze, and she's hoping you notice.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Six.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
She subtly steers conversations toward your dating life. She may
not ask directly are you single, but she'll find creative ways.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
To get there.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
Look for questions like, so are you always this charming
with everyone? Your girlfriend must love that about you. Oh wait,
do you have one? How do you spend your weekends?
If she's asking about your availability without outright saying it,
it's likely because she's interested but doesn't want to risk rejection.
By putting the topic on the table, she's inviting you
to take the next step.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
Seven. She initiates contact but pulls back slightly.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
This can be confusing. She texts you first, then disappears.
She flirts a bit, then changes the subject. Why because
she wants you to show that you're just as interested.
Many women are taught not to be too forward even
when they're into someone, so instead they test the waters
with a message or compliment, wait to see if you
(05:41):
pick up the momentum.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
Retreat if they sense hesitation or indifference.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
If her pattern is lean in, lean back, she may
not be playing games.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
She might just be giving you a chance to lead. Eight.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
She makes time for you even when she's busy. Attraction
isn't about words, it's about priorities. If she consistently rearranges
her schedule to see you, offers to help with your projects,
replies quickly even when she's overwhelmed, finds reasons to spend
just ten minutes.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
Together, then she's probably more interested than she's letting on.
Time is precious.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
If she's giving you hers, that speaks louder than flirtation.
She's showing up emotionally and physically and hoping.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
You'll meet her halfway. Nine.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
Her friends know about you, even if you've never met them.
If her friends already know your name, your job, your
favorite band, or that awkward thing you said last Thursday, it's.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
A massive sign.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
When women are attracted to someone, they often talk about
it with their inner circle.
Speaker 2 (06:48):
So If you hear, oh, you're that guy.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
She mentioned, she talks about you all the time, she
was nervous about seeing you today, then it's safe to
say you're on her radar. Hard The fact that she's
mentioned you without making a move means she's hoping you will.
She's put it out there now, she's watching and waiting.
So should you make the first move? In a word, yes,
(07:15):
If you're seeing several of these signs, especially consistently, it's
likely she's waiting for you to bridge the gap.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
That doesn't mean you have to launch into a grand gesture.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
Often, the best first move is simple and respectful. Ask
her out for coffee or a drink. Express your interests directly.
I really enjoy spending time with you. Would you want
to go out sometime? Increase physical closeness subtly and see.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
How she responds.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
Remember, she may be hesitant not because she's unsure about you,
but because she's been hurt before or simply wants to
feel chosen. By taking the initiative, you give her permission
to be vulnerable too. Final thoughts attract doesn't always shout.
It whispers a woman who's into you but wants you
(08:05):
to make the first move isn't playing games. She's often
protecting her heart. But her behavior tells the truth if
you know how to read it. So pay attention to
her body language, subtle touches, focused attention, personal interest, How
much time does she give you? What her friends know,
whether she lights up around you? Because when a woman
(08:26):
is truly attracted to you, she doesn't need to say
it outright. She shows you in all the quiet, beautiful
ways that matter. Want to build deeper confidence in relationships
in life. In Hidden Secrets of Buddhism, How to Live
with maximum impact and minimum Ego, I share timeless principles
that help you stay grounded in who you are, so
(08:47):
when the right connection.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
Comes along, you won't second guess it.
Speaker 1 (08:50):
Because when it comes to love, the most attractive move
you can make is one rooted in clarity, calm, and courage.
Did you like this episode? Follow the podcast to listen
to more episodes like this.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
In Your Feet h
And nine signs a woman is highly attracted to you
but wants you to make the first move. Welcome to
(00:25):
the alcabol and Love Podcast. Sometimes attraction isn't loud. It
doesn't come in the form of bold declarations or over
the top flirting. Instead, it hides in the subtle, a
lingering glance, a quick touch, a laugh that lasts just
a second too long. If you've ever felt like a
woman was into you but didn't quite say it, you're
(00:47):
probably right.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
But here's the thing.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Many women prefer to let you make the first move,
even if they're already deeply attracted to you.
Speaker 2 (00:56):
This isn't about playing games.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
It's often about self protection, cultural conditioning, or simply enjoying
the anticipation. So how do you know if she's waiting
on you? Here are nine revealing signs that a woman
is into you but wants you to take the next step. One,
her body language opens up around you. Literally, body language
(01:19):
often speaks louder than words. When a woman is attracted
to you but trying not to be too obvious, her
body still gives her away. Look for uncrossed arms and
legs when you're talking, leaning in slightly when you're nearby,
tilting her head while listening, mirroring your movements subconsciously. Most importantly,
observe how she positions herself in the room.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
Does she drift closer to where you are? Is she
always sitting near you when there's a group.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
These are classic signs of attraction, especially if they're consistent.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
Two, she finds subtle reasons to touch you.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
Physical touch is one of the mos telling signs of interest,
especially when it's seemingly casual.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
If she brushes.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
Against your arm when she laughs or accidentally bumps into you,
she may be testing your reaction. She might lightly touch
your shoulder during a joke, adjust your shirt, collar or hair,
hold your arm while walking across the street, tap your
hand or leg while talking. None of these are dramatic,
but taken together, and especially if they happen frequently, they
(02:27):
often mean I'm into you, but I want you to
act on it. First Three, she remembers the little things
you say. Attraction isn't just physical, it's attentional. A woman
who's drawn to you will remember your preferences, quirks, and stories,
even if they're off handed. She might recall your favorite
(02:49):
coffee order, that one book you said changed your life,
your dog's name, the childhood memory you shared weeks ago.
If she's tracking the details of your life, it's not random,
it's connection. She's listening with her heart, not just her ears,
and often she's hoping you'll notice that. Four she gives
(03:13):
you undivided attention in group settings. In a room full
of people, where does her attention go? A woman who's
attracted to you but hesitant to make the first move
will still direct her focus toward you, even if she's
trying to stay cool about it.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
Signs include laughing at.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
Your jokes more than others, making eye contact across the room,
asking you the follow up questions, positioning her body towards
you in a group.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
It's subtle, but it speaks volumes she's attuned to you.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
In Hidden Secrets of Buddhism, How to Live with Maximum
Impact and Minimum Ego, I write about how presence reveals
true desire. When someone's mind keeps circling back to you,
even silently, it's rarely act accident.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
Five she plays with her appearance when you're around.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
Preening is an unconscious attraction behavior rooted in evolutionary psychology.
If she's adjusting her hair, checking her reflection, or fidgeting
with her clothes more when you're nearby, there's a good
chance you're the reason.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
Watch for lip balm or gloss.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
Application during a conversation, hair flipping or tucking behind the ear,
adjusting her neckline, or outfit slightly checking her phone camera
after catching your glance.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
She's not necessarily being vain.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
She's aware of your gaze, and she's hoping you notice.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Six.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
She subtly steers conversations toward your dating life. She may
not ask directly are you single, but she'll find creative ways.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
To get there.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
Look for questions like, so are you always this charming
with everyone? Your girlfriend must love that about you. Oh wait,
do you have one? How do you spend your weekends?
If she's asking about your availability without outright saying it,
it's likely because she's interested but doesn't want to risk rejection.
By putting the topic on the table, she's inviting you
to take the next step.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
Seven. She initiates contact but pulls back slightly.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
This can be confusing. She texts you first, then disappears.
She flirts a bit, then changes the subject. Why because
she wants you to show that you're just as interested.
Many women are taught not to be too forward even
when they're into someone, so instead they test the waters
with a message or compliment, wait to see if you
(05:41):
pick up the momentum.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
Retreat if they sense hesitation or indifference.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
If her pattern is lean in, lean back, she may
not be playing games.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
She might just be giving you a chance to lead. Eight.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
She makes time for you even when she's busy. Attraction
isn't about words, it's about priorities. If she consistently rearranges
her schedule to see you, offers to help with your projects,
replies quickly even when she's overwhelmed, finds reasons to spend
just ten minutes.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
Together, then she's probably more interested than she's letting on.
Time is precious.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
If she's giving you hers, that speaks louder than flirtation.
She's showing up emotionally and physically and hoping.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
You'll meet her halfway. Nine.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
Her friends know about you, even if you've never met them.
If her friends already know your name, your job, your
favorite band, or that awkward thing you said last Thursday, it's.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
A massive sign.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
When women are attracted to someone, they often talk about
it with their inner circle.
Speaker 2 (06:48):
So If you hear, oh, you're that guy.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
She mentioned, she talks about you all the time, she
was nervous about seeing you today, then it's safe to
say you're on her radar. Hard The fact that she's
mentioned you without making a move means she's hoping you will.
She's put it out there now, she's watching and waiting.
So should you make the first move? In a word, yes,
(07:15):
If you're seeing several of these signs, especially consistently, it's
likely she's waiting for you to bridge the gap.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
That doesn't mean you have to launch into a grand gesture.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
Often, the best first move is simple and respectful. Ask
her out for coffee or a drink. Express your interests directly.
I really enjoy spending time with you. Would you want
to go out sometime? Increase physical closeness subtly and see.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
How she responds.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
Remember, she may be hesitant not because she's unsure about you,
but because she's been hurt before or simply wants to
feel chosen. By taking the initiative, you give her permission
to be vulnerable too. Final thoughts attract doesn't always shout.
It whispers a woman who's into you but wants you
(08:05):
to make the first move isn't playing games. She's often
protecting her heart. But her behavior tells the truth if
you know how to read it. So pay attention to
her body language, subtle touches, focused attention, personal interest, How
much time does she give you? What her friends know,
whether she lights up around you? Because when a woman
(08:26):
is truly attracted to you, she doesn't need to say
it outright. She shows you in all the quiet, beautiful
ways that matter. Want to build deeper confidence in relationships
in life. In Hidden Secrets of Buddhism, How to Live
with maximum impact and minimum Ego, I share timeless principles
that help you stay grounded in who you are, so
(08:47):
when the right connection.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
Comes along, you won't second guess it.
Speaker 1 (08:50):
Because when it comes to love, the most attractive move
you can make is one rooted in clarity, calm, and courage.
Did you like this episode? Follow the podcast to listen
to more episodes like this.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
In Your Feet h
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