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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hey there, awesome humans, Welcome back to anxiety, Meet discipline.
I'm your host, Leo Weston and to day we're diving
into something super important, especially in this crazy world we
live in. Self compassion. You know that feeling when you
mess up, or maybe you set a goal but life
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throws a curveball and you fall short. Ever, feel like
you're your own worst critic, beating yourself up instead of
offering a little kindness. That, my friends, is where self
compassion comes in. It's like giving yourself that warm hud,
the pep talk, and the understanding you'd give to a
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good friend going through something tough. Now, before you roll
your eyes thinking this sounds all fluffy and woo woo,
trust me, it's not about coddling yourself or letting things slide.
Self compassion is about treating yourself with kindness and understanding
even when you make mistakes. It's about recognizing that you're human,
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capable of both brilliance and blunders, and that's perfectly okay.
So let's break down five key takeaways that can help
you cultivate more self compassion in your daily life. One,
acknowledge your struggles first things. First, recognize that You're not alone.
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Everyone goes through tough times, makes mistakes, and faces challenges.
Pretending everything is always sunshine and roses just sets you
up for disappointment. Be honest with yourself about what you're
going through. It might feel uncomfortable at first, but facing
your struggles head on is the first step towards healing
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and growth. Two Practice mindfulness. This isn't about becoming a
meditation master, although that's pretty cool. It's about being present
in the moment. Notice your thoughts and feelings without judgment.
When those critical voices pop up, acknowledge them, but don't
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let them run the show. Imagine yourself as an observer,
watching your thoughts and emotions like clouds passing by. Three.
Offer your self kindness. Think about how you'd talk to
a dear friend going through something difficult. Would you be
harsh and judgmental, or would you offer words of encouragement
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and support. Treat yourself with the same kindness and understanding
you'd offer your loved ones. Remind yourself that you're doing
your best, even when it feels like you're falling short. Four.
Challenge negative self talk. We all have that inner critic
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who loves to point out our flaws and mistakes. But
did you know that negative self talk can actually sabotage
your progress and create more anxiety. Start noticing those critical
thoughts and challenge them. Ask yourself if they're truly accurate
or if they're just based on fear and insecurity. Replace
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those negative messages with more positive and supportive ones. Five,
Celebrate your wins, no matter how small. Acknowledge and celebrate
your accomplishments. Did you finally finish that project you've been
putting off. Did you make it through a tough day
without losing your cool? Give your self credit. Celebrate these
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wins to build your confidence and remind yourself of your strengths.
Let me paint you a picture. Imagine Sarah, a talented
writer struggling with imposter syndrome. She constantly doubts her abilities,
even when she receives positive feedback on her work. Every
time she hits a snag, the inner critic screams, you're
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not good enough. This negative self talk keeps her stuck
in a cycle of fear and procrastination. Now imagine Sarah
practicing self compassion. When those critical thoughts arise, she acknowledges
them without judgment. She reminds herself that everyone faces challenges,
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including successful writers. Instead of beating herself up over mistakes,
she views them as learning opportunities. She celebrates even the
smallest victories and focuses on her strengths. Over time, Sarah's
confidence grows and she starts to believe in her abilities.
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That's the power of self compassion. It's not about being perfect.
It's about treating yourself with kindness and understanding even when
things get tough. So, my amazing listeners, what's one small
step you can take today day to practice more self compassion.
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Maybe it's acknowledging your struggles without judgment, offering yourself a
kind word, or celebrating a recent win. Remember you deserve
love and support, starting with yourself. Keep spreading the compassion, folks,
don't forget to share this episode with someone who might
need a little dose of self love. Until next time.
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