Arroe Unplugged Page Two Thousand Four Hundred Nine The Daily Mess

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Creativity is an addiction, unplugged because we will always say
yes to creativity, totally uncut because we all make mistakes.
So let's turn it into a tool. This is Arrow unplugged.
I'm always asking questions, and the reason why is because
the fund begins when you start doing the research for answers.
Is bickering part of the normal routine of a family? Plus,

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why do creative people get laughed at? I'm Marrow, a
daily writer, a silent wolf. I stand on the sidelines
and do nothing but watch, listen, study, then activate. I
call it the daily mess, a chronological walk through an
everyday world. Yep, it's my morning writing as a receiver
of thoughts and ideas. We as people tend to throw
things to the side because we think we're going to
deal with it later on. How's that working out for you?

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When a subject arrives inside of me, I dig in.
It's still keeping a daily journal, but by doing the research,
the picture becomes clearer. This is the daily mess. I'm
shocked when I fall witness to what appears to be
the absolute perfect family. I mean, even the Brady Bunch
and the Partreage family, they had moments of disagreements. Is
bickering part of the normal routine of the family life.

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The term bickering is common. It stems from a combination
of things, including the difference in opinion, misunderstandings and unresolved issues,
and the intense nature of family relationships. It's the closeness
of family ties that creates the high emotional stakes. It
makes it extremely difficult to navigate through disagreements. It stresses

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out every member who has taken on their role as financial,
family leaders and caregivers. Family dynamics contribute to conflict in
each family. There's got to be a peacemaker, a mediator,
and a negotiator, someone with enough inner strength to intervene,
and it does involve losing sleep. Helping to heal a

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broken family is a full time job and in the
end things might be better, but you really don't physically
heal one hundred percent. Hey, coming up next, Why is
it creative people are laughed at? Hey, thanks for coming
back to the daily mess. It's not me. It happens
around each and every one of us, every single day.
Creative people are endlessly being laughed at. Research shows it's

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part of the public display of your creative energy. Committing
to creativity requires sacrifice, hard work, and time. A lot
of money will go into something that may never make
you any money. Creative people have to face their own fears, boredom, rejection,
and criticism. But they have to be willing to be
laughed at wait wait, wait, wait, wait wait wait, not

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laughed at by other people. They have to personally laugh
at themselves. The reason why so many amazing ideas go
unanswered is because of our fear of embarrassment. What we
see as a failure keeps us from achieving chance. Laugh
about it and grow forward. Keep pushing yourself beyond the
border patrol. Julia Cameron encourages people to put on display

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their art, learn how to ignore criticism. It's one hundred
percent okay to out loud when it comes to you
being a creative. I'm Maril, and that's the daily mess.