Arroe Unplugged Page Two Thousand Four Hundred Twenty Two Vocal De Frag

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Creativity is an addiction, unplugged because we will always say
yes to creativity, totally uncut because we all make mistakes.
So let's turn it into a tool. This is arrow
unplugged hates arrow. This is vocal drag. Vocald fragging is
giving yourself the opportunity, the blessing to physically and verbally
ask yourself the questions and question the answers. I do

(00:22):
it also in a journal that I've been doing since
November of twenty seventeen. It's asking yourself the real, honest
to God questions. Not to belittle you, not to judge you.
It's to understand you. To create that relationship with the me,
myself and I. You know, your mind, your body, your soul.
Just ask the questions and then question the answers. This

(00:43):
is vocal dfrag. This week, the subjects is it's kind
of really from out of nowhere, but it went somewhere.
A coworker came up to me and asked me. He says, man,
I just want to have a relationship with this person,
but I don't know how how to approach it. I'm
afraid I don't know what to do because there's pros

(01:05):
and cons, but I know in my heart I need
to have a relationship with this person. And I looked
at him and I go, so, what are you asking me?
How do you do it? How are you able to
have these conversations with people you don't even know, and
yet after you're done with him in a few short
minutes that you were together. How do you do it?

(01:27):
How do you have this respect for them and them
wanting to come back a different day or when you're
not here, they're asking where is that guy? Where's that guy?
So I looked at him, I said, this person you
want to build this relationship with. I said, do you
really feel in your heart that it's important? I mean
important enough to invest your emotions, your connections, to not

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only be in a moment of now, but to grow with.
And he goes, yes, I really need to be with
this person. And the simple words that I gave him
were exactly this. Every person has a problem, yes, yes,
did you hear me? Yes? But did you understand me? Yes? Okay,

(02:16):
every person has a problem. Okay, they have a problem.
Is that going to weigh you down? No? No, I'm
gonna ask you again, is it going to weigh you down?
When this relationship of honesty unveils that they have a problem. No,
that's what I want to have a relationship for, to

(02:37):
offer my support, my love. Okay, you almost got the
right answer. Every person has a problem when it comes
to building a solid relationship. Your only action is to
be the solution. He looked at me and totally understood

(02:59):
where I was coming from. Every person has a problem,
be the solution. If you can't be the solution, or
if they're not receiving your solution, I think you've got
the answer, the answer of should I go with this,
should I grow in love? Or is this something that

(03:20):
should remain of friendship. So that's the question today. In
everything that you are doing in your life, we're all
about connecting people. It's all about connecting with other people
as well as other things in our life. In everything
that you walk into there is a problem, be the solution,

(03:43):
ask the questions, question the answers. I call it defragging.
I'm MARYL.