The Daily Mess How Can People Say What They Want Plus Facing The Weight Of The Present

I’m always asking questions.  The fun begins when you start researching for answers. Such as…   Why is it only a certain person or group of people get away with saying whatever they want any time they want?  Plus…why aren’t people buying into the idea that living in the present is your best ocean front property?   I’m Arroe…  I am a daily writer.  A silent wolf.  I stand on the sidelines and do nothing but watch, listen study then activate.  I call it The Daily Mess.  A chronological walk through an everyday world.  Yes, it’s my morning writing.  As a receiver of thoughts and ideas, we as people tend to throw it to the side and deal with it later.  When a subject arrives, I dig in.  It’s still keeping a journal!  By doing the research the picture becomes clearer.  This is the Daily Mess…  

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Talk about being behind the curveball. All my podcasts are
finally on one site, Arrow dot net, Arre dot net,
seventeen different podcasts to choose from. I like asking questions.
I mean the fun begins when you start researching for
answers right, such as why is it only a certain
amount of people? Or a person can get away with

(00:21):
saying whatever they want anytime they want? Plus why aren't
people buying into this idea that living in the present
is actually your best ocean front property. My name is Arrow.
I'm a daily watcher, a silent wolf. I stand on
the sidelines and do nothing but watch, listen, study, then activate.
I happen to call it the daily Mess, a chronological

(00:41):
walk through an everyday world. Yeah, it's my morning pages.
As a receiver of thoughts and ideas, we as people
tend to throw things to the side because we think
we're gonna deal with it later on. No, we set
it aside, we're gonna forget about it. When a subject
arrives inside of me, I know it's time to dig in.
It's still keeping that daily journal. By doing the research,

(01:01):
the picture becomes clearer. This is the daily mess. What
is the reason why there are certain people or groups
who can get away with saying whatever they want anytime
they want. Well, it's all based on power dynamics, social perception,
and context. It's usually people of authority, fame, and wealth

(01:21):
that face forever consequences because of something they set free.
Power has given them permission, or at least the illusion
of it. Up next is charisma and social skills. People
who are really good at reading a room use humor
and confidence as well as charm to disarm attention. Plus
there's cultural bias. Society often gives more permission to certain

(01:45):
demographics based on gender, race, as well as profession. I mean, seriously,
why do some people get away with saying anything they
want anytime they want? People don't want confrontation, so instead
of fighting with the word slayer, their choice it is
to go silent without challenge. If someone is honest, funny
and eccentric people tend to excuse another person's words and expressions,

(02:10):
claiming they didn't really mean what you think they just said. Hmm.
Having that power to say anything you want any time
you want? Coming up next, does anyone really want to
put their mind, body, and soul into this thing called
living in the present? Hey, thanks for coming back to
the daily mess. Does anyone really want to put their mind, body,

(02:32):
and soul into this thing called the present? I mean
it's a tough walk for many. It's easier to accept
what's already happened. If it breaks, we are conditioned to
fix them the best we can. Research shows a lot
of people want to be recognized for being people of
the present, but it's a daily challenge to physically practice it.
The very second we feel uncomfortable, uncertain, or we've got

(02:55):
a pain. Oh, it's one hundred percent completely natural to
drift back to the past that we can truly try
to change. But we can't. We can try to rewrite it,
but you know, it's still happened. Something we can manage
is where we are in the present. It's fuller, quieter,
and more real. It's when we start to reflect that
our actions see something else. It feels like it's missing

(03:18):
something in life, and we've got to get it happening.
In those chapters, all too often the present feels all
too fleeting. It's too ordinary. We usually don't pick up
on the importance of a moment or event until it's
long gone and nearly forgotten. Being present keeps you away
from getting hooked up in bad memories, regrets and plans

(03:41):
that you still can't put together. Hi, MARYL. And that's
the daily mess.