December 17, 2025 • 4 mins
I’m always asking questions. The fun begins when you start researching for answers. Such as… Is it conceit or completely natural to enjoy the way you smell after taking a shower? Plus…is there a difference between making a judgement call versus just an observation? I’m Arroe… I am a daily writer. A silent wolf. I stand on the sidelines and do nothing but watch, listen study then activate. I call it The Daily Mess. A chronological walk through an everyday world. Yes, it’s my morning writing. As a receiver of thoughts and ideas, we as people tend to throw it to the side and deal with it later. When a subject arrives, I dig in. It’s still keeping a journal! By doing the research the picture becomes clearer. This is the Daily Mess…
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It really is about sharing stories. But the question is,
as the listener of podcasts, what kind of story are
you willing to digest today in this moment of now.
That's why we give you a choice on erow dot
net aarroet net. Enjoy your exploration. I'm always asking questions,
and the reason why is because the fund begins when
you start researching for answers such as is it conceded
(00:23):
or completely natural to enjoy the way you smell after
taking a long hot shower? Plus, is there a difference
between making a judgment call versus just an observation? My
name is Errow. I'm a daily writer, a silent wolf.
I stand on the sidelines and do nothing but watch, listen, study,
(00:44):
then activate. I happen to call it the daily mess,
a chronological walk through an everyday world. Yeah, it's my
morning writing as a receiver of thoughts and ideas. We
as people tend to throw things to the side because
we think we're going to deal with it later on. Well,
when a sub derives inside of me, I know it's
time to dig in. It's still keeping that daily journal,
(01:06):
but by doing the research, the picture becomes clearer. This
is the daily mess. Is it conceded or completely natural
to enjoy the way we smell after taking a long,
hot shower well without any interference or wasted time. Mental
health experts immediately shut this question down. No, enjoying your
(01:28):
body scent after a shower is not a physical act
of being conceited. It's about inviting comfort, cleanliness, and sensory satisfaction.
Your brain releases dopamine when things are fresh, warm, and
very pleasant. You're physically telling the mind, body, and soul
I'm taken care of. This is compared to how we
(01:48):
feel about clean sheets, fresh laundry, and ooh, a good
cup of hot coffee. It is okay to like the
way you naturally smell. Not only is it reassuring, but
it's a personal connection to looking and feeling completely healthy.
The only time the thought of loving your scent after
a shower becomes a decision of conceit is when someone
(02:10):
thinks they smell better than anybody else and they make
sure that the people around them, No, look at me,
I'm smelling good. All right, Come on over here, come
on over and smell me. I'm smelling good. Ooh, I'm
smelling good. Hey coming up next? Is there a difference
between making a judgment call versus just an observation. Hey,
(02:34):
thanks for coming back to the daily mess. Is there
a difference between a judgment call versus an observation? The
assumption is over they are not one in the same,
but we are extremely guilty of burning them up with
the same pictures. The question came up to me while
in prayer one day. My exact words were, Lord, I'm
(02:56):
not judging you. This is only an observation. Oh, we
gotta break that down. Observation is about noticing and describing
what is currently happening, and observation sticks to what we
see here and measure without adding a meaning or purpose.
Judgment ooh, It comes into play when we add in interpretation, evaluation,
(03:18):
or value to what we have seen, saying things like ooh,
she's rude, that's a judgment. She was too loud at
the meeting, that's an observation. Whoa, whoa, whoa. Hold on
a second, she's rude is the judgment. But when you
say she was loud at the meeting, that's just an observation. Huh.
Judgment is a conclusion about the facts. Judgment calls are
(03:41):
made or shaped by experience. Emotions and beliefs. Observations create clarity,
whereas judgment generates conflict. You want me say that again.
Observations create clarity. Judgment generates conflict, especially when it comes
to communicating. Be aware of the difference. I'm Ryl, and
(04:05):
that's the daily mess.
It really is about sharing stories. But the question is,
as the listener of podcasts, what kind of story are
you willing to digest today in this moment of now.
That's why we give you a choice on erow dot
net aarroet net. Enjoy your exploration. I'm always asking questions,
and the reason why is because the fund begins when
you start researching for answers such as is it conceded
(00:23):
or completely natural to enjoy the way you smell after
taking a long hot shower? Plus, is there a difference
between making a judgment call versus just an observation? My
name is Errow. I'm a daily writer, a silent wolf.
I stand on the sidelines and do nothing but watch, listen, study,
(00:44):
then activate. I happen to call it the daily mess,
a chronological walk through an everyday world. Yeah, it's my
morning writing as a receiver of thoughts and ideas. We
as people tend to throw things to the side because
we think we're going to deal with it later on. Well,
when a sub derives inside of me, I know it's
time to dig in. It's still keeping that daily journal,
(01:06):
but by doing the research, the picture becomes clearer. This
is the daily mess. Is it conceded or completely natural
to enjoy the way we smell after taking a long,
hot shower well without any interference or wasted time. Mental
health experts immediately shut this question down. No, enjoying your
(01:28):
body scent after a shower is not a physical act
of being conceited. It's about inviting comfort, cleanliness, and sensory satisfaction.
Your brain releases dopamine when things are fresh, warm, and
very pleasant. You're physically telling the mind, body, and soul
I'm taken care of. This is compared to how we
(01:48):
feel about clean sheets, fresh laundry, and ooh, a good
cup of hot coffee. It is okay to like the
way you naturally smell. Not only is it reassuring, but
it's a personal connection to looking and feeling completely healthy.
The only time the thought of loving your scent after
a shower becomes a decision of conceit is when someone
(02:10):
thinks they smell better than anybody else and they make
sure that the people around them, No, look at me,
I'm smelling good. All right, Come on over here, come
on over and smell me. I'm smelling good. Ooh, I'm
smelling good. Hey coming up next? Is there a difference
between making a judgment call versus just an observation. Hey,
(02:34):
thanks for coming back to the daily mess. Is there
a difference between a judgment call versus an observation? The
assumption is over they are not one in the same,
but we are extremely guilty of burning them up with
the same pictures. The question came up to me while
in prayer one day. My exact words were, Lord, I'm
(02:56):
not judging you. This is only an observation. Oh, we
gotta break that down. Observation is about noticing and describing
what is currently happening, and observation sticks to what we
see here and measure without adding a meaning or purpose.
Judgment ooh, It comes into play when we add in interpretation, evaluation,
(03:18):
or value to what we have seen, saying things like ooh,
she's rude, that's a judgment. She was too loud at
the meeting, that's an observation. Whoa, whoa, whoa. Hold on
a second, she's rude is the judgment. But when you
say she was loud at the meeting, that's just an observation. Huh.
Judgment is a conclusion about the facts. Judgment calls are
(03:41):
made or shaped by experience. Emotions and beliefs. Observations create clarity,
whereas judgment generates conflict. You want me say that again.
Observations create clarity. Judgment generates conflict, especially when it comes
to communicating. Be aware of the difference. I'm Ryl, and
(04:05):
that's the daily mess.
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