Standing Ten Toes Down: What?! You Want To Wait Until Marriage? - Mama's Boi Serie (Part 3) - BabyFace Tells Stories

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Speaker 1 (00:09):
Welcome to b bfits tell stories, let me get comfortable
and enjoyed the journey. Now, last episode, we would remember
Rizzi trying to define one of RAN's multiple rules for

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a split second, this one rule being not attempting calling
him but instead let him always initiate phone calls. You've
heard it right, Why would you ask? I'm glad you did,
because Ryan did not want for the church members to
pick up Brieze's call, as his personal line was connected

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to the church. At least that's what he said. Well,
Rizzi would learn this to hard way when trying to
call her friend back, and would harshly be rebuffed on
the phone by a lady who, according to Ryan, turned
out to be his mother. At that moment, Resy so uncomfortable,

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promised herself not ever to put herself in this kind
of situation. She would have rather wait for Ryan calling
her back than to speak to any possible unfriendly church
members or Ryan's mother. Again, Poor Razy, no temptation has

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overtaken you except what is common to mankind, and God
is faithful. He will not let you be tempted beyond
what you can bear. But when you are tempted, He
will also provide a way out so that you can
endure it first. Corinthians, chapter ten, verse thirteen. After that

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unfriendly interaction with Ryan's mother, Resy never called Ryan again anyway.
He called her regularly enough that it didn't really make
much difference. At least, she still had the option of
being able to text him, so that's what she did.
As time went on, about five to six months in

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Resye and Ryan were talking every day. Ryan had even
asked Rizzie to be his girlfriend after several months of persuasion,
and Reezie had agreed to give it a chance. Ryan
was so happy. He loved to project himself and Reasy
together married and as soon as possible, and one of

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his favorite songs to sing to her was one of
Bob Marley's Waiting in Vain. Mmm. Yes, indeed it is
a very beautiful song. But Ryan used it on Reasy
to let her know that she needed to let her
guards down and open up more. The thing is, Reezy

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enjoyed spending time with Ryan, going for the regular walks
at the mountain, their car rides around the city, or
simply their conversation about everything and anything, So it did
make sense for Reason not to be able to open
up herself fully to Ryan and let her guards down.

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Is it that she felt pressured by Ryan to try
doing things that she didn't feel comfortable doing, or was
it all these forbidden rules about friend's personal life. You
have to remember that Ryan was about twenty six twenty
seven years old and Rizzi was barely twenty one years old.
She had had crushes in the past, potential suitors, but

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never one desiring to be proclaimed boyfriend so insistently. Ryan
was a peaque, a preacher's kid, according to what he
had told Racy. Anyways, while RESI expected of him to
lead her in righteousness as per the Word, you know,
with things like you shall not forniquet or resist tentation.

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The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is wake yo,
it was the complete opposite. This man was always trying
to convince Weezy either go in the back of his
car or wanted to reserve a room for both of
them at a motel for a couple of hours so
they could spend some quality time. He said, It's just

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that Risie's parents voice, though she wasn't as knowledgeable of
the Bible like that, resonated in her whole spirit. RESI,
a man who respects you will never want to do
things in the dark and against the word of God.
And if he loves you and is convinced to want

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to share his life with you for eternity, he will
want to come and introduce himself and his intentions to us. Therefore,
each time Ryan will attempt to convince Riesie either by saying,
come on, let's just chill in the back of the car,
you know, we will be more comfortable, or I could

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reserve a room for us for a few hours, you know,
just to have some privacy. Reasy would decline the offer ardently,
which will make Ryan serious. Then, when they will depart
from one another, Ryan will call Reasy and try to
explain and convince her about his good intention towards her,

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saying things like all I want for us is to
spend some quality time. That's all you make me feel
and look like a predator trying to take advantage of
you or something. At that Reasi has sends to find
a Biblical verse in her little red Bible containing only
the New Testament, a bible that had been offered to

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her in the street by a group of Christians. So
in order to counter Rhyme's incorrect arguments, Rezie will often
read to him from her little Red Bible different Bible verses,
but one would stand out first Grinthians, chapter seven, verses
eight to nine. Now to the un married and the widows,

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I say it is good for them to stay unmarried,
as I do, but if they cannot control themselves, they
should marry, for it is better to marry than to
burn with passion. Usually after her using the Bible word
to correct her friend, this one will get so angry

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and defensive, asking her how dare she read the word
to him and have the pretense of knowing it better
than him? And he would go on and non and none,
and would finally give up as Reezy went back down.
One time, after having argued about his unbiblical advances. Considering

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their situation, Reezy explained clearly to Ryan that she did
not believe in physical intimacy before marriage. Therefore they would
have to be married for them to even consider any
of essential suggestions. Stand Ryan exclaimed, what you want to

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wait till marriage before before being intimate? Then he chuckled
and said quietly under his breath, Yeah, you think you're smart.
I know a couple of guys who would have played
you so well that she would have lost that purity
of yours. Oh wow, oh my god, what did you say?

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Breezy was so shocked and disgusted by this statement that
she just hung up the phone. I am my love,

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Liz Hope I find you well and that you've enjoyed
this episode of the Beefits Tell Stories what you want
to wait till marriage Mamma's Voice Serie Part three If
you find some values out of today's episode, I believe
that she also liked the previous and next episode, So
stay tuned, my people. We have long left the teenagers, young,

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cute love and flirst that we knew of razy. We
have now stepped on too grown, mundane world where men
are now requiring intimacy to be part of the relationship package.
In the courting season, Riezi finds herself having to fight
and defend more than before, gets confronted in her beliefs

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and core values. What is she going to do? To
be continued in the next episode. Before I leave you,
there's this African proverb who goes like this. Every morning
in Africa, a gazelle wakes up it knows it must
run the fastest lion or it will be killed. Every

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morning in Africa, a lion wakes up. It knows it
must run faster than the slowest gazelle, or it will start.
It doesn't matter whether you're a lion or a gazelle.
When the sun comes up, you'd better be running. On
that note, until next time, I wish you peace for life.

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