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Speaker 1 (00:02):
You're listening to Beyond the Cheaters, the Detective Gomez.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Files, and now here is Detective go Mads.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
Welcome to another episode of Beyonce Hers, the Technical Mez Files,
and the host of Technical Nomads. Today we're visit with
a young lady Angelos talk about how her Valentine's Day
didn't quite go that well and how she dumped him
on Valentine's for not coming through. Right, Let's get her
on the air. Let's talk about it here. She is, Angela,
(00:34):
how are you doing today?
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Hi, I'm doing great. How are you good?
Speaker 1 (00:38):
Good? Thanks for being here this evening. We're going to
get right into it. Valentine's Day was last Friday. Yes,
and the person you've been dating for how long.
Speaker 2 (00:50):
Now, probably about five months?
Speaker 1 (00:54):
Five months did not deliver and h and been kind
of a little disappearing act where he would disappear at
certain times. We had talked about I mean, I know
we had talked about this before Valentine's Day, and a
part of you wanted to spend time with your man, right.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
Yeah, he's a great person.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
At least I thought he was a great person, and
I wanted to make sure that you know, I gave it,
you know, enough time that I didn't discount him just
because maybe he was temperate, rarely going through something hard
or difficult at the time. So, but Valentine's was the
(01:39):
last straw, and I had said to myself, I will
not allow him to disappoint me on Valentine's Day.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
So what happened on Valentine's Day? Tell me about that
he was not going to support you on Valentine's Day.
Obviously he disappointed you.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
Yet Actually a couple weeks before that, my birthday was
February third, and so I just wanted to make sure
we had to talk. I was like, oh, my birthday's
February third, I want to go to dinner my birthday night,
and you know, Valentine's Day is coming up, and he's like, oh, yeah, okay.
So the birthday was a bus He sent me this
(02:19):
beautiful email, but he did not take me out. I
went out on my own, and then Valentine's was coming around,
and the plan was for him to come over Friday
evening and stay till Saturday. And yeah, but I told
(02:40):
him specifically that you know, we need to go to
a restaurant. I need you to take me out. I
don't want to just stay at home. I need you
to take me out. So I called him Thursday and
I was like, hey, so what's the plan for the weekend.
He was like, oh, I'll be over Friday after work.
(03:01):
He lives forty five minutes away, so about eight pm.
And I said, okay, well where we're going to eat it?
Speaker 2 (03:09):
He was like, oh, I'll let you figure that out.
And I was just like.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
I had made a reservation for myself and my auntie
on Valentine's Day for three pm so we could have
dinner our early early dinner at capt Girl. So I said, well,
my aunt's sick, she can't go. We have this three
pm reservation and he was like, well, can they push
(03:39):
it back? And I was like no, it's Valentine's Day,
like they're completely booked.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
And he would like, well, i'll see if I can
get off of work and meet you. You can meet there.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
Then later on in the evening, I said, oh, did
you check about that? And he was like, oh, my
boss wasn't end. You know, I'll check later. So Friday
morning rolls around, I've slept on it.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
I'm upset.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
I'm done, like I need one of my requirements for
our guys to be able to plan, to be able
to set up a reservation, like, you know, a simple reservation.
And he had promised that he was going to try better,
but this was not it. So I sent him an email,
(04:30):
short and sweet actually with a text, and I said,
you know, we've been working on this. You don't seem
to be able to make changes, and you know, I
think it's best that we not do not communicate any longer.
And then I sent that and then blocked his number.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
Yeah, number number.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
Once you said that text message, that was.
Speaker 3 (04:58):
It blocked, And I felt I felt a release because
I was like, I was not gonna let it ruin
Valentine's Day for me, So I dressed up.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
I wore a new dress that I had bought that
never worn before.
Speaker 3 (05:14):
I wore my red butterfly patent leather heels and put
on my makeup and jewelry, and I took myself to
Capital Grill at three pm. I valaid my car and
I walked in and I had a lovely, lovely dinner
that evening and I felt whole and complete by myself
(05:40):
and it was actually a relief not to have that
energy of someone who can't. If I can give myself
capital grill, you should be able to do that for
some And I was like, I can cheat myself really well,
(06:01):
I would prefer to do that then have someone with me.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
He doesn't value me exactly.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
And it appears that he didn't value because he didn't
plan anything you talked about it, or he was putting
everything in your hands for you.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
To plan, right.
Speaker 3 (06:14):
But on the same time, so someone would be like, well,
why would you be with him? Well, why would you
need to talk to him? He's a good talker, he's
a good you know, uh, he's a good charmer.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
You know. It never sounded like, oh, I'm not going
to do anything for you.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
It's like, oh, we'll just come up together with our
own plans.
Speaker 2 (06:35):
You know.
Speaker 3 (06:36):
You know, we're our own unique couples, so you know,
we'll just come up together with our own plans.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
And so it never really sounded like it was.
Speaker 3 (06:45):
But then I realized I woke up Friday morning, I
was like, no, he's just he's just were talking.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
So, yeah, he had no plans. Yeah, he had no
plans to spend any time with you. He was clearly
going to do what he wanted to do. But I'm
glad you blocked him, because you know, you know, I
do have some clients sometimes and say, well he keeps
calling you, keeps calling you block and just blocking.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
You know, well, there's a part of there's a part
of you, So you do the block. The first day
I did unblock them, and I didn't call them or
anything like that, but I saw that he had tried
to text. And then he sent an email a few
days later which I read and I did not reply
(07:33):
to you. And I'm back to try to call today,
and I'm I'm done with it, and so I'm glad
I hadn't responded back.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
Good good. I'm very proud of you, you know, women, and
you're I'm not going to ask you how old you are,
but mature age. Okay. Other women that are about your
age are in that age frame where they have to
either restart all over again or trying to love all
(08:05):
over again. Tell somebody else that may have gone through
your same situation, what would you tell someone on how
to happen?
Speaker 3 (08:13):
I will tell someone to look at the behavior early on.
As soon as you see a slip up that can't
be explained. For instance, you know he doesn't he maybe
ghost you for a day or two, or he doesn't
come by when he says he's going to come by,
(08:35):
or he doesn't take you out like you might eat
it home, or you might you know, you know, do
something that's small when and you communicated your expectations. Once
you see it, it's time to cut it.
Speaker 1 (08:53):
And move on.
Speaker 2 (08:55):
Yeah. I'm a firm believer in that. Men typically.
Speaker 3 (09:01):
They can recognize the woman that they want to be with,
and when they do that, they leave no doubt in
your mind.
Speaker 2 (09:08):
So that was the thing.
Speaker 3 (09:09):
I was always confused, doubting like you know, you know,
easy like me or whatever.
Speaker 2 (09:18):
I never knew when I was going to see him next.
Speaker 3 (09:20):
And I always heard that a guy who likes you
will make sure.
Speaker 2 (09:25):
You know when he's going to see you next.
Speaker 3 (09:28):
And so yeah, so it was painful, but I think
the relief was greater than you know, the tame.
Speaker 1 (09:38):
Well, I'm glad you did it, Angela. I'm glad to
hear your story because we're all adults. But in his situation,
he probably there was effort there. You'd notice it and
you'd be willing to excuse it, but there was no effort,
no anything. Yeah, on Valentine's Day's not so much about
(09:59):
you know, it's more I think it's more about just
the simple gesture appreciation of the person you're with. Car
Flower doesn't have to be three dozen rows, This doesn't
have to be the biggest balloon in the store. But
just something to show a little appreciation.
Speaker 2 (10:14):
Right right, little? Yeah, something small and just so people
will know.
Speaker 3 (10:22):
I so he's met my family, so we I took
him on a business trip with me to our holiday
Christmas party.
Speaker 2 (10:32):
He termed my family. So this is this is.
Speaker 3 (10:35):
Someone who you know, I was highly considering, but there
was always some excuse with his job or work or
the distance, and he can never make me a priority.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
And at the age I need to be a priority.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
You got to be number one. You are number one? Yeah,
going to be a priority allied like that. If you're
not a priority, if you're not on their priority, number
one list, you got to cut them loose. Yeah is
that fair enough?
Speaker 2 (11:03):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (11:04):
Okay, I'm glad you did what you did. I'm glad
you blinded them. And I'm sure you've got a beautiful heart.
I'm sure some people more even more than glad to
have that heart in a relationship so.
Speaker 3 (11:16):
Thank you, and I feel so I feel free and
I'm still able to just move forward and take the
lessons that I learned from this relationship and move on
to hopefully eventually the love of my life.
Speaker 1 (11:31):
Sometimes you'll find me. Trust me, you have a beautiful
Heartner those guys, it's really hard to find a good woman.
You're a good woman. So you're very very well appreciated.
I'm sure someone's gonna appreciate you for who you are
and what you have heart.
Speaker 2 (11:45):
Right there, Yeah, thank you very much.
Speaker 1 (11:47):
All right, well, thank you for being part of today
and uh, thank you for sharing your story. And I'm
sure that our ladies and men and something from this today. Okay,
thank you.
Speaker 2 (11:58):
Thanks to take to go man.
Speaker 1 (12:01):
Part. Ladies and gentlemen, thank Angel for being part of
our podcast. A day is fantastic. You know, you learn
something every day on the show, and this is definitely
a life learning lesson that. You know, sometimes it's okay
to block somebody and let them go and move on
make yourself happy, and she's definitely doing that. Lad you.
One thing, mister Wan her Nand is our sponsor for
our show today. I want to thank him. He's a
(12:24):
personal injury here turning in Dallas. For there you contact
him at two one four nine zero zero zero zero
SERVI zero or business at one law dot com. Also
think if Victoria, but if you're considering a divorce, contact
her two one four fifty five. She specializes in divorces.
Contact her today, And of course thanks. This guy in
(12:44):
detective going is that's me. You need a prior to investigator.
Contact you will be more than two one four eight
two three five six years ago. Take care of it.
We'll see you next time. I'm beyond cheaters that are
taking Thank you for listening our show. Hey, laies and gentlemen,
I want to think our sponsor, Juan Hernandez Law. You
(13:04):
can visit them at one law dot com or contact
them at two one four nine zero zero zero zero
zero zero. They helped me through an accident and they
can help you too, so contact them today.
You're listening to Beyond the Cheaters, the Detective Gomez.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Files, and now here is Detective go Mads.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
Welcome to another episode of Beyonce Hers, the Technical Mez Files,
and the host of Technical Nomads. Today we're visit with
a young lady Angelos talk about how her Valentine's Day
didn't quite go that well and how she dumped him
on Valentine's for not coming through. Right, Let's get her
on the air. Let's talk about it here. She is, Angela,
(00:34):
how are you doing today?
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Hi, I'm doing great. How are you good?
Speaker 1 (00:38):
Good? Thanks for being here this evening. We're going to
get right into it. Valentine's Day was last Friday. Yes,
and the person you've been dating for how long.
Speaker 2 (00:50):
Now, probably about five months?
Speaker 1 (00:54):
Five months did not deliver and h and been kind
of a little disappearing act where he would disappear at
certain times. We had talked about I mean, I know
we had talked about this before Valentine's Day, and a
part of you wanted to spend time with your man, right.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
Yeah, he's a great person.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
At least I thought he was a great person, and
I wanted to make sure that you know, I gave it,
you know, enough time that I didn't discount him just
because maybe he was temperate, rarely going through something hard
or difficult at the time. So, but Valentine's was the
(01:39):
last straw, and I had said to myself, I will
not allow him to disappoint me on Valentine's Day.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
So what happened on Valentine's Day? Tell me about that
he was not going to support you on Valentine's Day.
Obviously he disappointed you.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
Yet Actually a couple weeks before that, my birthday was
February third, and so I just wanted to make sure
we had to talk. I was like, oh, my birthday's
February third, I want to go to dinner my birthday night,
and you know, Valentine's Day is coming up, and he's like, oh, yeah, okay.
So the birthday was a bus He sent me this
(02:19):
beautiful email, but he did not take me out. I
went out on my own, and then Valentine's was coming around,
and the plan was for him to come over Friday
evening and stay till Saturday. And yeah, but I told
(02:40):
him specifically that you know, we need to go to
a restaurant. I need you to take me out. I
don't want to just stay at home. I need you
to take me out. So I called him Thursday and
I was like, hey, so what's the plan for the weekend.
He was like, oh, I'll be over Friday after work.
(03:01):
He lives forty five minutes away, so about eight pm.
And I said, okay, well where we're going to eat it?
Speaker 2 (03:09):
He was like, oh, I'll let you figure that out.
And I was just like.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
I had made a reservation for myself and my auntie
on Valentine's Day for three pm so we could have
dinner our early early dinner at capt Girl. So I said, well,
my aunt's sick, she can't go. We have this three
pm reservation and he was like, well, can they push
(03:39):
it back? And I was like no, it's Valentine's Day,
like they're completely booked.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
And he would like, well, i'll see if I can
get off of work and meet you. You can meet there.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
Then later on in the evening, I said, oh, did
you check about that? And he was like, oh, my
boss wasn't end. You know, I'll check later. So Friday
morning rolls around, I've slept on it.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
I'm upset.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
I'm done, like I need one of my requirements for
our guys to be able to plan, to be able
to set up a reservation, like, you know, a simple reservation.
And he had promised that he was going to try better,
but this was not it. So I sent him an email,
(04:30):
short and sweet actually with a text, and I said,
you know, we've been working on this. You don't seem
to be able to make changes, and you know, I
think it's best that we not do not communicate any longer.
And then I sent that and then blocked his number.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
Yeah, number number.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
Once you said that text message, that was.
Speaker 3 (04:58):
It blocked, And I felt I felt a release because
I was like, I was not gonna let it ruin
Valentine's Day for me, So I dressed up.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
I wore a new dress that I had bought that
never worn before.
Speaker 3 (05:14):
I wore my red butterfly patent leather heels and put
on my makeup and jewelry, and I took myself to
Capital Grill at three pm. I valaid my car and
I walked in and I had a lovely, lovely dinner
that evening and I felt whole and complete by myself
(05:40):
and it was actually a relief not to have that
energy of someone who can't. If I can give myself
capital grill, you should be able to do that for
some And I was like, I can cheat myself really well,
(06:01):
I would prefer to do that then have someone with me.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
He doesn't value me exactly.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
And it appears that he didn't value because he didn't
plan anything you talked about it, or he was putting
everything in your hands for you.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
To plan, right.
Speaker 3 (06:14):
But on the same time, so someone would be like, well,
why would you be with him? Well, why would you
need to talk to him? He's a good talker, he's
a good you know, uh, he's a good charmer.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
You know. It never sounded like, oh, I'm not going
to do anything for you.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
It's like, oh, we'll just come up together with our
own plans.
Speaker 2 (06:35):
You know.
Speaker 3 (06:36):
You know, we're our own unique couples, so you know,
we'll just come up together with our own plans.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
And so it never really sounded like it was.
Speaker 3 (06:45):
But then I realized I woke up Friday morning, I
was like, no, he's just he's just were talking.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
So, yeah, he had no plans. Yeah, he had no
plans to spend any time with you. He was clearly
going to do what he wanted to do. But I'm
glad you blocked him, because you know, you know, I
do have some clients sometimes and say, well he keeps
calling you, keeps calling you block and just blocking.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
You know, well, there's a part of there's a part
of you, So you do the block. The first day
I did unblock them, and I didn't call them or
anything like that, but I saw that he had tried
to text. And then he sent an email a few
days later which I read and I did not reply
(07:33):
to you. And I'm back to try to call today,
and I'm I'm done with it, and so I'm glad
I hadn't responded back.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
Good good. I'm very proud of you, you know, women, and
you're I'm not going to ask you how old you are,
but mature age. Okay. Other women that are about your
age are in that age frame where they have to
either restart all over again or trying to love all
(08:05):
over again. Tell somebody else that may have gone through
your same situation, what would you tell someone on how
to happen?
Speaker 3 (08:13):
I will tell someone to look at the behavior early on.
As soon as you see a slip up that can't
be explained. For instance, you know he doesn't he maybe
ghost you for a day or two, or he doesn't
come by when he says he's going to come by,
(08:35):
or he doesn't take you out like you might eat
it home, or you might you know, you know, do
something that's small when and you communicated your expectations. Once
you see it, it's time to cut it.
Speaker 1 (08:53):
And move on.
Speaker 2 (08:55):
Yeah. I'm a firm believer in that. Men typically.
Speaker 3 (09:01):
They can recognize the woman that they want to be with,
and when they do that, they leave no doubt in
your mind.
Speaker 2 (09:08):
So that was the thing.
Speaker 3 (09:09):
I was always confused, doubting like you know, you know,
easy like me or whatever.
Speaker 2 (09:18):
I never knew when I was going to see him next.
Speaker 3 (09:20):
And I always heard that a guy who likes you
will make sure.
Speaker 2 (09:25):
You know when he's going to see you next.
Speaker 3 (09:28):
And so yeah, so it was painful, but I think
the relief was greater than you know, the tame.
Speaker 1 (09:38):
Well, I'm glad you did it, Angela. I'm glad to
hear your story because we're all adults. But in his situation,
he probably there was effort there. You'd notice it and
you'd be willing to excuse it, but there was no effort,
no anything. Yeah, on Valentine's Day's not so much about
(09:59):
you know, it's more I think it's more about just
the simple gesture appreciation of the person you're with. Car
Flower doesn't have to be three dozen rows, This doesn't
have to be the biggest balloon in the store. But
just something to show a little appreciation.
Speaker 2 (10:14):
Right right, little? Yeah, something small and just so people
will know.
Speaker 3 (10:22):
I so he's met my family, so we I took
him on a business trip with me to our holiday
Christmas party.
Speaker 2 (10:32):
He termed my family. So this is this is.
Speaker 3 (10:35):
Someone who you know, I was highly considering, but there
was always some excuse with his job or work or
the distance, and he can never make me a priority.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
And at the age I need to be a priority.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
You got to be number one. You are number one? Yeah,
going to be a priority allied like that. If you're
not a priority, if you're not on their priority, number
one list, you got to cut them loose. Yeah is
that fair enough?
Speaker 2 (11:03):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (11:04):
Okay, I'm glad you did what you did. I'm glad
you blinded them. And I'm sure you've got a beautiful heart.
I'm sure some people more even more than glad to
have that heart in a relationship so.
Speaker 3 (11:16):
Thank you, and I feel so I feel free and
I'm still able to just move forward and take the
lessons that I learned from this relationship and move on
to hopefully eventually the love of my life.
Speaker 1 (11:31):
Sometimes you'll find me. Trust me, you have a beautiful
Heartner those guys, it's really hard to find a good woman.
You're a good woman. So you're very very well appreciated.
I'm sure someone's gonna appreciate you for who you are
and what you have heart.
Speaker 2 (11:45):
Right there, Yeah, thank you very much.
Speaker 1 (11:47):
All right, well, thank you for being part of today
and uh, thank you for sharing your story. And I'm
sure that our ladies and men and something from this today. Okay,
thank you.
Speaker 2 (11:58):
Thanks to take to go man.
Speaker 1 (12:01):
Part. Ladies and gentlemen, thank Angel for being part of
our podcast. A day is fantastic. You know, you learn
something every day on the show, and this is definitely
a life learning lesson that. You know, sometimes it's okay
to block somebody and let them go and move on
make yourself happy, and she's definitely doing that. Lad you.
One thing, mister Wan her Nand is our sponsor for
our show today. I want to thank him. He's a
(12:24):
personal injury here turning in Dallas. For there you contact
him at two one four nine zero zero zero zero
SERVI zero or business at one law dot com. Also
think if Victoria, but if you're considering a divorce, contact
her two one four fifty five. She specializes in divorces.
Contact her today, And of course thanks. This guy in
(12:44):
detective going is that's me. You need a prior to investigator.
Contact you will be more than two one four eight
two three five six years ago. Take care of it.
We'll see you next time. I'm beyond cheaters that are
taking Thank you for listening our show. Hey, laies and gentlemen,
I want to think our sponsor, Juan Hernandez Law. You
(13:04):
can visit them at one law dot com or contact
them at two one four nine zero zero zero zero
zero zero. They helped me through an accident and they
can help you too, so contact them today.
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