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Speaker 1 (00:02):
You're listening to Beyond the Cheaters, the Detective Gomez Files,
and now here is Detective Gometz. Welcome to an episode
of Beyond. She's the Detective Domess Files and your host
Technive Gomez. And you know, on our podcast we're talking
about cheaters, liars, infidelity, relationships and all kinds of things.
And we'll take a break from that every once in
a while and bring somebody from the Dallas fourth area
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who has our own business entrepreneur doing all types of
great things in the Dallas fourth area. And I call
her Tam Caam. I'm gonna let her introduce herself to
you here in just a second. All right, She's a
very very special friend of mine, and let's get her
on the air. Tam Cam are you there?
Speaker 2 (00:40):
Oh, oh hi, how are you?
Speaker 1 (00:43):
How are you good?
Speaker 2 (00:45):
Good? Good to have you here today.
Speaker 1 (00:47):
Glad to have you here. Now some of what you're
doing here in the DFW area. And well, I might
like to start with the shuttle service because I think
that anybody coming to the Dallas fourth area could definitely
use that service.
Speaker 2 (00:59):
Yeah yeah, So, as you mentioned, I am in the
shuttle business, shuttle transportation, and let me just start from
the beginning. So my name is Tamara Campbell. I go
by tam cam and I'm a creative entrepreneur originally from
New Orleans. And the business that you were mentioning, the transportation,
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came about because of the pandemic. So as a photographer
and a videographer, no one was taking pictures during the pandemic.
So I wanted to get into, you know, something that
would keep money flowing. And so I looked into real estate,
I looked into transportation, and transportation seemed to be the
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thing to get in easy. Decided to get into transportation
because the entry barrier was a little easier, and three
and a half years in, I realized, oh my god,
it's so more, much more lucrative, you know. I mean,
because when you think about real estate, you have to,
you know, think about tenants and furniture and what have you.
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You know, you buy a shuttle, the major thing you
have to just worry about is showing up on time
and having satisfied clients. So, yeah, you've been seeing me
on Instagram. I do a lot of online marketing as
a marketing uh content creator, and uh I love it.
I say, I say that the transportation business is my
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little insurance policy to keep me out of the workforce,
the traditional workforce.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
Well, I really enjoy some of your your TikTok videos
that you do in your band though. Those are very entertaining.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
A yeah, yeah, I need to get back on that.
I've been kind of, you know, pulling back just a
little because I wanted to like let my the shuttle
business shine for itself. Because when you start a business,
you start with the end goal in mind. You always
want to sell a business, you know, three to five
years down the line. And so I kind of pulled
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back out of it because I didn't want to be
the face of it. And so but somebody told me
they say they missed those videos. So I need to
basically back on it. Yeah, I get back on it.
Jump back.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
Tell us about the photograph now you're now I know
Tam from we both used to work on this little
TV show called Cheaters type of people cheating and Tam,
what does take the still photography for the TV show?
But you're still taking photographs now?
Speaker 2 (03:22):
Also?
Speaker 1 (03:23):
Right?
Speaker 2 (03:23):
Yeah? Yeah, yeah, So I specialize when we met years
ago on Cheaters, uh in high school senior portraits, and
I still do. But you know, things are changing, and
I tell people all the time, these phones and these
cameras are getting so tiny and so clever that basically
people are taking their own pictures. So what I've done
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is I've moved into sort of a niche photography, which
is branding photography and commercial photography. And so that's lately
how I been making my living. And to be honest,
it is more. The payback is is even better. And
I'm not working as hard, you know, And you know,
(04:09):
I guess as you get older, you just start working smarter, right.
Speaker 1 (04:12):
That's right, That's very true. You got to work smarter,
not harder, and that's the best way to do it.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
Exactly.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
If you don't, then you know, you're going to just
work yourself to death, you know. So you've got to
find some other things that you specialize and they can
kind of balance.
Speaker 2 (04:27):
Everything, right right exactly.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
Now, now, Tam, you know, we've known each other for
a while, and yeah, and I've always had I've always
had some infidelity questions. I want to put you on
the spot and ask about so you can ask you
a couple of questions. Don't get offended, okay, shoot, okay,
So so my biggest question is you know you're I'm
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not even going to guess how old robudgets. We'll say
you're watch out, watch them out the success, you know.
I constantly get a lot of questions about people ask
me like why would somebody hire a private investigator? Now,
you take photos, of course for a living. But if
you didn't take photos, and you're a housewife and maybe
you had a few kids, would you ever consider hiring
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a private investigator to expose your spouse of infidelity? Would
you ever consider something like that?
Speaker 2 (05:22):
If I was a housewife?
Speaker 1 (05:24):
Right? A housewife? A wife?
Speaker 2 (05:26):
Oh? If I was a wife, well, first of all,
if we're being real, I would never be a housewife.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
Okay, okay. If you're just a wife, say you had
a husband and you both worked and he thought he
was messing around, Are you going to personally initiative go
out there and hunt him down or would you hire
hire a private investigator like myself to do it for you?
Speaker 2 (05:46):
Well, I mean honestly, hiring a private investigator? Is there
would be for me personally to hire a private investigator?
Would be? Uh? Would end up in two scenarios. One
if I was financially needing, If I was financially making
enough money to afford you, because I feel like your
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profession is a luxury, you know, profession. You know, it's
kind of like, Okay, you hire a chef, you hire
a private investigator, you hire a stylist. You know, I
look at your profession being alone that line. And secondly,
if I have some serious doubts that my partner is
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cheating and I just don't care how much it is,
I'm gonna pay you know. So those are the only
two scenarios that I personally would hire a detective.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
Okay, all right, Yeah, that's the first question. The scope
number two. Second question, you were to see your best
friend's husband out there with another woman. Now you're gonna
call him tell her. I'm just gonna let her find
out on her own.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
You say, my best friend, I'm.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
Sorry another woman. It's not her. What you're gonna do.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
If it's my best friend, I'm definitely gonna go and
rat on his ass. Okay, yeah, I mean, if it's
my best friend, this is thinking about me. If you
if you're my friend, I'm down for you, even if
you're in the wrong.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
Mm hmm.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
I'm not gonna embarrass you in front of who you're wronging,
But I will tell you you're wrong, you know. But
I'm always stick by your side and be like, you know,
that's my girl. I don't care what happened. That's my girl,
you know.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
Yeah, got a couple more here for your old fast. Okay, Well,
why do you think people cheat in relationships?
Speaker 2 (07:44):
Like?
Speaker 1 (07:45):
Why do you think there's such a there's a need
for private eyes like myself? Why do you think people cheat?
Speaker 2 (07:50):
Because they're bored and anything that's on repetitiveness gets stale.
You gotta keep reinventing anything. Anything you do for too long,
it's gonna run a cycle, so you gotta you gotta
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freshen it up, you know, or it's gonna run his course.
And when it's running run his course, it always runs
its course in in the opposite direction, which is the
negative direction. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (08:23):
Oh I like that.
Speaker 2 (08:24):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, you can put that in
a book.
Speaker 1 (08:29):
That's a good answer. Put it in course, all right,
And I got one more her for you know the people.
You know, men always get accused of cheating. Do you
believe that men cheat more than women do?
Speaker 2 (08:40):
Oh? Hell to the yeah, yo, yo.
Speaker 1 (08:42):
Y'all, Why would you say that?
Speaker 2 (08:44):
Because men. You guys are just so horny all of
a sudden. Uh now I got that song in my mind.
Oh he's so harny.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
You know to love crew. But don't you think that,
you know, marketing is more towards men, to make it
that way, I mean people market You don't see too
much marketing where they're trying to target women's more like
they're trying to target men with you know, these girls
and these beer commercials and these bars, and you know
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they got the Hooters, they got the locals, they got this,
they got peaks. They're all targeted towards men. You don't
see a whole lovel for women. But they're like they're
inviting men to go out there and try to try
to cheat temptom the devil.
Speaker 2 (09:33):
Well, the thing I mean you guys, is in your
DNA to just be who you are. I mean, you
could you could just you could just see something and
your skin just rises, you.
Speaker 1 (09:46):
Know, a part of your skin just right, you know, or.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
You know a woman can like brush beside you and
you know you just I don't know, it's just I
don't think you guys can even control it. Always say
the human spirit, but the human body always have like
two parts to it. It's like it's it's the flesh
and the spirit, of course, you know, And so we
(10:16):
can control I guess the spirit. I feel like the spirit,
you know. Yeah, okay, so we can control the spirit.
But say, for instance, like right now, you know, I
feel like something, I'm coming down with something, you know,
like been pretty scratchy the last couple of hours. That's
the body. I have no control over that. So some things,
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you know, you guys do not have control over women.
We have control over our sexual imaginations, you know. I
think we can be a little more. And I don't
know what did it? Why? Why that is so? I mean,
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I think there are some women who have more male
hormone moans than, you know, than most women, and so
they become a little more horny. And I think when
you're Harney, you use tend to cheat.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
Okay, okay, enough your horny, You tend to cheat. That
tends to make sense.
Speaker 2 (11:19):
So so in that case, more men, y'all cheat more?
Speaker 1 (11:23):
Is there such thing as you know, when somebody cheats them?
This is the last one I got for you. So
when someone cheats in a relationship, the is there such
thing as recovery. Can you recover from that? Can you recover?
Like if your man you can catch your man in
the back of a car buttneckd are you going to
recover and say, hey, you know what, I want to
act like it just didn't happen. Let's try to make
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this work.
Speaker 2 (11:44):
I don't know. We just had this conversation the other
day on my podcast at always ham Cam on YouTube.
It just depends on the lounge, the longevity of your relationship. Yep.
If you have been dating for more than a couple
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of years, then you got a lot invested in it.
Maybe if it's at a year a little bit over
a year, then it's a little easier to cut off.
And of course I'm talking from personal experience. But uh,
I don't know. I don't know. I mean, if if
I think more women we we are willing to just
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you know, I don't know, And that's a that's a
thought provoking question. But I'll just go ahead and say
it based on my experience, I won't. I won't forgive
you no, forget no, because once a cheat, always a cheater.
And if you started out with someone who uh you
met them cheating on you know, their significant other I mean,
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that's the same way you're going to lose them, Like
they say, the way you found them is the way
you're going to lose them, you know. So I just
don't believe in cheating. You know, we were talking about
emotional cheating, you know, uh, flirting, you know that's that's
a very fine line right there. Or there's a lot
of great area in that that conversation. But yeah, so right.
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But if you I don't think there's nothing wrong with
you know, being overly nice. For me, I can always
I can always tell when a man have cheated in
the past, Like if I'm being like really nice, and
when I'm saying overly nice, that's just another word for
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being flirtatious. If I'm really nice to a guy and
he all of a sudden in the conversation just start
mentioning his wife, Oh wow, I like your blouse. Oh
my wife got one like that? I know he's cheated
in the past, and he's protecting himself. He's that And
I feel like guy, most guys should if you're talking
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to a woman, especially if you start feeling a certain way,
you know, you really should, like in the first five
ten minutes, start mentioning your wife or your significant other.
Speaker 1 (14:15):
Cover your ass, Yeah, cover your ass, Cover your ass.
Speaker 2 (14:19):
I just had this conversation last night with my friend
who had a gallery opening, and he's a photographer and
most of his models came to his event, like these
beautiful women, and so as one of the feature photographers,
he's standing on the step and repeat and his wife
is there too, and so his wife really don't, you know,
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get into involved in all his work, because he shoots
a variety of stuff. But this particular event, he was
showcasing a lot of his models, and so they showed
up to uh, you know, to get support and because
they were the future models too, And so he's standing
there on the step and repeat kind of like you know,
you know how when you take a picture with a group,
you're kind of like hugging each other like that. He
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wasn't doing it. So he's like sitting there and the
models are like just you know, posing on the side,
you know. And I brought it to his attention later
that night. I said, I noticed how you didn't huddle
with those models. He was like he just started laughing.
He was like, start nothing, you know, But what he's
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doing is respecting his wife, and I really respect him
for doing that.
Speaker 1 (15:32):
It's the right thing to do. He's doing the right thing.
Speaker 2 (15:34):
Because no matter what level, you know, you and your
significant other are on, you know, you still need to
have that respect. You know, some men probably would have
done it just to get a rise out of their wife,
but you know, he respected his wife. You know, he
was like, you know what. But then again, some women
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know that, Hey, this is my husband's profession, this is
a picture, and so why not huddle up? I don't know,
so I can see it from both sides, I really,
but I didn't notice that last night. I was like,
y'all look like a like a band, you know, like
there was a band, eighties band, just standing up there posing.
Speaker 1 (16:13):
You know, I'm understanding. Some don't, but I'm glad he did.
He respected his wife and that was the right thing
to do.
Speaker 2 (16:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (16:19):
Yeah, all right, Dan, Let's let's go over some of
your social media stuff. Can tell us how people can
find you as far as the shuttle service. Let's talk
about your photography and kind of just let people know
how they can find it.
Speaker 2 (16:32):
Okay, so initially I'm a photographer, content creator, creative entrepreneur,
as you can see right there, and they can find
me online at my name Tamarra Campbell dot com or
tam cam Photo so t A m c am photo
dot com. You can hire me to do content creation, photography, headshots,
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you name it, I pretty much shoot it. And as
far as the shuttle business, this which is my newest baby,
you can contact us at trans Cam Shuttle. If you're
having trouble trying to find it, just hashtag ride with TCS,
ride with t t cs and so most of our
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posts on social media should pop up. We do day trips,
airport pickups, small weddings and uh yeah, yeah it's a
it's a beautiful business.
Speaker 1 (17:28):
Yeah, and bachelor parties.
Speaker 2 (17:30):
Right, uh yeah, yeah we can. We'll do a lot
of people call me and they won't. They think that
we're a party bus, but we're not. But we have
had people to party on the bus. But conducting a
party buses is dangerous and it's hard in my opinion,
you know, being in this industry for three and a
half years. Because the music's loud, so is it pairing
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the drivers? You know attention span Then you know they
leave a lot of champagne bottles and it just leave
it a mess, so I try to stray away from
booking a lot of parties on the bus because we
are using it mainly for airport runs, right, which is
the bread and butter of our business.
Speaker 1 (18:15):
There you go, spring breaks right around the corner, right.
Speaker 2 (18:17):
Yeah, absolutely, sure is right there you go.
Speaker 1 (18:20):
All right, Tam, we want to thank you for being
part of our podcast today. Thank you so much for
being here, and of course I'll see you very very soon.
Speaker 2 (18:27):
All right, okay, all right, thank you so much for
having me. Thank you. D back.
Speaker 1 (18:33):
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