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Speaker 1 (00:02):
You're listening to Beyond the Cheaters, the Detective Gomez Files,
and now here is Detective Gomets. Welcome to an episode
of Beyond Cheers, a Detective Gomez Files. Houser, No ladies
and gentlemen. I go do a lot of interviews on
the other it's just you know, discussing cases with my clients, uh,
(00:23):
finding out what's the best solution for them. And today
I'd like to talk about you want to investigate your boyfriend?
You know, I had a client, partial client or a
lady called me to Daniel. She goes, I want to
investigate my boyfriend. And I can understand wanting to investigate,
but she only only god for two or three weeks,
two or three two a half weeks, So you have
(00:46):
to understand something when you before you started to want
to investigate. I totally agree to a certain extent, maybe
do a background check on him, but as far as
hiring for surveillance, you know, uh, spending the whole you know,
lots of money and watching him outside his house where
he works at following, I don't see what he's doing.
I think it's pretty unnecessarily if you haven't known somebody
(01:08):
that long it's a lot easier to cut off and
let it go as opposed to, you know, spending a
whole lot of money and finally got something with some
guy you bere leave and you finally don't even know
his favorite color yet or what restaurant you liked, and
you're still going through these phases. What kind of hobbies
do you like? Or are you a family man? All
these kind of questions you'll be asking him as you're
dating and trying to get to know him. They're still
(01:29):
trying to get to know him to two and a
half three weeks. So I'm just nott to bring this
to a touching because some people, you know, there's something
wrong with hiring me. If you want to hire me,
I'll do it, but I just suggest you don't. If
you've been in a relationship for a while and you're
a point where you've gotten to know the dog. May
maybe they got kids, their family, their mother, their father, brothers, sisters, siblings,
(01:49):
they're close friends, a couple, you know, a year, six months,
maybe almost a year, Christmas gift, Birthday gifts, Valentine's gifts,
doing things more personal with them, spending a lot of
time with them, you know, you're investing your time with
this person a lot of time, then I would maybe
consider maybe conducting an investigation to make sure this is
(02:11):
going to be what you want to continue to invest
your time with later on down the road. It's not easy,
of course, you've got feelings involved. It's always kind of tough.
But the most important thing is you want to make
sure you're just not overdoing it. But the dating verse
relationship thing is very very important to some of you're dating,
(02:32):
cut them off, block them, dump them, get rid of them.
But somebody relationship, you got to try to find a
good way to break up, and you know, how are
you going to do that, especially if they're doing something
that you don't want to approve of. Now you may
not be cheating, maybe doing drugs, maybe smoking a weed,
maybe smoking cigarettes, vaving whatever it may be whatever they're doing,
but or maybe they may be who knows, investigate those things.
(02:55):
But once you've invested so much time, money and energy
from you, then it's different and you're in a relationship.
You're exclusive, but dating you're not exclusively. He might be
dating to if you wren't girls. Who knows, he's trying
to find the one he likes. So if you get
to a point and you're, uh, hunt for the perfect person,
(03:18):
the perfect person to love, the person you want to
be for the rest of your life, you know, think
about these things dating verse relationship dating. You know, you
might want to just to be curious about his name.
A background check will tell you that. I find out
what his name is, what he's all about. Fin's got
criminal history. Not just because he has a criminal history
to make it's a bad person. Just maybe he slipped up.
(03:39):
But all depends what the charge is. All right, So
think about those things. I wanted to bring his attention, because, yeah,
dating is you're dating just trying to find out you're
compatible with this person or not. It may not be
maybe you are, maybe you aren't. It's the only one
way to find out is keep dating to see what
you like, se which you don't like, you don't like it,
(04:00):
cut him off and books the next one. You know,
want to get stuck with some crazy person? All right? Okay?
And I said, if you're in a relationship, hey, you know,
spend some more time. You're still getting to know them.
You know, you I get a lot of cases. I
owe brings up a moment ago there. A lot of
people come up. They went with him for ten years.
I don't know who he is yet exactly. Get to
(04:20):
know these people. Find out everything about him you can,
you know, because once you get married to him, you're
married to him. That's it. All right, think about those
things and it comes to dating versus relationship, and of
course that's in your investigation. All right, take care. I'm detected, Goless.
I just want to mention this a little quick. Thanks
you for being part of Beyond Cheaters, the Detective Godiness
where we catch heers, talk about cheaters and have great
(04:43):
stories about you. All right. We want to thank mister
Wan her name this but the one her name is longer,
and he's a personal interw returning here and down for there.
If you've been involved in the car, been her injured
in two WI your actions slipping ball, contact to you
immediately at two one four nine in zero zero zero
zero zero. Who works all over the state of Texas.
(05:03):
It's a profession in his business and he can help you,
sell me, you know, help you. And also want to
think miss Victoria nov It, she's a doors attorney here
in Dallasworth area. You think about going through the wars
child Cussy, you want to go five for your kids,
those type of things, contact her two one four three
fifty five. She can help you, uh in your you
(05:25):
know what you're trying to do with your particular situation,
family situation, because they're all different, Trust meen, they're all different.
She can help me and also want to thank mister
Detective Golz. That's me. You can contact me at Detective
Gomez dot com or at two one four eight two
three five six year o zero. You got infidelity situation,
contact me background checks contact me. Don't be afraid to
(05:47):
call that a right. Take care. I'll see you next time.
We'll be on Cheaters the detectives thank you for listening
our show. Listen, gentlemen, I want to think our sponsor
want her Nanda's Law. You can visit them at one
law dot com or contact them at two one four
nine zero zero zero zero zero zero. They helped me
(06:09):
through an accident and they can help you too, so
contact them today
You're listening to Beyond the Cheaters, the Detective Gomez Files,
and now here is Detective Gomets. Welcome to an episode
of Beyond Cheers, a Detective Gomez Files. Houser, No ladies
and gentlemen. I go do a lot of interviews on
the other it's just you know, discussing cases with my clients, uh,
(00:23):
finding out what's the best solution for them. And today
I'd like to talk about you want to investigate your boyfriend?
You know, I had a client, partial client or a
lady called me to Daniel. She goes, I want to
investigate my boyfriend. And I can understand wanting to investigate,
but she only only god for two or three weeks,
two or three two a half weeks, So you have
(00:46):
to understand something when you before you started to want
to investigate. I totally agree to a certain extent, maybe
do a background check on him, but as far as
hiring for surveillance, you know, uh, spending the whole you know,
lots of money and watching him outside his house where
he works at following, I don't see what he's doing.
I think it's pretty unnecessarily if you haven't known somebody
(01:08):
that long it's a lot easier to cut off and
let it go as opposed to, you know, spending a
whole lot of money and finally got something with some
guy you bere leave and you finally don't even know
his favorite color yet or what restaurant you liked, and
you're still going through these phases. What kind of hobbies
do you like? Or are you a family man? All
these kind of questions you'll be asking him as you're
dating and trying to get to know him. They're still
(01:29):
trying to get to know him to two and a
half three weeks. So I'm just nott to bring this
to a touching because some people, you know, there's something
wrong with hiring me. If you want to hire me,
I'll do it, but I just suggest you don't. If
you've been in a relationship for a while and you're
a point where you've gotten to know the dog. May
maybe they got kids, their family, their mother, their father, brothers, sisters, siblings,
(01:49):
they're close friends, a couple, you know, a year, six months,
maybe almost a year, Christmas gift, Birthday gifts, Valentine's gifts,
doing things more personal with them, spending a lot of
time with them, you know, you're investing your time with
this person a lot of time, then I would maybe
consider maybe conducting an investigation to make sure this is
(02:11):
going to be what you want to continue to invest
your time with later on down the road. It's not easy,
of course, you've got feelings involved. It's always kind of tough.
But the most important thing is you want to make
sure you're just not overdoing it. But the dating verse
relationship thing is very very important to some of you're dating,
(02:32):
cut them off, block them, dump them, get rid of them.
But somebody relationship, you got to try to find a
good way to break up, and you know, how are
you going to do that, especially if they're doing something
that you don't want to approve of. Now you may
not be cheating, maybe doing drugs, maybe smoking a weed,
maybe smoking cigarettes, vaving whatever it may be whatever they're doing,
but or maybe they may be who knows, investigate those things.
(02:55):
But once you've invested so much time, money and energy
from you, then it's different and you're in a relationship.
You're exclusive, but dating you're not exclusively. He might be
dating to if you wren't girls. Who knows, he's trying
to find the one he likes. So if you get
to a point and you're, uh, hunt for the perfect person,
(03:18):
the perfect person to love, the person you want to
be for the rest of your life, you know, think
about these things dating verse relationship dating. You know, you
might want to just to be curious about his name.
A background check will tell you that. I find out
what his name is, what he's all about. Fin's got
criminal history. Not just because he has a criminal history
to make it's a bad person. Just maybe he slipped up.
(03:39):
But all depends what the charge is. All right, So
think about those things. I wanted to bring his attention, because, yeah,
dating is you're dating just trying to find out you're
compatible with this person or not. It may not be
maybe you are, maybe you aren't. It's the only one
way to find out is keep dating to see what
you like, se which you don't like, you don't like it,
(04:00):
cut him off and books the next one. You know,
want to get stuck with some crazy person? All right? Okay?
And I said, if you're in a relationship, hey, you know,
spend some more time. You're still getting to know them.
You know, you I get a lot of cases. I
owe brings up a moment ago there. A lot of
people come up. They went with him for ten years.
I don't know who he is yet exactly. Get to
(04:20):
know these people. Find out everything about him you can,
you know, because once you get married to him, you're
married to him. That's it. All right, think about those
things and it comes to dating versus relationship, and of
course that's in your investigation. All right, take care. I'm detected, Goless.
I just want to mention this a little quick. Thanks
you for being part of Beyond Cheaters, the Detective Godiness
where we catch heers, talk about cheaters and have great
(04:43):
stories about you. All right. We want to thank mister
Wan her name this but the one her name is longer,
and he's a personal interw returning here and down for there.
If you've been involved in the car, been her injured
in two WI your actions slipping ball, contact to you
immediately at two one four nine in zero zero zero
zero zero. Who works all over the state of Texas.
(05:03):
It's a profession in his business and he can help you,
sell me, you know, help you. And also want to
think miss Victoria nov It, she's a doors attorney here
in Dallasworth area. You think about going through the wars
child Cussy, you want to go five for your kids,
those type of things, contact her two one four three
fifty five. She can help you, uh in your you
(05:25):
know what you're trying to do with your particular situation,
family situation, because they're all different, Trust meen, they're all different.
She can help me and also want to thank mister
Detective Golz. That's me. You can contact me at Detective
Gomez dot com or at two one four eight two
three five six year o zero. You got infidelity situation,
contact me background checks contact me. Don't be afraid to
(05:47):
call that a right. Take care. I'll see you next time.
We'll be on Cheaters the detectives thank you for listening
our show. Listen, gentlemen, I want to think our sponsor
want her Nanda's Law. You can visit them at one
law dot com or contact them at two one four
nine zero zero zero zero zero zero. They helped me
(06:09):
through an accident and they can help you too, so
contact them today
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