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Speaker 1 (00:02):
You're listening to Beyond the Cheaters, The Detective Gomez.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Files, and now here is Detective Gomez.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
Welcome to another episode of Yon Cheers The Detective Gomez Files.
I'm your host of Detective Gomez and thank you all for
being with us today. You know, when it comes to
infidelity and cheating, no matter how old you are, no
matter what you look like, how pretty you are, or
whatever you might think you might be, it can happen.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
And today we have someone that's going.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
To be on our show, our podcast is going to
tell us our stories. Something just recently happened and her
name is Angelie. So let's get her on the air
right now and get this story out so you can
hear it. Angelie, how are you doing today?
Speaker 4 (00:45):
Hey, I'm doing well, Detective Gomez. Good to finally be
chatting with you.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
Yes, yes, so glad to have you.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
I know you messaged me about your story and I
was like, you know, we got to get you on
the podcast. We got to get your story out there
so people can hear this because sometimes you think that
it can't happen to you, and it's happened to you
right in front of you. So it's important for you
to get this story out and let other people know
that at this day and time. I hate to say it,
(01:14):
but some of us men just don't know what we
want yet.
Speaker 4 (01:17):
Absolutely.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
And I've been watching you, Detective Gomez for a while now.
Speaker 4 (01:22):
And you know, since this has happened to me, I
had to tell you about it. It's insane, honestly.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
Well, this is your platform, let's hear about it, Okay,
So tell us about where did you meet this guy
at and tell us kind of how it all started
and how you got to the point where you thought
he was cheating on you.
Speaker 4 (01:40):
Okay, So it all started on Bumble.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
I'm sure everybody's heard about that.
Speaker 4 (01:46):
It's a cute little dating app.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
I matched with this man. We started seeing each other.
It was great, it was wonderful. Actually, I thought he
was the man I was going to marry.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
Okay, and you know.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
I feel a little naive now for thinking that, but
you know, in the moment, love always hits us blindly, right.
Speaker 3 (02:07):
It always does.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
So I I'm seeing him for a few months and
everything's going so well, and I start telling my girlfriends
about him because I'm thinking.
Speaker 4 (02:22):
We're getting serious.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Right, Oh well, my other friends she had told me
she'd been seeing a guy, and so I'm like, hey, tell.
Speaker 4 (02:32):
Me about him. What's he like.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
She's telling me, Oh, he does this, he works in
this industry, he's a CEO for this company.
Speaker 4 (02:42):
And I'll stretch my head a little. I'm like, hmm,
what does he look like?
Speaker 1 (02:48):
Because that's that description kind of sounds familiar, right, right.
Speaker 4 (02:52):
A little oddly familiar.
Speaker 2 (02:54):
Right. So we get into the description of what he
looks like, his characteristic and whatnot. She describes the man
I'm seeing to a t and I'm like, what the heck.
So I'm laying in bed with him while we're talking
(03:14):
about this, right, and I'm like, send me a picture
of him, sure enough? And I kid you not, Detective
gum As. It was the same man.
Speaker 3 (03:25):
It's crazy.
Speaker 4 (03:26):
I didn't understand.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
I'm like, oh my gosh, I thought everything was going
so well.
Speaker 4 (03:31):
So I'm laying in bed with him.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
And I find this out, and I'm like, hey, you
should text him. You guys should meet for like a
dinner or something, because I've seen the same.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
Guy, right, Yeah, I mean, I mean, let's let's let's
find out.
Speaker 4 (03:49):
Let's get something going on.
Speaker 3 (03:50):
I mean, this is just incredible.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
I mean because I mean, because I've worked on cases
before on bumble and and I guess your girlfriend was
on bumble also, right, so both you're on bumble Yo,
y'all just happened to match with the same guy.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
That's crazy.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Yeah, And I think it happened around the same time too,
because she had told me she'd been seeing him for
a few months.
Speaker 4 (04:08):
Also.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Okay, so he's two timing both of us.
Speaker 4 (04:12):
Can you believe that.
Speaker 3 (04:15):
Those men never learn?
Speaker 4 (04:17):
They never learn?
Speaker 2 (04:18):
And mind you, he's thirty one years old. Okay, you
think by this time he'd have his things together, he
would he would get it figured out and maybe want
one woman, maybe.
Speaker 4 (04:28):
Be ready for marriage.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
And so I tell her to text him while I'm
laying there next to him. Is sure enough, he texts back,
and he's like entertaining the conversations. Her and I are
over here having a conversation about this. She's sending me
screenshots and I'm just laying there.
Speaker 4 (04:49):
My blood was boiling.
Speaker 3 (04:51):
I bet kid you not.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
I was ready to just like lose my temper.
Speaker 3 (04:58):
And I can imagine it.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
I'm sure if you're laying in bed together, he probably
didn't get any action that night right. He's like, man,
I think I'm I just go to bed, right?
Speaker 4 (05:08):
Oh man, what do you do next?
Speaker 3 (05:12):
I mean, I know that.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
In our pre interview you talked about have y'all both
confronted him. You didn't tell me how, so tell me how?
Like you to set up the moment? We all both
confronted him together? How did that happen?
Speaker 4 (05:23):
So we played into it a bit.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
We decided that we were going to have the two
of them meet up for dinner, okay, at a restaurant
that he was a partner in, and he took me
there so many times, and he'd also taken her there.
The staff were aware of this and they treated us
individually like we were the queens, you know.
Speaker 4 (05:47):
So they're in on it. He's in on it.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
It's a weird situation. So I'm like, okay, have him
take you to dinner on say, Thursday night. Right. They go,
and her and I have already put it together that
this is our plan.
Speaker 4 (06:06):
She's going to.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
Order a bunch of food. Okay. They're splitting all of
these entrees. I think there was a truffle risotto, there
was a lobster linguini, and then they had a red
sauce bowlonnaise, and they were eating it and everything, unaware
(06:29):
of what was about to happen. Oh, I can't forget
to mention the most expensive bottle of wine.
Speaker 4 (06:34):
On the menu, of course, add oh yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
We made sure we racked up a good tab for him,
and through maybe the beginning five minutes of them getting there, entrees.
My plan was to go inside and just hey, what's up.
So I walk in and that's what I do. I'm like, hey, guys,
what's going on. The staff are sitting there and they're
(07:01):
like already the staff knew.
Speaker 4 (07:03):
What was happening because they were not it. How could
they not know what was about to happen?
Speaker 5 (07:08):
And this man, he has dawns to the floor, He
has no words, and her and I we look at
each other and I'm like, hey, girl, it's been so
long since i've seen you.
Speaker 4 (07:19):
It's good to see you again.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
We were friends, and we didn't hide at at that
moment either. We really wanted to emphasize that we were
close and we knew what was going on in front
of his face.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
So as he's sitting there with.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
His mouth just all the way to the floor, I
take the bollonnaise and mind you, it's a red sauce, right,
you make it with a marinera, it's gonna stain, right.
And the plan was they were gonna matchin and wear
white that night too.
Speaker 4 (07:54):
So they do that and I pick it up and
I'm like, hmm.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
This looks really yummy, and I just take it and
I dump it on his head and I take the
bowl and I put it on his chest and I
wipe it down his chest too.
Speaker 4 (08:13):
He's sitting there, he's flabbergasted.
Speaker 3 (08:17):
With red sauce.
Speaker 2 (08:18):
Right, Oh yeah, the red sauce. And I don't know why,
but like I've seen bolonnaise and usually it's not this saucy,
but tonight it was really really saucy.
Speaker 4 (08:29):
Thank God for that, right.
Speaker 2 (08:31):
So I I do that, and I'm looking at him
and I'm like, you look a little thirsty. So I
picked there his glass of wine that he had sitting
next to him, and I.
Speaker 4 (08:43):
Just throw it in his face. And she gets up
and she takes her.
Speaker 2 (08:51):
Glass of wine. And mind you, this is a red
wine also, so she takes it and she just chucks
it in his face.
Speaker 4 (08:58):
Also.
Speaker 2 (08:59):
We look at each other and we're like, this was awesome.
Speaker 5 (09:03):
We high five, and we.
Speaker 2 (09:05):
Look around and people are staring at us like we
just committed a crime or something.
Speaker 3 (09:11):
And then the partner in the restaurant, right.
Speaker 2 (09:13):
Mm hmmm, so he's partial owner of it. Yeah, And
everybody's just like, oh my gosh because they know this man.
And then some of the girls are in the background clapping.
Speaker 4 (09:24):
Like yeah, that's what you get.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
So her and I we high five, and then we
take each other's hands and we walk out of the
restaurant just laughing, cracking up at the situation. And you know,
I decided I was going to block this man after
but he's still to this day, he's like sending out
his friends to try and reach out to me and
also her. You know, he's still trying to play the game.
Speaker 3 (09:49):
What an idiot, idiot really dumb. I mean, it just
it just makes no sense.
Speaker 1 (09:57):
What does this tell you about men in general?
Speaker 2 (10:00):
I mean, this tells me that you really never know
what you're getting yourself into.
Speaker 4 (10:05):
And you know, sometimes it's okay to like.
Speaker 2 (10:11):
Vet people out a little bit and get a little
more understanding on who a person is, right, don't just
rush into things because I thought I was going to
marry this man.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
Yeah, yeah, I mean, it's everybody's every woman's dream is
to eventually get married in life.
Speaker 3 (10:26):
And if you started thinking that this could be.
Speaker 1 (10:28):
The guy and the I mean you met him online obviously,
on the website, the dating site, so you get friends
out there trying to find the same kind of guy.
But y'all just happened to find the same guy.
Speaker 2 (10:41):
Yeah, and you would think that he would delete the
app if we're seeing people. I'm almost sure he was
still on that dating site during this time. You know,
who knows how many other women there were.
Speaker 3 (10:57):
That's crazy. I mean, I just I just can't imagine.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
I can see y'all high five in each other and
walking out laughing at it.
Speaker 4 (11:05):
It was great.
Speaker 2 (11:07):
Honestly, I felt so much more powerful in that moment.
You know, some women they would cry and they'd be upset,
and they just go off on the man and expect
an apology and then all is forgiven. I can't do that,
and neither to my friends. That's why I choose them
as friends. You know, we like to prove who we
(11:28):
are and how powerful we are. And in that moment,
what's more powerful than just sitting there and dumping food
and chucking a thousand dollars bottle of wine in somebody's face.
Speaker 3 (11:39):
You can't beat that. You can't beat that.
Speaker 1 (11:41):
Okay, Well, on that note, I got a couple of
infidelity questions I want to ask you, okay, and to
just give me your best answers. All right, so you
know when people cheat? I mean, I'm going to ask
you about four questions or general questions. Why do you
think people cheating relationships?
Speaker 3 (11:57):
Why do you think that?
Speaker 2 (11:58):
I think it boils down to, uh, your childhood and
maybe seeing either your parents do something of the sort,
or just not being content with what you have. I
was always told to be grateful for what you have,
not always chasing more than what you have, be content
(12:19):
in some areas, but also strive to be better. But
that doesn't mean taking what doesn't belong to you or
doing things that could hurt other people.
Speaker 1 (12:28):
Okay, enough, Okay, I got another one here for you.
Uh do you believe in second chances? And I probably
know the answer this already, But do you believe in
second chances? Some way cheats on you, do they deserve
a second chance?
Speaker 2 (12:39):
So I would say no, I don't believe in second
chances in that aspect. If you're gonna do it once,
You're gonna do it again that I want to save
myself the trouble, and I want to save everybody else
the trouble.
Speaker 1 (12:54):
Okay, okay, if you were to see your your girlfriend's
husband by know the answer this already too. But if
you're just, say, your best friend's husband or boyfriend out
with another woman, are you gonna say something to him,
or go ahead and say something to him, or maybe
not get involved and lets your girlfriend find out on
(13:15):
their own.
Speaker 3 (13:16):
What is angeliue gonna do.
Speaker 2 (13:18):
We're gonna do something similar to what happened with that situation.
You can't just treat my girls like that. I am
a big supporter of friends and loyalty, and when you
just disturb that relationship with my friends or anybody I
could be connected with, even if it was family, I'm
gonna snitch. I'm gonna tell I can't hide that. That's
(13:41):
unloyal of me, and I choose to be a loyal
person no matter what.
Speaker 1 (13:45):
There you go, Okay, another one here for you in society. Now,
do you still believe that there's true love out there, Angelie?
Or do you think it's just better to maybe go
get a sugar day to have him pay your and
just be done with it.
Speaker 3 (14:01):
I mean, what do you think I think.
Speaker 2 (14:04):
There is still true love? You know, not everybody is
a heartless person. People do have feelings and people do
appreciate others also. But we live in an oversaturated world
with too many options with social media, and like everybody
wants something they don't have, and you just have to
find somebody who is content within themselves, happy within themselves.
(14:28):
Those are going to be the people that can show
you real love. Because maybe true love is like a
fairy tale label to put on it, but giving real
love is the same thing. Loyalty, love and respect, those
are big components into that true love fantasy.
Speaker 1 (14:46):
I like that that's where real said, okay, last one
here for you. And at the end of the day,
who cheats more and better women?
Speaker 4 (14:52):
Women? That's actually proven.
Speaker 3 (14:55):
Why do you say that.
Speaker 2 (14:56):
They've done a lot of studies and men are a
little more oblivious to the fact of you know, they think, oh, well,
I'm the prize. That's what men think nowadays, and then
they don't show enough love to their women. The women
get sad and tired and lonely.
Speaker 4 (15:12):
As women, we want to be.
Speaker 2 (15:13):
Comforted, We want to be protected, we want to be
shown those things. And when we're not getting them at home,
you know, of course we're going to go looking for
them somewhere else, right, even if we have to hide
it in everything. And I mean, if you're in a
good relationship, you should never be doing anything like that.
Speaker 4 (15:30):
But sometimes people and women won't.
Speaker 2 (15:33):
Speak up about that because they're scared of being completely.
Speaker 1 (15:36):
Alone, right, and they're afraid to be alone, so they
secretly do it. Yeah, are any last words for audience,
Angelie that you would like to educate them on based
on your experience of getting played or tried to get played?
But y'all figured about any advice that you'd give women
(15:56):
or men that may be in that same situation.
Speaker 2 (15:59):
I think my biggest piece of advice would be, you know,
don't let people step on your toes. You know, respect
yourself because people see that you don't respect yourself, especially
your partners, the.
Speaker 4 (16:11):
People you're with every day.
Speaker 2 (16:13):
You have to love yourself before you love others, and
others can see that if you don't have that component.
You have to be content within yourself, love yourself and
others will follow through and just don't cheat on people.
Speaker 3 (16:28):
Guys, don't do it. You might find true love, right.
Speaker 2 (16:31):
Just leave the person you're with if you even have
that like thought, you know, if you're not happy and
you have that mindset of oh well, I want to
go do this, but I want to keep this. That's
a waste of your time, and that's a waste of
their time. Don't waste people's times. Don't waste your time either.
Speaker 1 (16:48):
Very well said like that. We're going to like that.
Don't waste people's time. And because time is something that
you can't get back, you can't get it back.
Speaker 3 (16:56):
No, all right, well, good deal.
Speaker 1 (16:57):
Angelaue won't thank for being on our podcast this evening.
And uh, Joe, uh, your story is very valuable. I'm
sure someone's going to take that and take your advice
because you said some very valuable things and I so
we really appreciate that.
Speaker 4 (17:10):
Maybe somebody else will wear some bowling as.
Speaker 3 (17:12):
Yeah, there you go, and red Sauce. All right, okay,
thank you Angeley, Yes, of course.
Speaker 2 (17:20):
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Speaker 2 (00:06):
Files, and now here is Detective Gomez.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
Welcome to another episode of Yon Cheers The Detective Gomez Files.
I'm your host of Detective Gomez and thank you all for
being with us today. You know, when it comes to
infidelity and cheating, no matter how old you are, no
matter what you look like, how pretty you are, or
whatever you might think you might be, it can happen.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
And today we have someone that's going.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
To be on our show, our podcast is going to
tell us our stories. Something just recently happened and her
name is Angelie. So let's get her on the air
right now and get this story out so you can
hear it. Angelie, how are you doing today?
Speaker 4 (00:45):
Hey, I'm doing well, Detective Gomez. Good to finally be
chatting with you.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
Yes, yes, so glad to have you.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
I know you messaged me about your story and I
was like, you know, we got to get you on
the podcast. We got to get your story out there
so people can hear this because sometimes you think that
it can't happen to you, and it's happened to you
right in front of you. So it's important for you
to get this story out and let other people know
that at this day and time. I hate to say it,
(01:14):
but some of us men just don't know what we
want yet.
Speaker 4 (01:17):
Absolutely.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
And I've been watching you, Detective Gomez for a while now.
Speaker 4 (01:22):
And you know, since this has happened to me, I
had to tell you about it. It's insane, honestly.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
Well, this is your platform, let's hear about it, Okay,
So tell us about where did you meet this guy
at and tell us kind of how it all started
and how you got to the point where you thought
he was cheating on you.
Speaker 4 (01:40):
Okay, So it all started on Bumble.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
I'm sure everybody's heard about that.
Speaker 4 (01:46):
It's a cute little dating app.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
I matched with this man. We started seeing each other.
It was great, it was wonderful. Actually, I thought he
was the man I was going to marry.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
Okay, and you know.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
I feel a little naive now for thinking that, but
you know, in the moment, love always hits us blindly, right.
Speaker 3 (02:07):
It always does.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
So I I'm seeing him for a few months and
everything's going so well, and I start telling my girlfriends
about him because I'm thinking.
Speaker 4 (02:22):
We're getting serious.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Right, Oh well, my other friends she had told me
she'd been seeing a guy, and so I'm like, hey, tell.
Speaker 4 (02:32):
Me about him. What's he like.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
She's telling me, Oh, he does this, he works in
this industry, he's a CEO for this company.
Speaker 4 (02:42):
And I'll stretch my head a little. I'm like, hmm,
what does he look like?
Speaker 1 (02:48):
Because that's that description kind of sounds familiar, right, right.
Speaker 4 (02:52):
A little oddly familiar.
Speaker 2 (02:54):
Right. So we get into the description of what he
looks like, his characteristic and whatnot. She describes the man
I'm seeing to a t and I'm like, what the heck.
So I'm laying in bed with him while we're talking
(03:14):
about this, right, and I'm like, send me a picture
of him, sure enough? And I kid you not, Detective
gum As. It was the same man.
Speaker 3 (03:25):
It's crazy.
Speaker 4 (03:26):
I didn't understand.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
I'm like, oh my gosh, I thought everything was going
so well.
Speaker 4 (03:31):
So I'm laying in bed with him.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
And I find this out, and I'm like, hey, you
should text him. You guys should meet for like a
dinner or something, because I've seen the same.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
Guy, right, Yeah, I mean, I mean, let's let's let's
find out.
Speaker 4 (03:49):
Let's get something going on.
Speaker 3 (03:50):
I mean, this is just incredible.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
I mean because I mean, because I've worked on cases
before on bumble and and I guess your girlfriend was
on bumble also, right, so both you're on bumble Yo,
y'all just happened to match with the same guy.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
That's crazy.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Yeah, And I think it happened around the same time too,
because she had told me she'd been seeing him for
a few months.
Speaker 4 (04:08):
Also.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Okay, so he's two timing both of us.
Speaker 4 (04:12):
Can you believe that.
Speaker 3 (04:15):
Those men never learn?
Speaker 4 (04:17):
They never learn?
Speaker 2 (04:18):
And mind you, he's thirty one years old. Okay, you
think by this time he'd have his things together, he
would he would get it figured out and maybe want
one woman, maybe.
Speaker 4 (04:28):
Be ready for marriage.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
And so I tell her to text him while I'm
laying there next to him. Is sure enough, he texts back,
and he's like entertaining the conversations. Her and I are
over here having a conversation about this. She's sending me
screenshots and I'm just laying there.
Speaker 4 (04:49):
My blood was boiling.
Speaker 3 (04:51):
I bet kid you not.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
I was ready to just like lose my temper.
Speaker 3 (04:58):
And I can imagine it.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
I'm sure if you're laying in bed together, he probably
didn't get any action that night right. He's like, man,
I think I'm I just go to bed, right?
Speaker 4 (05:08):
Oh man, what do you do next?
Speaker 3 (05:12):
I mean, I know that.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
In our pre interview you talked about have y'all both
confronted him. You didn't tell me how, so tell me how?
Like you to set up the moment? We all both
confronted him together? How did that happen?
Speaker 4 (05:23):
So we played into it a bit.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
We decided that we were going to have the two
of them meet up for dinner, okay, at a restaurant
that he was a partner in, and he took me
there so many times, and he'd also taken her there.
The staff were aware of this and they treated us
individually like we were the queens, you know.
Speaker 4 (05:47):
So they're in on it. He's in on it.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
It's a weird situation. So I'm like, okay, have him
take you to dinner on say, Thursday night. Right. They go,
and her and I have already put it together that
this is our plan.
Speaker 4 (06:06):
She's going to.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
Order a bunch of food. Okay. They're splitting all of
these entrees. I think there was a truffle risotto, there
was a lobster linguini, and then they had a red
sauce bowlonnaise, and they were eating it and everything, unaware
(06:29):
of what was about to happen. Oh, I can't forget
to mention the most expensive bottle of wine.
Speaker 4 (06:34):
On the menu, of course, add oh yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
We made sure we racked up a good tab for him,
and through maybe the beginning five minutes of them getting there, entrees.
My plan was to go inside and just hey, what's up.
So I walk in and that's what I do. I'm like, hey, guys,
what's going on. The staff are sitting there and they're
(07:01):
like already the staff knew.
Speaker 4 (07:03):
What was happening because they were not it. How could
they not know what was about to happen?
Speaker 5 (07:08):
And this man, he has dawns to the floor, He
has no words, and her and I we look at
each other and I'm like, hey, girl, it's been so
long since i've seen you.
Speaker 4 (07:19):
It's good to see you again.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
We were friends, and we didn't hide at at that
moment either. We really wanted to emphasize that we were
close and we knew what was going on in front
of his face.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
So as he's sitting there with.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
His mouth just all the way to the floor, I
take the bollonnaise and mind you, it's a red sauce, right,
you make it with a marinera, it's gonna stain, right.
And the plan was they were gonna matchin and wear
white that night too.
Speaker 4 (07:54):
So they do that and I pick it up and
I'm like, hmm.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
This looks really yummy, and I just take it and
I dump it on his head and I take the
bowl and I put it on his chest and I
wipe it down his chest too.
Speaker 4 (08:13):
He's sitting there, he's flabbergasted.
Speaker 3 (08:17):
With red sauce.
Speaker 2 (08:18):
Right, Oh yeah, the red sauce. And I don't know why,
but like I've seen bolonnaise and usually it's not this saucy,
but tonight it was really really saucy.
Speaker 4 (08:29):
Thank God for that, right.
Speaker 2 (08:31):
So I I do that, and I'm looking at him
and I'm like, you look a little thirsty. So I
picked there his glass of wine that he had sitting
next to him, and I.
Speaker 4 (08:43):
Just throw it in his face. And she gets up
and she takes her.
Speaker 2 (08:51):
Glass of wine. And mind you, this is a red
wine also, so she takes it and she just chucks
it in his face.
Speaker 4 (08:58):
Also.
Speaker 2 (08:59):
We look at each other and we're like, this was awesome.
Speaker 5 (09:03):
We high five, and we.
Speaker 2 (09:05):
Look around and people are staring at us like we
just committed a crime or something.
Speaker 3 (09:11):
And then the partner in the restaurant, right.
Speaker 2 (09:13):
Mm hmmm, so he's partial owner of it. Yeah, And
everybody's just like, oh my gosh because they know this man.
And then some of the girls are in the background clapping.
Speaker 4 (09:24):
Like yeah, that's what you get.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
So her and I we high five, and then we
take each other's hands and we walk out of the
restaurant just laughing, cracking up at the situation. And you know,
I decided I was going to block this man after
but he's still to this day, he's like sending out
his friends to try and reach out to me and
also her. You know, he's still trying to play the game.
Speaker 3 (09:49):
What an idiot, idiot really dumb. I mean, it just
it just makes no sense.
Speaker 1 (09:57):
What does this tell you about men in general?
Speaker 2 (10:00):
I mean, this tells me that you really never know
what you're getting yourself into.
Speaker 4 (10:05):
And you know, sometimes it's okay to like.
Speaker 2 (10:11):
Vet people out a little bit and get a little
more understanding on who a person is, right, don't just
rush into things because I thought I was going to
marry this man.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
Yeah, yeah, I mean, it's everybody's every woman's dream is
to eventually get married in life.
Speaker 3 (10:26):
And if you started thinking that this could be.
Speaker 1 (10:28):
The guy and the I mean you met him online obviously,
on the website, the dating site, so you get friends
out there trying to find the same kind of guy.
But y'all just happened to find the same guy.
Speaker 2 (10:41):
Yeah, and you would think that he would delete the
app if we're seeing people. I'm almost sure he was
still on that dating site during this time. You know,
who knows how many other women there were.
Speaker 3 (10:57):
That's crazy. I mean, I just I just can't imagine.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
I can see y'all high five in each other and
walking out laughing at it.
Speaker 4 (11:05):
It was great.
Speaker 2 (11:07):
Honestly, I felt so much more powerful in that moment.
You know, some women they would cry and they'd be upset,
and they just go off on the man and expect
an apology and then all is forgiven. I can't do that,
and neither to my friends. That's why I choose them
as friends. You know, we like to prove who we
(11:28):
are and how powerful we are. And in that moment,
what's more powerful than just sitting there and dumping food
and chucking a thousand dollars bottle of wine in somebody's face.
Speaker 3 (11:39):
You can't beat that. You can't beat that.
Speaker 1 (11:41):
Okay, Well, on that note, I got a couple of
infidelity questions I want to ask you, okay, and to
just give me your best answers. All right, so you
know when people cheat? I mean, I'm going to ask
you about four questions or general questions. Why do you
think people cheating relationships?
Speaker 3 (11:57):
Why do you think that?
Speaker 2 (11:58):
I think it boils down to, uh, your childhood and
maybe seeing either your parents do something of the sort,
or just not being content with what you have. I
was always told to be grateful for what you have,
not always chasing more than what you have, be content
(12:19):
in some areas, but also strive to be better. But
that doesn't mean taking what doesn't belong to you or
doing things that could hurt other people.
Speaker 1 (12:28):
Okay, enough, Okay, I got another one here for you.
Uh do you believe in second chances? And I probably
know the answer this already, But do you believe in
second chances? Some way cheats on you, do they deserve
a second chance?
Speaker 2 (12:39):
So I would say no, I don't believe in second
chances in that aspect. If you're gonna do it once,
You're gonna do it again that I want to save
myself the trouble, and I want to save everybody else
the trouble.
Speaker 1 (12:54):
Okay, okay, if you were to see your your girlfriend's
husband by know the answer this already too. But if
you're just, say, your best friend's husband or boyfriend out
with another woman, are you gonna say something to him,
or go ahead and say something to him, or maybe
not get involved and lets your girlfriend find out on
(13:15):
their own.
Speaker 3 (13:16):
What is angeliue gonna do.
Speaker 2 (13:18):
We're gonna do something similar to what happened with that situation.
You can't just treat my girls like that. I am
a big supporter of friends and loyalty, and when you
just disturb that relationship with my friends or anybody I
could be connected with, even if it was family, I'm
gonna snitch. I'm gonna tell I can't hide that. That's
(13:41):
unloyal of me, and I choose to be a loyal
person no matter what.
Speaker 1 (13:45):
There you go, Okay, another one here for you in society. Now,
do you still believe that there's true love out there, Angelie?
Or do you think it's just better to maybe go
get a sugar day to have him pay your and
just be done with it.
Speaker 3 (14:01):
I mean, what do you think I think.
Speaker 2 (14:04):
There is still true love? You know, not everybody is
a heartless person. People do have feelings and people do
appreciate others also. But we live in an oversaturated world
with too many options with social media, and like everybody
wants something they don't have, and you just have to
find somebody who is content within themselves, happy within themselves.
(14:28):
Those are going to be the people that can show
you real love. Because maybe true love is like a
fairy tale label to put on it, but giving real
love is the same thing. Loyalty, love and respect, those
are big components into that true love fantasy.
Speaker 1 (14:46):
I like that that's where real said, okay, last one
here for you. And at the end of the day,
who cheats more and better women?
Speaker 4 (14:52):
Women? That's actually proven.
Speaker 3 (14:55):
Why do you say that.
Speaker 2 (14:56):
They've done a lot of studies and men are a
little more oblivious to the fact of you know, they think, oh, well,
I'm the prize. That's what men think nowadays, and then
they don't show enough love to their women. The women
get sad and tired and lonely.
Speaker 4 (15:12):
As women, we want to be.
Speaker 2 (15:13):
Comforted, We want to be protected, we want to be
shown those things. And when we're not getting them at home,
you know, of course we're going to go looking for
them somewhere else, right, even if we have to hide
it in everything. And I mean, if you're in a
good relationship, you should never be doing anything like that.
Speaker 4 (15:30):
But sometimes people and women won't.
Speaker 2 (15:33):
Speak up about that because they're scared of being completely.
Speaker 1 (15:36):
Alone, right, and they're afraid to be alone, so they
secretly do it. Yeah, are any last words for audience,
Angelie that you would like to educate them on based
on your experience of getting played or tried to get played?
But y'all figured about any advice that you'd give women
(15:56):
or men that may be in that same situation.
Speaker 2 (15:59):
I think my biggest piece of advice would be, you know,
don't let people step on your toes. You know, respect
yourself because people see that you don't respect yourself, especially
your partners, the.
Speaker 4 (16:11):
People you're with every day.
Speaker 2 (16:13):
You have to love yourself before you love others, and
others can see that if you don't have that component.
You have to be content within yourself, love yourself and
others will follow through and just don't cheat on people.
Speaker 3 (16:28):
Guys, don't do it. You might find true love, right.
Speaker 2 (16:31):
Just leave the person you're with if you even have
that like thought, you know, if you're not happy and
you have that mindset of oh well, I want to
go do this, but I want to keep this. That's
a waste of your time, and that's a waste of
their time. Don't waste people's times. Don't waste your time either.
Speaker 1 (16:48):
Very well said like that. We're going to like that.
Don't waste people's time. And because time is something that
you can't get back, you can't get it back.
Speaker 3 (16:56):
No, all right, well, good deal.
Speaker 1 (16:57):
Angelaue won't thank for being on our podcast this evening.
And uh, Joe, uh, your story is very valuable. I'm
sure someone's going to take that and take your advice
because you said some very valuable things and I so
we really appreciate that.
Speaker 4 (17:10):
Maybe somebody else will wear some bowling as.
Speaker 3 (17:12):
Yeah, there you go, and red Sauce. All right, okay,
thank you Angeley, Yes, of course.
Speaker 2 (17:20):
Okay.
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