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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Marriage is challenging, right, it is someone is just all
up in your stuff, like they're they're watching your decision making,
they're questioning your decision making. They're seeing you win, they're
seeing you lose. They're telling you, they're coaching you when
you've lost. Sometimes they're taking credit when you win in
those moments where you want to say it was all
(00:20):
you And you can find yourself in marriage becoming territorial
over what you have left, like we've already combined this,
We've already combined that, and this is what I have
left and yet learning this dance of when you win,
I win and when you lose weeks right, so how
do we grow? It can be so challenging. Yeah, it's
(00:41):
a team, it's a beautiful team. But what I love
about what you said is you're taking ownership of your
role in it, your need for growth. And one of
the things that I think is so important for women
when they're going through any relationship challenge, not just marriage,
any relationship challenge, is to first come to a place
where you identify your role in it, whether you are
(01:03):
complicit and allowing it to happen or aggravating and pushing
it to happen, like, what role do I play in
this and what boundaries do I need to create in
order for this to not happen again? How do I
self soothe? How do I give myself the thing that
I am demanding this person given? And I do think
from there we get to qualify whether or not we
can engage with the person in the most whole version
(01:25):
of ourselves.
Marriage is challenging, right, it is someone is just all
up in your stuff, like they're they're watching your decision making,
they're questioning your decision making. They're seeing you win, they're
seeing you lose. They're telling you, they're coaching you when
you've lost. Sometimes they're taking credit when you win in
those moments where you want to say it was all
(00:20):
you And you can find yourself in marriage becoming territorial
over what you have left, like we've already combined this,
We've already combined that, and this is what I have
left and yet learning this dance of when you win,
I win and when you lose weeks right, so how
do we grow? It can be so challenging. Yeah, it's
(00:41):
a team, it's a beautiful team. But what I love
about what you said is you're taking ownership of your
role in it, your need for growth. And one of
the things that I think is so important for women
when they're going through any relationship challenge, not just marriage,
any relationship challenge, is to first come to a place
where you identify your role in it, whether you are
(01:03):
complicit and allowing it to happen or aggravating and pushing
it to happen, like, what role do I play in
this and what boundaries do I need to create in
order for this to not happen again? How do I
self soothe? How do I give myself the thing that
I am demanding this person given? And I do think
from there we get to qualify whether or not we
can engage with the person in the most whole version
(01:25):
of ourselves.
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