In this heartfelt and healing episode of Black Girl Burnout, Kelley explores the radical power of joy in the midst of grief, burnout, and emotional overwhelm. Drawing from personal reflections and powerful psychological insights, she introduces the concept of micro-joys—small, intentional moments of delight that can help rewire our emotional landscape and bring peace, even on the hardest days. Listeners are invited to shift their perspective, claim joy as a birthright, and participate in a 7-day challenge to notice and name one micro-joy each day.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
- Joy is not a luxury—it’s a healing tool. Even in sorrow, we can access delight in small, meaningful ways.
- Micro-joys are your emotional reset button. A good song, a bite of fruit, a moment of sunlight can restore more than you think.
- Choosing joy daily helps us reclaim power. It reminds us that we’re still here, still worthy, and still allowed to feel good.
EPISODE TIMESTAMPS
- 00:00 – Welcome & Intention Setting
- Kelley shares the emotional backdrop for this episode and why joy matters, especially now.
- 03:30 – What Is a Micro-Joy?
- Defining micro-joys and why they’re essential tools for emotional resilience.
- 09:10 – Personal Stories of Everyday Joy
- Kelley shares real-life examples of delight that brought light into dark moments.
- 15:00 – The “One Delight a Day” Challenge
- Introducing a 7-day challenge to help you practice intentional joy daily.
- 21:20 – Final Reflection & Journal Prompts
- Questions to deepen your connection to joy and anchor it in your routine.
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