"Passport Bros."

Talk about the term "Passport Bros." and look at what it means and how it isn't a new practice.

Episode Transcript

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All right, Hello, high andhowdy, welcome back to break it up.
This is your man's J. K. Moore, and I'd like to
introduce my co host. First andforemost, we have an apostle, Calvin
Maze in the house. How youdoing, brother, doing well, doing
well q Q. And of coursewe also have the man the legend apostle,

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doctor Maurice T. Bell. Whatthe dude, bron, what's up?
What's up? What's up? Whatever? Man? I am doing well,
sir, doing well. It's goodto see yall this sevening. I

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know it's been you know, we'vebeen on the move, but it's good
to see y'all this sevenon man.Good to reconnect, all right, yeah,
sir, yeah exactly. Hey,that's like man got to got to
keep it moving wherever we are,correct, man, that's that's that's something
man. I remember, God gaveme something to stop men on the movement,

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on the mission, men on themandate. He told me that like
eight probably like seventy years ago.Seven eight years ago. I was in
my room and I know it wasan angel of Lord came to me on
the front of my bed and toldme to keep those three because God gonna

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use prepare with men in the directionthat we go in the Kingdom. So
I was like, okay, okay, that's not knowing listening to it then
and hearing it now, and I'mlike, wow, Wow, that's that's
something because you look at you like, oh, you know, you know,

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you know that that what was up? Man? You're a man on
the move and the mission the mandateman, Yes, sir, yes,
sir. Great to God be theglowing. So oh yeah, man,
those are awesome. I like allthree of those a matter. I definitely,
I definitely like that speaking of menon the move because that's a nice
segue into what we will be talkingabout tonight, and that subject is passport

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grows. Passport bros. Passports bros. Yes, sir. So for those
of you all out there who mightnot have heard that term before, or
if you might have just heard itand passing and don't know exactly what a
passports bro is, I have thedefinition here and I got this from the

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Urban Dictionary, and so it definesa passport bro as a variation of the
MiG towel movement. Now, MiGtowel is the letters mg t ow which
itself is an acronym for men goingtheir own way. In other words,

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men who are so fed men goingtheir own way, because these men are
so fed up with the dating scene, they're so fed up with the lack
of traditional marriage and standards in USwomen that they're just putting it down all
together, like, look, Idon't want to date, I don't want
to get married. So men goingtheir only way mid Tao. So passport

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growths is supposed to be a variationon that. But the passport part of
it is a variant for men whostill do want to wipe up good women
instead of rejecting marriage altogether. Sothe passport part of it comes in more
specifically. These are men who arelooking excuse me, specifically, these are

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US United States born and based menwho are looking outside of the United States
for wives and for relationships. Now, the reason for this is almost too
many to go over in this setting. So what I did was just down

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a couple of final points that Ifound here that I was able to compile
together. So that's where the passportgrow is in a nutshell, And in
looking at this talking about US bornin US base men going to other countries
to find wives and stuff. Aswe were saying earlier I read this,
I said, yeah, wait myhold of Okay, this ain't nothing new.

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Okay, us dudes have been doingthis for decades. I would go
so far as adventure that some ofy'all who might watch or listen to this
are or is yourself a passport broor even more even more common, you're
probably the result of a union betweenyour dad having been a passport bro and

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your mom being a woman from aforeign country. So yeah, this term
passport grows, and I think anothervariation of this even pass poor boys.
Okay, this is just what Iwould call the modern late two thousands or
twenty twenties term for what this is. But yeah, like I said,

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this concept is nothing new. Therehave been men who have married women from
other countries for like I said,decades, especially servicemen men in any brands
of the United States. I wouldsay, with them is probably more common
than any other man out there,because it makes sense. But a lot
of people in the service, Okay, you get stationed at different parts of

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the world, so hey, itjust so happens when you're in different parts
of the world. You know,you see that that woman that that sparks
their right interest. So slap aring on that finger and get it back
over here stateside and go to allthe legalities and y'all go for it.
But before we are before but ohmy gosh, he go, I'm just

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kind of thinking, I'm like,you know what, and I'm sure our
generation was guilty of doing it too. How we how we took things that
had been created generations before our parentsgeneration, our grandparents, our great grandparents,
and put our own modern spin onit. And like I said,
thinking about this situation to me isthe it's the exact same thing. So

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before we jump into the points Igot here, I just want to ask
you guys individually. First of all, what is your take on passport grows?
And even more importantly, do youhappen to know somebody who actually was
somebody who would fit that definition?So doctor Bell will start with you.

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Go ahead and take the micro sir, I have no idea. I don't
know nobody. This new to metonight, This new to me. I'm
saying, this whole area right here, it's new to me. Fresh.

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Well, let me actually this,do you know anybody who is since we're
talking about passport growth specifically, doyou know any men who have married a
woman from a foreign country and youknow, brought her back to the to
the United States. I can't sayI have nah, I can't say I
have goot yota mm hmm. ButI would say this, the generation like

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my grandmama and my grandma Mama,and my grandmama, Mama, mama,
you know, all of them,they have been that generation has died out.
Let me say that first of all. So all the principles and the
layouts and how to raise catch us, how to teach or raise a woman

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up to be a wife with wifecharacteristics and attributes and things of that nature,
it's in the grave. It's inthe grave. So now we're dealing
with American women that don't know nothingabout that. They do not even know

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how to be a wife. Theydon't even know how to think. A
lot of the American women don't evenknow who they are. To a certain
degree. They still trying to findthemselves. But when we look at past
port bros. As, as youstated tonight, when you look at those

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women in foreign countries, they havebeen raised or through their culture how to
be humble or submissive, have traitsabout themselves. For example, Okay,

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for for a good example, itwas a movie, but it was real.
Come into America. Okay, thethem women they were trained from a
child, from a baby, howto prepare themselves for a husband. It
was a movie, now, yeah, but that was that's that's that's real

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reality to those that are in thosecountries and the women over here, they
do not have that type of quality. Somehow them in a way don't have
that type of quality or attributes orcharacteristics from that standpoint, they you know,

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there is no kind of First ofall, we talked about this not
too long ago. You have womenthat are really just have been put in
a place of fending for themselves anddoing for themselves. So they're not submissive,

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they're not open. They're not theseAmerican women, American girls, They're
not gonna bow or subject themselves toa man to that degree. So American
women really, honestly, and Idon't know why I'm talking about this because

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the right one, you know,that's what we're talking about. You you
looking at a broh that that mighthave been with a woman one or once
or twice, you know, Butmy sexual preface has never even been that
way. But if if, butI can always look in my mind and

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remember that I've always were I wasalways attracted to foreign guys because of catch
us, how they were brought up. Okay, how they were raised.
I was not really attracted to Americanmen because just like American women in America,

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there was a lack of training orbeing instilled with principles that were that
geared to life and having a successfullife and uh successful relationships. So I

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said all that to say this,men that are going to look for women
in foreign countries are looking for attributesand characteristics, principles that have been instilled
in them, raided the way theywere raised from a child up to know
how to respect and honor a man. That's why a lot of foreign women

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too, they they like American men. I mean, I mean, if
you want to look at it likethat, they do. They like American
Any foreign woman want to connect toan American man. And then you got
American men that want to that wantto connect to foreign other continent of women.

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Why again, because of how theyhave been raised and how what's been
instilled in them and principal wives ofhow to care for a man, care
for a woman, care for herhusband, care for her children, she
knows what to do when it comesto that respect. Here in America,

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the old generation was raised. Theeven Scripture says that the older women teach
the Ya women how to how tohandle them saves and how the Careah says
raised. So we got my grandmama, my grandmama, Mama, my grandmama,
Mama, Mama, that generation thathave taught even I can look at
my cousins, how my grandmama hasreared them up of how to what it

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is that they need to do whenit comes to caring for the man that
they want to be with. Okay, So I know that's probably a whole
I went around the world, butI'm just trying to make a make a

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make a make a picture of howthe American women today do not have that
picture of the old generation that taughttheir women, their young ladies of Okay,
another scenario colored purple. They taughttheir women how it was a movie,

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yeah, but it was reality.It was real. I mean back
then, that's how they raised theirwomen. The women were submissive. The
women they knew how to take careof the house, they knew how to
take care of the children. Theyknew how to be submissive. To their
man, to their husband. Thoughit was a lot of arranged marriages,

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but yet they still it was stillinstilled in them, this mindset, these
principles, This is what they're supposedto do. And and and the American
women today, a lot of mendon't see that. So they're going for
foreign women where they see that hasbeen instilled in them. And that's what

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they're going for. I hope,I hope, I may. Yeah.
Yeah, to find a good womanin America with those traits that have been
raised by a great grandmama. Uh, you know what I'm saying, A

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great great grandmama with those principles thatthey have instilled in them is very rare,
very rare. Along with cooking,along with keeping a house, along
with tending to the children, youknow, all of that. It's very
it's very you don't find that.And a lot of American women today,

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you don't. They don't even knowhow to boil an egg. They don't
even know come home. I meanthey go and go, you know,
they don't know how to bake,they don't know how to cook, they
don't know how to do none ofthat stuff. That old generation. My
grandmama and my grandmama, Mama.They still that in them, In my
cousin, my lady cousins, andthings of that nature. They know how

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to cook for their husbands. That'swhy my sister cooks so well. That's
why my aunts and all them cookso well. You know, you ain't
gonna find women like my aunts orlike y'all aunts. You know what I'm
saying. In this day. Youknow, the women of the day are
microwave women. Oh lord, They'renot pots on top of the stove women.

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They're not women that put stuff inovens and and all of that,
you know. And it has todo also with our society. But nevertheless,
I went all over the place.But you know what I'm saying,
Yeah, boy, you didn't.I hope you understand what I'm saying.

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I'm just I'm just saying, it'svery rare to find somebody like your mama,
brother, James, I mean,think about your mama. To find
someone like your mama, it's veryrare. It's rare, you know.
But if you I guarantee, I'mtalking about here in America, very rare.

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But I guarantee you if you goto a foreign country, some of
the traits and characteristics and attributes andprinciples that was in your mom. You're
gonna finding some of them women overthere because it's been instilled in them.
Mhm. This generation today, mothersain't teaching their daughters like that. That
they ain't they're not even mom anddaughter. They're friends. Oh wow,

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yeah anyway, yeah, yeah,but I digress. I just I just
wanted to say that I hope Ihelp. I hope I help. I
mean, like I said, thisis foreign to me because I don't know
what it's like to have two three, four five years relationship with with a

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young lady that was not my thatwas not my path okay. But but
but because of the lifestyle or theor the sexual orientation of it, I
was always attracted to foreign Why becausenot just because of their looks only with

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but that was that was you know, for a man, for a young
lady that looks they're coming, yougotta have something that's gonna attract you to
them, Okay. And but ithad to do with how they were reared.
They were traded, they were theywere more open, more receptive.
Here in America, they're not openand receptive to certain things. You know
what I'm saying, so they comealready open and receptive to living the way

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they desire to live with the personthey want to live with. So here
in America you got to filter throughso many things. Dating dating now it's
so it's different, it's very differentnow. That's why men like yourselves are

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going for or going after women aforeign country that have that mindset or a
different mindset. If I may saythat they would know how to cater to
you, you're some I'm saying,they'll know how to cater to you.
They'll know how to love you.They want to love you. They are
submissive to a to a degree.They want to make you happy, things

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of that nature, and oftentimes that'sthat's mainly what they want to do.
They want to make you happy.They don't want to bring you any grief.
Some of these American women that bringyou grief like you owe them something,
you understand what I'm saying, andwhere foreign women don't feel that that
that you owe them anything or anything. But the America again, it has

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to do with the society and theage that we're in. You know how
I can go, brother, Soyou kept me off, so you know
when I ain't cutting off none.But you didn't break up a very interesting
point. And this is something thatI didn't didn't come across in my research

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because using what you're talking about passportgrowth, they're talking about going up these
other countries defining women or wires.But you brought up the point as a
man of your sexual orientation. Okay, you got some of these dudes who
are going to these other countries definemen, correct that that fit their their

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criteria. Yeah, more traditional standards. So oh. And also the point
about some of these young women notknow how the ball AIGs. I swear
to y'all. You you made mehave a flashback because they out of high
school. This girl who was aproduct of this, her parents were sheltered

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and did so much for her.This girl did not know how to make
a picture of kool aid. Yeah, y'all think I'm playing. I'm very
serious. Yeah, she did notknow how to take an empty picture.
Fill it up with so much water, Okay, fill it up with so
much koolaid, powder, so muchsugar, take a spoon and mix it

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together. Yeah. And when whenI discovered this, I'm like, I
thought to myself, Oh yeah,me, me, and you you know,
what I'm saying, we definitely gonnathat girl. You can't make kool
aid. I want to see howfar down this rabbit hole goals of what
you come out? Yeah, comeout? I was serious, come out,
but all right, a positive powertalk to his brother passport brothers.

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And do you happen to know anyI worked in the military, so I
know quite a thing. We weain't never call them pass bros. Would
call them past my holes. Yeah, technical about it because join them nine

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percent of them. And I'm justbeing real. You have something that go
over there to look for wives.They came from here and then you got
something that co over there because theygot this something about women that's being shown
and and and my wife. Youknow how I was, you know back

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in the days. You know,I was one of them roles holes.
So so looking at you know,like women in Barbados. You know that
was something that you know year aboutmen going over there, or over France
or going to Amsterdam and different placeslike that. Read like this trick you

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know in Germany. And you heardabout all that. So you know you
heard about the boy I used togo to them? They got him over
here, they do ye, Iheard about them, and I went to
ye oh yeah. So being inthat lifestyle of a man who who experienced

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both sides of the spectrum, youknow, women and also men, you
know, just looking at different thingsfrom the spiritual past, that things occur.
And I understand, I understand,you know what they're going through the

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aspect. But you know a lotof men, you know, they look
to go and fine and and seea lot of people. I mean,
it goes back if you if youlook, if you go back to you
know the source. You know whatis the source? What? Why?
You know why these men go lookingand seeking? And I'm trying to remember

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Scripture, it's proverse eighteen one,I says, Uh, I think it's
uh trying to remember the thoughts desirea man I think have separate him self
seeking with all wisdom. I'm tryingto remember. But basically, you're not

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seeking the right thing. M you'reseeking your desires. But if you see
God, He'll lead you to whatyou need in a great, great If
we go back to the story whole, Jose and Gomer, Mmmm, got

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you a man of God who lovedGod, who whatever God yes to get
with a harlot Right, Okay,so this harlot, of course left.
He keep gonna get it, goget it, go get it, go
get right. There was a representationof how he wanted to show how people

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walk away from God and God keepsgetting them right. But then he stayed
in God, and eventually she hadto she had to come on board,
right then, Yes, so fastforward, flip it. I was,

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of course the harlot. My wifewas the man of God and others.
Right, yeah, yeah, sayinglistening to God because she couldn't she couldn't
function that way if she ain't,if she didn't know God, which is
changed me. So in other ways, if you, if you, if

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you're in that right vein, ifyou're in that area, if you,
if you with God, if youknow God and you start learning and you
depend on him, it don't matterwho where you go, right, because
God will direct you to them,to the right person. You know,
He's gonna lead you in God.You right, So men, they say

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degrees the grass is green on otherside. Sometimes that's right, right,
you know, right, he said, who's so fine as a wife?
Come on? That means you gotto have a favor with God, with
the Lord right to know whether ornot I'm doing the right thing. Yeah,

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because you're seeking that, you're seekingafter after something that that's your desire.
It's not correct. Desire is good, but it depends on what type
of what's the character, what's behindit. Yeah, for you to go
over and say, I'm gonna goover here, I'm gonna go over here,
I'm gonna go over this thing,that's fine. You can go wherever
you won't. But if but ifit ain't, if not the perfect,

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if it's perfect, will it ain'tgonna work. Right, So you can
be passed for holes, rolls,whatever you want to go over there and
you can come and get something.You get some worse than with you.
Thank you, come out come.Yeah, you can get some worse.
So I'm saying this, if ifyou, if you go, if you

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go to any country, wherever youwant to go, it doesn't really matter.
But it matters what what is behindit, what's what's your what,
what's what's fueling you, What's what'sdesire this for God to have for you?
Right, it still goes back tothe connection. If you go back
to the eat the garden, Evein the garden, this rustion came see

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Adam and Eve didn't have children untilafter the fault. So if if if
they had children before, we alot of stuff wouldn't be going on the
way it was where it is notright. Yeah, but see the enemy
knew if I get to the womanand get that disruption, that separation,

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which like the separation that's happening now, Yeah, because the media is disrupting
stuff that was that was planted beforethe way husband and wife worked together.
So they came and disrupt that.Yes, we with their intentions. Oh
else, yeah, yeah, itwas their intentions to disrupt that's right,

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got right there in the garden.They showed a very synopsis what's happening right
now? Ye, yes, sir, the media, the sins that that
that my father, my father feelingthat that he's teaching and not the right
way right, How the roles ofa husband, how the roles of a

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wife that they can work together rightversus bickering and then women saying I don't
need him, I don't need this, which need right exactly, there's a
there's a disruption that's happening. Yeah, that's not that's not allowing us to

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come together and do what we needto do. And see people gonna have
to They're gonna have to A persongonna have to make a decision. They're
gonna have to make decins what they'regonna do and what direction they want to
go. In order to get thatfirst, you gotta take care of yourself
first. That's the most person,the foundation, yourself. Get yourself right,
have that connection. Because even thoughI was with the Woman of God

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that was great and awesome, I'vestill been looking outside because I ain't hadn't
connected with the Father yet. UntilI got linked up with him and I
could see spirit, the scales likepossible, The scales came off my eyes.
The scales came off my eyes.Yeah, because I couldn't see right
who was right there in front ofme. Yes, sir. So there

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was a there's a connection that's that'sbeing broken, and that we got to
get back to the root, thebeginning of things and get right and get
get that build that foundation. Godwould The single person is the most important
person. People say the family itis, but in the beginning, the
single person is the most important person. I fault. Adam was single before

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he met Eve. He was suckingwith God, he was walking with God.
He did everything before Eve came,yes, sir, he was getting
right. He said, Okay,now you get you right. Now,
I gotta get I need I needyou to have a helpmate, yes,
sir. And now that the enemylike I gotta disrupt this m I got

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this right. So that's why it'sbigger and fighting and friction in between wives
and husband and and things like that, because he don't understand his helpmates and
she don't understand hurt that he don'tunderstand his role. They don't understand each
other role, right, or theydo understand, but you know what I'm
saying, they don't care. Andyou touched on something very important about how

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the media has instituted a lot ofthis absolutely right. More importantly, it's
the system behind the media, theones who control all this stuff, who
are Satanic lad. Whether you believein Satan or not, we gardless is
Satanic lad. And that is oneof the pushes I mentioned a matter of
fact of the last episode we did, I mentioned this communist move behind the

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scenes, this communist manifesto, behindthe scenes, that is one of their
doctrines is the destruction of the family. Yes, yes, And for all
of you out there who support andjust love Black Lives Matter. Guess what
it was founded and run by communistswho believed this in the destruction of the

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family. But I digress. Willswing around the NILM on another episode,
still on these passport grows, CanI say? Can I say something right
quick? Apostle says something? Sayssomething Listen, listen. He said women

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women would have the mindset that theysay I don't need him. I want
to say that the American the Americansociety have the mindset. American women have
the mindset that they don't need aman. Okay, but those foreign women,

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they have been taught catch us,Now you need a man. You
been created for a man. Comeon, right, So they know they
need a man. They know thatthey have Look, we are training you.

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Come on to me, catch us, catch us. I'm going in,
going in they are they them foreignwomen. Look at it. Now,
they've been taught how to sexually stimulatetheir man. Y'all. Yeah,

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I'm going in. That's why theyfocus on that. That's just raw breaking
it up. Look, they goin dealing with their breasts, they their
buttocks, they get they deal withall of that of knowing how to attract
the man. Okay, not onlythat they take they tell them, they

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teach them how when you say theyyou know, men are going they look
at the natural Yeah, very attractive. They know what to put on,
how to put it on, howto draw him in. Okay. But
also Apostle saying that that when you'regoing, when these men, these brothers

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are going after a woman, aregoing in a foreign country, what are
you going for? Are what areyou looking for? Right? Okay,
So you have something that go inthat are looking for the shape, the
appearance, the figure, all that. But also when it comes to a

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wife, the scripture said he thatfind that a wife, not a woman,
because you can find a woman thatdon't have no wife characteristics right,
them and them foreign women. I'mgoing back to coming to America. When

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that when that woman came before him, he said, what you like?
I like? What you like?Like? Like what kind of distance I
do? Look? And then hedid through that. We laugh at it
today, but this is true.Yeah, what the man told him barking

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an dogs, He barked like adog jump on one leg. Not that,
not that that mindset was that they'retrying to have control of that nature.
You know what I'm saying, Butthat was a that was a picture
of how those foreign women were trainedup from a child how to prepare themselves

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for their husband or the man,or the man that they were arranged to
be with. You understand what I'msaying. All right, They did not
have to deal with any controversy.You know. That's why. But he

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came to America, him and theother one, they were, they were
they were clashing because the women here, they say, they have their own
mind, they have their own will. Not that a man goes over overseas
to find a woman to control hermind. No, they don't go over
to control her mind. They justwant a woman that have traits, some

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type of traits in them, thatknows how to appreciate their man. You
understand what I'm saying. So theyso I said all that to say that
the women here, a lot ofthem don't have no wife characteristics. They

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don't have no wife characteristics. Theydon't have no mindset of wanting to,
oh, my goodness, kiss this. He that findeth a wife findeth a
good thing and the favor of thelord. Ye okay, yeah, women,

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some of these, some of theseAmerican men, they don't want women
they don't want men to build andto help or they just want a man
to support them or and to pleasethem sexually. They do not want to

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build a man or help structure him. You under something I'm saying. But
these these foreign these fargn women,they will do what is necessary. They're
gonna have to men. They knowwhen they get these feargn women, they're
gonna back them, They're gonna helpthem, They're gonna support them. They

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ain't gonna give them too much mouth. They're gonna do. You know what
I'm saying, because honestly, look, God said this for a reason.
It's better for a man to beon the housetop than a house, but
in a house with a moment that'salways running him out. And these American
women got too much mouth. Theygot too much mouth. Again, not

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that we want to control them,but it's just like Apostle said. Apostle
saidness, they don't know they roll. Mhmm. You know what I'm saying.
When you know your role, youknow how to submit, come on
to the role that you're supposed tobe playing. I hope I hope this

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making this kind of sense. Yeah, making sense? Oh yeah, man,
it does make sense. But I'mglad you said that. Speaking roles,
see when when when y'all come thisstill, y'all just helped make it
easier for me to say right oninto the next thing. Speaking of roles.
Here is what I found are themost reasons why these passport roles are

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two other countries to find these women. And the most reasons or the most
common reasons that I came across werethey say that modern US women are not
good wife mats or just good relationshipmates at all, because they're too loud
and argumentative, they're too superficial.In other words, all they care about

(41:23):
is money, how many zeros okayon your check? They don't want to
do the woman's part in the householdand the relationship. Speaking of the world,
And another big one is that toomany of them are they're too sexually
promiscuous, they have too high ofa body count. Okay. In other

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words, that's just the websites Ifound just their nice were saying these dudes
is calling them some straight up holes. Okay, they'll sleep around. Yeah.
So first thing I would have tointerject here is for these guys who
do that, Okay, one world, the other I'm not here the past

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judgment on what you do or don'tdo. Okay, I've got mine.
But for these ones that would liketo say or just say US women or
American women or all American women ormost see, you're putting yourselves, guys
who do that in a very verydangerous situation because in order to make that

(42:31):
claim about it just flat out sayingUS women, American women, all US
women, all American women, youwould have to, in fact have had
two met and dealt with all Americanwomen, right, which you clearly have
not. Yeah, So to me, it boils down to, Okay,

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the ones that you dealt with thatobviously made you come to the it that
you didn't want to deal with anyUS women. I have to know.
I guarantee there was some common analogyin the ones that you were choosing to
deal with and hook up with,because the simple fact of the matter is
there are plenty of US women whodo still fit what the quote unquote a

(43:21):
traditional role of what a wife ora plus right, and there are still
many more of them out there whowant to fit that role. So then
I have to ask the question,Okay, guys, what is it that
you may or may not be lackingof why these women who do want to
do this are choosing still not thehook up which you marry you other things.

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Because one of the I was laughingabout one of the responsible videos that
I came across about a woman onsocial media who was talking about this,
and she said, I'm running intotoo many of these guys who want me
to be their mom. Okay,all always cook for them, They wanted
to always clean up behind them.They wanted to do this, dude,

(44:05):
do take care of the kids.And then after all that, I'm supposed
to be bade up like a supermodeldressed in lingerie, ready to sexually please
him. After doing all that,she was like, Okay, no,
she like what you know what I'msaying, what else are you bringing?
Besides yeah, you might be outthere working bringing their money. Guess what,

(44:25):
I'm out there working bringing them moneyto I got a job, correct,
correct, But you still make meto be out there working my nine
to five and then come home anddo all this. So I was like,
very interesting point. Main problem I'mfinding here, as with almost any
field, whether it be relationships,marriages, businesses, whatever, communecation,

(44:52):
a lot of these people do notcommunicate these expectations in the beginning, or
how they mess up is you're lyingabout it. You don't know what you're
looking for or what you will andwon't do in a relationship when it comes
time for the rubber to meet theroad, Okay, it ain't happening,
correct, So yeah, but it'sa mess up. That's what these people

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don't realize that both y'all touched onit in but separate ways. This is
supposed to be a partnership and inship. In any partnership, business or otherwise,
the reason why people enter into apartnership is because they each bring something
that's going to help benefit that businessor that relationship get choosing to come together

(45:38):
and combine those resources. Even somebodywho's called a silent partner, Okay,
they may not take an active partin the days of the days, but
even that silent partner is there tocontribute something or else. They wouldn't be
a dog owned partner. Yeah,And that's why I think a lot of

(45:58):
this is coming from partnership communicating partnership. What are you bringing over here?
What are you bringing over here?Right? And I'm sorry to tell you
felt Okay, this ain't the dogon nineteen fifties anymore. If the chances
of you finding a woman who's justgoing to be happy doing all that stuff,

(46:21):
and like I said, and you'renot really bringing anything, yeah,
okay, yeah, you might beout there working, like I said,
she might be out there working,but on top of all that, you
expected her to do all this otherstuff. Okay, what are you helping
to do in the household? Right? Correct? So I can definitely understand
some of these women's point of viewand perspectives by a being said, Look,

(46:44):
I am you know what they wouldconsider a good woman. I am
looking for a man to be ahelp or a partner with. But what
I'm not looking for is too prettymuch take care of a grown behind,
be a slave or a sex object, right and yeah, or just just
be the the object, you knowwhat I'm saying, up their sexual desires
and things, yeah, or oftheir fantasies. Because a lot of the

(47:08):
US women that I saw that respondingto this, they look down on these
guys because they're like, oh,that's the only reason they're they're going to
get these four women just to justto tickle their their fetish Okay, this
week they may want an Asian girl, so they're going over to Asian country

(47:28):
this week. They may want aLatina girl, so they're going over there.
So the truth be told, andsome of the guys admit it,
there's okay, some of them thatthat is really why they are going to
these other countries. Just the partyand have a good time. That's about
the cleanest way I can clean thatup there, Okay, right, No,
they're not going looking for a wifeor traditional relationship. They're just going

(47:53):
to have a good time. Right. So that's why I said there are
there are a lot of factors inhere, and Apostle Cow you touched on
this about as far as locations,because what I found here is that the
passport grows, they're mainly going tothe Latin American countries such as Brazil,

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Colombia, Dominican Republic, or toAsian countries like Thailand or the Philippines.
And I will also add to thatVietnam and Japan as far as the Asian
countries because a lot of the passportgrows that actually know who were previous military,

(48:37):
if they have Asian wires that theybrought back with him, that that's
usually where they got them from yep. Now, oh yeah, go ahead,
Oh wait, broke, I wasabout waiting something else. This is
another one's gonna have me laughing.But yeah, go ahead. You can

(48:57):
pick back off too. And youwrite that's the most important thing. Man.
You gotta communicate. You gotta communicateand see a lot of and I
know that spectrum of the men youknow going to find women because it's those
situations. And I agree. Iagree with what she's saying too. She
is right. You know, yougot a lot of men, you know
that want women to be their mothers, you know, and they haven't growed

(49:21):
up. You know, the Biblesays when you when I depart, I
leave my mother's That's right. Thereason what he's saying that is because I'm
leaving because I'm already established already.I already had this stuff in place.
See when me and Camilla came together, I already had a place, came

(49:45):
came together, already had a car, I had two cars when me and
came together, already positioned myself tohat so she can fall right in.
She didn't fall in and say,oh I gotta do this, m right.
So you you gotta sit there andvalue with you said, are you
in position to take care of ahome? Are you in position where this

(50:09):
one being seen and say, ohhe got something he's doing right? Are
you in position to say, okay, oh I feel safe? Because a
woman wants safety, They want security, that's right. They want to be
loved and they want to be cherishedthe same thing. Yeah, thank you,

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thank you, thank you. That'severything. She wants the same thing,
the same thing you want. Aman wants. A man wants wants
you to be able to wants thattrust they want you to get. And
a man wants a woman to tomost important thing. Most important thing is
to respect him. But in orderto respect that, you have to have

(50:55):
your same position to be respected.That's it. Okay, she needed to
respect me. Okay, So wheredoes she live? I live with her?
So how's she gonna respect you ifyou live with her in her house?
M right? My wife came withme. She did not work.

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M that's fine, right, that'sfine. But are you in position to
do that? That's right? Canyou take care of your family? Because
if you look at the of theold, why is when working? Thank
you? They were not working,they were not right, they were not

(51:44):
working they would go out work,come back home. The wives be cleaning
up. Now, don't get mewrong, they was working, they just
wasn't working a job working correct,correct, correct, the household, all
that in on top that take careof you. That's a job. Yes,

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I do respect her for that.I do respect. But I'm mean
today, I'm mean today, needto get this stuff together because you got
forty year old men. That's actinglike the eighteen That's right. Come on,
grown men acting like babies. That'sright. And that's what I want

(52:30):
to say. So it's your mindsetthat when you're looking for these women,
it's your mindset that you want tobe a husband or still be a jiggolo.
Yells, come on, because ifyou want to be a jiggolo or
you're looking for it's a sex object. You just want to you just yeah.

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But when you want to be ahusband, you're saying I want a
family and I want children. Right, that mean you have a husband.
You have a husband traits, justas you looking for a wife. A
woman to have wife traits. That'sright, that's right, that is right.

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I ain't mean to cut you off, apostle, but you yeah,
so do you want to be ajigger. Do you still want to be
a jiggalo or do you want tobe a husband? M h, very
question, Very good point. AndI will also add on top of that
where I would say our older generationswhere they helped us and showed us in

(53:43):
a way where they also dropped theball is a matter of fact, I
would say we we are probably partof the last generation where a lot of
parents did good, solid parenting.Okay, they weren't our friends, they
weren't okay, they didn't go clubbingwith us up. No, no,
no, no. My mom.I have two older brothers, then myself

(54:07):
and we have a younger sister.It was my mom who had me and
my two older brothers as we gotcertain ages in that kitchen learning how to
cook. It was a combination ofmy mom and dad from the time I
can remember who taught us how todo things like sweeping and mopping, doing

(54:29):
dishes, knowing how to do laundry, and the cooking was the last thing.
And I will never forget my momtold me and my two older brothers
specifically, you all had better knowhow to tin house and take care of
yourselves, because you cannot assume thatwhen you all get older and get wives

(54:50):
that you're gonna have wives who eitherate know how to do this stuff or
be well, want to do thisstuff come out, so you're better know
how to do it self and knowhow to do it. Sitting right here
at seven thirty five pm on Augusttwenty seven, twenty twenty three, that
woman was not flying because most ofthe women I have dealt with since I

(55:12):
got older, out of high school, up to a certain point, they
may have been book smart, andthey may have held a certain job,
but they had next to no homebased skills. Not a single one of
them knew how to cook. No, see, none of them. See.
And the thing where I said whereour parents helped us, but drop

(55:32):
the ball. You had our oldermen, and to an extent, the
women who didn't want to teach boyshousekeeping and cooking because that's the woman's job,
so you're supposed to find the womanwho do it. You had.
You had these older women, andespecially starting with first wave feminism right on

(55:55):
up until now, they were tellingtheir young girls, no, you don't
have to know how to take careof a house, being in all house
taking care of no man and children. You could be out there in the
world, playing with the big boys, competing with them. So, like
I said, they may have bookknowledge and skills, but they have no
housekeeping homemaking knowledge. Correct When ifthese people had been thinking clearly, forget

(56:21):
all that quote unquote general stuff andjust raise children completely book sense, street
sense, and common sense how totake care of yourself since homemaking sense,
whether you're a boy or a girl. Right, That's the way it should
have been and should have started allthirty forty some years ago. But to

(56:42):
a large extent it didn't. Andhere we go right here now, and
you guys touched on earlier. Youhave these women out here, the ones
who do say this and think this. Oh I don't. And I'm gonna
tell you the ones I definitely bust. The ones who are who have children,
who the dad's the dad's I shouldn'tsay dad's the father of those children.

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They're not dead, they're not deployedin the military anywhere. They're just
choosing to not take an active partin this child's life, whether by being
there or financially or the other sideof that coin. Okay, they're locked
up somewhere. And these women withthese kids, Oh I don't need no
man. I can be the motherand the father. And like I said,

(57:27):
the ones who I know personally,who I know I can do,
I go in on them. I'mlike, oh, you can be the
mother and the father. Oh,let me ask you. Did you create
that child by yourself or did youhave help with that? Oh? Okay,
so it did take somebody else,didn't it. So you can't be
the mother and the father because wecorrect down the scientific technical meanings of those

(57:52):
words come out, come out.You can be the mother as far as
having the ages and the tube anduters and all the inter female equipment.
But I don't know you are fertilizingthem them eggs on your own to have
them become children. You need backthat. I don't have anything. I
have nothing personal against women who arelesbians, but these ones who I hear

(58:16):
saying a lot of the same thing, but then turn around talking about how
they want to have children. Myou don't like men, you don't need
a man, but yet you wantchildren. Oh, well, guess how
that's going to happen. Whether youengage in the usual physical way of doing
it or not is irrelevant. You'restill gonna take the product of that which

(58:40):
is that choice? Okay, I'lljust call it, Yes, put it
in the tube and boy get ashot right on the venue. So,
yes, you do whether you likemales or not. Yet you do need
a man, right, because whetheryou choose to live lesbian romantically with other
women are not, there is stillthat part of you that is baseline female,

(59:04):
and baseline female was created to needcreate certain things from men. I
mean, there's a Bible scripture thatsays that that says about men leaving the
natural use of women or women leavingthe natural use of men. So I
wrote that down to a female friendof mine some years ago. I said,
look, you have a relationship.I said, when you strip away

(59:27):
everything that that you know, gotthose two people together, that common interests,
hobbies, blah blah blah blah blah, you take all that away,
I said, at the end ofthe day, there's really one natural use
that men and women have for eachother when you take away everything else.
Yes, yes, so yeah wedo need women, Yes, women,

(59:51):
You do need men, not allthe time sexually, right, But again
it comes back to expectations. Doyou, as one party expect out of
a partnership? What does the otherparty expect I just don't understand that this
lack of communication, all right,And if you spend your whole time on

(01:00:14):
certain dating sites and certain dating mapsand wondering why it's not working, well,
genius, maybe you need to tryanother way, right right? But
yeah, like I said, forthese guys, I don't have a dog
in their fight one way or theother. Find a woman here in the
United States, find a woman atthe end of the world. I couldn't

(01:00:35):
care less. That's y'all's business.But like I said, to the ones
that make that all encompassing statement aboutnot wanting to deal with US women because
all American women are that way.Nah, bro, Now that is the
point. I will get with youand tell you you're wrong. You're wrong,
right. The ones you've dealt withare probably like that. But no,

(01:00:55):
not all of them, right,not all of them correct? Being
that we three guys here are threeblack guys. There's next point I found
very interesting. Don't know how trueit is, but of course it was
interesting. So Supposedly, this wholePassport Bros. Movement began in the black

(01:01:16):
community, but it has since expandedto men of any ethnicity that are US
based in us born. I'm gonnacall bullcrap to that one. For simple
fact. Going back to that thatmilitary example, for the longest time,

(01:01:36):
blacks were not allowed in the military. Even when they were allowed then they
were only allowed them for certain jobsin certain places. One of the things
them jokers wasn't doing in the beginningwas going to foreign countries and bringing back
no dog on women. Yes,So to say that this started in the
black community, no, I'm callingBS on that. I'm calling BS on

(01:01:59):
it, right. And then what'sfunny is I was watching this Caucasian ladies
her TikTok about it, and shewas over in a matter of fact,
she was over in Thailand, oneof the places it mentions here, and
she said, you all would notbelieve how many couples I see here white
dudes and Thai women. White dudesThai women. So yeah, No,

(01:02:23):
this thing goes beyond ethnic boundaries,goes beyond ethnic barriers. And if people
would actually learn something about our humanhistory and human anthropology, they would learn
that there is no such thing asany pure group of anybody. We over

(01:02:45):
the centuries, okay, of humanexistence, we have all missed. Okay,
we've all mabeled. We've all interbretedall across the world right now,
If any one of us three willgo take one of those DNA tests,
it will probably blow our minds tofind out are what we have in our

(01:03:05):
ancestry. Yes, sir, Imean I personally know of the of course,
the Black, the Native American,and the Romney with people ignorantly called
gypsies the actual terms Romney. Butno, I mean there's no telling what
else I'm finding there. I thinkthere's some Irish in there somewhere. So
this whole attitude about not marrying,not intermingling quote unquote locally, all right,

(01:03:34):
if that's something you get mad about, then, like I said,
you truly do not know human historyright at all. Humans have always dipped
and dabbed and okay, dipping themspoons in the bowls of suit that they
some of them weren't that they weren'tsupposed to, but they did, right.
Oh yeah, So yeah, there'ssome US women when it comes to

(01:03:57):
this, they're mad because and steppingin their shoes and looking at it from
their point of view, I canunderstand the anger because these guys are in
effect saying that these US women they'renot good enough for him. They don't
meet up to their standards. SoI can understand why a lot of them,
you know, are mad about thishave a problem with it. My

(01:04:19):
outlook and thinking is girl, okay, any dude who feels like that,
you might don't want to deal withanyway? So right, you would you
getting mad for you might have dodgedthe bullet? Correct? And then what
standard? And then what standards that'sthe thing. Then what standards? Yep,
what kind of standards. So we'reso we're talking about this tonight,

(01:04:42):
and I'm thinking about the thought justcame to me. It's all a control
mechanism type mindset. M. It'sa control thing that's good, whether it
comes from the man or whether itcomes from the hut. I'm from the
woman. Genesis two verse eighteen saysand the Lord God said, it is

(01:05:09):
not good that man should be alone. I will make him a catch us
help meet for him. So inall this that we're talking about tonight,

(01:05:30):
there is no mindset of help me. It's not there's no sign of help
me. Nope or not not inthe way like you said, it was

(01:05:54):
all my standards, no sign ofhelp me in the way these people are
thinking, right, okay, itshould be or in the way these people
know they might have seen their parentsand grandparents or or whoever haven't had done
it right right right and see itand see a lot of times people don't

(01:06:14):
look at see people. When you'retalking about relationship. Okay, first of
all, everybody's talking about me,me, me, me, M right,
it's not about me. Because ifyou want a relationship, you want
a good, healthy relationship. Ican't worry about me. I have to
worry about my wife. That's right, like she wants to keep focused on

(01:06:36):
me. It has to be thatway because once you focus like that,
then you can obtain it and itworks out right, because it's just like
your children when you when you want, if you want something good to happen
at your churn, you gotta investin them. You gotta pour in them,
you gotta look at it, yougotta you gotta nurse them, you

(01:06:57):
gotta give them what they need.You gotta him. You know what God,
God had purpose for them to have. That was to go up the
right way, because sir, instillinggood relationships and foundations in the person.
That's why, that's why, that'swhy Jesus said, he told Peter,
I build my I build my rock, I build upon this rock. Yeah,

(01:07:21):
I said, I'm investing in youth, because you are right. Yes,
I'm pouring in the youth. Sowhen those women in the fifties and
the sixties, back then, whenthey were raising up their daughters, they
were pouring into them what they needto do in order to into to have
a healthy household, healthy ration,how to be clean, how to be

(01:07:44):
how to be studious, how tohave your clothes with or in a certain
way, how to look present,how to talk, how to stand up
right, how to function, howto articulate. Now, it's it's like
I don't want to put all thaton them. I don't want to do
it. I just want them tobe free and do whatever. And you
know, and then and then that'sa way. That's that's how they get

(01:08:08):
wild and they out of control becausethey don't they don't know what to do.
It's still certain they're lost, yes, right, I mean, they
just lost. You know, weneed that's the whole idea. You gotta
focus and build the right way,investing, investing them the same thing like

(01:08:30):
a church. Lord Jesus, Itake when you're a minister. When you
pour into the people the right way, the way Jesus did. He went
about pouring in to people. They'reshowing them, helping them, giving them
the word, building in them,showing making that map, and when just

(01:08:53):
blossom and they're growing and growing andgrowing. It's growing. You know.
That's how That's how you spoke usedto do. That's how you supposed to
attack of the thing. You know, all of it. Jesus ran.
Jesus ran. Everything function like abusiness, yes, sure, m hmm.
I mean if you look at it, it's it's a business. The

(01:09:14):
Kingdom of God is a business.Is a corporate kingdom. Build business that
God functionally running properly m hmm.I mean literally, you can't go wrong
if you follow the mad right.But do we want to follow that?

(01:09:41):
Do we want to do that?We want to do our own things right
m m I want to do ourown things. Then get mad, mad
with our own thing. Okay,come on, turns the criminal and then
come on. This This mindster thathas been put in this newer generation coming

(01:10:02):
up is to not have any senseof self discipline or enough self awareness or
to say that when you do somethingthat you shouldn't have and it doesn't turn
out right. Oh well, ofcourse the fault can't be yours. Blame
somebody else. Yes, that's wherewe got all these dog going nowadays,

(01:10:26):
eighteen to twenty five year old dogon black kids crying about reparations that they
deserve and what they went through duringslavery. And they they they As I'm
sitting there watching them dressing their niceclothes, attending universities, you know,
making their own way. I'm like, you truly have no clue the people

(01:10:48):
who actually earned and deserve that stuff, what they really went through. Here's
a hit because the opposite of howyou get to live now. Yeah,
but when you earn on, youdeserve so much. No nobody owes you
anything when it comes to these relationships. Guys, who are you? Don't

(01:11:09):
think that no US woman is good? These you as women don't owe you
anything. At the end of theday, US women or women anywhere,
these guys don't owe you anything.Correct. So, just like bro said,
it starts with that introspection, buildingyourself up to be the best person

(01:11:31):
first, because if you can't takecare of yourself, you during sure ain't
gonna be able to take care ofnobody else correct in any type of way,
whether it's in relationship, business,marriage, or anything. Yes,
people need to have realistic expectations,men and women, Okay, on both
sides. Realistic expectations tricks me out, man, when I watched these TikTok

(01:11:57):
videos again, and of course thisisn't all twenty five year old girls,
but these ones who I see wherethey start laying out these criterias for abandon
their life. I ain't necessarily ahusband, but the man has to either
be making six figures or be amillionaire. He has to do this,
He has to do this, Hehas to be this, that, this,
he has to be this tall anddidn't look like this. And so

(01:12:19):
a lot of time these people areinterviewing him like, Okay, what are
you bringing to the table, right, and all that and and all that
you said exactly it's all pointless.Bs. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
cut you. You know. Iain't mean to cut you off either,

(01:12:42):
but all that was, you know, as you were talking. One thing
that has been obsolete in marriage oreven in relationships have been this. In

(01:13:03):
the name of God, I whoeveryou are, take you, whoever you
are, to be my wife orhusband, to have it, to hold
from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for
poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, unto

(01:13:30):
part it by death. They don'teven use that no more. Everybody make
up their own stuff, not now, you know why, because they do
not want to be bound by that. Don't want to be bound by that,
So they make up their own vowsand and rituals and traditions, catch

(01:13:57):
us getting away from their original foundationyep of marriage or relationship. If that
makes sense, that's right away,it makes crystal clear sense. And you're
absolutely right with circles. Right backaround to what we're saying about this system

(01:14:17):
that has actually been put in placeover one hundred years ago, a couple
of hundred years. But now sinceyou know, it's already got other parts
of the world to Russia, China, saw all these other communists ran come
through the North Korea. Their finalend goal is to destroy and bring down

(01:14:40):
the West, which is parts ofEurope and the United States. Yes,
and to break them down, sayinglevel. And one of their things is
it goes like this, remove guidcompletely. You gotta get Guide out of
there. Eventually, ended up happeningin this country in the past twenties or
so years, removing ten commandments fromeverywhere. You can't put in schools anymore,

(01:15:03):
any of that stuff. Okay,bam, remove the father from out
of the family, because the fatheris supposed to be the strength and the
foundation. Correct. So what wegot going on increasingly locking up men,
men of all ethnicities, okay,yes, keeping them out of there.

(01:15:25):
Or if they can't lock them up, okay, you want to do stuff
the league away, raising retirement age, raising the costs of everything, so
then you have to spend most ofyour time working to afford that house,
and that family forgotten for them keepingyou out of that household. Okay.
So we got that all right,the destruction of the family as a whole,
because this has been scientifically proven,even though of course God instituted because

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just read the scripture a couple ofminutes ago, that's not good for man
to be alone. It's been scientificallyproven that men or people who have good,
strong family, familial minds, familytend to be healthier and live longer

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because of those family bonds. Healthyones. Now, I'm sure we all
got some some family members out thereYou're like, all right, if I
don't never see that joking every dayin life, I ain't gonna cry.
Don't know for the healthy ones,that that good, productive, that nurturing
family. And you hear that aboutkids who grow up, especially women.

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Look, I got my identity frommen, from my dad, right,
he showed me. You know whatI'm saying, what a loving, good
man, provider father should be.Yes, sir, but of course,
hey, this system behind the scenes, Oh no, no, no,
we can't have healthy, productive families. So we gotta we gotta get them,

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gotta get them Dad's up out ofthere and will make it easy,
you know, make it easy formen to be able to abandon their family
and not take care of them theway they're supposed to, right, because
we gotta gotta break down that family. Can't have healthy, strong, familiar
family bonds, can't have strong menin there. Yeah, right right.

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And these people, this society,they just all this propaganda, all this
mess constantly shoved in our face.Yeah, even in if you even look
at TV shows, the way TVshows are shown these days. Okay,
back when TV was first invented,up until I'd say maybe the year two

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thousand, even if the dad mighthave been a little goofy, he was
still the dad. He was stillthe decision maker. He was still out
there being the bread earner. Youlook at TV shows, I say,
starting in two thousand up until thispoint, the dad's usually portrayed that if
they're even in the home, okay, they're portrayed as weak, ineffectual idiots.

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The wife makes the decisions, thewife runs the home. The kids
talk to them and treat them anywaythey want to because, for whatever reason,
but most learning, most people basetheir lives and their stuff they do
in this society off what they seein the media. Said earlier, when
he missed the media, Yes,sir, that's what they want. Yes,

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sir, we missed earlier telling women, Oh, you don't know,
you don't need no man, youdon't need relationships. But if you go
digging, do a little research,you won't find those women out there who
are honest enough to say I boughtinto that whole feminist stuff back in the
seventies, eighties, nineties, withthe college worked hard, didn't have time

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for a husband, didn't have timefor kids, rose up through the ranks,
and now I member my fifties orclose to it, fifties sixties,
and I realized, now how biga part of my life I lost because
I didn't have a family. Okay, again, I'm not saying all of

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them. Some of them. Hey, they they're gonna being a single But
at the same time, See,they won't tell you the story those stories.
They want to push the stories outthere, the ones who are happy
that they're single or we're divorcing andstill doing good. They don't want to
tell the stories about the ones whoknow. I regret not having a husband,
I regret not having a family,and if I had met a good,

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good, right man, I couldhave had it all. I could
have had the family and still havesomebody who supported me rising up in the
ranks of my career and stuff.See, they're not gonna tell you those
types of stories, but like Isaid, they're they're out there for people
who want to see them. Sir. And again to go back to the

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back around to the subject of tonight, guys again, Okay, if you
just happen to prefer foreign women andyou want a foreign wife, okay,
again, cool that that's like Isaid, that that's been the entirety of
human history. Yeah, and ifyou're not doing it for any evil intent,

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if you're not doing it for anymalicious intent. Look, you're ready
to be a good, dutiful husband. Hey man, if that's your flavor,
go for it, go for itand don't let people talk you out
of it or stop you from doingit. Correct but again, along with
it, don't say for the otherones. Don't say oh yeah, well,

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no woman in this country is everis not good enough. He doesn't
have the values of this, thatthis anymore. Because I got to call
you a flat out liar. You'rea liar. Now. I don't know
why you don't want to put itin the work to find them, because
again, these women present themselves outthere, right out there. They're waiting
on you do and we as mendefinitely have you know you're here. A

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lot of women say that they're theprice and they're the catch. Well,
I guess depending on how you lookat it, because if you look at
actual human biology, there's more womenon this planet than there are men.
For every one man, there's whatwas it like, three females? Okay,
oh seven seas? Look during allright, the dog on the number

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don't win up? Which and thereason for that it goes back to biology
pretty much every the start of everyhuman life. We all start life as
females until certain chemical changes take placethat change that female to a male,
which is why we have more femaleson this planet than we do. Dude.
So I say that to say,no, maybe min or more of

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the prize on the catch because wewhen it comes to options, okay,
we actually have the advantage. Wehave seven ones to choose from the ones
who have to compete, you know, over the field. But there's no
way I'm gonna sit there as abeliever and say that they're even with those

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numbers being like that. Okay,God put somebody on this earth for everybody,
and like I said, you haveto go to another country to find
that all the person. Hey,so be as long as you're happy,
as long as you're not doing anythinglike I said, malicious or even right
right, and to speak of goingto other countries, because that's what we're

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talking about here. One point thatI did also see brought up on why
these guys are choosing to do thisis because the US currency actually has more
value in other countries than it doesright here in the United States. So
some of these guys thinking is allright, I can actually provide a better

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life lifestyle for the woman who Ichoose to meet over here, because my
US currency actually goes further in thiscountry than it would back in our own
country. Okay, Now there issomething set up to where I'm sorry,
it used to be. I don'teven know if it's still out there anymore.
If you married somebody from another country, the government would actually give you

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some type of monthly stiping and nohelp pay for that for whatever reason.
So but I guess when you takethe amount of that stiping versus let's say
the stipend okay is at a one, but there's other country you're going over
to, Okay, you your moneycan be able to a five. Well,

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hey, most people gonna take thatthat five times amount of income then
that one time amount of income.So for some of them it's a financial
thing, which is at She's smartbecause hey, I mean, I know
when it comes to these healthy relationships, yell, love plays a big part

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of it. But well, whenyou get down to, Okay, your
electric company, all right, youain't paying any love right, all right?
That that health insurance that you haveto have. Okay, love ain't
gonna cut it all right, yougotta have them dollars. So when you
look at it from that way,I wanted to be getting responsible, then

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it makes sense why some of theseguys are choosing to go this route.
And the last point that I wrotedown here again, like I said,
the one that I saw was kindof coming out here. So we've talked
about the guys going to these othercountries funding these women because to them at

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least, okay, these are alot of these women that have the more
traditional wifely values, the more traditionallywife attributes. But a point that has
been brought up by a guy whofancied himself a former passport bro and a
few of these other ones who hadbeen burned by this had brought up they

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say, you have to be carefuldoing this because a lot of these foreign
women what to get to the UnitedStates, so they may not necessarily be
a natural better catch. They maysee all these videos and hear all these
complaints about US born men like mOkay, well, if I play the

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game just right, okay, Igot my free pass into the US.
So they're putting on this front andthis air like they're the better option the
more traditional option until that green cardgets stamped. Then then then the truth
comes out. So I was like, oh, very very very interesting point,

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very good point of course, likeI said, that's not all of
them, but those stories are outthere as well that yeah, this woman
just used me just to gain youknow, admission to the US and to
the US lifestyle. Yeah. Sothe warning that was, if I can
call it, that, that waskind of put out there. They'll be

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like kind of what to look for, you know, if you're looking for
this that Like, you go theseforeign countries, meet one of these women,
if they're happy in that country andwant you to stay with them in
that country, then more than likelyyou're you're good to go. But flip
side off, you go one ofthese country, you meet the woman and

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her whole thing is wanting to seethe US. I've always wanted to go
to the US. Hey, howsoon before we can get back to US?
And that's the throats. Well theysay that that's a big wanted to
sign that Okay, yeah, thisone might just be used you to gain
entry so to speak. Wow,I mean so there's layers. Ain't just

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like with I mean, any relationshipwith people, even in the same country.
Okay, how many people here whohave met their mates here have talked
about the lies and the deception thateventually ended up, you know, coming
out well into the relationship. SoI can't just lay that on on foreign
people, right, they got andthen my wife she looks at a lot

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of dating and shows stuff like that. But they got a show called mash
Me Aboard. I think that's whatit's called. Oh abroad abroad, Okay,
that's it. So that's and Ithink I peeked in only one time.

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But that's where guys from different countriesor women whoever, they link up
with people and other people and theyget married. Ye. Yeah, you
know, if you got a USguy, he get a girl I don't
knowing wherever, h France or whatever, and he gonna date and they try

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to, you know, see ifthey're gonna you know, get to know
each other or hire or whatever,and and then they have to get married
they don't or whatever. But Iknow I've seen a couple of that I
peeped in where it shows like basicallyperson they used them, that's right,

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you know, get the green card. You know, once they got that,
they were got they wasn't, butare are like, what is it?
I think if you if you havea child, I think some of

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the things like if you have achild with an American person, a guy,
whatever, then then you automatic,you stay, you believe I think
that child's a US citizen. Automatically, mom has to be with that child.
So automatic. So it was gettingpregnant quick, all kinds of stuff.

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Man. So I'm like, soit's it's loopholes. It's you know,
you just gotta hey, Like Isay, any relationship, you gotta
be careful. So that's it.That's it. It's gotta be careful and
you know, going in the rightways. Like I said, it's all
about what you're looking for and whatyour track. You know. You know

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they'd be like, why they can'tfind this, why they can't do this?
What are what are you attracting?That's right? What is it in
you that attracting the same person overold right, over different faces, but
still the same results, That's right. And so you know you have to
take the Bible talking about taking assesson yourself, looking at you know,

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really seeing what's going on, youknow, looking at that mirror. You
know, what is it that Ineed to do, you know, do
you figure out how and you andyou you really you know, make those
hard decisions and be and be truthfulto yourself. You really got to be
true to yourself. Yeah I'm likethis, Yeah I do this, Yeah

(01:30:45):
I need to work on this.Yeah what do I you know? And
taking those on So it's harder.It's hard questionnaires, you know, it's
harder assessment that. You know.Sometimes you gotta be like, hey,
you know, I look at itas you know, it's a hard it's
a hard Uh, it's a hardswallow, peeled to swallow, swallow.

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But if my brother see something onme, he telling me and I'm not
hearing it, then I'm not readyto receive. But you gotta be able
to open your ears and open youreyes and receive what people are saying and
not just kick it off, butlistening, taking assessment of it and say
okay, boom, yeah I needto do that. And once you once

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you, I think if you ifyou stick to that, that you know
that that that plan and lesson you, a lot of stuff will changed.
But you know you a whole lotbetter. You won't be so judgment on
you, won't you can you canyou can see you know, different people
you know and not just only justlooks because it looks. This is important,

(01:31:54):
it is, but it's more thanjust look. You know, you
can have a beautist personal world.We got this think is attitude and can't
cook. Uh you know they youknow, they just they just mean,
you know, an attitude all dayand and and in a person, a
kind of person, and how youare. We can change the direction of

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everything in the person. And youknow we're doing doing that with it help
out a lot, and help alot. You really will, yes,
sir, I mean you you areone percent correct. And when it comes
to that criticism again, okay,not just the good stuff. You got

(01:32:39):
to know how to receive the negativestuff as well, all right, nohing
just uh safe space crap, Okay, no, ain't no, ain't no
such as a safe space. Allright. The world, the entire world
doesn't have to like you and agreewith everything you are dog gonna doing right,
sir, because whether you're doing bador whether you're doing y'alls gonna have

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somebody talking about you always. Soyou gotta know how to be siving what
to do with it. And speakingon this topic, I'm I'm gonna finish
my part up here with relaying alittle story. So about what's this twenty
twenty three? Say about maybe twentyone twenty two years ago? There was

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just the job I was working thatthere was a Chinese restaurant that we would
go to for lunch sometimes. Soone day me and a group of people
went in there and one of theladies who was working in there, she
I heard her asking, like adude or two that was in line before
us heard her asking my, no, are you married in relationship? But

(01:33:45):
I don't know what the guy toldher. So by this point and having
gone in and out of there somuch, not kind of news, lady.
We want nice speaking terms. Soshe asked me. She was like,
hey, you married, got agirlfriend or whatever? I'm like no.
She was like, well, Ihave a cousin over in Vietnam who's
trying to get here to the UnitedStates. And she was like, she's

(01:34:08):
a pretty girl. And she hada picture of the girl and she was
right, I mean, yeah,she was pretty. And she was like
yeah. And the best thing aboutit is you get paid so much a
month from the government because she's she'sa foreign person, and this then this,
and she was like, yeah,because she really wants to get over

(01:34:29):
here and eventually have her family comeover. I was like, ah,
yeah, all there we go.There's there's the rub ass. So they
as they say, so, yeah, she was trying to turn y'all boy
into a passport bro. I wasn'tfeeling it. I was like at that
age, well shoot, just inmy early twenties, I'm like, I'm

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not looking for a marriage anywhere inthe US, Vietnam, or any other
pigs on this planet. That's right, but I will give it to what
I do. Appreciate her honesty andwhat your motive was or what she was
right. Yeah, she was honest. So they eventually ended up closing that

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restaurant. I think I saw thatwoman maybe one more time afterwards, somewhere
else around Columbia. But I can'tlie over the past twenty some years out
every now and that I wondered ifshe ever found a man who who took
her up on that offer. Rightright now, you got a whole family
of being the these people living inthis Wow. Yes, sir so,

(01:35:44):
Yes, sir so. Final thoughtsfellas on passport bros. We'll start you
do what you got to say aboutit, Well, this is a very
interesting topic tonight there. Yes,and I I thank you for allowing me

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to be a part and share mythoughts, which are mostly very lengthy but
going around the world and back tryingto make sense of it. But nevertheless,
it was very informative and it wasgood. It was good. It

(01:36:40):
was real good, cool cool.Oh you know what y'all about to get
both of you all in trouble.So last question is, could you ever
see yourself being a passport? Bro? No? No, m days hung

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up. I know right, Ohyeah, I had learned. I had
learned enough to know not to evengo that way. I learned that.
Look, I learned enough to night. Nope, what you don't. One
of the guys I saw responded onhis Twitter account. He said, you
know, the one thing he said, these guys, he said, shows

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what what limited experience a lot ofthem have with women period. He said,
it doesn't matter where you go inthis world. He said, women
are women. Yeah. I said, okay, And that was the point
I clicked off. I said,boy that that couldn't have been a better
exclamation point to this whole thing.I'm like, you're right, bro,
you're right. Yeah, yep,yep, yes, Sir Apostle cow final

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thoughts, Sir Passport Russ. Yeah, women gonna be women, men gonna
be women, people gonna be people. So yeah, say, but the
one thing I can say is,uh, before you go looking, find
yourself good. Find yourself first,you know, find who who you are,

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because you got so many people lookingfor somebody to fulfill a boy.
When you need to find out what'sgoing on with that boy, you need
to feel. Once you feel thatboy, then then that then that that
will help you out a whole lotmore on what you're trying to do.
You know, you want to youwant to have somebody on that. I
don't want nobody in my life tofeel a boy or something that that I'm

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missing. I want somebody to feelfeel that life so we can be together
and move together. You know thatwe need to go, you know,
that's what That's what I need.I need. I need. I need
that mate, you know that helpmate and help meet to meet me to

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help me out as well as Ihelp her, you know, So that's
what we need. That's what that'swhat's gonna help, you know, looking
looking at it from that perspective,you know, because yeah, you going
all around the world, you don'tneed to that just you need to find
you need to find out what's goingon with yourself. Yeah, nice thought,

(01:39:17):
man, You know what that Thatis good. That is fantastic And
immediately would jumped to my mind whenyou said that is absolutely correct because if
you choose to settle on somebody orhook up with somebody because you see this
person fills a particular board in yourlife, guess what once that board has

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been filled to where you think ithas been, guess what you're gonna do
with that person? You wanna getrid of them? Yeah, you have
no further need of them because thatboard didn't they feel that empty part of
them. So yeah, no,that's not no good if I either one
y'all, and that's not fair tothe other person. So I definitely agree
on that. So my final thoughtslook again for those who are doing this,

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because, like I said, youmake that proclamation that they're just are
there is no suitable women. Thereare no suitable women in this country,
the United States, South America thatwould make suitable wives again, or you
say they are all known not goodor they're all this way, they're all

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that way. Again, I haveto call you a flat outliar. You
never met nor experienced every woman inthis country, okay, and there are
plenty of them who make fantastic wivesfor the simple fact there are many married
couples in this guiden during country.So again, where you're how where and
how you can make that proclamation,I'm not understanding. But even closer than

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home, you just heard and sawat least two guys who are married to
and engaged to us born women whoare a fantastic wife. So fellas that
if you're looking at from that pointof view, like I said, I
got to call you a liar andcall bs on that. But on the
other hand, you're free to likewho you want to like. If you

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just want to have a wife fromanother country and you're ready to be the
right type of husband that you're supposedto be, then they go for it.
Go for it because in the end, just as human nature and we
have a particular preference for something andwe just settle for something else, that

(01:41:44):
doesn't make for any type of longevityor a happy life because you're always thinking,
Okay, this is not what Ireally wanted. I just settled,
so grow out there, and likeI said, you're ready to be a
good husband or a good wife andyou just yeah, you might usually eat
vanilla, but got durn it.You just want to scoop or strawberry.

(01:42:06):
Ain't. Well, like we said, make sure you are a complete person
first. Make sure you have everythinglined up and in place to be the
husband that you are supposed to be. If you're going seeking these women because

(01:42:27):
you want them to be the wifethat you want them to be, well
then you have to make sure you'rethe husband you're supposed to be first.
Well, I do think y'all,fellers, there's always there's always a good
time. Yes, sir, Iappreciate the opportunity once again to come and

(01:42:47):
converse with you guys and release andjust be a part. I appreciate it,
yes, sir, Yes, sir, absolutely all right, And for
you good people out there, andwe definitely do want to thank y'all for
spend this time. Listen to theseold country boys talk about it. You
know, passport grows the modern termfor it, but this idea and concept,

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there's there's nothing new about it.And as long as we have humans
living on different parts of this planet. It's not going to stop, okay,
correct, correct, Whether you door don't have a problem with the
ideal or the concept, it ain'tstopping. And like I said, this
surety that some of you all outthere are the results or you did participate

(01:43:32):
in this very thing. So it'sjust part of human life to deal with
it. So until the next timewe are blessed to come together again again,
we thank all y'all, thank myco hosts A Possible Doctor Murray's T
Bell Possible, Calvin Maze, Thanky'all, y'all, felves, be blessed

(01:43:54):
all you all out there, andbe blessed. Guy, watch over each
and every one of you. Justbeen your man's JK. Moore. And
till we come together to do again, hey, stay safe, treat each
other well, treat yourselves well,and God bless and watch over each and
every one of you. Peace,