"Raise Them Up Right"

Children are being exposed to more mature situations and content than ever before. We talk about the differences in raising children from yesteryear until now and also the not-so-secret agenda that is behind the scenes to get children to participate in deviant behavior!

Episode Transcript

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All right, Hello, hi,and howdy, welcome back to break it
Up the show where we take atopic, any topic, many topics,
digg into them, we break themup. Man had our own perspective to
him. I'm your man, JK. Moore and welcome or excuse me.
I would like to welcome guest hosttonight first time on the show.

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It's our man Nelson or Pastor Nelson. How you doing tonight, sir?
I'm great, I'm great, gladto be in the building today. That's
right, that's right, awesome,awesome. And I would also like to
introduce tonight the Man the Legend seriesregular co host our man Apostle Calvin Maze.

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How's it doing, Bro, I'mdoing good, Man, I'm doing
good. How you doing I'm doingwell, sir, appreciate it. That's
good, that's good. That awesome. And before we jump into the top
of the night, I want tosend a quick shout out to our other
series regular co host, Doctor Mary'st Bell. He's off on assignment tonight
something that was last minute, sohe's all taking care of that. So

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we still want to make sure weshowed him some love. Let Bro know
he wasn't forgotten. Oh yeah,always always al right. Oh and it
looks like we have another call hostwho we got what's her name? Okaysley?
All right, well yeah Thanky Kinsley. Hey, I'm moving you know

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what I'm saying? No, Ithank you? Okay, say clean stuff
up? What's to mom? Getup? All right? Up right,

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saying she's making her feature debut.Always man, always train up a child.
She's exactly yup. Yeah, sorry, she is definitely definitely next to
carry it on him, right,so they can so we can pass everything

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on them and they can can theycan run with it exactly because i'mna be
honest, I'm getting tired. Okay, so we need generation raised up to
step up? All right, tosit back and relax, Sam Prestons,
do you have children? Not?You up? Hartily married two years and

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we're just praying that, you know, God just let us go. However
he's fit in the journey. That'sdefinitely something we would love to have,
you know, Broden and and andlengthing. Just as you mentioned our legacy,
man, that's something we are prayingfor it, but just allowing it
to be get his time so thatit works his way. We're trying to

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rush it trying to prolog. We'rejust trying to find that middle ground right
there. Okay, hey, completelyunderstandable, sir, So of course me
as in most situations, I mann, I don't have any and believe me
when I tell you that is completelyon purpose. Okay, all right,
I just don't have to as theyas they say these days, I don't

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have to band with four it allright? Look and they different these days.
This is a different Oh yeah,yes, sir, the boy,
I'll tell you that this is awhole different, a whole I don't even
know the word for it. Okay, this is just a whole different flow.

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Okay, yes, yes, yes, that it is. If we
have a possible coup, here'll belike, amen, I can testify.
Oh yeah, all five of them, and I've been no five of Mark
the saying either right yo were definitelyyeah, you gotta have the pace of

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Joe with him. Yeah, sir, Yeah, sir, I grew up
that that old bill cost mindset toremember. I used to say, you
know, I brought you in thisworld, I take you out and okay,
I'm raised on that cercenarios where Ithought be around yeah this like this
is this is this is design though, but thankful for great adversity. Even

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with my parents. Sometimes you knowexactly already know already no and got it,
got it. He has a wayof of of living through like your
children as well. So like thingsthat that you did experience, didn't experience
or heaven came out yet came outof yet or need to come out of,

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like he has a way of doingthat through like your kids. Is
when I see it every day,like you know, being a youth advisor.
I had my church for so manyyears, like it's it's like you
see the thing I have. Ihave just friends and family members that like
we're all the same age now andI remember some of the things that we
did when we were young and thennow to see their kids just like you.

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Okay, you can't quite fuss atthem for that because if we were
right, we we rewind just alittle bit like that was you back there,
So I already know already though Igot time covered with it does go
yes, sir, hey, youyou are absolutely correct, And it's funny
you say that because I did say, hey, if if by whatever situational

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means that comes along, that meand my wife do end up having kids.
I'm glad you said that because Isaid, all right, well,
of course, any good parents youtry to raise the child in the right
whatever. But if they happened upto get involved in doing the exact same
stuff I did, I said,I didn't want to take my parents or

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should I say our parents route,and you know, coming down bringing the
hammer down on us, just tofind out years later that like you said,
oh wait a minute, you didthe same thing, but you want
to punish it and beat me withinmy life. So yeah, I always
said, you know what, Nope, I know when I come down hard

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on them like that would tell themyou know, hey, this is the
reason why you don't want to doit, especially if there's something ill leegal,
because that's you. I ain't aboutto saying a lot of nobody,
all right. I was wild andentertained, okay, So definitely something ill
leegal that could get them locked up, and god could be something that that
could actually leads to them being killed. I'm telling okay, yea, don't
don't take the fact that I didit and I'm still here to think,

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oh, well you did it,well, okay, that was me,
that might not be you. Soyeah, I'm not gonna come down on
you two are ever doing it,but he still has a good parent.
I got to show you, allright, don't do it again. And
this is the reasons why. Soyeah, sorry, you are absolutely correct.
Yes, but yeah, they seeit. Even though they see it,

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they still you know, God justsay hey, God saying you know,
but you know he had to yeah, because I obviously said I was
like I'm doing they see me.I'm being up front about it and letting
them know because I because like myparents, my parents hides he stuff.

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I'm out showing them and talking aboutit, saying, hey, this is
what I did, right right,God told me say, he said,
they're gonna have to choose. Theythey gonna have to do it. You
can't you going you just do whatyou do, what you you do,
what I tell you to do,and the rest out take care. And
I had to take my hands up, you know, right, but you

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know, hey, you know,but but I can't say, you know
God, you know I can seeGod working and doing some stuff. I
didn't see some stuff. So andI mean, you're absolutely right, and
yep, that that's why I broughtup that point. You know, when
finally reaching the age of quote unquotematurity or adulthood and sitting around talking to

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older relatives or whoever, and likeyou said, finding out your parents did
stuff. You might want one oneWait a minute, you did what?
And sometimes I mean, let's behonest, the stuff that they got him
together into was way exactly. Yeah, I'm like, man, but wait
bid again. Like I said,but you want to come down. You

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know what I'm saying on me.And look, I am not one of
these people. I don't do allthis. You know, Black people do
this. White people do that typestuff because people or people. But one
thing I have and this is byobserving, is that when it comes to
the raising of children, I haveobserved that usually white people are more on

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that than to where a lot ofthe time I gonna say all of them
all the time, but a lotof the time it's where, Okay,
a child did something, and itis hey, let's sit down and talk
about this, and let me showyou why you shouldn't, like I said,
as opposed to us traditionally at onepoint in a lot of the black
community where oh you did what,it was beat down in punishment time.

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You know, no no talking.It's don't do as I know, do
do as I say type stuff.And then you look at the mental and
the societal development between those white kidsand parents sat down and talk to them,
and by extension, let those kidstalk back to them to let them
know what's and I don't mean ina mean or disrespectful way, but I

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mean to relate to them, tolet them know what's going on with them
and stuff, as opposed to,oh, we don't talk about that in
this house. You're not old enoughto talk about that. You know,
you're betting, not britching that you'rebetting my brain and then laid on the
life. You know, we wonderwhy we have a societal problems we do.
And you know, first thing,a lot of people want to blame
it on Oh, it's because ofyour skin color, the reason why you're

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in jail off and all the reasonyou got shot in this and that and
this. No, it's because youdid the guy dog on crime and you
got to do the time, okay, And these people kill me to act
like that that jails are only filledwith black guys and Latino guys. Where
if you watch any show that dealswith, you know, prisons and jails

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and stuff. Most of the timesyou see more okay, if not equal
amount white people in these and Isay people men and women, then you
do black ce Latinos. But theyknow they can put it out in the
mass media, which is biased,corrupt, and evils. I don't know
what to create this narrative that,oh no, it's blacks get more and

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Latinos who get more harshly dealt withthan anybody else. That, okay,
the reality does not match that up. And like I said, it don't
matter what your skin color is,you do the dog one crime, you
got to do the time. Butspeaking of a matter of fact, well,
since since we are speaking of youknow, kids these days and things,

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I look at recent stuff like likewhat's been happening in our Chicago over
the spring and summer with these periodsof these these black kids from together and
black of a better turn in thesemobs and going into the city and completely
destroying it. And you have theleaders of that city not wanting to call
it, you know, for whatit is. Oh, don't call them

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mobs. Oh, don't say they'rethey're acting, you know, like terrorists.
Oh, don't say they're doing this. Okay, Well, what other
words, should I be using forit? Because in this day and age,
had that been a group of whitekids, especially white kids, in
any conservative setting, old man,they would have been every evil thing in

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the book. But again, thesepeople behind the scenes controlling the narratives and
what we're seeing, we're seeing withour own eyes, Like as I just
use Chicago because that's why I sawI have more often, But we've seen
it happening in different big cities,these mobs of black kids getting together and
straight up destroying stuff, and thecity leaders and again, where is it

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mainly happening that in democratic controlled states? And these state leaders, these governors
and mayors not wanting to call itknowing for what it is. Okay,
y'all, do they think they're helpingthese children? No, because just as
we said, you don't teach themdiscipline, you don't teach them accountability.
They're going to go and do thisin the wrong place at the wrong time

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because they've been allowed to get awaywith it. And well the next day
we're gonna hear about it. Ishow they got taken out. Yeah,
I can tell you what. You'reliving in this state and living in pretty
much any red state. Oh,They ain't putting over that mess. I
don't care what color your skin is, your gender, your sexuality, or
whatever. They are not going toallow you or anybody else to just destroy

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businesses. And I'm not talking aboutDay okay, they're just taking our little
mom and pop. We're talking aboutChicago here, all right, big big,
big money city. These were takingout walmarts and you know a lot
of these high end fashion places andstuff, and so what's happening. These
businesses are shutting their doors and they'regetting the heck out of there. And

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I don't blame them. You all, the city who we're helping benefit by
having our business here, doesn't wantto make any arrests, doesn't want to
go out and stop them, doesn'twant to say anything bad about them.
And then you all want to tryto demonize as us when we decide,
okay, we're not staying here toput up with this, and say,

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oh, well, you big corporation, you're you're part of the problem or
whatever. No, these corporations arethere to create jobs, to help make
the communities better. And you havethese kids who obviously have enough energy and
who are obviously well enough in theirbody. Okay, if they're well enough
to go out to be flipping overcars and busting out windows and stuff.

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Well how about this, how aboutyou walk into one of those businesses dressed
and talking respectfully and like you havesome sense, asks for a job application
and earn money in the legal wayto actually help and benefit the community.
But oh no, no, can'thave that these days. No accountability.

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If you if your skin is anyhas any shade of melanhim, anything you
do is not your fault. It'sautomatically white people's fault, or more specifically,
white man's fault. That is soignorant and stupid that that have be
a whole another shoulder to cover thatwhen had I don't want of us three
sitting here right now, tried topull that same mess when we were these

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kids age. You want to knowwhat I don't want of us three,
you wouldn't be sitting here right nowto talk about it. So fellas go
ahead and talk about it. You'llwant to throw something in there. No,
No, that that's a good point. That's a good point. Like
just as you mentioned, I reallythink it boils down to the accountability and
a lot of times in our inour elinated communities. Accountability really isn't truly

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experienced until later in our life.Like you made a very good point like
if I'm ready, if I'm ifI'm first of all in our household that
does take specific time to communicate,and it's not as you mentioned earlier,
you know, to do as Isay and not as I do or you
or conversation is actually two way.I know some of my filming households like

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you need to listen until I finishedspeaking, and then you can say what
you think and then I'm gonna correctwhat you said that you thought, and
then that's it is what it islike talking back to be another day with
another topic. But when we talkabout accountability that's usually experienced later in our
adulthood, we don't see that inour child like getting The only accountability that

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we might have is with peers thateither are doing the same thing that we're
doing because we have commoderie and bewrong with them. Really they're really not
truly older and that's accountable. Theyjust they just they just made it in
a bedding at that point, likesting together. But then when accountability does
show up or areas of our livesthat need to have accountability, it becomes

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foreign to us, and we almostbecause it is formed, we take we're
quick to take offense to it towhere it really is. Hey, maybe
we should just slow down think aboutthis. You think this, Why did
you do that? What moved youto do that? What did you see
to do that? That that thataccountability? Do you really think you should

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do that? Or actually you're betterthan this, you can do something different
than that. When that accountability showsup, we begin to be defensive because
it's something new and we haven't experienced, and it takes the reprocessing over and
over and over again just to breakthat mental wall down or something foreign,
so that then we do accept it. And then just like ah any any

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tough medicine, it's hard going down, but then when it actually makes you
feel better, like you'll come backto it again. So once we do
actually experience true accountability, it's somethingthat we actually long for in our in
our in our in our aged years. I know, definitely being like a
older millennial, you know, I'velearned to love accountability. And you'd caught

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me, like you said, whenI was young and able body to do
all of those things. Don't wantme accountable I'm doing what I want,
like, this is my dream,this is where I want to go.
Yes, I hear you and Itake your wisdom, but this is what
I'm gonna go do and I atyou what I'm done. But now like
in this stage of my life,like I need accountability, Like accountability is
needed for me to not just getbetter, but to do well, to

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stay well, to get be consistentand get to the next level. So
man, I agree, Like itis hard for for us that have to
experience like that. And when weare doing something wrong, what's the howes
it go? And I'm I'm ahyper prayer pair of phrasing this. You
know, a man does right bywhat he sees in his own eyes.

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A lot of times we got tobe able to accept the fact. Okay,
so maybe the way I've seen itjust ain't it. But I'm thankful
that you showed me a different waythan now because I know better, I
can do better. So it's tough. It's tough in those scenarios like that
because some of those communities that's allthey know. Yeah, takeovers, that's

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all you know. And a partof us once to once to crack down
on the fact that why do youalways act that way? But the truth
is that's all you know. AndI may be able to show you something
different, but the time it's goingto take to help you to be receptive
of that, Like you got tohave patience and grace too, as well

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as showing people new things just sothat they can do something different. Exposures
key exposures. I know, Iwouldn't be anywhere in my life without exposure.
I hadn't been around certain people,seeing certain things, you know,
And that's just that's just a testamenteven you know, the our honor and
opportunity to be on this car.If I hadn't been too exposed to some
certain business aspect, I had nevermet Calvin. Without meeting Calvin to day,

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I didn't never let too, Iwouldn't have been here. So a
lot of our experiences in life isjust due to exposure. So I really
think, how can we go grabsome of those communities, little people like
that, you know, not thatyou know they are incapable of doing things.
How can we grab them just exposingthe more. I can't give it
all job, but I can exposehim this album. Oh wow, that

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is awesome, man. And Ilike the way you put that in as
you were talking. It got meto thinking about not only myself, but
I would say even people are olderthan me, people that older people when
we were younger, but you know, acting wild, thank God, like
I said, not not as wildas this, but when we our own
version of acting wild and cutting up. Yeah, we may have hated it

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when they talk to us a certainway. We may have hated it when
they punished us. We may havehated it the way they came at us.
Then, but how many times havewe been talking to somebody or heard
the testimony of some older person andthey reminisce back in their mind and they
say, you know what, ifit hadn't been for such and such and
such and such person who do exactlylike what you say, who pulled me

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to the side, you know,who told me what they were doing is
for my own good, I wouldn'tbe sitting here right now. And I
can sit here and think of teachersI had again the way they come at
it, because you know, teenagersand especially middle teenagers, Okay, we're
nothing but hormone and ego. Youcan't tell us nothing. Okay, we're

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men. We're starting to get hairon our faces and other places. Okay,
so we were right. We can'ttell us nothing. But then,
like you said, sitting back thinkingabout it now you know, forty four
years old, I think about teachers. I think about stuff older people said,
and like you said, and stuffthey did. And now, because
I'm the same age now they werewhen they were telling me that, I'm

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like, bam, you know whatI'm saying. I get it. And
they were absolutely right. And Ithink those people, you know, we're
using in my heart, only inmy mind, you know, because someone
may not be here anymore. Butman, I love if I ever run
into like an old teacher of minefrom Ellen Mercary School or something, and
I always tell them, Look,you talk hundreds, probably thousands of kids.

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By this point, you probably don'tremember me, but I remember you,
and I remember how you taught mesuch and such and such, and
I just want to tell you thankyou for that, because had you not
done that, there's no telling whereI would be. And it actually what
makes me definitely feel good about thosesituations. They're like, oh, James
Moore, yeah, I remember you. Probably not for the right reason I

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remember you, but hey, andand I'm sure as a teacher, they're
overjoyed to you know what I'm sayingto hear that, because how many teachers
actually get that, that positive reinforcementfeedback from their students to actually know,
Okay, yeah, you know whatI'm saying. I made that. Take
your hand and bend it back likethat and crack the knuckles a couple of

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times a week. But you know, I'm glad to hear see where you're
at now. You're not in prison, you obviously ain't no dead before your
time, You have a family,you know, you're working a job,
you're doing whatever whatever, you knowto get that to say, hey,
you were part of the reason.You know what I'm saying, why why
I'm here now and why I cando this, and I appreciate it.
And you're absolutely right. Exposure,exposure and what I've noticed in the past,

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and you you said yourself, youknow you're you're on the older end
of the millennial spectral spectrum. I'venoticed definitely, I'm not gonna say the
past thirty years, but somewhere inbetween the past twenty and twenty five years,
the shifting and the dynamics, especiallywhen it comes to these public schools
about things like that. And whatI mean is the whole let's just take

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the whole participation trophy thing. Ohyou know, nobody's a losing. Were
all winners. And definitely the risein social media. Okay that backdur of
my age, Yeah, we mighthave spent more time with the TV and
the Nintendo. These days, thesekids are spending more time with Twitter and

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TikTok, being exposed, okay tostuff that Again, our parents would have
chilled us if they walk in,you know, a room and Sam sitting
there looking at some of that typeof stuff or listening that. You My
dad didn't like rap music, andI'm not talking about the hardcore gangster stuff

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that came along like in the nineties. I mean the eighties rap music,
the most bubblegun boppies, cleanness rapmusic. He couldn't stand it, didn't
want us listening to it. Soto take that now, and let's say
juxtaposed that against coming in and catchingyour child looking at some video of some

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ten or twelve year old girl dancinglike a stripper or something, and it's
legal. You have to ask yourself, okay, oh my god, these
kids are being exposed to this stuffand it's not just just on their free
time, because of course, trytry to get them off these these smartphones,

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even while they're supposed to be inschool. It's, you know,
a chore. It's almost an impossibility. And you know, just like you
said that, that whole camaraderie.Back in my day, they called it
the peer pressure thing. If itwas something you didn't necessarily want to do.
Okay, you don't want to belooked at at the door or the
loser or the uncool person, soyou went along with it and did it

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anyway. And nothing's changed as faras when it comes to kids. Okay,
everybody else is looking at this littleunderage girl dancing like a looking and
dancing like a stripper. Okay,well I better look at it too,
because I don't want to be theodd person out. And then what's not
or should I say, probably what'snot being enforced enough with these people?

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And it doesn't I say, itprobably starts about that age, but it's
going. As we know, ifyou spend any amount of time on any
of these social media sites, okay, we have people going into their thirties
and forties and sometimes even beyond thatmaking these type videos where they're just you
know, exposing themselves out there forthe entire world to see. Something I

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tried to let my fiance and shetried to instill in her niece and nephew,
one of them, the nephews aboutten, I think ten or eleven,
and niece's coming up on sixteen,like, look, whatever you all
do and it makes it to theinternet, it doesn't matter if you delete
the video or not. From thatit is there forever, forever. And

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that's something that like I said tome, I'm not seeing enough of them
now. It is actually, youknow, I do see people trying to
tell these young people like, hey, look you do this stuff. You
put yourself out there. You thinkit's all funny games and part of the
crowd. Now while you're in school, guess what when you go to fill
out that college application and you know, trying to do that college admission and

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then after that when you go forthat that's first startup job. That's you
know, gonna start you off atfifty or sixty thousand dollars a year.
Guess But one of the first thingsis that they're going to do now for
our generation, it was just asimple background check, you know, make
sure you never committed a felony,and that's pretty much it. Okay,

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these days they're looking for the feloniesand they are checking the internet to see
if you add anything out there thatwould bring shame or embarrassment to that company.
Now you could use the old thing, Oh look, I was a
kid, you know, doing whatkids do. Shouldn't really hold that against
me. Whatever were well in theoryand in practice, yell to it and

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extent I agree with that, becauseI mean, there's young people. Young
people are gonna do what young peopledo. But at the same fact,
you have to look at it fromthis at the point of view, and
they're gonna be like, yeah,you think we're gonna put we're a fortune
five hundred company. We're gonna hireyou for one of our customers, to
say, why does that person lookso familiar? Dig all the way back

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ten or eleven years so when youwere, like I said, some little
preteen or teen dressed and acting likeyou are a stripper, and to bring
it to our attention to be like, okay, there's the type of people
you are hire. Because for asbad and the sad as, let's just
be real people judge us a lotof times on the stuff we did in

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our past, and that doesn't matterhow far we come along. They will
not let that thing go. Andcelebrities nor them that, they're definitely even
more susceptible to that because, likeI said, you got people who will
dig back twenty you know, wellit wasn't when Twitter first came about about
ten to twelve years ago. Youknow, dig back, find some old

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tweet that you made and joke orsomething, find some old Facebook posts you
made and joke, and they'll useit against you. And the same thing.
And like I said, it isjust try and try and trying to
hammer into these kids, these youngpeople, and sadly enough, some of

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these people were in their late twentiesgoing into their thirties, like look,
don't don't do this. Don't dobecause you will never be able to get
rid of it. And I knowone of the one of the things I
see people talk about women who dolike only fans they were like, okay,
you you you want your the childrenyou have one day? Okay,

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do you know those children are goingto be put through by their classmates and
friends, because like I said,they're going to find out anything you did
you going to be found out andyou know the middle and the emotional all
right, Hell, your kids aregonna be put through when they're classmates.
You know what I'm saying, makefun of them. Your mom was no,
but only fans. Oh back inthe day. No, she wasn't.

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Oh she wasn't. Look so I'mlike, man, it's just that
you said that passon Nel said.It's it's all about you know, that
exposure, showing them the right way, like, look, you may not
be he I don't even know whatthe word this day is. Like I
said back in my day. Cool. Okay, you may not be cool.

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You may not be you may beostracized because you're not doing this stuff
like everybody else. But it willbenefit you in the long run. Okay.
It will make the difference from youbeing not getting the job to being
one of these kids who are doingthis stuff to being their boss. And

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it's just again, you know,all about the accountability and sue. Since
we do have one o our hostone here who okay again has has five
kids. About caw. We weretalking about exposing kids to positivity these days,
and then they kind of veered intoyeah, I'm you know, talking

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about lots of stuff they are exposedto. It is through these social media
apps, your your Twitter or Iwas sorry, your ex, your TikTok,
things like that. And so asan actual dad here, you know,
God, I know you've had tohave that conversation. And just by
our fourth co host there, we'llbe having that conversation again very soon.
So what what have you told yourkids as far as the type of stuff

(31:34):
they exposed themselves to on the internet, but more importantly the type of stuff
they themselves put out there about themselves. Right, It's funny you say that
because I had actually had this conversationwith my my one of my oldest and

(31:55):
I thank God for maturity because I'min a place right now where you know,
I can't speak for everybody else,but I know I really really try
to tune in and listen to God. I try the hardest because you because
this would prepare you one thing.I'll tell you my children, they would
spare you for a lot of stuff. And so before a lot of times

(32:20):
I'm in the being in ministry andyou know, doing counseling and and even
down to business, I love toask a lot of questions because if you
ask questions, and people don't likequestions because when you ask questions, it

(32:43):
brings something out of it. Theyfind out things. So she was saying
about doing something on social media,of course, and and she was looking
at how people do certain things andand we're getting these followings and you know,
the girls successful in that in thatlane that avenue. So I told

(33:08):
her, I said, you knowwhat is she doing? And you know,
let me see it? You know. She said okay, I said,
I said, okay, okay,okay. I say, well,
one, she has a certain typeof audience. Okay, the audience that
she attract love what she do.Okay, do you feel that audience is

(33:31):
you? And she was like,m no, it's not. I said,
okay, I said, do youknow what she's about? Right?
Say? She was like yeah,I say, because you got understand.
So when you you when you dosomething. Now, see like when we
did stuff when we were young,there was no phone recording, there was

(33:53):
you know, it wasn't none thatwe had vhs and different things like that.
And you know, if you callit that, that was remarkable,
you know, you know, butthe wasate stuff set up. Now it's
like you leave a in print andonce you leave that in print, that
in print is hard to erase.So I had to tell about this lady,

(34:16):
I know, beautiful woman, shehad, she had, she did
some stuff back in the days whenshe and she talked about she was young.
So she said, the only thingI regretting to this day is that
the narrative of what I'm doing nowis changing. But people still revert me
back to what I did when Iwas eighteen or nineteen because I was young.

(34:39):
So even though I'm doing us,they always say, oh, I
remember you because of that. Isay, so when you try to,
when you try to go from thisto that, it's going to be so
hard because people are gonna realize rememberyou for that, and that type of
audience is what you care be aiding. Now you gotta clean back up.

(35:02):
You know, it's a person thatjust like what a person you know,
people you know that's in the body. You know. Let's take Apostle Paul
from for example. You know,if people talk about regardless of his his
greatness, they always talk about Sault. I don't care what Postle Paul did.
You can talk everything about a PostlePaul, but everybody always going to

(35:24):
burn and talk about when he waswhen he changed. I say, that's
still an in print. That's right, So do you want to take that
rock? That's what you gotta do. And then I put it on her.
Luckily she didn't take that rock becausethat pressure was on her. She

(35:45):
knew. She knew because she ifI had to say, if I had
to said now, I don't thinkyou need to do that, don't do
that, then it'd be like I'mgonna do I'm gonna do it, ye
her skillfully. That's why I said, I thank God for the Holy Ghost
and that and and that's a anddefinitely when Pastor Nelson said, you know,
train up a child that he thatthey may go, you know,

(36:08):
and just looking at that scriptures amatter of fact, because that's funny because
I've been in proverbs like God reallygot me in that thing. If you
think about the train up a childin the way he which she always means
either female, whatever you know,person whoever God is talking about, he

(36:28):
shall go, meaning leave gold whereveryou know, on his way his dessin
at his future who however, andwhen he or she is older meaning they
were young, immature, They wentthrough they went through all the pressures just

(36:51):
like the product of sun. Hewas wading the pit, the pen,
he was down with the with thewith the slumps, you know, and
he had to wait up and thenyou know he will not depart from it.
So meaning that when I raise upin you, God has put in
you, that's created in you,that's there regardless of the situation. Like

(37:16):
my oldest, a lot of timesshe get off course, but then you
know it seemed like she come back, right even though you get back and
court, did she come back yep, because it's in her. If you
ain't got nothing in you, thenthat's a different story. Right. So
with my children, you know whereI'm at now, I try to be.

(37:39):
I try to live as example becausethey can't compare me to what I
used to be because I'm I'm I'mpushing more of me now that they gotta
see. And so the questions comethat asks questions versus me telling them because
I can look, I can go. For example, with their mother,

(38:01):
you know she's not there yet.Also woman God, I'm still speaking out
of spirit God. But when shespeaks to them, she speaks at them
and not to them. She's tellingthem instead of asking them. Put it

(38:21):
back on them, and I findthat it's more more productive when Jesus.
When Jesus spoke, he never toldpeople what to do. He always said
a question. He gave him aquestion. He always be like them thing
and when made him think Nikodemons usedto come at night to get more information,

(38:45):
and then he said, Okay,this man is different. So when
they come to me, they're like, okay, that is different. It's
something about him, you know what, what's what? What is it?
You know? And so that's whenyou know. You look at parents these
days and stuff, and they tryto be friends. Yourself, I can

(39:07):
relax, I can be with themand joke and stuff like that, but
they know, they know without adoubt that is that, that's right.
So when you come at me,you know that I'm gonna give due us
with us as the Lord, eventhough you might not want here, but
you know you want and you need. So a lot of them trying to

(39:28):
be friends, and they don't wantto. They don't want to go through
the fire of trying to get toa point where they can learn to deal
with children on a certain level,because every person is different. But if
you come the way it's supposed tobe mean. You come spiritually, You
come with the word with what Godis putting your spirit how to handle certain

(39:51):
things because love, the Bible said, love covers a multitude of sin.
If you're showing love unconditionally, youcan't go wrong. Okay, okay,
it's hard to fight somebody. It'shard to yet it's not a person who
yelling at you live and saying cursingyou out. But if you say talk
to them and so spoken voice,it's hard for them to really do anything

(40:15):
to you because you're not giving thatfeel that energy. You can't fight you.
I'm not gonna do it. Butyeah, that's what that's that's you
know, that's my synops on whenit comes to you know, my children
and you know, even down toyou know, children I deal with outside.
You know, you know some someof them you gotta do be stirring

(40:38):
with. But then some of themyou gotta show love. And it all
depends on the way that child isbecause you never know what a person being
through. You never you're going throughwhat people go through. You never know
everybody have you know, and I'veknown that too, you know, even
down to I always like gave metell me it's so hard that here.

(41:00):
I used to be like, man, so you know when I want to
school with you, But then Ihad to recaps that hold up now when
women when I was at age,whatever they're dealing with might be hard for
them, I had to step backand say, you know what, let
me, let me handle a differentway. So that's how that's how I

(41:22):
look at it now. Brother,Then that's awesome. Man. Yep,
you are absolutely right about that,because again, like I said, don't
have kids my own, but aproblem because of other people were exposed to
him, and especially three years ago, I by looking at again, by

(41:44):
looking at uh by y'all's niece andnephew wants to lock down happen and they
were, you know, and howI was doing virtual school, I said,
you know what it really and likeyou said, for the first time,
and I don't know how long Itried to look at it through a
modern child's point of view, andI see, good guys, every other

(42:06):
week there's some school shooting going on. If you had mentioned that that word
back in the eighties and the earlynineties before Columbine, we want to be
school shooting? What what? What'sthat? Right? Right? It was,
and then to compound that, so, like I said, every other
week you talking about school shooting goingon from and when when these things first

(42:30):
started, it was mainly situated inhigh school and college arenas. Okay,
up until the one we just hadnot too long ago, Sandy Hook.
Okay, in elementary school. Ithas trickled all the way down. So
take that on top of all.Right, now we're dealing with a dog
on worldwide pandemic that's shutting stuff down. Okay. I was like, you

(42:55):
know what, I wouldn't want tobe a child this day and eight because
and it's almost again understandable why theygravitate towards certain things that do nothing but
catered to their their flesh and makingthem feel well, because different outside of
that, what are you thinking aboutthe whole? Guy? Okay, is

(43:15):
my school gonna be the next whento get shot up? Old guy?
Know that what's gonna be the nextthing that's gonna cause a shutdown or a
lockdown? And then that's how youknow things that that are unique, not
too unique unfortunately outside of just everydaystuff. Okay, it wasn't already a
stable living environment that that they're inanyway, when it comes to a mom

(43:38):
or dad or whoever they're their guardianis so it's it's I mean, yeah,
like I said, me, forno, I would not want to
be a child these days because knowingme, like I said, my thing
will be what's next, what's youknow, what's next coming down the pipeline.

(44:00):
And that is a horrible way forfirst of all, anybody to have
to live, but especially for achild to have to live and think because
children years mostly okay, are supposedto be about not having to deal with
a whole lot of certain things.Definitely not you know, having to be
exposed to certain things. And it'sjust one thing after another. It's just

(44:25):
coming back to back, And foranybody who's paying attention to the news the
past couple of weeks, they're alreadygearing us up mentally to let us know
that probably by this time next year, if not before, there's going to
be another lockdown, because that's allyou're hearing now, this new variant,
it's spreading, it's spreading fast,it's doing this, it's doing that.

(44:47):
I'm like, okay, people payattention this time now. Yeah, I
can agree. Three years ago kindof made sense while we kind of got
caught off guard last time. Forthose who did, I mean, I
saw it coming. Soon they startedtalking about it being over in China.
I'm like, oh, heck,that thing's already over here. And they're
they're gearing up doing the exact samething, okay, talking about it,

(45:08):
talking about it. Old guy inNew New York City, this state,
this state, this state. They'retalking about reinstituting the mass man dates.
I'm like, here we go,here we go, right. But the
question is going to be people puttinginto action. Did you learn anything three

(45:28):
years ago? What did what didyou learn about that lockdown? What have
you learned since then? You knowwhat you're putting in motion. And again,
it's gonna be sad for kids whoare alive and who knew about it.
They're probably gonna be asked, oh, we gotta do a lockdown again
again. Back in the eighties,could not fathom having to ask that question.

(45:50):
I wouldn't have known him and didn'tknow what a pandemic or a lockdown
was. In the night, thesame thing, wouldn't have known what a
pandemic or lockdown was. With themknown, you know, we had to
take school shooter drills at the beginningof very school year. So we have
to think all this mess that childrenare dealing with is starting from adult the

(46:15):
adult level, and trickling down.They ain't no child with a no lab
over in China and created Corona,but those did that. Children can't purchase
or illegally obtain guns. I'm talkingabout young ones most of the time.
Okay, adults do that. Alot of times, these shootings they get

(46:36):
the gun from. There is theirparents gun. Children having to suffer and
deal with the actions of adults whoshould and a lot of instances do no
better. Yeah, yeah, butwe're in such an age of selfishness and

(46:58):
self gratification. It's all about whatmakes me feel good, don't care about
you. And I'm seeing this scarilyenough more and more from parents. It's
all about what makes them feel good. It's all about boosting up their egosing.
Okay. When you have children,nom okay, for at a minimum

(47:23):
the next eighteen years, you've mostlygiving up that privilege. I mean not
to say you completely ignore yourself andor throw yourself to the side, but
your main focus needs to be onprotecting and righteously. It's not even the
word rightly Okay, rightly, it'llbe right now, righteously raising these kids

(47:44):
up in the way it's supposed to. So they won't you join mobs to
destroy major cities. Okay, sothey won't end up putting something on social
media that's gonna have negative ramifications forthem in the future. So you know
that not going on. We startedoff talking about the children, but they're

(48:06):
swung right back and around to theparents. Hey, our parents, adults,
guardians. All right, some ofy'all got to do better. Ain't
about to say all y'all, youdon't think we have a shinning example sitting
here, and we have a futuresigning example sitting there. You know what
I'm saying. They're working on it. I'm just talking because like I said,
no, it ain't happen. Youknow, you're good man. Hey,

(48:30):
hey, hey, hey, you'regood man. And then pick your
back. You know you be hitit on the head, man, you
hit it death on the head.You know. You talk about the parents,
you know, and and it doesgo. It goes with the parents,
and you know, people just beingleaders you know you gotta be and

(48:51):
people it falls to where you gotAnd I'm us example with the schools a
lot of stuff in the schools canbe rectified. I know it can't because
you go if you go right now, I could go to no. I
can go to all the private schoolsright now. And I guarantee charter schools

(49:14):
to private school they do not haveall the stuff that's going on, the
same stuff, you know. Andin the public schools, ye, they
a lot of them still incorporate prayer. A lot of the charter schools and

(49:35):
private schools are strict policy. You'regonna wear this, you're gonna do this.
This is how it is. Thisis how it is. In other
words, if you don't want yourchild here, they don't have to go.
But guess what majority take it there. Yeah, And with the public

(49:55):
schools, you know, it's it'sabout that money. It's about the money
you can pass along child through school. This kind this child be flunking.
But if they don't have the numbers, they're gonna push them. That's right.
They don't take the time. Yougot a lot of teachers that's frustrated
because they're not getting paid. Sothen that's gonna reflect on the child.

(50:20):
You know, I'm coming to schoolevery day. I got a doctrine's I
got this right here. But yes, I'm getting twenty thousand a year,
but I gotta get this subplication thatteach us. But I'm not getting more
money. But yet still you wantthem to get up seven o'clock in the
morning, come training heir child andthey're feeling this way, and then they're

(50:40):
gonna be like, you know what, bumping since they gonna pay me,
I'm gonna do I'm I'm gonna whatever. And see that reflects on that child,
you know. So when stuff goon, that child feeling it.
You know, those children feeling it, you know, and then the ones
that you know, you got separation, you got these the A plus kids
over here, the eight kids,and you got these kids over here.

(51:04):
They make them make them feel thiskind of way and then that kind of
way, and so that reflects onthem. You know. Then you got
bullying going on and stuff like that. So you know, it's it's different
things that people can look at.The stop a lot of stuff in the
school if they want to exactly ifthey want to majority stuff that goes on
and they be in the news.Is always a public school. Yep,

(51:29):
it's a public school. And thosekids they say they care but do they
care? Are they helping them?Are they doing the things to prepare them?
You know, and I've been inand I've seen it, you know,
push them alone. You know,they don't try they try to cater
to them, you know, youknow, I mean when we was going

(51:51):
to school, you know, wehad hard noose teachers, that's right,
you know them teachers were them teacherswere like, hey, you're gonna learn
how to type, You're gonna knowhow to write cursal, you gotta know
how to write the beginning, themiddle of the end, the man,
they're gonna tell the kids. Andkids don't know what I'm talking about,
right, they don't know none ofthat. And then I know, my

(52:13):
oldest like, cursor, what's that? I'm like, cursing, y'all.
I mean, what do you meanwhat is that? I didn't know that.
They don't need to write in curses. We had to write in cursor.
We had to learn all the letters. We had to learn A B,
B had to write in cursal.What how they look? You know,

(52:36):
yeah, lower case. You didn'tcount money, you know, we
had to count money, you know, stuff like that. You know,
you had to They were not playingyou know you before you left in my
class, you had to learn howto do this. You better write this
paper from the middle of the beginningand the end. You know all that
stuff. You know, how youwrite the beginning where you started off with.

(52:57):
Okay, that's telling your story.The middle that's breaking down, the
end is closing. I'll tell akids, they'd be like, what are
you talking about? That's right?Like, man, this you kind of
notice you're talking about you talk aboutwriting? Man, I don't I gotta
write a paragraph or six page?Man? You know, if we had
to write in college, shoot sixpages if you were lucky, sixes a

(53:19):
minimum. Okay, I'm like,man, y'all, look you know what
I'm saying. So you know,I mean, there's no preparation no more.
You know, they don't they don'ttry to prepare these kids for life.
They don't try to prepare them whatsoever. You know. I remember my
oldest shoot, one of my childrenwent to school, and I was like,

(53:40):
okay, so yeah, so whatdo you what is the council?
What a direction? What are y'all? What are y'all? How's y'all you
know, what's the pattern that y'allgo by from ninth to tenth to prepare
them to whatever they decide they wantto do. They was like, I'm
like, what kind of counsel youYeah, you know what I'm saying.

(54:01):
You don't do that at all.So she was more she was more on
the fact that that I was takingbecause you got some parents that don't.
They just drop them off, youknow whatever. But I'm I was involved,
Like kids say, I'm involved.I was involved with all my children
when they went to school. Iwanted to know what was going on,

(54:21):
like uck, you know. Butthey get more offended when you when you
pry and stuff like that, becauselike, like they ain't doing their job.
No, I'm being a parent.This is I know you're not used
to it, but that's what you'resupposed to do. And I mean just
being I mean, you know,and she was like wow, you know,
like okay, but there's no preparationanymore. They don't they don't care,

(54:44):
you know, a lot of themdon't care. I understand why,
even though it's bad. I understandwhy they don't, you know, because
I've seen how they treat them,you know, and then that's reflecting children,
so you know, they leadership ismost important. You know that's so
important, you know, you knowthe guys men stepping up, like even
in the community. You know,I remember when they used to have community

(55:06):
people, you know, not belike yo, don't do that, you
know, I know your mom,like your aunt, I know your people.
You know, kids out there doingwhat they want now, and you
know it's no, it's no leadersin community people doing that anymore. You
know, having you know, theboys and girls clubs or you know,
programs for hiking or it's summer,you know, the upper bound man.

(55:29):
You don't end up all that stuffno more. Right, A lot of
stuff they cut out, you know, and then then the programs they're eating
up the money in them because stuffgoing left. You know, you know
they ain't doing the right thing withthe money because it's money out there.
You know, there's plenty of moneyout there, and they are something we
ain't got money. Yeah you gotmoney. You know y'all might not be

(55:50):
doing the right thing with it.But as you got money out there that
really needs to go back towards youknow, the foundational of education, you
know, helping you know, famiisand need you know, stuff out there,
you know, and they're not doingit, you know, they're not
doing it so exactly. And PastorNelson, I know you said that you

(56:13):
actually work with youth and uh,Cal just touched on some a minute ago
talking about these different programs they usedto be out there for us when when
we were coming up in your fieldand in your working How much of this
stuff do you still see around asfar as like, uh uh, extracurricular
music programs. I mean, becausewe had it, we had sports,

(56:35):
we had extracurricular music art. I'meven beginning to teach young kids trades like
house you know, what was calledhome economics and and welding and things like
that. As you're still in yourtime working with these kids, do any
of those programs still even exist anymore? Man? You and far than none.

(57:00):
And you mentioned man, it's soit's so uh it could be a
tad disheartening when you really look atit like that. I really think that
as a as a just as anation, this as you mentioned so perfectly
gather and like our focus has changedand what we deem is important. I

(57:24):
really think our focus has changed alot of these programs that that we experience,
these generations behind us, present daystudents and kids. They're not getting
any of that from the simple thingslike you said, curses. I used
to work for a bank. Ourwont name dropped today on this call,

(57:45):
but I used to work for likea top tier bank in the country,
one of the top, one ofthe big three. I would I would
get new, I would get new. I would get parents coming in with
these teenage kids driving about to goto college, things of that nature,
and a lot of them would kindand open their checking accounts before going off

(58:07):
the callities. So I would alwaysfind that like a pivotal opportunity. Hey,
so like how like did you didyou count money in school? Like
did you talk about savings? Noneof that? And this was probably this
was only maybe seven years ago.And just to realize a lot of those
conversations are not being had in schools. I used to teach one of those

(58:30):
programs going to school. So itwas just funny being in the classrooms talking
about counting money and saving stuff likegeting. These conversations either were had in
the house because that was an areaof struggle, or not being had in
the house because they ain't comment itwas important. So this would count the
money, Like kids today, theydon't they don't know cash. We're in

(58:50):
a digital society. It would bea it would be an Apple Pay,
a Google Pay, a cash app, like that's that's how we move money
now. So that's one fundamental importancegone. And then you also mentioned like
these skills like like cursing. Theybrought me back that one point on this
there when I asked my teenagers tosign their accounts, open up the bank

(59:14):
account, they didn't know how.They didn't have a signature. There wasn't
no signing. They would print theirname on the digital streme it's and that
was like the as many times asI've seen that, that was alarming to
me because it's like you you don'tknow like how to fundamentally have a signature
that usually is your stamp of identityin a written form. So that's another

(59:37):
thing gone. A lot of whatyour extracurricular classes. I currently um in
the music industry as far as likeinstrument it's my ninety five instrument distributions.
So I am the one that kindof helps manage all the rental accounts.
So when schools are in their musicprograms and things of that nature, like
I'm the ones helping the parents getthe cold dragon to get their rental instruments

(59:59):
to their kid the instrument to playin school. And the amount of programs
that literally in a month's time willnot exist this upcoming year because like you
said, a teacher is not present, so they shut the whole program down,
or funding is not there and theyshut the whole program down. So

(01:00:21):
it's it's little fundamental things that wegrew up on that usually sometimes where are
saving grace is like music program thatwas not saving grace, like that kept
me out of the streets, thatkept drugs, that kept me like focused,
Like all right, I know Ineed to do well in school because
I actually like to do music too, and I could do to both at
the same time in the same place. That kept me focused. I get

(01:00:43):
to break in these books, Ican go over here and do this music
refresh and I'm ready to go backto the books. And that could be
sports or anything for any particular child. But a lot of these things we
are exposed to in their address tothis newest generation, if we don't teach
them, they won't know. Andand just it's like our just like a
lot of our parents and grandparents andfamily has kind of passed down things to

(01:01:05):
us. If they had not passedit down, we wouldn't know. That's
very present and real right now inour time too. So I really think
it is it is important to understandwhat your what's your your core like beliefs
are your core things that are importantto you that you feel that your children
should need, and whether it's inschool or whether it's into the program or

(01:01:28):
anything of that nature. I wasjust speaking with my wife, like two
days ago. Even college degrees don'tweigh what they used to weigh. Like
how many people we all know somebodyyou went to school, you got a
degree, you don't even work ina field, like all know somebody like
that. I have watched schools changedthe courses in degrees that they offer.

(01:01:52):
Think about it. I grew upin a in a like an industrial household.
I'm my mom worked in the schoolsystems to work in the jail system
at the time too, and mydad was like a woodworker by trade and
also a painter. So I grewup in industrial household. So being like
an older millennial, I was inthe age like what I remember windows ninety

(01:02:15):
five? I remember windows see youknow what I'm saying I remember it was
in Doss the Black Springs. Yes, I remember all of that. So
my generation we came into information andtechnology. So like I would say,
I'm a first generation like entrepreneur.So there were things that I didn't learn

(01:02:37):
growing up, but I had toget exposed to that now beginning to be
like a foundational like core value ofmind that I know that I would pass
down to my kids. And Ithink that in our individual life it's important
to identify what those core values areto grab these things. And fact like
my kids are going though curses,they will never be taught in school,

(01:03:00):
but I would teaching we're gonna getthe solid line to die, the line
and the solid line, oh shoot, not the old don't get don't greet
you o board. It goes backto like just taking your time to and
that's really how you deal with relationships. And like Calvin you said, like

(01:03:22):
I'm gonna sit, gonna show youwhat I did what worked for me,
and I'm gonna show you what didn'twork for me. So now you can
make it what's that word a hypothesisand educated guests or an educated decision on
what you want to do based oninformation. I passed you because some of
this stuff will die and it'll bein the history books and they'll be looking
back at Oh remember my dad toldme like yo that that was just like

(01:03:43):
yesterday. So like, what aresome of those things we can grab and
pass them things forward to They haveall the day could ever need, Yes,
sir, and I completely agree,and you you guys, we touched
on it as far as having positivethe outlets for these kids things for him.
The funding is being pulled from them, just like cal said, oh

(01:04:05):
that that money is out there.But okay, so now we have to
ask the hard questions. And theblack community they want to act like this
stuff don't exist. But that allright, that's what you got me here
for because I don't care, I'mgonna talk about it. So you have
to wonder they're not enforcing just coreeducational stuff, being able to write,

(01:04:30):
cursor, being able to count money. They'll use the excuse, oh well,
they're just like just like past Nelsonsaid, Oh, well, there's
apps and technology that will do thatfor you. Now, well, you
know the thing about technology, it'sman made and it tends to fail on
you and break down. And howmany of us have been in rest fast
food restaurant or some store where thatcash register isn't working where they can just

(01:04:56):
push that button and it tells themhow much change to give us back,
and they standing there stuck on stupid. They have no idea how to you
know, transact money taking to usea piece of paper and a pin to
do it. Okay, So we'retaking away basic educational stuff, we're taking
away any type of extra curricular activitiesfor them to do, okay, and

(01:05:23):
using that funding. And let's justbe well, if it's being taken out
of schools, more than likely it'sbeing put in some politicians pocket or you
know, at the very least end, it's making this way to the private
schools. But I have noticed somethingthat has made us way into these public
schools the past couple of years,and that's this gender and sexual ideology teaching.

(01:05:47):
You have schools now where you havetrans people going in talking to the
young kids. You have schools nowwhere you have drag people. Okay,
not not just walking around just tryingto portray just walking around as a woman
as man. No, we havethem on the sexual end, dressed skippy.

(01:06:08):
The children. Teachers can't even dressin some of the stuff these people
come in dressed in. But theycan come in there dress like that doing
you know, teaching kids how totwerk and stuff. And I'm talking about
down at the kindergarten, first andsecond grade level. So you look at
that, the fact that the thingsthat will help actually educate these kids and

(01:06:31):
actually useful skills in the future,they take all that away. But they're
introducing, okay, stuff of asexualized nature. And I know, even
in the past year, I've seena couple of the YouTubers I follow putting
out videos. We're now these samepeople who are behind this mess, okay,

(01:06:53):
behind the scenes, are now tryingto teach that. Oh, math,
as we know it is racist.Okay, sciences, right, and
everything is racist. So we shouldmake it to where we don't have to
force these kids to learn this stuffanymore. Well, that's funny because when
you went through school to get yourdegrees and things, it wasn't racist then,

(01:07:15):
but now all of a sudden isracist. So yeah, so let's
not teach them math because it's racist. Let's not teach them English because it's
Let's not teach them whatever that wouldactually benefit this child, because it's racist.
Now further, okay, dumb beatingthem down. So when you think
we're darn if they don't know howto do math, english, count money,

(01:07:39):
okay, in anything, don't butwhat is being enforcing them and stuff
of a sexual nature, then whatgood are they going to be in the
future, because they definitely ain't gonnabe able to compete with these kids from
especially the Asian countries where they don'tplay that maths education is still top tier.

(01:08:01):
So you have to look at again, put all the pieces together.
Who are these people taking away theseprograms? Who are these people trying to
put out the narrative that pretty muchteaching kids, giving kids an education is
now all of a sudden racist.And the same people that say, oh,
but you know, we don't havetime, we don't have the time

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in the day. They'll teach youhow to write cursive or account money,
or teach you algebra or this thator this. Oh, but we're gonna
make time for some sex worker who'ssexually confused about their identity. We're gonna
make time for them to come inhere and teach you how to poll dance
and twork. And for anybody who'sgonna listen to this or might be watching

(01:08:45):
this and you think I'm lying orexaggerating, You definitely have not been paying
attention because you can go out thereand find they had some of this stuff.
They actually have videos of them inthere doing it. The responsible parents
when they find out about this,are going ape. You know what on
these school boards saw a video withthis. One dad was reading a book

(01:09:09):
that's being that's ended up the elementaryschool library about talking about how two elementary
age boards can perform different sex actson each other. The school board members
were trying to tell him to stop. He was like, oh, you're
uncomfortable, you don't want to hearit. Then why do you have this
book in my child's library because that'swhere he got it from. So you're

(01:09:34):
taking out all the stuff that wouldhelp them contribute to society, contribute to
themselves, give them a competitive edgeand the workforce, and you're introducing in
okay, stuff that pretty much thatyou know, at the end of the
day, it's just getting number readyto be nothing more than sex workers.

(01:09:55):
Enough people are not out here askinga question why why? But then,
like I said, because it's allinterconnected. When you go and check out
the people who are pushing this stuffor trying to push it, and if
they're honest, you check out.You know what I'm saying, their backgrounds,
their political affiliation, the type ofaudeologies and stuff they believe in.

(01:10:20):
And nine times out of ten,matth know, I'll say nine point ninety
nine times out of ten. Itcircles back around to these people who support
things like third wave feminism, socialism, and what they're definitely pushing hard to
institute in this country communism, towhere your basic freedoms are stripped away,

(01:10:45):
to where your independence is stripped away, to where you have to rely solely
on the government for pretty much everyfacet of your life, to where if
you speak out against any other you'rea traitor, you're a problem, so
you have to be dealt with andgotting rid of. And again we see

(01:11:06):
this, especially when it comes tothese this gender ideology stuff. You dare
not say anything against, you know, somebody in the L three plus community,
no matter how wrong it is,and no matter if it would be
accepted by anybody else outside of thatcommunity. Oh no, they're all protect
the class. Tell me why myfive year old child needs some men in

(01:11:32):
makeup and mini skirts teaching them howto twork? What what? That's not
something I allow on my house andyou better sure than to ask my permission
for it. And speaking of theschools and Caw, you hit right on
it. You start questioning these schools, these teachers, these counselors and stuff
about this. You're a problem somethingelse that's being raised up. And there's

(01:11:55):
now a few independent movies being madeabout it. How these schools now having
at all. If you're female childdecides that, oh, I'm really a
boy and I want to transition,or vice bertha, your male child decides
he's really a girl, he wantsto transition. You either go along with
it and pay for this, orthe state is going to come in and

(01:12:16):
snatch your child. They have aset up now in a lot of these
states. If these children, wherethe children can go to the teacher and
the counselors at the school. Nowwe're talking we're not talking to college age.
We're still talking about below the ageof eighteen to where consent by parents
are supposed to be given. Butif that ten year old decides wakes up
one day and decides he's really agirl on the inside and he wants to

(01:12:39):
be a girl. He goes tothe teachers and the counselors. They can
help that boy transition, and youwill never know anything about it until it's
too late. And they're making itto where this is done legally. Why
it's so much of this stuff inthese public schools setting these children up to

(01:13:01):
be again in the future pretty muchequating to nothing but sex workers because again,
like I said, but between notbeing able to compete on the global
level because they don't have the education, because remember these same people are saying
that education is now racist, sothey can't compete on the educational level.

(01:13:23):
And then on the other end,you have technology that is steadily getting better
and that will continue to be ableto do take over jobs that humans work
now, and they won't even havethe it background to even you know,
manage and create that technology. Soyou have no education, no type of

(01:13:45):
competitive background. All you know isconstant bombardment from the time you wake up
between your public school and like Isaid, whatever time you spend on your
social media is fleshly sexual gratification.What what else is there? And like
I said, this, one oneproblem I've noticed about the United States is

(01:14:10):
they are a weird you know,as a whole, we are a reactionary
country. Okay, we don't chooseto handle certain things until after it's already
happened. You got people out therewho's saying, oh, this is the
greatest capitalist country on the planet.There's no way, you know, communism
wherever take over, really, becausethe past several years have shown me communism

(01:14:34):
is doing a very good job oftaking over already. There's no way this
type of stuff will be allowed inschools, really because the past couple of
years has shown me it's already happening, and they are snatching away your rights
as a parent to do anything aboutit. And people without answer common sense

(01:14:56):
ask question, Wait a minute,Okay, so you mean to tell me?
And under eighteen year old can't can'twork in certain industries, can't vote,
can't purchase alcohol, can't purchase tobacco, can't legally purchase a gun,
can't do this, can't do this, can't do this. But at nine

(01:15:18):
years old, they can decide thatthey want a boy wants to all of
a sudden be a girl, ora girl wants to be a boy,
and so many people backing them up. The medical industry, the psychiatry and
the psychological industry, the mental healthindustry. Okay, certain politicians, oh

(01:15:39):
yeah, hey, okay, cool, they're not mentally able to make all
these other decisions, but they canmake what will really be life altering decisions
to get stuff chopped off and suckedout of them that they won't ever be
able to replace or put back.So again, you have to look at

(01:16:03):
the people, the adults, thegrown people who are perpetuating and pushing this
stuff. Why are you, asa grown person when this isn't even these
aren't even your children, backing upand fighting so hard for a boy and
all of a sudden be able towalk around looking acting like a girl unless
there's something in your sick mind thatthat that checks the box for you.

(01:16:27):
Now, certain places, you can'teven use the word pedophiles anymore. They're
minor attracted persons because pedophiles is sucha harsh word and it comes to such
such bad stigma to it. Wereally need to understand these people. We
do understand them. They're grown peoplethat want to sleep with children, And
okay, end of definition. Andyou can change up the phraseology of what

(01:16:51):
all you want, that doesn't changethe fact of what they want to do.
But again you have these same peoplepushing for this stuff always for the
children. It's something I've noticed,especially when it comes to allowing these certain
groups to come into schools. Theyonly do it at the elementary school age.

(01:17:13):
Don't ever hear about this stuff happenedor very rarely do you hear anybody
happening anywhere the high school age orwithin high schools. There's always mostly focused
in elementary school. They know exactlywhat they're doing because acts any good child
psychologists, or any good anthropologists,or any good parents, and they can

(01:17:34):
tell you the best time to teachyour children stuff is when what what's the
capibul tree? Like the age iswhat is it two and four or something
like that or two and five four? Yeah, two and four, because
that's when their minds are. They'rejust little sponges, sucking up everything everything.
That's why they're allowing these people togo into the elementary schools, so

(01:17:56):
the kindergarten at first grade age todo this stuff because they want to start
grooming them for it. Yea.And anybody who says anything about it,
oh, you're a dysphobe. You'reyou're a discist. You know, you're
you're a hater, you're a fascist, you're a Nazi. And that's how
far down the rabbit hole we we'vefallen here. In other words, young

(01:18:24):
children, you should be able totalk, act and do whatever you want
without any consequence, without anybody sayinganything, even though you are not mentally
capable of doing that. You havenowhere near enough life experience to do that.
These people don't care, Yeah,because again they know what they're planning

(01:18:48):
behind the scenes five or minion yearsout, and they know they want you
nothing more for what he creates.The sex workers, Oh you're don't like
it to have something to say aboutit. Oh, they're just harsh.
They don't understand. Don't worry.It will take care of you. Really.

(01:19:09):
But yet when that child does,if God forbid, they actually go
through this stuff. And there's plentyof stories about de transitioners out there that
they're on the rights. But ofcourse, you know, people are trying
to shut them up because they wantto put out this image. Oh no
that this you know, transition andstuff is great, and there's people who've
done it that are now speaking upcreating channels like this. I'm like no,

(01:19:32):
it's not. It was probably theworst thing I've ever done in my
life. And now I'm going tospeak out about it to help keep other
kids from going down this path.No, don't, don't want to hear
from them. Oh, don't,don't listen to them. They don't know
what they're talking about. Do whateveryou want self gratification. It didn't.

(01:19:54):
And for those of us, likeus who are believers, the Bible warned
us about all the this stuff coming. It warned us about people who would
turn away from sound, doctrine,and truth to listen and follow in anything
that, you know, pretty muchanything that pleases their flesh. Oh y'all
think that was just what talking aboutchurch people? Oh no, no,

(01:20:15):
no, it was talking about theworld, because think about it, it's
not just church people who are participatingin this mess. There's a people all
over the world who don't don't claimGod, don't step footing in any type
of church, synagogue, tipple,or anything else. And of course you

(01:20:35):
got the people of God participating init, because how many stories on the
rides about these trans pastors trying toteach that stuff like Jesus was a trans
and things like that. I meanthese churches you got where they're allowing drag
dragged queens into their churches to performand speak to people. Because I try

(01:20:58):
to warn y'all dog own people aboutthat all that during Tyler Perry Medeal,
but that nobody didn't want to listen. I't wanna listenin't wanna listen? What
do you think that was? Thatis a man who is pretending to be
a woman. And oh you knowwhat I found out, it's not even
that original Tyler Perry creation. Heused to frequent gay clubs, and somebody

(01:21:20):
else actually created that character. Yeah, the guy who actually created there's videos
of him out there talking about it, and Tyler Perry pretty much came to
him, bought the likeness and therights to the character, but told him
don't ever mention it. And theguy was like why, he said,
because then I lose my biggest audience. And the dude was like, well,

(01:21:41):
who's your biggest audience? He said, Black Christians. So yeah,
you put yourself in a sticky situationif you allowed your children to watch Medeal
movies, but then one day yourson, you know, comes walking through
the door, high heels, makeup. We're going mini skirt or whatever,

(01:22:01):
and you start to go in onreally you raise muther things. Doing stuff
like this is funny, that isacceptable. H Why just because media names
dropped Jesus should heck devil can dothat that make him holy? So yeah,

(01:22:27):
it's it is a literal uphill battle, like I said. But for
believers, this though, should notsurprises. We were warned and we were
warned about the time where we wouldactually be the outcast in society. We
would be the ones falsely imprisoned andhunted and things and whatever for our faith
and our declaration and Jesus and thenGod. And no, we are not

(01:22:51):
participating with this stuff. So ifyou people have, y'all go out here
and whatever politicians you back. Okay, Well, depending on your belief system,
you ain't down with this, You'rebetter find out what that politician is
really about and what they believe inand what they back if they don't lying

(01:23:12):
over you. Okay. Again,don't get caught up in this stupid mess
where just because you are certain ethnicityyou can only vote for a certain political
party. If not, you aresell out on this. Okay. Another
tactic of these people separation, division, strife, and also remember, Okay,

(01:23:33):
I'm pretty sure a lot of y'alldon't pick them no history books,
but you're great grandparents, your grandparent, whoever. The people or the black
folks back in the day when theyactually did get voting rights, they overwhelmingly
were Republicans republic Ends. Uh huh. Didn't know that, did y'all?

(01:23:53):
Now, of course, a lotof y'all don't think I'm lying about it,
but gold look look up the history. It took a certain event to
happen in the sixties that was manufacturedbehind the scenes by the Democratic Party.
And then that Democratic representative who waspart of manufacturing this scenario because they knew

(01:24:18):
that blacks were going to continue supportingthe Republican Party, manufactured stuff in society.
And then he publicly said, andagain you can find this this audio
clip of him saying this, andwe do such and such and such,
we would have these niggers voting Democratfor the next two hundred years. And

(01:24:41):
for the most part, the planwent off without a hitch. Because here
we are. There was a moviethat came out in the late nineties,
I think it was called Bullworth,had Holly Berri in it, and what
was the man, they Warren't babywhere he played this this Democratic senator or

(01:25:03):
something, and he had a changeof heart and went into the lower black
community and started telling these people DemocraticParty ain't for y'all, with wasn't built
to support y'all. And this onewoman x me in public, mean,
she's like, what do you mean? The Democratic Party doesn't doesn't know it's
not for me. He was like, isn't it obvious go to a lot

(01:25:28):
of people, isn't that? Andthere's people mostly within that party who support
this stuff and creating and backing thisstuff that is trickling down and making these
decisions for how they're handling your kids, how they are handling your kids because
their ultimate goal is a completely takeaway your parental rights. As soon as

(01:25:53):
you spit them out, they automaticallybecome a ward of the state. Yea,
yo, y'all better pay attention becauseit's not a matter of if.
It's a matter of win, becauseit is coming and they've already started,
Like I said, they've already startedshowing their their true colors. They'll they'll

(01:26:16):
help your kids make these decisions abouttheir body and their sexuality right behind your
back. And I'm not legally obligedto tell you about it, to mention
it, and you're like our madaccount experience if you question them about it,
get mad at you. How dareyou ask us about what we're doing
with your child clown world man clownWorld? Yeah? Oh yeah, yep,

(01:26:47):
well fellas than any pastor Nelson inany final closing thoughts on this subject.
Oh and I want to first ofall apologize you guys. The topic
was actually supposed to be something completelydifferent tonight, but hey, evidently it
wasn't the topic for to night.What we talked about was so hey,

(01:27:11):
let the layd use your brother.I mean, you know, you just
gotta you gotta touch on things thatyou want to because you know, you
know, you know certain people youknow listen to what's being said out there
that need to hear that. Youknow, you need to hear it.
It needs to get it needs togo out there. You know, it
needs to resonate out there so thatpeople can, you know, really you

(01:27:34):
know, hear it and be like, Okay, you know this is going
you know this is actually going overthere. It's just like it's here,
you know, vice versa, youknow, coming together and doing stuff you
know, and then just just doingthis not only allow people to hear what's
going on, but also touch peoplewho want to do something. Might say,

(01:27:56):
hey, y'all, guys, Ihear y'all, I got some I
might want you to come in withme. Let's let's go be you know,
you never know, you know whatGod want to do, you know,
but he's in the midst of allthings. So yeah, absolutely,
hey, let the Lord use yourbrother, you know, do it.
Nothing wrong with a good conversation manyexactly, so Apostle caw final thoughts about

(01:28:19):
you know what, what what wecan do to help these kids along these
days? Yeah, just you know, you know, people, people people,
you know, going big is great, but you start with the small
stuff, you know, just justbe just when you see a child,

(01:28:41):
just you see somebody that's in need, you know, if if you know,
if that's in your spirit, youknow, I ain't gonna say because
you can't help everybody, that's right, this is in your spirit to do
that, to help, you know, whether it's a child, family or
mother, whatever, you know,they start with that, you know,
and then it builds and being apillar of the community, you know,

(01:29:02):
just being a pillar of the community, you know, and and and getting
involved. You know, that's abig thing, getting involved, getting involved
with certain you know areas, somethings you you know you can get into.
But do your research too, becausethere's a lot of places out there
that say they want help and theyneed help. But yes they'll do they

(01:29:24):
really need want to help or dothey really need because you can go to
and say I want to do this, but they just they putting on the
facade. You know, study,study what's going on, what's what's the
different areas that really that's out there, and it's doing something and getting and
being a part of it and andand pushing it. You know this right
here, you know, you know, being on this podcast is a great

(01:29:48):
start, you know, definitely gettingthe word out talking you know, and
and see your your contact information.They're be like, hey, you know,
I like you know, the speakers, I like the guys. You
know, Hey what y'all doing,what y'all recommend? You know, things
like that. But yeah, boysand girls club schools, getting involved,

(01:30:10):
you know, speaking out, youknow, going to like the city councilor
meetings, you know, because theydon't want they don't want people there leaving
or they don't want because they don'twant people with voices. You know,
what happens is when you when youbecome a people don't you know, you're

(01:30:30):
not a threat until you become athreat. They see that you you a
young, educated, you know,person that speaking the truth and and know
at something. Then you become athreat. So which that's a great thing,
you know, I look at agreat thing. You know, it's
it's it's a good Yeah. Justjust being a pill of the community and

(01:30:57):
going forward and putting your hands tothe clod and getting on the do and
don't talk about just be about it. That's right, Yes, sir and
Pastor Nelson's are final thoughts. Youknow what, what what what can we
do? What can we put inaction to them help keep these kids protected
and help keep them directing in theright way in these years to come,

(01:31:18):
because it ain't like I said,it's not going to get easier. It's
gonna get harder. So you knowwhat you get I mean, like Calvin
again, I think that's really justto take that one point you mentioned and
that was that was exact My exactthought is to just play your role in

(01:31:38):
your community, you know, andwe all will often sing that song.
You know nowadays, especially you knowin our culture, you know, everything
attached to me wins. You know, when you take ownership of that your
immediate family, they're attached to you. They're gonna be influenced directly by the
decisions that you make, the thingsthat you say, the things that you

(01:31:59):
do, the things that you pourinto them. But there are some people
that aren't as close to you asimmediate but you still can be as impactful.
Like I have things that my parentstaught me, but I also have
things that a specific person took sometime out of their life to impart into
me that completely change the game forme. So don't be limited to just

(01:32:21):
like just what's happening in your house, but also be be open to the
fact that there is some good whalesso to speak, to drink from that
may not be in your house,may not be in your school, may
not be in your direct circle ofinfluence. But that's the beautiful thing about

(01:32:42):
it. We have a larger circleof influence even like information channels like this,
but you can just still be ableto connect with people and get something
that you necessarily wouldn't have got onyour intended focus direct specific path that a
lot of times there are avenues outhere they get, give that exposure and
then to know that there might theremight be somebody that you pass by every

(01:33:05):
day every week in your influence thatyou just don't know what they're not getting.
But taking that time too, likeyou said earlier, ask questions.
Like the crazy thing about a questionis the reason why you just use questions
because psychologically the mind can't deny it, Like our mind can't overthink a question,

(01:33:27):
like if you ask me a question, if I ask you right now,
what are you thinking about? Likeyou you can't deny cognitively the fact
of taking action upon that question,Like you're gonna think about it. You're
low key gonna try to answer itin your mind even if it doesn't you
know what I'm saying. So liketaking those taking those times to ask questions

(01:33:49):
to our to our young uns outhere, they're gonna tell us what they're
thinking, like the youngest is different. They're gonna tell you what they're thinking.
And out of the I would flowthe issues of the heart. So
I want you to talk. That'sgonna tell me what's the only inside of
you? Then I can see what'son the inside. Oh you know what
here, let me deposit this,and tis I feel like just can help

(01:34:11):
you here, and you never know, you could be somebody saving grace,
which you never know if if youlet you ask the question into So let's
grab everybody around us and just dowhat we can and not try to be
anybody savior because we haven't savior forthat, but just to play our role
and be the hands and the feetin any aspect of anybody's life. Yes,

(01:34:32):
sir, I agree with what theseguys said, and and they pretty
much covered all over those by myfinal thoughts on the subject. Yes,
I may not have my own kids, but that doesn't mean I want to
see the kids around me fail ormake mistakes. If I can do anything
to help them, like I said, keep them from making the same mistakes

(01:34:56):
I did, or God forbid thesedays you can greater mistake. And so
goes right back to what's said.Pay attention, pay attention to what's going
on in society especially and more importantly, pay attention to what's going on right
in your own communities, your mayors, your governors, your senators, your
house. Find out who these peopleare, what their beliefs are, and

(01:35:21):
especially when it comes to your children. Oh yeah, because like I said,
it's not a matter of if,it's a matter of when certain ones
of them are coming for your children. So do everything you can and I
always go live life. All Okay, everybody's not a believer in God.

(01:35:45):
Everybody hasn't accepted Jesus. So ofcourse, you know, my total overall
answer can't be oh yeah, youknow, read scripture to them every name
and things like that. I mean, if you can to they allow with
man, awesome, fantastic, Butjust overall the best thing for children.
Okay, be a good adult.Remember that they are children. There are

(01:36:06):
certain things they should be exposed to, certain things that they shouldn't. Like
parents said, listen to them.Yeah, like a posts of cows said,
listen to them. Black folks outthere who of our generation don't do
what our parents and grandparents did.And just like I said, barking the
orders. And then you can't saynothing. You can't not do that these

(01:36:30):
days, you can't do it.You cannot wait until your child, be
the boy or girl, reaches theage of ten or eleven to start having
the conversation with them about sexual conduct. Oh no, no, no,
because you might think that's still appropriate. That place you send them to for
eight hours a day. They startedtalking them about that stuff about six years

(01:36:54):
ago, if not before, thenopen up. Leave those lanes of communication
open both ways. It's been saidseveral times throughout this throughout this show,
don't talk you know what I'm sayingat them, talk to them. Make
sure the avenue is opened up forthem to be able to talk to you,

(01:37:15):
because, like it was mentioned,if they know and feel comfortable enough
knowing they can come talk to you, they will listen, listen to the
whole thing. Make them listen toyour whole thing. Okay while y'all talking,
ain't no technology, put the dotdorand phone down. Okay, ten
minutes, ain't gonna kill you,ain't gonna miss nothing. Still gonna be

(01:37:35):
there forever. And definitely make surethe hammer at that point about how they
conduct themselves. Ain't what you doonline, it gets put online. It's
out there forever. These little cute, no playful messages and text you sending
somebody, they're out there forever.Just because you think that's between y'all,

(01:37:57):
know what I'm saying. Depending onhow that person they're mentality, the maturity
level, they might share it withall the rest of your classmates. I've
heard stories about that too, ofthese young kids committing suicide because of that,
or sending their quote unquote boyfriend orgirlfriend inappropriate pictures of them thinking that
it's just gonna stay between them andthe other person passes it along to all

(01:38:21):
the rest of the school. Soas hard as those conversations, maybe those
conversations have to be had, becauseyou don't want to be that parent or
that guardian that God forbid that doeshappen to sit there spend the rest of
your life. I should have,could have, would have, and maybe

(01:38:42):
it didn't. You cannot wait thesedays with these kids to have certain conversations.
You just can't because the schools ain'twaiting, the mass media is not
waiting, the internet's not waiting,and some of y'all who actually have babies,
now you ought to know that.Because these kids can manipulate technology,

(01:39:05):
tablets, smartphones, whatever. Itonly takes a few times to show them.
And you think the people who arebehind these websites, these apps and
stuff, you think they give uprats behind about waiting to your child's at
appropriate age to put stuff out there. No, it's a well known secret.

(01:39:25):
When when it comes to advertising,marketing, any of that stuff,
you want to start creating customers asearly as possible because you want them to
be lifelong customers. That's why alot of these serial companies and stuff got
in trouble a few years ago fornot really being healthy but directing their marketing
to little children with these you know, playful cartoon animal mascots and stuff.

(01:39:51):
Yeah, they want to get themfrom from the moment they can start eating
their serial carry on into adulthood.And of course it works. Yeah,
I know, some healthy stuff,but boy, you slide a bowl or
some captain crunch crunch barriers my way. Well, I got to demolish it

(01:40:12):
just being real, they called meearly, but no, seriously, yes,
get you know, whether they're yourkids or not, whether they're believers
in God or not. Just okay, you are a believer in God if
you are create that no godly atmosphere. And I've seen with my own eyes,

(01:40:34):
kids will as long as kids knowand see that you are a genuine
person, that you really have theirinterests in heart, that will it will
gravitate them towards you. Jesus said, allow the little children to come to
me. For such is the kingdomof Heaven. Because when kids in their

(01:40:54):
spirit, they recognize the real,the genuineness in Jesus, they recognize it
better than I'd say probably most ofthe adults that were around them, including
the religious leaders. Yeah, begenuine with these kids. Find out,
like I said, your community,your state, find out what they are
about, what they're allowing, whatthey want to institute, because they got

(01:41:17):
and this is all throughout time,even in the midst of trouble and bad
stuff. God always you know,He always has a remnant, always has
a small pocket or a small space. And when it comes to our state,
there are states where there are representingthose that like, we ain't playing
that mess. No, you ain'ttraining nothing before the age of eighteen.

(01:41:39):
Now, once you turn eighteen,you do whatever you want to. Even
if you know somebody like that inany part of the l through plus lifestyle,
if they genuinely are seeking God,if they genuinely are seeking love,
that's difference than just giving them wholeheartedapproval on anything they want to do.

(01:42:00):
No, I can love you,I can respect you as another human because
I'm commanding to do that. Butto put stamps of approval on everything you
do. No, I don't haveto do that, but I will help
you and love you if you're tryingto do something better and positive with your
life, because even those people cango back to their community and talk and

(01:42:25):
teach things like I'm missing it earlier. You got the de transitioners now who
are now going out and talking tryingto keep kids from doing this stuff.
And you know the same thing aboutit. You got a lot of dog
on religious people right now that wouldn'tallow somebody like that even within their space,
whether they're coming to talk about itin their church or not. If

(01:42:45):
they found out that they even livethat lifestyle, No, want nothing to
do with them. Although that personcould again be the one to keep your
son or your daughter, your grandson, your granddaughter, niece and nephew whatever,
for making the exact same mistake theydid it. People are genuine,
people are truthful. If they're tryingto do and teach positivity, make that

(01:43:08):
space. Make that space, becauselike I said a lot of times and
I'm living proof of it, kids, is just in us to naturally rebel
against our parents and guardians. Butit's crazy because we will listen to somebody
else at exact same age and followthe same advice, just because they're not
our parents and guardians, right,So keep it open, Keep it open,

(01:43:33):
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(01:45:20):
get the more people. So aswe're wrapping it up, I do
want to thank our guest host nightpastor Nelson Page. Thank you so much,
sir, and and doubly thank youbecause this was truly last minute for
him. I mean last minute askingand last minute him accepting and making the

(01:45:44):
time to be here with us.So thank you so much, sir.
It has been a pleasure of meetingyou. It's been a pleasure having you
on here. And of course Ibelieve I heard that you're in Virginia,
so you're one of the country boys. Now that that's how we're always signed
off. Thanks for listening to uscountry boys, So thank you, thank
you. Oh and situated here,did you have any any social media information

(01:46:09):
if the people want to follow youor if they want to reach out to
you, Yeah, yeah, ifyou do. If you do want to
connect with me any other way foranything, but I could definitely help with
or vice versa. You can findme at at mail Paige Junior any lag
Jr. And that saw all socialmedia channels. Okay, fantastic, And

(01:46:31):
I will make sure to get thatfrom him and post that link in the
description of both the video and theaudio for the audio podcasting platforms be uploaded
to so that way it will beout there. And this is a man
I find out of many talents,so yeah, definitely reach out to him.
So again, thank you so much, sir for for joining us here

(01:46:54):
last minute. I've enjoyed having you, and like I said, you're one
of the country boys. So I'mgoing let know now that this will not
be your last time being being invitedto be on the show. Thank you
so much. Mental lot, youknow, that's a thing you know and
things that are that are purposeful andsupposed to happen. Guy got away with
just making stuff flowing back together.That's literally how it was for me when

(01:47:16):
I got the invitation. At first, I was the very thankful just to
even get the thought invitation, butfor things to line up and move around
for me to be able to dothat, it's honor and privilege. I'm
just glad I can take part.And if you get a chance to do
it all over again, I wasjust as thankful as the first time.
So I appreciate it. Yes,sir, thank you so much. And
of course we want to give shoutsout to when our series regular co hosts

(01:47:41):
Apostle Cow, thank you again,sir for taking time. Oh I'm sorry.
Apostle Cow and his co hosts KidsLead want to thank you both for
taking time out of y'all business schedulefor joining us. Appreciate it. She
said, thank you too. Boy. I'll tell you, you know what,
just just to see I would almostyou know what I'm saying. One

(01:48:04):
want to just put that girl puta microphone in front over and see what
what a'll drop out of her mouth, because I mean the a few times
I have been around there and talkto her. Man, your kids beyond
it bought us on. Yeah,she take, she'll take the show.

(01:48:25):
We'll do that. Oh wow,Dan Stolen. She is a mama child.
Oh man, oh man, Wellyes, sir. Again, thank
y'all, And last, but certainlynot least, want to send one more
shout out to our series regular cohost doctor Mary's t Bell. You know,
thank God for him and doing thework that he's away doing. So

(01:48:50):
thank you very much. And asalways, definitely last but not least,
want to thank all you all forjoining us, taking your time out of
your scale is to listen and orwatch the video. No, we appreciate
you listening to these old country boystalk about it, getting in there and
breaking it up and so God willinguntil the next time and we're able to

(01:49:12):
come back together again. Wanted tosay peace, all of you all,
be blessed, stay safe, andlook forward to seeing y'all doing it all again.