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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hey, everyone, welcome back to build your stoic core. I'm
your host, Madison Lane, and let me tell you today's
topic hits close to home because we've all been there, right,
that feeling when emersions are running high like a roller
coaster on overdrive and you just want to jump off,
grab some ice cream and hide under the covers. Yeah,
that's where emotional regulation comes in. It's not about squashing
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your feelings. It's about having the wisdom and strength to
navigate them like a pro. And trust me, this superpower
is essential for achieving success in life, love, career, you
name it. Think of it like this. Imagine trying to
build a house on shaky ground not going to end well. Right.
Emotional regulation is that solid foundation, the betterock that allows
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you to make clear decisions, build healthy relationships, and truly thrive.
So buckle up because today we're diving deep into the
world of emotional regulation. I'm sharing five key takeaways that
will change the game for you. First up, awareness, You
can't control what you don't know. Ever, notice how sometimes
you just react without thinking. That's where awareness comes in.
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Pay attention to your body, your false, and your emotions
throughout the day. When those feelings start bubbling up. Label them.
Are they anger, sadness, joy, or fear. This simple act
of naming your emotions helps you take a step back
and choose how to respond instead of just reacting. Next
acceptance where human and emotions are part of the package deal.
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Some days are going to be sunshine and rainbows. Others
will feel more like stormy seas. Trying to suppress or
deny your emotions is like trying to hold bacchatitis. Just
not go into work. Instead, practice acceptance. Acknowledge your feelings
without judgment, let yourself feel them fully, then gently guide
your attention elsewhere sad reframing think of this as putting
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on those mental rose tinted glasses, but in a good way.
Reframing is about looking at a situation from different angles.
When you're feeling stressed, for example, instead of thinking, ah,
I have so much to do, try reframing it. This
is an opportunity to learn and grow. Speaking of growth,
self care is crucial here. You wouldn't expect a car
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to run on empty, would you. The same goes for
your emotional well being. Make time for activities that narish
your soul, whether it's reading a good book, taking a
walk in nature, or listening to your favorite music. Finally,
practice mindfulness. This isn't just about meditation, although that can
be super helpful. Mindfulness is simply paying attention to the
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present moment with that judgment, notice the sight, sounds and
smells around you, feel the sensations of your body. By
anchoring yourself in the present, you reduce stress and gain
a sense of calm. Now, let me paint a picture
for you. Imagine Sarah, a brilliant lawyer who's always on
top of her game, but lately she's been feeling overwhelmed
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with work deadlines, family obligations, and just life in general.
Her anxiety is through the roof, impacting her sleep, her relationship,
and even her performance at work. She starts practicing mindfulness,
taking short breaks throughout the day to focus on her breath,
noticing the colors around her, and engaging her senses. She
also makes time for exercise and connects with loved ones. Slowly,
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but surely, Sarah starts to feel a shift. She's less
reactive to stressful situations, more focus at work, and enjoys
her personal life more. Emotional regulation isn't about being perfect.
It's about making consistent progress. Remember, you're building a strong
in her foundation, one brick at a time. So what
are your biggest takeaways from today's episode? Are there any
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specific strategies you want to try out? I want to
hear from you she had this episode with a friend
who could benefit from learning about emotional regulation and join
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and remember you've got this. Keep practicing, keep growing, and
keep building that stoic core of strength, resilience and balance.
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