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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, folks, welcome back to Come Over Chaos. You're
daily dose of wisdom that doesn't take itself too seriously.
I'm your host, Brandon Cole, and let's be real. Life
can sometimes feel like a roller coaster ride field by
ca Fein and anxiety ever feel like you're constantly battling
an inner storm. You know that feeling when your to
do list is longer than the line at tsniel And
on a hot summer day, or when your mind race
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is faster than a sheet of chasing its tail. Well,
today we're diving headfirst into the ancient philosophy's stoicism, and
trust me, these guys knew a thing or two about
staying calm and miss chaos. We're going to uncover some
powerful techniques that can help you conquer fear and anxiety
like a boss. First things first, let's get clear on something.
Fear and anxiety are natural human emotions. They've served this
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well throughout history, keeping us safe from danger. But in
our modern world they often hijack our thoughts and feelings,
leaving us feeling overwhelmed and paralyzed. That's where stoicism comes in.
Stoics believe the true happiness came not from external circumstances,
but from control in our internal responses to those circumstances.
They taught us to focus on what we can control,
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our thoughts, actions, and reactions, and let go of what
we can't. It's like this, Imagine your mind as a
crowded room full of people, and some definitely bring more
drama than others. Stoicism is about politely asking the noise
he wants to leave, creating space for peace and clarity.
So here are five key takeaways from today's episode that
will help you build a stoic fortress against fear and anxiety. One,
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Identify your fears. This might sound obvious, but it's crucial.
What are the things that really get under your skin?
Write them down, analyze them. Become a detective of your
own anxieties. Once you know your enemy, you can start
to develop strategies to combat them. To challenge negative thoughts,
Stags were masters at recognizing and challenging negative thought patterns.
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When you find yourself spiraling into it of scenarios or catastrophizing,
ask yourself, is this thought really true? Is it helpful?
Would I say this to a friend going through the
same thing? Often our fears are based on assumptions, not facts.
Though practice mindfulness, being prisoned in the moment is key
to managing anxiety. When you're caught up in worries about
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the future or regrets about the past, you miss out
on the beauty of the now. Take a few deep breaths,
Focus on your senses. What do you see here? Smell, taste, touch,
Ground yourself in the prisent moment, and watch your anxiety
melt away. Four. Focus on what you can control. This
is a big one. We can control everything that happens
to us, but we can control how we react to it.
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Instead of dwelling on things beyond your influence, channel your
energy into actions you can take. Remember, even small steps
forward can make a big difference. Five. Embrace virtue. Stokes
believe that living a virtuous life, being honest, courageous, just
and wise, was the path to happiness. When we act
with integrity and kindness, we build resilience and inner peace.
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Let me tell you story about this. Imagine your boss
just dropped a huge project on you right before deadline week.
Your mind might be racing with thoughts like him going
to fail. This is impossible, But here's where sourceism comes in. First,
acknowledge the fear. It's natural. Then focus on what you
can control your attitude, your effort, and your actions. Instead
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of panicking, take a deep breath, break down the project
into smaller tasks, and start tackling them one by one.
By focusing almost within your power, it'll not only get
through this challenge, but you'll also learn to face future
obstacles with more confidence and resilience. So there you have
at five stoic strategies to help you knkuerfer an anxiety
like a true champion. Remember you don't have to become
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a philosophy professor overnight, just stop by incorporating these techniques
into your daily life. Think of this podcast as your
daily dost stoic wisdom, your secret weapon against the chaos.
Now go out there, face your fears head on, and
remember you've got this. And if you enjoy today's episode,
share it with a friend who could use a little
extra calm in their life. Until next time, keeps driving
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