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Hey, they're awesome humans. This is your boy, Brandon Cole,
and welcome back to Calm of a Chaos, where we
are all about leveling up our lives with a little
dose of Stoic wisdom. Now, I know what you're thinking.
Stoicism sounds pretty serious, like something my grandpa would preach.
Trust me, it's anything but stuffy. It's actually super practical
and empowering, especially when it comes to building self awareness,
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which is the foundation for living a truly fulfilling life.
Ever feel like you're just reacting to things instead of
actively choosing your responses. You know that feeling when emotions
take over and suddenly you're saying or doing things you
regret later. That's where self awareness comes in, my friends.
It's about understanding your thoughts, feelings, triggers, and motivations, the
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whole shebang. And let me tell you, stoicism has some
seriously cool tools to help us get there. So buckle
up because we're diving deep into building a rock solid
foundation of self awareness with a little stout magic. First
things first, practice mindfulness. It sounds simple, right, but it's
about paying attention to the present moment without judgment, like
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really feeling your senses. What do you see here? Smell, taste, touch,
Notice your thoughts of feelings without getting swept away by them.
Think of it like watching a movie. Observe the story
unfold without taking side or getting emotionally invested in every character.
Next up, chure an Oline. This is a game changer.
Get those thoughts out on paper. Literally, write about your experiences,
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your emotions, even your dreams. It helps you identify patterns
and understand your reactions to situations better. You'd be surprised
what pops up when you start digging deep into your
own headspace. Then there's the power of negative visualization. Now,
before you cringe, hear me out. This isn't about dwelling
on negativity. It's about acknowledging potential challenges and preparing yourself
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mentally for them. It's like a mental what a scenario
that helps you appreciate what you have and develop resilience
when things get tough. Imagine losing something important to you.
How would you feel? What steps could you take to
prevent that loss or cope with it if it happened.
This exercise helps you build emotional strength and gratitude for
the good stuff in your life. Another stoke gem is
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focusing on what's within your control. You can't control everything right,
traffic jams, other people's opinions, those are wild cards we
gotta let go of. But what you can control is
your reaction to them. Focus on your thoughts, actions, and choices.
That's where a real power lies and lustly practice self compassion.
Be kind to yourself. Everyone messes up, everyone has bad days.
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Instead of beating yourself up, acknowledge it, learn from it,
and move forward. Treat yourself with the same understanding and
grace you would offer a good friend. So there or
you have a five powerful storic principles to help you
build self awareness like a boss. Think about the time
when you were really stressed up, maybe a big presentation
or an argument with the loved one. How did you react?
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Did you lash out, shut down, or try to control
the situation. Chances are your initial reaction was driven by
emotions rather than conscious thought. But what if you had
taken a moment to pause, observe your feelings, and choose
a more thoughtful response. That's where self awareness comes in.
It allows you to break free from aultipilot mode and
make deliberate decisions that align with your values. Remember, building
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self awareness is a journey, not a destination. It takes time, practice,
and patience, but trust me, the rewards are worth it.
The more self aware you become, the more empowered you'll
feel to navigate life's challenges with grace and resilience. You'll
be able to build stronger relationships, make decisions that truly
serveye you alive a more fulfilling life overall. So what's
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your next step? Start by incorporating one or two of
these Stoke principles into your daily routine. Maybe try journaling
for ten minutes each morning or practicing mindfulness during your
lunch break. Even small changes can have a big impact
over time. Remember you're capable of incredible things. Start building
that self awareness today. Don't forget to share this episode
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with someone who could benefit from a little Stoke wisdom.
And if you found these Insid's helpful, leave us a
review and let us know what resonated with you most.
Until next time, keep striving for Kama or KaiOS My friends,
you got this. This podcast is powered by AI to
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