July 3, 2022 • 64 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
I loaned bas go softigue bars.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
I take the car to beat the bars on my pet.
Speaker 1 (00:07):
Yet my life was tossed to and from top of.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
The seat of paint. I think sound a strange.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Had not refrain the free wing.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
I didn't make it, couldn't take it, didn't.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Want to fake it.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
I had to bring it.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
I was stuck and couldn't shake it.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
I tried to keep it on the wather for my
life of me.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Oh, I found the trouble, her and misery.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
What day I heard taking pictures.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
Send there down and and he will come with no
dinner if you will call. I said, okay.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
I told him I was sorry for the way I lived.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
He said, send that for every one I done.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
He will forgive now no weapon want them they get
the hell.
Speaker 4 (00:39):
Can still move me from his birth.
Speaker 1 (00:41):
I'm gonna swell and it comes tighly recommusic. If you
seek relief, and you'll believe.
Speaker 5 (01:06):
Do your.
Speaker 3 (01:11):
Almost upon a time I was blind and couldn't fine.
Don't wait on the past.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
The peace of mind stepping, said Jimpy.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
That's not ain't good at It's a thing I had
no wish.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
I was telling I didn't give me, you know, what.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
I didn't care what that control any time or anywhere.
Speaker 3 (01:28):
One of the jail like he wasn't homey sawbody sessions from.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
The mirror and didn't know anything.
Speaker 6 (01:34):
But God bless oh my soul. I let them go.
Speaker 4 (01:38):
He took control Nothingever, we never together did promise, never
for saying, hey, oh play me, there's nothing bad.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
There be men in the presence of one.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
And only say in the proper place, and I love me,
love me unto thee I boud.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
I'm never humbling it to the one who gave me
flye U under me. That's freezing.
Speaker 6 (02:20):
Story story.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
I said, no, focus on nothing, focus not holy smoking.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
My game is I'm not.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
I can't focus all the things and bringing harm and
need based on that problem I've been doing like me tell.
Speaker 3 (02:53):
Me under the cair wellfair of the from somebody den
of the oldest son.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
Little game is oh right, willinglee for.
Speaker 3 (03:03):
Real, don't no joke, bro. He not for you and
me no time when.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
I'm about it. She just make a solout represented like
a stone job becoming older.
Speaker 3 (03:11):
The mother is tolder.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
Don't get in the older before you working up the
Because I a told yall, I's not.
Speaker 1 (03:17):
Gonna you know, I'll be caught up in a twist
because I gotta be young him. No matter who you
are about.
Speaker 3 (03:24):
What you're going through, what he's done for me.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
He'll do for you.
Speaker 4 (03:55):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (03:55):
Welcome everybody. This is kind of playing play and this
is your host, Them Patterson. Thank you for joining us today.
We know you could be somewhere else doing some other
things instead of sitting here listening to this show, and
we appreciate you and love you for that. Today we
got a great show lined up for you. We got
mister Damon drel Naylor, better known as the Renaissance Man.
(04:18):
He's an Aouther speaker, leadership trainer, consultant, educator, and amongst
other things, you know. But we're gonna let him tell
you about that, and we're gonna jump in to the show.
I just had to give a minute or two the
big boy upstairs. You know, it's my belief and I
hope it is yours. You know, with his help, you know,
we can get through these trying times. And that's exactly
(04:41):
what we're dealing with right about now, some trying times, boy,
because it's a whole lot of crazy ish going on
out Daniel's world right about now, so hopefully he'll find
a way to help us see through this soon, sooner
than later. So with that being said, let me see,
is mister Naylor with us?
Speaker 4 (05:02):
Hello? Hello, what's going on? Mister Patterson?
Speaker 7 (05:06):
Oh man, I'm well, Thank god, thank you for joining us.
I hope you and your family are doing well.
Speaker 4 (05:12):
Also, Yester, all as well on this and we're blessed
and thankful to be alive and thankful for this opportunity
to chat again with and to share with you and
your listeners. Man, we appreciate you.
Speaker 7 (05:26):
We appreciate you as well. I guess today we're gonna
be talking about singing, singing and seizing, and I think
the title should I say the topic of the show
is definitely got me scratching my head and those are
some powerful words. So you know, we're gonna definitely put
(05:47):
meaning to those words for our listeners, you know, the
ones that are still sleep. And I hate to say that,
but it's a lot of people out there in the
world is actually still sleep. Even though they got their
eyes open, they are still sleep.
Speaker 4 (06:02):
Yeah, wide open, like you say, still sleep, feel asleep?
Speaker 7 (06:07):
Yes, sir, I like this about have the courage to
pursue your vision. So let's let's kind of start there.
Speaker 4 (06:16):
Okay, Well, the key is wherever we're going to head
and the direction we're going to go. In life, we
have to be bold and courageous about it. But as
you state it, we have to be in an awake state.
In order to be able to see and visualize, you
have to be conscious and know and at least not
(06:38):
we're not going to fully know, but have a sense
of direction of where you're going, being able to see
it before you get there. And for instance, when we
look at traveling, I know I do a lot of traveling,
so I'm very familiar with maps. Of course, online you
have map coests, and you have your different services you
can use to help you ply out your course. But
(06:59):
the key to it is as a visual aid for
you to know where you're going and you're able to
look at it and see while I'm here and you know,
I have to go there, And what happens when you
see that It dictates which roads and highways you're going
to go and use in order to get to that destination.
And the same can be applied to our lives. Whenever
(07:20):
we kind of see the direction and we see the
end goal. We see the end game, then you can
literally plot your course and make it to that destination.
But it takes half of that vision first, which is
the key component. But then after that you have to
have the courage to take the journey, to make the trip.
Because some people they can see it, they can visualize it,
(07:44):
and if they were to put forward any effort, there's
a great possibility they could I paint it and achieve it.
But because of that fear, fear of failure, fear of rejection,
they just decide not to take the trip. They decide
to play it safe, to set off for mediocrity and
just stay where they are, you know, whereas they see
where the potential that they have. People even tell them
(08:06):
looten man, a girl, you need to pursue that. I
can see you becoming this, I can see you on TV.
I can see your non nationwide, worldwide. But yet they
don't have the courage to go after what they see
and then sometimes what others see.
Speaker 7 (08:20):
Let me ask you a question. Let me jump in
here right quick, because I know so many distractions going
on right now, and people seem that to me have
a problem with staying focused. And yet don't you have
to remain focused. Even if you visualize something, don't you
have to stay focused.
Speaker 4 (08:40):
Yes, that is critical because what happens when you pursue
your vision. You're going to encounter unforeseen obstacles and circumstances.
And as you're stating, what happens when people when those
things arise, sometimes people they will shift their eyes off
of the goal and the prize and the vision and
they'll put it on those things. Now, of course, there
(09:02):
are some things that will happen in life that you
have to address. But even while addressing and definitely after dressing,
you want to get back to business, get back on track,
get back on the road, get back to going towards
that goal and that vision that you have. Always tell
people sometimes you're going to possibly take a detour. You
(09:24):
might get off and you know, get off and have
to follow a different route. You're gonna have to make adjustments.
Sometimes you have to make adjustments. And the length of
the goal, the time frame, you know, you have to
do all kinds. You have to make all kind of
modifications just to keep you on track. And as I say,
just relating it back to traveling. Sometimes you can have
(09:46):
your trip mapped out, but then all of a sudden
you run into some roadblocks, you run into some construction,
you run into some bad weather. Well, you don't stop
the trip, No, you just recalibrate. The GPS would would
give you an alternate route. But the whole point is
that you keep traveling until you get to your destination.
And oftentimes you might it might take a little longer
(10:08):
than expected. But the key, as you stated, is staying focused,
being persistent, and persistence is being able to continue after goals.
Has the idea despite the obstacles are hindrances, And that's
what happens sometimes people those things arise and they just stop.
They just they get off track, they lose focus, and
(10:29):
then you know, I notice when people lose their momentum,
that's what really knocks them out of the race because
they're not familiar with regaining and regenerating that momentum so
that they can get back on their journey. But yes,
being focused is they keep What.
Speaker 7 (10:46):
Do you say about people that I guess they use, Well,
once you go in this direction, was he supposed to
be doing that? And they'll tell you that they forgot.
Speaker 4 (11:00):
Well, if they were able to forget, then they really
didn't have that vision, and I would say, okay, if
they had a vision. You know, you have three types
of vision. I always teach this as well. You have imagination,
which is you you have vision or a dream which
is diviolenced by it comes from God. And then you
have an illusion which could come from the enemy of
(11:22):
the devil. And so if it's a God ordained vision
or dream, then you cannot forget it. You know, it's
just within your spirit. You won't even be allowed to
forget it. When you try to get off course, when
you try to stop, that vision and dream will literally
wake you up. It'll keep prompting you. You'll be irritated,
(11:43):
you'll be frustrated until you get back on track and
begin to go after that particular vision. And you know,
mental picture, that pictorial image that you have. But if
it's just you yourself, it's easy to forget because it's
just you and your imagination. And like I said, and
when you begin to encounter all of those of the
opposition and of different things that happen in life, if
(12:05):
it's just your imagination, it's like, oh, well, I'm not
even worried about that. You're not that very You're not
very serious about it, and if it's an illusion, you know,
it's just a deceptive picture that you really didn't believe
in any way, you know, and you come to the
realization that wasn't me. I wasn't you know, I wasn't
gonna be able to do that. That's that's not even me.
(12:25):
But as I said, if it's really a God given dream,
god given vision, god inspired vision, then you won't forget it.
You won't be able to forget it. Yeah.
Speaker 7 (12:37):
I was thinking people you know in the in the
business sector that have a function or a job, or
a commitment or even agreeing to even take on a task,
and somewhere in the middle of that, you know, well
I was going to do it, but I forgot.
Speaker 4 (12:56):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, well yeah, that comes with that comes
from actization, you know, and just being organized and knowing
what you're supposed to do because you know all of
the steps and a different task they are important and
so you definitely don't want to miss something that can
be very important to the to the overall bigger picture.
(13:17):
But yeah, you know, that boils down to just being
organized and prioritizing things and making sure that you cover
all your bases, cover all your steps, because this depends
on what it is. Sometimes if you miss one step,
one critical task, it'll just adversely affect the whole vision,
the whole dream, the whole goal of what we're supposed
(13:40):
to go on. And that's why, like I say, you
have to make sure that you organize your steps and
tasks and that you complete and basically check off everything.
But that, yes, it boils down to organization and prioritization.
Speaker 7 (13:52):
Yeah, I totally agree with that, because even though it
may not seem like a big issue, which the person
that is supposed to be tending to the task, they
don't know how detrimental it is to the other person.
Speaker 4 (14:09):
Yeah. Yeah, I always tell you know people this too,
and I share it in my books. You know, there's
nothing that's insignificant, no role, no task that's insignificant. And
oftentimes people will have titles and tasks that are behind
the scenes and they feel as Okay, it's not that
important if I'm not here, it won't matter if I
don't do my part. One, Yes it will, you know.
(14:30):
I know people sometimes look down for say janitors and
cooks and things of that nature, But let that janitor
not show up, and it's just for one night and
it's a total, totally different atmosphere the next day. That's
that you begin to learn and you see how critical
that person's job is. Although it may seem insignificant, it
(14:51):
is not. You know, let that head chef not show
up to that restaurant and which you know, he's behind
the scenes, he's behind the closed doors. Watch that's what
happens in that kitchen, how chaotic and crazy it is.
And that's why I'd like to like people to understand,
regardless of what role or task you're playing, it is
an integral part of that bigger picture, the bigger network.
(15:14):
So I don't ever see yourself or what you're doing
as insignificant because it isn't important. You need it, you
needed and whatever you're doing is necessary.
Speaker 7 (15:24):
Absolutely absolutely. Let me tell my listeners, you know, if
you like to join the conversation, all you got to
do is press number one on your phone and we'll
be glad to let you join in with your questions
and your comments. That's number one, that's the number right
before the two. All right, So David, you know I'm
(15:49):
listening to you, and I know that you're very articulate
young man. So let's talk about why is articulation so important.
Speaker 4 (16:00):
Yeah, it's one thing to see it, but then it's
another to be able to express it and share it
with others. And you want to be able to share
your vision, your dream, your goals with others so that
they can know how they can assist and help you if,
for instance, you're trying to you know, you want to
build a house or something, and you're going to need
(16:21):
help if you're trying to either get the general contract
or you're trying to beat the general contractor yourself. You
need to know how many bedrooms you want, how many bathrooms,
how many stories, and so you have to be able
to share that and give specific information, specific details, so
that the people who are doing it can have absolute
(16:42):
clarity and a full understanding of what they're supposed to do.
And this goes for anything that we're attempting to do
or even in the process of doing. You have to
know exactly what you're doing so that you can explain
it unto others. It's a profit and a Bible. Beck
he said, write the vision and make it plain so
that he may run that readed it. So as you
(17:05):
write it and you explain it, you analyze it, you
give the different steps, you give the different procedures than
those who are going to help you, either as on
your team, being a player on your team and an employee,
or even those who are purchasing your products. A lot
of times they want to know, Okay, I love what
you're doing. How can I help you? What else do
(17:28):
you need? But if you're confusing, like, well, I don't know.
I guess you could do this, but no, you have
to have clarity on that so that you can tell
others and then they can know exactly what they're supposed
to do. But if you don't, if you're not clear
on it and you can't share it, you know, that's
where the confusion comes in. Because I know many people
(17:50):
are very elaborate and even divine inspired visions, but they
failed to be able to communicate it to others. They
miss steps, they misinformation, they're not thorough and intimate with
it enough that they can't just break it down and
unveil it and reveal it to the person or to
(18:10):
the people who are going to assist them and accomplish
in this vision or dream. And that's why it's so
important to be able to break it down to share it,
write it down, get your goals, get your plans, get
your strategies, get your deadlines, get your overall timeline. And
then when you tell people, it's like, okay, I see
where you're going, I see what you are trying to do,
(18:32):
and then they'll also see where they fink. It's like, okay,
I see how I can help you now that you've
explained that. I've had that to happen to me over
and over again. Once I explain to them what I'm
trying to accomplish with direction I'm going in and what
I'm doing, and then it's like, okay, I see where
I can help you where you need help. I see
who I can connect you with who could also help
(18:53):
you even more. But that's the key to having that,
the ability to articulate it and share it, because people
pople don't know how to help you. If you just
have the vision but can't break it down.
Speaker 7 (19:06):
Great stuff. And I'm sure it's important to not to
speak to them in English if they only understand French.
Speaker 4 (19:15):
Exactly. You got to break it down and layman terms,
and you can't have it just too deep. You know,
you have to make it edible and just able to
be digested to even the most simplest person. You know,
just just break it down, take it time and make
it understandable, because I think one thing and I have
(19:36):
just being a visionary myself. Once you really understand your vision,
your goal, you're doing, where you're going, and you become
intimate with it, it's easy for you. But that ability
to cast it onto others you have to practice that
because you know, in your eyes, a lot of times
it's just normal. It's your first nature, say second nature,
(20:00):
but once you become intertwined with it, it becomes your
first nature. But you do a lot of things without
even thinking, without having to plan and strategize and organize.
It's routine. But to other people, you have to be
able to write that down. You have to be able
to organize it so that they can be able to
read the manual, read the instructions, read the directions you're
(20:24):
giving them, and then do it. You know, although it
is normal for you, when it comes to somebody else,
when you're trying to teach and train them, you have
to break it down. You have to explain them, you
have to give them examples, you have to walk them
through it. Even though it's just normal and routine for you.
Speaker 7 (20:41):
Yeah, I can definitely understand that. So people, open your eyes, listen.
What are the two forms of speaking?
Speaker 4 (20:50):
Well, you have your internal which is meditation, and that's
when you're speaking within yourself, speaking to yourself. And we
have this is a bible and an integral and component
because whatever you normally speak out, which is communication, it's
going to normally be the byproduct of what you're speaking
(21:11):
in that meditation. So what you're pondering on, what you're
thinking about, that's your end with communication. And I always
try to encourage people to, you know, use scriptures, use
positive affirmations, and listen to positive and instructional and educational
content that's going to give you some good words and
(21:33):
some some good insights to meditate on. Because some people's
problems it's what they're feeding themselves. And what I say,
what I mean by feeding whatever you listen to, whatever
you entertain yourself with, whatever you allowed to go through
your I gating into your ear gate, that's what you're
feeding your inner man, your soul with. And whatever you're
(21:54):
feeding yourself with, that's what you're going to be the
byproduct of. So if you're feeding yourself with inspirational, positive
of educational content, then you're gonna become more inspired, more educated.
If you're feeding yourself with ignorance, violence, aggressions, that's what
you're gonna become. That's what you're gonna manifest in your behavior,
and not just behavior. In that external communication, your words
(22:17):
are going to reflect what you've been meditating on. And
I always teach the concept of ingestion, digestion, regurgitation. So
whatever you're ingesting, whatever you're eating, and then that they regurgitate.
Whether the digestion is the meditation, that's equivalent of meditation,
and then whatever you're speaking, that's the communication of the regurgitation.
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You're putting that out of there out there, And that's
why you have to be mindful of what you're feeding,
What am I ingesting? What am I ingesting? Spiritually? You
know what am I ingesting in my mind? And then
what am I just pondering on and thinking about? And
then what am I saying? And if you are able
to contry role what you're ingesting, then you'll be able
(23:02):
to control what you're digesting and you'll be able to
control what you're regurgitating. It's all a process and it
involves those three steps. But what people don't realize is
how critical the ingestion is. Who are your sources that
are speaking into your life, or they're knowledgeable, or they're
you know, upstanding people, or do they have integrity or
(23:25):
they you know, just people doing whatever with living an
undisciplined life and just not playing by any rules, or
these are the people influencing you and giving your content
that you're meditating and then repeating. And you know that's
that's why those two opponents are very necessary in our
lives and our journey. And then just you know us
(23:48):
for ourselves being successful or unsuccessful, or even our mental
state and our disposition, all of that is controlled by
what and who is influencing us.
Speaker 7 (24:00):
So what would you tell What would you tell the
people that are having difficulties in that area? I mean
what baby steps would you tell them to take?
Speaker 4 (24:08):
Okay, baby step? Normally a lot of people are a
stated they're listening to the wrong stuff. For the first
step is to stop, you know, cut that down. For
some people that're going like, man, well I like it,
I'm going so accustomed to it. We'll wing yourself. I've
been there, done that. You know, you have to just
(24:28):
step by step listening to it. You know, maybe if
you listen to it every day, stop through five days,
and then replace that with some good, positive things. Find
you a podcast that that talks about what you're you're
trying to do, what you're trying to accomplish. If you're
a leader or a business owner, you're an aspiring entrepreneur,
(24:52):
you're an inspire aspiring artist, whatever you are, find content
that will share and teach you on that and begin
to replace that other negative and it might not even
be negative, but stuff that's just useless. You know, some
of us we preoccupy ourselves with just entertaining stuff and entertainment.
(25:14):
Entertainment is good, but you want to limit that because
it's not going to be fruitful and increase your productivity.
If you're just being entertained. You need more inspirational, educational
and spiritual content if you're looking to grow and develop.
But entertainment is just by making you feel good and
moving your soul and moving your emotions. So, like I'm saying,
(25:36):
limit that kind of stuff. That's the first thing. And
the second thing is researching and finding out what would
be relevant information for you, and then once you get that,
start incorporating it until your life. You know, I would
say start off maybe fifteen minutes a day. After that,
maybe thirty minutes a day. There may be in our day,
(25:59):
you know, if you can, man if you have that time.
But if you don't have that amount of time, just
however amount of time you have to listen to something
that's going to give you some knowledge, wisdom, and insight.
You can't replace that, you know, that's irreplaceable. Those are
those necessary intangibles that we need because we have a
(26:19):
need within us to stimulate our minds to grow and
to enhance and to develop. And those you know, those
are the steps I would say to take in order
to make that transition and begin to listen to things
that are worthwhile and more beneficial.
Speaker 7 (26:36):
Yeah, with that being said, everybody, mister Naylor just told
you guys to make sure you listen to this show.
Speaker 4 (26:42):
Yes, sir, exactly, prime example. Hey, prime example. You need
to tune in check it out.
Speaker 7 (26:51):
I just had I just had to take the time.
I just had to throw it out with in there. Man,
that was the perfect opportunity, yes, sir, So so mister Naylor.
Should a person write down their goals, dreams or is
it best to just you know, hold them in and
(27:12):
how they should handle that, speak them out only?
Speaker 2 (27:14):
What do you think?
Speaker 4 (27:16):
Yes, they need to write them down like I quoted earlier,
you know, write that vision, make it plain. But what
happens with my former background and teaching and education, what
we were tired of. What we learned is that the
more senses you incorporate in the learning process, it increases
the rate of retention of whatever it is you're trying
(27:38):
to learn. And that goes the same here with goals.
As you you know, if you're just speaking, that's just audible,
but then when you write it that that incorporates visual
and so now you have two senses that are focusing
and honing in on these goals and dreams. And it's
something about when you put something on paper and it
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stimulates your vision and it addresses the visual aspect of you,
it really stirs you up and sparks you. For example,
I know you've heard of it a lot of people
these days, they do those vision board parties. That's the
whole point of it there, putting your vision, like using
props and different cutouts and things of that nature to
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create a visual board that you can look at, and
what you're doing is incorporating another sense that's going to
stir you up and inspire you to go towards it.
And it's kind of funny, you know when you, like
I said, if you see it, you can seize it.
And so what happens when you incorporate that visual It
adds to your fate, It adds to your motivation, and
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now you're not just hearing it, but you're seeing it
and writing. And it's good. As I say that, if
you could get something like a picture of what you want,
like if you have a house you want, a business
you want, or something like that, if you can get
that visual representation, then now will add to your confidence,
it will add to your fate, and you will see
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yourself being more inspired by just looking at it. You know,
when we look at when we when we look at entertainment,
basically the music is one thing, but notice what they
do to help us to enjoy it even more. They
add the video. So now you're not just having an audio,
but you have the visual. You're incorporating that sense of vision,
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and vision is important and it's powerful when you add
the visual to your words and that's why you want
to write that vision down. So now it's not just
up open in the air, but it's written. And then
what it also does when you write it, it makes
you more accountable. Like you said earlier, if you don't
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write those tasks down, it's easy to forget. If you
don't write the vision, a plan, the dreams down is
easy to forget. But once you write it down, it
increases that accountability because now it's not just you speaking it,
but doc I wrote this down. It's almost like a
contract or personal contract that you have with yourself that
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you said you wanted to accomplish this and do this,
so it's you know, yes, we need to write it down.
Speaker 7 (30:16):
Yes, especially in today's times because there's so so so
many distractions out there.
Speaker 4 (30:23):
Yes, yes, these there really are, you know, and that
helps you, like to say what your focus to just
knowing that I've written this down, I've made a commitment
to this, so I need to bring it into put
all the work that I can towards it to try
to bring it into fruition.
Speaker 7 (30:39):
Yes, So the activation actualization in regards to dreams and destiny,
let's talk about that a little bit. In the Three
States of faith. I know, I'm curious to hear about that.
Speaker 4 (30:55):
Well, yes, the three states of faith. A lot of
this information as it comes from the program, comes from
a book. But what happens out, Yes, a Living Loving Leading.
You can go get it on Amazon dot com, you
can go to the website with the same name, Living
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Loving Leading dot net. Well, what we're talking about here,
appreciate that is the activation and actualization. First of all,
the activate activation. When you talk about three states of faith,
you have one of three things or three states of faith.
What's gonna show your lack of action or or your
the type of action that you put for. So the
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first state is the no faith state. This means you
really don't have faith. And at this level, a lot
of people even talk, you know, they really don't have faith.
It's just a bunch of hot air. It's just them
saying whatever. And when you at the no faith state,
that means you apply no works toward your vision or dream.
You might talk about it, you might get people third
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up and excited, but you gonna do anything towards that
goal of dreams. So that's the no faith state. The
second state is little fate, and here you put for
effort and energy, and you do tasks towards your goal
of dream. But as soon as opposition arises, as soon
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as you run into a roadblock a while, you cease
all activities towards that goal of dream and ess as
you say, well, nah, I can't do it, I don't
want to do it is too hard, it's too challenging.
And that's the little faith state. But then there's a
great faith state whereas you put forward actions and even
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when those obstacles and unforeseen circumstances arise, you keep on going,
you keep on perseverance. So this is a great faith state.
In other words, you are are put in your actions
in effect despite what's going on, even though life is happening,
even those things aren't happening the way you you figured
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they would, you continue on with your with your actions
because you show your your your faith by the way
you work and how you act. And so you want
to make sure you're operating in that last state. Because
those who are going to be great, those who are
going to achieve their dreams, manifest their destinies, you have
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to have great faith because it's not everything is not
going to go you wait, you're gonna face opposition, you're
gonna face closed doors, and you're gonna face delays and denials.
But the key is continuing on with your faith, with
your actions, despite what comes up and what happens. Because
the dream I like to equate it to puzzle pieces.
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And as you put, as you put for all your work,
and you you gather your puzzle pieces and you align them,
and you begin to do all your past, then the
last part is the actualization. Whereas you've done all that
you can, you put forward, all the works you you
you've made, all the contexts, you've gathered all the resources.
So now we should see the finality or the finalization
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of the dream. It should be the culmination. It should
be speaking now and not lying. Going back to the profit,
you say that the end of vision will speak and
not lie. And the reason why it speaks and it
actualizes at the end is because you get all of
the puzzle pieces. But at the beginning of your dream
or the pursuit of your dream, you only have a
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few puzzle pieces. Say, for instance, it takes ten puzzle pieces,
you might only have three or four pieces, and then
three or four task you know the complete Whereas you
keep on as you do those, then you're gonna have,
you know, only a few puzzle pieces left. In the middle,
you might have seven puzzle pieces, but you have three left.
So you keep on and then all of a sudden,
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once you get to the end, you should have all
ten puzzle pieces put in place, and your dream should
become your reality. Your reality should become your dream. Should
be able to see the finished product of what you
started off pursuing. And I could, you know, I have
personal examples with each book I've written, with each project, out,
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musical project I've produced, with my my janitorial business, just
with everything I'm doing. That was the process, and with
each of them, you know, none of it was smooth.
I had opposition, I had doors, told, I had all
kinds of things that happened, and trying to accomplish all
of those. But I had to put this process into effect.
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And so at the end, here you have the CDs,
Here you have the book. You know, here you have
the business that sustaining me and my family, providing employment
to others. But it all went through that process.
Speaker 7 (35:51):
And boy, and the devil is busy out there, isn't it.
Speaker 4 (35:56):
Yes? Indeed, yes, indeed, like I said when I I say,
so much happened as far as my dreams and visions,
and said, it's all in the book. You just you
just see like dogs. You know, it took something to
accomplish all of these things. It really did. And for me,
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since I knew it was a violent inspired no became.
It wasn't an option, you know, just stopping and quitting.
I had to complete those tasks and accomplish those goals
because it you know, God wouldn't allow me to just
sit on it and not do it. And like I
said before, I think I mentioned this in the last
interview that we had. You know, we have to adopt
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the acronym for NO for next option, new opportunity, not over.
So whenever you encounter the word no, or you encounter
or no from anyone, you just say, hey, it's on
to the next option. I'm looking for a new opportunity
because it's not over. And that's I had to literally
literally condition myself to do that because you can only
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imagine as a as a recording artist, I had to
have doors slammed in my face and nose. Okay, then
as a writer, I'd have doors slammed in my face
and nose as a speaker, same thing as a business own,
the same thing. So in order for me to maintain
my sanity, I had to develop that acronym. And I
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tell you, I mean I live according to that. I'm
not preaching something that I don't practice. I had to
practice that, and it is so effective and it has
got me to where I am today. But you know,
we have to just keep on going. Like you said,
the Devil's busy, people busy. You'll be surprised at the
opposition you'll face from family and friends and cowards.
Speaker 2 (37:48):
I wouldn't, you know, I wouldn't. I wouldn't.
Speaker 3 (37:53):
Look you got the captain, the bar all that.
Speaker 7 (37:55):
Uh No, I would not be surprised because I'm sitting
You're thinking that everything you're saying I dealt with over
and over and over again. And I think just having
the ability to be able to multi pass efficiently and
effectively is also a gift. You know, it's also a gift.
Speaker 4 (38:19):
Yes, yes, yes, Like you're saying, you know, you have
to be flexible and be able to do more than
one thing at one time, especially if you're talking about
being a business owner an entrepreneur. And that's ironic that
you're saying that because I was just thinking just this
morning all of the hats I had to wear when
I did my chanel Thorial business, and even outside of that,
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you know this path, the recent book I have, the
Living Love and Leading, I basically took on all roles
for that. And then even with this current project that
I have that we're releasing the Life you know I've
been I've been releasing the singles, but I'm going to
release the et later on in a fall. But I
basically took on all hats with that. You know, had
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some production, thank God for guy, my boy Everie Jones
contributed some tact that tracks there. But I did the
recording of it, the mixing, the master and I did
the CD design. I got the distribution. Same thing with
my book. I did the book design, I did the proofreading, editing,
did the distribution. And so that's what I'm saying. You know,
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my Johnsy business, I negotiated the contracts, wrote the contracts,
was the manager the bookkeeper. So you've got the buntitas.
Speaker 7 (39:34):
You got to yes, yes, and you definitely have to
have the fortitude to do it, because any one of
those things could have you to drive off the road
at any time.
Speaker 4 (39:44):
Yes, yes, it's so right, you know. And one thing
about it, whatever you don't know and you're not willing
to learn, you're gonna have to pay somebody else to
do it. And so you know, you're trying to boostrap it.
Speaker 6 (39:57):
Man.
Speaker 4 (39:58):
You know, you have to learn lot of things and
that way you can be more self sufficient.
Speaker 7 (40:03):
And you know, you know, miss I also find that
one thing is kind of ironic. And I definitely hope
our listeners have got a pin in paper and take
and write some of the stuff down. But what I
find is as ironic with most people these days, they
honestly don't know what they don't know.
Speaker 4 (40:21):
Yes, that's true.
Speaker 7 (40:23):
Think about that too, They don't know what they don't know,
because if you did know what you don't know, you
should have enough common sense to seek out those that
do that can help.
Speaker 4 (40:36):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, And I think what happens, like you say,
in many cases is just that ignorance. They just don't
know that they don't know. But then in some cases
it is foolishness and that they know, but they're refusing
to do anything about it. The first condition, you're more
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you're more gracious towards them because they just don't know.
You can help for an ignorant person, but it's it's
hard to help a fool because an ignorant person you.
Speaker 7 (41:10):
Because listen, you can help an ignorant person, but you
can't help out a stupid person.
Speaker 4 (41:16):
Yeah, you can't. I mean, look, it's that hard known
truth because ignorant means you just don't know. Like you said,
but if I give if you give an in person
ignorant person knowledge, they're gonna use it. They're gonna go
and succeed because they're gonna apply. They're gonna convert a
knowledge to wisdom, which is knowledge that's applied. But a fool,
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you you'll tell a fool, you tell it, like you said,
a stupid person, Okay, you need to do this, you
need to do that. And the key phrase that lets
you know you're dealing with a fool is that they'll
tell you, oh, I know that. You're like, what, I
know that. I know you're supposed they're breaking down to youth,
but yet you looking at them like why aren't you
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doing I don't want it. You're like, oh, okay, so
right then you know they a fool and I can't
help this person because you know, even they'll know, but
they just refuse to do it. They don't want to
do it. They have no desire sometimes to change. They
don't want to fix that situation. They're going to accustomed
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to it and they're just foolish. But like you said,
the ignorant person, once you reveal that truth to them,
you show them, you say, look, man, look girl, you know,
just do this, do this, and they'll be thankful, they'll
be grateful. But the fool you know, they I don't
want to hear that. I don't care. I already know,
and so that's the difference.
Speaker 7 (42:39):
But yeah, yes, yes, yes, I know we touched on
a little bit earlier though, but man, I know I
want to give our listeners the opportunity to make sure
the egg pins right and they have the paper. But
let's just talk a little bit about some of the
things that hinder them from fulfilling their purposes. I know
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we touched on it briefly, but identify a few of
those so they can definitely notate them, you know, because
it may be in their face and.
Speaker 4 (43:10):
They're explaining them away definitely. Well. Yeah, so one thing
is sometimes lack of resources, you know, sometimes of course
you need a little money to start something, and thank
God for like go fund me, thank God for people
who will believe in your vision before manifest really have faith,
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because that's what fate is, you know, believing in something
before materializing manifests. But you know, having those people who
are going to contribute and help you with those resources
as far as you know finances. But then also sometimes
you need people with certain skill sets, and at times
it might take a while to find those people. And
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I think one of the scariest and most challenging issues
is when you know someone with the skill set, but
then they're not willing to contribute and help you even
though you know them. And that's why I always teach
people don't get caught up on the who. Just get
caught up on what you need, because you'll you'll look
up and that person you know what the skill said,
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who refuse refuses to help you. That'll be somebody just
who you never thought of. It'll be a stranger that
are come in with that same skill set and in
many cases better than the person you you were counting
on with the skills that who you knew, and they'll
come and just contribute whatever it is and and you
know sometimes just donate whatever it is that you needed.
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And so you know that's one of the main keys
that are lack of resources, whether finances are people. And
then sometimes life just happens. You know, you can look
at young people sometimes, you know, young lady might get pregnant,
young man might have a baby, but he had dreams
of doing this or doing that, and that kind of
altered you know it all everything, It really significantly significantly
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affects your life. So now you know it's not that
it's impossible to achieve the dream, but your time frame
is gonna differ, and your priorities are gonna shift now
because now the child becomes important or whatever, and so
you have to deal with that. You know, sometimes loss
of a loved one, sickness, all kinds of things can
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happen that can hinder you from going towards your dream.
I know, with me, I experienced several partnership breakups. I
had I had it to happen twice. I had it
with my music and that I had it in Majeedatorial.
So when that happens, you have to now make all
kind of kind of adjustments because it was you and
another person and now you have to assume their responsibilities.
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Sometimes you have to clean up and fix things they
may have messed up. And you know, all of these
are just examples of things that can happen in life
that can really just mess you up and kind of
set you, set you back, and kind of set you
off course. But as a stay that you just have
to recalibrate how to fix those problems along the way
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and make your adjustments so that you can stay on
track and finue your journey towards your destiny.
Speaker 7 (46:16):
Yeah, and then when you have those types of situations,
you know, it takes a minute to recalibrate and get
your stuff back together because you kind of desponded, you
know what I mean, It's like, Okay, here I go again,
you know. And and when you've done that multiple times,
you mean, like what am I doing? Then it makes you,
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you know, your self reflect too. You're like, you know,
you've been through this before, and it actually challenges your
faith because you're like, well, why am I going through
this again?
Speaker 5 (46:47):
What?
Speaker 7 (46:47):
What what am I missing? What What do I need
to learn that I didn't get before? You know, And
then you have to then you figure out was it
really me, or is it just you know, the multitude
people in the world, and it's just like you know,
the throw of the dice. I just happen to get
saddled up with the wrong type of people. And then
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you recheck yourself again and then you say, well, maybe
it's not really me.
Speaker 4 (47:15):
You know, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. At times, like you said,
it'll throw you for a loop. A lot of times
it'll it'll knock you out for a little bit if
if you're not careful. But like you say, you just
have to self reflect, self evaluate and see, okay, was
it just me? And sometimes it's just who you selected,
it's just the person's personality. And sometimes you have you know,
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people have we have, like I guess, prototypes, a different
personalities general. And you what I noticed, I guess in
both of my situations have to reflect and as I
kind of selected the similar type of personality and because
of it, I got the same result. You know, it
happens basically clockward, the same format it happened in vote instances.
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And so I know I learned from that number one,
I won't ever do like a partnership whereas me and
a person, you know, now I can contract and be
like a consultant with someone, or do contract work before
me setting up and saying well, look we're going to
be business part we're going to do this. Like I said,
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it has happened twice, and I mean, you know, I
think even if I selected a different person, it just
has that potential along the way somewhere it happening again.
So I'd rather just work on a contract, you know,
where hey, we agree to do this and that instead
of like a long term just a business partnership, because
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it takes work from vote parties, and if if one
person decides, hey I don't want to do this, it
just messes everything up. So it's best to just have that,
you know, like a contract or. Like I said, well,
you know you kind of partner with personal maybe for
a season, but not for long term. You know. Yes,
it's kind of it's challenging when that happens.
Speaker 7 (49:07):
You know, it's unfortunate too. A lot of people nowadays,
you know, they have this self mentality and even though
they partner with you, they have ulterior motives. You know,
they they're not really there for the partnership. They there
to learn what you know, with every intention of not
being with you but just to get what you got
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in terms of knowledge to go out and actually be
your competitor. Go out and be your competitor.
Speaker 4 (49:33):
Oh yeah, yeah, they'll do that. They'll glean from you,
like you say, they get all the information, all the insights,
all the you know, the root there, the proceeds and everything,
and like you said, go out there and do their
own thing and become your competitor. That happens over and
over again.
Speaker 7 (49:50):
And that's why they won't won't you look and won't
give you no credit.
Speaker 3 (49:55):
Oh no, oh no, it's this.
Speaker 4 (49:59):
It's yeah, we just happened to, you know, do the
same thing. But yeah, that that is one of those
dangerous things that can happen, you know, one of the
results of trying to do a partnership. Yeah, it happens
all the time. And that's why I say it. You
know I will because of my experience. I won't do
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that again. I just be able to contract, do my part,
contribute this, you contribute that. But as far as I
was saying, Okay, this is gonna be our baby together,
that we're commit to this, no, sir, I think we've
all had that that definitely experience it.
Speaker 7 (50:37):
Like I said, you could help somebody educate them, school
on port them in the Dyke direction. And then if
you look on the line of notes and the credits,
the first thing they want to say, thank God, thank
my family, and your name won't be nowhere near there.
Speaker 4 (50:53):
Oh no, oh no, that's how it goes, you know.
But that's why, of course you you want to make
sure that whatever you do, just do it from the heart,
and that way, if they don't acknowledge you, you like,
you know, hey, it was it was all good. I
did it from the heart anyway, you know, it's a
blessing if you can acknowledge. But if not, no, you know,
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don't don't worry about it, you know, try not to
be bid or whatever. Just just release it. And that
way you're not feeling bad or feeling some type of
way about them and kind of keeping that on you,
you know, just release it and that way, at the
end of the day you're happy and you're cool.
Speaker 7 (51:33):
Yeah, try not to be better and don't try to
go blow up their house.
Speaker 4 (51:39):
I don't put a hit out on them.
Speaker 2 (51:42):
Yeah yeah, yeah.
Speaker 7 (51:45):
So what are some characteristics of those who you would
classify as achievers and movers and shakers?
Speaker 4 (51:53):
Well, definitely that resiliency factor. And resiliency is just the
ability to to bounce back from any traumatic experience that
you go through. And I know, I kind of share
different people in my book. I think it's like four
people that I share who exhibited resilience in their lives.
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And one of the people is definitely like Oprah Winfrey.
As you study her life and her childhood, man, she
went through some things, but to be who she is
and where she is and what she is today, it
just shows a great amount of resiliency to be able
to bounce back from all of her traumatic experiences and
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be who she is and you know where she is.
And then also looking at like another good example in
studying history on Abraham Lincoln went through a lot of things.
You know, had a sweetheart, to diet, a nervous breakdown,
he lost so many times as he was trying to
get into office. But then finally he reached that place
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of becoming a president after all of the things, the
setbacks and the things that he went through. And like
I said, you know, I give this examples of the
resiliency fact, the fact that which is so important. Then
the other thing is flexibility and what I've learned. Sometimes
people in life and in certain junctures where you are,
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you have different strategies and coping mechanisms you will have
to use in order to make it well. Sometimes once
you transition into another state, in another place in life,
you have to be able to make the adjustment to
now utilize and employee strategies that are relevant to this
current place. And what I see people doing. They will
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take strategies from a former level in a formal place
and try to bring them into new places where they're
not relevant, and sometimes they're not even appropriate. And that's
why you have to be flexible to know, Okay, I
did that there, but here I don't have to use
that strategy. I don't have to do that, you know,
because it's a different place that I am in life now.
(54:05):
You know, for instance, you might be in a place
where things are kind of tight, so you have to,
you know, get loans, you have to you know, hustle
and do this and do that in order to make
ends meet. But all of a sudden you get blessed.
Now your income is exceeding your expenses. So now you
shouldn't still be trying to get loans and do different
you know, different things you were doing in order to
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bring an income, because now you're making enough. Now it's
all about budgeting and spending appropriately and having discipline because
you know, the former place you might have just been
in lack, but now you're in a place of abundance.
So now you you can have it and you don't
have to get loans and stuff. Because I see people,
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some people just it doesn't matter how much money you
give them, they're going to always be in debt because
they lack discipline. They lack money management management skills. And
that's what I'm saying, you know, being able to make
adjustments when you get into different places, and so knowing
where you are and that that requires that flexibility so
that you can adjust and do the things you need
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to in a place you're in now. And then I
think another thing will be that discipline, because what I
found in life, discipline goes a long way. And I
outline this that you know, girl, you're about to say something,
mister Patterson. No, no, yes, right, okay, yeah, So it
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goes into like money management, discipline goes into it goes
into emotional control, it goes into time management, it goes
into parenting and leadership, it goes into professionalism. All these
things are tied to discipline. And what I defined discipline
is as is the ability to stop doing things that
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are detrimental and harmful to you and to be able
to start doing things that are benefit and positive to you,
but doing now, and not just doing them, but doing
them consistently. That's what discipline enables you to do. And
we can even go into exercise and being fit and
taking care of our bodies. It requires discipline. You know,
(56:17):
everybody at the beginning of the year gets the everybody
gets the gym membership and oh, I'm gonna lose twenty
pounds finally this year, I'm gonna do it. Everybody starts
it and I laugh. Every year it's the same tackle
of my gym. You got that crowd, that January crowd
for I made no room on Trasvia, no room on
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the way parking lite for. But it's like, okay, this
will last. Briber messfept where the longest early March. But
by then we just gonna be back to normal. And
so that's what I'm saying. Discipline causes you to keep going.
It goes beyond just the feelings you know, I don't
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want to. I want to. Once you discipline yourself, it
becomes your routine whether you want to or not. You know,
you have to be just really sick or really hurting,
or just too tired or too busy to do it.
But once you discipline yourself in these different areas, you
begin to become consistent, You begin to be dependable, reliable,
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and you become effective and efficient because you discipline yourself,
you organize yourself, You set yourself up to constantly do
those routines and necessary strategies so that you can succeed.
But yeah, discipline is so powerful and it also helps
with like you were talking about earlier, mister Patterson, being focused.
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That's what discipline allows to and helps you with. It
helps you put those blinders on to the things that
are trying to distract you, and you're able to hone
in and focus on that goal and that agenda and dream.
Speaker 7 (57:55):
You got yes, And you definitely said yourself, not a
buddy plan, because if you depend on somebody else with discipline,
you're gonna fail every time. But mister Naylor, were gone
to the last minute or so the show man tell everybody, well,
they can go get your book, get.
Speaker 4 (58:10):
In contact with you, Okay, yes, sir, Living Loving Leading.
You can go on Amazon dot com you have the
e book as well as the hard copy. Or you
can go to my site at Living Loving dot net.
Also thereal dot org if that's the easiest thing you
can remember d A r i L dot org. Go
there have all my site. I'm on Facebook Daman d
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the number one. Yes, sir, yes, And I.
Speaker 7 (58:44):
Want to thank you again for coming through and chopping
it up with us, man, and we're definitely gonna have
you come back on man. I love your positive message, Man,
I love your ability man to encourage people, to motivate people.
And I think we need more people out there such
as yourself. Man. You know so, I'm gonna invite you
to come back through Man and anytime.
Speaker 4 (59:05):
You want, anytime you want, Yes, Sair, we thank you,
We will be back and appreciate the platform your provider,
mis A Patterson, thank you so much. An job myself
love your spirit and energy too, Yes.
Speaker 7 (59:16):
Sir, Yes, sir, mister Damon the real nailor everybody, And
if you didn't miss, if you didn't get all the show,
it'll be available worldwide and a few moments, and if
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He knows the guy at the store. So you have
(59:37):
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There's always links to the show, So you have no
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(59:58):
some way to straighten out the problem points and time
in your life. So it's now, with all this drama
and crazy stuff going on out there in the world,
now is the times to fix it. You can't fix everybody,
but you can fix yourself. So come back next week,
same time, and blessings to you all, and thank you
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What you're going through, what he's done for me.
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Speaker 7 (03:55):
Welcome everybody. This is kind of playing play and this
is your host, Them Patterson. Thank you for joining us today.
We know you could be somewhere else doing some other
things instead of sitting here listening to this show, and
we appreciate you and love you for that. Today we
got a great show lined up for you. We got
mister Damon drel Naylor, better known as the Renaissance Man.
(04:18):
He's an Aouther speaker, leadership trainer, consultant, educator, and amongst
other things, you know. But we're gonna let him tell
you about that, and we're gonna jump in to the show.
I just had to give a minute or two the
big boy upstairs. You know, it's my belief and I
hope it is yours. You know, with his help, you know,
we can get through these trying times. And that's exactly
(04:41):
what we're dealing with right about now, some trying times, boy,
because it's a whole lot of crazy ish going on
out Daniel's world right about now, so hopefully he'll find
a way to help us see through this soon, sooner
than later. So with that being said, let me see,
is mister Naylor with us?
Speaker 4 (05:02):
Hello? Hello, what's going on? Mister Patterson?
Speaker 7 (05:06):
Oh man, I'm well, Thank god, thank you for joining us.
I hope you and your family are doing well.
Speaker 4 (05:12):
Also, Yester, all as well on this and we're blessed
and thankful to be alive and thankful for this opportunity
to chat again with and to share with you and
your listeners. Man, we appreciate you.
Speaker 7 (05:26):
We appreciate you as well. I guess today we're gonna
be talking about singing, singing and seizing, and I think
the title should I say the topic of the show
is definitely got me scratching my head and those are
some powerful words. So you know, we're gonna definitely put
(05:47):
meaning to those words for our listeners, you know, the
ones that are still sleep. And I hate to say that,
but it's a lot of people out there in the
world is actually still sleep. Even though they got their
eyes open, they are still sleep.
Speaker 4 (06:02):
Yeah, wide open, like you say, still sleep, feel asleep?
Speaker 7 (06:07):
Yes, sir, I like this about have the courage to
pursue your vision. So let's let's kind of start there.
Speaker 4 (06:16):
Okay, Well, the key is wherever we're going to head
and the direction we're going to go. In life, we
have to be bold and courageous about it. But as
you state it, we have to be in an awake state.
In order to be able to see and visualize, you
have to be conscious and know and at least not
(06:38):
we're not going to fully know, but have a sense
of direction of where you're going, being able to see
it before you get there. And for instance, when we
look at traveling, I know I do a lot of traveling,
so I'm very familiar with maps. Of course, online you
have map coests, and you have your different services you
can use to help you ply out your course. But
(06:59):
the key to it is as a visual aid for
you to know where you're going and you're able to
look at it and see while I'm here and you know,
I have to go there, And what happens when you
see that It dictates which roads and highways you're going
to go and use in order to get to that destination.
And the same can be applied to our lives. Whenever
(07:20):
we kind of see the direction and we see the
end goal. We see the end game, then you can
literally plot your course and make it to that destination.
But it takes half of that vision first, which is
the key component. But then after that you have to
have the courage to take the journey, to make the trip.
Because some people they can see it, they can visualize it,
(07:44):
and if they were to put forward any effort, there's
a great possibility they could I paint it and achieve it.
But because of that fear, fear of failure, fear of rejection,
they just decide not to take the trip. They decide
to play it safe, to set off for mediocrity and
just stay where they are, you know, whereas they see
where the potential that they have. People even tell them
(08:06):
looten man, a girl, you need to pursue that. I
can see you becoming this, I can see you on TV.
I can see your non nationwide, worldwide. But yet they
don't have the courage to go after what they see
and then sometimes what others see.
Speaker 7 (08:20):
Let me ask you a question. Let me jump in
here right quick, because I know so many distractions going
on right now, and people seem that to me have
a problem with staying focused. And yet don't you have
to remain focused. Even if you visualize something, don't you
have to stay focused.
Speaker 4 (08:40):
Yes, that is critical because what happens when you pursue
your vision. You're going to encounter unforeseen obstacles and circumstances.
And as you're stating, what happens when people when those
things arise, sometimes people they will shift their eyes off
of the goal and the prize and the vision and
they'll put it on those things. Now, of course, there
(09:02):
are some things that will happen in life that you
have to address. But even while addressing and definitely after dressing,
you want to get back to business, get back on track,
get back on the road, get back to going towards
that goal and that vision that you have. Always tell
people sometimes you're going to possibly take a detour. You
(09:24):
might get off and you know, get off and have
to follow a different route. You're gonna have to make adjustments.
Sometimes you have to make adjustments. And the length of
the goal, the time frame, you know, you have to
do all kinds. You have to make all kind of
modifications just to keep you on track. And as I say,
just relating it back to traveling. Sometimes you can have
(09:46):
your trip mapped out, but then all of a sudden
you run into some roadblocks, you run into some construction,
you run into some bad weather. Well, you don't stop
the trip, No, you just recalibrate. The GPS would would
give you an alternate route. But the whole point is
that you keep traveling until you get to your destination.
And oftentimes you might it might take a little longer
(10:08):
than expected. But the key, as you stated, is staying focused,
being persistent, and persistence is being able to continue after goals.
Has the idea despite the obstacles are hindrances, And that's
what happens sometimes people those things arise and they just stop.
They just they get off track, they lose focus, and
(10:29):
then you know, I notice when people lose their momentum,
that's what really knocks them out of the race because
they're not familiar with regaining and regenerating that momentum so
that they can get back on their journey. But yes,
being focused is they keep What.
Speaker 7 (10:46):
Do you say about people that I guess they use, Well,
once you go in this direction, was he supposed to
be doing that? And they'll tell you that they forgot.
Speaker 4 (11:00):
Well, if they were able to forget, then they really
didn't have that vision, and I would say, okay, if
they had a vision. You know, you have three types
of vision. I always teach this as well. You have imagination,
which is you you have vision or a dream which
is diviolenced by it comes from God. And then you
have an illusion which could come from the enemy of
(11:22):
the devil. And so if it's a God ordained vision
or dream, then you cannot forget it. You know, it's
just within your spirit. You won't even be allowed to
forget it. When you try to get off course, when
you try to stop, that vision and dream will literally
wake you up. It'll keep prompting you. You'll be irritated,
(11:43):
you'll be frustrated until you get back on track and
begin to go after that particular vision. And you know,
mental picture, that pictorial image that you have. But if
it's just you yourself, it's easy to forget because it's
just you and your imagination. And like I said, and
when you begin to encounter all of those of the
opposition and of different things that happen in life, if
(12:05):
it's just your imagination, it's like, oh, well, I'm not
even worried about that. You're not that very You're not
very serious about it, and if it's an illusion, you know,
it's just a deceptive picture that you really didn't believe
in any way, you know, and you come to the
realization that wasn't me. I wasn't you know, I wasn't
gonna be able to do that. That's that's not even me.
(12:25):
But as I said, if it's really a God given dream,
god given vision, god inspired vision, then you won't forget it.
You won't be able to forget it. Yeah.
Speaker 7 (12:37):
I was thinking people you know in the in the
business sector that have a function or a job, or
a commitment or even agreeing to even take on a task,
and somewhere in the middle of that, you know, well
I was going to do it, but I forgot.
Speaker 4 (12:56):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, well yeah, that comes with that comes
from actization, you know, and just being organized and knowing
what you're supposed to do because you know all of
the steps and a different task they are important and
so you definitely don't want to miss something that can
be very important to the to the overall bigger picture.
(13:17):
But yeah, you know, that boils down to just being
organized and prioritizing things and making sure that you cover
all your bases, cover all your steps, because this depends
on what it is. Sometimes if you miss one step,
one critical task, it'll just adversely affect the whole vision,
the whole dream, the whole goal of what we're supposed
(13:40):
to go on. And that's why, like I say, you
have to make sure that you organize your steps and
tasks and that you complete and basically check off everything.
But that, yes, it boils down to organization and prioritization.
Speaker 7 (13:52):
Yeah, I totally agree with that, because even though it
may not seem like a big issue, which the person
that is supposed to be tending to the task, they
don't know how detrimental it is to the other person.
Speaker 4 (14:09):
Yeah. Yeah, I always tell you know people this too,
and I share it in my books. You know, there's
nothing that's insignificant, no role, no task that's insignificant. And
oftentimes people will have titles and tasks that are behind
the scenes and they feel as Okay, it's not that
important if I'm not here, it won't matter if I
don't do my part. One, Yes it will, you know.
(14:30):
I know people sometimes look down for say janitors and
cooks and things of that nature, But let that janitor
not show up, and it's just for one night and
it's a total, totally different atmosphere the next day. That's
that you begin to learn and you see how critical
that person's job is. Although it may seem insignificant, it
(14:51):
is not. You know, let that head chef not show
up to that restaurant and which you know, he's behind
the scenes, he's behind the closed doors. Watch that's what
happens in that kitchen, how chaotic and crazy it is.
And that's why I'd like to like people to understand,
regardless of what role or task you're playing, it is
an integral part of that bigger picture, the bigger network.
(15:14):
So I don't ever see yourself or what you're doing
as insignificant because it isn't important. You need it, you
needed and whatever you're doing is necessary.
Speaker 7 (15:24):
Absolutely absolutely. Let me tell my listeners, you know, if
you like to join the conversation, all you got to
do is press number one on your phone and we'll
be glad to let you join in with your questions
and your comments. That's number one, that's the number right
before the two. All right, So David, you know I'm
(15:49):
listening to you, and I know that you're very articulate
young man. So let's talk about why is articulation so important.
Speaker 4 (16:00):
Yeah, it's one thing to see it, but then it's
another to be able to express it and share it
with others. And you want to be able to share
your vision, your dream, your goals with others so that
they can know how they can assist and help you if,
for instance, you're trying to you know, you want to
build a house or something, and you're going to need
(16:21):
help if you're trying to either get the general contract
or you're trying to beat the general contractor yourself. You
need to know how many bedrooms you want, how many bathrooms,
how many stories, and so you have to be able
to share that and give specific information, specific details, so
that the people who are doing it can have absolute
(16:42):
clarity and a full understanding of what they're supposed to do.
And this goes for anything that we're attempting to do
or even in the process of doing. You have to
know exactly what you're doing so that you can explain
it unto others. It's a profit and a Bible. Beck
he said, write the vision and make it plain so
that he may run that readed it. So as you
(17:05):
write it and you explain it, you analyze it, you
give the different steps, you give the different procedures than
those who are going to help you, either as on
your team, being a player on your team and an employee,
or even those who are purchasing your products. A lot
of times they want to know, Okay, I love what
you're doing. How can I help you? What else do
(17:28):
you need? But if you're confusing, like, well, I don't know.
I guess you could do this, but no, you have
to have clarity on that so that you can tell
others and then they can know exactly what they're supposed
to do. But if you don't, if you're not clear
on it and you can't share it, you know, that's
where the confusion comes in. Because I know many people
(17:50):
are very elaborate and even divine inspired visions, but they
failed to be able to communicate it to others. They
miss steps, they misinformation, they're not thorough and intimate with
it enough that they can't just break it down and
unveil it and reveal it to the person or to
(18:10):
the people who are going to assist them and accomplish
in this vision or dream. And that's why it's so
important to be able to break it down to share it,
write it down, get your goals, get your plans, get
your strategies, get your deadlines, get your overall timeline. And
then when you tell people, it's like, okay, I see
where you're going, I see what you are trying to do,
(18:32):
and then they'll also see where they fink. It's like, okay,
I see how I can help you now that you've
explained that. I've had that to happen to me over
and over again. Once I explain to them what I'm
trying to accomplish with direction I'm going in and what
I'm doing, and then it's like, okay, I see where
I can help you where you need help. I see
who I can connect you with who could also help
(18:53):
you even more. But that's the key to having that,
the ability to articulate it and share it, because people
pople don't know how to help you. If you just
have the vision but can't break it down.
Speaker 7 (19:06):
Great stuff. And I'm sure it's important to not to
speak to them in English if they only understand French.
Speaker 4 (19:15):
Exactly. You got to break it down and layman terms,
and you can't have it just too deep. You know,
you have to make it edible and just able to
be digested to even the most simplest person. You know,
just just break it down, take it time and make
it understandable, because I think one thing and I have
(19:36):
just being a visionary myself. Once you really understand your vision,
your goal, you're doing, where you're going, and you become
intimate with it, it's easy for you. But that ability
to cast it onto others you have to practice that
because you know, in your eyes, a lot of times
it's just normal. It's your first nature, say second nature,
(20:00):
but once you become intertwined with it, it becomes your
first nature. But you do a lot of things without
even thinking, without having to plan and strategize and organize.
It's routine. But to other people, you have to be
able to write that down. You have to be able
to organize it so that they can be able to
read the manual, read the instructions, read the directions you're
(20:24):
giving them, and then do it. You know, although it
is normal for you, when it comes to somebody else,
when you're trying to teach and train them, you have
to break it down. You have to explain them, you
have to give them examples, you have to walk them
through it. Even though it's just normal and routine for you.
Speaker 7 (20:41):
Yeah, I can definitely understand that. So people, open your eyes, listen.
What are the two forms of speaking?
Speaker 4 (20:50):
Well, you have your internal which is meditation, and that's
when you're speaking within yourself, speaking to yourself. And we
have this is a bible and an integral and component
because whatever you normally speak out, which is communication, it's
going to normally be the byproduct of what you're speaking
(21:11):
in that meditation. So what you're pondering on, what you're
thinking about, that's your end with communication. And I always
try to encourage people to, you know, use scriptures, use
positive affirmations, and listen to positive and instructional and educational
content that's going to give you some good words and
(21:33):
some some good insights to meditate on. Because some people's
problems it's what they're feeding themselves. And what I say,
what I mean by feeding whatever you listen to, whatever
you entertain yourself with, whatever you allowed to go through
your I gating into your ear gate, that's what you're
feeding your inner man, your soul with. And whatever you're
(21:54):
feeding yourself with, that's what you're going to be the
byproduct of. So if you're feeding yourself with inspirational, positive
of educational content, then you're gonna become more inspired, more educated.
If you're feeding yourself with ignorance, violence, aggressions, that's what
you're gonna become. That's what you're gonna manifest in your behavior,
and not just behavior. In that external communication, your words
(22:17):
are going to reflect what you've been meditating on. And
I always teach the concept of ingestion, digestion, regurgitation. So
whatever you're ingesting, whatever you're eating, and then that they regurgitate.
Whether the digestion is the meditation, that's equivalent of meditation,
and then whatever you're speaking, that's the communication of the regurgitation.
(22:40):
You're putting that out of there out there, And that's
why you have to be mindful of what you're feeding,
What am I ingesting? What am I ingesting? Spiritually? You
know what am I ingesting in my mind? And then
what am I just pondering on and thinking about? And
then what am I saying? And if you are able
to contry role what you're ingesting, then you'll be able
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to control what you're digesting and you'll be able to
control what you're regurgitating. It's all a process and it
involves those three steps. But what people don't realize is
how critical the ingestion is. Who are your sources that
are speaking into your life, or they're knowledgeable, or they're
you know, upstanding people, or do they have integrity or
(23:25):
they you know, just people doing whatever with living an
undisciplined life and just not playing by any rules, or
these are the people influencing you and giving your content
that you're meditating and then repeating. And you know that's
that's why those two opponents are very necessary in our
lives and our journey. And then just you know us
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for ourselves being successful or unsuccessful, or even our mental
state and our disposition, all of that is controlled by
what and who is influencing us.
Speaker 7 (24:00):
So what would you tell What would you tell the
people that are having difficulties in that area? I mean
what baby steps would you tell them to take?
Speaker 4 (24:08):
Okay, baby step? Normally a lot of people are a
stated they're listening to the wrong stuff. For the first
step is to stop, you know, cut that down. For
some people that're going like, man, well I like it,
I'm going so accustomed to it. We'll wing yourself. I've
been there, done that. You know, you have to just
(24:28):
step by step listening to it. You know, maybe if
you listen to it every day, stop through five days,
and then replace that with some good, positive things. Find
you a podcast that that talks about what you're you're
trying to do, what you're trying to accomplish. If you're
a leader or a business owner, you're an aspiring entrepreneur,
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you're an inspire aspiring artist, whatever you are, find content
that will share and teach you on that and begin
to replace that other negative and it might not even
be negative, but stuff that's just useless. You know, some
of us we preoccupy ourselves with just entertaining stuff and entertainment.
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Entertainment is good, but you want to limit that because
it's not going to be fruitful and increase your productivity.
If you're just being entertained. You need more inspirational, educational
and spiritual content if you're looking to grow and develop.
But entertainment is just by making you feel good and
moving your soul and moving your emotions. So, like I'm saying,
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limit that kind of stuff. That's the first thing. And
the second thing is researching and finding out what would
be relevant information for you, and then once you get that,
start incorporating it until your life. You know, I would
say start off maybe fifteen minutes a day. After that,
maybe thirty minutes a day. There may be in our day,
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you know, if you can, man if you have that time.
But if you don't have that amount of time, just
however amount of time you have to listen to something
that's going to give you some knowledge, wisdom, and insight.
You can't replace that, you know, that's irreplaceable. Those are
those necessary intangibles that we need because we have a
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need within us to stimulate our minds to grow and
to enhance and to develop. And those you know, those
are the steps I would say to take in order
to make that transition and begin to listen to things
that are worthwhile and more beneficial.
Speaker 7 (26:36):
Yeah, with that being said, everybody, mister Naylor just told
you guys to make sure you listen to this show.
Speaker 4 (26:42):
Yes, sir, exactly, prime example. Hey, prime example. You need
to tune in check it out.
Speaker 7 (26:51):
I just had I just had to take the time.
I just had to throw it out with in there. Man,
that was the perfect opportunity, yes, sir, So so mister Naylor.
Should a person write down their goals, dreams or is
it best to just you know, hold them in and
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how they should handle that, speak them out only?
Speaker 2 (27:14):
What do you think?
Speaker 4 (27:16):
Yes, they need to write them down like I quoted earlier,
you know, write that vision, make it plain. But what
happens with my former background and teaching and education, what
we were tired of. What we learned is that the
more senses you incorporate in the learning process, it increases
the rate of retention of whatever it is you're trying
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to learn. And that goes the same here with goals.
As you you know, if you're just speaking, that's just audible,
but then when you write it that that incorporates visual
and so now you have two senses that are focusing
and honing in on these goals and dreams. And it's
something about when you put something on paper and it
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stimulates your vision and it addresses the visual aspect of you,
it really stirs you up and sparks you. For example,
I know you've heard of it a lot of people
these days, they do those vision board parties. That's the
whole point of it there, putting your vision, like using
props and different cutouts and things of that nature to
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create a visual board that you can look at, and
what you're doing is incorporating another sense that's going to
stir you up and inspire you to go towards it.
And it's kind of funny, you know when you, like
I said, if you see it, you can seize it.
And so what happens when you incorporate that visual It
adds to your fate, It adds to your motivation, and
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now you're not just hearing it, but you're seeing it
and writing. And it's good. As I say that, if
you could get something like a picture of what you want,
like if you have a house you want, a business
you want, or something like that, if you can get
that visual representation, then now will add to your confidence,
it will add to your fate, and you will see
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yourself being more inspired by just looking at it. You know,
when we look at when we when we look at entertainment,
basically the music is one thing, but notice what they
do to help us to enjoy it even more. They
add the video. So now you're not just having an audio,
but you have the visual. You're incorporating that sense of vision,
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and vision is important and it's powerful when you add
the visual to your words and that's why you want
to write that vision down. So now it's not just
up open in the air, but it's written. And then
what it also does when you write it, it makes
you more accountable. Like you said earlier, if you don't
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write those tasks down, it's easy to forget. If you
don't write the vision, a plan, the dreams down is
easy to forget. But once you write it down, it
increases that accountability because now it's not just you speaking it,
but doc I wrote this down. It's almost like a
contract or personal contract that you have with yourself that
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you said you wanted to accomplish this and do this,
so it's you know, yes, we need to write it down.
Speaker 7 (30:16):
Yes, especially in today's times because there's so so so
many distractions out there.
Speaker 4 (30:23):
Yes, yes, these there really are, you know, and that
helps you, like to say what your focus to just
knowing that I've written this down, I've made a commitment
to this, so I need to bring it into put
all the work that I can towards it to try
to bring it into fruition.
Speaker 7 (30:39):
Yes, So the activation actualization in regards to dreams and destiny,
let's talk about that a little bit. In the Three
States of faith. I know, I'm curious to hear about that.
Speaker 4 (30:55):
Well, yes, the three states of faith. A lot of
this information as it comes from the program, comes from
a book. But what happens out, Yes, a Living Loving Leading.
You can go get it on Amazon dot com, you
can go to the website with the same name, Living
(31:15):
Loving Leading dot net. Well, what we're talking about here,
appreciate that is the activation and actualization. First of all,
the activate activation. When you talk about three states of faith,
you have one of three things or three states of faith.
What's gonna show your lack of action or or your
the type of action that you put for. So the
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first state is the no faith state. This means you
really don't have faith. And at this level, a lot
of people even talk, you know, they really don't have faith.
It's just a bunch of hot air. It's just them
saying whatever. And when you at the no faith state,
that means you apply no works toward your vision or dream.
You might talk about it, you might get people third
(31:58):
up and excited, but you gonna do anything towards that
goal of dreams. So that's the no faith state. The
second state is little fate, and here you put for
effort and energy, and you do tasks towards your goal
of dream. But as soon as opposition arises, as soon
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as you run into a roadblock a while, you cease
all activities towards that goal of dream and ess as
you say, well, nah, I can't do it, I don't
want to do it is too hard, it's too challenging.
And that's the little faith state. But then there's a
great faith state whereas you put forward actions and even
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when those obstacles and unforeseen circumstances arise, you keep on going,
you keep on perseverance. So this is a great faith state.
In other words, you are are put in your actions
in effect despite what's going on, even though life is happening,
even those things aren't happening the way you you figured
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they would, you continue on with your with your actions
because you show your your your faith by the way
you work and how you act. And so you want
to make sure you're operating in that last state. Because
those who are going to be great, those who are
going to achieve their dreams, manifest their destinies, you have
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to have great faith because it's not everything is not
going to go you wait, you're gonna face opposition, you're
gonna face closed doors, and you're gonna face delays and denials.
But the key is continuing on with your faith, with
your actions, despite what comes up and what happens. Because
the dream I like to equate it to puzzle pieces.
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And as you put, as you put for all your work,
and you you gather your puzzle pieces and you align them,
and you begin to do all your past, then the
last part is the actualization. Whereas you've done all that
you can, you put forward, all the works you you
you've made, all the contexts, you've gathered all the resources.
So now we should see the finality or the finalization
(34:07):
of the dream. It should be the culmination. It should
be speaking now and not lying. Going back to the profit,
you say that the end of vision will speak and
not lie. And the reason why it speaks and it
actualizes at the end is because you get all of
the puzzle pieces. But at the beginning of your dream
or the pursuit of your dream, you only have a
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few puzzle pieces. Say, for instance, it takes ten puzzle pieces,
you might only have three or four pieces, and then
three or four task you know the complete Whereas you
keep on as you do those, then you're gonna have,
you know, only a few puzzle pieces left. In the middle,
you might have seven puzzle pieces, but you have three left.
So you keep on and then all of a sudden,
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once you get to the end, you should have all
ten puzzle pieces put in place, and your dream should
become your reality. Your reality should become your dream. Should
be able to see the finished product of what you
started off pursuing. And I could, you know, I have
personal examples with each book I've written, with each project, out,
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musical project I've produced, with my my janitorial business, just
with everything I'm doing. That was the process, and with
each of them, you know, none of it was smooth.
I had opposition, I had doors, told, I had all
kinds of things that happened, and trying to accomplish all
of those. But I had to put this process into effect.
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And so at the end, here you have the CDs,
Here you have the book. You know, here you have
the business that sustaining me and my family, providing employment
to others. But it all went through that process.
Speaker 7 (35:51):
And boy, and the devil is busy out there, isn't it.
Speaker 4 (35:56):
Yes? Indeed, yes, indeed, like I said when I I say,
so much happened as far as my dreams and visions,
and said, it's all in the book. You just you
just see like dogs. You know, it took something to
accomplish all of these things. It really did. And for me,
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since I knew it was a violent inspired no became.
It wasn't an option, you know, just stopping and quitting.
I had to complete those tasks and accomplish those goals
because it you know, God wouldn't allow me to just
sit on it and not do it. And like I
said before, I think I mentioned this in the last
interview that we had. You know, we have to adopt
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the acronym for NO for next option, new opportunity, not over.
So whenever you encounter the word no, or you encounter
or no from anyone, you just say, hey, it's on
to the next option. I'm looking for a new opportunity
because it's not over. And that's I had to literally
literally condition myself to do that because you can only
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imagine as a as a recording artist, I had to
have doors slammed in my face and nose. Okay, then
as a writer, I'd have doors slammed in my face
and nose as a speaker, same thing as a business own,
the same thing. So in order for me to maintain
my sanity, I had to develop that acronym. And I
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tell you, I mean I live according to that. I'm
not preaching something that I don't practice. I had to
practice that, and it is so effective and it has
got me to where I am today. But you know,
we have to just keep on going. Like you said,
the Devil's busy, people busy. You'll be surprised at the
opposition you'll face from family and friends and cowards.
Speaker 2 (37:48):
I wouldn't, you know, I wouldn't. I wouldn't.
Speaker 3 (37:53):
Look you got the captain, the bar all that.
Speaker 7 (37:55):
Uh No, I would not be surprised because I'm sitting
You're thinking that everything you're saying I dealt with over
and over and over again. And I think just having
the ability to be able to multi pass efficiently and
effectively is also a gift. You know, it's also a gift.
Speaker 4 (38:19):
Yes, yes, yes, Like you're saying, you know, you have
to be flexible and be able to do more than
one thing at one time, especially if you're talking about
being a business owner an entrepreneur. And that's ironic that
you're saying that because I was just thinking just this
morning all of the hats I had to wear when
I did my chanel Thorial business, and even outside of that,
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you know this path, the recent book I have, the
Living Love and Leading, I basically took on all roles
for that. And then even with this current project that
I have that we're releasing the Life you know I've
been I've been releasing the singles, but I'm going to
release the et later on in a fall. But I
basically took on all hats with that. You know, had
(39:02):
some production, thank God for guy, my boy Everie Jones
contributed some tact that tracks there. But I did the
recording of it, the mixing, the master and I did
the CD design. I got the distribution. Same thing with
my book. I did the book design, I did the proofreading, editing,
did the distribution. And so that's what I'm saying. You know,
(39:24):
my Johnsy business, I negotiated the contracts, wrote the contracts,
was the manager the bookkeeper. So you've got the buntitas.
Speaker 7 (39:34):
You got to yes, yes, and you definitely have to
have the fortitude to do it, because any one of
those things could have you to drive off the road
at any time.
Speaker 4 (39:44):
Yes, yes, it's so right, you know. And one thing
about it, whatever you don't know and you're not willing
to learn, you're gonna have to pay somebody else to
do it. And so you know, you're trying to boostrap it.
Speaker 6 (39:57):
Man.
Speaker 4 (39:58):
You know, you have to learn lot of things and
that way you can be more self sufficient.
Speaker 7 (40:03):
And you know, you know, miss I also find that
one thing is kind of ironic. And I definitely hope
our listeners have got a pin in paper and take
and write some of the stuff down. But what I
find is as ironic with most people these days, they
honestly don't know what they don't know.
Speaker 4 (40:21):
Yes, that's true.
Speaker 7 (40:23):
Think about that too, They don't know what they don't know,
because if you did know what you don't know, you
should have enough common sense to seek out those that
do that can help.
Speaker 4 (40:36):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, And I think what happens, like you say,
in many cases is just that ignorance. They just don't
know that they don't know. But then in some cases
it is foolishness and that they know, but they're refusing
to do anything about it. The first condition, you're more
(40:56):
you're more gracious towards them because they just don't know.
You can help for an ignorant person, but it's it's
hard to help a fool because an ignorant person you.
Speaker 7 (41:10):
Because listen, you can help an ignorant person, but you
can't help out a stupid person.
Speaker 4 (41:16):
Yeah, you can't. I mean, look, it's that hard known
truth because ignorant means you just don't know. Like you said,
but if I give if you give an in person
ignorant person knowledge, they're gonna use it. They're gonna go
and succeed because they're gonna apply. They're gonna convert a
knowledge to wisdom, which is knowledge that's applied. But a fool,
(41:38):
you you'll tell a fool, you tell it, like you said,
a stupid person, Okay, you need to do this, you
need to do that. And the key phrase that lets
you know you're dealing with a fool is that they'll
tell you, oh, I know that. You're like, what, I
know that. I know you're supposed they're breaking down to youth,
but yet you looking at them like why aren't you
(41:59):
doing I don't want it. You're like, oh, okay, so
right then you know they a fool and I can't
help this person because you know, even they'll know, but
they just refuse to do it. They don't want to
do it. They have no desire sometimes to change. They
don't want to fix that situation. They're going to accustomed
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to it and they're just foolish. But like you said,
the ignorant person, once you reveal that truth to them,
you show them, you say, look, man, look girl, you know,
just do this, do this, and they'll be thankful, they'll
be grateful. But the fool you know, they I don't
want to hear that. I don't care. I already know,
and so that's the difference.
Speaker 7 (42:39):
But yeah, yes, yes, yes, I know we touched on
a little bit earlier though, but man, I know I
want to give our listeners the opportunity to make sure
the egg pins right and they have the paper. But
let's just talk a little bit about some of the
things that hinder them from fulfilling their purposes. I know
(43:02):
we touched on it briefly, but identify a few of
those so they can definitely notate them, you know, because
it may be in their face and.
Speaker 4 (43:10):
They're explaining them away definitely. Well. Yeah, so one thing
is sometimes lack of resources, you know, sometimes of course
you need a little money to start something, and thank
God for like go fund me, thank God for people
who will believe in your vision before manifest really have faith,
(43:32):
because that's what fate is, you know, believing in something
before materializing manifests. But you know, having those people who
are going to contribute and help you with those resources
as far as you know finances. But then also sometimes
you need people with certain skill sets, and at times
it might take a while to find those people. And
(43:53):
I think one of the scariest and most challenging issues
is when you know someone with the skill set, but
then they're not willing to contribute and help you even
though you know them. And that's why I always teach
people don't get caught up on the who. Just get
caught up on what you need, because you'll you'll look
up and that person you know what the skill said,
(44:15):
who refuse refuses to help you. That'll be somebody just
who you never thought of. It'll be a stranger that
are come in with that same skill set and in
many cases better than the person you you were counting
on with the skills that who you knew, and they'll
come and just contribute whatever it is and and you
know sometimes just donate whatever it is that you needed.
(44:38):
And so you know that's one of the main keys
that are lack of resources, whether finances are people. And
then sometimes life just happens. You know, you can look
at young people sometimes, you know, young lady might get pregnant,
young man might have a baby, but he had dreams
of doing this or doing that, and that kind of
altered you know it all everything, It really significantly significantly
(45:02):
affects your life. So now you know it's not that
it's impossible to achieve the dream, but your time frame
is gonna differ, and your priorities are gonna shift now
because now the child becomes important or whatever, and so
you have to deal with that. You know, sometimes loss
of a loved one, sickness, all kinds of things can
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happen that can hinder you from going towards your dream.
I know, with me, I experienced several partnership breakups. I
had I had it to happen twice. I had it
with my music and that I had it in Majeedatorial.
So when that happens, you have to now make all
kind of kind of adjustments because it was you and
another person and now you have to assume their responsibilities.
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Sometimes you have to clean up and fix things they
may have messed up. And you know, all of these
are just examples of things that can happen in life
that can really just mess you up and kind of
set you, set you back, and kind of set you
off course. But as a stay that you just have
to recalibrate how to fix those problems along the way
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and make your adjustments so that you can stay on
track and finue your journey towards your destiny.
Speaker 7 (46:16):
Yeah, and then when you have those types of situations,
you know, it takes a minute to recalibrate and get
your stuff back together because you kind of desponded, you
know what I mean, It's like, Okay, here I go again,
you know. And and when you've done that multiple times,
you mean, like what am I doing? Then it makes you,
(46:37):
you know, your self reflect too. You're like, you know,
you've been through this before, and it actually challenges your
faith because you're like, well, why am I going through
this again?
Speaker 5 (46:47):
What?
Speaker 7 (46:47):
What what am I missing? What What do I need
to learn that I didn't get before? You know, And
then you have to then you figure out was it
really me, or is it just you know, the multitude
people in the world, and it's just like you know,
the throw of the dice. I just happen to get
saddled up with the wrong type of people. And then
(47:09):
you recheck yourself again and then you say, well, maybe
it's not really me.
Speaker 4 (47:15):
You know, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. At times, like you said,
it'll throw you for a loop. A lot of times
it'll it'll knock you out for a little bit if
if you're not careful. But like you say, you just
have to self reflect, self evaluate and see, okay, was
it just me? And sometimes it's just who you selected,
it's just the person's personality. And sometimes you have you know,
(47:37):
people have we have, like I guess, prototypes, a different
personalities general. And you what I noticed, I guess in
both of my situations have to reflect and as I
kind of selected the similar type of personality and because
of it, I got the same result. You know, it
happens basically clockward, the same format it happened in vote instances.
(48:01):
And so I know I learned from that number one,
I won't ever do like a partnership whereas me and
a person, you know, now I can contract and be
like a consultant with someone, or do contract work before
me setting up and saying well, look we're going to
be business part we're going to do this. Like I said,
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it has happened twice, and I mean, you know, I
think even if I selected a different person, it just
has that potential along the way somewhere it happening again.
So I'd rather just work on a contract, you know,
where hey, we agree to do this and that instead
of like a long term just a business partnership, because
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it takes work from vote parties, and if if one
person decides, hey I don't want to do this, it
just messes everything up. So it's best to just have that,
you know, like a contract or. Like I said, well,
you know you kind of partner with personal maybe for
a season, but not for long term. You know. Yes,
it's kind of it's challenging when that happens.
Speaker 7 (49:07):
You know, it's unfortunate too. A lot of people nowadays,
you know, they have this self mentality and even though
they partner with you, they have ulterior motives. You know,
they they're not really there for the partnership. They there
to learn what you know, with every intention of not
being with you but just to get what you got
(49:28):
in terms of knowledge to go out and actually be
your competitor. Go out and be your competitor.
Speaker 4 (49:33):
Oh yeah, yeah, they'll do that. They'll glean from you,
like you say, they get all the information, all the insights,
all the you know, the root there, the proceeds and everything,
and like you said, go out there and do their
own thing and become your competitor. That happens over and
over again.
Speaker 7 (49:50):
And that's why they won't won't you look and won't
give you no credit.
Speaker 3 (49:55):
Oh no, oh no, it's this.
Speaker 4 (49:59):
It's yeah, we just happened to, you know, do the
same thing. But yeah, that that is one of those
dangerous things that can happen, you know, one of the
results of trying to do a partnership. Yeah, it happens
all the time. And that's why I say it. You
know I will because of my experience. I won't do
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that again. I just be able to contract, do my part,
contribute this, you contribute that. But as far as I
was saying, Okay, this is gonna be our baby together,
that we're commit to this, no, sir, I think we've
all had that that definitely experience it.
Speaker 7 (50:37):
Like I said, you could help somebody educate them, school
on port them in the Dyke direction. And then if
you look on the line of notes and the credits,
the first thing they want to say, thank God, thank
my family, and your name won't be nowhere near there.
Speaker 4 (50:53):
Oh no, oh no, that's how it goes, you know.
But that's why, of course you you want to make
sure that whatever you do, just do it from the heart,
and that way, if they don't acknowledge you, you like,
you know, hey, it was it was all good. I
did it from the heart anyway, you know, it's a
blessing if you can acknowledge. But if not, no, you know,
(51:16):
don't don't worry about it, you know, try not to
be bid or whatever. Just just release it. And that
way you're not feeling bad or feeling some type of
way about them and kind of keeping that on you,
you know, just release it and that way, at the
end of the day you're happy and you're cool.
Speaker 7 (51:33):
Yeah, try not to be better and don't try to
go blow up their house.
Speaker 4 (51:39):
I don't put a hit out on them.
Speaker 2 (51:42):
Yeah yeah, yeah.
Speaker 7 (51:45):
So what are some characteristics of those who you would
classify as achievers and movers and shakers?
Speaker 4 (51:53):
Well, definitely that resiliency factor. And resiliency is just the
ability to to bounce back from any traumatic experience that
you go through. And I know, I kind of share
different people in my book. I think it's like four
people that I share who exhibited resilience in their lives.
(52:15):
And one of the people is definitely like Oprah Winfrey.
As you study her life and her childhood, man, she
went through some things, but to be who she is
and where she is and what she is today, it
just shows a great amount of resiliency to be able
to bounce back from all of her traumatic experiences and
(52:37):
be who she is and you know where she is.
And then also looking at like another good example in
studying history on Abraham Lincoln went through a lot of things.
You know, had a sweetheart, to diet, a nervous breakdown,
he lost so many times as he was trying to
get into office. But then finally he reached that place
(52:58):
of becoming a president after all of the things, the
setbacks and the things that he went through. And like
I said, you know, I give this examples of the
resiliency fact, the fact that which is so important. Then
the other thing is flexibility and what I've learned. Sometimes
people in life and in certain junctures where you are,
(53:21):
you have different strategies and coping mechanisms you will have
to use in order to make it well. Sometimes once
you transition into another state, in another place in life,
you have to be able to make the adjustment to
now utilize and employee strategies that are relevant to this
current place. And what I see people doing. They will
(53:42):
take strategies from a former level in a formal place
and try to bring them into new places where they're
not relevant, and sometimes they're not even appropriate. And that's
why you have to be flexible to know, Okay, I
did that there, but here I don't have to use
that strategy. I don't have to do that, you know,
because it's a different place that I am in life now.
(54:05):
You know, for instance, you might be in a place
where things are kind of tight, so you have to,
you know, get loans, you have to you know, hustle
and do this and do that in order to make
ends meet. But all of a sudden you get blessed.
Now your income is exceeding your expenses. So now you
shouldn't still be trying to get loans and do different
you know, different things you were doing in order to
(54:26):
bring an income, because now you're making enough. Now it's
all about budgeting and spending appropriately and having discipline because
you know, the former place you might have just been
in lack, but now you're in a place of abundance.
So now you you can have it and you don't
have to get loans and stuff. Because I see people,
(54:47):
some people just it doesn't matter how much money you
give them, they're going to always be in debt because
they lack discipline. They lack money management management skills. And
that's what I'm saying, you know, being able to make
adjustments when you get into different places, and so knowing
where you are and that that requires that flexibility so
that you can adjust and do the things you need
(55:09):
to in a place you're in now. And then I
think another thing will be that discipline, because what I
found in life, discipline goes a long way. And I
outline this that you know, girl, you're about to say something,
mister Patterson. No, no, yes, right, okay, yeah, So it
(55:31):
goes into like money management, discipline goes into it goes
into emotional control, it goes into time management, it goes
into parenting and leadership, it goes into professionalism. All these
things are tied to discipline. And what I defined discipline
is as is the ability to stop doing things that
(55:54):
are detrimental and harmful to you and to be able
to start doing things that are benefit and positive to you,
but doing now, and not just doing them, but doing
them consistently. That's what discipline enables you to do. And
we can even go into exercise and being fit and
taking care of our bodies. It requires discipline. You know,
(56:17):
everybody at the beginning of the year gets the everybody
gets the gym membership and oh, I'm gonna lose twenty
pounds finally this year, I'm gonna do it. Everybody starts
it and I laugh. Every year it's the same tackle
of my gym. You got that crowd, that January crowd
for I made no room on Trasvia, no room on
(56:39):
the way parking lite for. But it's like, okay, this
will last. Briber messfept where the longest early March. But
by then we just gonna be back to normal. And
so that's what I'm saying. Discipline causes you to keep going.
It goes beyond just the feelings you know, I don't
(57:00):
want to. I want to. Once you discipline yourself, it
becomes your routine whether you want to or not. You know,
you have to be just really sick or really hurting,
or just too tired or too busy to do it.
But once you discipline yourself in these different areas, you
begin to become consistent, You begin to be dependable, reliable,
(57:22):
and you become effective and efficient because you discipline yourself,
you organize yourself, You set yourself up to constantly do
those routines and necessary strategies so that you can succeed.
But yeah, discipline is so powerful and it also helps
with like you were talking about earlier, mister Patterson, being focused.
(57:42):
That's what discipline allows to and helps you with. It
helps you put those blinders on to the things that
are trying to distract you, and you're able to hone
in and focus on that goal and that agenda and dream.
Speaker 7 (57:55):
You got yes, And you definitely said yourself, not a
buddy plan, because if you depend on somebody else with discipline,
you're gonna fail every time. But mister Naylor, were gone
to the last minute or so the show man tell everybody, well,
they can go get your book, get.
Speaker 4 (58:10):
In contact with you, Okay, yes, sir, Living Loving Leading.
You can go on Amazon dot com you have the
e book as well as the hard copy. Or you
can go to my site at Living Loving dot net.
Also thereal dot org if that's the easiest thing you
can remember d A r i L dot org. Go
there have all my site. I'm on Facebook Daman d
(58:32):
m O n dot nailor n A I L e
R the same thing on Instagram Damon dot nailor and
on Twitter it's at d A r I L and
the number one. Yes, sir, yes, And I.
Speaker 7 (58:44):
Want to thank you again for coming through and chopping
it up with us, man, and we're definitely gonna have
you come back on man. I love your positive message, Man,
I love your ability man to encourage people, to motivate people.
And I think we need more people out there such
as yourself. Man. You know so, I'm gonna invite you
to come back through Man and anytime.
Speaker 4 (59:05):
You want, anytime you want, Yes, Sair, we thank you,
We will be back and appreciate the platform your provider,
mis A Patterson, thank you so much. An job myself
love your spirit and energy too, Yes.
Speaker 7 (59:16):
Sir, Yes, sir, mister Damon the real nailor everybody, And
if you didn't miss, if you didn't get all the show,
it'll be available worldwide and a few moments, and if
you're having problems finding it, make sure you ask your daddy,
ask your mama to ask the guy across the street.
He knows the guy at the store. So you have
(59:37):
no excuse not to hear the show, and it's entirety
and if that fails, you know you could always email
me Lamni Worldmovement dot com. Check out world Movement dot com.
There's always links to the show, So you have no
excuse not to hear the show and go out and
support this young man because it give you some jewels,
(59:58):
some way to straighten out the problem points and time
in your life. So it's now, with all this drama
and crazy stuff going on out there in the world,
now is the times to fix it. You can't fix everybody,
but you can fix yourself. So come back next week,
same time, and blessings to you all, and thank you
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for listening. It's just kind of play a play.
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See you had named her.
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God is good good good?
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know me. I thought the right from above, the powers
going death from the bere re beginning. They have a
let the never never have a roaring amon shop because
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On my back, food on my table is over.
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Me at night water my greek.
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I should have been crazy by now, dad, and I'm.
Speaker 1 (01:01:20):
A grave by now.
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I should have been laughed for now, should.
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Have been tough for now.
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All the time, all the time, all the time. Set sail,
but gives me power?
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What dude, you don't talk about done wrong? But I
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I gotta de clong. But I wonder the bosses, but
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That I might have, talking about it, about it and
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I have to shout him. I'm trying to cut him off.
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But it's too mannies.
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I'm talking Patties.
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There's never any thing that I needed.
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I know he will supply I.
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my ropen now, yeah.
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I should have been going now. I should have been
over now all the time, all the time. He's got
me all the time. Should have been going now, I
should have been over now all the time, all the time,
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all time.
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Costanly ross me.
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He's so good.
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