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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hey there, career calm crue. Riley Hart, here, your friendly
neighborhood stress whisperer, back at it again with another dose
of daily calm in the chaos. Today, we're diving into
a topic that's near and dear to my heart, self kindness.
Ever notice how you treat yourself with way more harshness
than you would ever dream of treating your best friend. Yeah,
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me too. We're always striving for success, pushing boundaries, conquering goals.
It's amazing. But somewhere along the line, we forget to
be kind to ourselves in the process. You know that
feeling when you trip and stumble, but instead of offering
a comforting hey, no big deal, just brush it off.
Your inner voice is all, are you kidding me? You
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call yourself capable? That's not cool? Right, It's time we
ditch the self criticism and embrace a little more self love.
Because guess what self kindness isn't selfish? It's essential. Now,
before you roll your eyes and think this is just
another other fluffy, feel good tip, hear me out. Practicing
self kindness is like giving yourself a mental hug, a warm,
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fuzzy blanket on a stormy day. It builds resilience, reduces stress,
and actually helps you perform better in all areas of life.
Think about it. When you're feeling down on yourself, are
you really at your best? Nope? You're more likely to
make impulsive decisions, procrastinate, or even withdraw completely. But when
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you treat yourself with kindness, you create a positive inner
dialogue that fuels your motivation and empowers you to tackle
challenges head on. So how do we actually put this
self kindness stuff into practice? Here are five powerful strategies.
First up, reframe negative thoughts. Ever catch yourself thinking things
like I'm not good enough or this is a disaster.
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Stop right there. Challenge those thoughts and replace them with
more realistic and compassionate ones instead of I messed up.
Try that didn't go as planned, but I can learn
from it. Next, practice mindful self care. This isn't just
about bubble bads and face masks, although those are great.
It's about being intentional with how you spend your time
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and energy. What activities truly nourish your soul? Reading a
good book, taking a walk in nature, spending time with
loved ones. Make time for these things. They're not luxuries.
They're necessities. Third, set realistic expectations. You're human, remember not superhuman.
It's okay to say no sometimes, to ask for help
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when you need it, and to celebrate small victories along
the way. Don't set yourself up for failure by trying
to do everything at once. Number four, practice gratitude. Take
a moment each day to appreciate the good things in
your life, big and small. This could be as simple
as enjoying a cup of coffee on a sunny morning,
feeling grateful for a supportive friend, or admiring the beauty
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of nature. Gratitude shifts your focus from what's lacking to
what you already have. Finally, be patient with yourself. Learning
self kindness as a journey, not a destination. There will
be times when you slip up, fall back into old patterns,
or feel overwhelmed. That's okay. Just acknowledge it, learn from it,
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and keep going. Remember you are worthy of love and kindness,
starting with your own. Now, let me paint you a picture.
Imagine Sarah, a brilliant lawyer who's constantly putting in long
hours striving for perfection. She's driven, successful, but also incredibly stressed.
She wakes up one morning feeling exhausted and depleted, beating
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herself up for missing her work out and feeling overwhelmed
by her to do list. Instead of spiraling into negativity,
Sarah decides to take a different approach. She acknowledges her
feelings without judgment, reminds herself that she's human, and gives
herself permission to rest and recharge. She schedules in some
time for relaxing walk in the park, and enjoys a delicious,
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healthy meal. By practicing self kindness, Sarah transforms her mindset
and finds renewed energy and focus to tackle her day.
See what I mean, self kindness isn't about being lazy
or avoiding challenges. It's about showing up for yourself with compassion, understanding,
and a whole lot of love. Remember, you are capable, worthy,
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and deserving of happiness. So go out there, treat yourself
like the amazing human being you are, and let's conquer
this day together. And Hey, if you found this episode helpful,
share it with a friend who could use a little
dose of self kindness. You can also connect with me
on social media. I love hearing your thoughts and stories.
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And till next time, keep calm and conquer your world.
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