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Speaker 1 (00:00):
You get into the porn world. Where were you at
before he decided to join?
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Actually, when I decided, I was living in Dallas and
I was going through a really bad breakup and one
of my friends who's in the industry, he has been
trying to convince me ever sence only fans was a
thing to do porn, and I was in the mind
space that I said, fuck it, I'm never gonna love again.
So why not?
Speaker 1 (00:19):
So you ended up in Dallas with this guy? It
sounds like it was a pretty intense relationship.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
It was a pretty intense relationship. I moved there just
because I wanted to get away from small town Illinois.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
How long were you going together?
Speaker 2 (00:30):
Almost two years? Almost two years, So most of the
time when I lived in Dallas I was with him.
Speaker 1 (00:35):
Were you doing it to spite him because you kiss
him off?
Speaker 2 (00:38):
It wasn't in the back of my head, but it
did end up doing that. So when when.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
But you moved to Dallas to be with this guy?
Speaker 2 (00:46):
No, I didn't know him. I met him the second
week that I lived in Dallas and we started dating
shortly after.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
It, okay. And how long did that last?
Speaker 2 (00:54):
Like? Around two years?
Speaker 1 (00:55):
Okay? And so then you guys break up for what reason?
Speaker 2 (00:59):
Just a liar, A lot of men liar can't deal
with it.
Speaker 1 (01:02):
A cheater or a liar, a cheater.
Speaker 2 (01:05):
Liar just in general, Like he lied about who he
was in the beginning, having a child, like crazy things.
And then I guess had an inkling, you know when
you have that sixth sense females that like he's not
being faithful, Like something's wrong. Actually, at one point we
were about to have sex and I noticed a scratch
on his stick and I'm like, where did this come from? Well,
(01:27):
he didn't say he wasn't that smarty, and he never
wears zippers.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
Either wear joggers all the time or what.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Yeah, joggers like all the time. In realize, I let
a sheer type of guy. Wow, But he tried to
make up a story and it was honestly hilarious trying
to like see him make up this story. And I'm like,
to get that scratch, your dick has to be hard,
Like there's no way you can have that kind of scratch.
And then the universe just loves me. I was having
issues like moving on from him, and I went I
was going out in Dallas, like a few months after
(01:54):
I broke up with him, and I met his current girlfriend.
It was like a private a private of Dallas MAVs,
like and there was only four girls invited, and she
was one of.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
The four girls, and and you walked right up to
her and you were just like.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
Hey, no, like I didn't know, Like I didn't know.
We were having a conversation and she was talking about
her boyfriend and describing him and I'm like, he sounds
like a piece of shit. I just broke up with mine.
And then she shouted saying things. I'm like, this is
like sounding super familiar. I'm like, is his name Dutza?
And I said his name and she was like yeah,
what a coincidence. And I'm like, you cheat on me
(02:26):
with this girl. She's okay looking I'm a little better,
but she's stupid. She tell her I told her, and
I was like and she was like, I don't think
it could be the same person, and I'm like one
hundred percent and I described him and she was like,
oh it is and she and I said, well, how
long have you been talking with him? And she's like, well,
he hit me up. And it was like we were dating,
Like I was dating him when they started talking it again,
(02:49):
and then the line that just slays me that she
said is oh, you must have been the main girl.
And I was like, bitch, you knew.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
So she knew that there was a main girl. Some
girls want to be the.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
Sude gross could never be me, like literally could never
be me. Like if I'm dating a person, I'm claiming
you this guy hot or something, and that's the worst part.
Like I dated him, and my friends always like joked
with me. They're like, for real, for real, Cassie, And
I'm like, he's got a good personality?
Speaker 1 (03:16):
Did he have Riz?
Speaker 2 (03:17):
He did have Riz?
Speaker 1 (03:18):
He did risk, especially if he's like he's got no zippers.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
He's very mysterious, And that was good in the beginning,
but then eventually you're like, who the fuck is this person? Yeah,
like I don't even know you.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
I feel like it's so hard to be the mysterious
guy now in the social media age, because everybody's got
this whole little like website about themselves on Instagram and ship.
But it was so much more common when I was
younger for a guy to be able to pull off
this like mysterious act. Now it's like everybody expects to
know what you're doing all the time.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
But there's so many guys who have like one photo
on their Instagram or like have a posted on that Instagram.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
Fix years, yeah, and don't have.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
Any social media. So that's probably why.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
Yeah, it's s kept if you don't have social media.
Why was it so important for you to lay claim
to this guy's penis? Why can't you just let him
go do his thing. He's clearly got something going for him,
he's got motion.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
Did he have a job? It wasn't illegal.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
He was a hustler.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
He was a hustler, Yeah, you could say that.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
What was he a coyote?
Speaker 2 (04:13):
You know? He was a scammer. Oh yeah, a Nigerian scammer. Crazy.
So good at least I'm trying to figure out why
you're dating this guy. It was good, Yeah, it was
Actually it was kind of a knella. It was like
the same every time. But he treated me really really well, like.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
Yeah, because it's not his money, he's scamming.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
And I didn't know. And that's one of the things
he laughed about. I did not know that when I
first started dating him. He said he had a job
in like the medical field, and I'm like cool, and
then he never like elaborated on it, and then I
found out eventually, and then he had to tell me, but.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
You never cheated on him? No, how do we know?
You want to take my word, I feel like you
might have cheated on.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
No, I did not cheat on him. There was one
instance before we were dating where I was talking to
another guy and I think in his head he thought
that was cheating. And I'm like, you never asked me
to be your girl, yet I can do what I
want at this point. Okay, sure, I'm a free woman,
free agent.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
So he you have this bad breakup, and then how
do you propel yourself into porn? And have you been
thinking about it the whole time? And he was the
thing keeping you away from it.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
I have always thought, since only fans was a thing,
that I would be good at it. And one of
my friends who's in the industry, he does only fan stuff.
He's been trying to convince me. And then I've always
been a relationship so it just never made sense. And
then I'm like, fuck it, I'm never gonna love again.
That guy broke my fucking heart. So I just kind
of fuck it moment.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
But you usually but women will take all their potential
to be a whore on the internet and put it
to the side to be in a relationship with a
random guy. Would know this.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
I wish I would have been it sooner. Like, honestly,
now that I'm in it, I wish I would have
done it sooner.
Speaker 1 (05:45):
Don't let a dude stop you from being a hell
on the internet. That's all I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
That's the moral of today.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
I'm glad you came around.
Speaker 2 (05:52):
Yeah, if you have a good guy and doesn't want
to do all, if that's okay too. That is okay too.
But if you think he's cheating, go ahead and just
do it.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
A lot of girls are holding a pipe tree.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
They really are.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
But there's no loyalty out there. There's no good guys
out there. We need to like transform the male psyche
by all the girls doing OnlyFans so that the guys
will just have to like accept it or yeah, that's
just don't have no choice. It's probably never going to happen.
I don't want every girl to have only fans. No, No,
it was.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
Too saturated, that's a point. Yeah, but you said to
me off that that you stripped a little, so you
were like kind of doing something similar in a way.
Well I did that. I started only fans first, and
then I'm like, I don't know because I was trying
to quit my normal job, Like I don't know if
this is going to subsidize my income because it was
so fresh. I started last year, so it hasn't even
(06:39):
been a year yet, so I'm like, let me try
something to get more in the hustle mindset. So one
of my friends was a stripper, and I started stripping
for like three months. I hated it.
Speaker 1 (06:48):
You hate about it.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
I don't like people touching me like that, like randoms
that I don't know, And it was
You get into the porn world. Where were you at
before he decided to join?
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Actually, when I decided, I was living in Dallas and
I was going through a really bad breakup and one
of my friends who's in the industry, he has been
trying to convince me ever sence only fans was a
thing to do porn, and I was in the mind
space that I said, fuck it, I'm never gonna love again.
So why not?
Speaker 1 (00:19):
So you ended up in Dallas with this guy? It
sounds like it was a pretty intense relationship.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
It was a pretty intense relationship. I moved there just
because I wanted to get away from small town Illinois.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
How long were you going together?
Speaker 2 (00:30):
Almost two years? Almost two years, So most of the
time when I lived in Dallas I was with him.
Speaker 1 (00:35):
Were you doing it to spite him because you kiss
him off?
Speaker 2 (00:38):
It wasn't in the back of my head, but it
did end up doing that. So when when.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
But you moved to Dallas to be with this guy?
Speaker 2 (00:46):
No, I didn't know him. I met him the second
week that I lived in Dallas and we started dating
shortly after.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
It, okay. And how long did that last?
Speaker 2 (00:54):
Like? Around two years?
Speaker 1 (00:55):
Okay? And so then you guys break up for what reason?
Speaker 2 (00:59):
Just a liar, A lot of men liar can't deal
with it.
Speaker 1 (01:02):
A cheater or a liar, a cheater.
Speaker 2 (01:05):
Liar just in general, Like he lied about who he
was in the beginning, having a child, like crazy things.
And then I guess had an inkling, you know when
you have that sixth sense females that like he's not
being faithful, Like something's wrong. Actually, at one point we
were about to have sex and I noticed a scratch
on his stick and I'm like, where did this come from? Well,
(01:27):
he didn't say he wasn't that smarty, and he never
wears zippers.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
Either wear joggers all the time or what.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Yeah, joggers like all the time. In realize, I let
a sheer type of guy. Wow, But he tried to
make up a story and it was honestly hilarious trying
to like see him make up this story. And I'm like,
to get that scratch, your dick has to be hard,
Like there's no way you can have that kind of scratch.
And then the universe just loves me. I was having
issues like moving on from him, and I went I
was going out in Dallas, like a few months after
(01:54):
I broke up with him, and I met his current girlfriend.
It was like a private a private of Dallas MAVs,
like and there was only four girls invited, and she
was one of.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
The four girls, and and you walked right up to
her and you were just like.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
Hey, no, like I didn't know, Like I didn't know.
We were having a conversation and she was talking about
her boyfriend and describing him and I'm like, he sounds
like a piece of shit. I just broke up with mine.
And then she shouted saying things. I'm like, this is
like sounding super familiar. I'm like, is his name Dutza?
And I said his name and she was like yeah,
what a coincidence. And I'm like, you cheat on me
(02:26):
with this girl. She's okay looking I'm a little better,
but she's stupid. She tell her I told her, and
I was like and she was like, I don't think
it could be the same person, and I'm like one
hundred percent and I described him and she was like,
oh it is and she and I said, well, how
long have you been talking with him? And she's like, well,
he hit me up. And it was like we were dating,
Like I was dating him when they started talking it again,
(02:49):
and then the line that just slays me that she
said is oh, you must have been the main girl.
And I was like, bitch, you knew.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
So she knew that there was a main girl. Some
girls want to be the.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
Sude gross could never be me, like literally could never
be me. Like if I'm dating a person, I'm claiming
you this guy hot or something, and that's the worst part.
Like I dated him, and my friends always like joked
with me. They're like, for real, for real, Cassie, And
I'm like, he's got a good personality?
Speaker 1 (03:16):
Did he have Riz?
Speaker 2 (03:17):
He did have Riz?
Speaker 1 (03:18):
He did risk, especially if he's like he's got no zippers.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
He's very mysterious, And that was good in the beginning,
but then eventually you're like, who the fuck is this person? Yeah,
like I don't even know you.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
I feel like it's so hard to be the mysterious
guy now in the social media age, because everybody's got
this whole little like website about themselves on Instagram and ship.
But it was so much more common when I was
younger for a guy to be able to pull off
this like mysterious act. Now it's like everybody expects to
know what you're doing all the time.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
But there's so many guys who have like one photo
on their Instagram or like have a posted on that Instagram.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
Fix years, yeah, and don't have.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
Any social media. So that's probably why.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
Yeah, it's s kept if you don't have social media.
Why was it so important for you to lay claim
to this guy's penis? Why can't you just let him
go do his thing. He's clearly got something going for him,
he's got motion.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
Did he have a job? It wasn't illegal.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
He was a hustler.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
He was a hustler, Yeah, you could say that.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
What was he a coyote?
Speaker 2 (04:13):
You know? He was a scammer. Oh yeah, a Nigerian scammer. Crazy.
So good at least I'm trying to figure out why
you're dating this guy. It was good, Yeah, it was
Actually it was kind of a knella. It was like
the same every time. But he treated me really really well, like.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
Yeah, because it's not his money, he's scamming.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
And I didn't know. And that's one of the things
he laughed about. I did not know that when I
first started dating him. He said he had a job
in like the medical field, and I'm like cool, and
then he never like elaborated on it, and then I
found out eventually, and then he had to tell me, but.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
You never cheated on him? No, how do we know?
You want to take my word, I feel like you
might have cheated on.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
No, I did not cheat on him. There was one
instance before we were dating where I was talking to
another guy and I think in his head he thought
that was cheating. And I'm like, you never asked me
to be your girl, yet I can do what I
want at this point. Okay, sure, I'm a free woman,
free agent.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
So he you have this bad breakup, and then how
do you propel yourself into porn? And have you been
thinking about it the whole time? And he was the
thing keeping you away from it.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
I have always thought, since only fans was a thing,
that I would be good at it. And one of
my friends who's in the industry, he does only fan stuff.
He's been trying to convince me. And then I've always
been a relationship so it just never made sense. And
then I'm like, fuck it, I'm never gonna love again.
That guy broke my fucking heart. So I just kind
of fuck it moment.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
But you usually but women will take all their potential
to be a whore on the internet and put it
to the side to be in a relationship with a
random guy. Would know this.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
I wish I would have been it sooner. Like, honestly,
now that I'm in it, I wish I would have
done it sooner.
Speaker 1 (05:45):
Don't let a dude stop you from being a hell
on the internet. That's all I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
That's the moral of today.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
I'm glad you came around.
Speaker 2 (05:52):
Yeah, if you have a good guy and doesn't want
to do all, if that's okay too. That is okay too.
But if you think he's cheating, go ahead and just
do it.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
A lot of girls are holding a pipe tree.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
They really are.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
But there's no loyalty out there. There's no good guys
out there. We need to like transform the male psyche
by all the girls doing OnlyFans so that the guys
will just have to like accept it or yeah, that's
just don't have no choice. It's probably never going to happen.
I don't want every girl to have only fans. No, No,
it was.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
Too saturated, that's a point. Yeah, but you said to
me off that that you stripped a little, so you
were like kind of doing something similar in a way.
Well I did that. I started only fans first, and
then I'm like, I don't know because I was trying
to quit my normal job, Like I don't know if
this is going to subsidize my income because it was
so fresh. I started last year, so it hasn't even
(06:39):
been a year yet, so I'm like, let me try
something to get more in the hustle mindset. So one
of my friends was a stripper, and I started stripping
for like three months. I hated it.
Speaker 1 (06:48):
You hate about it.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
I don't like people touching me like that, like randoms
that I don't know, And it was
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