6. The Middletons

Kate's middle-class family finds themselves thrust into an unprecedented position as the future in-laws of a king. Carole and Michael Middleton navigate the complex waters of royal connections while facing scrutiny from traditional aristocrats. The Queen makes welcoming gestures that surprise palace conservatives, while Kate's siblings Pippa and James face sudden public attention. As two very different families prepare to unite through marriage, the monarchy begins a subtle but significant transformation.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:03):
Callaroga Shark media. As William and Catherine's wedding approached in
the spring of twenty eleven, another family found themselves thrust
into an unprecedented position in British society. The Middleton's, once
an ordinary middle class family from the Berkshire village of Bucklebury,

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now stood at the intersection of commoner Britain and the
rarefied world of royalty. Their daughter had married the future King,
placing them in a unique historical position, the first truly
middle class family to be so intimately connected to the
British throne. This is Crown and Controversy, Episode six. The Middletons.

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For Carroll and Michael Middleton, Catherine's parents, the transformation had
been extraordinary. From their beginnings as British Airways staff, she
a flight attendant, he a flight dispatcher. They had built
a successful party supply business called Party Pieces, achieving financial
security through entrepreneurship rather than inheritance. Now they found themselves

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the in laws of the second in line to the throne,
navigating a world of protocol and privilege utterly foreign to
their experience. The Middletons represents something revolutionary in royal history.
Noted one royal historian, not since the Tudor era has
someone of such ordinary background married so close to the throne.

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Their presence in royal circles fundamentally changes the dynamic of
the monarchy. The traditional aristocratic families, who had suppliedyal brides
for generations, watched with barely concealed disdain as the Middletons
took their place in the royal sphere. Early press coverage
was often tinged with snobbery, references to Carroll's former career

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as a stewardess rather than flight attendant, whispers about her
supposed social climbing, and cruel nicknames like doors to Manual
allegedly used by William's upper class friends. Yet the Queen
herself had taken immediate steps to signal her acceptance of
the Middletons. Breaking with tradition, she had invited them to

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royal events before the engagement was announced, included them prominently
in wedding arrangements, and made a point of being photographed
in their company. This royal endorsement effectively silenced the more
overt snobbery, though subtle class prejudice continued to simmer beneath
the surface. For William, his in laws represented something precious,

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a model of normal family life that he had largely
been denied. The Death of his mother and the formal
nature of royal upbringing had left a void that the warm,
close knit Middleton family helped to fill. According to those
close to the Prince, he valued their unpretentious approach to
life and their obvious devotion to each other. William has

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found in the Middletons what he lost when Diana died.
One palace insider observed a functional, loving family where he's
treated as a person rather than a prince. It's something
he desperately needed. The contrast between the Middleton's home life
and the royal establishment could not have been more stark.

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At their five bedroom Georgian house in Bucklebury, family gatherings
revolved around home cooked meals, board games, and genuine conversation.
Palace life, with its formality and ever present staff, offered
pomp and protocol, but little ordinary warmth. Kate had grown
up in this atmosphere of middle class stability, giving her

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a groundedness that palace courtiers privately acknowledged as a tremendous asset.
Unlike Diana, who had entered royal life with little preparation.
At just nineteen, Kate brought with her twenty nine years
of normal family experiences and the emotional security they provided.
As the wedding approached, the Middletons faced their own intensive

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preparation for royal adjacency. Michael and Carroll received briefings on protocol,
security arrangements, and media management. They were advised on everything
from appropriate dress for royal occasions to the correct forms
of address for different members of the royal family. A
palace appointed liaison officer was assigned to guide them through

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the complexities of their new position. For Michael Middleton, a
naturally reserved man who had deliberately maintained a low profile
during his daughter's courtship with William, the prospect of walking
Kate down the aisle of Westminster Abbey before a global
television audience of two billion represented a particularly daunting challenge.

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He worked with a discreet communication coach to prepare for
this very public role. Determined to support his daughter without
appearing overwhelmed by the occasion, Carol, more naturally confident and
the driving force behind the family's business success, nonetheless faced
her own challenges. The intense media scrutiny of everything from

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her clothing choices to her speech patterns to her social
connections created unprecedented pressure. Yet those close to the family
observed her characteristic determination to navigate this new world with
dignity and discretion. Carol's greatest strength is that she doesn't
pretend to be something she's not, explained one longtime family friend.

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She's proud of what she and Michael have built, proud
of their children, and confident in their values. That authenticity
is serving her well. Amid all the snobbishness and criticism,

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Kate's siblings, Pippa and James, found themselves similarly thrust into
the spotlight. For Pippa just twenty seven and strikingly similar
to Kate in appearance, the sudden fame was particularly intense.
Photographers followed her movements, Tabloids speculated about her romantic life,
and her role as chief bridesmaid became the subject of

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global interest. James, three years younger than Kate and more
reserved by nature, struggled with the sudden dissolution of his
privacy while simultaneously managing his fledgling business ventures. The family's
success in handling this transition owed much to their tight
knit bond. Regular family dinners continued at the Buckleberry House,

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though now with enhanced security presence. Kate made a point
of maintaining these connections despite her increasingly demanding schedule of
royal preparation, often driving herself to Berkshire for overnight stays,
a small act of normalcy amid the extraordinary circumstances. Behind
the scenes, the Palace worked to integrate the Middletons appropriately

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into royal structures. The traditional getting to know you tea
with the Queen took place at Windsor Castle in February,
a significant honor that publicly signaled her Majesty's approval. Prince Philip,
known for his sometimes brusque manner, reportedly took a liking
to Michael Middleton, appreciating his straightforward nature and lack of pretension.

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Prince Charles and Camilla invited the Middletons to High Grove,
the Prince of Wales's country estate, for a private weekend
designed to build family connections before the wedding. According to
those familiar with the visit, the initial awkwardness quickly gave
way to genuine warmth, with Charles particularly appreciative of the

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Middleton's obvious love for their daughter and support for her
relationship with William. What impressed the royal family most about
the Middletons was their discretion. Noted one former Palace aid,
despite intense media pressure, they never gave interviews about their
daughter's relationship, never attempted to profit from their royal connection,

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and maintained absolute privacy about family matters. That restraint earned
them significant respect within palace walls. This discretion extended to
their business, Party Pieces, which continued to operate as it
had before, though with increased scrutiny. Some criticized any perceived

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attempt to capitalize on royal connections. Yet the Middletons scrupulously
avoided using their daughter's status in their business. When their
website briefly featured photos of royal themed party items before
the engagement, these were quickly removed after palace advisors expressed concerns.
As wedding preparations intensified, the Middletons faced the practical challenges

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of their new position. Security considerations meant substantial changes to
their daily routines. Their previously open home required new systems
and protocols. Even simple activities like shopping or dining out
now carried the risk of paparazzi attention and public scrutiny.

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Yet amid these extraordinary circumstances, the family maintained their characteristic groundedness.
Carroll continued working at party pieces, Michael preserved his hobbies
and local connections, and both made a conscious effort to
sustain their pre royal friendships and community ties. This normalcy
provided Kate with an essential foundation as she prepared to

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step permanently into the public eye. The wedding arrangements themselves
reflected the Middleton's new position. Breaking with royal tradition, William
and Kate created a joint planning committee that included both
palace officials and the Middleton family, ensuring that both families
perspectives were represented. The guest list included not just Middleton relatives,

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but friends from their village, colleagues from their business, and
people who had been part of Kate's pre royal life.
Perhaps most significantly, the Middletons were asked to contribute financially
to the wedding, an arrangement that acknowledged both their financial
success and their desire to participate as equal partners rather

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than passive recipients of royal largesse. While the Queen and
Prince Charles covered the bulk of the ceremonial expenses, the
Middleton's contribution to certain elements of the celebration represented a
modern approach to royal wedding finances. In the final weeks
before the wedding, Carroll and Michael Middleton relocated temporarily to

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the Goring Hotel in London, establishing a base for their
expanded role in the celebrations. The five star hotel, located
near Buckingham Palace, became the family's headquarters for final preparations
and would serve as Kate's last residence as a single
woman before becoming a duchess. The night before the wedding,

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as Kate prepared for her final evening as Catherine Middleton,
the significance of the family's journey came into sharp focus.
From a middle class Berkshire home to the threshold of royalty,
the Middletons had navigated an unprecedented path with remarkable steadiness.
In the Goring Hotel suite, Carol and Michael dined privately

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with their daughter, creating a moment of family intimacy before
the public spectacle to come. According to hotel staff, the
atmosphere was emotional but celebratory, with no sign of the
nerves that might be expected on such an occasion. The
family that had always prioritized emotional stability continued to provide

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that foundation for Kate, even on the eve of her
royal transformation. Across London at Clarence House, William reportedly spoke
by phone with his future father in law, expressing gratitude
for the Middleton support throughout the relationship and reaffirming his
commitment to maintaining close ties with Kate's family after the wedding.

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This converse station, later described by friends, reflected William's understanding
of how important the Middleton family unit was to Kate's
well being and his own. The following morning, as Kate
prepared for her wedding, with her mother and sister at
her side, Michael Middleton faced perhaps the most daunting moment
of his life, walking his daughter down the aisle of

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Westminster Abbey before the assembled royalty, nobility and global dignitaries
with billions watching on television. Friends later revealed that he
had practiced the walk countless times, determined to perform this
fatherly duty with appropriate dignity. The image of Michael escorting
Kate into the abbey, a middle class businessman walking his

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daughter toward her royal future, became one of the wedding's
most powerful symbols. In his morning suit with a subtle
blue tie that matched the Middleton family colours, he embodied
the merging of ordinary Britain with its royal institution. As
the ceremony progressed and Kate became Catherine, Duchess of Cambridge,

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cameras captured the emotions on her parents' faces, pride mingled
with the inevitable poignancy of giving their daughter to a
life so different from the one in which they had
raised her. Seated in the front row opposite the royal family,
the Middletons maintained perfect composure while their private family milestone
unfolded on the world stage. The reception at Buckingham Palace

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brought another significant moment, the official wedding photographs that would
forever document the new alignment of families. In these historic images,
the Middletons stood alongside the Windsors, middle class entrepreneurs, beside
the sovereign and her heirs, united through the marriage of
their children. The symbolism was unmistakable, a monarchy adapting to

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twenty first century Britain, embracing connection with the people it served.
At the evening reception, hosted by Prince Charles Michael, Middleton
fulfilled another traditional father of the Bride role, delivering a
speech that those present described as warm, witty, and deeply moving.

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Speaking directly to William and Kate, he reportedly acknowledged the
extraordinary circumstances while emphasizing the ordinary values of love, partnership
and family that would form the foundation of their marriage,
regardless of its royal context. In the days following the wedding,
the Middletons returned to Bucklebury, deliberately stepping back from the

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spotlight to allow the newlyweds to establish themselves. This retreat
from public view further demonstrated their instinctive understanding of royal dynamics.
Their role was to support, not to intrude or to
seek attention for themselves. This approach would define the Middleton's
relationship with royalty in the years ahead. They maintained of

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visible presence at significant events, trooping the color Christmas at
Sandringham when invited Royal ascot, but never sought the spotlight
or overstepped the boundaries of their position. They developed warm
relationships with other royal family members while preserving their independence
and privacy. Most importantly, they continued to provide William and

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Kate with something invaluable, a connection to normal family life
beyond the palace walls. Weekend visits to Bucklebrey became a
regular escape for the couple, offering respite from royal duties
and protocol. As the Cambridge family expanded with the births
of children, the Middleton grandparents played an active hands on role,

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bringing their grounded approach to child rearing into the next
generation of royalty. For the monarchy as an institution, the
integration of the Middletons represented a significant eva after generations
of royal marriages to aristocracy or foreign royalty. The future
King's connection to a middle class British family created a

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bridge between the Crown and the people. The Middleton's success story,
built on hard work, entrepreneurship, and strong family values, resonated
with contemporary Britain in ways that aristocratic connections could not.
Queen Elizabeth, with her characteristic pragmatism, recognized this value. Those

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close to the monarch noted her genuine appreciation for the
stability the Middletons provided to William and Kate, and, by extension,
to the future of her dynasty. The successful incorporation of
this commoner family into royal circles represented another example of
the Queen's ability to modernize the monarchy while preserving its

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essential character. For Carroll and Michael Middleton, the journey that
began with their daughter's university romance continued to unfold in
ways they could never have imagined. From the modest beginnings
of their party supply business to becoming grandparents to a
future king, their lives had been transformed by circumstance, yet

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anchored by their consistent values. Their greatest achievement, beyond their
business success or social assent, was perhaps the emotional stability
they provided to William and Kate amid the pressures of
royal life. In creating and maintaining a haven of normalcy
and genuine family connection, they contributed something essential to the

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well being of the future king and Queen, and in
doing so, to the long term health of the monarchy itself.
As one royal historian observed, the Middletons may ultimately be
remembered as one of the most significant influences on the
modern monarchy, not through any deliberate action, but simply by
being themselves, a loving, functional family who brought those qualities

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into an institution that has sometimes struggled to manifest them.
Their daughter will one day be Queen Consort and their
grandchild will one day be king. Their influence on how
those roles are fulfilled will be profound and lasting.

Speaker 2 (19:30):
Next time on crown and controversy. The night before the
Royal wedding brings nervous anticipation. Kate spends her final evening
as a commoner with her family at the Goring Hotel.
William shares a quiet dinner with Charles and Harriet. Clarence House.
Westminster Abbey undergoes its final transformation. Security teams conduct last

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minute checks across London, and as the world prepares to watch,
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the most anticipated royal event in decades. While no one
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