All Episodes

July 9, 2025 36 mins
"Tete and the crew are back on DaPlayground AfterDark with a captivating interview featuring the one and only Apple Banks! Tune in as the crew dives deep into Apple Banks' journey, passions, and unfiltered insights. With bold questions, intriguing stories, and plenty of laughs, this episode is sure to keep you hooked from start to finish. Don't miss out—like, comment, and subscribe for more unforgettable conversations!
Mark as Played
Transcript

Episode Transcript

Available transcripts are automatically generated. Complete accuracy is not guaranteed.
Speaker 1 (00:00):
Fine busy.

Speaker 2 (00:02):
He didn't have tired young So if you have little kids,
or you have little young men that are out here,
or you're a single parent, start back now. Put positive
nail wall models in your son's life. That means men
that you would like to be in your life. That

(00:24):
means a positive man, a man that's a hard worker.
He goes to work every fucking day. He doesn't disrespect women.
He's a very good upstanding citizen. Those types of things,
even if you're not dating that person. Put your son
in positive spirits and positive positions and he will come out, yeah,

(00:45):
cause you're positive and.

Speaker 3 (00:47):
And that to you your shoper, Right, you put in
the allge so he sees this right, knows that he's
gonna go there and rout and know what are out
Cause I get my mom did the same thing.

Speaker 1 (00:56):
And mother I got three brothers, and so she did
keep the business.

Speaker 3 (01:00):
Sports all season's over the basketball.

Speaker 1 (01:03):
Track after track. It was Southern camp. Back when I
was growing up.

Speaker 3 (01:07):
We got a program called NYSP which is a word
sloop is at now and that was our summer camp.
Try to ride horses goes from garden right.

Speaker 4 (01:16):
R what you exposed to come right August.

Speaker 3 (01:18):
Okay, like school, So like you said, you missed everything
around your neighborhood, like.

Speaker 5 (01:26):
They goad, I'm like, now, yeah, outside their neighborhood is
actually world, right, so it's kind of like that's where
she went.

Speaker 3 (01:33):
So now I look at my sisters who they got nephew,
they got kids, my nephews and nieces, and they following
the same trend.

Speaker 4 (01:40):
I seen where they put the kids and.

Speaker 1 (01:42):
How they keep them getting right right.

Speaker 3 (01:45):
I laughed for cause now I got three year olds,
so I'm doing doing the same thing specifically works works.
They grew without their parents, right, so for two people
didn't have parents, have nine kids.

Speaker 1 (01:59):
And it's work right, and telling you from right inside,
Mother Pusson's kids rocked their way right, and rock that
same way.

Speaker 3 (02:07):
Trying to laugh at it because this guy over there
to here you on, he makes fun of my neighborhood.

Speaker 1 (02:13):
I just boo too, Yeah, you boogie motherfucker. I like it,
the boogie calling. I'm like, see now people in the
north side going.

Speaker 5 (02:20):
Over to na tell 'em who your neighbors are, know
who your neighbor yet whatever they tell 'em, so what
so tell 'em whatever?

Speaker 1 (02:36):
Yeah, tell them mother fuckers. Who your neighbors? Is nigga
on the phone, gonna laugh.

Speaker 3 (02:41):
Table you where else at my home? He said, Yeah,
nigga forgot your neighbors. I'm like, don't comment.

Speaker 1 (02:50):
Right, well right off, water time, work brand.

Speaker 4 (02:52):
And twenty nah.

Speaker 1 (02:53):
Now, I ain't trying to flip the Mary the whole neighborhood.
One of my closest friends that are left me all
left the fried rights. So people, why do you call?
So they call that?

Speaker 6 (03:02):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (03:03):
Right, But he's the same way. Reason why his parents
and grandparents you wanna be around. They crap took off
the right in the direction.

Speaker 1 (03:10):
So, like you said, there are examples that you can do.

Speaker 3 (03:14):
But then I look back and thinking about how my
sisters and they'll say, well, how did you go hang
out with your brothers for a while, which is us?
And I said, okay, I see why they're doing that.
And then now I got a lot of nephews now
like who they talk? Then yeah, right.

Speaker 4 (03:30):
Right, alright, So he gonna be pissed off or whatever.

Speaker 5 (03:34):
But y'all remember a white couple holding pistols at a
crowd of people protesting.

Speaker 4 (03:38):
Yeah, his neighbor.

Speaker 5 (03:40):
So we gonna move on. Keep this short and simple
uh t T we gonna go in that order around
the table TT for me, go ahead.

Speaker 1 (03:52):
And look at the camera. Damn, I forgot this is
how did he say it?

Speaker 2 (03:57):
Right?

Speaker 1 (03:57):
Okay?

Speaker 5 (03:58):
When you were talking about the ship report. One issue
I have right now is when I there's sometimes and
it happened the other day in mediici matter of fact,
Hold a woman hold the door open for a woman,
she don't say thank you.

Speaker 1 (04:12):
I mean that happen.

Speaker 5 (04:13):
Let's start the start with TT your reaction to repeat
for me when a woman doesn't respect chivalry? Okay, and
then just give your no, just give your personal opinion
on that situation. When a woman doesn't say thank you
for a man holding a door.

Speaker 7 (04:33):
Oh, when a woman doesn't say thank you for a
man holding the door, I think it's rude.

Speaker 1 (04:40):
You're showing that you're a individual.

Speaker 2 (04:43):
And I disagree. The reason why I disagree is because.

Speaker 4 (04:50):
We're going to let's let's try to go in order, though.

Speaker 2 (04:52):
But the reason why I disagree is because it is
it's not the fact that it's rude. It would only
be rude for a person who received chivalry. Do you
understand what I'm saying? Some women have never received chivalry,
so they don't know what it looks like. They don't
know how to take it because they'll just feel like, oh,

(05:14):
this is a corny ass.

Speaker 1 (05:16):
Do he holding the door for me? This?

Speaker 8 (05:18):
That, and the third.

Speaker 2 (05:19):
If you're not used to something, you don't know how
to react to it. Like with me, I'm used to chivalry.
I'm used to a person holding the door open for me,
and I be like, thank you, you know, because I'm
used to it. But when a person has not been
raised to accept and know that these things still will

(05:42):
and always will exist, you don't know how to respond
to it because you've never received it. So it's not
about them being rude. They just don't understand why he
was being nice enough to open the door. I talk
my son the same thing. Open the door, you see
women coming in, hold the door. It don't matter if

(06:03):
they say thankful or not. Because you don't get a
lot of 'em that's not gonna say it. You don't
have a lot of 'em that's not gonna say it.
But that doesn't mean that you're supposed to stop doing it.
You keep doing that because real women always spa.

Speaker 1 (06:18):
Well respect that.

Speaker 8 (06:20):
That's true.

Speaker 4 (06:21):
M kid, I don't think it's the point he please
gonna keep doing it. Let's just let the kid though in.

Speaker 1 (06:28):
My bad go ahead, you're responsible.

Speaker 2 (06:31):
I'm I think it's you know, nobody's gonna just get
s say thank you all the time when it's supposed
to be automatic, like this is how.

Speaker 1 (06:43):
It's supposed to be. And I'm supposed to walk through
the door. Cannot be treated like royalty. Yes, so I
do I have to say babeque I might Mum. Maybe
I'm not thinking about you.

Speaker 2 (06:55):
And if you opening the door for me, you know,
I maybe I'm just trying to do what I'm trying
to do. The door is open, I'm going in and
you could have said thank you.

Speaker 6 (07:06):
You know.

Speaker 1 (07:08):
Now I have to have an attitude. You know, I
wasn't gonna have an attitude that person.

Speaker 5 (07:15):
Attitude because you ain't saying thank you.

Speaker 2 (07:20):
Right right, God, keep your offside.

Speaker 1 (07:28):
I mean, I still have people. I have her. I
haven't pray him.

Speaker 2 (07:31):
Opens my card, you know what I'm saying, Like, I
don't know if I'm in her presence, if I'm insident,
might not open a door. I don't lift her bag.
I don't carry anything in the house.

Speaker 1 (07:47):
I don't do.

Speaker 2 (07:48):
Anything because she does everything like chivalry passes around.

Speaker 4 (07:53):
Well, you just asked my earlier question.

Speaker 2 (07:54):
From that, yes, chivalry, it doesn't necessarily mean if it's
a man or a woman, because I.

Speaker 1 (08:00):
Would hold the door open for a person.

Speaker 2 (08:02):
It's just about being respectable, you know what I'm saying,
understanding things on a different level. And everybody don't think
like that. Everybody don't get that. And it's okay because
it's because you don't.

Speaker 1 (08:14):
Know what it is.

Speaker 6 (08:15):
Okay, but it's not from what I'm giving you.

Speaker 4 (08:19):
Say is it right?

Speaker 1 (08:23):
I'm not necessarily asking if it's right or not to me.

Speaker 4 (08:26):
Well, that's what I.

Speaker 6 (08:27):
Get from it. It ain't right, period. I can keep
opening the door for you. I don't care about that.
But if it's down to the should you say thank you?
Yes you should if you did.

Speaker 1 (08:42):
Who raised you?

Speaker 4 (08:42):
You're supposed to say thank you?

Speaker 1 (08:44):
Don't say to you.

Speaker 4 (08:46):
I'm gonna look.

Speaker 6 (08:47):
At you and I'm gonna remember not open the door
for you next time. Right now, I might open the
door for somebody else, or I might still open it up.

Speaker 4 (08:55):
I don't give up, but I'm gonna know that you
didn't say thank you.

Speaker 1 (08:59):
I might not.

Speaker 6 (09:04):
And this is the only person I feel like I
should open the door for that I have to do.

Speaker 2 (09:08):
It is not about Chivy is not about who you're
in a relationship with.

Speaker 1 (09:18):
Val No, no, it is about chivy. Chivalry is who
you are.

Speaker 4 (09:24):
Mother is deceased. But yes I will.

Speaker 1 (09:26):
Help, yes them, of course.

Speaker 4 (09:30):
But you just said person I'm talking about if we like,
I'm the door for her.

Speaker 6 (09:35):
You don't you know what I'm saying. This is who
I should be worried about. We're talking about a bank.
This is what I'm here hearing as a bank door.
And you open the door for somebody, you just doing
it naturally correct?

Speaker 1 (09:48):
Yes, I did they come in.

Speaker 4 (09:52):
I don't owe you that I don't know you to open,
so you owe me a.

Speaker 6 (09:56):
Thank you because I thought about opening my family.

Speaker 1 (10:05):
Yes, my grandma ain't good enough, like you.

Speaker 2 (10:09):
Know, that's a crazy that shows the initiative that.

Speaker 1 (10:17):
He did a good gesture.

Speaker 2 (10:20):
But for you not to do anything would be a
sign of being rude.

Speaker 1 (10:25):
But it wasn't so much as the rude part. Sometimes
people just don't pay attention, and sometimes people just don't
give a fuck. You know what I'm saying. That doesn't
make it right. It doesn't make it right.

Speaker 2 (10:40):
But a lot of people don't think that chivalry still exists.
And my thing is Chivaly doesn't mean a relationship.

Speaker 1 (10:47):
Chivalry is just who you.

Speaker 2 (10:49):
Are as an individual, meaning you are just there, you
got It's part of your mannerism.

Speaker 1 (10:57):
It's just who you are as an individual.

Speaker 2 (11:00):
But I still know I don't have to do it
for every No, you don't, you know, and that's exactly right,
you really really don't.

Speaker 6 (11:06):
Yeah.

Speaker 7 (11:06):
For me, I think that it is rude to not
acknowledge the person that's doing anything for you.

Speaker 1 (11:11):
But it's opening the door or right, you know, whatever
it is. It's just matters.

Speaker 7 (11:15):
You know, if you right see somebody just thinking about
you and it's willing to go out of they way
or spend some of the energy of time doing something
before you can just acknowledge you.

Speaker 1 (11:23):
With appreciation, right, and that's all we understandable. Rodney. Look, man,
I've been doing that since I was a kid.

Speaker 3 (11:32):
I used to carry Grosky bass back when I was
on locking Krogs on on grand days.

Speaker 1 (11:37):
Wow, it don't matter if they say thank you or no.

Speaker 3 (11:40):
I mean no, you have some people say thank you.
Some people gave you tips, and things like that. But
I was raised you always as a man, when you.

Speaker 1 (11:48):
Raised as a boy. He was giving those gentlemen guidelines.

Speaker 4 (11:52):
Open the door for a.

Speaker 1 (11:53):
Lady, hold the door for a lady.

Speaker 3 (11:55):
It doesn't matter you say thank you're not thinking because anyway,
you never know what they going through.

Speaker 2 (11:59):
You know what I mean.

Speaker 3 (12:00):
In the motive car doors, you have work. Let the
ladies go first. You're in line, and the ladies go first.
So you always presented that way. That's just how they
You got some people who uh who get mad, be like, man,
you let that lady go in front of you.

Speaker 1 (12:14):
Yeah, what you gonna jump me?

Speaker 3 (12:16):
And then the whole attitude the dude go back there
that that that changes, right, It's.

Speaker 1 (12:20):
Just me and thee.

Speaker 3 (12:23):
We always put it right. And let's say the line
is crazy. Well, ladies, do you think I'm okay with that?
Because I'm I'm not like doing checking out.

Speaker 1 (12:33):
Like you checking out? Wabo I call at the same time,
you know what I do? I think, so said biggest. Yeah,
I mean chucking up your final go i'm'a car you
I'm doing. I'm almost done, y'all just going over the door.

Speaker 3 (12:48):
Look, they say, I'll do they say thank you, So
don't thank you they.

Speaker 1 (12:52):
Smile or not be appreciative.

Speaker 3 (12:54):
We just do it. If they don't say nothing whatever
I mean because the end of the day, years you
just been the kind just because.

Speaker 8 (13:00):
You never know.

Speaker 3 (13:01):
It's what other long young man is watching to do that, right,
I don't know what another boy? Right, I have that
attitude of a rhyme sat right, I see you on
TV y R right, and then that could change.

Speaker 1 (13:13):
Right person lifestyle around right.

Speaker 3 (13:15):
You seen something earlier that I raised him like that
to be a gentleman. He might use it to be
a player that you I'm down the road, ain't to
be honest with you. He probably don't as no I
know it doesn't. He just basically, ay, this is why
I was raising someone. This is how I'm doing i'm'a
keep doing it. But women fall.

Speaker 1 (13:32):
The reason why I said the the player thing because
women m Well, my son, he's very he's a probably.

Speaker 2 (13:38):
Like I said, he's a very good person. When I
said my son is a good hearted person. Because when
I'm in acquir with them, like we did a lot
of things, so we experienced a lot of things. When
I talk to them and I teach them things I
don't just say don't do this because I say it.

Speaker 1 (13:54):
Don't do it. You give me a reason why.

Speaker 2 (13:56):
I give them reasons why, and not only just reasons.
I actually take them places and I do think and
show them. This is why I said don't do this,
because sometimes you just can't tell a kid don't do this.
You have to show them why you don't think this

(14:17):
is a good thing for them to do. Because at
the end of the day, a kid gonna do what
the fuck they wanna do, regardless them.

Speaker 1 (14:24):
Yes to no or not. Kids do what they see.
Let's get it. And we live over here too. So alright,
I'm about.

Speaker 5 (14:33):
To send you the link if you needed to share.
Oh oh, I'll send it to everybody.

Speaker 4 (14:40):
I guess.

Speaker 1 (14:40):
Yeah. Last topic.

Speaker 9 (14:43):
If a dual smash a stud is he gay?

Speaker 1 (14:50):
You serious? That's your question?

Speaker 4 (15:01):
Who told you a question?

Speaker 1 (15:07):
What I'm saying this is an open, open go smash
a stud?

Speaker 6 (15:15):
Is she?

Speaker 4 (15:16):
Is he?

Speaker 1 (15:18):
Another question? Well, well care how does he get that?

Speaker 2 (15:27):
I'm gonna say, like this, I don't think it's a
gay thing. And if a dude smashes a female in
his mind, he like bed you think? So you know
what I'm saying she didn't get something that I can
tell you back when you need to be facet that's
how we're to be.

Speaker 1 (15:45):
So if a nigga smash a stud, that does not
mean he gay.

Speaker 2 (15:49):
That means he gotta puay this. He's trying to bigger
out if he can.

Speaker 1 (15:55):
Make her like.

Speaker 4 (15:58):
Now.

Speaker 5 (15:58):
I heard answer earlier today that said both of them
are gay.

Speaker 1 (16:06):
You know what, And I'm gonna say this.

Speaker 2 (16:09):
I can agree with that for their concepts because of
the simples back there.

Speaker 1 (16:16):
And if you're supposed to be a stud, you not.

Speaker 2 (16:19):
Most studs have never had penetration before. Most studs, that's
just being honest. Stud have never had penetration before. It
depends on what stud you drab. Let's just keep that
ship all the way from now. If you don't grabbed

(16:40):
the stud who got two kids out of pussy because
you done got knocked up by a regular nigga on
some regular sex suspect.

Speaker 1 (16:49):
Then.

Speaker 2 (16:51):
Little suspect she might take some dick again, depending on
how she together.

Speaker 1 (16:57):
Gunna see what I'm saying. But if you didn't grabbed,
you ain't never had this in her life.

Speaker 2 (17:04):
She got a lower haircut then like you. She smelled
just like you. She just just like you. She talked
just like you.

Speaker 1 (17:16):
The nigga, you might be a little bit suspect.

Speaker 2 (17:20):
You might be a little suspect because at that point,
my nigga, you might want to convince yourself for your
own sexuality, Like what.

Speaker 1 (17:29):
Really terms you want? You understand what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (17:32):
Like most studs that already had sex with other men,
they already know that, yeah it was okay, but.

Speaker 1 (17:42):
You got three kids, so it was more than okay.

Speaker 2 (17:46):
It was pasted okay because you got like three kids
and they was you fucked and got them. You didn't
artificially insiminate yourself and got them kids. So with depends
on what kind of stood you grabbed the fuck because
if you grab us trying to grab us stood that
ain't never been pietrated.

Speaker 1 (18:06):
I was about to be some motherfucking you gotta be
fucked up, all right. It's gonna be one of the moments, Rodney.

Speaker 5 (18:14):
One of them, one of my co hosts from season one,
I'm not gonna say which one, but one of them
says she is looking for open I think she even
said it on live, so fucking she says she's looking
for an open bisexually man. She actually likes to peg men.
So is it possible to be with a woman getting

(18:39):
pegged and.

Speaker 4 (18:41):
Not be gaged?

Speaker 1 (18:44):
Peg woman is the man.

Speaker 10 (18:52):
So whether you said and not d gay, they rocked,
they they like we got.

Speaker 1 (19:03):
You got some guys who rocked their way now and
that state. But I'm not na. He ain't gone, bro.
This is my thing.

Speaker 3 (19:15):
This is gonna be honest, be honest, like this thing.
You have some dudes who actually do rock that way
and right, and they like that sexually right, they out
the bedroom, they hardcore, regular guys.

Speaker 1 (19:29):
But in that world they go that way. Young, you
can find something out there. I don't know where they at.
I can't help you find none, but there's something out
there now. I don't have no contact with.

Speaker 3 (19:46):
Book, Instagram, Twitter, team team, all them socials trying to find.

Speaker 1 (19:52):
I can't help you.

Speaker 4 (19:53):
But there are some dudes who rock their way.

Speaker 1 (19:56):
Now or they consider the gate in the MA society
and the highest of everyone that think that might be gay.
He would be gay. He would be gay because he's getting.

Speaker 2 (20:11):
But see this, No, this is my thing though, this
is my thing, and this is basically what I.

Speaker 1 (20:19):
Was touching on earlier before you was late. But the
thing is is this sex is just what it is. Sex.

Speaker 2 (20:34):
Your sexual appetite does not have to satisfy another motherfucker,
but the person that you're fucking, period, regardless of the
fact if you feel it's gay or not. Now she
don't put your ship outter. Then it's a sexual interaction
between you and your motherfucking mate.

Speaker 1 (20:55):
Now, let's not.

Speaker 2 (20:56):
Get it twisted. Some of these motherfuckering niggas that god
damn me on the top.

Speaker 1 (21:00):
When you go on the mother fucking top and you.

Speaker 2 (21:02):
You know what I'm saying, and you stick your little
hand down everybody grubbing some balls, you gonna touch that
ass on, then they.

Speaker 1 (21:11):
Motherfucking mad at that particular moment.

Speaker 2 (21:14):
Now that particular mamma, y'all, you you ain't even thinking
about that type of shit because you enjoying.

Speaker 1 (21:20):
What you're having with the person you fucking. The ship
shouldn't go outside your bed broom. Let's keep that one, honey.
Let's keep that one, honey. I'm just being honest. I'm
not trying to say.

Speaker 2 (21:33):
That you gay for however you like your sexual explicitence,
whatever makes you get off, and you with your motherfucking mate,
kulogs you with the person that you want to be
fucking with. Your sexual appetite should not leave your bedrooms.
I don't give a fuck if you're gay, straight, bisexual,

(21:55):
or not. Your sexual appetite should not live your badness.

Speaker 1 (22:01):
So what you're saying. But in reality world, that's the reality.
That's the problem. But that's the problem.

Speaker 2 (22:11):
People cannot People can satisfied their sexual appetites based off
of what another motherfucker think that you should have should
not be doing some time. Okay, I'm gonna say this.
Some niggas like it rough right a wrong. Some females

(22:32):
like your rough right a wrong. So your roughness can
go to a whole nother motherfucking level of roughness. But
whose business is that?

Speaker 6 (22:43):
Okay? But everybody I get that. That's I don't give
a with who getting stuck in the ass. It's just
a simple question, is it gay or is it not?
I don't care if it's you, if it's heard them,
and that's what they askim. If you're asking for my
opinion of it, because that's what we're asking.

Speaker 4 (23:03):
I don't really I'm not gonna judge nobody.

Speaker 6 (23:06):
Who getting your ass or whatever the fuck that's on you.
But if you ask me, if do you think that
that it's gay? I would the whole penis in your
ass to shape like a penis. That mean you want
a penis in your ass, Because if it's your girl
putting a penis in your ass, or you're getting a
real penis in your ass, ain't nothing.

Speaker 4 (23:25):
Wrong with it. That's what you want, like you said, right,
but is it gay?

Speaker 1 (23:29):
What it may?

Speaker 4 (23:30):
You know you might be with a female.

Speaker 1 (23:31):
Just that ass thumb and just shaped like I don't
like that.

Speaker 4 (23:39):
I don't think all things going in your ass.

Speaker 2 (23:41):
Man, is a game, that's all that's not makes you get.

Speaker 5 (23:48):
Yeah, but when you think you sticking your thumb anywhere
near that crying, you're gonna get kicked in your motherfucking boy.

Speaker 1 (23:56):
Okay, isn't a chance? Feel they's so playing that at
the end of the game.

Speaker 4 (24:01):
Game I mean.

Speaker 1 (24:06):
That part that that part, that part that means happy
ladies and gentlemen. G A y means h is right ahead. Okay,
So have a dig and a smile up.

Speaker 8 (24:28):
So a stud fucking a straight guy, and a.

Speaker 1 (24:38):
Stud can't suck a straight guy. Let's keep that one. Wait. Okay,
that's what That's why how were getting here, explained. The
thing gives this.

Speaker 2 (24:46):
If a nigga wanted stood to fuck them, they coming
out they they're coming out there for something else to.

Speaker 1 (24:52):
See what I'm not talking about necessarily pegging.

Speaker 4 (24:54):
I'm talking about what you just say. I'm talking about
the sex.

Speaker 1 (24:57):
The sex that's just yeah, not not necessarily fucking, but
they just fucking jump right, That's.

Speaker 4 (25:04):
What I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (25:05):
But not not No, that's not what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (25:10):
But what I'm saying is you're making some.

Speaker 1 (25:20):
All right, I said, I'm not trying to nigga as
I'm like, if I'm nigga, you my friend.

Speaker 8 (25:27):
After that all.

Speaker 1 (25:34):
That's my point be maskingine outside like full from football player.

Speaker 4 (25:44):
Uh workout, yeah, I know, bro work.

Speaker 1 (25:47):
Out ten times a day, whatever the fuck else peg, but.

Speaker 4 (25:51):
Not be yet because it doesn't leave the bed room.
Is that what we're saying? Well, what.

Speaker 1 (26:01):
You, Michael is in his head, he knows. Look at
your boy, Michael samp happened him right right.

Speaker 4 (26:07):
He was.

Speaker 3 (26:07):
He was a hard court and NFL don't went drive
Big Catamazoo.

Speaker 1 (26:13):
He was one of the top eventual whinemen in the game.

Speaker 3 (26:17):
Soon as he came on and shouldn't weppened they put
his ass on the doll because they the side society.

Speaker 1 (26:26):
So where was an issue? And my thing is what
your sexual preference?

Speaker 4 (26:35):
They should have never known that.

Speaker 1 (26:37):
Nobody should have never known what his sexual type was.
And my aspect, I would.

Speaker 2 (26:43):
Say it like this maybe or nie of that he was,
but known felt some moeuck type of way because he
wasn't sucking with them no more and got with another motherfucker.

Speaker 1 (26:54):
He mad because he making all these motherfucker music. You
finna get his nigga some of your money. So he
wanted to come out and tell y'd mother.

Speaker 2 (27:02):
Choose the dis in the pussy's wises so you can.

Speaker 1 (27:05):
Stop being in the minute.

Speaker 2 (27:09):
Because if his nigga would have chosen to right dick
to stick something in, then he wouldn't have been found
out to begin with.

Speaker 1 (27:19):
A motherfucker wouldn't have known his sexual preferences. Because just
because he likes penis doesn't mean.

Speaker 2 (27:27):
He's supposed to be like he's supposed to be like that.

Speaker 1 (27:32):
That's just what he likes. That's the same thing with me.
Just because I like females don't mean I gotta be
like so what's going on?

Speaker 4 (27:40):
You know.

Speaker 6 (27:42):
Some of this no.

Speaker 1 (27:45):
And diamondant at the same fucking time.

Speaker 3 (27:48):
But that's that's what's going Like you said, that's the problem, right,
you have some you got some don't. Some guys not
ready for They'll say on TV they ready for it,
but in reality there's.

Speaker 8 (28:05):
Not really ready.

Speaker 1 (28:06):
They alright, it ready for just just like now.

Speaker 3 (28:08):
You gotta people. You got all these commercials Black Lives
or that Black Lives Matter. They all these companies saying.

Speaker 1 (28:13):
Well, we love black people.

Speaker 3 (28:14):
Yeah we all y'all really donated to the black community
and has some questions.

Speaker 1 (28:18):
Now we gonna get on TV.

Speaker 3 (28:19):
So y'all won't say nothing to us, right, But in reality,
words those inns, the millions in the community.

Speaker 1 (28:25):
You right, you just saying it right to think about it.
So you have like I got some some big co workers.

Speaker 3 (28:31):
Some transferrom to Texas and she moved from Texas to
singles because you said.

Speaker 1 (28:35):
Texas when the seven right. I told 'em that's gonna
be like that versus of life.

Speaker 2 (28:39):
So it don't matter what you move you, no matter what,
stop run it from, stop running from who you are,
right and stand up for what you cool, right, And.

Speaker 3 (28:45):
That's why it's playing here right here. You can move anywhere,
cause it's still gonna day now. It's how society is going.
It's called a different the curses right, judge you forever
and either you gonna live that lifestyle.

Speaker 1 (28:57):
And just have to vote with it all you done.
And that's how I didn't.

Speaker 6 (29:00):
I had that.

Speaker 1 (29:01):
Conversation with my wife. You if you go, I told him,
but understand what comes along with that good in the back.
So he h And now he's older than now he
gets man.

Speaker 3 (29:13):
I talk to him all the time and he be like, man,
what you said that you Tryna, you gotta stand here.

Speaker 1 (29:22):
You gotta stand in your truth. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (29:25):
It does not matter what it is standing your That's true.
If it is what it is, it does not matter.
Now I'm not saying that I might not start I
might start back like it mean tomorrow, true, but I
don't know that.

Speaker 1 (29:41):
Do you understand what I'm saying? I until make you
feel that way, then I don't have no ill feeling
or ill vitor me I find me is still faver
be fucking attracted, sexy and nastline like, oh he can
get me.

Speaker 2 (29:55):
Moments you understand what I'm saying, that's the reality of
my reality.

Speaker 1 (30:00):
I'm being honest in my own truth. So a friend
of mine asked me. She was like, if do you
think you can marry your woman?

Speaker 2 (30:12):
My comment was, whoever God presents me to fall in
love with, brother, it's man or a woman.

Speaker 1 (30:19):
That's what the fuck? I'm a man. Do you understand
what I'm saying. I'm not. I don't know what God
has in store for me, but what I do know
is within my own truth. I'm standing talk. So whatever
comes in my direction, brother, I love it or don't
love it.

Speaker 2 (30:38):
I don't give a fuck what nobody else thinks about me,
because what you eat don't make me shit, and what
you eat what I eat don't make you shit. So
therefore I don't give a fuck about your comment.

Speaker 1 (30:52):
Boom, you don't pay my bills, shoes, you don't cut
my hair, I don't get my nails done.

Speaker 2 (31:00):
But if a dead boo, you don't do that either,
So why the fuck would I care about how you
think I should run my life?

Speaker 6 (31:08):
Now?

Speaker 2 (31:08):
The thing is is that I do look at what
people say about me right somewhat affect me, correct, But
that does not mean that I'm gonna allow you to
dictate how.

Speaker 3 (31:22):
I need you in my lot right right right the period.
And that's the mindset everyone has to have. It's just
like if you're black and white. You know, when you're black,
you gotta deal with the white coaches same thing, right,
So you know they gonna say different things to you.

Speaker 1 (31:37):
Either you gonna have to take it or not take
it and keep going cause it doesn't change you any war.
That's what you're right. You can't let me go bleach
my skin, get up in the category. You sire, gonna
be a black that.

Speaker 8 (31:49):
Charge.

Speaker 1 (31:50):
So you gonna, like I said, you gonna be to
do it fright saying that's the world.

Speaker 3 (31:54):
That's the coach you win and to you feel you
ready to the lead of that atmosphere and you right ever,
that's what Either your family gonna rock what you respect you,
or you're gonna have some people who not. So what
it is, what it is, It is what it is
about what you do in your house and how you flow,
how you go and keep going, know where you can go,
you know where you can't go, and then you can't
hang out.

Speaker 1 (32:15):
And if you decide to cross that borders, I'm gonna
do this. I understand what happens. You go over there,
be pre praying for right, prepare yourself for your madness.

Speaker 3 (32:24):
That's madness, like you said, like you said, its me sometimes,
but I keep going right, they bother me.

Speaker 1 (32:33):
So now it's I can just say whatever, they keep
going right, whatever, show boat, whatever, lets you smile. Let
the kid teacher. Y'all the only ones who ain't said nothing.
So what y'all got to say about it? About the situation?

Speaker 4 (32:50):
The man fucking stud, a man fucking.

Speaker 1 (32:53):
Stood personally at the end of the day, they stood.

Speaker 8 (32:59):
Has a vagina?

Speaker 5 (33:01):
Okay, I'm gonna come back to you actually give me
your opinion first.

Speaker 2 (33:06):
I just know that there is so many different types
of sexual orientations and reasons why people get.

Speaker 9 (33:14):
Into different relationships. So it can be that this stud
is bisexual and they because the lesbian most likely won't
won't do that. Yeah, yeah, so that's excluded.

Speaker 2 (33:35):
So this sex, she might be bisexual, she might even
like women more, but now she's met a guy, so
this is her style.

Speaker 1 (33:44):
She she dressed, liked the dude. She liked to wear
old spice. You know what, So if a dude fuck
a chick who were old spice to think about.

Speaker 5 (33:59):
It's example, we we've all seen this commercial.

Speaker 4 (34:10):
With one of the Dion cart Dion Cole.

Speaker 1 (34:14):
Yeah, we've seen the old commercial. Thought about I don't
worry about that.

Speaker 8 (34:18):
I got your back.

Speaker 1 (34:20):
I don't worry Hey, hey, c K one is Unison,
so we'll just stick with K one. She said, you
know that she was dollar twenty years ago. That was
the first thing that got on our masks. Three friends, they.

Speaker 5 (34:50):
Don't do our live comments said she likes girls, but
if she did find a man.

Speaker 1 (34:57):
He's gonna kill her. Behind her she really people felt
her words.

Speaker 5 (35:02):
Okay, so yeah, Basically he says, if she like a nigga,
is gonna end up. You know what I'm saying being
jealous about that situation, about me like and about me
fucking with girl.

Speaker 4 (35:14):
Yeah, I'm gonna tell you like this.

Speaker 1 (35:18):
For whoever that was that made that comment, let me
tell you some love. First of all, you got.

Speaker 2 (35:26):
Uh like maybe of say fifteen percent of men that
would find that a sense.

Speaker 4 (35:34):
Let me read this.

Speaker 1 (35:35):
Then she likes girls.

Speaker 4 (35:40):
Like you're right, you.

Speaker 2 (35:45):
Do whatever you want to do, Hearty? Is this if
I mean a relationship and I happen to find me
a man that makes me feel like I wanna be
a little bit submissive to him.

Speaker 1 (35:58):
Today's topping. It's been a so let's just say that.
But if I found a man that don't want.

Speaker 2 (36:03):
To be a little bit submissive to from my previous
relationship of six years, I've done that several times.

Speaker 1 (36:10):
But it really just depends on his personality, his understanding, his.

Speaker 2 (36:18):
Gumps sort of speak, because most men always say, yeah,
this is something I want, this is my fantasy, and
then da da da da, But when it happened, they
don't even know how to fucking deal with the situation
because now they're in a situation to where they feel like, well, this.

Speaker 1 (36:34):
Shit really happens, this shit really going down.

Speaker 2 (36:37):
So if you're not really ready for me, stop asking
for shit and wishing for shit that you really ain't
ready for.

Speaker 1 (36:46):
I don't know what I'm saying.
Advertise With Us

Popular Podcasts

Stuff You Should Know
Dateline NBC

Dateline NBC

Current and classic episodes, featuring compelling true-crime mysteries, powerful documentaries and in-depth investigations. Special Summer Offer: Exclusively on Apple Podcasts, try our Dateline Premium subscription completely free for one month! With Dateline Premium, you get every episode ad-free plus exclusive bonus content.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty

On Purpose with Jay Shetty

I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace. I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!

Music, radio and podcasts, all free. Listen online or download the iHeart App.

Connect

© 2025 iHeartMedia, Inc.