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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Did you want to interview? Did you want a boring interview?
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (00:12):
Let's step all right, So you meet somebody, is it
on them to tell you that they're not single or
on you to ask?

Speaker 3 (00:29):
I say so with me, I like, I I'm gonna ask.

Speaker 4 (00:34):
So I'm gonna speak from my experience. I'm gonna be
the one to ask they want.

Speaker 5 (00:39):
I mean, if that, if that's what I'm on.

Speaker 1 (00:41):
You know what I mean.

Speaker 4 (00:41):
So if I'm if we're dating and we're trying to
date and we're seeing them, like, yeah, I will ask.
It'll be my first question because I don't want to
be nobody's side piece or anything.

Speaker 5 (00:50):
I don't want you to have a wife at home
and then they calling my phone or knocking on my door.

Speaker 6 (00:56):
Okay, you would say, who does? Okay, so y'all already
know motherfullers be in my inbox.

Speaker 7 (01:07):
I take it upon myself to say something first, and
that could be just in that situation as far as
like inbox jumpers, because it pissed me off.

Speaker 3 (01:15):
It just like it just eastantly boils my skin inbox jumpers.

Speaker 1 (01:18):
You gotta these things.

Speaker 3 (01:21):
So I had one today, motherfuckers said how are your
d M.

Speaker 5 (01:27):
Hi?

Speaker 7 (01:28):
Wait, hello, how may help you? I'm just speaking for
what what do you want? Like? You want exactly? When
I say how many help? Then they get all offended.
Oh I was just speaking, you mean, no, buzz the
fuck off?

Speaker 3 (01:41):
Like AnyWho?

Speaker 1 (01:45):
AnyWho.

Speaker 7 (01:47):
So let's say I'm at a bar and somebody approached
me and they say can I get to know you?
And I'll let that's where I'll let them know. You know,
I'm involved with somebody. Then they'll say, what can I
be your friend? No, because it wasn't your original attentions.

Speaker 1 (02:05):
Wait, hold up, top out, hold up, hold up. You
know what I'm saying, he's just trying to get to
know you.

Speaker 2 (02:11):
Rather, you got somebody that I don't mean he don't
want to get to know you.

Speaker 1 (02:15):
You may work in the field, you may have some goodness.

Speaker 3 (02:17):
That's not how they introduced themselves. That they all right,
just because.

Speaker 1 (02:29):
It was the basis of any good relationship. He got
a point.

Speaker 7 (02:33):
Now, No, No, your your original intension is to to
get with me, to fuck me? No, because it's because
that's how they presented themselves.

Speaker 2 (02:45):
How do you know what I mean? Who not present
themselves like that? I want to.

Speaker 3 (02:54):
Get to know you single?

Speaker 1 (02:58):
Would you mater? You know? Being friends, hanging out, communicating.

Speaker 5 (03:02):
Thank you?

Speaker 2 (03:02):
Why friends for involved? Know exactly exactly?

Speaker 1 (03:09):
Wait, ask your question on me? Asked your question.

Speaker 2 (03:13):
Okay, so a minute ago you said it was cool
for women to have male friends.

Speaker 8 (03:20):
What is the difference between no, because you.

Speaker 7 (03:28):
Have established friends friends that your your your mate, your
relationship friends friends, they know them because your friends like
man friends, they know who they are. You know what
I'm saying, It's not like.

Speaker 2 (03:42):
See what I say friends, I don't even if my
friends girl is.

Speaker 1 (03:47):
Not my friend, like I know her, she's my her
is my guys girl or whatever? You know what I mean? Like,
I don't understand how you friends with a man like you.
What is a friendship to a friendship?

Speaker 2 (04:04):
Because maybe I'm misunderstanding something when you say you and
the males can be friends because my friend, I don't
want to hear them about your man.

Speaker 1 (04:11):
Because it's two in the morning, I'm having a problem.
I need you. What are you talking about you my friend?
What kind of friend are you doing?

Speaker 2 (04:20):
So what I'm saying, if you're a male, you call
your female friend two in the morning. If you're a friend,
it ain't talk about ain't nothing. Listen to trim my
gal treatment. We already stormed out. I'm down here on
I don't know what's going on. What you're gonna tell him,
I'm laying next to my man that you gotta go.
I gotta go as your friend, you do your friends.

Speaker 4 (04:39):
Well, it just kind of depends on the situation because
you can't say that because if the person already knows
about you and such, I'll get up and be like, hey,
such and such having a problem.

Speaker 5 (04:49):
Let me step by.

Speaker 1 (04:50):
Do I say male friend thing? I don't. I don't
know in the morning, nobody I'm more serious about them.
Don't even have no room letting her mind her heart
because you absolutely better not do that. You know that's
gonna happen, like you have. I'm the most I'm the
most understanding man on this. By the time you get

(05:13):
back on, you gonna know. They better not.

Speaker 2 (05:18):
They shouldn't be calling your phone at two in the morning.
If they do, I won't say nothing.

Speaker 1 (05:21):
No, don't do that. They don't do that, right, there's
the boundaries to this friend friends. They know they might.

Speaker 5 (05:32):
Clock in the morning.

Speaker 1 (05:32):
It's okay for me to get up.

Speaker 9 (05:33):
And top third, Yeah, the issue that's not God and
real talk only for so long.

Speaker 1 (05:40):
That's okay. If you get up and go into the
other room and.

Speaker 2 (05:43):
You get talking, yeah, maybe I'm thinking you're talking about
some shit you shouldn't be talking about.

Speaker 1 (05:49):
But at least that.

Speaker 2 (05:50):
But if you're laying in the bed next to me
at two in the morning talking, you don't need to
hang up that phone.

Speaker 1 (05:55):
The same thing. Yeah, don't be like, what did she
call you for in the morning. That's definitely what I'm doing.

Speaker 3 (06:05):
That's your friend. If I asked you what you're doing
in the morning, she got this.

Speaker 1 (06:12):
So now I have to.

Speaker 2 (06:13):
Now I have to betray my friends confidence and tell
you her business.

Speaker 1 (06:18):
What if we want to know?

Speaker 2 (06:22):
That's why, you know, that's why you can't be friends
when you're in a serious relation.

Speaker 1 (06:26):
No, you ain't gonna tell you can be like she
was telling me some private ship. You can be honest.
That's what you said.

Speaker 3 (06:32):
This is what I'm saying. Ain't no secrets. Ain't no
secrets between me and you.

Speaker 1 (06:35):
Know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (06:38):
No, because my male friends time with Tripp.

Speaker 1 (06:42):
She just put me out.

Speaker 5 (06:43):
I'm like, you know, oh girl, Tripp.

Speaker 2 (06:47):
That's because you talked to me wanting only drama. That's
what take to the brand, though, Why.

Speaker 1 (06:59):
You ain't doing the same knowing God the things we're
talking about.

Speaker 7 (07:08):
Like I said, like I said at the beginning of
this interview, I'm gon reiterate because I don't think I
heard me the first time.

Speaker 3 (07:12):
I'm a very effectual communicator.

Speaker 5 (07:17):
Bars down is the communication.

Speaker 3 (07:19):
You don't know.

Speaker 7 (07:20):
Everything that's going on with me, my friends, my family.
You gonna know my circle, that's my circle. You gonna
know who they is at the ball and I ain't
and I ain't and at the bar, I ain't got
no time for no new people in my circle.

Speaker 3 (07:33):
I got what I needed, who I need in my circle.
I need no new friends.

Speaker 1 (07:38):
Okay, look, you got the right idea, but that's reserved
for marriage.

Speaker 2 (07:41):
How as a friend somebody you haven't married yet, how
do you feel like because other people who trust you
with their secrets, I don't know that you're telling them
to the person you're laying with.

Speaker 1 (07:56):
If you building that, you building that is wrong. You
don't share other people's business and secrets with you shouldn't
do it when you married either. Now when you married,
that's a difference. If it's wrong. It's wrong.

Speaker 2 (08:14):
Let me tell you why. It's a difference. Now, I
ain't saying every little beady greedy, but you know what
I'm saying, it's a difference when you're married. I may
say even when I'm married, though certain thing is going on.
I was sure I would let her know what was
going on with so and so because it may.

Speaker 1 (08:29):
Affect our life when we ain't married and together. Whatever
go on with me is with me.

Speaker 2 (08:35):
We married, somebody doing something or saying something or she
I need to let you know that. Yeah, my brother,
I don't know what you know getting high woo. So
if you come over to ain't hear it on?

Speaker 1 (08:45):
Just open. Do you know what I'm saying. I'm gonna
do that to my wife. Okay, your brother show up.

Speaker 2 (08:55):
That's my brother, that's my mother. The only thing on
super or even equal. Then I ain't gonna say superseded equal.
That is the woman I'm married to. Tell my brother
he can't come in. But boy, you better be Mary Magdalene.
But like if you're not marry Magdalene, I ain't really

(09:20):
got to do with it. You don't worry about nobody
doing damage, not you, but the same girl I'm talking about.
If I don't have this concern for her as a reason, right,
probably would already mentioned when you're out with your clothes
and dressing a certain way in everybody's face with all
these guys, you have certain limits with people you have

(09:41):
certain association with.

Speaker 5 (09:43):
So let me So this is the thing.

Speaker 4 (09:45):
So if you're not married to her, you don't have
you don't have no concern for the safety of her.

Speaker 2 (09:50):
I ain't said, because her depends on Because if it's
like a relationship.

Speaker 4 (09:55):
If somebody came high and you'll tell your wife.

Speaker 5 (09:58):
So she won't let nobody that this person you just
messing with, I.

Speaker 1 (10:06):
Tell her my brother getting had let my brother come by.

Speaker 5 (10:10):
I mean, so you don't care about the safety of
the person.

Speaker 1 (10:15):
I ain't saying that.

Speaker 2 (10:16):
But if she's a woman who I know for a fact,
take her own safety, serious about what she doing her life,
where's she go and who she uh be with and
be around. If I notice what she owned and she
for real, she probably won't that gonna be my wife,
and then yeah, I'm.

Speaker 1 (10:32):
Gonna tell her.

Speaker 2 (10:33):
But if you just out here doing ship anyway, and
I'm just working with you, and you probably got some
shit going on. Who who?

Speaker 1 (10:39):
What?

Speaker 10 (10:39):
What?

Speaker 1 (10:39):
Am I gonna stop my brother? But here's the reason. Example,
my brother alcoholic.

Speaker 9 (10:46):
Last time I saw him, he was in my house,
trip knocked over my sixty inch TV. That's gone backyard,
the balcony, the top real gone, the front door, the
stream door to fell through, that gone one visit.

Speaker 1 (11:11):
So if I ain't there, don't let this motherfucker in.
You see what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (11:16):
Now, regardless, you're gonna tell anybody.

Speaker 1 (11:20):
But that's that's what I'm saying. It depends on because
you got your own personal reasons.

Speaker 2 (11:27):
Now, if it's just a thing like what I'm saying
is be around it, I'm like, shit, I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (11:34):
Times not in that mind frame.

Speaker 2 (11:36):
That was the last time and that was the only
time he ever did shit like that in mine. And
guess what, he ain't coming back if I ain't there
and he ain't definitely come back and being that in
that type of mind frame.

Speaker 1 (11:47):
But the thing is, you never know what they're dealing with.

Speaker 2 (11:51):
When you ain't there and somebody show up at your house,
you don't know what mind frame I do.

Speaker 1 (11:56):
Have people show up in my door for in the morning,
ready to go kill people. You see what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (12:02):
So if if my woman home at law, I don't
even want herd of damn'na do it.

Speaker 1 (12:07):
Damn If they're doing that, these must be my guys.

Speaker 2 (12:11):
My god, I'm not the cut, but I don't want
my woman to have to deal with his crazy ass.

Speaker 1 (12:16):
Okay, now, now let's get to this.

Speaker 2 (12:18):
I was trying to just show that me and naturally
inherently treat women who are their wives, or even if
you carry and behave carry yourself and behaved, men will
naturally treat you with a high level of respect when
you out here doing you cannot be in no bar,
dressed like a whole drinking around niggashore, getting high and

(12:38):
then come home and saying, oh my safety. You don't
care about my safety. I like, you don't know why
you're playing with me. I'm asking you to get away
from me in a few more minutes. He's talking like,
I'm done. You gotta show respect your own safety. And
when I see that, that's.

Speaker 1 (12:54):
What you are. All right? Anybody else got something on
same good? That was a good one.

Speaker 9 (13:02):
All right, let's get Let's get That was the Weekly
Review sponsored by the Man Might.

Speaker 1 (13:05):
Coop over at Chicken Coop and Denise's place in Collinsville.
As we didn't even talk about that samuels Man. We
gonna yeah he got he gotta still hook you up.
Holler at him. Matter of fact, home doc sent you. Okay,
So now you said, what a past that ship.

Speaker 9 (13:23):
Now let's get into what we call just kicking here
and just kicking we discussed in the right situation some
matters of the hearts on every day issues.

Speaker 1 (13:31):
We all deal with them.

Speaker 2 (13:32):
Now it's the time to let the people know what
pets your p what you have experienced, most of what
you try to avoid, depending on how toxic your ass is.

Speaker 9 (13:39):
So first one round one of love shows, which show
you watching? Which one you canceling and which one you?

Speaker 1 (13:47):
Uh? What you calling it? U? T B O one whatever? Yeah,
you gotta watch the record one and cancel one? Love Connection,
the Bachelor and Baggage?

Speaker 5 (14:03):
Who first.

Speaker 3 (14:08):
Baggage. I'm definitely keeping.

Speaker 1 (14:10):
Alright watching it. You ain't lying, I'm watching baggage like
my mom.

Speaker 3 (14:14):
A baggage is funny at FU Love Connection.

Speaker 2 (14:18):
We're gonna X name cutting that and you're recording a
bachelor okay with the black name.

Speaker 1 (14:24):
Oh, season five.

Speaker 5 (14:31):
Yeah, I'll record The Bachelor.

Speaker 1 (14:38):
Okay, love Connection, m oh yeah, I cut that and
you're watching back all right, baggage getting some us today.
Real you you know these shows about to say you.

Speaker 2 (14:57):
I would cancel all that ship and you know what
I'm saying, like, look, oh my god, look I always
locked them up in an island somewhere for that. And
I'm gonna tell you something, man, not because I'm overly
tripping about. It's just more so if you look at
what's going on with these relationships, we have a serious

(15:18):
problem in our house. And we're not gonna win as
men until these women get in Oh, we all in
line together.

Speaker 1 (15:24):
We're not gonna win until we on the same page.
That's a promise. That's the only way we can do this.

Speaker 2 (15:29):
So anytime we are participating in indulging in anything that
go against the natural order, like we taking ourselves away
from it. And I see that as a major, major,
major problem man.

Speaker 1 (15:41):
I mean, it's just a problem in everything we do.

Speaker 2 (15:44):
Man, if you look at it, the relationship should be
linking back to so much and so many different things.
The broken homes, you know what I mean, the kids
with no father or mother, so if you think about that, man,
that's a serious problem.

Speaker 1 (15:55):
I don't support nothing to go against it. Nothing. Okay,
So you can't say what I set up dating ship.

Speaker 2 (16:05):
What I would, I don't. I don't support anything that
goes against the natural order of man and woman being together,
having a family.

Speaker 7 (16:16):
Saying TV is in a weapon, Yes, absolutely, I ain't
specifically about the.

Speaker 1 (16:27):
Man. That ship is ridiculous. Why they're trying to pump
and promote that ship? Kids? When these shows you're not sure?
I don't know. I don't watch the Basket. Maybe they
had a gay guy on there. I don't know. You
see what I'm saying. This ship is extremely weird.

Speaker 9 (16:41):
All right, Gurus, Uh, you gotta walk again? Watch one,
record one, cancel one.

Speaker 1 (16:49):
Let's go with it. Canvas Samuels, Dereck Jackson, doctor Ruth.

Speaker 2 (16:55):
You ain't say doctor doctor Sam ain't talking about sex
and relationships?

Speaker 9 (17:01):
Hum, man, yeah, we go.

Speaker 1 (17:08):
Damn. That's the dude who got called cheating on his wife.
Are he given relationship advice? Yeah? Yeah, Like this is

(17:28):
this is how to be a good man. Didn't got
to ask a question like I'm just asked. It's a
man that don't cheat.

Speaker 2 (17:37):
Hope.

Speaker 1 (17:37):
So I'm asking the man, what's what's it depends on
what you call?

Speaker 2 (17:43):
Yeah, get in all what you call is it a
man that don't cheat?

Speaker 1 (17:49):
This? Is there a man who who will never cheat?

Speaker 9 (17:54):
There are some, I promise you there are some men
and women on walking this planet would never there are Yeah,
I believe it, and you.

Speaker 2 (18:07):
Believe that there are women that will go in an
entire relationship and never ever choose.

Speaker 7 (18:12):
Yes.

Speaker 1 (18:13):
I know. I know human beings, multiple human beings who've.

Speaker 2 (18:17):
Only had sex with one person the entire life, and
that's the person that's still marriage.

Speaker 1 (18:22):
I know multile older generations. They don't make them no
more like that. Let me tell you something. I gotta
give you a lot of game about. Women. Got something
that's called don't count, don't count men do to No.

Speaker 2 (18:39):
If I sit back and get my body count, I'm
gonna be real about what I ain't gonna be.

Speaker 1 (18:43):
No that don't count, that don't.

Speaker 9 (18:45):
Count, No, that I don't count, not count somebody I
didn't want to do it.

Speaker 1 (18:55):
Let's let's let's let's let's put something out on the table. Women,
women got that thing that don't care. Let's let's let's
let's get Let's give you this. Let's give you this, bro,
Let's give you this. I'm gonna give you some game.

Speaker 9 (19:06):
Right, women can write men to who?

Speaker 1 (19:11):
You don't even hear what I've said. I heard you
say that. I'm just shocked.

Speaker 2 (19:14):
I want to know what woman can wrap a man
unless he's a child adolescent.

Speaker 1 (19:20):
There are a hundred different ways. Have you ever heard? Okay,
let me ask you this. You think a woman ever
gave you? Of course, same ship.

Speaker 9 (19:34):
You know you don't think well, if you don't think
women can embarrass men in the habit sex.

Speaker 1 (19:42):
Embarrassed black man possible, sir, I'm gonna let you know who.
That's what I'm saying. We can't tell nobody, but we
can't tell nobody, but it happens.

Speaker 2 (20:03):
I mean no, I mean like, how do you I
think the man really want this to happen? Because no
man is gonna sit up and openly accept a woman
terrorizing him.

Speaker 1 (20:14):
It ti fucking hurt.

Speaker 2 (20:16):
A ground about Yeah, mister sat up in the Carter County,
don't get off my yard unless you want to fuck now.
I might play argue with you a little bit there,
say you need to stop and you harass me and
answered the phone. Every time you call the tell her
you messing will be at all it. See know what

(20:38):
I'm saying people be doing.

Speaker 1 (20:39):
I can't even continue without incriminating people. So I'm.

Speaker 2 (20:44):
I'm just saying on some man, when you don't want something,
you don't want it, play with it.

Speaker 1 (20:49):
You you were a little bit open for okay, so
flip that.

Speaker 9 (20:52):
And as horrible as this fucking sounds, you think a
woman rate counts that as a That's what I'm saying everybody.

Speaker 2 (21:04):
If you're talking to like a person that you're gonna
marry or married, well it should be before you get
married and y'all decided to go over there, I think.

Speaker 1 (21:14):
She should Yeah, damn right, you for more.

Speaker 2 (21:17):
Reasons than sexual purposes, you know what I'm saying, For
mental health purposes. She should tell the man that she's
going to marry and countic not as a she went
out of got.

Speaker 1 (21:29):
I'm just saying, as this is what has went on
with her.

Speaker 7 (21:34):
Body before you get married, do you think it's important
to talk about body care?

Speaker 2 (21:40):
Yeah? I wouldn't ask for a specific surprise when the
mind nothing you didn't matter, does not matter.

Speaker 1 (21:53):
But because that.

Speaker 11 (21:59):
Man matter, what are you not from knowing, well, a
lot about you really matter because a woman may.

Speaker 2 (22:11):
Tell me when I went to a dark time in
my life, so I was drinking a lot and I
had sex with me.

Speaker 1 (22:19):
Because you think you this.

Speaker 4 (22:21):
Person you get I want to be with you, and
I heard it is.

Speaker 1 (22:29):
Are we free to make that decision? I said, we
should discuss.

Speaker 3 (22:34):
I thought, my god.

Speaker 1 (22:37):
You can't tell me that.

Speaker 2 (22:38):
You can You want to keep that to yourself like
that is crazy and you're gonna live with that in
your heart for the rest of your life.

Speaker 1 (22:43):
Yes, baby, here you go your pancakes and you knowing
your cracking. Man, I don't feel like I'm cracking, Like,
come on, man, that's not even It shouldn't even be ad.
It's not even a conversation. How many?

Speaker 2 (23:03):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (23:03):
So what else shouldn't we talk about? What hold?

Speaker 8 (23:06):
I don't want to.

Speaker 3 (23:10):
I never said.

Speaker 7 (23:11):
I never said you're not gonna know who I've had
sex with, especially if I know that you know.

Speaker 3 (23:15):
That person or you know if I'm you know what
I'm saying. We walked it wrong. But I love the number, man, this,
So why does the number matter?

Speaker 1 (23:22):
Because matter?

Speaker 7 (23:26):
I don't know exactly, you don't even know how many
people who slept the woman slept with.

Speaker 2 (23:33):
The one is for her to saying, I don't know.
I need to know that marriage as a man and
woman thing. Right, So he might want to know if
you ever slept with another woman. I've been with another
that's a different questions. You know that.

Speaker 1 (23:45):
Uh No, I definitely need that body count.

Speaker 5 (23:48):
Damn't know what I'm saying either, don't count.

Speaker 1 (23:52):
I think you know what I'm saying. I know.

Speaker 2 (23:56):
All type of niggas. The one time the baby can't
give him any way to what that don't count and
I'll be missing. I grew up around women, bro may O.

Speaker 5 (24:06):
One the question was, I.

Speaker 1 (24:12):
Don't think we need to do the relationship a small
What if that's limits of what I want to accept.
You ain't gonna give me the option. Okay, wow?

Speaker 3 (24:31):
Why so they tell you about believe let.

Speaker 1 (24:34):
Me tell you people have.

Speaker 2 (24:35):
People don't change who they are, their core habits or
their core habits.

Speaker 1 (24:39):
Right.

Speaker 2 (24:39):
That's why I asked you about how you meet them,
how they are with you? You enjoyed that. A woman
does not engage in that unless she enjoys it. And
you can't tell me I'm the only man that you
have enjoyed.

Speaker 1 (24:53):
You just said it yourself that you got pity pussy.

Speaker 2 (24:58):
You understand that some women, some women had gave me
a pussy just because so he would stop crying. You
see what I'm saying, She's not enjoying that, he's just
giving him pussy. So he shut the fuck up and
literally back to sleep. What I thought you meant? I
thought you meant like she was crying and he consoled her.

Speaker 1 (25:17):
Mad love to it. Okay, No, Now.

Speaker 2 (25:20):
There's been sometime that you an't got pussy and that
woman did not want to paid.

Speaker 1 (25:24):
Pussy when you go working twelve hours shi if somewhere,
Come on, what I'm saying she's not always enjoying it.
That's pity or he's a pussy, but she's not always
into the sex. But what's wrong with it? You just
saying I didn't look know so I didn't. Literally I'm
telling you when I don't. Okay me now, man, that
ain't allowed about this.

Speaker 2 (25:47):
There are a lot of women who said there's nothing.
A lot of women will please to have sex with
their husband. Man, we don't really want you know exactly.
But what am I saying?

Speaker 1 (25:57):
That's round, but that's something.

Speaker 7 (26:02):
I want to know, you to Why would you ask
a question? No, we need to know body count? Okay,
body count? And like I said, if she tell you five,
will she tells you twenty? You wouldn't believe her answer.

Speaker 3 (26:16):
So what's the point of her telling you she tells
the truth?

Speaker 1 (26:20):
I believe that she tell me one hundred. This to me,
if she tells me the truth, if it's one, I
don't have one. Tell me that before you know if
it's true. But what the point? No, woman, know what?
I will tell you one thing you're not going to.
There's a certain number that doesn't ask because some questions.

(26:42):
Niggas don't ask. They don't want to, they don't want
to know. I don't even bring it up.

Speaker 5 (26:46):
It'll change.

Speaker 1 (26:47):
It won't change that, niggas. No, I know it's over.
It's gonna change because I'm gonna change how I am
towards you.

Speaker 9 (26:53):
All right, last rank and last ranking, dating sites, Tender,
plenty of Fish and Facebook.

Speaker 1 (26:59):
No, I ain't get all the holds off Facebook. I
would never in my life meant nobody else the Internet.
You know you don't fuck somebody off never. No, I'm
never fucking nobody on Facebook.

Speaker 2 (27:12):
Everybody else just tabing on somebody they met on Facebook.
I swear to go out, I married somebody I met
on Facebook. Wait on face.

Speaker 1 (27:24):
Like you wasn't fucking with Facebook? Connect with you and
you ended up sucking. But y'all was youall?

Speaker 2 (27:31):
Y'all wasn't talking though, you didn't know fucking with you?
Nobody seeing them on face y'all. And now y'all fucking
got that number one fucking through Facebook.

Speaker 1 (27:42):
Oh no, I ain't never know. That was a long
way to get back to that note.

Speaker 2 (27:47):
That's what I know, or definitely any other site. Hell no,
I would about Facebook and something real life right now?

Speaker 12 (27:56):
That all right, that's what I'm talking about, baby, Yeah,
all right, we got time to talk dirty.

Speaker 1 (28:11):
We're gonna get through Blake.

Speaker 9 (28:14):
No, you said, okay, I think we.

Speaker 1 (28:20):
Don't need no more advice. We done gave enough relationship
advice by the day. I feel like we just did
enough relationship advice.

Speaker 10 (28:28):
You can never have enough, all right, fuck it relationship
advice then, all right.

Speaker 9 (28:31):
Now, what I need for y'all thirty to me right now,
what we get into is that what she good?

Speaker 1 (28:37):
Shit? That that wow wow?

Speaker 9 (28:39):
Basically what goes on in the bedroom andmore so Okay,
actually we got one that good.

Speaker 1 (28:47):
Old messenger, so we'll just.

Speaker 10 (28:49):
Hop on right on a good old message. So I
spied on my wife, married eleven years, two kids, and
a new home. She's been working out and.

Speaker 9 (29:01):
Trying to transform her transform her body, and I'm proud
of her. By the way, my ex wife went through
a transformation and then started cheating on me. I know
they're different, but I noticed the same actions about my wife.

Speaker 2 (29:16):
She came home one time, she was shot in my touch.
She was hiding her body from me. She had super
soft shaved legs.

Speaker 9 (29:24):
I never remember her being this move before, and she
had bruises on her thigh and her butt. She recently
went to her hometown for a funeral and saw a
lot of people from her past. So I checked her
iPad and there was alert from a guy in her
hometown saying she is awesome and hot and how he

(29:44):
wants to vacate on her body.

Speaker 1 (29:46):
What the fuck I need? Okay? I played dumb for
a couple of weeks.

Speaker 9 (29:50):
Then I saw he asked for her to call him
block and met up with him, and meet up with him.
She responded with her phone numb when I asked her
about it the other guys she played.

Speaker 2 (30:03):
When I asked her about other guys, she played dumb
and accused me of spying. Then she said he's just
a harmless X.

Speaker 9 (30:11):
I think me spying has caused damage to the relationship,
but I feel like I was just trying to protect
my marriage reading that ship.

Speaker 2 (30:18):
You crazy, Look, bro, I need you to get some Okay,
y'all go ahead. Yeah, somebody said that generating crazy?

Speaker 1 (30:29):
All right?

Speaker 2 (30:35):
She was doing that.

Speaker 1 (30:37):
Got no faith in.

Speaker 7 (30:41):
Number one indicator change behavior, change behavior. We are creatures
of habits. We're habitual people. And if we change our
habits up for that, if we change our habit, that
means something changed in the ship, that means she no
longer love you, honey. And first off, first off, it

(31:05):
wouldn't be no week, nothing, no two weeks, no one week.
You gonna ask immediately that day, what the fuck is this?

Speaker 3 (31:09):
What you're waiting for?

Speaker 1 (31:11):
Spine or not?

Speaker 3 (31:11):
You shall have a right.

Speaker 7 (31:12):
Did you pay for out there?

Speaker 1 (31:14):
Out there?

Speaker 7 (31:14):
Who pay for the bill? Who pay for the bill?
I are you stupid? And if you cheated on you, you
deserved it?

Speaker 1 (31:22):
Oh you know why? Because you stupid?

Speaker 7 (31:24):
Okay, the first time you saw the message. The first
time you saw a message, she gave a number. She
would have been signed my divorce papers.

Speaker 5 (31:31):
I tell you that.

Speaker 9 (31:32):
Mmm, all right, anybody else this is typical, man, This is.

Speaker 1 (31:42):
This is so.

Speaker 2 (31:43):
This is the level of power that women have accumulator
through being accepted in the workforce, in the corporate world,
being able to get the like, if you're a wealthy
black man, they will gladly.

Speaker 1 (31:56):
Deal with you. But if you are not.

Speaker 2 (31:59):
It's but black women, you know what I mean, they
find it easy to navigate their system, whatever they got
going on out there. Right, So that type of power
causes them to feel this way. Like you know, used
to have him thinking he did something wrong?

Speaker 1 (32:16):
Bang, Like what is this? I'm like, what what about
another man? You talk me? I'm spaing on you. Yeah,
what you come off with.

Speaker 5 (32:33):
Her cheating is okay, that's not what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (32:37):
But here we go cheated for a reason that the
reasons a reason, there's no such reason to that is
total bullshit. There's no such thing saying nigga can do that.

Speaker 8 (32:58):
No, there's a reason to say I want to leave
this marriage. Listen the horse so she can go fu right,
can say you just reason, got.

Speaker 5 (33:11):
Reason, she should have just left.

Speaker 1 (33:13):
I agree with you, should have made it clear. I
want out of this. Let's sign this, let's do this.
I'm moving on. Is over for really over there trying
to manipulate the minds of men.

Speaker 4 (33:23):
But I'm saying, I just feel like there is something
wrong in their relationship for her to even have to
step Yeah.

Speaker 1 (33:30):
So address the issue in the relationship and give me relationship.

Speaker 5 (33:35):
I agree with that. I agree with you.

Speaker 1 (33:39):
What's your son? What relationships? It all makes sense? Now
make sense? Now? Did we do that with your women? Saying? Nowadays? Man?
What's y'all doing that? All? Right? Like, do y'all not
want this to work?

Speaker 2 (33:56):
Now? We want?

Speaker 1 (33:56):
Like, what's going on?

Speaker 2 (33:59):
Is it.

Speaker 1 (34:01):
Up?

Speaker 3 (34:04):
I'm the type of person, one hundred percent.

Speaker 7 (34:06):
I'm the type of person who would believe in becoming
a widow before divorce.

Speaker 1 (34:11):
And I don't care who won't like it either.

Speaker 2 (34:13):
Man, y'all listen to these little girls, especially the ones
I'm I'm saying Louis and they run around talking to
little ship.

Speaker 1 (34:18):
They saying, y'all heard the little girls? They rap? You
know what I'm saying. They off the north side and
all they saying the word ship.

Speaker 2 (34:25):
That's cool though, but that's see, I don't care what
any public opinion, right, that's not alter the nature of truth.
You cannot change what's reality, and reality is that it's wrong.
So for you to accept it because it's what's followed
for the the mindset r E fuck bigger free Yeah,

(34:47):
hanging out the window with my ratchet ass bread.

Speaker 3 (34:50):
Oh you know it sound very well?

Speaker 7 (34:51):
I don't even knowing, No, Look, how do I know
that song?

Speaker 1 (34:56):
I ain't never playing on the song. And look for alright,
we we we're bringing you back.

Speaker 2 (35:03):
Because like situation, many'all gonna be crazy as let's go,
all right, let's finish this up in a man's mind.

Speaker 1 (35:13):
Statements left for in a man's mind, how do you
allow men to be men? Uh? I think we addressed
that earlier with.

Speaker 2 (35:20):
That all men secretly want their woman to be in charge.
I don't know who the fun said that ship.

Speaker 1 (35:29):
I feel that.

Speaker 2 (35:32):
Yeah, yeah, maybe that's what it works, what works, because
I definitely want you in charge of our affairs.

Speaker 1 (35:39):
Everything.

Speaker 9 (35:39):
I think this came up on the post about that
men women proposing to man. Somebody left the comment in
a man's mind, don't chase him.

Speaker 1 (35:46):
Ever at any woman. Don't never do and men get bored.

Speaker 2 (35:52):
Man, No, no, not don't chase. Why let him be
known that you're interested in let him you so, because
you take that as part of who you are, your person.

Speaker 1 (36:03):
Yeah you if you chase meation everything you want. Okay,
as soon as I I take with me, I'm gonna
pull up my party up like she was chasing me.

Speaker 5 (36:10):
You said, what now, I said, letting the person know
that you're.

Speaker 1 (36:13):
Yeah, chasing and letting.

Speaker 9 (36:15):
Yeah, chasing is not like I got somebody who hit
my inbox now every two days and I ain't responding her.

Speaker 1 (36:21):
Like for months. But they're interested, though you saying that's chasing.
They let you know they're interested. They didn't let me know.
They let me know. She sit up this the whole
bunch of niggas like what what, what? What's up? Wanted?
And the last one, men get bored when she's too
easy to get. That's a statement I heard that men
get bored when she's too easy to get. All right,

(36:43):
since we we we ain't gonna get too far into it,
but we do got a little game time before we wrap.

Speaker 2 (36:48):
Don't take that too far now, ladies, that we're just saying,
last game, we got to too hard.

Speaker 9 (37:00):
Seen in practical jokers, y'all know. In practical joker. Okay,
you go first. So what's your birth month?

Speaker 1 (37:08):
August?

Speaker 9 (37:10):
Okay, so blue shirt, you gotta get a tattoo of August,
your celebrity crush and first name t at white castles.
You gotta get a tattoo of your celebrity crush at
white castles.

Speaker 1 (37:27):
That's your practical jokers punishment. All right, who's that you
gotta get a tattoo of its celebrity crush? Who is
this celebrity crush? And which white castles you go to?

Speaker 2 (37:41):
It's allowed to go with it any white the sign you.

Speaker 1 (37:52):
Ain't never going You ain't never getting your food, and
it ain't gonna be y'all heard of birthday? Right, you
know what I'm saying. Let's go tell a lot so
you got you gotta drive, all right, that's the question.
Who is your celebrity crush?

Speaker 2 (38:10):
H my first Okay, it was a little update update.

Speaker 1 (38:18):
Who was a new update? Who have yeah said? Today?
Let me think about I ain't say you ain't got
time I gotta get.

Speaker 2 (38:33):
Okay, we'll come back in October. You gotta driving around
your mom and dad.

Speaker 1 (38:41):
On the plane. Whatever.

Speaker 2 (38:43):
Okay, yeah, no, I'm just you gotta play games.

Speaker 1 (38:52):
We gotta play a game. You gotta play a game.

Speaker 2 (38:54):
You play a game. Well, we did have another one.
Did you want to say all your possessions or organ
what you gotta said all your possessions or vital by open.

Speaker 1 (39:09):
Something? Ship? All right? So what's your birth month? Running
off and had with all my possessions? July? July? Okay,
this might be good ship. Okay? White shirt July.

Speaker 2 (39:21):
Okay, okay, okay, you gotta get handcuffed to a sumo champion.

Speaker 1 (39:29):
For a focused group. You do that. So we're gonna
say white shirt, white shirt, white shirt, okay? Or multicolored No,
you got multicolored shirt. I should have gave all your
multicolored shirts. All right? What's your month? What's your month?

(39:53):
Birth month? June? Okay? And okay, mmm, I wish you
had a different first name. But you gotta get scared
by a little ghost girl. A focus that works? Then
you had a focus group. You can't leave. You gotta

(40:14):
focus ship. Nope, I can't do it. I can't do it.
I can't do it. I cannot do it. I cannot
do it. No m hm, okay, So here we go,

(40:35):
mister strips.

Speaker 3 (40:37):
Drive around.

Speaker 1 (40:39):
I'm I'm doing. I don't know what i gotta do,
but I'm doing. After that.

Speaker 9 (40:46):
The beach, I got drive around Jaden Smith on the beach,
all right, and that's the end of the shelf.

Speaker 1 (40:53):
So go ahead, please, it's play one time. Who you
are and what.

Speaker 9 (41:01):
My name is.

Speaker 4 (41:03):
I'm the owner of Mixed Medals Jewelry. You can find
me on all social media platforms at Purple Diamond with
the points.

Speaker 2 (41:14):
Right, man, There's quite a few things going on, so
I'm gonna try not to be too fast, but get
it out man. Every Friday and every Saturday, I'm a
thirty five twenty eight North Grand that's say Grand and
Natural Bridge, across the street from the Zodiac. I'm downstairs
the door where the balloons at. Every Friday we turned
up Saturday, we're gonna start opening up the mic. On Sundays.

(41:35):
We got to puff and perform at the back room.
Hooker Lounes or ninety nine away theory. One of the
biggest things on my mind in my heart right now
is the HiT's the heel. I'll do a boxing event
that's coming up to July to night. That's gonna be
at the new Riverview Plaza at real View and Broadway.
The tickets all vailib on e Van Bright. It's gonna
be really meet me, have some celebrity judges, come in
a real ring, set up some real exhibition matches. We

(41:58):
will have some kickbox and we have some select be
good matches, comedians boxing.

Speaker 1 (42:02):
My music will be in the building.

Speaker 2 (42:04):
They sure will be there, you know what I mean,
going live and it's gonna bring the kids. Bouce House
food trucks, Hey, popcorn, ice cream, everything.

Speaker 9 (42:11):
Man.

Speaker 2 (42:11):
So that's July ninth, and uh, the shout out to
everybody who's been in port of the stovetop radio, sweets collections,
boutigue man.

Speaker 1 (42:19):
And I am working with the ambassador right now.

Speaker 2 (42:23):
If you need some venues for your shows, concerts, if
you need some catering, if you need anything, yeah, get
with me, you know what I mean. So we got
a lot going on. They got a lot of good packages.
I can walk you through what they got available. You know,
if you're a performer, artists or whatever, you want to
get a venue space, throw your concert, get with me.

Speaker 1 (42:42):
Appreciation scenario. Oh Man, scenario.

Speaker 13 (42:49):
Man, Uh, what I got going on? Winging Winsgamore every
Wednesday and Legacy.

Speaker 2 (42:57):
Wing Wednesday, tim me open mic, well be poetry, uh music,
do whatever you wanna do you bring her, I don't
care what you do.

Speaker 1 (43:05):
Shut your town on stage. I'm right whatever, win that
the ship.

Speaker 2 (43:14):
Too month song, got the fires, Wings come, get the
scenario Wings Henny Wings tomorrow.

Speaker 1 (43:20):
What's you doing?

Speaker 13 (43:20):
Man?

Speaker 1 (43:21):
I got you the more.

Speaker 5 (43:24):
You know what?

Speaker 1 (43:24):
At the nerve please, I'm gonna forget. Remind me. I'm
coming tomorrow. I'm nerve tomorrow. We at the back.

Speaker 2 (43:31):
Uh.

Speaker 13 (43:32):
We have the motherfucking Legacy Wigan Wings Day.

Speaker 1 (43:34):
All right, what's going on? Yeah about union?

Speaker 10 (43:38):
Yeah?

Speaker 13 (43:38):
Okay, all right, what else going on? I gotta show
this Friday.

Speaker 2 (43:43):
I'm hosting man at Josh Stevo pull up, I'm hosting
Black Pack.

Speaker 13 (43:48):
Laugh to hirts Port four.

Speaker 2 (43:49):
We got Frank Lyles, We got more fucking h Charles,
Nigga COMMANDI got j B on that be.

Speaker 13 (43:54):
If you're gonna turn up, it's gonna be lit.

Speaker 2 (43:57):
Get the motherfucking tickets from Phil Hilip Cartney got the nigga,
the private.

Speaker 13 (44:00):
School, he got the tickets and ship. Yeah, you know
what I'm saying, cornball.

Speaker 1 (44:07):
Definitely black pack man, trying to tell him about the
boxing that you got coming up. Oh yeah, I'm in
that history here.

Speaker 13 (44:12):
Wanna change it one night?

Speaker 9 (44:14):
You know what I'm saying, I'm.

Speaker 13 (44:15):
Doing twenty four. Uh now that the twenty four Saturn.

Speaker 2 (44:18):
You know what I'm saying, training for the month fucking
boxing match, man, he's gonna be boxing travel lasts. Man,
this is gonna be one a great thing. Yeah, it's
gonna be real recording, it's gonna be real. A lot
going on, man, it's all good man. You know, like
I said this Friday where it's at Friday the thirteenth,
don's be ball.

Speaker 13 (44:36):
I'm hosting this leg It's loot.

Speaker 1 (44:41):
Give me man, people tripping man.

Speaker 3 (44:50):
Ohkay, okay, all right, y'all.

Speaker 7 (44:53):
I am Blake Lee and you can find me here
at the playground after dark every.

Speaker 5 (44:59):
Tuesday and.

Speaker 1 (45:02):
This work.

Speaker 3 (45:04):
You can probably on Facebook Bria Blake Lee Keys, or
you can call me on Xtagram at Beauty Works her
name ninety one exclamation point, exclamation point. Y'all, stay tuned.

Speaker 7 (45:15):
I do have a show that I'm putting together coming
July fifteenth. It is Blakelee presents that Gas Grown in
Sexy event. I do want you all to pop out flyers,
It's coming out tickets, It's coming. It's gonna be a legacy,
so stay tuned. Is July fifteenth, July fifteen, July fifteen,

(45:37):
all

Speaker 1 (45:38):
Right, oh my turn out yee ah
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