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Speaker 1 (00:00):
I welcome to the playground after dark.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
This is your one stop shot for all questions, answers,
and matters of their real ship.
Speaker 1 (00:08):
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Speaker 2 (00:11):
And your brandy can't see unless Grandma free because.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
It all goes down after playground your back. Let's get
this ship going. I'm super pumped for this one.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
You got some special special guests in the building and
I've been waiting on this interview for a while.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
So Blake Lee, how you doing today? Swell to tell?
All right time, Okay, all right, let's go ahead and
(00:55):
go around table. Let the people know who you are
and what you got going on. I am Russian.
Speaker 3 (01:00):
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there with.
Speaker 4 (01:07):
The point a right.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Okay, Oh that's what's up. Y'all know what it is.
Man's the boy, real man, too skilled, real real double
scill man.
Speaker 5 (01:25):
I appreciate being here. It's definitely an honor, you know
what I mean. Salute to the host, shout out to
the show. Gets me on Facebook. I g real double scale.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
See when you're engineering here, you gotta you gotta running
and stuff. You know what I'm saying. You just gotta
make the show start, alright, And I now that I
know your name, I'm gonna let you introduce yourself anyway.
Speaker 6 (01:49):
Okay, I scared.
Speaker 7 (01:53):
I am the post perfectly, perfectly. I was not supposed
to be over your shower, but somebody told me to
come to this table. Is it's a pleasure to be
here almost some beautiful dope people.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
Talking about y'all.
Speaker 8 (02:07):
Oh, y'all, all, y'all, everybody right here. Also, you can
catch me on Instagram and percing in perfect three.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
I love you. Yeah, you know, you know, you know
team man. Come on, man, let them know who get
to talk about it. We can not get you a
bottle girl, all right now? He can this about him?
(02:37):
This about her celebration scenarios in the building, they talk
bottles and I am not air horning that ship scenario.
Speaker 9 (02:52):
The comedian man, I'm just had the bill, got show
coming up this weekend. Stay telling her about that ship, yes, sir,
but to talk.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
Hey, hey, Yang talking dirty after dark when it's still
light outside, but we darken subject.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
And we are sponsored about just kicking the good folks
here at my seeing my music radio. Man, this is
that high right here I'll be talking about.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
So we got a lot. Man, Look what I didn't
do it? I guess I did. Okay.
Speaker 10 (03:28):
I think like I.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
Totally threw away the script I had for this week
as soon as I found out this food passed away.
Kevin Simmons, it kind of.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
Like gave me the whole show right there in itself.
And what we were talking about, like, he gave me
a whole line of topics to bum down.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
You know what I'm saying. It was gonna be a
little bit more serious, but I feel like we can
have some foolery today. What y'all think?
Speaker 11 (03:55):
Yeah, you know, may respects to Kevin Samuel, Okay, yeah,
because in my opinion, you know, everybody's entitled to their
own opinion.
Speaker 10 (04:09):
You know, he may have some knowledge, he and honestly,
the stuff that he was saying was actual facts.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
You know.
Speaker 10 (04:14):
It's it's stuff that even though it was said.
Speaker 11 (04:16):
Harshly, but it's stuff that people need her And sometimes
people need to be told harshly for them to make
a change and really see what's going on with them,
because you ain't you ain't always roses and some people
are frown like they like they the ship all the
time and they ain't.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
Understand. Yeah, I didn't mean a fool in that. Man,
I'm a fool in the way of the the foolery.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
He's involved in because it's around him and the other
ones around there and that that conversation, right, but real
talk a lot of the ship, he says, I actually
did agree with, especially when I saw yesterday that said
men should paper everything.
Speaker 6 (04:57):
With that.
Speaker 5 (04:57):
Yeah, if you're a you disagree, well, well, okay, how
about shoot is the key word? It just seems to
be the proper thing to do.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
If you I can agree with ship, I could agree
with if you're able.
Speaker 1 (05:17):
That's different.
Speaker 10 (05:19):
Not everybody, But I say this show I do believe.
Speaker 11 (05:24):
I do believe it's not solely on them, because you know,
women like to treat women treat you know, if you
treat me.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
Right as a man, I cannot allow you to take
me out and pay for my dinner. It's just not
not in my blood. I can't do that. I cannot
do that.
Speaker 11 (05:45):
You pay for it.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Okay, Now, now I did.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
I did, like allow one one lady to go half
on the dinner one time, but even then I made
her pass me her money under the table.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
It was something by my bones. I just can't allow
you to put money on the table. Let me do that.
Where you get that from?
Speaker 2 (06:14):
Because exactly my father showed me that my mom only
had to pay her cell phone bill and whatever else
when she went shopping, as far as the house, the food,
the lights, the clothes on my back, the extra shit
that I needed. My dad took care of everything else.
My mom took care of her bill that she created, period.
(06:35):
And I mean, I'm not saying that's necessarily the way
it has to be, but that was a beautiful setup
for me, and I definitely would like to reciprocate that
in my relationships.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
How's that going for I tell you that I've been
singing about ten years now. Great, you know what I'm saying,
I didn't have for this now. But you you're a
little too excited about my my loneliness came from earlier generation, right. Absolutely,
(07:10):
that's definitely been like a you taste. Yes, absolutely, because
women here, women making all the money. That's that's a
big quin. That's a big more than know. I mean,
power isn't toxic.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
Anytime you go from being like y'all got say, ain't
no raise y'all, hand y'all just talking what you gotta say.
Speaker 6 (07:29):
No, the reason I'm saying like you so you feel
that you can is okay.
Speaker 1 (07:36):
And the woman doesn't pay for anything. What do you
get in return the relationship?
Speaker 6 (07:41):
What do you know? What?
Speaker 1 (07:44):
What value she brings to the relationship is what I'm
getting in return? Man, So what's your value? Because your
value not the money, not only the money, but to me,
money ain't ship. Well, I mean right, I've been. I
don have been. Don't tell me. I'm not saying that
(08:05):
because i'd have been through the struggle with my wife
and all this. I haven't been when I was married.
Speaker 11 (08:10):
That was he was married.
Speaker 1 (08:12):
I made that mistake one time. I don't think. I
think you're gonna have a very hard today making me
say that it's definitely different.
Speaker 2 (08:26):
Yeah, I get that because right now, Like okay, one
of the points I was gonna bring up is about women,
like women like yourself, y'all out here, like at the.
Speaker 1 (08:37):
Pop up shop game, like y'all is running it like
men can't even get in that lane for real. Like
when it comes to stuff like that, I feel like women.
Speaker 2 (08:52):
I treated the same better or worse than the male
counterparts are entrepreneurship Lane.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
We'll see, as women, we tend to multitask. Men can
only focus on one thing.
Speaker 2 (09:05):
So when we moves man so like this is I'm
taking I'm being offended by that.
Speaker 11 (09:11):
Now.
Speaker 3 (09:11):
Women are more successful in the when we're being entrepreneurs.
It's because we can be mama and be in the relationship,
run a family and probably even still have to work
a job, and still run a business with a little sleep,
little time, and we still make it work. Men can
(09:32):
probably only focus on one thing at a time by
this time the business going.
Speaker 1 (09:40):
I understand what you're saying, but go ahead. That's what
I'm saying because I will admit to some point when
it comes to the hustle.
Speaker 2 (09:49):
I will struggle on the relationship side of things and
need back. I need you to kind of hit me
over the head with that. But at the same time
I can the task.
Speaker 12 (10:00):
That's like the world like I'm the man who want
all the kids and they ain't got It's like it's
men out here who don't want kids and got twenty kids.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
You know what I'm saying. It's like you felt that
one you know what I feel you.
Speaker 11 (10:22):
Because when I tell people that I want like six
seven plus kids, they look at me looking crazy, right,
and I'm just like, that's that's that's what you mean
for that's that's I ain't gonna say that's no soul purpose,
but that's a big purpose of bringing life into this world.
Speaker 10 (10:39):
You can't come through unless you're coming through me.
Speaker 2 (10:42):
I heard a woman say the other day that for
a man to ask the woman to have a child,
that's asking a lot of hers.
Speaker 1 (10:50):
In my head, it was like kind of like, I
don't have a choice.
Speaker 10 (10:53):
What you mean what you said?
Speaker 6 (10:55):
For?
Speaker 1 (10:56):
Okay, So she said, for a man to ask a
woman to have hurt their child is.
Speaker 2 (11:02):
To ask a lot of that woman. I get it,
that's a baby growing inside the whole person, get it.
But I don't have a choice but to have a
woman have my baby.
Speaker 1 (11:12):
For hell, hey, man, you know what, it's all.
Speaker 5 (11:22):
We're gonna have to do some updates, man, because we're
you're trying to bring into the environment is not.
Speaker 1 (11:29):
Conducive to anymore.
Speaker 10 (11:31):
I will agree with that.
Speaker 1 (11:32):
It's not that.
Speaker 5 (11:33):
You're really gonna you know, you run yourself into probably
some problems because it's gonna be you hard pressed to
find a woman who even cool with that herself.
Speaker 1 (11:41):
You know what I mean? I don't know, bro, but
don't let them.
Speaker 5 (11:45):
You know what I'm saying. They need a little pressure
and need a little because it's too much of this.
Me and Kanan don't and we won't. That's why I
won't let up.
Speaker 1 (11:53):
You know you have a woman to deal with me
today because I don't let up. Like what you gonna
stand on?
Speaker 5 (11:58):
There I do me. You gotta showed me that work
because you right alongside somebody who pushing moving, they working
and building.
Speaker 1 (12:10):
Just like right.
Speaker 5 (12:13):
That you can do all that and still do all that,
still do that because I mean, I just I don't
think a woman can do all of that you were
talking about and still be an affective mother.
Speaker 1 (12:25):
I don't think what I want to work a job,
run a business network every day? Okay, so I work
from home. When you say can't be an effective wife?
What that's work?
Speaker 10 (12:42):
Does?
Speaker 1 (12:42):
Okay? There you go. That's the trick that wo man
who work from home? Can they do that? Of course
they can.
Speaker 6 (12:48):
I know I know personally that does it. You know
I have family members women.
Speaker 8 (12:54):
You know what I'm saying, Because if a man is
not around, or you don't have nobody helping you. What
you're gonna do, just give up, you know what I'm saying.
So you're gonna you're gonna have to work to provide.
You gotta take care.
Speaker 6 (13:03):
Of your kids.
Speaker 1 (13:04):
You have them, you know what I mean.
Speaker 6 (13:05):
So you have to do what you have to do,
even as a man.
Speaker 8 (13:07):
There's some single men raising their kids, and I respect
that to the fools, and they doing what.
Speaker 10 (13:12):
They have to do.
Speaker 6 (13:13):
Okay, but give your child to your you know, your
mom or whatever.
Speaker 8 (13:16):
But ma day carry you working, you grinding, but you
still take you carry your kids doing what you gotta do.
So just as easy as a man could do if
they out here doing the grinding, hustling, or woman can
do the same thing. So I don't never I'm not
gonna ever say that anybody can't do, multitask or make
things work.
Speaker 6 (13:31):
You know what I'm saying. People make time for what
they wanna make time for.
Speaker 10 (13:34):
That's just like get.
Speaker 5 (13:38):
Okay, let's do the math, because numbers don't laugh. How
many y'alls in a so called day? Okay, So I
mean do you sleep.
Speaker 10 (13:49):
Four?
Speaker 11 (13:50):
Average five and a half for real average eight depending
on which which I would work twelve hours so and.
Speaker 1 (13:59):
Then like so, if you're running a business, how much
time do you devote today?
Speaker 6 (14:03):
It depends on how the business is going, what was
going on. It depends on the business.
Speaker 1 (14:08):
You know what. I take that back in.
Speaker 5 (14:12):
Right, A woman can do that and be an effective mother,
But she won't be an effective everything. She's gonna be
an ineffective business person. We're going to be an ineffective something.
But somewhere, yeah, somewhere, something ain't on track.
Speaker 10 (14:27):
Because once you get.
Speaker 11 (14:28):
Your business to where you needed to be, you have
an employee, you have people work under you.
Speaker 10 (14:33):
You know what I'm saying, you make moves right.
Speaker 2 (14:37):
But but as as business owners, we all know it
takes years to get there. It takes a lot, It
takes a few years to get there.
Speaker 5 (14:47):
I'm just wondering, like when you said, what's okay, what's
the definition of an effective mother? What type of time education,
teaching we are we really having to really give them
if we're doing all of this, what effective me?
Speaker 1 (14:58):
I make sure they even got the new JA and
what we needed, friends and building up and actually it's
a fact. How do you feel about that?
Speaker 6 (15:10):
Like I am a mother of twenty four to seven.
Speaker 1 (15:13):
Like my child's father is in his life.
Speaker 6 (15:16):
But I have him most of the time, so I
have to plan accordingly.
Speaker 3 (15:20):
My son is about that too, So when he's wanting
to play, there's no me running me running my business,
that's not an option because mommy, mommy, mommy.
Speaker 6 (15:28):
So we do our little thing and we go from there.
Speaker 1 (15:31):
So when he's done with his thing, this.
Speaker 3 (15:32):
Is why I'm up all night, because I have to
tend to him first, and then I run my business
from my laptop and both my phones. And this is
how it's me does only get full out of sleep,
you know what I'm saying. Then I go to sleep,
and now I gotta get up and go to work.
Speaker 1 (15:45):
Lot of machine. And what time is a man is getting?
Speaker 5 (15:59):
Right?
Speaker 11 (16:00):
It is because the time the man get, the time
the man get is the same time we have a
family time.
Speaker 10 (16:07):
Why is that?
Speaker 1 (16:08):
Why? Why can't be let's don't worry about him and
doing the street and Sally worried about that did not
include the bad time. I hope you were just talking
about what we're doing family time. Why are you talking
about that quality talking about the time.
Speaker 6 (16:32):
My thing is this, It depends on schedule.
Speaker 10 (16:38):
That is a reality.
Speaker 8 (16:39):
If you ain't relationship with somebody and you know they scheduled,
you know they got going on, you know they got
a job, you know they got kids. If you know
all this, y'all need to have that conversation. Okay, maybe
I know you're working, I know you got to take
care of your kids. This and the third you know,
where do I feel in?
Speaker 1 (16:56):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 8 (16:56):
So that's when y'all supposed to communicate a lot of people,
let commun unication and relationship situationshiphip.
Speaker 1 (17:02):
So what are these people you're talking about existed?
Speaker 6 (17:06):
People that communicate?
Speaker 1 (17:08):
Yeah, we ain't found them yet and reasonably?
Speaker 5 (17:17):
How many women you communicate with on this level and
they be reasonable? And then the thing is proprehensive communication
to people.
Speaker 1 (17:23):
People communicate. People communication very well until they get in
a relationship with then it becomes.
Speaker 2 (17:32):
As that's the we ain't yeah, emotions called confused.
Speaker 10 (17:39):
Let me say this, this is just a guess one situation.
Speaker 11 (17:43):
What about the mothers who are married and their husband
and they have a business together, and they're grinding together,
and they have their family together and they spend their
time together.
Speaker 1 (17:53):
You know what I'm saying, how many examples of those
that we have exists?
Speaker 5 (17:59):
Understand something we came from asking about effective parents. There's
a sacrifice that will be made someone in your relationship
with you or your business. Okay, it's going to be
one of them.
Speaker 1 (18:19):
Because I'm doing it. But it's a little you know. Okay,
something will lack your time.
Speaker 6 (18:26):
I do get tired, but I do know what I
You have.
Speaker 2 (18:30):
A cycle, though, so some things may last, but you
pick up on it at another time and you address
what needs to be addressed.
Speaker 6 (18:36):
Tom like having a schedule. Everything is planned out.
Speaker 5 (18:39):
It has to Let me ask you about this, how
y'all feel about Okay, so you brought up women entrepreneurs? Right,
I have an issue and I'm gonna say the names,
but I talk about an incident.
Speaker 1 (18:51):
I give you the short version of an incident that
just happened.
Speaker 5 (18:53):
Right, So you know a female entrepreneur, This is a
female entrepreneurs who have so called husband or serious boyfriends
or whatever. Right, if you're a female entrepreneur, like or
y'all allowing y'all do to make decisions about your business
at all. Let's be a hundred honest now, because I'm
(19:16):
running into this a lot like, whoa, y'all just man
still talking? You had this business before y'all start talking.
Speaker 1 (19:26):
He has no business? Why is he now all of
a sad consulting in your business when it comes to
doing business with me?
Speaker 10 (19:33):
That sounds personally it sounds no. I'm saying, that sounds
like a situation.
Speaker 1 (19:42):
I've seen who had good businesses.
Speaker 5 (19:44):
That's because bars, their boyfriend, hang out in the establishment,
run off.
Speaker 1 (19:49):
Everybody is always a problem. You know what I mean?
What that is is she's clearly choosing her relationship over
her business. Okay, that's women can sad you So can
your woman be the hustle and you sit at home
and make sure the kids?
Speaker 2 (20:05):
Right now?
Speaker 5 (20:06):
The reason that could never happen with me is because
because naturally, you know, I can't we still okay, I
have to move and produce and make thin. If I don't,
I go crazy.
Speaker 1 (20:19):
Matter what I'm doing. Really said, you can do it.
You don't want to sit at home?
Speaker 10 (20:31):
He can't?
Speaker 1 (20:33):
Okay, do you want to? Would you be at home
at home or just wife? Woman? Take care of your man.
Speaker 5 (20:41):
This is what keills me about women. Highest honor you
could ever have or achieve in life is to be the.
Speaker 1 (20:49):
Maker. You don't know how much trust that man has
for you, right he's but you take away everything.
Speaker 5 (21:01):
You don't want to do any of the things that
it takes to have a man to be the way
y'all say, y'all want them.
Speaker 1 (21:07):
Niggas ain't doing this, But what are you doing? Nothing?
Talking about whatever you can do, that's trying to match
whatever what you can do. We both need to do
the same thing. That's why we both each other out
the same thing. Why we do it doesn't make the
sea soft. We're down. I feel like I feel like
(21:41):
it takes her that.
Speaker 5 (21:41):
Other side of us, the organization, that that nurture and
that spiritual that God had a pinion that you know,
that intuition y'all got about.
Speaker 1 (21:52):
You know what I'm saying, the being?
Speaker 6 (21:54):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (21:55):
Where I can take her to the nurturing part of it.
You're not doing your so I have to jump on
to your side and do that and then come back
on my side.
Speaker 1 (22:05):
But that's why would you be with her to the
man could take care of you? Would you be in?
Would you be?
Speaker 11 (22:11):
There?
Speaker 1 (22:11):
A reason? I wouldn't because I need to make my
own money just in case that.
Speaker 2 (22:20):
Jump because from example, doctor Dre's wife, after twenty years,
she gave me a two hundred and fifty thousand a month.
Speaker 1 (22:27):
She point, you was married to a millionaire for twenty years.
How do you not have your own money stacked? Because
what I disagree with that up there? I feel no,
he became a billion while he was with her.
Speaker 5 (22:42):
Right, she deserved some paper paper been a wife like that, bro,
You doing all this shit under the sun every time
you come home your ship, rightmagine tickets what she got there.
Speaker 1 (22:58):
We'll assume that she will one that she was all
right moving on.
Speaker 5 (23:05):
I'm saying, twenty years, I don't want to leave with
just with nothing.
Speaker 1 (23:10):
Alone.
Speaker 11 (23:11):
I saw I saw posts. I saw post and her
husband was taking care of the wife. M hmm, everything,
taking care of the wife, the kids to beers, everything,
and they had sure bank accounts.
Speaker 10 (23:26):
I saw that.
Speaker 11 (23:27):
And he found out she had her own account and
she had her own money stash on the side. And
he was heartbroken because he thought that they shared every
He thought they shared everything.
Speaker 10 (23:39):
It's just the fact that she she know, never told
him about it.
Speaker 11 (23:43):
And she said, my mama, the money, I don't know,
I don't know. But she said my mama. My mama
told me to always have a secret stash. That's where
it gets because that's what I say.
Speaker 1 (24:00):
You are, you are, That's that's the problem.
Speaker 10 (24:14):
You have your own money. This is the thing you
my mama me ma.
Speaker 1 (24:26):
Let let her make up on y'all.
Speaker 10 (24:30):
Like the kids.
Speaker 11 (24:36):
But how do you think that My mama told me
to always have something separate. So with that being said,
it's women. Can't I gonna say can't? A lot of
women don't know how to be the woman you're asking
because of what the previous generation.
Speaker 1 (24:49):
Has tell them. You gotta break then, mother.
Speaker 11 (24:58):
Understand that Again, I was saying some you know me
and too, But women don't know how to be the
woman that you're asking is because of the previous generation
never taught them how or don't know how, or they're
used to their mom grinding by themselves, doing everything by themselves,
(25:19):
their grandma doing everything, their grandma raising them.
Speaker 1 (25:22):
You know what I'm saying, But I wouldn't see. I
respect that if a woman. If I know that about
a woman, I respect.
Speaker 5 (25:31):
It, like, okay, you've been through that, right, But when
your past experiences begin to contaminate my life because you're
out of control, trying to figure out how.
Speaker 11 (25:40):
To deal with what you've been through, deal with it's
not necessarily you've been through I don't think you know.
Speaker 1 (25:47):
So how do I deal with it? Fucking up my life?
Speaker 5 (25:52):
Because it begins to spill over into other things when
you deal with a person who's been through that traumatization.
You know what I'm saying that the issue that they
see if you're a business person, if you're a personal
networks and deal with other people, that's.
Speaker 1 (26:04):
Gonna translate is the person that didn't get that teaching
in the beginning. They gotta want that change.
Speaker 2 (26:12):
If they don't want to be a different person, they
can never even accept the information to.
Speaker 1 (26:16):
Be a different What man is gonna accept a woman
saying I'm over you because.
Speaker 10 (26:27):
So this either happen, You're gonna either gonna you're gonna
teach that person you're gonna walk away.
Speaker 1 (26:37):
Can I teach a woman? What teach a woman to
be a woman? I don't believe you could do that?
Speaker 10 (26:42):
Naturally submissive, you can't not to be a woman?
Speaker 2 (26:47):
No, you that's because truly, that's one of my big
pet peeves. You have a women would like to give
you in the steel, Go ahead, right.
Speaker 1 (26:56):
That's one of my things is women can't tell young
men how to be men. They think they can. It's
impossible woman to a man to be a man. He's
a point.
Speaker 2 (27:06):
But to her point, man, you can always tell your
woman to be the woman that you want her to be.
Speaker 1 (27:13):
I don't kind of know about that. You can give
her the exists, it's not natural though.
Speaker 2 (27:17):
You can give her ideas of I like when you
do this versus I like, I like when you wear
uh skirt suits versus sweatpants.
Speaker 1 (27:27):
Okay, that's cool, But what if that's not important to
you though? What if you're talking.
Speaker 5 (27:33):
Important honesty? If you work being told by your mom
men ain't this and other people? You don't have those
concepts in your heart. So I don't have nothing to
build on.
Speaker 1 (27:48):
Because absolutely walk away. I'm no, it's not.
Speaker 10 (27:55):
But it's just the woman that you come across, not all.
Speaker 1 (28:02):
Women I come across to. This is not speaking from
a real omni perspective. This is a cumulative He is
speaking for the man over there. I was raised my
grandfather raised me, him my grandmother. She picked up his
check from work. You know what I'm saying. He but
(28:23):
guess what I.
Speaker 5 (28:25):
See back It was different though, but she met that problem.
Speaker 10 (28:30):
It was.
Speaker 1 (28:35):
It was a whole different understanding.
Speaker 2 (28:37):
So like like back then, it was examples like uh,
sometimes men just ain't good with handling their own money.
Speaker 1 (28:46):
So my wife got it. My wife got it right
out there because a man. It was also what came
with it was the love and trust that he had
for her.
Speaker 5 (28:57):
Obviously, I never saw my grandfather cook, clean, watch, nothing ever.
Speaker 1 (29:02):
In my life make sense for her to pick it
up and go straight to the store.
Speaker 5 (29:05):
But but the way she operated, to her, it was her.
It was everybody was speaking. Everybody was speaking to my grandmother.
She was the house that the woman that comes with
you needed warning. She helped everybody.
Speaker 1 (29:16):
So but they being said like that was a woman
worthy to him of being in that position? You know
what I mean? And if a woman is not carrying
herself like that, you're not worthy of this. How cold?
I trust you.
Speaker 5 (29:26):
You think having male friends ride around with is cool
and okay? And you think in boxing and you think
the things that you do is we're talking about that generation.
That's what they would make it different that generation. There
wasn't nothing that going on.
Speaker 1 (29:42):
Bobby wasn't outside talking to you in the driveway when
I pulled off from work. It never happened. So she
is going on now.
Speaker 10 (29:50):
Nineteen sixties woman.
Speaker 5 (29:55):
The milkman didn't see what I'm saying when it gets
to women wasting bound to day.
Speaker 6 (29:59):
Two as well, like your grandma in my correction.
Speaker 1 (30:05):
Is worlds and qualities of world. Yeah, okay, I mean
why why.
Speaker 11 (30:10):
Would because that's different because you can be a lawyer
woman and still have male friends.
Speaker 2 (30:16):
You can be but the but what we're saying is
the percentages believe, as we was on last week, the
percentages don't speak.
Speaker 5 (30:25):
I honestly don't care because I know we're going on.
That's why I don't even guess about it.
Speaker 1 (30:30):
Yeah, but you know, but that's what I know. You
gotta be equal. I feel like a male. It's not
about that. But why does a woman have to fight
so hard to make sure she can have male friends?
Speaker 2 (30:42):
Why can't you? Why is this just give up? Just honestly,
why what is it that you think women don't know
they power?
Speaker 1 (30:50):
This is the problem.
Speaker 5 (30:50):
They don't know who they are. In Middle Eastern countries,
people go out there where they make their women cover
right because the woman did anything because the nature of
the main So if a woman knows this, how could
she be comfortable saying I'm in a relationship with a
man I love, but out here sexually exciting every man
(31:11):
I walked past because the ship this up in my
ass and I mean, the my titties out and I've
made all up and I'm.
Speaker 1 (31:17):
Out here and we're friends. That's bullshit again.
Speaker 10 (31:22):
I feel like you're saying something personal that's not.
Speaker 2 (31:28):
Man.
Speaker 5 (31:28):
If a woman is out and people taking drugs and
drinking alcohol, men you know they are there and you're
asked and you are wearing something sexual. Talk to me
who you think you're fooling? Are you that naive and
you don't know what's going on? You don't know the
nature of men, because some of them will drag you out, heard,
rape you, and kill you.
Speaker 1 (31:47):
I've read the paperwork. I was in a law cord
from now you're.
Speaker 5 (31:52):
They talk about they getting molested and they getting treated
with disrespecting Graham.
Speaker 1 (31:56):
You're exciting their fucked up nature. So when you account you.
Speaker 10 (32:07):
Let me not write you.
Speaker 1 (32:09):
I'm not saying that.
Speaker 5 (32:10):
I'm saying when I see you, when I see you
as something sexual, it excites my sexual nature.
Speaker 1 (32:17):
Yeah, for you to take it. I didn't say that.
I said there because they know no no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
listen to you. Let's low it down.
Speaker 5 (32:26):
I said, there are men out there who will ripe
and kill you about this. And then you have a
lot of women who say I've been molested, I've been this,
I've been there. So the words the understanding for from
them that I'm not gonna do anything provocative or suggestive
in society to continue that type of behavior.
Speaker 1 (32:43):
But he's saying is no, you're you're missing.
Speaker 10 (32:51):
He's saying, we as women have to be know.
Speaker 5 (32:55):
Your because women is the most powerful in the world.
Kingdoms fall about a one woman. You have to understand
what you do. That's why when you represent a man
and say, for instance, he like I gotta gather on
or something a ball or party here, invite you to
go with him.
Speaker 1 (33:13):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 5 (33:14):
That's the world, that's everything, right, So you're gonna choose
how I represent him.
Speaker 1 (33:19):
You know what I'm saying. Now, if you going to
the bar down on Grand you probably even you might
go for it. You know what I mean.
Speaker 5 (33:25):
If you say I'm taking you to the White House,
you will try to dress different, maybe to impress people, right,
But the true nature in you show is when you're
left to make your own choice and decision about what
you want to do.
Speaker 1 (33:37):
Watch what you're gonna do. That's when you really know.
You telling your woman dressed like this, move like this, okay.
Speaker 6 (33:44):
But.
Speaker 2 (33:46):
On so many different levels of dynamics, because you're talking
about single women, women in relationship, women who have ever
been molested.
Speaker 1 (33:55):
You're talking about.
Speaker 5 (33:57):
Women who have been molested, right, Okay, but I say
you have a woman who has been molested, right, that
means that she encounted a male who was some sort
of creep or freak or whatever he did. Right, Why
would anybody want to further encourage that behavior out of anybody?
That's what I'm asking. The women who do that don't
even have sympathy for women who've been through that.
Speaker 2 (34:19):
Here's the thing, people, just flip that script me riding out,
flashing money on thirty eight inch rams, all the jewelry around,
whoever robbing niggas is looking at me, same shit as
a woman in the short skirt, whoever raping bitches.
Speaker 1 (34:36):
Is looking at her. Absolutely.
Speaker 2 (34:38):
The thing is we can't stop and concentrate on that
one thing and slow life down because people don't still
go to the clubs.
Speaker 1 (34:47):
But that's not the time. Women didn't dress like that
and we was in the club. But okay, but.
Speaker 2 (34:53):
Here's the point when women didn't dress like that and
wasn't in the club where they still being molested in
rape though of course, so listen, it's changing their no
tiring appearance.
Speaker 1 (35:04):
But you know, eliminating that ain't gonna stop the raping
the molestates.
Speaker 5 (35:10):
Okay, So I guess then, like if I would think
that if this was a topic that was truly cared about,
then anything brought to the table to help.
Speaker 1 (35:18):
No, we now rejected. Life not gonna slow down. Man.
We have to realize think about this.
Speaker 10 (35:25):
This is fact.
Speaker 5 (35:26):
Go researching anybody. The United States used to be so up,
up up, even the so car average Americans just want
to call them black children and math. Yeah, let's go
mad education this real.
Speaker 1 (35:36):
Check this out. We was up right now. If you
look at the net that the world averages.
Speaker 5 (35:41):
The year that the United States and our children started
to fall in decline and become fourth, fifth, sixth, and
seventh on the list of academics in the world, it
was the very year that the law changed and broke
the so called glass ceiling when women went into the workforce,
not the World War II, but they had to talking
about when they got the office jobs, and they started saying,
(36:02):
we want to work outside the home. Right, this is
when you got the latch key kids, kids who come
home before their parents get off work. So they had
to get left, change and shifted and all busy the basement.
Raised me when I got to school, when your mom
got home and we all come on when.
Speaker 1 (36:24):
Y'all come off from work. Man, if she got a cook,
she gonna do that.
Speaker 5 (36:28):
If it's probably have car and said, somebody to put
some mom and probably get there because when she gets there,
she want to work out day for real, for real.
Be I know this for facts because that's how I
got away with a lot of ship. You see what
I'm saying. So I'm explaining like y'all have to understand
these rights. They're good, they're yours, but they come with
a major sacrifice.
Speaker 1 (36:50):
To what I want to be.
Speaker 5 (36:52):
Is you you have to understand that's not that's another
maybe have accessible and visible in public like.
Speaker 1 (36:59):
That is a no. Anybody else want to respond before
we yeah do that? Ship. Oh yes, lovely, I like that.
Speaker 2 (37:06):
But I will say in response to that, what you
were saying about the time frame and stuff, be be
mindful that some of that ship is media.
Speaker 1 (37:15):
Driven too, all accurate information. What is that this year happened?
Is in this year a lot of person unless you
did yourself, you lewis that?
Speaker 5 (37:34):
I promise you that's factual. I mean one thing about it.
Religion is one thing, but science and facts and data
is another thing. All right, but you know we had
to go there at the end of the day.
Speaker 1 (37:46):
I live and listen. I was in I did thirteen
years in maximum security prisoner. I was a low clerk
for nine years.
Speaker 5 (37:53):
I've read so many police reports, and I've seen the
worst of the worst. I know that the nature of
men can get so bad, you know what I mean.
So I just always caught you, especially any woman I love. Hey,
I know that's cool and empower and liberating to you,
(38:14):
but it's also inviting danger. And then the problem is
when you meet a man and you got that on
that is his first impression of you, don't hit me
with the white road.
Speaker 1 (38:27):
Three months. That's six months. I don't want to hear
it again. That's based off of that man, if he's that,
because look right now, I'm gonna say this like this,
have you ever been a situation like this?
Speaker 5 (38:45):
You met a chick right on some humble out or whatever,
and for real, the first night you met her, you
probably either did could have been with Finla did busted down.
Speaker 1 (38:56):
She was on some freaky ship with you to night
you met her. But how y'all kept jamming.
Speaker 5 (39:01):
Kicking it whatever, and over time you're working with it, right,
and now it's like we should be getting in a
serious relationship or she's talking about marriage or she's talking.
Speaker 1 (39:11):
About every situation not nothing that been in a relationship
with don't.
Speaker 10 (39:20):
Like and that ship turned me off, yam, y'all jam
go ahead fish.
Speaker 5 (39:27):
And then she starts to just bring to the table
with increasing increasing responsibility frequency about the relationship becoming official, right,
you know, taking steps towards doing bigger things and other things.
Speaker 1 (39:42):
And it's like that's weird, Like are you trying to
deceive me or you are changed person to see change ship.
I'm just asking like like like like that's that's every
that's okay. Maybe they want people like like they don't
they don't like that's Okay, nah man, listen, a woman
(40:05):
worthy of marrying would never do that ever.
Speaker 6 (40:11):
Life.
Speaker 5 (40:11):
Wow, man, who was big out on the first night
I met him? But if you think that's crazy, it's
a lot of women who think a woman crazy.
Speaker 3 (40:27):
Like what you're having, you're doing the same thing she's doing.
Speaker 1 (40:31):
Exactly. Why are you asking me to marry me?
Speaker 10 (40:39):
Why hanging out?
Speaker 6 (40:40):
Why are you with this person?
Speaker 10 (40:42):
Which one?
Speaker 1 (40:43):
I know you're saying why because.
Speaker 5 (40:50):
Every situation is not mine particular situation, but I'm just
giving you experiences.
Speaker 1 (40:56):
Person.
Speaker 10 (40:56):
That's the only person, the only person you're with, the
only person you say one of tonight.
Speaker 11 (41:01):
You don't think that's going to develop into something. You
learn that person, you learn who they are, and you
find out, oh they're intelligent, Oh they're breaking Oh that
the ship. You wouldn't want to marry that person after
spending this time with that person, I would not want
to marry that person.
Speaker 1 (41:18):
What are you talking about that makes a person worthy
of marriage? Well, we will say that.
Speaker 2 (41:24):
The views expressed by some on this show do not
reflect the views of everyone.
Speaker 1 (41:29):
So you're saying that she became a different person because
of her feelings for here person. You learned each other
who you were last week is a different person.
Speaker 5 (41:38):
I just don't think that I would feel comfortable marrying
a woman I know today I met her.
Speaker 1 (41:43):
I don't feel comfortable doing it. I know what I'm saying,
that that's a girl.
Speaker 5 (41:56):
She should marry me either you, That's what I'm saying.
I know what is certin myself. And if I'm looking
to meet someone, I know why I'm gonna be there
trying to meet them. But I ain't trying to meet
nobody in me in town.
Speaker 6 (42:06):
What if he the ones saying I want to marry you?
You know what I mean, Like I want, I won't.
I want to marry you, and.
Speaker 1 (42:15):
On the first about it, No, I wouldn't. I wouldn't
even be in a serious relationship with somebody else on
the first night. I ain't said I would up with them.
Speaker 5 (42:28):
Because she might be hella hella cool, she might become
like a hell a hell a close friend. We might
be together for some time, but I together together like
rock out. We can understand. Different people live different ways.
Speaker 1 (42:41):
You know what I'm saying. Everybody we hustled, the entrepreneurs
we work. You know what I'm saying. I move and
grew up a different way.
Speaker 5 (42:47):
I don't really have time. So if I'm kicking them
with somebody, they may be up on me and be
with me moving and they may be very helpful to
my situation.
Speaker 12 (42:58):
Time.
Speaker 1 (43:00):
I ain't understanding, like what you're saying, what's wrong with
it that my person?
Speaker 5 (43:06):
No, I wouldn't marry. I'm just saying I wouldn't. That
ain't what's wrong with that. I'm not putting her down
or nothing. I'm just I wouldn't marry it. Because in
my mind.
Speaker 10 (43:15):
It's like, okay, so let me saying that.
Speaker 1 (43:18):
Nobody else I was sure my friend, the one that
she had, he might marry. Don nobody want to talk
about he ain't gonna do it.
Speaker 10 (43:28):
I would say that I won't do it.
Speaker 11 (43:30):
That's a different situation. If you notice, he just got finished.
Speaker 1 (43:35):
But no, no, no, no, I don't know if she's
doing that. I'm saying, man, this man she just did
to me. Hypothetically she was, That's all I was saying.
I don't know, but it's gonna be my fan.
Speaker 6 (43:49):
If she asked to be in a serious relationship.
Speaker 10 (43:51):
Is that where to stop?
Speaker 6 (43:52):
Is that where he stopped jamming? Is that you star
hanging out?
Speaker 1 (43:54):
I would no.
Speaker 4 (43:55):
Okay, from experience, I would make it clear that point.
I will make it clear like nah, I ain't on it,
and I would make it clear why and I have
done that.
Speaker 1 (44:06):
I would be honest, and they continue to talk to you.
Speaker 5 (44:09):
And that was the worst thing that ever happened, because
you know what, because after that point, right and after
that point the energy turned niggave So it should we
should have went out separate ways at that point and
not doing it it just.
Speaker 1 (44:21):
Because I don't see.
Speaker 11 (44:22):
No, that's all it was that somebody is invested and
they told you that they love you, they love you
enough to want to take you to the next level,
and you say.
Speaker 10 (44:29):
No, cool, I could continue.
Speaker 1 (44:32):
That being your love for real. They can't be you
can't do that's what they call it. It's an expectation.
Speaker 10 (44:43):
And what's going on.
Speaker 1 (44:44):
That's great. I was about to change man.
Speaker 5 (44:47):
All right, we're doing a relationship with the one with
two years You should be a female friend.
Speaker 1 (44:51):
No, there is look relationships and this and that. There
are no fucking rules. What we're doing together is working
for both of us, and we and we building Why
talk about the other ship, Let's do what we do.
Speaker 10 (45:04):
Oh, so you're the tame. They want to, you know,
get the mooking out by the cow. I got you,
that's what it sounds.
Speaker 1 (45:11):
We gotta move, We're gonna we gotta keep it moving.
Yeah yeah, all right, nobody gets stabbed here. Did you
want to bordering interview? Did you want to boring interview?
This is you know what I'm saying, all this stuff.
Speaker 5 (45:32):
Let's go.
Speaker 1 (45:34):
All right, So you need somebody
I welcome to the playground after dark.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
This is your one stop shot for all questions, answers,
and matters of their real ship.
Speaker 1 (00:08):
Make sure them kids ain't around. Your auntie can't hear us.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
And your brandy can't see unless Grandma free because.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
It all goes down after playground your back. Let's get
this ship going. I'm super pumped for this one.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
You got some special special guests in the building and
I've been waiting on this interview for a while.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
So Blake Lee, how you doing today? Swell to tell?
All right time, Okay, all right, let's go ahead and
(00:55):
go around table. Let the people know who you are
and what you got going on. I am Russian.
Speaker 3 (01:00):
I am the owner of Middle's Jewelry. You can find
me on Facebook, Instagram. Smap that all that purple down
there with.
Speaker 4 (01:07):
The point a right.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Okay, Oh that's what's up. Y'all know what it is.
Man's the boy, real man, too skilled, real real double
scill man.
Speaker 5 (01:25):
I appreciate being here. It's definitely an honor, you know
what I mean. Salute to the host, shout out to
the show. Gets me on Facebook. I g real double scale.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
See when you're engineering here, you gotta you gotta running
and stuff. You know what I'm saying. You just gotta
make the show start, alright, And I now that I
know your name, I'm gonna let you introduce yourself anyway.
Speaker 6 (01:49):
Okay, I scared.
Speaker 7 (01:53):
I am the post perfectly, perfectly. I was not supposed
to be over your shower, but somebody told me to
come to this table. Is it's a pleasure to be
here almost some beautiful dope people.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
Talking about y'all.
Speaker 8 (02:07):
Oh, y'all, all, y'all, everybody right here. Also, you can
catch me on Instagram and percing in perfect three.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
I love you. Yeah, you know, you know, you know
team man. Come on, man, let them know who get
to talk about it. We can not get you a
bottle girl, all right now? He can this about him?
(02:37):
This about her celebration scenarios in the building, they talk
bottles and I am not air horning that ship scenario.
Speaker 9 (02:52):
The comedian man, I'm just had the bill, got show
coming up this weekend. Stay telling her about that ship, yes, sir,
but to talk.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
Hey, hey, Yang talking dirty after dark when it's still
light outside, but we darken subject.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
And we are sponsored about just kicking the good folks
here at my seeing my music radio. Man, this is
that high right here I'll be talking about.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
So we got a lot. Man, Look what I didn't
do it? I guess I did. Okay.
Speaker 10 (03:28):
I think like I.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
Totally threw away the script I had for this week
as soon as I found out this food passed away.
Kevin Simmons, it kind of.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
Like gave me the whole show right there in itself.
And what we were talking about, like, he gave me
a whole line of topics to bum down.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
You know what I'm saying. It was gonna be a
little bit more serious, but I feel like we can
have some foolery today. What y'all think?
Speaker 11 (03:55):
Yeah, you know, may respects to Kevin Samuel, Okay, yeah,
because in my opinion, you know, everybody's entitled to their
own opinion.
Speaker 10 (04:09):
You know, he may have some knowledge, he and honestly,
the stuff that he was saying was actual facts.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
You know.
Speaker 10 (04:14):
It's it's stuff that even though it was said.
Speaker 11 (04:16):
Harshly, but it's stuff that people need her And sometimes
people need to be told harshly for them to make
a change and really see what's going on with them,
because you ain't you ain't always roses and some people
are frown like they like they the ship all the
time and they ain't.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
Understand. Yeah, I didn't mean a fool in that. Man,
I'm a fool in the way of the the foolery.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
He's involved in because it's around him and the other
ones around there and that that conversation, right, but real
talk a lot of the ship, he says, I actually
did agree with, especially when I saw yesterday that said
men should paper everything.
Speaker 6 (04:57):
With that.
Speaker 5 (04:57):
Yeah, if you're a you disagree, well, well, okay, how
about shoot is the key word? It just seems to
be the proper thing to do.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
If you I can agree with ship, I could agree
with if you're able.
Speaker 1 (05:17):
That's different.
Speaker 10 (05:19):
Not everybody, But I say this show I do believe.
Speaker 11 (05:24):
I do believe it's not solely on them, because you know,
women like to treat women treat you know, if you
treat me.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
Right as a man, I cannot allow you to take
me out and pay for my dinner. It's just not
not in my blood. I can't do that. I cannot
do that.
Speaker 11 (05:45):
You pay for it.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Okay, Now, now I did.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
I did, like allow one one lady to go half
on the dinner one time, but even then I made
her pass me her money under the table.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
It was something by my bones. I just can't allow
you to put money on the table. Let me do that.
Where you get that from?
Speaker 2 (06:14):
Because exactly my father showed me that my mom only
had to pay her cell phone bill and whatever else
when she went shopping, as far as the house, the food,
the lights, the clothes on my back, the extra shit
that I needed. My dad took care of everything else.
My mom took care of her bill that she created, period.
(06:35):
And I mean, I'm not saying that's necessarily the way
it has to be, but that was a beautiful setup
for me, and I definitely would like to reciprocate that
in my relationships.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
How's that going for I tell you that I've been
singing about ten years now. Great, you know what I'm saying,
I didn't have for this now. But you you're a
little too excited about my my loneliness came from earlier generation, right. Absolutely,
(07:10):
that's definitely been like a you taste. Yes, absolutely, because
women here, women making all the money. That's that's a
big quin. That's a big more than know. I mean,
power isn't toxic.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
Anytime you go from being like y'all got say, ain't
no raise y'all, hand y'all just talking what you gotta say.
Speaker 6 (07:29):
No, the reason I'm saying like you so you feel
that you can is okay.
Speaker 1 (07:36):
And the woman doesn't pay for anything. What do you
get in return the relationship?
Speaker 6 (07:41):
What do you know? What?
Speaker 1 (07:44):
What value she brings to the relationship is what I'm
getting in return? Man, So what's your value? Because your
value not the money, not only the money, but to me,
money ain't ship. Well, I mean right, I've been. I
don have been. Don't tell me. I'm not saying that
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because i'd have been through the struggle with my wife
and all this. I haven't been when I was married.
Speaker 11 (08:10):
That was he was married.
Speaker 1 (08:12):
I made that mistake one time. I don't think. I
think you're gonna have a very hard today making me
say that it's definitely different.
Speaker 2 (08:26):
Yeah, I get that because right now, Like okay, one
of the points I was gonna bring up is about women,
like women like yourself, y'all out here, like at the.
Speaker 1 (08:37):
Pop up shop game, like y'all is running it like
men can't even get in that lane for real. Like
when it comes to stuff like that, I feel like women.
Speaker 2 (08:52):
I treated the same better or worse than the male
counterparts are entrepreneurship Lane.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
We'll see, as women, we tend to multitask. Men can
only focus on one thing.
Speaker 2 (09:05):
So when we moves man so like this is I'm
taking I'm being offended by that.
Speaker 11 (09:11):
Now.
Speaker 3 (09:11):
Women are more successful in the when we're being entrepreneurs.
It's because we can be mama and be in the relationship,
run a family and probably even still have to work
a job, and still run a business with a little sleep,
little time, and we still make it work. Men can
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probably only focus on one thing at a time by
this time the business going.
Speaker 1 (09:40):
I understand what you're saying, but go ahead. That's what
I'm saying because I will admit to some point when
it comes to the hustle.
Speaker 2 (09:49):
I will struggle on the relationship side of things and
need back. I need you to kind of hit me
over the head with that. But at the same time
I can the task.
Speaker 12 (10:00):
That's like the world like I'm the man who want
all the kids and they ain't got It's like it's
men out here who don't want kids and got twenty kids.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
You know what I'm saying. It's like you felt that
one you know what I feel you.
Speaker 11 (10:22):
Because when I tell people that I want like six
seven plus kids, they look at me looking crazy, right,
and I'm just like, that's that's that's what you mean
for that's that's I ain't gonna say that's no soul purpose,
but that's a big purpose of bringing life into this world.
Speaker 10 (10:39):
You can't come through unless you're coming through me.
Speaker 2 (10:42):
I heard a woman say the other day that for
a man to ask the woman to have a child,
that's asking a lot of hers.
Speaker 1 (10:50):
In my head, it was like kind of like, I
don't have a choice.
Speaker 10 (10:53):
What you mean what you said?
Speaker 6 (10:55):
For?
Speaker 1 (10:56):
Okay, So she said, for a man to ask a
woman to have hurt their child is.
Speaker 2 (11:02):
To ask a lot of that woman. I get it,
that's a baby growing inside the whole person, get it.
But I don't have a choice but to have a
woman have my baby.
Speaker 1 (11:12):
For hell, hey, man, you know what, it's all.
Speaker 5 (11:22):
We're gonna have to do some updates, man, because we're
you're trying to bring into the environment is not.
Speaker 1 (11:29):
Conducive to anymore.
Speaker 10 (11:31):
I will agree with that.
Speaker 1 (11:32):
It's not that.
Speaker 5 (11:33):
You're really gonna you know, you run yourself into probably
some problems because it's gonna be you hard pressed to
find a woman who even cool with that herself.
Speaker 1 (11:41):
You know what I mean? I don't know, bro, but
don't let them.
Speaker 5 (11:45):
You know what I'm saying. They need a little pressure
and need a little because it's too much of this.
Me and Kanan don't and we won't. That's why I
won't let up.
Speaker 1 (11:53):
You know you have a woman to deal with me
today because I don't let up. Like what you gonna
stand on?
Speaker 5 (11:58):
There I do me. You gotta showed me that work
because you right alongside somebody who pushing moving, they working
and building.
Speaker 1 (12:10):
Just like right.
Speaker 5 (12:13):
That you can do all that and still do all that,
still do that because I mean, I just I don't
think a woman can do all of that you were
talking about and still be an affective mother.
Speaker 1 (12:25):
I don't think what I want to work a job,
run a business network every day? Okay, so I work
from home. When you say can't be an effective wife?
What that's work?
Speaker 10 (12:42):
Does?
Speaker 1 (12:42):
Okay? There you go. That's the trick that wo man
who work from home? Can they do that? Of course
they can.
Speaker 6 (12:48):
I know I know personally that does it. You know
I have family members women.
Speaker 8 (12:54):
You know what I'm saying, Because if a man is
not around, or you don't have nobody helping you. What
you're gonna do, just give up, you know what I'm saying.
So you're gonna you're gonna have to work to provide.
You gotta take care.
Speaker 6 (13:03):
Of your kids.
Speaker 1 (13:04):
You have them, you know what I mean.
Speaker 6 (13:05):
So you have to do what you have to do,
even as a man.
Speaker 8 (13:07):
There's some single men raising their kids, and I respect
that to the fools, and they doing what.
Speaker 10 (13:12):
They have to do.
Speaker 6 (13:13):
Okay, but give your child to your you know, your
mom or whatever.
Speaker 8 (13:16):
But ma day carry you working, you grinding, but you
still take you carry your kids doing what you gotta do.
So just as easy as a man could do if
they out here doing the grinding, hustling, or woman can
do the same thing. So I don't never I'm not
gonna ever say that anybody can't do, multitask or make
things work.
Speaker 6 (13:31):
You know what I'm saying. People make time for what
they wanna make time for.
Speaker 10 (13:34):
That's just like get.
Speaker 5 (13:38):
Okay, let's do the math, because numbers don't laugh. How
many y'alls in a so called day? Okay, So I
mean do you sleep.
Speaker 10 (13:49):
Four?
Speaker 11 (13:50):
Average five and a half for real average eight depending
on which which I would work twelve hours so and.
Speaker 1 (13:59):
Then like so, if you're running a business, how much
time do you devote today?
Speaker 6 (14:03):
It depends on how the business is going, what was
going on. It depends on the business.
Speaker 1 (14:08):
You know what. I take that back in.
Speaker 5 (14:12):
Right, A woman can do that and be an effective mother,
But she won't be an effective everything. She's gonna be
an ineffective business person. We're going to be an ineffective something.
But somewhere, yeah, somewhere, something ain't on track.
Speaker 10 (14:27):
Because once you get.
Speaker 11 (14:28):
Your business to where you needed to be, you have
an employee, you have people work under you.
Speaker 10 (14:33):
You know what I'm saying, you make moves right.
Speaker 2 (14:37):
But but as as business owners, we all know it
takes years to get there. It takes a lot, It
takes a few years to get there.
Speaker 5 (14:47):
I'm just wondering, like when you said, what's okay, what's
the definition of an effective mother? What type of time education,
teaching we are we really having to really give them
if we're doing all of this, what effective me?
Speaker 1 (14:58):
I make sure they even got the new JA and
what we needed, friends and building up and actually it's
a fact. How do you feel about that?
Speaker 6 (15:10):
Like I am a mother of twenty four to seven.
Speaker 1 (15:13):
Like my child's father is in his life.
Speaker 6 (15:16):
But I have him most of the time, so I
have to plan accordingly.
Speaker 3 (15:20):
My son is about that too, So when he's wanting
to play, there's no me running me running my business,
that's not an option because mommy, mommy, mommy.
Speaker 6 (15:28):
So we do our little thing and we go from there.
Speaker 1 (15:31):
So when he's done with his thing, this.
Speaker 3 (15:32):
Is why I'm up all night, because I have to
tend to him first, and then I run my business
from my laptop and both my phones. And this is
how it's me does only get full out of sleep,
you know what I'm saying. Then I go to sleep,
and now I gotta get up and go to work.
Speaker 1 (15:45):
Lot of machine. And what time is a man is getting?
Speaker 5 (15:59):
Right?
Speaker 11 (16:00):
It is because the time the man get, the time
the man get is the same time we have a
family time.
Speaker 10 (16:07):
Why is that?
Speaker 1 (16:08):
Why? Why can't be let's don't worry about him and
doing the street and Sally worried about that did not
include the bad time. I hope you were just talking
about what we're doing family time. Why are you talking
about that quality talking about the time.
Speaker 6 (16:32):
My thing is this, It depends on schedule.
Speaker 10 (16:38):
That is a reality.
Speaker 8 (16:39):
If you ain't relationship with somebody and you know they scheduled,
you know they got going on, you know they got
a job, you know they got kids. If you know
all this, y'all need to have that conversation. Okay, maybe
I know you're working, I know you got to take
care of your kids. This and the third you know,
where do I feel in?
Speaker 1 (16:56):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 8 (16:56):
So that's when y'all supposed to communicate a lot of people,
let commun unication and relationship situationshiphip.
Speaker 1 (17:02):
So what are these people you're talking about existed?
Speaker 6 (17:06):
People that communicate?
Speaker 1 (17:08):
Yeah, we ain't found them yet and reasonably?
Speaker 5 (17:17):
How many women you communicate with on this level and
they be reasonable? And then the thing is proprehensive communication
to people.
Speaker 1 (17:23):
People communicate. People communication very well until they get in
a relationship with then it becomes.
Speaker 2 (17:32):
As that's the we ain't yeah, emotions called confused.
Speaker 10 (17:39):
Let me say this, this is just a guess one situation.
Speaker 11 (17:43):
What about the mothers who are married and their husband
and they have a business together, and they're grinding together,
and they have their family together and they spend their
time together.
Speaker 1 (17:53):
You know what I'm saying, how many examples of those
that we have exists?
Speaker 5 (17:59):
Understand something we came from asking about effective parents. There's
a sacrifice that will be made someone in your relationship
with you or your business. Okay, it's going to be
one of them.
Speaker 1 (18:19):
Because I'm doing it. But it's a little you know. Okay,
something will lack your time.
Speaker 6 (18:26):
I do get tired, but I do know what I
You have.
Speaker 2 (18:30):
A cycle, though, so some things may last, but you
pick up on it at another time and you address
what needs to be addressed.
Speaker 6 (18:36):
Tom like having a schedule. Everything is planned out.
Speaker 5 (18:39):
It has to Let me ask you about this, how
y'all feel about Okay, so you brought up women entrepreneurs? Right,
I have an issue and I'm gonna say the names,
but I talk about an incident.
Speaker 1 (18:51):
I give you the short version of an incident that
just happened.
Speaker 5 (18:53):
Right, So you know a female entrepreneur, This is a
female entrepreneurs who have so called husband or serious boyfriends
or whatever. Right, if you're a female entrepreneur, like or
y'all allowing y'all do to make decisions about your business
at all. Let's be a hundred honest now, because I'm
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running into this a lot like, whoa, y'all just man
still talking? You had this business before y'all start talking.
Speaker 1 (19:26):
He has no business? Why is he now all of
a sad consulting in your business when it comes to
doing business with me?
Speaker 10 (19:33):
That sounds personally it sounds no. I'm saying, that sounds
like a situation.
Speaker 1 (19:42):
I've seen who had good businesses.
Speaker 5 (19:44):
That's because bars, their boyfriend, hang out in the establishment,
run off.
Speaker 1 (19:49):
Everybody is always a problem. You know what I mean?
What that is is she's clearly choosing her relationship over
her business. Okay, that's women can sad you So can
your woman be the hustle and you sit at home
and make sure the kids?
Speaker 2 (20:05):
Right now?
Speaker 5 (20:06):
The reason that could never happen with me is because
because naturally, you know, I can't we still okay, I
have to move and produce and make thin. If I don't,
I go crazy.
Speaker 1 (20:19):
Matter what I'm doing. Really said, you can do it.
You don't want to sit at home?
Speaker 10 (20:31):
He can't?
Speaker 1 (20:33):
Okay, do you want to? Would you be at home
at home or just wife? Woman? Take care of your man.
Speaker 5 (20:41):
This is what keills me about women. Highest honor you
could ever have or achieve in life is to be the.
Speaker 1 (20:49):
Maker. You don't know how much trust that man has
for you, right he's but you take away everything.
Speaker 5 (21:01):
You don't want to do any of the things that
it takes to have a man to be the way
y'all say, y'all want them.
Speaker 1 (21:07):
Niggas ain't doing this, But what are you doing? Nothing?
Talking about whatever you can do, that's trying to match
whatever what you can do. We both need to do
the same thing. That's why we both each other out
the same thing. Why we do it doesn't make the
sea soft. We're down. I feel like I feel like
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it takes her that.
Speaker 5 (21:41):
Other side of us, the organization, that that nurture and
that spiritual that God had a pinion that you know,
that intuition y'all got about.
Speaker 1 (21:52):
You know what I'm saying, the being?
Speaker 6 (21:54):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (21:55):
Where I can take her to the nurturing part of it.
You're not doing your so I have to jump on
to your side and do that and then come back
on my side.
Speaker 1 (22:05):
But that's why would you be with her to the
man could take care of you? Would you be in?
Would you be?
Speaker 11 (22:11):
There?
Speaker 1 (22:11):
A reason? I wouldn't because I need to make my
own money just in case that.
Speaker 2 (22:20):
Jump because from example, doctor Dre's wife, after twenty years,
she gave me a two hundred and fifty thousand a month.
Speaker 1 (22:27):
She point, you was married to a millionaire for twenty years.
How do you not have your own money stacked? Because
what I disagree with that up there? I feel no,
he became a billion while he was with her.
Speaker 5 (22:42):
Right, she deserved some paper paper been a wife like that, bro,
You doing all this shit under the sun every time
you come home your ship, rightmagine tickets what she got there.
Speaker 1 (22:58):
We'll assume that she will one that she was all
right moving on.
Speaker 5 (23:05):
I'm saying, twenty years, I don't want to leave with
just with nothing.
Speaker 1 (23:10):
Alone.
Speaker 11 (23:11):
I saw I saw posts. I saw post and her
husband was taking care of the wife. M hmm, everything,
taking care of the wife, the kids to beers, everything,
and they had sure bank accounts.
Speaker 10 (23:26):
I saw that.
Speaker 11 (23:27):
And he found out she had her own account and
she had her own money stash on the side. And
he was heartbroken because he thought that they shared every
He thought they shared everything.
Speaker 10 (23:39):
It's just the fact that she she know, never told
him about it.
Speaker 11 (23:43):
And she said, my mama, the money, I don't know,
I don't know. But she said my mama. My mama
told me to always have a secret stash. That's where
it gets because that's what I say.
Speaker 1 (24:00):
You are, you are, That's that's the problem.
Speaker 10 (24:14):
You have your own money. This is the thing you
my mama me ma.
Speaker 1 (24:26):
Let let her make up on y'all.
Speaker 10 (24:30):
Like the kids.
Speaker 11 (24:36):
But how do you think that My mama told me
to always have something separate. So with that being said,
it's women. Can't I gonna say can't? A lot of
women don't know how to be the woman you're asking
because of what the previous generation.
Speaker 1 (24:49):
Has tell them. You gotta break then, mother.
Speaker 11 (24:58):
Understand that Again, I was saying some you know me
and too, But women don't know how to be the
woman that you're asking is because of the previous generation
never taught them how or don't know how, or they're
used to their mom grinding by themselves, doing everything by themselves,
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their grandma doing everything, their grandma raising them.
Speaker 1 (25:22):
You know what I'm saying, But I wouldn't see. I
respect that if a woman. If I know that about
a woman, I respect.
Speaker 5 (25:31):
It, like, okay, you've been through that, right, But when
your past experiences begin to contaminate my life because you're
out of control, trying to figure out how.
Speaker 11 (25:40):
To deal with what you've been through, deal with it's
not necessarily you've been through I don't think you know.
Speaker 1 (25:47):
So how do I deal with it? Fucking up my life?
Speaker 5 (25:52):
Because it begins to spill over into other things when
you deal with a person who's been through that traumatization.
You know what I'm saying that the issue that they
see if you're a business person, if you're a personal
networks and deal with other people, that's.
Speaker 1 (26:04):
Gonna translate is the person that didn't get that teaching
in the beginning. They gotta want that change.
Speaker 2 (26:12):
If they don't want to be a different person, they
can never even accept the information to.
Speaker 1 (26:16):
Be a different What man is gonna accept a woman
saying I'm over you because.
Speaker 10 (26:27):
So this either happen, You're gonna either gonna you're gonna
teach that person you're gonna walk away.
Speaker 1 (26:37):
Can I teach a woman? What teach a woman to
be a woman? I don't believe you could do that?
Speaker 10 (26:42):
Naturally submissive, you can't not to be a woman?
Speaker 2 (26:47):
No, you that's because truly, that's one of my big
pet peeves. You have a women would like to give
you in the steel, Go ahead, right.
Speaker 1 (26:56):
That's one of my things is women can't tell young
men how to be men. They think they can. It's
impossible woman to a man to be a man. He's
a point.
Speaker 2 (27:06):
But to her point, man, you can always tell your
woman to be the woman that you want her to be.
Speaker 1 (27:13):
I don't kind of know about that. You can give
her the exists, it's not natural though.
Speaker 2 (27:17):
You can give her ideas of I like when you
do this versus I like, I like when you wear
uh skirt suits versus sweatpants.
Speaker 1 (27:27):
Okay, that's cool, But what if that's not important to
you though? What if you're talking.
Speaker 5 (27:33):
Important honesty? If you work being told by your mom
men ain't this and other people? You don't have those
concepts in your heart. So I don't have nothing to
build on.
Speaker 1 (27:48):
Because absolutely walk away. I'm no, it's not.
Speaker 10 (27:55):
But it's just the woman that you come across, not all.
Speaker 1 (28:02):
Women I come across to. This is not speaking from
a real omni perspective. This is a cumulative He is
speaking for the man over there. I was raised my
grandfather raised me, him my grandmother. She picked up his
check from work. You know what I'm saying. He but
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guess what I.
Speaker 5 (28:25):
See back It was different though, but she met that problem.
Speaker 10 (28:30):
It was.
Speaker 1 (28:35):
It was a whole different understanding.
Speaker 2 (28:37):
So like like back then, it was examples like uh,
sometimes men just ain't good with handling their own money.
Speaker 1 (28:46):
So my wife got it. My wife got it right
out there because a man. It was also what came
with it was the love and trust that he had
for her.
Speaker 5 (28:57):
Obviously, I never saw my grandfather cook, clean, watch, nothing ever.
Speaker 1 (29:02):
In my life make sense for her to pick it
up and go straight to the store.
Speaker 5 (29:05):
But but the way she operated, to her, it was her.
It was everybody was speaking. Everybody was speaking to my grandmother.
She was the house that the woman that comes with
you needed warning. She helped everybody.
Speaker 1 (29:16):
So but they being said like that was a woman
worthy to him of being in that position? You know
what I mean? And if a woman is not carrying
herself like that, you're not worthy of this. How cold?
I trust you.
Speaker 5 (29:26):
You think having male friends ride around with is cool
and okay? And you think in boxing and you think
the things that you do is we're talking about that generation.
That's what they would make it different that generation. There
wasn't nothing that going on.
Speaker 1 (29:42):
Bobby wasn't outside talking to you in the driveway when
I pulled off from work. It never happened. So she
is going on now.
Speaker 10 (29:50):
Nineteen sixties woman.
Speaker 5 (29:55):
The milkman didn't see what I'm saying when it gets
to women wasting bound to day.
Speaker 6 (29:59):
Two as well, like your grandma in my correction.
Speaker 1 (30:05):
Is worlds and qualities of world. Yeah, okay, I mean
why why.
Speaker 11 (30:10):
Would because that's different because you can be a lawyer
woman and still have male friends.
Speaker 2 (30:16):
You can be but the but what we're saying is
the percentages believe, as we was on last week, the
percentages don't speak.
Speaker 5 (30:25):
I honestly don't care because I know we're going on.
That's why I don't even guess about it.
Speaker 1 (30:30):
Yeah, but you know, but that's what I know. You
gotta be equal. I feel like a male. It's not
about that. But why does a woman have to fight
so hard to make sure she can have male friends?
Speaker 2 (30:42):
Why can't you? Why is this just give up? Just honestly,
why what is it that you think women don't know
they power?
Speaker 1 (30:50):
This is the problem.
Speaker 5 (30:50):
They don't know who they are. In Middle Eastern countries,
people go out there where they make their women cover
right because the woman did anything because the nature of
the main So if a woman knows this, how could
she be comfortable saying I'm in a relationship with a
man I love, but out here sexually exciting every man
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I walked past because the ship this up in my
ass and I mean, the my titties out and I've
made all up and I'm.
Speaker 1 (31:17):
Out here and we're friends. That's bullshit again.
Speaker 10 (31:22):
I feel like you're saying something personal that's not.
Speaker 2 (31:28):
Man.
Speaker 5 (31:28):
If a woman is out and people taking drugs and
drinking alcohol, men you know they are there and you're
asked and you are wearing something sexual. Talk to me
who you think you're fooling? Are you that naive and
you don't know what's going on? You don't know the
nature of men, because some of them will drag you out, heard,
rape you, and kill you.
Speaker 1 (31:47):
I've read the paperwork. I was in a law cord
from now you're.
Speaker 5 (31:52):
They talk about they getting molested and they getting treated
with disrespecting Graham.
Speaker 1 (31:56):
You're exciting their fucked up nature. So when you account you.
Speaker 10 (32:07):
Let me not write you.
Speaker 1 (32:09):
I'm not saying that.
Speaker 5 (32:10):
I'm saying when I see you, when I see you
as something sexual, it excites my sexual nature.
Speaker 1 (32:17):
Yeah, for you to take it. I didn't say that.
I said there because they know no no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
listen to you. Let's low it down.
Speaker 5 (32:26):
I said, there are men out there who will ripe
and kill you about this. And then you have a
lot of women who say I've been molested, I've been this,
I've been there. So the words the understanding for from
them that I'm not gonna do anything provocative or suggestive
in society to continue that type of behavior.
Speaker 1 (32:43):
But he's saying is no, you're you're missing.
Speaker 10 (32:51):
He's saying, we as women have to be know.
Speaker 5 (32:55):
Your because women is the most powerful in the world.
Kingdoms fall about a one woman. You have to understand
what you do. That's why when you represent a man
and say, for instance, he like I gotta gather on
or something a ball or party here, invite you to
go with him.
Speaker 1 (33:13):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 5 (33:14):
That's the world, that's everything, right, So you're gonna choose
how I represent him.
Speaker 1 (33:19):
You know what I'm saying. Now, if you going to
the bar down on Grand you probably even you might
go for it. You know what I mean.
Speaker 5 (33:25):
If you say I'm taking you to the White House,
you will try to dress different, maybe to impress people, right,
But the true nature in you show is when you're
left to make your own choice and decision about what
you want to do.
Speaker 1 (33:37):
Watch what you're gonna do. That's when you really know.
You telling your woman dressed like this, move like this, okay.
Speaker 6 (33:44):
But.
Speaker 2 (33:46):
On so many different levels of dynamics, because you're talking
about single women, women in relationship, women who have ever
been molested.
Speaker 1 (33:55):
You're talking about.
Speaker 5 (33:57):
Women who have been molested, right, Okay, but I say
you have a woman who has been molested, right, that
means that she encounted a male who was some sort
of creep or freak or whatever he did. Right, Why
would anybody want to further encourage that behavior out of anybody?
That's what I'm asking. The women who do that don't
even have sympathy for women who've been through that.
Speaker 2 (34:19):
Here's the thing, people, just flip that script me riding out,
flashing money on thirty eight inch rams, all the jewelry around,
whoever robbing niggas is looking at me, same shit as
a woman in the short skirt, whoever raping bitches.
Speaker 1 (34:36):
Is looking at her. Absolutely.
Speaker 2 (34:38):
The thing is we can't stop and concentrate on that
one thing and slow life down because people don't still
go to the clubs.
Speaker 1 (34:47):
But that's not the time. Women didn't dress like that
and we was in the club. But okay, but.
Speaker 2 (34:53):
Here's the point when women didn't dress like that and
wasn't in the club where they still being molested in
rape though of course, so listen, it's changing their no
tiring appearance.
Speaker 1 (35:04):
But you know, eliminating that ain't gonna stop the raping
the molestates.
Speaker 5 (35:10):
Okay, So I guess then, like if I would think
that if this was a topic that was truly cared about,
then anything brought to the table to help.
Speaker 1 (35:18):
No, we now rejected. Life not gonna slow down. Man.
We have to realize think about this.
Speaker 10 (35:25):
This is fact.
Speaker 5 (35:26):
Go researching anybody. The United States used to be so up,
up up, even the so car average Americans just want
to call them black children and math. Yeah, let's go
mad education this real.
Speaker 1 (35:36):
Check this out. We was up right now. If you
look at the net that the world averages.
Speaker 5 (35:41):
The year that the United States and our children started
to fall in decline and become fourth, fifth, sixth, and
seventh on the list of academics in the world, it
was the very year that the law changed and broke
the so called glass ceiling when women went into the workforce,
not the World War II, but they had to talking
about when they got the office jobs, and they started saying,
(36:02):
we want to work outside the home. Right, this is
when you got the latch key kids, kids who come
home before their parents get off work. So they had
to get left, change and shifted and all busy the basement.
Raised me when I got to school, when your mom
got home and we all come on when.
Speaker 1 (36:24):
Y'all come off from work. Man, if she got a cook,
she gonna do that.
Speaker 5 (36:28):
If it's probably have car and said, somebody to put
some mom and probably get there because when she gets there,
she want to work out day for real, for real.
Be I know this for facts because that's how I
got away with a lot of ship. You see what
I'm saying. So I'm explaining like y'all have to understand
these rights. They're good, they're yours, but they come with
a major sacrifice.
Speaker 1 (36:50):
To what I want to be.
Speaker 5 (36:52):
Is you you have to understand that's not that's another
maybe have accessible and visible in public like.
Speaker 1 (36:59):
That is a no. Anybody else want to respond before
we yeah do that? Ship. Oh yes, lovely, I like that.
Speaker 2 (37:06):
But I will say in response to that, what you
were saying about the time frame and stuff, be be
mindful that some of that ship is media.
Speaker 1 (37:15):
Driven too, all accurate information. What is that this year happened?
Is in this year a lot of person unless you
did yourself, you lewis that?
Speaker 5 (37:34):
I promise you that's factual. I mean one thing about it.
Religion is one thing, but science and facts and data
is another thing. All right, but you know we had
to go there at the end of the day.
Speaker 1 (37:46):
I live and listen. I was in I did thirteen
years in maximum security prisoner. I was a low clerk
for nine years.
Speaker 5 (37:53):
I've read so many police reports, and I've seen the
worst of the worst. I know that the nature of
men can get so bad, you know what I mean.
So I just always caught you, especially any woman I love. Hey,
I know that's cool and empower and liberating to you,
(38:14):
but it's also inviting danger. And then the problem is
when you meet a man and you got that on
that is his first impression of you, don't hit me
with the white road.
Speaker 1 (38:27):
Three months. That's six months. I don't want to hear
it again. That's based off of that man, if he's that,
because look right now, I'm gonna say this like this,
have you ever been a situation like this?
Speaker 5 (38:45):
You met a chick right on some humble out or whatever,
and for real, the first night you met her, you
probably either did could have been with Finla did busted down.
Speaker 1 (38:56):
She was on some freaky ship with you to night
you met her. But how y'all kept jamming.
Speaker 5 (39:01):
Kicking it whatever, and over time you're working with it, right,
and now it's like we should be getting in a
serious relationship or she's talking about marriage or she's talking.
Speaker 1 (39:11):
About every situation not nothing that been in a relationship
with don't.
Speaker 10 (39:20):
Like and that ship turned me off, yam, y'all jam
go ahead fish.
Speaker 5 (39:27):
And then she starts to just bring to the table
with increasing increasing responsibility frequency about the relationship becoming official, right,
you know, taking steps towards doing bigger things and other things.
Speaker 1 (39:42):
And it's like that's weird, Like are you trying to
deceive me or you are changed person to see change ship.
I'm just asking like like like like that's that's every
that's okay. Maybe they want people like like they don't
they don't like that's Okay, nah man, listen, a woman
(40:05):
worthy of marrying would never do that ever.
Speaker 6 (40:11):
Life.
Speaker 5 (40:11):
Wow, man, who was big out on the first night
I met him? But if you think that's crazy, it's
a lot of women who think a woman crazy.
Speaker 3 (40:27):
Like what you're having, you're doing the same thing she's doing.
Speaker 1 (40:31):
Exactly. Why are you asking me to marry me?
Speaker 10 (40:39):
Why hanging out?
Speaker 6 (40:40):
Why are you with this person?
Speaker 10 (40:42):
Which one?
Speaker 1 (40:43):
I know you're saying why because.
Speaker 5 (40:50):
Every situation is not mine particular situation, but I'm just
giving you experiences.
Speaker 1 (40:56):
Person.
Speaker 10 (40:56):
That's the only person, the only person you're with, the
only person you say one of tonight.
Speaker 11 (41:01):
You don't think that's going to develop into something. You
learn that person, you learn who they are, and you
find out, oh they're intelligent, Oh they're breaking Oh that
the ship. You wouldn't want to marry that person after
spending this time with that person, I would not want
to marry that person.
Speaker 1 (41:18):
What are you talking about that makes a person worthy
of marriage? Well, we will say that.
Speaker 2 (41:24):
The views expressed by some on this show do not
reflect the views of everyone.
Speaker 1 (41:29):
So you're saying that she became a different person because
of her feelings for here person. You learned each other
who you were last week is a different person.
Speaker 5 (41:38):
I just don't think that I would feel comfortable marrying
a woman I know today I met her.
Speaker 1 (41:43):
I don't feel comfortable doing it. I know what I'm saying,
that that's a girl.
Speaker 5 (41:56):
She should marry me either you, That's what I'm saying.
I know what is certin myself. And if I'm looking
to meet someone, I know why I'm gonna be there
trying to meet them. But I ain't trying to meet
nobody in me in town.
Speaker 6 (42:06):
What if he the ones saying I want to marry you?
You know what I mean, Like I want, I won't.
I want to marry you, and.
Speaker 1 (42:15):
On the first about it, No, I wouldn't. I wouldn't
even be in a serious relationship with somebody else on
the first night. I ain't said I would up with them.
Speaker 5 (42:28):
Because she might be hella hella cool, she might become
like a hell a hell a close friend. We might
be together for some time, but I together together like
rock out. We can understand. Different people live different ways.
Speaker 1 (42:41):
You know what I'm saying. Everybody we hustled, the entrepreneurs
we work. You know what I'm saying. I move and
grew up a different way.
Speaker 5 (42:47):
I don't really have time. So if I'm kicking them
with somebody, they may be up on me and be
with me moving and they may be very helpful to
my situation.
Speaker 12 (42:58):
Time.
Speaker 1 (43:00):
I ain't understanding, like what you're saying, what's wrong with
it that my person?
Speaker 5 (43:06):
No, I wouldn't marry. I'm just saying I wouldn't. That
ain't what's wrong with that. I'm not putting her down
or nothing. I'm just I wouldn't marry it. Because in
my mind.
Speaker 10 (43:15):
It's like, okay, so let me saying that.
Speaker 1 (43:18):
Nobody else I was sure my friend, the one that
she had, he might marry. Don nobody want to talk
about he ain't gonna do it.
Speaker 10 (43:28):
I would say that I won't do it.
Speaker 11 (43:30):
That's a different situation. If you notice, he just got finished.
Speaker 1 (43:35):
But no, no, no, no, I don't know if she's
doing that. I'm saying, man, this man she just did
to me. Hypothetically she was, That's all I was saying.
I don't know, but it's gonna be my fan.
Speaker 6 (43:49):
If she asked to be in a serious relationship.
Speaker 10 (43:51):
Is that where to stop?
Speaker 6 (43:52):
Is that where he stopped jamming? Is that you star
hanging out?
Speaker 1 (43:54):
I would no.
Speaker 4 (43:55):
Okay, from experience, I would make it clear that point.
I will make it clear like nah, I ain't on it,
and I would make it clear why and I have
done that.
Speaker 1 (44:06):
I would be honest, and they continue to talk to you.
Speaker 5 (44:09):
And that was the worst thing that ever happened, because
you know what, because after that point, right and after
that point the energy turned niggave So it should we
should have went out separate ways at that point and
not doing it it just.
Speaker 1 (44:21):
Because I don't see.
Speaker 11 (44:22):
No, that's all it was that somebody is invested and
they told you that they love you, they love you
enough to want to take you to the next level,
and you say.
Speaker 10 (44:29):
No, cool, I could continue.
Speaker 1 (44:32):
That being your love for real. They can't be you
can't do that's what they call it. It's an expectation.
Speaker 10 (44:43):
And what's going on.
Speaker 1 (44:44):
That's great. I was about to change man.
Speaker 5 (44:47):
All right, we're doing a relationship with the one with
two years You should be a female friend.
Speaker 1 (44:51):
No, there is look relationships and this and that. There
are no fucking rules. What we're doing together is working
for both of us, and we and we building Why
talk about the other ship, Let's do what we do.
Speaker 10 (45:04):
Oh, so you're the tame. They want to, you know,
get the mooking out by the cow. I got you,
that's what it sounds.
Speaker 1 (45:11):
We gotta move, We're gonna we gotta keep it moving.
Yeah yeah, all right, nobody gets stabbed here. Did you
want to bordering interview? Did you want to boring interview?
This is you know what I'm saying, all this stuff.
Speaker 5 (45:32):
Let's go.
Speaker 1 (45:34):
All right, So you need somebody
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