Dear Rabbi

Dear Rabbi

Concise weekly answers to your questions about Judaism. If you are a wondering Jew, visit www.joidenver.com/dearrabbi to submit your own questions.

Episodes

April 30, 2025 β€’ 5 mins
In this episode of Dear Rabbi, I unravel the mystery behind those fishing wire-like strings that hang across streets in Jewish neighborhoods. These strings, an eruv, serve as a ritual boundary that transforms public areas into a unified domain for Sabbath observance. I explain how Jewish law prohibits carrying objects between public and private domains on Shabbat, and how the eruv creates a symbolic enclosure that allows observant ...
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In this episode of Dear Rabbi, I continue our exploration of why Jewish tradition avoids directly counting people. Tracing this practice back to biblical times, I explain how even during desert censuses, Jews were counted indirectly through coin contributions. I share the cautionary tale from the Book of Samuel where King David's census led to calamity, and draw on commentaries from Rambam and Rashi about the "evil eye." More profo...
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April 9, 2025 β€’ 1 min
In this episode of Dear Rabbi, I explore the curious ritual a viewer observed when their rabbi was pointing at congregants while saying seemingly random Hebrew words before a Kaddish service. I explain that this was likely the rabbi counting to ensure there was a minyan (ten adults) present for prayer, but doing so indirectly. Since Jewish tradition discourages counting people directly, rabbis often use verses with exactly ten word...
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In this episode of Dear Rabbi, I explain the deep significance behind breaking a glass at the end of a Jewish wedding ceremony. While many might think it's just a festive moment signaling the end of the wedding, the tradition carries a profound spiritual meaning. I discuss how even in our most joyous moments, we remember the destruction of the Temple and the suffering of others. By breaking the glass, Jewish couples and their guest...
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In this episode of Dear Rabbi, I address the frequently asked question about tattoos and Jewish burial. While Leviticus 19:28 clearly prohibits Jews from getting tattoos, I explain that there is no halachic (Jewish law) basis preventing someone with tattoos from being buried in a Jewish cemetery. I clarify that the prohibition applies only to getting tattoos, not having them. Though some communities historically may have refused bu...
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March 12, 2025 β€’ 2 mins
In this episode of Dear Rabbi, I address the common question about whether all Jews speak Hebrew. While Hebrew has experienced a remarkable renaissance as Israel's national language, and most Jews today do live in Israel, not all Jews are Hebrew speakers. I explain how historically, Jews have primarily spoken the languages of their host countries while developing unique Jewish dialects that blend local languages with Hebrew and Ara...
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March 5, 2025 β€’ 1 min
In this episode of Dear Rabbi, I break down the similarities and differences between halal and kosher dietary laws. While both are religious food guidelines for Muslims and Jews, respectively, they are not identical. I explain that Kosher foods are generally acceptable for halal diets, but not vice versa. Drawing on the nuanced distinctions between these dietary practices, I provide insights into each tradition's overlaps and uniqu...
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In this informative episode of Dear Rabbi, Rabbi Menachem Lehrfield answers a practical question about Jewish observance: when should one observe a yahrzeit (death anniversary) during a Jewish leap year with two months of Adar? After providing a concise explanation of the Jewish lunisolar calendar system and why leap months are necessary to keep holidays in their proper seasons, Rabbi Field discusses the differing customs between S...
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In this thought-provoking episode of Dear Rabbi, we address a fascinating question about mortality during the Days of Awe - the ten days between Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur. Rabbi Arkham explores how Judaism reconciles deaths that occur before the Book of Life is sealed, offering two traditional perspectives: that the previous year's judgment extends through these ten days, or that one's fate is determined on Rosh Hashanah but can...
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In this episode of Dear Rabbi, I explain the unique Jewish concept of the day beginning at sundown. Tracing this tradition back to the biblical account of creation, I explore how the Torah's pattern of "evening and morning" established our distinctive approach to marking time. I share a deeper spiritual meaning behind this practice - how night represents life's challenges while day symbolizes clarity, suggesting that by beginning w...
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In this episode of Dear Rabbi, I explore the profound question of why God sometimes seems distant, even in our moments of deepest prayer. Through the lens of the Purim story and the Book of Esther, I explain how God's apparent absence is actually a form of hidden presence. I share a personal parenting analogy from teaching my kids to ski, illustrating how sometimes stepping back allows for growth. Drawing from biblical examples and...
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In this episode of Dear Rabbi, I tackle the famous philosophical trolley dilemma from a Jewish perspective. I analyze Jewish law and the Talmud and explain why Judaism's approach might surprise those who take a utilitarian view. I explore why sacrificing one life to save many - whether through pulling a lever or pushing someone off a bridge - goes against Jewish ethical teachings. Drawing from the Mishna and Jerusalem Talmud, I sha...
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In today's episode of Dear Rabbi, I'm answering a profound question about God's role in our suffering, especially during these challenging post-COVID times. I explain why we can't fully grasp God's ways by sharing two powerful stories – one about a hypothetical cousin from the jungle seeing a gym for the first time, and another about my personal experience with my son Ozzy during his medical procedure. Through these examples, I ill...
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Welcome to Dear Rabbi, where we tackle the pressing questions of our time! πŸ•

This week, Rabbi Menachem Lehrfield reflects on the current hostage deal in Israel and its complexities. πŸ€”

Explore the debate over prioritizing safety versus making concessions, and discover why unity among the Jewish people is more critical now than ever. 🌍 Let’s stand together, even when faced with difficult choices, and hope for the safe return of all ...
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Welcome to Dear Rabbi, where we explore the nuances of Jewish identity!

πŸ• In this episode, Rabbi Menachem Lehrfield addresses the question of Jewish lineage and conversion. πŸ‘ͺ Discover the traditional Jewish view on matrilineal descent and why it's so important.

Learn about the complexities of Jewish identity in the modern world and how one's upbringing or current practices relate to their Jewish status.Β 

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Welcome to Dear Rabbi, where we tackle complex topics in Jewish history and politics!

πŸ• In this episode, Rabbi Menachem Lehrfield breaks down the concept of Zionism and its significance to the Jewish people. 🌟 Learn about the movement for Jewish self-determination and statehood.
Explore the biblical connections to the land of Israel and the contemporary debates surrounding Zionism.Β 

Keep the questions coming! If you have a burning q...
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Welcome to Dear Rabbi, where we explore the depth of Jewish concepts!

πŸ• In this episode, Rabbi Menachem Lehrfield unpacks the true meaning of tzedakah and how it differs from conventional charity.

🀲 Discover the root of this Hebrew word and why it's connected to justice rather than benevolence. Learn about the Jewish perspective on giving and how it could change the world if universally practiced. 

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Welcome to Dear Rabbi, where we unlock the secrets of Jewish home life!

πŸ• In this episode, Rabbi Menachem Lehrfield reveals the significance of the mezuzah, that little box on Jewish doorposts.

πŸšͺ Learn about the biblical commandment behind this practice and discover what's really inside that case. Explore the deeper meanings of the mezuzah and how it serves as a reminder of Jewish values and divine protection.

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Welcome to Dear Rabbi, where we untangle the mysteries of Jewish appearances!

πŸ• In this episode, Rabbi Menachem Lehrfield decodes the significance of the distinctive sidelocks worn by Hasidic men. πŸ§”Β 

Explore the biblical origins of this practice and learn about the variations in how it's observed. Discover how these curls serve as a visible symbol of Jewish identity and pride.

Keep the questions coming! If you have a burning questio...
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Welcome to Dear Rabbi, where we unearth the significance behind Jewish practices! πŸ•

In this episode, Rabbi Menachem Lehrfield explains why Jews place rocks on graves instead of flowers. 🌹 

Discover the symbolism behind this enduring tradition and how it honors the memory of loved ones. Learn about the Jewish perspective on remembrance and the value of lasting tributes.

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