February 5, 2025 • 34 mins
Bonnie Blue has never been one to shy away from the extreme, but her latest stunt—a jaw-dropping 1,000-man gangbang—just got her permanently banned from OnlyFans. The platform, known for allowing risqué content, apparently found this record-breaking attempt a step too far, sparking debates across the industry.
What Went Wrong?
Insiders say the mass-participation event raised serious red flags, from identity verification issues to pushing OnlyFans into regulatory hot water. While Bonnie’s devoted fanbase saw it as a bold move, the platform saw a policy nightmare.
Industry Fallout & Future Moves
Despite losing a reported $750K per month from OnlyFans, Bonnie isn’t down for long. She could pivot to alternative platforms like Fansly or Pornhub—or even launch her own. Meanwhile, critics argue OnlyFans is cracking down on its edgiest earners to chase a more mainstream image.
So, was this a reckless clout chase or a calculated career move? One thing’s certain—Bonnie Blue knows how to keep the world watching.
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What Went Wrong?
Insiders say the mass-participation event raised serious red flags, from identity verification issues to pushing OnlyFans into regulatory hot water. While Bonnie’s devoted fanbase saw it as a bold move, the platform saw a policy nightmare.
Industry Fallout & Future Moves
Despite losing a reported $750K per month from OnlyFans, Bonnie isn’t down for long. She could pivot to alternative platforms like Fansly or Pornhub—or even launch her own. Meanwhile, critics argue OnlyFans is cracking down on its edgiest earners to chase a more mainstream image.
So, was this a reckless clout chase or a calculated career move? One thing’s certain—Bonnie Blue knows how to keep the world watching.
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Podcast excellence since two thousand and five.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
This is the King of Podcasts Radio Network, Kingopodcasts dot
com or Bonnie Blue. When only fans breaks up with you,
we are all a little depraved and debaucherous. Here is
the King of podcasts. I'm going to make this very clear.
Bonnie Blue is an attention whore. What is it about you? Bonnie?
(00:28):
You make me have to go and talk about you
on this program. This is the third episode in the
last four weeks. I have to bring you up. You
are constantly in my Google news feed. You're inescapable? What
is it about you? And part of it is yes,
I keep getting good numbers every time I talk about you.
It's obvious. I mean, I can't you gonna tell you
(00:50):
how much I see. I'm an audio feel like, what
a what a major bump in numbers that I have
talking about you? But I don't want to keep doing that.
This is not my normal thing. But when things get interesting,
I can't help myself. So really, let's just recollect a
little bit of what we already got so far. Okay,
I go back to Lily Fips we talked about in
(01:14):
the summer eighteenth. That's going while back, and then I
brought up Bonnie Blue on January fifteenth because she successfully
she said, had sex with one fifty seven men and
twelve hours. Two weeks later we get a story about
her showing her bruises and that the video that she
(01:37):
had put up on OnlyFans was removed, and now the
ultimate result, her page has been taken down completely, her
profiles out. So we know that first of all, we
had a follow up from last week, the evidence of
Bonnie Blue's record and her twelve hour relationships with more
(01:58):
than one thousand men deleted. And I don't know if
she ever put up anywhere else I have not been
looking for. So she was hoping to go make a
fortune off the sex stunt the gang bang if you will.
So the video was removed from the twenty five year
old subscription side after it was reportedly said that OnlyFans
said the X ray clip broke its rules, and a
(02:19):
spokesperson talked to Mail Online saying that Only Fans is
a platform designed for creators who have completed our comprehensive
onboarding process and choose to monetize their content, and that
Only Fans, to keep the community safe, must be able
to verify age, identity, concent of all parties, a premium exit,
and explicit content on OnlyFans. We do not allow a
(02:41):
large number of only fans creators to appear on an account,
even when release forms have been provided. It added. So
no matter what her team did, they were not able
to get this put online. Now doesn't mean that she
can't get this out somewhere else other way. But I
don't know if anybody's been out there looking to go
ahead and buy her content. I don't know if she's
(03:02):
pitched the video to Vivid or somewhere else. They always
want to go and keep their control of the content. Now,
she shot the shot the video, and a thirty thousand
dollars mansions, famous for hosting illegal sex parties, and social
media is going after her right now because her shocking
sex trick was in vain because she can't make money
(03:23):
from it. One person on Facebook growth, imagine doing all
that work for nothing, another one saying what an anti climax,
and other social media users putting out that no one
has seen the video and asked was this something that
really happened? Until they see the video, it didn't happen.
Another one saying it hasn't been banned. It just doesn't exist.
So now the skepticism that she achieved did the stunt.
(03:45):
Now we all talk about the fact that there was
no way for her to got for her able to
go and be able to do this in twelve hours.
But she doubled down saying that the figures were correct,
and then she also corroborating test some money from an
unemployed security guard named Ali Walker admitted he was in
line for the sec session ended up backing out of
(04:06):
Traphex's discourage by the fact that participants did not have
an individual time with Blue. And another video was showing
you about a concerned mother pulling her nineteen year old
son out of the queue, which also seems to back
up blues claim that the sex marathon was actually happening.
The mystery of the world record footage is also the
spirit from YouTube. There were reports about how the video
(04:26):
had a large, full room of con large room full
of condoms, paper towels, and disposable blue Blaca balaclavas worn
by the male of participants were completely erase from Blue's
own account. Now there's more to the story that has
been brought out. I'm not gonna take from Hype Fresh.
They have the full story in there now and they've
kind of been taking off timeline as to what's been
(04:48):
going on so far. So what she specifically got banned
for altogether from OnlyFans was age and age and identity verification,
so OnlyFans demands ironclad verification for everyone in explicit content
was impossible to go ahead and vent and verify age limits,
(05:10):
community standards even for their site, certain acts and extreme
content risk publishing, pushing platforms into the regulatory dat zone.
And then because of other issues with mainstream scrutiny, which
you remember Billa Thorne's scam backlash, but we talked about
that years ago, or the issues with MasterCard payments. Only
fans wants to keep their business model stable, so her
(05:32):
work is only disrupting their business, so she's no good
for OnlyFans out now, there are other creators that could
go ahead and that have left OnlyFans or have been
banned from OnlyFans. They could go somewhere else. So where
she could go are two sites like fans Lye or
Pocket Stars. She could also try to get her content
(05:54):
pushed on port and Hub or independent websites. She could
put her own website up and put it up there
as well, and you know, find a way to go
and get CCBL or some other payment agency to go
ahead and take payments for her to go and show
the content. I don't know why she decided to go
and keep it on only fans when you're doing something
this big, Her team should have known she wasn't gonna
(06:15):
be able to keep that content up on that website.
It wasn't gonna happen. But it's because those OnlyFans and
because of the traffic, they figured it's going to do that.
But at least maybe this was the deserve, the desired effect.
Maybe this is what her team wanted was build to
go and try to get this put on OnlyFans only
for the fact that was gonna get banned, and then
everybody could say, well it was on only fans, it
(06:36):
was banned. She got the press. See now, the next
thing she could do is Okay, I'm hosting on my
own website or somebody else's and it's all done. I mean,
the other question is, I don't know how much she
was gonna go and get charged for it, or she
was gonna charge for it. I don't even know what
that price was gonna be. But she's too big for
only fans, she's too controversial for OnlyFans, and now she
(07:00):
can't get back on there. And the thing was that
she could have done something more influenced her friendly, something
more mainstream, soft core fitness and lifestyle, you know, modeling,
bikini pictures, all that kind of stuff. But the thing
was they're singing in this article here is that her
band is a sign of what can be coming for
other edgy creators. If that's the case, So what might
(07:23):
be the good thing that comes out of this is
that Bonnie Blue might have just broken the trend because
now women like Lily Phillips cannot put this content. They
can't go ahead and move forward with this gang bang
without knowing the repercussions. She's not gonna be the personal
Only fans is impossible. And why are you gonna go
through the trouble trying to age verify and all that
(07:44):
not because you shouldn't. I mean, if you're gonna be
stupid enough to do it, you might as well go
and find out if everyone's tested, find out if they're
above age, they're of consent, and know who they are.
I mean, you want to be able to go and
do a background check on these people before you let
them into you. You're into your crotch. But I don't
know what it comes down to is now these two
(08:08):
girls have to go and figure ot where they're going
to go up with this content anywhere else. But if
this is going to dissuade other women from going this
far and pushing the envelope, they would have to go
back to traditional porn if they're going to do it
traditional adult content. And I don't know if they're gonna
do that or not. It's probably not gonna be their choice.
(08:29):
That's a good thing to can say. But while this
is going to go ahead and make other women go
against the idea of this, it doesn't mean that these
two girls are not going to try to do things
more themselves. Daily Mail talks about this and they interviewed
a thirty two year old adult video model, Katie Brampton
(08:51):
of North Wales and that she started an explicive video
with Bonnie Blue, but now she's celibate, and that Bonnie
needs to quit trying to do these stunts because it
will leave negative energy embedded in her pelvis. Now. Katie
grew up in North Wales. She now lives in Thailand
and at the end of twenty twenty three, she performed
(09:13):
in a sex video alongside Bonnie Blue, and she fears
that the stunt that she put herself through is going
to go bad for her. So she says, having sex
with over thousand strangers, it'll create a massive disconnect between
her mental well being and her body. The trauma and
negative energy from this will become embedded in her, particularly
(09:34):
in the tissues around her pelvis, and that she'll realize
the impact this has had on her so with feelings
of self worth, her confidence, her ability to maintain a
meaningful relationship, and I want her to know I'll be
there for her when that happens. I can help her heal.
So Katie had earned six figure income from her adult videos,
but just over a year ago she wanted to leave
and start a wellbeing business to help women overcome sexual
(09:56):
trauma and achieve real, meaningful relationships and orgasms. Now, she
goes on to say that apart from her well being
for Bonnie, I'm really worried about the messages to the
young other young people out there about sex, especially young
girls who are thinking about doing only fans videos to
make what they seem will be easy money. Converted porn
(10:19):
star now wants to go ahead and try to reverse
the trend of women trying to go ahead and then
get themselves involved in only fans. Quote. Sex with the
stranger can lead to the depression, anxiety, your body and
nervous system becoming broken and frazzled. It can lead to
a fear of intimacy, not knowing who you really are. Now,
let's hold on that quote right there, because we already
(10:43):
know there's already a random thing now of women that
will just have random sex or situationships. And because of
the fact that there are women that out there just
doing that, let's get away from the whole sex stunt thing.
Let's just talk about sex that doesn't mean anything. When
you're just gonna from that sex, well, that stranger being depressed, anxious,
(11:05):
your value, your self worth diminishes. For how many young
women are out there that I've been watching them about
TikTok feed to talk about how they're just unhappy, they
feel like they can't find any guys out there. But
what they don't tell you in those videos are what
kind of guys they've been trying to attract. They're young
beautiful women, but they don't tell you, oh, the status
(11:29):
or what kind of filter are they putting on for
some of the guys that you're interested in. Now. Of course,
I'm not saying they're going to go need to go
look at their friends done and they're going to find somebody, No,
But I think that what you are going to find
it about them is that they might not realize that
the kind of guys that they're looking for. They feel
(11:51):
like because of their beauty, because of their status, that
they're supposed to find someone of equal status. But well,
they also don't know is when some of these guys
of the one percent that a lot of these young
beautiful women are trying to go ahead and go after,
they might not know they're going to the same guys,
And they're probably not aware of how few of those
kind of guys are out there, and how many more
(12:13):
guys like me are out there, because there are plenty
of guys like me that are we're not we are
we've been put to the friend zone. We've been made
to be called creeps. We've been made they gonna say, well,
we can't go and approach anybody, and we've put down
upon as a result, and I don't want to go
and deal with that either, because I got tired of that.
(12:35):
I got tired of chasing who I wanted to go after,
and the rejections was one thing for the manipulation, the narcissism,
the run around, the simping that I was made to
do because I was trying to go after a whole
I was going after. And so, like I said, I've
(12:56):
sworn that all off for a long time, but I'm
still the point where I still feel bad for some
of these girls and what they're doing with themselves for
attention and sex for nothing, because it is one thing
that Katie is saying right here that's absolutely true, because
(13:18):
in the prime of these women's youth and beauty, they
are getting themselves into whatever situations, whatever adventure they want,
because it's almost a complete detachment of being grounded and
being established and stable in what you're doing. And there's
so much of that. And this is something that she
(13:41):
says here that is gospel. Quote only fans has created
this massive industry which simply didn't exist before. Well it
was porn. Let's be clear about that. We did have
porn and people could still do that, and there were
still people that can go ahead and create videos and
post them on different sites. There's many vis there's I
want clips, there's clips for sale, there's loyal fans I
(14:05):
think it is, and there's a lot of those different pages.
If you want to go and find clips, you can
for plus sized models. It's courage or it's phoebe like,
I'm just saying it's out there. Yes, I know what
these sorry sites are. I'm not gonna say I don't. Okay,
I do. Sorry. But anyways, she makes the point here
(14:28):
that there are hundreds of women that did make a
lot of money from the site but lost sight of
who they are. Talk about objectification of women by doing that,
but that's on their own. Which is this independent thinking,
this independent thinking of like, well, I'm going to do
what I want and I'm going to expect what I
(14:49):
want because there are gonna be things of material value
that I'm going to cherish. So it's more important about
what you get, what your beauty gets you, then how
your beauty is valued. I think she makes a great
point here, and I'm glad it's a woman actually saying this,
(15:11):
because now I get just couldn't follow along and just
re emphasis, reemphasize and reinforce the fact she's making. And
she makes also the point women doing the videos like
these are getting younger and younger, and they don't know
what they're getting themselves into. But this is the part
where I also know I'm very aware of. But with
young women, you're not going to change your minds, which
(15:34):
is why it's more important that some young women out here,
if they're down a path of whatever kind of trauma
they went through, whatever kind of issues they they have
never overcome and never addressed. There's the reason why girls
will go to these sites and go this direction. If
they feel like they need to go to make extra
(15:55):
money or some discretionary income, or they're on their own
and they feel like they're st ugly and they can't
just take the regular grind like everybody else, I'm going
to use my body to do something about it, right.
I mean, before we had all this, of course, we
had strippers. We had people going open up like salons
or whatever you want, or go out there and sell
their body on the street. But because things are happening
(16:20):
where discretion and safety barriers, supposedly, they're going to make
it easier for a girl to go ahead and get
themselves caught up in this because you are playing to
the laziest common denominated of women that decided to go
on to only fans around the pandemic time in lockdown
and say, well, I can't make money right now. I
(16:41):
can't go out, I can't flop my body, I can't
get things from guys, I can't go out and travel.
So I'm going to use my body to make some
money off of it, and then I can go ahead
and if I can't get anybody to buy anything for me,
then I just go and buy stuff myself. The TikTok
generation of influencers, well, there was a small little percentage
of those that decided not just to go and go
(17:03):
into influencing. They're gonna use their body for something more.
They're gonna only fans it. And we talked about this
for years. You're not gonna stop any girls from doing it,
but you could just say, listen, you have to cut
off what happens beforehand and figure out what there is.
She also goes on to talk about the competition that
Bonnie Bluees having with Lily Phillips. Quote. Bonnie always seemed
(17:26):
to me very bounced rounded with it, and I'm so
worried about her. Now. This competition she started with Lily
Phillips is sending out the wrong messages. I simply can't
imagine that having sex with over one thousand men back
to back can have been enjoyable, can have been enjoyable.
Now she's already sipped over twenty five partners, that's her
body count, male and female, and she was with friends,
(17:48):
with the majority with them beforehand, so she didn't go
the route of the stuff with OnlyFans. She says quote,
there was always almost always some friendship. There were to
start with some degree of trust and of sorts, but
towards the end, I just didn't want anymore. I craved
meaningful sex, a family, and all that stuff you don't
envision in envisage envisioned. This is spelled wrong, daily email
(18:12):
envision wanting when you're younger. The whole only fans world
is so fake. Women thinking orgasms, everyone thinking being happy.
I just wanted out. At that time, you were what
twenty seven twenty eight, Things changed and her career in
her time. She left for the UK for France at
(18:37):
the age of eighteen, and she was a personal trainer.
Then she moved to Australia in twenty eighteen and focused
on her sports and she was becoming a professional CrossFit athlete.
And then in twenty twenty one, she was a nursery
worker and while he was sitting for a couple, she
was invited to a first swingers party and she met
(18:58):
an Australian portant star named Robbie. I then became a
couple and got married, and then she was going to
drug fuel swinging parties, started acting the videos herself and
she didn't know how. She just turned around and became
what was originally a kindergarten worker to become a porn star.
But at the same time it felt like a blast,
(19:18):
the best time ever. They became a celebrity sex couple.
They raised over fifty thousand pounds from the racy videos,
which is what forty what is forty thousand a month
roughly for US dollars, and had close to one hundred
thousand social media followers. And then she crossed paths with
(19:41):
Bonnie Blue and then they worked under a video together,
went for drinks a few times, swow numbers kept in
touch and then it was after she made the X
rated video with Bonnie that she had an epiphany and
she decided to drop everything and leave, drop Robbie, drop
(20:04):
the marriage, drop everything. So she decided to go and
go through cleanse and heal her body from all previous
sexual interactions. She used breath works and pilates and also
used Yoni streaming, which is an ancient ships in practice
where you boil water with herbs to cleanse your vagina.
And she wanted a completely fresh start inside and out
(20:28):
and also use traditional Thai medicine and to help with
a shaman. She meditated and refocused on her past. So
now again she's in Thailand. Just changed everything and now
she feels like she's a better person and she got
herself completely removed of all that was going on. Amazing.
Now she has a school of sensuality where women can
(20:51):
build relationships with themselves and their bodies. So she's using
it for good. But that's one example of the other
women that are not going to probably go through all
what she went through, and maybe she found herself a
sensible way. The damage is still done. I mean, she
(21:12):
can never live past what she did as a porn star,
married to a porn star and doing videos and doing
content like herself. She's gonna be out there for the
world to see and there will be plenty of young
guys that will want to get off and they will
(21:33):
find one of her videos and they will put it
into their spank bank. That's just it. So she could
feel better about that. But again she had to move
away from everything, No Australia, no UK. She went to
Thailand completely remove herself because you feel like that's what
she needs to go and do for herself, and to
create some retreat atmosphere for herself. Online workshops, couples retreat,
(21:54):
all that stuff. Well, she found a way to go
ahead and live her life in a certain way, but
she had to remove herself and she had to be
completely like separated. So the one thing I can give
her credit for is that she just decided to go
and cut cold turkey. She was able to get out
of the addiction completely gone. And it's a similar story
where she went through. And I talked about the story
(22:15):
with Bonnie Blue about what she went through to try
to say, well, why am I doing this anyway? Because
she was married or she was with a boyfriend, and
she had a good career and decided just to change everything.
Something just snapped in her and she decided to go
and do something else. Now, another thing she's saying, and
I'm guessing this is a shock value. Us Son's talking
(22:35):
about this that she was happy the risk getting HIV
in the name of her job. I don't get what
that's all story about. But she actually said that, and
I don't know what she's thinking. But okay, bus guard
did go in raw.
Speaker 1 (22:50):
Number one out of one thousand and fifty seven went
in raw. Like I'm bent over at this point, I
had like six of the guys a confront of me,
like my hands are busy and my mouth's busy, and
then I just turn around and I'm like, wait, you're
not wrapped up. But yeah, I think like when you're
in the moment from like the guy's perspective and they're
getting excited, did you sort of forget which is like
(23:11):
completely normal and most of them never usually wear comes,
so it's not like an instant I'm about to go inside.
Let me wrap up.
Speaker 2 (23:19):
Now, let me just ask this as well, does anybody
want to go ahead and talk to the other one
thousand and fifty six guys that first of all, she
didn't care if she got HIV, she didn't care about
wrapping up or protecting yourself. What about all those guys
did they sign up to get HEP two or HEPSI
(23:40):
whatever like? Do you think they were happy to go
and know that they were gonna probably catch something off
of her because the first guy decided another rap Like?
That's the other problem too. How many of those guys
that were not tested or might have had something on them,
some kind of sexy transmitted disease and would have left
it in her and the guy that would have inserted
(24:01):
would have gotten something off of that, which is like
germs could have very well happened. So she's having to
go and say that she did do that. This was
not that out well. And I still am under the impression.
I don't know if this is gonna be true. But again,
everybody's talking about it. But my reason we're talking about
it is kind of what Katie Brampton was just saying
that I talked about in the previous article. I hope
(24:22):
women are paying attention to this in so many different ways.
From the biggest point of Okay, you go on only
fans and you decided to go ahead, and you're gonna
have sex with multiple guys or multiple partners, whatever it is,
without any concern or safety measures to make sure you're
gonna be okay, doesn't matter. Then the other part is
(24:45):
is that the self worth, your lack of value, being depressed,
being anxious, You're just adding on to something that you
were already probably depressed and anxious about in the first place.
Why are you gonna subject yourself to something like that
and just throw yourself at somebody because you might get
something out of it, You might get some material trink
(25:06):
it from it. And what good will that do for you?
When women are not allowed to go ahead and feel love?
This is something that's not being considered okay. Obviously feminism
in certain ways, I've understood the healthiness of it and
where women will go and come across and feel like
the independence they want, the empowerment that they want. Sure
not here to go ahead and take away for anything
(25:27):
like that. But the problem is is that how some
of the women have received the message and how they're
using the message, how they're just society walk. I'm going
to live my life based on what I heard, because
it's obvious some women with feminisms, they just it's very
emotional and it's very uncontrolled and it's a shame. Well,
(25:51):
now there's quite a few one that don't go through this.
Just make this it's clear. But we're talking about the
girls that are not staying, are not staying on the ground,
they're not in a relationship, they're not steadfast in their
career or what they're doing when they don't have someone
to love at a young age, and then what happens
(26:12):
the reactions they could have to it, the impulse reactions
they might go and do, or decisions they'll make, the
choices that they make that will make things ultimately bad.
And it's upon guys. At the same time, they've got
to be paying contention. You can't mess with the girls
(26:33):
at this young age, so impressionable. So and I'm not
about what teens in twenties up to the early thirties.
There's a fragility with some of these women. They're not
gonna say it is, but I think their hearts can
be fragile and at this point, depending on what they've
(26:56):
gone through, if they are in a fragile state and
they I feel like materialism is going on. Listen, guys,
the red flags are out there. You do not want
to deal with a woman that thinks, well, a coffee
date's no good. We got to go out and do this.
We got to go and do this. You gotta get
me this. I expect a particular type of generosity from you.
Those are completely useless red flags you don't know want
(27:21):
to be a part of You. Got to stay away
from that, and hopefully you have learned your lesson on
how to date so that you're not getting yourself caught
up in the idea that you need to go ahead
and comply just to be with her. You don't want
to simp. But then also when you're younger, you also
don't want to go and screw things up. When you
get the chance to find a girl that will give
(27:42):
you that chance to go and be with them, do
right by them as much as you can do. Not react.
Don't take any feelings of like your own femininity, that
you're gonna scream, You're gonna yell at her, and you're
gonna try to control her, because do you feel like
you can't find anybody else that you're in your own way?
(28:02):
Your value is done, Like you can't do any better.
You found a girl that you feel like might be
out of your league, and you think you're gonna lose her,
so you have to go and go through some drastic
measures to try to keep her. You're gonna manipulate, mind,
fuck with her thinking you're gonna go and hold on
to her, which never works. You might hold on through
for longer, but look what you have to go and
(28:24):
subject to yourself to and what you are gonna subject
her to, and what kind of damage you're gonna leave
in the wink once you dump her. What good is that?
So there's a point about healthy relationships that you can
kind of avoid that. But you know the story I
saw all that came out where Bonnie Boo talks about
(28:47):
top tips to prevent husbands from cheating based on what
she learned from her experiences of the Sex the Gang Bang. No,
we're not gonna talk about that. There are other people
that also talked about this as well. A former Love
Island star Olivia Attwood also spoke about this and she
(29:11):
makes this point. I will take this point here that
why are we not looking at the men? Why do
we not talk about the men that buy and consume
this content and cube for these kinds of experiences, Because
at the end of the day. There are people's husbands, brothers, sons, colleagues,
and that is the interesting thing to turn the spotlight on,
and we should pay more attention to that. That's the
(29:31):
other problem too, ladies, because of the delusion that you
have of this seminine independent thinking. Yeah, there are some
guys that are gonna get lost. Okay, There're gonna be
guys that will have fucked up things for them. I
believe that happened to me a lot of times. So
I blame certain guys that had screwed things up for
the girls I wanted to be with. Because it's true.
(29:53):
How many times guys have you heard that where you
had a girl that doesn't want to do anything with
you because of the past. And then if you are
like a straight forward, upstanding, upstanding guy, like kind of
a gentleman, I mean, yeah, some guys they're gonna want
(30:14):
to find a way to go and get themselves off.
So if they don't want to go ahead and do
the the praise, the deboucher's think of finding some pay
for play. Okay, let's just put it like that. Whether
it's a massage prober, whether it's you find a girl
that you find on a on a phone number, or
you find on a website or whatever, how are you doing?
Or you find them on tender, you know, all these
kind of things. Then guys will probably find a way
(30:37):
to get themselves off. And online gives you more than
enough to go and use to find something. Okay, So
when the guys have no other resort, no other alternative
for them, because they're not interacting with any females because
you feel like, well the covers bear. They can't go
(30:57):
out through any girls because they're going to be creeped
out if they even try to approach. They're already afraid
to go and do it in the first place, and
they've kind of just been kept out of even trying
to be outgoing or even decide to spend the money,
but just go ahead and stay home and watch porn.
So we're talking about this right here. Olivia makes a point,
(31:18):
why are these guys being subjected to go and do this.
Part of the reason I have to say is that
the women who we're making the content, you got to
blame them. And the women that are decided not to
go ahead and get with these guys, now, they couldn't
have all just had the gateway right the porn right away,
it's got to be a reaction from something else. The
(31:40):
same thing goes. If there were actually healthy relationships on
both sides of the board, between both partners, male and female,
we could try to avoid this at a younger age.
It's got to get jobbed into a younger age so
that some of the brainwashed us being done on social media,
some of the thought processes being done here on both sides,
(32:00):
some of that's got to get quashed. So we talk
about this so that Bonnie Blue can't make any money.
But the one thing I can say for only fans
of the smart thing that they did was at least
they dropped their content. Good on them. I'm not gonna
say that. You can't say that, Oh well, it's something
(32:20):
about that women can't go and do some ridiculous the
praise and the vocher's things online. Of course they can't,
of course they can't. But the thing is, you make
a little bit harder. And I close with this. I
think it would just be much easier and much more
meanable if women and guys would just get back to
(32:45):
not doing the stuff that Bonnie Blue is doing, Like,
why are we gonna even go into that like it's
what a waste of time and also the part of
you don't need to go ahead and find alterni motives.
Guys shouldn't have to go to the alternaio motives of
dating game to get together with a girl, the hookup
with right, the whole thought of process of like, all right,
(33:05):
I gotta get with a girl for the intended sex.
At the same time, you know, I heard this as well.
If you hear a guy that is saying, okay, that
is going to take you out on one of those
dinners you're asking for, right, Oh, you should take me
out for steak and lobster flemagnon or you know, take
me to a nice restaurant. You know that by doing that,
(33:26):
you are signaling to the guy, well, I'll take you
to that nice dinner. Two, I'll spend on you, and
what am I gonna get in return? Because they're expecting
to put out, So they happen to go ahead and
take that gamble thinking you're going to because you have,
they've already paid their entry fee to get you to
go ahead and meet with them in the hotel or
somewhere else and go hook up. So what is it ladies,
(33:50):
let's take the value off the stuff that you're looking for,
the lifetle you're looking for. Guys and gals, can we
treat it equally. Hook up based on love or attraction
or whatever, and together be hooking up and being depraved
and deboxers.
Podcast excellence since two thousand and five.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
This is the King of Podcasts Radio Network, Kingopodcasts dot
com or Bonnie Blue. When only fans breaks up with you,
we are all a little depraved and debaucherous. Here is
the King of podcasts. I'm going to make this very clear.
Bonnie Blue is an attention whore. What is it about you? Bonnie?
(00:28):
You make me have to go and talk about you
on this program. This is the third episode in the
last four weeks. I have to bring you up. You
are constantly in my Google news feed. You're inescapable? What
is it about you? And part of it is yes,
I keep getting good numbers every time I talk about you.
It's obvious. I mean, I can't you gonna tell you
(00:50):
how much I see. I'm an audio feel like, what
a what a major bump in numbers that I have
talking about you? But I don't want to keep doing that.
This is not my normal thing. But when things get interesting,
I can't help myself. So really, let's just recollect a
little bit of what we already got so far. Okay,
I go back to Lily Fips we talked about in
(01:14):
the summer eighteenth. That's going while back, and then I
brought up Bonnie Blue on January fifteenth because she successfully
she said, had sex with one fifty seven men and
twelve hours. Two weeks later we get a story about
her showing her bruises and that the video that she
(01:37):
had put up on OnlyFans was removed, and now the
ultimate result, her page has been taken down completely, her
profiles out. So we know that first of all, we
had a follow up from last week, the evidence of
Bonnie Blue's record and her twelve hour relationships with more
(01:58):
than one thousand men deleted. And I don't know if
she ever put up anywhere else I have not been
looking for. So she was hoping to go make a
fortune off the sex stunt the gang bang if you will.
So the video was removed from the twenty five year
old subscription side after it was reportedly said that OnlyFans
said the X ray clip broke its rules, and a
(02:19):
spokesperson talked to Mail Online saying that Only Fans is
a platform designed for creators who have completed our comprehensive
onboarding process and choose to monetize their content, and that
Only Fans, to keep the community safe, must be able
to verify age, identity, concent of all parties, a premium exit,
and explicit content on OnlyFans. We do not allow a
(02:41):
large number of only fans creators to appear on an account,
even when release forms have been provided. It added. So
no matter what her team did, they were not able
to get this put online. Now doesn't mean that she
can't get this out somewhere else other way. But I
don't know if anybody's been out there looking to go
ahead and buy her content. I don't know if she's
(03:02):
pitched the video to Vivid or somewhere else. They always
want to go and keep their control of the content. Now,
she shot the shot the video, and a thirty thousand
dollars mansions, famous for hosting illegal sex parties, and social
media is going after her right now because her shocking
sex trick was in vain because she can't make money
(03:23):
from it. One person on Facebook growth, imagine doing all
that work for nothing, another one saying what an anti climax,
and other social media users putting out that no one
has seen the video and asked was this something that
really happened? Until they see the video, it didn't happen.
Another one saying it hasn't been banned. It just doesn't exist.
So now the skepticism that she achieved did the stunt.
(03:45):
Now we all talk about the fact that there was
no way for her to got for her able to
go and be able to do this in twelve hours.
But she doubled down saying that the figures were correct,
and then she also corroborating test some money from an
unemployed security guard named Ali Walker admitted he was in
line for the sec session ended up backing out of
(04:06):
Traphex's discourage by the fact that participants did not have
an individual time with Blue. And another video was showing
you about a concerned mother pulling her nineteen year old
son out of the queue, which also seems to back
up blues claim that the sex marathon was actually happening.
The mystery of the world record footage is also the
spirit from YouTube. There were reports about how the video
(04:26):
had a large, full room of con large room full
of condoms, paper towels, and disposable blue Blaca balaclavas worn
by the male of participants were completely erase from Blue's
own account. Now there's more to the story that has
been brought out. I'm not gonna take from Hype Fresh.
They have the full story in there now and they've
kind of been taking off timeline as to what's been
(04:48):
going on so far. So what she specifically got banned
for altogether from OnlyFans was age and age and identity verification,
so OnlyFans demands ironclad verification for everyone in explicit content
was impossible to go ahead and vent and verify age limits,
(05:10):
community standards even for their site, certain acts and extreme
content risk publishing, pushing platforms into the regulatory dat zone.
And then because of other issues with mainstream scrutiny, which
you remember Billa Thorne's scam backlash, but we talked about
that years ago, or the issues with MasterCard payments. Only
fans wants to keep their business model stable, so her
(05:32):
work is only disrupting their business, so she's no good
for OnlyFans out now, there are other creators that could
go ahead and that have left OnlyFans or have been
banned from OnlyFans. They could go somewhere else. So where
she could go are two sites like fans Lye or
Pocket Stars. She could also try to get her content
(05:54):
pushed on port and Hub or independent websites. She could
put her own website up and put it up there
as well, and you know, find a way to go
and get CCBL or some other payment agency to go
ahead and take payments for her to go and show
the content. I don't know why she decided to go
and keep it on only fans when you're doing something
this big, Her team should have known she wasn't gonna
(06:15):
be able to keep that content up on that website.
It wasn't gonna happen. But it's because those OnlyFans and
because of the traffic, they figured it's going to do that.
But at least maybe this was the deserve, the desired effect.
Maybe this is what her team wanted was build to
go and try to get this put on OnlyFans only
for the fact that was gonna get banned, and then
everybody could say, well it was on only fans, it
(06:36):
was banned. She got the press. See now, the next
thing she could do is Okay, I'm hosting on my
own website or somebody else's and it's all done. I mean,
the other question is, I don't know how much she
was gonna go and get charged for it, or she
was gonna charge for it. I don't even know what
that price was gonna be. But she's too big for
only fans, she's too controversial for OnlyFans, and now she
(07:00):
can't get back on there. And the thing was that
she could have done something more influenced her friendly, something
more mainstream, soft core fitness and lifestyle, you know, modeling,
bikini pictures, all that kind of stuff. But the thing
was they're singing in this article here is that her
band is a sign of what can be coming for
other edgy creators. If that's the case, So what might
(07:23):
be the good thing that comes out of this is
that Bonnie Blue might have just broken the trend because
now women like Lily Phillips cannot put this content. They
can't go ahead and move forward with this gang bang
without knowing the repercussions. She's not gonna be the personal
Only fans is impossible. And why are you gonna go
through the trouble trying to age verify and all that
(07:44):
not because you shouldn't. I mean, if you're gonna be
stupid enough to do it, you might as well go
and find out if everyone's tested, find out if they're
above age, they're of consent, and know who they are.
I mean, you want to be able to go and
do a background check on these people before you let
them into you. You're into your crotch. But I don't
know what it comes down to is now these two
(08:08):
girls have to go and figure ot where they're going
to go up with this content anywhere else. But if
this is going to dissuade other women from going this
far and pushing the envelope, they would have to go
back to traditional porn if they're going to do it
traditional adult content. And I don't know if they're gonna
do that or not. It's probably not gonna be their choice.
(08:29):
That's a good thing to can say. But while this
is going to go ahead and make other women go
against the idea of this, it doesn't mean that these
two girls are not going to try to do things
more themselves. Daily Mail talks about this and they interviewed
a thirty two year old adult video model, Katie Brampton
(08:51):
of North Wales and that she started an explicive video
with Bonnie Blue, but now she's celibate, and that Bonnie
needs to quit trying to do these stunts because it
will leave negative energy embedded in her pelvis. Now. Katie
grew up in North Wales. She now lives in Thailand
and at the end of twenty twenty three, she performed
(09:13):
in a sex video alongside Bonnie Blue, and she fears
that the stunt that she put herself through is going
to go bad for her. So she says, having sex
with over thousand strangers, it'll create a massive disconnect between
her mental well being and her body. The trauma and
negative energy from this will become embedded in her, particularly
(09:34):
in the tissues around her pelvis, and that she'll realize
the impact this has had on her so with feelings
of self worth, her confidence, her ability to maintain a
meaningful relationship, and I want her to know I'll be
there for her when that happens. I can help her heal.
So Katie had earned six figure income from her adult videos,
but just over a year ago she wanted to leave
and start a wellbeing business to help women overcome sexual
(09:56):
trauma and achieve real, meaningful relationships and orgasms. Now, she
goes on to say that apart from her well being
for Bonnie, I'm really worried about the messages to the
young other young people out there about sex, especially young
girls who are thinking about doing only fans videos to
make what they seem will be easy money. Converted porn
(10:19):
star now wants to go ahead and try to reverse
the trend of women trying to go ahead and then
get themselves involved in only fans. Quote. Sex with the
stranger can lead to the depression, anxiety, your body and
nervous system becoming broken and frazzled. It can lead to
a fear of intimacy, not knowing who you really are. Now,
let's hold on that quote right there, because we already
(10:43):
know there's already a random thing now of women that
will just have random sex or situationships. And because of
the fact that there are women that out there just
doing that, let's get away from the whole sex stunt thing.
Let's just talk about sex that doesn't mean anything. When
you're just gonna from that sex, well, that stranger being depressed, anxious,
(11:05):
your value, your self worth diminishes. For how many young
women are out there that I've been watching them about
TikTok feed to talk about how they're just unhappy, they
feel like they can't find any guys out there. But
what they don't tell you in those videos are what
kind of guys they've been trying to attract. They're young
beautiful women, but they don't tell you, oh, the status
(11:29):
or what kind of filter are they putting on for
some of the guys that you're interested in. Now. Of course,
I'm not saying they're going to go need to go
look at their friends done and they're going to find somebody, No,
But I think that what you are going to find
it about them is that they might not realize that
the kind of guys that they're looking for. They feel
(11:51):
like because of their beauty, because of their status, that
they're supposed to find someone of equal status. But well,
they also don't know is when some of these guys
of the one percent that a lot of these young
beautiful women are trying to go ahead and go after,
they might not know they're going to the same guys,
And they're probably not aware of how few of those
kind of guys are out there, and how many more
(12:13):
guys like me are out there, because there are plenty
of guys like me that are we're not we are
we've been put to the friend zone. We've been made
to be called creeps. We've been made they gonna say, well,
we can't go and approach anybody, and we've put down
upon as a result, and I don't want to go
and deal with that either, because I got tired of that.
(12:35):
I got tired of chasing who I wanted to go after,
and the rejections was one thing for the manipulation, the narcissism,
the run around, the simping that I was made to
do because I was trying to go after a whole
I was going after. And so, like I said, I've
(12:56):
sworn that all off for a long time, but I'm
still the point where I still feel bad for some
of these girls and what they're doing with themselves for
attention and sex for nothing, because it is one thing
that Katie is saying right here that's absolutely true, because
(13:18):
in the prime of these women's youth and beauty, they
are getting themselves into whatever situations, whatever adventure they want,
because it's almost a complete detachment of being grounded and
being established and stable in what you're doing. And there's
so much of that. And this is something that she
(13:41):
says here that is gospel. Quote only fans has created
this massive industry which simply didn't exist before. Well it
was porn. Let's be clear about that. We did have
porn and people could still do that, and there were
still people that can go ahead and create videos and
post them on different sites. There's many vis there's I
want clips, there's clips for sale, there's loyal fans I
(14:05):
think it is, and there's a lot of those different pages.
If you want to go and find clips, you can
for plus sized models. It's courage or it's phoebe like,
I'm just saying it's out there. Yes, I know what
these sorry sites are. I'm not gonna say I don't. Okay,
I do. Sorry. But anyways, she makes the point here
(14:28):
that there are hundreds of women that did make a
lot of money from the site but lost sight of
who they are. Talk about objectification of women by doing that,
but that's on their own. Which is this independent thinking,
this independent thinking of like, well, I'm going to do
what I want and I'm going to expect what I
(14:49):
want because there are gonna be things of material value
that I'm going to cherish. So it's more important about
what you get, what your beauty gets you, then how
your beauty is valued. I think she makes a great
point here, and I'm glad it's a woman actually saying this,
(15:11):
because now I get just couldn't follow along and just
re emphasis, reemphasize and reinforce the fact she's making. And
she makes also the point women doing the videos like
these are getting younger and younger, and they don't know
what they're getting themselves into. But this is the part
where I also know I'm very aware of. But with
young women, you're not going to change your minds, which
(15:34):
is why it's more important that some young women out here,
if they're down a path of whatever kind of trauma
they went through, whatever kind of issues they they have
never overcome and never addressed. There's the reason why girls
will go to these sites and go this direction. If
they feel like they need to go to make extra
(15:55):
money or some discretionary income, or they're on their own
and they feel like they're st ugly and they can't
just take the regular grind like everybody else, I'm going
to use my body to do something about it, right.
I mean, before we had all this, of course, we
had strippers. We had people going open up like salons
or whatever you want, or go out there and sell
their body on the street. But because things are happening
(16:20):
where discretion and safety barriers, supposedly, they're going to make
it easier for a girl to go ahead and get
themselves caught up in this because you are playing to
the laziest common denominated of women that decided to go
on to only fans around the pandemic time in lockdown
and say, well, I can't make money right now. I
(16:41):
can't go out, I can't flop my body, I can't
get things from guys, I can't go out and travel.
So I'm going to use my body to make some
money off of it, and then I can go ahead
and if I can't get anybody to buy anything for me,
then I just go and buy stuff myself. The TikTok
generation of influencers, well, there was a small little percentage
of those that decided not just to go and go
(17:03):
into influencing. They're gonna use their body for something more.
They're gonna only fans it. And we talked about this
for years. You're not gonna stop any girls from doing it,
but you could just say, listen, you have to cut
off what happens beforehand and figure out what there is.
She also goes on to talk about the competition that
Bonnie Bluees having with Lily Phillips. Quote. Bonnie always seemed
(17:26):
to me very bounced rounded with it, and I'm so
worried about her. Now. This competition she started with Lily
Phillips is sending out the wrong messages. I simply can't
imagine that having sex with over one thousand men back
to back can have been enjoyable, can have been enjoyable.
Now she's already sipped over twenty five partners, that's her
body count, male and female, and she was with friends,
(17:48):
with the majority with them beforehand, so she didn't go
the route of the stuff with OnlyFans. She says quote,
there was always almost always some friendship. There were to
start with some degree of trust and of sorts, but
towards the end, I just didn't want anymore. I craved
meaningful sex, a family, and all that stuff you don't
envision in envisage envisioned. This is spelled wrong, daily email
(18:12):
envision wanting when you're younger. The whole only fans world
is so fake. Women thinking orgasms, everyone thinking being happy.
I just wanted out. At that time, you were what
twenty seven twenty eight, Things changed and her career in
her time. She left for the UK for France at
(18:37):
the age of eighteen, and she was a personal trainer.
Then she moved to Australia in twenty eighteen and focused
on her sports and she was becoming a professional CrossFit athlete.
And then in twenty twenty one, she was a nursery
worker and while he was sitting for a couple, she
was invited to a first swingers party and she met
(18:58):
an Australian portant star named Robbie. I then became a
couple and got married, and then she was going to
drug fuel swinging parties, started acting the videos herself and
she didn't know how. She just turned around and became
what was originally a kindergarten worker to become a porn star.
But at the same time it felt like a blast,
(19:18):
the best time ever. They became a celebrity sex couple.
They raised over fifty thousand pounds from the racy videos,
which is what forty what is forty thousand a month
roughly for US dollars, and had close to one hundred
thousand social media followers. And then she crossed paths with
(19:41):
Bonnie Blue and then they worked under a video together,
went for drinks a few times, swow numbers kept in
touch and then it was after she made the X
rated video with Bonnie that she had an epiphany and
she decided to drop everything and leave, drop Robbie, drop
(20:04):
the marriage, drop everything. So she decided to go and
go through cleanse and heal her body from all previous
sexual interactions. She used breath works and pilates and also
used Yoni streaming, which is an ancient ships in practice
where you boil water with herbs to cleanse your vagina.
And she wanted a completely fresh start inside and out
(20:28):
and also use traditional Thai medicine and to help with
a shaman. She meditated and refocused on her past. So
now again she's in Thailand. Just changed everything and now
she feels like she's a better person and she got
herself completely removed of all that was going on. Amazing.
Now she has a school of sensuality where women can
(20:51):
build relationships with themselves and their bodies. So she's using
it for good. But that's one example of the other
women that are not going to probably go through all
what she went through, and maybe she found herself a
sensible way. The damage is still done. I mean, she
(21:12):
can never live past what she did as a porn star,
married to a porn star and doing videos and doing
content like herself. She's gonna be out there for the
world to see and there will be plenty of young
guys that will want to get off and they will
(21:33):
find one of her videos and they will put it
into their spank bank. That's just it. So she could
feel better about that. But again she had to move
away from everything, No Australia, no UK. She went to
Thailand completely remove herself because you feel like that's what
she needs to go and do for herself, and to
create some retreat atmosphere for herself. Online workshops, couples retreat,
(21:54):
all that stuff. Well, she found a way to go
ahead and live her life in a certain way, but
she had to remove herself and she had to be
completely like separated. So the one thing I can give
her credit for is that she just decided to go
and cut cold turkey. She was able to get out
of the addiction completely gone. And it's a similar story
where she went through. And I talked about the story
(22:15):
with Bonnie Blue about what she went through to try
to say, well, why am I doing this anyway? Because
she was married or she was with a boyfriend, and
she had a good career and decided just to change everything.
Something just snapped in her and she decided to go
and do something else. Now, another thing she's saying, and
I'm guessing this is a shock value. Us Son's talking
(22:35):
about this that she was happy the risk getting HIV
in the name of her job. I don't get what
that's all story about. But she actually said that, and
I don't know what she's thinking. But okay, bus guard
did go in raw.
Speaker 1 (22:50):
Number one out of one thousand and fifty seven went
in raw. Like I'm bent over at this point, I
had like six of the guys a confront of me,
like my hands are busy and my mouth's busy, and
then I just turn around and I'm like, wait, you're
not wrapped up. But yeah, I think like when you're
in the moment from like the guy's perspective and they're
getting excited, did you sort of forget which is like
(23:11):
completely normal and most of them never usually wear comes,
so it's not like an instant I'm about to go inside.
Let me wrap up.
Speaker 2 (23:19):
Now, let me just ask this as well, does anybody
want to go ahead and talk to the other one
thousand and fifty six guys that first of all, she
didn't care if she got HIV, she didn't care about
wrapping up or protecting yourself. What about all those guys
did they sign up to get HEP two or HEPSI
(23:40):
whatever like? Do you think they were happy to go
and know that they were gonna probably catch something off
of her because the first guy decided another rap Like?
That's the other problem too. How many of those guys
that were not tested or might have had something on them,
some kind of sexy transmitted disease and would have left
it in her and the guy that would have inserted
(24:01):
would have gotten something off of that, which is like
germs could have very well happened. So she's having to
go and say that she did do that. This was
not that out well. And I still am under the impression.
I don't know if this is gonna be true. But again,
everybody's talking about it. But my reason we're talking about
it is kind of what Katie Brampton was just saying
that I talked about in the previous article. I hope
(24:22):
women are paying attention to this in so many different ways.
From the biggest point of Okay, you go on only
fans and you decided to go ahead, and you're gonna
have sex with multiple guys or multiple partners, whatever it is,
without any concern or safety measures to make sure you're
gonna be okay, doesn't matter. Then the other part is
(24:45):
is that the self worth, your lack of value, being depressed,
being anxious, You're just adding on to something that you
were already probably depressed and anxious about in the first place.
Why are you gonna subject yourself to something like that
and just throw yourself at somebody because you might get
something out of it, You might get some material trink
(25:06):
it from it. And what good will that do for you?
When women are not allowed to go ahead and feel love?
This is something that's not being considered okay. Obviously feminism
in certain ways, I've understood the healthiness of it and
where women will go and come across and feel like
the independence they want, the empowerment that they want. Sure
not here to go ahead and take away for anything
(25:27):
like that. But the problem is is that how some
of the women have received the message and how they're
using the message, how they're just society walk. I'm going
to live my life based on what I heard, because
it's obvious some women with feminisms, they just it's very
emotional and it's very uncontrolled and it's a shame. Well,
(25:51):
now there's quite a few one that don't go through this.
Just make this it's clear. But we're talking about the
girls that are not staying, are not staying on the ground,
they're not in a relationship, they're not steadfast in their
career or what they're doing when they don't have someone
to love at a young age, and then what happens
(26:12):
the reactions they could have to it, the impulse reactions
they might go and do, or decisions they'll make, the
choices that they make that will make things ultimately bad.
And it's upon guys. At the same time, they've got
to be paying contention. You can't mess with the girls
(26:33):
at this young age, so impressionable. So and I'm not
about what teens in twenties up to the early thirties.
There's a fragility with some of these women. They're not
gonna say it is, but I think their hearts can
be fragile and at this point, depending on what they've
(26:56):
gone through, if they are in a fragile state and
they I feel like materialism is going on. Listen, guys,
the red flags are out there. You do not want
to deal with a woman that thinks, well, a coffee
date's no good. We got to go out and do this.
We got to go and do this. You gotta get
me this. I expect a particular type of generosity from you.
Those are completely useless red flags you don't know want
(27:21):
to be a part of You. Got to stay away
from that, and hopefully you have learned your lesson on
how to date so that you're not getting yourself caught
up in the idea that you need to go ahead
and comply just to be with her. You don't want
to simp. But then also when you're younger, you also
don't want to go and screw things up. When you
get the chance to find a girl that will give
(27:42):
you that chance to go and be with them, do
right by them as much as you can do. Not react.
Don't take any feelings of like your own femininity, that
you're gonna scream, You're gonna yell at her, and you're
gonna try to control her, because do you feel like
you can't find anybody else that you're in your own way?
(28:02):
Your value is done, Like you can't do any better.
You found a girl that you feel like might be
out of your league, and you think you're gonna lose her,
so you have to go and go through some drastic
measures to try to keep her. You're gonna manipulate, mind,
fuck with her thinking you're gonna go and hold on
to her, which never works. You might hold on through
for longer, but look what you have to go and
(28:24):
subject to yourself to and what you are gonna subject
her to, and what kind of damage you're gonna leave
in the wink once you dump her. What good is that?
So there's a point about healthy relationships that you can
kind of avoid that. But you know the story I
saw all that came out where Bonnie Boo talks about
(28:47):
top tips to prevent husbands from cheating based on what
she learned from her experiences of the Sex the Gang Bang. No,
we're not gonna talk about that. There are other people
that also talked about this as well. A former Love
Island star Olivia Attwood also spoke about this and she
(29:11):
makes this point. I will take this point here that
why are we not looking at the men? Why do
we not talk about the men that buy and consume
this content and cube for these kinds of experiences, Because
at the end of the day. There are people's husbands, brothers, sons, colleagues,
and that is the interesting thing to turn the spotlight on,
and we should pay more attention to that. That's the
(29:31):
other problem too, ladies, because of the delusion that you
have of this seminine independent thinking. Yeah, there are some
guys that are gonna get lost. Okay, There're gonna be
guys that will have fucked up things for them. I
believe that happened to me a lot of times. So
I blame certain guys that had screwed things up for
the girls I wanted to be with. Because it's true.
(29:53):
How many times guys have you heard that where you
had a girl that doesn't want to do anything with
you because of the past. And then if you are
like a straight forward, upstanding, upstanding guy, like kind of
a gentleman, I mean, yeah, some guys they're gonna want
(30:14):
to find a way to go and get themselves off.
So if they don't want to go ahead and do
the the praise, the deboucher's think of finding some pay
for play. Okay, let's just put it like that. Whether
it's a massage prober, whether it's you find a girl
that you find on a on a phone number, or
you find on a website or whatever, how are you doing?
Or you find them on tender, you know, all these
kind of things. Then guys will probably find a way
(30:37):
to get themselves off. And online gives you more than
enough to go and use to find something. Okay, So
when the guys have no other resort, no other alternative
for them, because they're not interacting with any females because
you feel like, well the covers bear. They can't go
(30:57):
out through any girls because they're going to be creeped
out if they even try to approach. They're already afraid
to go and do it in the first place, and
they've kind of just been kept out of even trying
to be outgoing or even decide to spend the money,
but just go ahead and stay home and watch porn.
So we're talking about this right here. Olivia makes a point,
(31:18):
why are these guys being subjected to go and do this.
Part of the reason I have to say is that
the women who we're making the content, you got to
blame them. And the women that are decided not to
go ahead and get with these guys, now, they couldn't
have all just had the gateway right the porn right away,
it's got to be a reaction from something else. The
(31:40):
same thing goes. If there were actually healthy relationships on
both sides of the board, between both partners, male and female,
we could try to avoid this at a younger age.
It's got to get jobbed into a younger age so
that some of the brainwashed us being done on social media,
some of the thought processes being done here on both sides,
(32:00):
some of that's got to get quashed. So we talk
about this so that Bonnie Blue can't make any money.
But the one thing I can say for only fans
of the smart thing that they did was at least
they dropped their content. Good on them. I'm not gonna
say that. You can't say that, Oh well, it's something
(32:20):
about that women can't go and do some ridiculous the
praise and the vocher's things online. Of course they can't,
of course they can't. But the thing is, you make
a little bit harder. And I close with this. I
think it would just be much easier and much more
meanable if women and guys would just get back to
(32:45):
not doing the stuff that Bonnie Blue is doing, Like,
why are we gonna even go into that like it's
what a waste of time and also the part of
you don't need to go ahead and find alterni motives.
Guys shouldn't have to go to the alternaio motives of
dating game to get together with a girl, the hookup
with right, the whole thought of process of like, all right,
(33:05):
I gotta get with a girl for the intended sex.
At the same time, you know, I heard this as well.
If you hear a guy that is saying, okay, that
is going to take you out on one of those
dinners you're asking for, right, Oh, you should take me
out for steak and lobster flemagnon or you know, take
me to a nice restaurant. You know that by doing that,
(33:26):
you are signaling to the guy, well, I'll take you
to that nice dinner. Two, I'll spend on you, and
what am I gonna get in return? Because they're expecting
to put out, So they happen to go ahead and
take that gamble thinking you're going to because you have,
they've already paid their entry fee to get you to
go ahead and meet with them in the hotel or
somewhere else and go hook up. So what is it ladies,
(33:50):
let's take the value off the stuff that you're looking for,
the lifetle you're looking for. Guys and gals, can we
treat it equally. Hook up based on love or attraction
or whatever, and together be hooking up and being depraved
and deboxers.
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