Dialogues of Desire: Non-Monogamy Unscripted

Dialogues of Desire: Non-Monogamy Unscripted

Welcome to Dialogues of Desire, where Brit and Sophie dive deep into the world of non-monogamy, sharing their personal journey from the very start. Join us for raw, unfiltered, and unscripted discussions as we navigate the complexities of open relationships, polyamory, and ethical non-monogamy. Whether you're curious about alternative lifestyles or seeking honest insights, our podcast offers a candid exploration of love, intimacy, communication, and everything in between. Subscribe and join the conversation as we uncover the highs, lows, and invaluable lessons of our non-monogamous journey together.

Episodes

Honesty vs. Transparency in Relationships: Is There a Difference?

November 10, 2024 • 23 mins
In this thought-provoking episode, we unpack the subtle yet powerful difference between honesty and transparency. Honesty means telling the truth when asked—but transparency takes it a step further. We’ll share how choosing transparency has shaped our journey in non-monogamy, fostering security and reducing misunderstandings. Join us as we explore real-life scenarios, share strategies for open communication, and discuss the emotion...
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Truth vs. Harmony in Relationships: Choosing Honesty Even When It Hurts

November 6, 2024 • 33 mins
We explore the complex balance between truth and harmony in relationships. While keeping the peace may feel safer, choosing harmony at the expense of honesty can lead to internal conflict and distance. We discuss the power of truth-telling—even when it risks hurting or disappointing our partners—as a path to deeper intimacy and authentic connection. When is it worth speaking your truth, and how do you approach it with care? Join us...
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Logistics and Support with Upcoming ENM Connections: Brit's Boundaries and Needs

October 30, 2024 • 35 mins
We dive into Brit's boundaries on a deeper level, unpacking what she needs as Sophie becomes more active in connecting with others. With Sophie having some potential dates lined up, we explore the practicalities of when and how Brit wants to be informed, as well as what support looks like before and after those connections. From the timing of updates to how Sophie can show up in ways that reassure Brit's comfort and security, we di...
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Answering Your Burning Questions on Non-Monogamy & Messages From Secret Admirers

October 21, 2024 • 35 mins
In this episode, we dive into your anonymous questions, tackling some of the biggest challenges in non-monogamy: jealousy, insecurity, and dealing with family or friends who just don’t get it. Plus, we read some flirty messages from secret admires that caught us off guard! Join us for raw, real talk, and a few surprises as we explore what it means to embrace vulnerability and stay true to ourselves in love and life.
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Breaking Down the Basics: Common ENM Terms You Need to Know

September 30, 2024 • 29 mins
Curious about non-monogamy but feeling overwhelmed by all the new terms? We’ve got you covered! In this episode, we’re breaking down some of the most common terms in ethical non-monogamy (ENM)—from polyamory to compersion, kitchen table dynamics, and everything in between. Whether you’re just starting out or deep in your journey, understanding these key concepts can transform how you approach your relationships. 🌱 Tune in as we di...
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Dances with Desire: Brit’s First Lap Dance and Navigating Boundaries at the Strippers

September 23, 2024 • 45 mins
In this steamy episode, we dive into Brit’s very first lap dance experience at the strippers and the unexpected feelings it stirred up. From initial excitement to navigating boundaries and jealous moments, we unpack how this night out added a new layer to our non-monogamous journey. Tune in as we share tips on how to approach a trip to the strip club with your partner—what to expect, what to discuss, and how to ensure everyone feel...
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Our First Threesome: The Juicy Details & Would We Do it Again?

September 9, 2024 • 32 mins
We had our first threesome experience together!  Join us as we reveal some intimate details, how it came to be, and what we learnt in the process.  How did we navigate the complexity of opening up to another person?  If you're curious about exploring threesomes yourself, we've also got some practical tips to help you start. But here’s the big question: Did we enjoy it? Would we do it again?  Listen in to find out how it all unfolde...
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10 Episodes In, 10 Questions Out: Reflecting on Our ENM Podcast Journey So Far

September 1, 2024 • 38 mins
Whether you’ve been with us since the beginning or are just tuning in, this episode is a heartfelt reflection on where we’ve been and where we’re going. In this special 10th episode, we’re taking a moment to celebrate how far we’ve come and reflect on the journey that’s brought us here. We dive into the highs and lows of our first ten episodes, sharing our favorite moments, the most challenging topics we've tackled, and what we hop...
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Non-Monogamy and Mental Health: Balancing Multiple Relationships in Tough Times (Part 2)

August 19, 2024 • 44 mins
In this episode, we continue our conversation on mental health, focusing on the crucial role of boundaries and self-care in our relationship. We discuss the challenges we have encountered as Brit works towards her independence and mental wellbeing. As we prioritise her recovery, we share our decision to pause the exploration on non-monogamy (just for a bit), ensuring we are both in a stable place before moving forward. Join us for ...
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Non-Monogamy and Mental Health: Balancing Multiple Relationships in Tough Times (Part 1)

August 12, 2024 • 33 mins
In this episode, we explore the challenges of maintaining relationships while dealing with mental health struggles, both your own and your partners'. We talk about the difficulties of staying afloat when everyone is struggling, and how to support each other during tough times. Sophie shares her experience of caring for Brit after her car accident, while navigating her own mental health. We dive into the dynamics of jealousy, comper...
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Crisis & Care: Navigating Emergencies in Non-Monogamy

August 5, 2024 • 12 mins
In this episode, we delve into the complexities of managing emergencies within non-monogamous relationships. Drawing from a recent personal experience where Brit was hit by a car while riding her bike to work, we explore how to navigate sudden change of plans, the importance of having clear emergency contacts, and the unique challenges that can arise when multiple partners need to be informed and involved.
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Coming Out As ENM: Where Does One Begin? Telling Partners What You Desire & Sharing Relationship Dynamics with Friends, Family & Colleagues

July 29, 2024 • 28 mins
In this episode, we delve into the pivotal moment of coming out as a non-monogamous couple and individuals. Join us as we share our personal journeys of revealing our relationship dynamics to friends, family, and colleagues. How did we handle their reactions, and what challenges did we face along the way?

We'll also explore practical advice for those looking to open up about their non-monogamous desires. How do you choose the right ...
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Swipe Left or Swipe Right in ENM: A Monogamous Partner's Perspective on Their Girlfriend's Dating Profile and Potential Suitors

July 21, 2024 • 40 mins
In this revealing episode of Dialogues of Desire: Non-monogamy Unscripted, Sophie takes Brit into the intriguing world of her dating apps, unveiling her profiles and the conversations with her matches. Join us as emotions run high and unexpected sparks fly, exploring Brit's reactions to discovering Sophie's potential suitors. From awkward moments to newfound understanding, this episode delves deep into the complexities of modern re...
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Drawing the Lines: Navigating Boundaries in Non-Monogamy (Part 2)

July 15, 2024 • 29 mins
Join us for Part 2 of "Drawing the Lines: Navigating Boundaries in Non-Monogamy," where we delve deeper into the complexities of defining boundaries in relationships. In this episode, we explore the delicate balance between autonomy and connection, focusing on the notion of 'out of bounds' individuals. Should Brit know if Sophie has been intimate with someone? Are there specific conditions regarding the timing between Sophie's enco...
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Drawing the Lines: Navigating Boundaries in Non-Monogamy (Part 1)

July 7, 2024 • 32 mins
In this episode of Dialogues of Desire: Non-Monogamy Unscripted, we delve into the crucial aspects of setting and navigating both physical and emotional boundaries within our non-monogamous relationship. Join us as we explore personal journeys and challenges. We talk about how to maintain trust, communication and safety. Whether you're new to non-monogamy or seeking to refine your boundaries, this episode offers insight into creati...
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Exploring Non-Monogamy: Sophie's Past, Brit's Thoughts and Group Sex

July 5, 2024 • 25 mins
In this episode of "Dialogues of Desire: Non-Monogamy Unscripted", Sophie and Brit dive into the topic of threesomes. Sophie shares her past experiences, including her previous relationship where she explored being the third in a couple's dynamic. They discuss what Sophie is open to now, highlighting how her experiences have shaped her boundaries and desires. Together, they explore the idea of adding others into their existing dyna...
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Where It All Began: From First Meet to Non-monogamy Discovery

June 29, 2024 • 19 mins
Welcome to our very first episode of Dialogues of Desire! Join us as we dive into our story, our lives, and the unique journey that led us to embrace non-monogamy.
We are Brit and Sophie, your hosts and partners in both life and love. We bring our genuine experiences navigating the intricacies of relationships, love, and the unconventional path of non-monogamy.
In this inaugural episode, we'll share how we met, our individual journey...
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Welcome to Dialogues of Desire: Non-monogamy Unscripted

June 29, 2024 • 23 secs
TRAILER: Welcome to Dialogues of Desire: Non-monogamy Unscripted 
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