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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hey everyone, Asher Blake here and welcome back to discipline
over everything daily mind hacks. Ever feel like you're constantly
running around like a hamster on a wheel, always putting
everyone else's needs first, neglecting your own well being. Well,
let me tell you that hamster gets tired real fast,
and guess what you do too. Today we're diving deep
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into the often overlooked but absolutely essential topic prioritizing your
own needs. Now, I know what some of you are thinking, Asher,
isn't being selfless a good thing? And look, absolutely, we
should strive to be kind, compassionate people who care about others.
But there's a crucial difference between selflessness and self neglect.
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You can't pour from an empty cup, right, So how
do we strike that balance? How do we make sure
we're taking care of ourselves without feeling guilty or selfish?
That's what we're breaking down today. Five key takeaways to
help you prioritize your needs and reclaim your power. Number one,
reframe me time as essential time. Think about it. You
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wouldn't run your car on empty, would you? You need
regular maintenance, fuel ups, the whole shebang to keep things
running smoothly. Your mind and body are no different. Schedule
time for activities that replenish you. Whether it's reading a
good book, taking a walk in nature, or simply enjoying
a hot bath with some calming music. It's not selfish.
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It's self care, pure and simple. Number two, learn to
say no and mean it. This one is huge. You
can't please everyone all the time, and trying to do
so will inevitably lead to burnout and resentment. Start saying
no to commitments that drain your energy or don't align
with your priorities. Remember it's okay to set boundaries and
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protect your time and energy. Number three, listen to your
body seriously. Ever, Notice how sometimes you just know when
you need a break. Maybe you're feeling sluggish, irritable, or
even physically achy. That's your body telling you something. Pay
attention to those signals and don't ignore them. Number four,
don't compare your journey. We live in a world where
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social media often paints a picture of perfect lives, vacations, achievements,
seemingly effortless happiness. But remember everyone's journey is unique. Focus
on your own goals and progress, not what others are doing.
Comparing yourself only leads to negativity and self doubt Number five.
Practice gratitude daily. It sounds simple, but taking a few
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moments each day to appreciate the good things in your
life can make a world of difference. A warm cup
of coffee, a beautiful sunset, a kind gesture from a stranger.
These little moments add up and shift your focus towards
the positive. Okay, now let's bring this all home with
a real world example. Think about that friend who always
seems to be on top of everything. They have amazing relationships,
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a successful career, and somehow always find time for hobbies
and adventures. You admire them, but secretly you also feel
a little envious. Here's the thing. You might assume this
person doesn't experience stress or struggles, but that's just not true.
They're still human with their own challenges, but they've mastered
the art of prioritizing their needs, whether it's taking time
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for themselves, saying no to unnecessary commitments, or seeking support
when they need it. Remember, you deserve the same level
of self care and respect. It's not about being perfect
or having everything figured out. It's about making conscious choices
that prioritize your well being and allow you to live
a more fulfilling life. So here's the takeaway. Start small.
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Maybe it's carving out fifteen minutes each day for something
you enjoy, or learning to say note to one extra
commitment this week. Every little step towards prioritizing your needs
is a victory. And hey, share this episode with someone
who might need to hear this message too. Let's spread
the word and help each other create a world where
self care isn't just a trend, it's a way of life.
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Until next time, keep hustling and stay disciplined, but don't
forget to take care of yourselves along the way. This
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