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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hey everyone, Asher Blake here and welcome back to discipline
over everything. You know that feeling when you're on the
brink of something awesome, a new project, a big presentation,
maybe even just trying a new recipe, But then doubt
creeps in. That little voice whispers what if you fail
or you're not good enough? Well, guess what. We've all
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been there. Self doubt and fear are like those pesky,
uninvited guests who show up at the worst possible times.
They can sabotage our dreams, hold us back from pursuing
our passions, and leave us feeling stuck. But listen, I'm
here to tell you you don't have to let them win.
Today we're diving deep into strategies for managing those pesky
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feelings and taking control of your inner critic. First up,
acknowledge the voice. Don't try to ignore it or pretend
it doesn't exist. When that self doubt whispers in your ear, stop,
take a breath, and say, hey, I hear you. This
simple act can actually weaken its power. Ever, notice how
ignored it something usually makes it louder. By acknowledging it,
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you're taking the wind out of its sails. Next, challenge
those negative thoughts. You know that inner voice. It's often
based on old beliefs or past experiences, stuff that might
not even be true anymore. Ask yourself, as this thought
really factual? What evidence do I have to support it?
Most of the time you'll realize those self doubts are
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just fear dressed up in fancy words. Now, let's talk
about focusing on your strengths. We all have unique talents
and abilities. Make a list of things you're good at,
anything from baking delicious cookies to leading a team meeting.
Celebrate those successes. When you focus on your strengths, you
build confidence and remind yourself that you're capable of amazing things. Remember,
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progress isn't always linear. There will be setbacks and challenges
along the way, but don't let them define you. See
them as opportunities to learn and grow. Each obstacle you
overcome builds resilience and prepares you for bigger things. And finally,
surround yourself with positive people. You know, those friends who
always have your back and lift you up. Those are
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the people you want around you. Positive energy is contagious,
and the right support system can make all the difference
when facing self doubt and fear. Ever feel like you're
standing on a mountaintop ready to conquer the world, but
then you look down and think, whoa, that's a long
way down. That's what self doubt feels like. It makes
us question our abilities and hold ourselves back. Let me
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share a real life example. Imagine Sarah, an amazing artist
who dreams of showcasing her work in a gallery. She's talented, passionate,
and dedicated to her craft, but every time she thinks
about submitting her art for consideration, that little voice whispers,
what if it's not good enough? What if people criticize you?
Sarah starts to doubt herself, questioning her talent and skills.
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Sound familiar. This is where those strategies we talked about
come in. Sarah can acknowledge the voice of self doubt,
challenge its negativity by reminding herself of her past successes,
focus on her unique artistic vision, remember that progress isn't
always perfect, and seek support from fellow artists who encourage
and inspire her. By taking these steps, Sarah can overcome
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her fear and confidently share her beautiful art with the world.
So remember, managing self doubt and fear isn't about eliminating
them completely. It's about recognizing them, challenging their validity, and
choosing to move forward Despite those whispers. You are capable
of amazing things. Believe in yourself, embrace your strengths, and
never let those voices hold you back from achieving your dreams. Now,
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I want to hear from you. Have you faced self
doubt or fear recently? What strategies have helped you overcome it.
Share your thoughts in the comments below or tag me
on social media. Let's keep this conversation going and remember,
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a little boost of confidence. And till next time, stay disciplined,
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stay focused, and keep chasing those dreams. This podcast is
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