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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Yo, what's up everyone, it's your boy Logan Cruz back
again with another dose of distracted on purpose, your daily
shot of reality served with a side of humor. Now,
let's talk about something that plagues us all, at least
in some capacity. Perfectionism. Ever, feel like you're chasing this
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mythical beast, always striving for unattainable standards. You know, the
feeling where good enough just doesn't cut it. It's a trap,
my friends, a vicious cycle of self doubt and endless
striving that can steal your joy, your creativity, even your confidence.
But guess what, it's time to break free. This isn't
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about becoming lazy or complacent. Heck no, this is about
shifting our perspective, embracing the beauty of imperfections, and learning
to be kind to ourselves along the way. Think about it.
Your favorite artist, musician, even athlete. They probably have their
fair share of flaws and mistakes. What makes them amazing
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isn't their flawless execution, but their willingness to show up,
try things, learn from setbacks, and keep pushing forward. So
how do we ditch the perfectionism grip? Here are five
things that I've learned on my own journey. First off,
redefine success. Success isn't a destination. It's a journey filled
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with ups and downs. It's about progress, not perfection. Celebrate
your wins, no matter how small, and acknowledge the learning
opportunities in those moments you stumble. Remember that time you
tried baking that fancy cake and ended up with a
delicious but lopsided masterpiece. That's a win. You experimented, you
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had fun, and you learned something new. Second, practice self compassion.
Talk to yourself like you would talk to your best friend.
Would you beerate them for making a mistake? Of course
not so, Why do we do that to ourselves. Treat
yourself with kindness, understanding, and forgiveness. Everyone messes up. It's
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part of being human. Third, focus on the process, not
just the outcome. Enjoy the journey. Savor the moments of creation,
learning and growth. Don't get so caught up in the
end result that you forget to appreciate the beauty of
the process itself. Think about that time you were painting
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a picture. Did you enjoy mixing the colors, experimenting with
different brushstrokes, and watching your vision come to life? The
finished product is awesome, but the journey was just as valuable. Fourth,
learn to say no. It's okay to set boundaries and
protect your time and energy. Over Committing leads to stress, burnout,
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and a constant feeling of being overwhelmed, none of which
contribute to perfectionism. Remember, saying no sometimes is not selfish,
its self care. Finally, surround yourself with supportive people. Find
those individuals who lift you up. Encourage your growth, and
celebrate your wins and even your imperfections. Avoid negativity and
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comparisons that can drain your energy and fuel perfectionism. Now,
let me paint a picture for you. Imagine Sarah, a
graphic designer with incredible talent, but plagued by self doubt.
She spends countless hours on projects, agonizing over every detail,
fearing criticism and rejection. But then she attends a workshop
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where she learns about the beauty of imperfection and the
power of embracing mistakes as opportunities for growth. She starts
to loosen her grip on perfectionism, allowing herself to experiment
more freely, trust her instincts, and enjoy the creative process.
She shares her work with trusted friends, seeking constructive feedback
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rather than approval. Slowly but surely, Sarah's confidence blossoms, her
creativity flourishes, and she discovers a newfound joy in her work.
So what are you waiting for? Don't let perfectionism steal
your shine. Remember it's not about being flawless. It's about
showing up authentically, embracing your journey, and celebrating the beauty
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of imperfections. Take those small steps redefine success, practice self compassion,
focus on the process, say no when needed, and surround
yourself with supportive people. Let's break free from this perfectionism
trapped together and create a world where we celebrate individuality,
growth and the messy, beautiful journey of being human. Until
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next time, keep it real, keep it authentic, and keep
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