September 3, 2025 • 48 mins
Wherein Zena and Ebrima have a heart-to-heart about past traumas. Andy prepares to marry Arrah in the Philippines but wishes his family were by his side. Marco belatedly asks Sarah's dad for her hand in marriage, and Ali's secret plan finally comes to fruition.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Weird. Do do do do Do Do Do Do Do
Do Do Do Do Do Do Do do Sweet do
do do do do doo?
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Sweet Hey everyone, I'm Wah and I'm Shay and welcome
to Donkey Sweeties. As you know, Shaye is helping me
do ninety day fiance UK. And then we are talking
Season four, episode ten. It's almost It's almost game over,
isn't it. It's almost game over, isn't it?
Speaker 3 (00:28):
It's almost game.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
Here?
Speaker 4 (00:31):
It is because you know, that's exactly how they said it.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
Yeah, the only thing I can think of is that
it would be Ali and he would be like, it's
almost game over, isn't it?
Speaker 1 (00:44):
Because of his gaming habits. Maybe makes sense, but.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
We heard the most we've ever heard Marco speak in
this episode, and I was happy about it.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
Oh, I felt the opposite. Stop talking.
Speaker 3 (00:58):
Okay, So let's and thank god we didn't have the
villain as Shorna.
Speaker 1 (01:04):
But let's even though I can't even lie, I was
hungry for her clip. Oh my god, I think it's
like a car accident. I just can't look away, like
she'll be more chaos. Let's see how how good can
it really get? You know, how messy.
Speaker 5 (01:15):
Okay, yeah, that's crazy.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
Oh yeah, she's all right, let's start with somebody short
and sweet and then we'll get we'll do the we'll
do Aara and Andy lass because I think that it
was just okay.
Speaker 5 (01:30):
So Ibrama and zena warrior princess.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
Uh.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
So they go to the monkey park and it's funny
because it's it's interesting the way that some Brits will
speak to where they are like, Abrama, it's funny, isn't it?
And I'm like, what is it a question or is
that a statement? What what is happening? They go to
(01:55):
this monkey park and she's scared they'll bite her, and
so she's like, but I wanted to have a good
time with him, because you know, life is short, and
I didn't want to let it down. So I went
with him and we're like, what the fuck?
Speaker 5 (02:08):
Why would you do that?
Speaker 3 (02:09):
And then they finally tell us ten episodes in what
happened to her and why she is on a war
path of self destruction?
Speaker 1 (02:18):
Right, I will say this, The first note I put
was he hates her, because why would you take somebody
somewhere that they're terrified of or that they absolutely don't like?
I mean, how many times it's gonna have to show
you that he doesn't really fuck with you like that,
But he also is saying the opposite, so I can
understand her delusion. But she ultimately ended up coming around.
(02:41):
I think she had an okay time. Yeah, she up
bonding with some of the rodents.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
Mammals.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
They're mammals. Oh, thank you, mammals. That's okay. I think
you're word for it.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
No idea, Well, they're not apes, right, because we are
related to the apes, and apes is a chimpanzee and
a gorilla and like a bigger mammal.
Speaker 4 (03:03):
Okay, and so monkeys is too far away from that.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
Yeah, monkeys is too far away from that. There, they're
cousins to the apes, but they're not. We are cousins
to the apes. So we're on the other side. We're
like mama's cousins and then like Daddy's Daddy's side, the
family cousins. Okay uh but anyways, yeah, so she he
here's the thing. He operates in a very old fashioned way,
which is like she just needs to get used to them.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
But no, I'm gonna so she has to get used
to it.
Speaker 3 (03:31):
Yeah, yeah, because like I'm I'm it's like, you know
someone is scared of clowns, you just take them to
a fun house and like just get it to the
point where they're.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
Numb, sink er swim. You're gonna have to figure it
out kind of shit.
Speaker 3 (03:40):
Yeah, And I'm just like, he's like when I was younger,
I used to go in the bush. But I was like,
is she though, why does she need to figure this
out and get more comfortable with monkeys? Is it is
it that you're planning on? Is she planning on living
in the Gambia?
Speaker 1 (03:52):
That's what I wrote down. I was like, have they
decided what their future looks like? And who is living where?
Because I don't know that the vision for this couple,
at least not for my original expectations when the season started,
was that she was going to live there.
Speaker 4 (04:08):
That's not how I saw this playing out.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
So he says he loves her because of how much
she's taking care of his family, and as much as
I'm like that seems adequate, it also doesn't also seem
adequate to me. It feels like and maybe sometimes I
have a hard time balancing the romantic and western idea
of love versus the practical, you provide something to my
(04:36):
family type love.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
And I guess both are valid, right, I know, depending
on what you're looking for and what type of dynamic
your relationship has. But it's interesting because until you brought
it up right now, it's not something I really thought of.
But that's a great point that both of them are
riddled with. Is it truth? I don't know. They both
make sense depending on what you're looking for.
Speaker 4 (05:00):
Yeah, But I.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
It's interesting because whenever he speaks about his interests, you know,
with her in this relationship, he always talks about her
being the provider essentially, and what she does for him
or for the people around him or his family. I
have yet to hear him say something about like something
innate that she has that he enjoys or appreciates, like
oh I love your wisdom, or I love how you
(05:25):
love your family, or I love you know. It's always
been connecting relationship to what she can do and provide
for him.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
Yes, which when I think of when I think of
if the role, if the genders were reversed, I wouldn't
necessarily fault a Gambian woman for being gracious and loving
some foreign white man because he has helped her in
her family, right. And I think it's because as much
as I try to get rid of like gender roles
(05:52):
and constructs, I will always feel like the man should
provide for the woman.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
Agree. And now I.
Speaker 3 (05:59):
Don't necessarily think that like that's his only thing in
life and that and you know whatever, But I do
feel like, especially in his religion, it feels like the
in the Islam faith of the Muslims that I know
that the expectation is that the man provides, like that
is his duty, his calling, that is what he does,
and if you are unable to do that, then you
(06:20):
don't get married. Sir.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
Yeah, the dynamics are a bit backwards from what I
would expect of these two people and the histories that
they respectively bring.
Speaker 3 (06:30):
Yes, And so it's interesting because I feel like he
he emasculates himself by behaving as though like he's I'm
grateful what you do for me and my family, thank
you for taking care of us.
Speaker 5 (06:42):
White lady.
Speaker 4 (06:43):
He's a kept man.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
Yeah, And then we still don't know if that's his
sister or his wife or Zena's sister wife.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
Honestly, I'm hoping that we'll get a little bit of
more of that, yeah, because she seems to have let
it go at least from the way these episode have
been edited. But that would be at the tip of
my mind, like.
Speaker 3 (07:04):
I'm just like, why hasn't a producer sat down with
a sister and had another conversation with her an as
her can translator, yeah translator, and got the information it
seems like it's bad, uh, you know, filming filmmaking, right.
So the thing with Zena is that she was eight
months ago not diagnosed with breast cancer, but had a
breast cancer scare. She was diagnosed with having some kind
(07:27):
of lumps in her breast, and so she had to
have a biopsy, oh a loup eptonmy where they take
out the lump and they check it to see if
it's cancerous or not. And it turned out to not
be cancerous. But during the timeframe of waiting, she just
really had like a life crisis where she was like,
I'm too young to die. And so now we understand
(07:47):
why she's full speed ahead of reckless decisions because she
had a scare with her mortality.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
Yeah, and also she has to go through this alone,
so you know, we recognize that we've seen somemmer her
family members in previous episodes and stuff like that. But
obviously you can tell she wanted the attention and the
care of Ibrama to be nearby. He starts to talk
about what the scare meant for him and how he
has sleepless nights and you know, she was on his mind.
Speaker 4 (08:15):
And stuff like that.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
So, yeah, it was definitely something scary for her. And
I'm sure that that's absolutely rough and from what she
was describing, because even you know, they were showing some
of her recovery, some of that process, and you know,
she said it was incredibly painful and uncomfortable, and you know,
I feel for her because that's something nobody ever wants
to go through. But yeah, it seems like she has
a new zest for life though, and you're right, I
(08:39):
think that contributed to, you know, some of the reckless
choices that she's making. She seems to go just like
balls to the wall right now, like she's like yolo.
Speaker 3 (08:49):
Yeah, yeah, exactly, And so like she says that it
was hard for her to be without him, and his
prayers helped and obviously you know, were answered, and he says,
you are my only true love, and I was like, abrama, Yeah,
I don't lie.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
She's too wicked to die, That's what she said.
Speaker 3 (09:10):
Yeah, and I'm just like I'm like, okay, all right, well.
Speaker 4 (09:15):
I think he's reading more like where'd you get that from?
Speaker 1 (09:17):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (09:17):
Yeah, you are my one true love?
Speaker 1 (09:20):
Right? No?
Speaker 3 (09:22):
Yeah, yeah, no, that's not you know. Okay. So next
couple is Marco and Sarah. So she picks him up
from the airport and she keeps talking the whole way
about I know that I have ever been when I
listen to these people talk about these forlorned loves and
these loves from across the like far away, like I
have a Guatemalan bay and there's no.
Speaker 5 (09:43):
Point do I think, like, oh my god, I wish
you were here.
Speaker 1 (09:46):
Out of sight, out of mind is a thing. Yeah,
for me, especially if you're not in my routine. I'll
see you when I see you. Yeah, even if I
talk to you day back, like like we never left,
but I'm not, you know, staring out the window while
it's raining with us as one lonely tear trickles down
(10:07):
my cheek.
Speaker 3 (10:07):
Yeah, I'm like, even if I talk to you daily,
like maybe I'll miss talking to you. But because you're
not physically here with me to do things. The idea
of you finally being here physically to do things with
me causes me.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
Pop makes me, doesn't move me.
Speaker 3 (10:22):
It scares me because I feel like you're going to
disrupt my day to day.
Speaker 1 (10:26):
Right now, you are going yes.
Speaker 3 (10:29):
Yes, I can't make my lists and I can't check
them off because you're going to be wanting things from me.
So I'm just like, I don't understand that.
Speaker 1 (10:36):
I don't.
Speaker 3 (10:36):
I don't understand the forlorn like I wish you were
here to help me through. What can he do besides
ask you questions? Because that's going to get on my nerves.
I'm asking me questions. Just sit down and be quiet.
Speaker 1 (10:47):
Yeah, And also why is he taking a plane? Can't
you take a train from Italy to the UK? It
just seems very dramatic, Like I feel like nine loves
a transportation scene.
Speaker 3 (10:59):
Well, I mean you can do one from France to
like the UK, but like she's in Kent, I don't
know where that is, like so and then like he's
in Italy, I don't he's.
Speaker 5 (11:07):
In roast So let me you talk.
Speaker 1 (11:09):
He had a backpack, right, he wasn't he wasn't tracking
from the you know, from the Grand Canyon to Singapore,
like it seems like a bit of a hop, skip
and a jump, you know. And I don't know, I
just I'm kind of over the sappy airport scenes. I
just feel like there's there's too much of it, and
(11:30):
I feel like we're deep into the season now, we're
ten episodes in, and there's still the producers are still
giving us this like semi built up energy of the airport.
I don't know. And then yeah, it's.
Speaker 3 (11:41):
Just let me tell you it's a fifteen hour train ride.
Speaker 1 (11:46):
From my comments because I'm sitting on a plane fifteen
hours to just go right there.
Speaker 3 (11:56):
No, no, no, yeah, no, that was a train, so
you know, Google Maps tells me that that is how
long it would take.
Speaker 1 (12:04):
It's there.
Speaker 3 (12:04):
Oh yeah, so so it's a two hour and fifteen
minute flight.
Speaker 1 (12:08):
However, fine, I'll allow it. We will allow it. Oh
my shit is blurry, because there it is there. It
is okay. Fine. If he insists.
Speaker 3 (12:21):
He has to travel through several countries to get to her,
like you know, Switzerland, Luxembourg, Belgium.
Speaker 1 (12:26):
Well it's the least he could do, because she's gone
to Italy several times. So you know what, he should
be sitting on that fifteen hour train. I don't take
off back my comments. He's sitting there and thinking about
his thoughts because he moves funny. Yeah for me, Yeah,
this entire episode he irked my nerve real bad.
Speaker 3 (12:44):
Yeah he did.
Speaker 5 (12:45):
He was very rude or something.
Speaker 1 (12:49):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (12:49):
So they get to the house. She has a cat
whose name is MoU. I imagine it's because he looks
like a cow. That cat, he's black and white, took
a cow. And so she's like, I really need you
to talk to my dad because I want to start
telling people that we're engaged. I'm not going to set
a date for our engagement until I'm able to tell people.
I mean not going to set a date for the
wedding until I'm able to tell people that I'm actually engaged.
(13:12):
And I can't tell people that I'm actually engaged until
you ask my father. So these are the series of events,
and he's just like, oh God. She's like, yeah, I
don't want to get married just in two weeks. Randomly,
I'm not on an Elope.
Speaker 1 (13:22):
I'm glad that she hasn't let this go because she
was introduced to the episode because remember we had only
learned about this couple kind of after maybe episode like
five or six or something like that. I'm glad that
every episode that they've been in she's continued to bring
this up, like, I'm not going to drop this.
Speaker 4 (13:38):
You want to marry me quickly?
Speaker 1 (13:39):
I bet you have to go talk to my father bro, Like,
there's no way around that, and I will.
Speaker 4 (13:44):
You will not know peace until you do that.
Speaker 3 (13:47):
Well, the truth is that she didn't actually say it
that obviously, she's been beating around the bush like a
damn like it's been annoying to watch. So she then
serves in pizza because she's like, oh, he's from Italy
and he likes pizza.
Speaker 5 (14:00):
And I said, what happened to margarita pizza?
Speaker 4 (14:03):
Yeah, she did the most because she offered him the
worst kind.
Speaker 3 (14:07):
Yeah, and I'm like, why would you give him that
kind of pizza?
Speaker 5 (14:11):
That's like, what's your favorite dish?
Speaker 1 (14:14):
Like in life?
Speaker 5 (14:15):
Yeah, what's your favorite dish?
Speaker 1 (14:17):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (14:17):
There's too many?
Speaker 3 (14:20):
So yeah, my my favorite dish would be just like
rice and beans and a good chicken, Like it could
be stewed, it can be it could be stewed, It
can be fried. It can be rotisserid, just like a
good rice and beans and maybe like a little sweet
at the gap, like a black on the side good
like maybe like ahup and narrow pepper sauce or a sauce.
Speaker 2 (14:41):
Ye.
Speaker 1 (14:42):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (14:43):
Now let's say somebody knew that you liked that, and
then you went to their country, and then they gave
you a weird, bastardized version of that.
Speaker 1 (14:50):
They gave you.
Speaker 4 (14:50):
Right, I'm not above this rice, but you know what
I'm saying, like.
Speaker 3 (14:54):
Rice with like hot dogs in it, like beans that
didn't have like any real sab and then maybe like
a boiled chicken, Like why would I I'm sorry, I
told you like rice and beans and chicken.
Speaker 1 (15:07):
You know I think that's fair because I'm not gonna lie.
You're making me change my opinion now because originally I
was like, he's doing too much. It's bread with some
toppings like that goes hard no matter what you know,
like it just it just seems like pizza is quite
basic when you think of just the ingredients on their own, right,
So that's right to me. I'm like, why are you
making all these faces? Do you like Burger's great?
Speaker 4 (15:28):
This is a burger pizza.
Speaker 1 (15:29):
Eat it?
Speaker 4 (15:29):
Do you like pineapple by itself?
Speaker 1 (15:31):
Do you like? You know what I'm saying, But what
you just described about somebody giving you some half assed.
Speaker 4 (15:39):
It would fuck me up? Like what is this?
Speaker 1 (15:41):
So? You know what? Yeah, you make me change my
mind about this man, and I'm not loving it, but
I have to agree.
Speaker 3 (15:48):
Take your boiled chicken back, take take your hot dogs
and rice, and get out of my face. Yeah, if
you if you can't give it to me the way
I would like, even somewhat close to what I would
normally eat, go ahead and keep that shit show me.
Speaker 5 (16:01):
Give me something British to eat, which ain't much better,
but still.
Speaker 3 (16:04):
And the thing is, though I have never even had well,
I'm sorry, I haven't had a Hamburger pizza until I
moved to the Midwest. I didn't even know that shit
existed until I got here and somebody was like, oh, yeah,
it's just like I was like, that is like it's
ground beef and pickles and tomatoes. Yeah, it's like a
it's like what, Yeah, it's like the ingredients of a
(16:24):
burger on except for the lettuce on a pizza. It's
not bad, it's just it's unnecessary. It's colorically unus when
things are just like I'm just like, damn, this is.
Speaker 1 (16:39):
Fast the American way.
Speaker 5 (16:43):
Only for the two weeks of the fair.
Speaker 3 (16:46):
I'll have a deep tired Oreo at the fair, because
that is why I went there for the weird food
fair fair food. Like, I'm not gonna be looking for
deep fried oreos outside of an event.
Speaker 1 (17:00):
Better than me because I have. But if the truck
is there, they want people to buy it. But I
know that I understand what you're saying. Sometimes the circumstances
have to match the food item.
Speaker 3 (17:10):
You know what it is. It's because you have I
don't know about your life, and I'm just looking at
basically on what I know about you, that your belly
hasn't overtaken your body the way my belly has overtaken
my body.
Speaker 5 (17:21):
And so now so now.
Speaker 3 (17:25):
Every food is the enemy, like if it's unnecessary, Like
there's a lot of food that I'm just gonna eat regardless.
But like some shit, I'm just like, Okay, I'm.
Speaker 1 (17:32):
Good, I'm good off that I'm good.
Speaker 3 (17:35):
I already I already have my wine, I'm already gonna
eat my whatever, like I.
Speaker 1 (17:42):
You know, yeah, once a month. I hear that, But
do you think that Marco's just reaction was a bit
much for one sight of it because he didn't even
take a bite of the Hawaiian one.
Speaker 4 (17:55):
I think it was just the burger pizza.
Speaker 3 (17:57):
He spit it out. He got up and spit it out.
Speaker 1 (17:58):
That was I thought that was I think that's rude
to do. But Wully, I do feel that that was
over the top. It was just annoying for me. I
literally wrote that was obnoxious.
Speaker 3 (18:08):
Yeah, but they'd like to do that as like tropes
in the Night of Day Fiance World.
Speaker 5 (18:12):
I just was like, Sarah, I need you to rise
above it.
Speaker 3 (18:15):
Just get him some cheese pizza.
Speaker 4 (18:17):
And leave that man alone.
Speaker 1 (18:18):
Yeah, give a cheese pizza. Leave him alone.
Speaker 3 (18:21):
So then the next scene is her leaving him downstairs
to go upstairs to work while he has a conversation
with her dad and she's like, I'm nervous for him
because I know he doesn't want to do it, and I'm.
Speaker 1 (18:35):
Like, strike ten.
Speaker 3 (18:36):
The fact that he doesn't want to ask your father
is a good reason to not marry him. To me,
it feels like he is going to be controlling and
she is doing whatever she can to try to like
stop that behavior, but it's only going to get worse
once they get married, and she's not going to be
able to stop it when she's an illegally binding contract
with him.
Speaker 1 (18:53):
Right, Yeah, I think he has revealed himself to be
exactly who we think is and what pains me in
this situation, and maybe this is going to be super
fucked up to say, but should she carry through with
this wedding to this man? I find myself being on
(19:14):
the opposite side of things and being like, I don't
feel bad for you because I feel bad for you before,
where before as the world and the people that care
about you were trying to be honest with you and
tell you what this could lead to. And I understand
the end of the day, people are going to make
their own decisions about the relationships. I get that, and
there's a sort of a boundary that you kind of
(19:34):
don't cross when it comes to other people's relationships. But
I personally have a hard time feeling bad for people
once they're on the other side of it, especially if
I was one of.
Speaker 4 (19:42):
The people who repeatedly told you that.
Speaker 1 (19:45):
The circumstances that you're in are the ones that I
said you'd be in if you kept like avoiding the
clear red flags.
Speaker 3 (19:52):
Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I realized pretty early young and
that once I started seeing people around me continuously make
making choices that either were calamitous or that I told
them this would be the outcome, and then they want
to complain to me that I can't be friends with them,
keep it. Yeah, I'm like, uh, sorry, yeah, it's too much.
(20:16):
And so yeah, it's very it's it's you can't be
friends with d Austin.
Speaker 1 (20:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (20:20):
So anyways, Dad comes in and the only thing that I.
Speaker 5 (20:22):
Could see was his tooth.
Speaker 1 (20:24):
I knew you were going to say that, and I
wrote it that too, because that's why I too.
Speaker 3 (20:28):
I couldn't see that.
Speaker 1 (20:29):
I knew.
Speaker 4 (20:29):
I was like, this is going to come up on
the pod.
Speaker 1 (20:32):
I don't know, but I think that's a British thing.
Speaker 3 (20:36):
They have healthcare and they did not have dental care.
Speaker 4 (20:40):
It's just I work for a British company.
Speaker 1 (20:43):
That is That mouth was common from what I've seen
most of my peers professional Unfortunately, and ironically enough, Oh
my god, I hope, I hope we don't clip this.
But my one, well, let me let me actually lie
a little bit. One of my superiors in my organization.
I just noticed this week in a meeting we had
(21:03):
where I was like, what is that on your tooth?
And I mind, I've been working with this person for
going on six years, going on six years. Yeah, and
I was like, oh is that? And then I couldn't
stop looking at it? So yeah, this is right there
with it.
Speaker 3 (21:19):
Yeah, No, it's it's definitely like it's it's like when
I it's when it's like when I noticed that somebody
there I work with has a lazy eye and I
didn't notice it for a while, and all of a sudden, I'm.
Speaker 1 (21:28):
Like, now you're hyper fixated on it.
Speaker 3 (21:30):
Yeah, And then I want to go be like have
you always had that lazy eye?
Speaker 1 (21:33):
Yeah? And you do you ask?
Speaker 3 (21:36):
No I didn't, but like I almost did, and then
I thought, no, you shouldn't. But I have a hard
time with things like that because I think that people
Here's here's the unfortunate thing is I think that people
who have something that I think is fixable, who choose
not to fix it, are aware of it and so
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are open to conversation about it.
Speaker 5 (21:58):
Like people people like to talk to.
Speaker 3 (22:00):
Me about my gap, and I'm like, oh, I don't
even think about it, and then they want to go
more and more, and I'm like, oh, okay, Like I said,
I don't even think about it.
Speaker 4 (22:07):
I feel you.
Speaker 1 (22:08):
That's what I feel with my Harry Potter scar on
my forehead. And I forget because when I was two
years old and people were like, oh, I to your
scr and I'm like what car, And I'm like, oh, yeah, sure,
and then I'll talk about it, but I'm like, wait,
what happened? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.
Speaker 3 (22:20):
And so the same thing with the lazy eye. I'm like, oh,
have you wasted a lazy eye? And then because I'm.
Speaker 5 (22:25):
Like, it's fixable, is it? Yeah, you can go to
physical therapy for it.
Speaker 1 (22:30):
Really, yes, that's news to me. I didn't know that.
I didn't know that. I didn't know that that a
lazy eye specifically was fixable.
Speaker 5 (22:37):
Okay, well let me google it now. Maybe I'm wrong lazy.
Speaker 1 (22:39):
I've never looked into it, so I have nothing to
base my opinion on treat but I just yeah.
Speaker 5 (22:45):
Yeah, I know there's treatments for it.
Speaker 1 (22:46):
Wow, I did. I really didn't know that because everyone
that I know that has one has had one all
the live long day.
Speaker 3 (22:54):
Yes, and that's why I'm like, oh, maybe you just
like didn't want to go or didn't have the money
or the like whatever. And so sometimes when I see
people my age and I'm just like, oh, you don't.
Speaker 5 (23:04):
You haven't gotten that fixed. No, it's it's a.
Speaker 3 (23:08):
It's something that you need to continuously do because it's
a muscle you have to whatever. But yeah, wow, okay,
but you now know you cannot ask people those quiet questions.
Speaker 1 (23:20):
It can upset them. Yes, yes, okay.
Speaker 3 (23:23):
So Ali and sam uh they are drinking chai and
she's like, I don't know how to make chai and
he's a girl. It's the same fucking shit, it's the same.
It's the same, it's a different tea bag.
Speaker 1 (23:35):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (23:36):
He keeps it real with her.
Speaker 1 (23:38):
Yeah, it's really direct.
Speaker 3 (23:40):
Yeah, and like here here's the truth. I never even
thought about their sex life. In fact, I guess I
just thought they weren't having sex, and now I know
that they are, and it's loud.
Speaker 1 (23:50):
Well yeah, it's unfortunately everything I know about this couple
obviously against my will. But I think that I don't
want to say I didn't consider it. I want to
say I buried the thought.
Speaker 3 (24:01):
Yeah, no, I didn't think about it at all because
they're so cartoonishly like childlife and weird, Like I just
was like never thinking about it. And it's like and
I'm like, oh, he loves.
Speaker 1 (24:12):
It, like he's late.
Speaker 3 (24:13):
Yeah he's love yeah, yeah, and uh and so good
for them, good for them, Good for them little bunnies
living there, children, Good for them. So then she starts
talking to him about needing their own place, and he's like,
I'm going to show her the worst place in Malatya.
Speaker 1 (24:34):
He's nothing if not consistent, because he's wanting to show
her a horrific time since she arrived, and he's been,
I guess, in her eyes, doing exactly that.
Speaker 5 (24:42):
Yeah, and he's you.
Speaker 3 (24:43):
Know, she's like, well don't you miss Like, well, don't
you want to be together? He's like, yeah, do you
think I like long distance? And I said, you know what,
because I for the whole time, I guess I thought
he secretly was just using her, and that's rude.
Speaker 1 (24:56):
I mean I still think that, But I also thought
that he was enjoying the distance because then he can
game without her breathing down his back.
Speaker 3 (25:03):
And I know that he just wants to get to
the US, and so that's a big part of it.
I just want, I mean the UK. But so I
guess I'm just like, now I need to see him
in the UK and how he treats him the UK.
She's going to consistently be upset with him because obviously
he doesn't dote on her in the way that she requires,
no need to feel comfortable. But she married him, and
they married each other, so I think that at some
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point she's gonna either they're gonna have to both give
a little bit.
Speaker 5 (25:28):
She's gonna have to let him let.
Speaker 3 (25:30):
His leash be long, and he's going to have to
just come home when when he knows he's supposed to
come home, you.
Speaker 1 (25:36):
Know, because she will look for that ass. She's proven
that already.
Speaker 5 (25:40):
She's snatch him up by the nape of his neck
and drags.
Speaker 1 (25:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (25:48):
But so they go to look around at actually talk
about the kind of apartment they want. She's like, well,
when he has this, hes have that, And he's like,
needs to have a game room, and she's like, yeah,
get have a game room. And she's like, you're not
going to be in there, but yeah, you could have one.
And they go around to this apartment that is his friend,
and the apartment didn't look bad to.
Speaker 1 (26:09):
Me, honestly, thank you. Because her reaction you would have
thought that he dug a hole and told her to
stand in it. Yeah. I was like, I what, I
don't know, are you expecting a loft apartment? You're expecting
something with the west wing, Like, babe, this is standard
and it had a balcony and honestly, it looks spacious.
I will say, though the bed looks small for this couple.
(26:31):
Why wasn't she going to buy her own bed exactly?
That's why I was like, but that's not even a problem,
because you should be getting your own mattress and bed anyway. Yeah,
because I don't know that the apartment was going to
come furnished, like nobody talked about that.
Speaker 3 (26:42):
And if it did that furnish and you felt like
the furnishing was inadequate, fair, use it until you can
save up and get your own.
Speaker 2 (26:49):
Shit.
Speaker 4 (26:49):
Now, the bathroom was funky.
Speaker 3 (26:51):
Yes, but a lot of people have not a lot
of people, but there are a lot of cultures that
have bathrooms like that, and I want to know more
about them. I don't understand how you. I don't understand
how you squat into that and not have matter and
stuff all over your ankles and your thighs.
Speaker 1 (27:06):
Like, but what what countries are there where people have
like knees of steel that you can squat that deep.
Speaker 3 (27:15):
I believe that that white foot is squat Yeah, yeah, yeah,
I've seen it.
Speaker 1 (27:19):
I've seen it in Asian countries.
Speaker 3 (27:21):
And hebrahmhad that too.
Speaker 1 (27:24):
He sure did, but I felt like the layout was different, like,
yes it.
Speaker 3 (27:29):
Was, you know, and I but I just have those
that any anybody that does anything that we all do
differently is very interesting to me. It's always very interesting
to me because I'm like this, this civilization has thrived
for thousands of years, like Asian culture and you know
(27:50):
Indian culture, and these cultures are old as fuck and
we don't learn anything about them because you know, Europe,
but they have been doing ship for a very long time,
and so if they got some ship, like the fact
that people use chop six to eat, that to me
is engineering. That's just civil engineering. The fact that somebody
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was like, well, how do we fix this issue? They
were like, no, we don't get a little triedent and
stick it. We get two sticks and our figures and
make that ship work and then and the rest of
the world will assimilate. And they have. And I'm like,
you're smarter than me. The fact that you can use
the chops, you're starteder than me.
Speaker 1 (28:29):
I would just use my hands and moved on.
Speaker 3 (28:32):
Yes, So anyways, yeah, so I was I had more
questions about that.
Speaker 5 (28:37):
But she decides that she maybe they can't live him
a lot.
Speaker 3 (28:41):
Yeah, And so how he sets it up is they
go on an Instagram like date. And when she said that,
I was like, girl, I know that. And the fact that,
like the fact that that is your frame of reference
of like, oh, it's like something off of Instagram. I
never even think that, Like I'm like, oh, this is
(29:03):
in fact, I go out of my way to not
take pictures for the great like I don't want anyone
to know my I used to in the beginning like
a Facebook and take pictures of the beautiful plate of food.
But then after that, I was like, you know what, yeah,
I needs to know.
Speaker 1 (29:18):
Yeah, I do that because I like the I'm putting
together coffee table books of like places I've been to
and dishes and stuff that I hope to recreate and
I never will because I love that. But but yeah,
I thought that was an interesting comment.
Speaker 4 (29:33):
It stood out to me. I will say, they look nice.
Speaker 1 (29:37):
I think that's the most presentable I've seen him look
like with you know, it looked like he got a haircut,
he cleaned up.
Speaker 3 (29:43):
She looks like she got her roots done. Yes, she
was wearing a bit of foundation and a bit of
mascare and an eyebrow.
Speaker 1 (29:49):
And it seemed to match. Like all of that seemed
to really gel together. I like that he did did
a little something. Yeah, maybe he was doing his big
one mm hmm. Good for that.
Speaker 3 (30:02):
He ate she did not that that played a chicken
was still. But I was like, ma'am, are you gonna
are you gonna eat that?
Speaker 1 (30:09):
I didn't even see that You're Can I get in there?
Speaker 3 (30:14):
Can I have that.
Speaker 1 (30:20):
Cold? Girl?
Speaker 3 (30:22):
You don't like to eat in front of people?
Speaker 1 (30:24):
Is that was going on?
Speaker 3 (30:24):
Because his plate looked like it had been like.
Speaker 1 (30:29):
Maybe maybe the producers paid for it. Maybe this was
on the budget of the show, because then I can
understand him being like, I'm leaving with something.
Speaker 3 (30:37):
Yeah, or it's just that either she doesn't like to
eat in front of people, or she doesn't like spices.
Speaker 5 (30:42):
And she was like that looks weird.
Speaker 1 (30:44):
Can't eat it.
Speaker 3 (30:44):
It's not McDonald's.
Speaker 4 (30:46):
Yeah, so I'm taking a blanket.
Speaker 3 (30:48):
Yeah. So she's like, yeah, we're gonna have to go
back to the UK. And so then she's like, put,
it costs so much money for you to get your visa.
And he's like, well, if I saved four hundred dollars
and you save some money or whatever, then in six months, bitch,
stop the one. Yeah, stop acting like it's impossible. And
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also it's only two thousand dollars. Do you know how
much it costs in the US. These people are paying
upwards to seven thousand.
Speaker 1 (31:18):
Dollars yeah for the king one visa. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (31:21):
And I'm like, you're over here. Yeah, just get back
to Grant together, get a second job and work.
Speaker 1 (31:29):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (31:30):
Fine, it's more though, So the paperwork, that's the hardest
thing to do, and like all that shit.
Speaker 5 (31:34):
So but they're already married.
Speaker 1 (31:35):
So exactly the hardest part is over Just talk, shout
out the paperwork and submit that bitch. And then, like
you said, save up for six months each of them.
You know, he's there. Yeah, but ultimately he said his
plan worked, yeah, and he's like, my plan he thinks
he did something like.
Speaker 3 (31:52):
He really does think he did something. Manipulation at its finest.
All right, so the best couple of this show, honestly,
and we didn't get them till like late too, right,
we got them after like episode four or five.
Speaker 1 (32:06):
H Yes, but can I ask, because it's the last
couple we will cover, isn't it?
Speaker 3 (32:11):
Am I so exciting?
Speaker 1 (32:12):
No?
Speaker 4 (32:13):
This is uh no that this is the last couple.
Speaker 1 (32:15):
But I'm saying I think we missed something quite important
with Sarah and Marco. I say it, well, when he
was speaking to her father and he was struggling at
first to get the words out to ask for, you know,
his approval, I thought it was so so so out
of pocket for him to then tell the father, well,
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actually I already asked her, and actually we are already engaged.
Speaker 4 (32:40):
And actually, because that's specifically the.
Speaker 1 (32:43):
Opposite of what she wanted, she knew it was going
to hurt her father's feelings and it was going to
hurt for her to admit that she was already engaged
and that they already like committed to each other and
said yes before he asked, I wrote in capital letters
like then, he says, he already asked her, says he
proposed some time ago, and I put it is not
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his place to tell her parents that that shit my spirit.
I'll be if you break some news like that to
my family when the whole time I'm telling you that
I'm trying to spare them from that, and that that's
the reason why we're not building on anything after this,
because I need you to do that first. So and
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the dad is surprised. The dad is like, oh, I'm
I'm so shocked to hear this, on top of the
shock of him asking for her hand.
Speaker 3 (33:33):
So okay, So what was Marco supposed to say when
the dad asked, have you talked to Sarah about this?
Speaker 1 (33:41):
Yes, her and I have made plans have discussed getting
married in the future.
Speaker 4 (33:46):
Oh, you don't have to say, like, yes, I actually
have already asked her. We've been engaged for a few
months already.
Speaker 3 (33:51):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (33:51):
I thought there was a better way to land that.
Speaker 1 (33:54):
Okay, okay, yeah, to me, the dad seemed he went
mute after that.
Speaker 3 (33:58):
Well, to me, the dad like, I guess I'm not
understanding the timeline because he's I'm not understanding the timeline
of how long Sarah hasn't known Marco to where it's
a surprise that he's now asking the dad for the
hand in marriage.
Speaker 5 (34:10):
Like, That's where I messed up on the timeline.
Speaker 3 (34:12):
Because the dad asked like as though he wasn't expecting
to be asked, right, And so then he's like, have
you talked to her about it? Like, well, no, if
he was supposed to do that, then he would have
to lie to the dad and be like, no, I
haven't talked to her about it yet. So so I
do see what you're saying now. I wasn't tracking the
nuance of the question because to me, the fact that
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the dad asked that means that he wasn't He's probably never.
Speaker 5 (34:37):
Expected a man to ask him for his daughter's hand
in marriage.
Speaker 3 (34:40):
That's what that told me.
Speaker 1 (34:41):
Well, I thought, remember she was married before.
Speaker 5 (34:44):
I didn't know she was married before. I thought she
was just in a relationship.
Speaker 1 (34:48):
I'd probably have to go back and fact check that.
But if I remember she was married before, and yes,
she was married before she miscarried and that created a
wedge in her.
Speaker 3 (34:57):
Yes, and I knew that, I just didn't know she
been married and then on time even that even to
me is like more of why I don't understand she
would want her father to get the blessing. She already
got the blessing the first time she was married.
Speaker 1 (35:10):
That's fair that I can understand, being like, do you
want the blessing for all of them? But yeah, like
I understand that, Yeah, I just I really just felt
that getting too into the detail. That's too Yes, I've
already asked her, we've actually been engaged for quite some
time when you under just because she has repeatedly said
how important it is to get that blessing, and only
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to reveal that the blessing is a performative one or
just a bit of a gesture and not really rooted
in what she thought would be meaningful or what her
dad would be. Me, I just put myself in those shoes,
and that would irk me to my soul like I.
Speaker 3 (35:45):
Would to him properly as to what the prexcitation was,
she has not, Well, I.
Speaker 1 (35:52):
Don't know that because I feel like I feel like
he's ignored stuff that she said before. So it wouldn't
surprise me if there's like a hind the scene footage
and it's like, hey, don't tell him that we are
already locked in and then he'd be like okay, okay, okay,
and then doing what he wants anyway, but we don't know.
I just said, yeah, all I can flag is that
that shit. Ooh.
Speaker 4 (36:15):
It was a thorn in my side. Real bad, real bad,
real bad.
Speaker 3 (36:18):
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, okay.
Speaker 5 (36:21):
So I also thought it was weird that he was like.
Speaker 3 (36:27):
I never thought I would do this and like basically
saying I didn't want to do this and she's making
me do it to ask you, and so yeah, like
that was weird to me.
Speaker 5 (36:34):
But again, I got stuck on his tooth.
Speaker 1 (36:36):
And I just was like, you're like, that's it.
Speaker 3 (36:40):
Just back from that, because I would surely tell my father.
I'm like, you you need help? Can that fix? Because
you can't be out here representing me this way. All
growing up my life, my parents have been like, oh,
you can't be in the street's representing us this way.
When you go out, you represent us. And now I'm
like every time they step out and I'm like looking
them up and down, I'm like, when you go out,
you represent me.
Speaker 4 (37:00):
Go change right, go change Jezebel.
Speaker 3 (37:05):
Oh yeah, do you mean to called a what do
you call me?
Speaker 5 (37:07):
My dad called Melzi a flozz.
Speaker 3 (37:13):
You look like a floozie And I was like, great,
that's exactly what I'm going for period.
Speaker 4 (37:17):
I know that's right.
Speaker 3 (37:19):
Yeah. Anyways, so now we've got Aara and Andy. Oh
my god, some of the best TV acting. I still
think the mom was acting really dramatical. Collect I still
think she was acting. I mean, and I mean, I
truly don't understand uh Filipino culture.
Speaker 5 (37:36):
And that's fine, but there was a part of me
that was like, go ahead, Mama, give us that. And
then they were at Tita's.
Speaker 3 (37:42):
Tita choose restaurant or something like that, and I believe
that Tita is like Auntie and so I was like,
I wasn't. I wasn't choose food. So they're at this
nice place and then he reveals whatever he reveals. We
picked back up with the mom leaving the table. She
ends up saying that, you know, she was shocked because
(38:03):
she really wanted Aara to stay, Ara to stay there,
and Aura's like, why did she just leave? She didn't
even get to understand why. And I was like, yeah,
because Andy said it like the decision.
Speaker 1 (38:14):
Was stamped in blood, right.
Speaker 5 (38:17):
So she comes back to the table.
Speaker 3 (38:18):
He explains the issue that they have with needing medical care,
and the mom's like, well, I have no choice but
to accept, And I was like, oh.
Speaker 1 (38:29):
Yeah, I thought I like the words that mom was
using to highlight, like well I don't have a choice,
like you're getting married, Like that's above me now, Like
that's kind of the energy that I got. But I
will say I think Andy, as he was describing it,
even before he mentioned that it was medically related, he
had like a bit of a smirk on his face,
And I think that's just when he's uncomfortable or when
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things are awkward. But I don't think it helps people
who don't know him, you know, in a long term way,
because even when I was watching it, I'm like, why
are you smile? Bro? Like you see she's uncomfortable. You're
not making it better. Yeah, in fact, you're probably like
accelerating the drama of all of this. But yes, yeah,
I'm sure he was just uncomfortable. But yeah, I did
(39:11):
like how the mom was like, there's not much I
can do. You're married now, And I think that is
the correct position to understand. Yes, this is a courtesy
that we're telling you, but you really don't necessarily have
a say I'd like it, and i'd like it to
a line with mine, but it's not going to dictate
how we move.
Speaker 5 (39:31):
So her sister, Erica, was tearful and she was like,
I'm going to miss her.
Speaker 3 (39:35):
I also noticed that she has a sister named Erica
and a friend named Erica, because a friend the friend
was at the wedding, and I remember that friend's name
was Erica. But her sister's so cute with her little
curly black hair, or the sister is so adorable, and
at some point ar throws food at her, throws something
at her, and I was like, oh, this is very sibling.
Speaker 1 (39:54):
Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (39:56):
So then it's the morning of the wedding and Andy
is his vowels and he's just like, yeah, you know,
we're about to do all the things that need to
get done for the wedding. And I'm really sad that
my family's not here. I'm really sad that there's nobody
here from me, but I am happy to be marrying Aara.
And so we see, I mean, the suit is cute
on him, like his family. Her family is like cute,
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Like it's just so fucking cute.
Speaker 1 (40:22):
It's adorable, and I thought it was very sweet that
her family became his groomsmen.
Speaker 4 (40:27):
Yeah, I thought that was very very sweet.
Speaker 1 (40:29):
And there's been a few comments in the last several
episodes and even this one where you know, they said,
you know, you're our family now or we're your family now,
that kind of stuff, and even earlier, we know when
they were telling her mom, Aura was like, I'm building
my own family, Like you can tell that. I like
some of the principles that we're kind of seeing from
them too. It seems healthy. And at first I really
(40:49):
didn't buy this couple. I was committed to kind of
that this was not real and that was not going
to become anything. But every episode they sell me more
and more.
Speaker 3 (40:59):
Yep, yep, yep. And I don't feel like she's being
taken advantage of by this, like American sex tourist, I
mean Western sex tourists, Like I, yeah, this feels very real.
This feels very real and very nice. And as long
as she ditches that orange red lipstick.
Speaker 4 (41:19):
It's not it's doing her disservice.
Speaker 5 (41:21):
She needs to do anything, she can do anything. She
gotta let that fucking lipt go.
Speaker 3 (41:26):
But the pictures are beautiful, and then surprise.
Speaker 1 (41:30):
Surprise, she's so quite big this wedding. Yes, like the wedding,
it's looking the space looked huge. There's you know, there's
the photograph for the videographer. There's a lot put into this,
which is not what I expected for something. For some reason,
I expected something a bit more intimate. But she has
apparently a really big family and yeah, you only get
married once.
Speaker 3 (41:50):
And so yep, I thought she looked great. And so
she's been in secret communication with his parents and I'm like,
how did that even come about, because like why would
his dad, Well, I'm not saying dad pretended like he
couldn't go, but I think that like maybe she reached
out and was like, hey, I know you you said
that you can't, but is there any way you can?
It's going to be really important. Like maybe it's because
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they never knew Aara and yeah, and they didn't want
to like take the time to go like folly into
this other country for their foolish son. And if Aara
reached out on the side and was like, hey, my
name is Aara.
Speaker 5 (42:25):
I'm going to marry your son.
Speaker 3 (42:26):
I know you don't know me, but I'm telling you
right now that Andy is the love of my life.
Oh you know, that's what I want to know.
Speaker 1 (42:34):
Yeah, I think, you know, I think there his parents
probably didn't want to be part of a charade. Yeah, probably,
like you know, I know, you're on a TV show,
all this stuff. It sounds whatever. Go do your saying.
We're not going to tell you not to, but don't
wrap us into this, right. And I think it's exactly
as you're stating. She probably, you know, whether organically, you know,
going through his phone and getting his parents' number or
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email or something like that, or through the show, she
made it a priority to reach out to them and
sin she herself to you know, I think they realized
that there is no language barrier. I think they realized like, oh,
you know, she seems genuine, because even in their vow exchange,
I thought the words shared were quite beautiful. I thought
it was really I cried, oh that's so sweet. I
(43:15):
did not but I but I but I can see
how one could. And maybe that's what sold his parents
where they were like you know what, like yeah, this
even if we're wrong, it's not worth missing this moment.
In case we're we are wrong about this, you know.
Speaker 5 (43:32):
And like mom shows up with her British hat on
I still.
Speaker 4 (43:38):
I both look healthy.
Speaker 1 (43:39):
Yes, somebody don't you too?
Speaker 3 (43:42):
Don't come on with your beach where she had on
a lilac dress and some lilac nails and a wonderful
British hat and a Kentucky Derby hat. I said, miss yes,
she came through and they like popped out and he
saw them and he was just like like certain find
there's like mate, we couldn't miss it. And he said.
Speaker 1 (44:02):
That boot shattered in my heart. I will say this though,
they all look the same age to me, Andy and
his parents, I was like, you all look like triplets,
like you looks the same age? Is this your son?
Speaker 3 (44:16):
Like yeah, that Andy looks like his dad's little brother.
Speaker 5 (44:21):
Like sweet.
Speaker 3 (44:23):
And so then the mom, the way the mom was
hugging him though, was weird. I was like, they don't.
They're not a close knit family because I was like,
how can you raise a child like my nephew?
Speaker 5 (44:32):
I grab him like he's.
Speaker 4 (44:34):
My own exactly.
Speaker 3 (44:37):
Yeah. And so the way that they didn't, the way
they were kind of like oh.
Speaker 4 (44:42):
Felt yeah.
Speaker 3 (44:44):
British mom felt like I was like that girl, that's
your baby. If you don't like you know, she'said, come on,
walking you down the aisle, and they walked his ass
down the eye. I was crying.
Speaker 1 (44:54):
He was the most really, you could tell. It really
meant everything to him. He was at a loss for words.
He was he didn't know which direction to go in.
He yeah, I thought that was so so, so sweet
and just a true testament to her character. Like I
wrote down, it was a top tier moment, like having
them both there, because we can tell how disappointed he
(45:14):
was when the dad on the call said, like, I
have this hospital appointment. I really can't move it, and
he understood as someone who also deals with his own
medical stuff, he recognized that, yeah, that could very well
be true. And he didn't, at least not on TV.
He didn't like, you know, have a pity party about it,
but he would have a rewrite too. Yeah and lie, Yeah,
it was very nice.
Speaker 4 (45:32):
I really liked it.
Speaker 5 (45:33):
I loved it too.
Speaker 3 (45:34):
So they get married, they have wonderful vowels, and then
at the end, we have a wonderful sunset photo of
them kissing with the sun behind them. And I said,
if y'all don't coordinate with mother nature, if y'all don't
get these photos and This was perfect, and so I
love the fact that even though I did see them
on live and that made me speculate that they weren't
(45:54):
in the same place, they probably were and they just
made sure to like keep it, keep it under speculation,
and not blow surprised. But I wish them all the best.
Speaker 4 (46:02):
I forgot about that, right because you have to.
Speaker 1 (46:04):
You can only reveal what the show has revealed to
keep the audience watching.
Speaker 4 (46:08):
I did forget about that, But.
Speaker 1 (46:10):
Can I ask? It looked like she was singing herself
down the aisle. She had a full microphone, and I
know in the culture they love karaoke. Was that happening?
Speaker 3 (46:20):
I just felt like maybe she had the mic to
so that when they got up, she would already have
something in her hand to like, Okay, that's what I assumed,
because at first I thought she's go sing because I'm
here for it. But then they didn't show the songs.
Speaker 1 (46:33):
I was like booed and yeah, okay, because I was
very much like, wow, he's ugly crying and she's singing
herself down the aisle. This was a one of one wedding.
I would love to be there. You know the truth,
you know.
Speaker 3 (46:46):
Yes, the pastor seemed really hype for them. It was
just it seemed like it was a good fucking time.
I want I wanted to know what that was on
the menu. I want to eat whatever the pig.
Speaker 5 (46:57):
That the egg rolls. I want the egg roll.
Speaker 1 (47:00):
Yeah, like pet like yeah me from getting plate number
two and three. Yes.
Speaker 3 (47:06):
When I worked at UH when I was working in
California with my company, the girls we had there was
like a group of like like Filipino, Malaysia and Indonesia,
three little biddies that were best besties at work and
they would bring in food once a month and let
me tell you, girl, I'd be over there.
Speaker 5 (47:24):
Like, hi, hey miss Anne.
Speaker 1 (47:29):
Again.
Speaker 3 (47:30):
Yeah, this is the Asian food I never get to eat.
Speaker 1 (47:34):
I require it in my life. Yeah. Food is Bomba's buds. Yeah,
very well seasoned, Yeah, fantastic. Yeah yeah.
Speaker 3 (47:46):
All right, Well that's the end of this episode. You guys,
thank you so much for joining us. My name is
Wahima and this is sha Shaye. Tell them where uh
you know they can find you.
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Speaker 5 (48:18):
B l k at b l k R E n
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Speaker 3 (48:26):
So thank you guys so much for joining us and
we will see you next time. Bye.
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Sweet Hey everyone, I'm Wah and I'm Shay and welcome
to Donkey Sweeties. As you know, Shaye is helping me
do ninety day fiance UK. And then we are talking
Season four, episode ten. It's almost It's almost game over,
isn't it. It's almost game over, isn't it?
Speaker 3 (00:28):
It's almost game.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
Here?
Speaker 4 (00:31):
It is because you know, that's exactly how they said it.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
Yeah, the only thing I can think of is that
it would be Ali and he would be like, it's
almost game over, isn't it?
Speaker 1 (00:44):
Because of his gaming habits. Maybe makes sense, but.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
We heard the most we've ever heard Marco speak in
this episode, and I was happy about it.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
Oh, I felt the opposite. Stop talking.
Speaker 3 (00:58):
Okay, So let's and thank god we didn't have the
villain as Shorna.
Speaker 1 (01:04):
But let's even though I can't even lie, I was
hungry for her clip. Oh my god, I think it's
like a car accident. I just can't look away, like
she'll be more chaos. Let's see how how good can
it really get? You know, how messy.
Speaker 5 (01:15):
Okay, yeah, that's crazy.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
Oh yeah, she's all right, let's start with somebody short
and sweet and then we'll get we'll do the we'll
do Aara and Andy lass because I think that it
was just okay.
Speaker 5 (01:30):
So Ibrama and zena warrior princess.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
Uh.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
So they go to the monkey park and it's funny
because it's it's interesting the way that some Brits will
speak to where they are like, Abrama, it's funny, isn't it?
And I'm like, what is it a question or is
that a statement? What what is happening? They go to
(01:55):
this monkey park and she's scared they'll bite her, and
so she's like, but I wanted to have a good
time with him, because you know, life is short, and
I didn't want to let it down. So I went
with him and we're like, what the fuck?
Speaker 5 (02:08):
Why would you do that?
Speaker 3 (02:09):
And then they finally tell us ten episodes in what
happened to her and why she is on a war
path of self destruction?
Speaker 1 (02:18):
Right, I will say this, The first note I put
was he hates her, because why would you take somebody
somewhere that they're terrified of or that they absolutely don't like?
I mean, how many times it's gonna have to show
you that he doesn't really fuck with you like that,
But he also is saying the opposite, so I can
understand her delusion. But she ultimately ended up coming around.
(02:41):
I think she had an okay time. Yeah, she up
bonding with some of the rodents.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
Mammals.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
They're mammals. Oh, thank you, mammals. That's okay. I think
you're word for it.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
No idea, Well, they're not apes, right, because we are
related to the apes, and apes is a chimpanzee and
a gorilla and like a bigger mammal.
Speaker 4 (03:03):
Okay, and so monkeys is too far away from that.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
Yeah, monkeys is too far away from that. There, they're
cousins to the apes, but they're not. We are cousins
to the apes. So we're on the other side. We're
like mama's cousins and then like Daddy's Daddy's side, the
family cousins. Okay uh but anyways, yeah, so she he
here's the thing. He operates in a very old fashioned way,
which is like she just needs to get used to them.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
But no, I'm gonna so she has to get used
to it.
Speaker 3 (03:31):
Yeah, yeah, because like I'm I'm it's like, you know
someone is scared of clowns, you just take them to
a fun house and like just get it to the
point where they're.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
Numb, sink er swim. You're gonna have to figure it
out kind of shit.
Speaker 3 (03:40):
Yeah, And I'm just like, he's like when I was younger,
I used to go in the bush. But I was like,
is she though, why does she need to figure this
out and get more comfortable with monkeys? Is it is
it that you're planning on? Is she planning on living
in the Gambia?
Speaker 1 (03:52):
That's what I wrote down. I was like, have they
decided what their future looks like? And who is living where?
Because I don't know that the vision for this couple,
at least not for my original expectations when the season started,
was that she was going to live there.
Speaker 4 (04:08):
That's not how I saw this playing out.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
So he says he loves her because of how much
she's taking care of his family, and as much as
I'm like that seems adequate, it also doesn't also seem
adequate to me. It feels like and maybe sometimes I
have a hard time balancing the romantic and western idea
of love versus the practical, you provide something to my
(04:36):
family type love.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
And I guess both are valid, right, I know, depending
on what you're looking for and what type of dynamic
your relationship has. But it's interesting because until you brought
it up right now, it's not something I really thought of.
But that's a great point that both of them are
riddled with. Is it truth? I don't know. They both
make sense depending on what you're looking for.
Speaker 4 (05:00):
Yeah, But I.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
It's interesting because whenever he speaks about his interests, you know,
with her in this relationship, he always talks about her
being the provider essentially, and what she does for him
or for the people around him or his family. I
have yet to hear him say something about like something
innate that she has that he enjoys or appreciates, like
oh I love your wisdom, or I love how you
(05:25):
love your family, or I love you know. It's always
been connecting relationship to what she can do and provide
for him.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
Yes, which when I think of when I think of
if the role, if the genders were reversed, I wouldn't
necessarily fault a Gambian woman for being gracious and loving
some foreign white man because he has helped her in
her family, right. And I think it's because as much
as I try to get rid of like gender roles
(05:52):
and constructs, I will always feel like the man should
provide for the woman.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
Agree. And now I.
Speaker 3 (05:59):
Don't necessarily think that like that's his only thing in
life and that and you know whatever, But I do
feel like, especially in his religion, it feels like the
in the Islam faith of the Muslims that I know
that the expectation is that the man provides, like that
is his duty, his calling, that is what he does,
and if you are unable to do that, then you
(06:20):
don't get married. Sir.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
Yeah, the dynamics are a bit backwards from what I
would expect of these two people and the histories that
they respectively bring.
Speaker 3 (06:30):
Yes, And so it's interesting because I feel like he
he emasculates himself by behaving as though like he's I'm
grateful what you do for me and my family, thank
you for taking care of us.
Speaker 5 (06:42):
White lady.
Speaker 4 (06:43):
He's a kept man.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
Yeah, And then we still don't know if that's his
sister or his wife or Zena's sister wife.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
Honestly, I'm hoping that we'll get a little bit of
more of that, yeah, because she seems to have let
it go at least from the way these episode have
been edited. But that would be at the tip of
my mind, like.
Speaker 3 (07:04):
I'm just like, why hasn't a producer sat down with
a sister and had another conversation with her an as
her can translator, yeah translator, and got the information it
seems like it's bad, uh, you know, filming filmmaking, right.
So the thing with Zena is that she was eight
months ago not diagnosed with breast cancer, but had a
breast cancer scare. She was diagnosed with having some kind
(07:27):
of lumps in her breast, and so she had to
have a biopsy, oh a loup eptonmy where they take
out the lump and they check it to see if
it's cancerous or not. And it turned out to not
be cancerous. But during the timeframe of waiting, she just
really had like a life crisis where she was like,
I'm too young to die. And so now we understand
(07:47):
why she's full speed ahead of reckless decisions because she
had a scare with her mortality.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
Yeah, and also she has to go through this alone,
so you know, we recognize that we've seen somemmer her
family members in previous episodes and stuff like that. But
obviously you can tell she wanted the attention and the
care of Ibrama to be nearby. He starts to talk
about what the scare meant for him and how he
has sleepless nights and you know, she was on his mind.
Speaker 4 (08:15):
And stuff like that.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
So, yeah, it was definitely something scary for her. And
I'm sure that that's absolutely rough and from what she
was describing, because even you know, they were showing some
of her recovery, some of that process, and you know,
she said it was incredibly painful and uncomfortable, and you know,
I feel for her because that's something nobody ever wants
to go through. But yeah, it seems like she has
a new zest for life though, and you're right, I
(08:39):
think that contributed to, you know, some of the reckless
choices that she's making. She seems to go just like
balls to the wall right now, like she's like yolo.
Speaker 3 (08:49):
Yeah, yeah, exactly, And so like she says that it
was hard for her to be without him, and his
prayers helped and obviously you know, were answered, and he says,
you are my only true love, and I was like, abrama, Yeah,
I don't lie.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
She's too wicked to die, That's what she said.
Speaker 3 (09:10):
Yeah, and I'm just like I'm like, okay, all right, well.
Speaker 4 (09:15):
I think he's reading more like where'd you get that from?
Speaker 1 (09:17):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (09:17):
Yeah, you are my one true love?
Speaker 1 (09:20):
Right? No?
Speaker 3 (09:22):
Yeah, yeah, no, that's not you know. Okay. So next
couple is Marco and Sarah. So she picks him up
from the airport and she keeps talking the whole way
about I know that I have ever been when I
listen to these people talk about these forlorned loves and
these loves from across the like far away, like I
have a Guatemalan bay and there's no.
Speaker 5 (09:43):
Point do I think, like, oh my god, I wish
you were here.
Speaker 1 (09:46):
Out of sight, out of mind is a thing. Yeah,
for me, especially if you're not in my routine. I'll
see you when I see you. Yeah, even if I
talk to you day back, like like we never left,
but I'm not, you know, staring out the window while
it's raining with us as one lonely tear trickles down
(10:07):
my cheek.
Speaker 3 (10:07):
Yeah, I'm like, even if I talk to you daily,
like maybe I'll miss talking to you. But because you're
not physically here with me to do things. The idea
of you finally being here physically to do things with
me causes me.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
Pop makes me, doesn't move me.
Speaker 3 (10:22):
It scares me because I feel like you're going to
disrupt my day to day.
Speaker 1 (10:26):
Right now, you are going yes.
Speaker 3 (10:29):
Yes, I can't make my lists and I can't check
them off because you're going to be wanting things from me.
So I'm just like, I don't understand that.
Speaker 1 (10:36):
I don't.
Speaker 3 (10:36):
I don't understand the forlorn like I wish you were
here to help me through. What can he do besides
ask you questions? Because that's going to get on my nerves.
I'm asking me questions. Just sit down and be quiet.
Speaker 1 (10:47):
Yeah, And also why is he taking a plane? Can't
you take a train from Italy to the UK? It
just seems very dramatic, Like I feel like nine loves
a transportation scene.
Speaker 3 (10:59):
Well, I mean you can do one from France to
like the UK, but like she's in Kent, I don't
know where that is, like so and then like he's
in Italy, I don't he's.
Speaker 5 (11:07):
In roast So let me you talk.
Speaker 1 (11:09):
He had a backpack, right, he wasn't he wasn't tracking
from the you know, from the Grand Canyon to Singapore,
like it seems like a bit of a hop, skip
and a jump, you know. And I don't know, I
just I'm kind of over the sappy airport scenes. I
just feel like there's there's too much of it, and
(11:30):
I feel like we're deep into the season now, we're
ten episodes in, and there's still the producers are still
giving us this like semi built up energy of the airport.
I don't know. And then yeah, it's.
Speaker 3 (11:41):
Just let me tell you it's a fifteen hour train ride.
Speaker 1 (11:46):
From my comments because I'm sitting on a plane fifteen
hours to just go right there.
Speaker 3 (11:56):
No, no, no, yeah, no, that was a train, so
you know, Google Maps tells me that that is how
long it would take.
Speaker 1 (12:04):
It's there.
Speaker 3 (12:04):
Oh yeah, so so it's a two hour and fifteen
minute flight.
Speaker 1 (12:08):
However, fine, I'll allow it. We will allow it. Oh
my shit is blurry, because there it is there. It
is okay. Fine. If he insists.
Speaker 3 (12:21):
He has to travel through several countries to get to her,
like you know, Switzerland, Luxembourg, Belgium.
Speaker 1 (12:26):
Well it's the least he could do, because she's gone
to Italy several times. So you know what, he should
be sitting on that fifteen hour train. I don't take
off back my comments. He's sitting there and thinking about
his thoughts because he moves funny. Yeah for me, Yeah,
this entire episode he irked my nerve real bad.
Speaker 3 (12:44):
Yeah he did.
Speaker 5 (12:45):
He was very rude or something.
Speaker 1 (12:49):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (12:49):
So they get to the house. She has a cat
whose name is MoU. I imagine it's because he looks
like a cow. That cat, he's black and white, took
a cow. And so she's like, I really need you
to talk to my dad because I want to start
telling people that we're engaged. I'm not going to set
a date for our engagement until I'm able to tell people.
I mean not going to set a date for the
wedding until I'm able to tell people that I'm actually engaged.
(13:12):
And I can't tell people that I'm actually engaged until
you ask my father. So these are the series of events,
and he's just like, oh God. She's like, yeah, I
don't want to get married just in two weeks. Randomly,
I'm not on an Elope.
Speaker 1 (13:22):
I'm glad that she hasn't let this go because she
was introduced to the episode because remember we had only
learned about this couple kind of after maybe episode like
five or six or something like that. I'm glad that
every episode that they've been in she's continued to bring
this up, like, I'm not going to drop this.
Speaker 4 (13:38):
You want to marry me quickly?
Speaker 1 (13:39):
I bet you have to go talk to my father bro, Like,
there's no way around that, and I will.
Speaker 4 (13:44):
You will not know peace until you do that.
Speaker 3 (13:47):
Well, the truth is that she didn't actually say it
that obviously, she's been beating around the bush like a
damn like it's been annoying to watch. So she then
serves in pizza because she's like, oh, he's from Italy
and he likes pizza.
Speaker 5 (14:00):
And I said, what happened to margarita pizza?
Speaker 4 (14:03):
Yeah, she did the most because she offered him the
worst kind.
Speaker 3 (14:07):
Yeah, and I'm like, why would you give him that
kind of pizza?
Speaker 5 (14:11):
That's like, what's your favorite dish?
Speaker 1 (14:14):
Like in life?
Speaker 5 (14:15):
Yeah, what's your favorite dish?
Speaker 1 (14:17):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (14:17):
There's too many?
Speaker 3 (14:20):
So yeah, my my favorite dish would be just like
rice and beans and a good chicken, Like it could
be stewed, it can be it could be stewed, It
can be fried. It can be rotisserid, just like a
good rice and beans and maybe like a little sweet
at the gap, like a black on the side good
like maybe like ahup and narrow pepper sauce or a sauce.
Speaker 2 (14:41):
Ye.
Speaker 1 (14:42):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (14:43):
Now let's say somebody knew that you liked that, and
then you went to their country, and then they gave
you a weird, bastardized version of that.
Speaker 1 (14:50):
They gave you.
Speaker 4 (14:50):
Right, I'm not above this rice, but you know what
I'm saying, like.
Speaker 3 (14:54):
Rice with like hot dogs in it, like beans that
didn't have like any real sab and then maybe like
a boiled chicken, Like why would I I'm sorry, I
told you like rice and beans and chicken.
Speaker 1 (15:07):
You know I think that's fair because I'm not gonna lie.
You're making me change my opinion now because originally I
was like, he's doing too much. It's bread with some
toppings like that goes hard no matter what you know,
like it just it just seems like pizza is quite
basic when you think of just the ingredients on their own, right,
So that's right to me. I'm like, why are you
making all these faces? Do you like Burger's great?
Speaker 4 (15:28):
This is a burger pizza.
Speaker 1 (15:29):
Eat it?
Speaker 4 (15:29):
Do you like pineapple by itself?
Speaker 1 (15:31):
Do you like? You know what I'm saying, But what
you just described about somebody giving you some half assed.
Speaker 4 (15:39):
It would fuck me up? Like what is this?
Speaker 1 (15:41):
So? You know what? Yeah, you make me change my
mind about this man, and I'm not loving it, but
I have to agree.
Speaker 3 (15:48):
Take your boiled chicken back, take take your hot dogs
and rice, and get out of my face. Yeah, if
you if you can't give it to me the way
I would like, even somewhat close to what I would
normally eat, go ahead and keep that shit show me.
Speaker 5 (16:01):
Give me something British to eat, which ain't much better,
but still.
Speaker 3 (16:04):
And the thing is, though I have never even had well,
I'm sorry, I haven't had a Hamburger pizza until I
moved to the Midwest. I didn't even know that shit
existed until I got here and somebody was like, oh, yeah,
it's just like I was like, that is like it's
ground beef and pickles and tomatoes. Yeah, it's like a
it's like what, Yeah, it's like the ingredients of a
(16:24):
burger on except for the lettuce on a pizza. It's
not bad, it's just it's unnecessary. It's colorically unus when
things are just like I'm just like, damn, this is.
Speaker 1 (16:39):
Fast the American way.
Speaker 5 (16:43):
Only for the two weeks of the fair.
Speaker 3 (16:46):
I'll have a deep tired Oreo at the fair, because
that is why I went there for the weird food
fair fair food. Like, I'm not gonna be looking for
deep fried oreos outside of an event.
Speaker 1 (17:00):
Better than me because I have. But if the truck
is there, they want people to buy it. But I
know that I understand what you're saying. Sometimes the circumstances
have to match the food item.
Speaker 3 (17:10):
You know what it is. It's because you have I
don't know about your life, and I'm just looking at
basically on what I know about you, that your belly
hasn't overtaken your body the way my belly has overtaken
my body.
Speaker 5 (17:21):
And so now so now.
Speaker 3 (17:25):
Every food is the enemy, like if it's unnecessary, Like
there's a lot of food that I'm just gonna eat regardless.
But like some shit, I'm just like, Okay, I'm.
Speaker 1 (17:32):
Good, I'm good off that I'm good.
Speaker 3 (17:35):
I already I already have my wine, I'm already gonna
eat my whatever, like I.
Speaker 1 (17:42):
You know, yeah, once a month. I hear that, But
do you think that Marco's just reaction was a bit
much for one sight of it because he didn't even
take a bite of the Hawaiian one.
Speaker 4 (17:55):
I think it was just the burger pizza.
Speaker 3 (17:57):
He spit it out. He got up and spit it out.
Speaker 1 (17:58):
That was I thought that was I think that's rude
to do. But Wully, I do feel that that was
over the top. It was just annoying for me. I
literally wrote that was obnoxious.
Speaker 3 (18:08):
Yeah, but they'd like to do that as like tropes
in the Night of Day Fiance World.
Speaker 5 (18:12):
I just was like, Sarah, I need you to rise
above it.
Speaker 3 (18:15):
Just get him some cheese pizza.
Speaker 4 (18:17):
And leave that man alone.
Speaker 1 (18:18):
Yeah, give a cheese pizza. Leave him alone.
Speaker 3 (18:21):
So then the next scene is her leaving him downstairs
to go upstairs to work while he has a conversation
with her dad and she's like, I'm nervous for him
because I know he doesn't want to do it, and I'm.
Speaker 1 (18:35):
Like, strike ten.
Speaker 3 (18:36):
The fact that he doesn't want to ask your father
is a good reason to not marry him. To me,
it feels like he is going to be controlling and
she is doing whatever she can to try to like
stop that behavior, but it's only going to get worse
once they get married, and she's not going to be
able to stop it when she's an illegally binding contract
with him.
Speaker 1 (18:53):
Right, Yeah, I think he has revealed himself to be
exactly who we think is and what pains me in
this situation, and maybe this is going to be super
fucked up to say, but should she carry through with
this wedding to this man? I find myself being on
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the opposite side of things and being like, I don't
feel bad for you because I feel bad for you before,
where before as the world and the people that care
about you were trying to be honest with you and
tell you what this could lead to. And I understand
the end of the day, people are going to make
their own decisions about the relationships. I get that, and
there's a sort of a boundary that you kind of
(19:34):
don't cross when it comes to other people's relationships. But
I personally have a hard time feeling bad for people
once they're on the other side of it, especially if
I was one of.
Speaker 4 (19:42):
The people who repeatedly told you that.
Speaker 1 (19:45):
The circumstances that you're in are the ones that I
said you'd be in if you kept like avoiding the
clear red flags.
Speaker 3 (19:52):
Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I realized pretty early young and
that once I started seeing people around me continuously make
making choices that either were calamitous or that I told
them this would be the outcome, and then they want
to complain to me that I can't be friends with them,
keep it. Yeah, I'm like, uh, sorry, yeah, it's too much.
(20:16):
And so yeah, it's very it's it's you can't be
friends with d Austin.
Speaker 1 (20:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (20:20):
So anyways, Dad comes in and the only thing that I.
Speaker 5 (20:22):
Could see was his tooth.
Speaker 1 (20:24):
I knew you were going to say that, and I
wrote it that too, because that's why I too.
Speaker 3 (20:28):
I couldn't see that.
Speaker 1 (20:29):
I knew.
Speaker 4 (20:29):
I was like, this is going to come up on
the pod.
Speaker 1 (20:32):
I don't know, but I think that's a British thing.
Speaker 3 (20:36):
They have healthcare and they did not have dental care.
Speaker 4 (20:40):
It's just I work for a British company.
Speaker 1 (20:43):
That is That mouth was common from what I've seen
most of my peers professional Unfortunately, and ironically enough, Oh
my god, I hope, I hope we don't clip this.
But my one, well, let me let me actually lie
a little bit. One of my superiors in my organization.
I just noticed this week in a meeting we had
(21:03):
where I was like, what is that on your tooth?
And I mind, I've been working with this person for
going on six years, going on six years. Yeah, and
I was like, oh is that? And then I couldn't
stop looking at it? So yeah, this is right there
with it.
Speaker 3 (21:19):
Yeah, No, it's it's definitely like it's it's like when
I it's when it's like when I noticed that somebody
there I work with has a lazy eye and I
didn't notice it for a while, and all of a sudden, I'm.
Speaker 1 (21:28):
Like, now you're hyper fixated on it.
Speaker 3 (21:30):
Yeah, And then I want to go be like have
you always had that lazy eye?
Speaker 1 (21:33):
Yeah? And you do you ask?
Speaker 3 (21:36):
No I didn't, but like I almost did, and then
I thought, no, you shouldn't. But I have a hard
time with things like that because I think that people
Here's here's the unfortunate thing is I think that people
who have something that I think is fixable, who choose
not to fix it, are aware of it and so
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are open to conversation about it.
Speaker 5 (21:58):
Like people people like to talk to.
Speaker 3 (22:00):
Me about my gap, and I'm like, oh, I don't
even think about it, and then they want to go
more and more, and I'm like, oh, okay, Like I said,
I don't even think about it.
Speaker 4 (22:07):
I feel you.
Speaker 1 (22:08):
That's what I feel with my Harry Potter scar on
my forehead. And I forget because when I was two
years old and people were like, oh, I to your
scr and I'm like what car, And I'm like, oh, yeah, sure,
and then I'll talk about it, but I'm like, wait,
what happened? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.
Speaker 3 (22:20):
And so the same thing with the lazy eye. I'm like, oh,
have you wasted a lazy eye? And then because I'm.
Speaker 5 (22:25):
Like, it's fixable, is it? Yeah, you can go to
physical therapy for it.
Speaker 1 (22:30):
Really, yes, that's news to me. I didn't know that.
I didn't know that. I didn't know that that a
lazy eye specifically was fixable.
Speaker 5 (22:37):
Okay, well let me google it now. Maybe I'm wrong lazy.
Speaker 1 (22:39):
I've never looked into it, so I have nothing to
base my opinion on treat but I just yeah.
Speaker 5 (22:45):
Yeah, I know there's treatments for it.
Speaker 1 (22:46):
Wow, I did. I really didn't know that because everyone
that I know that has one has had one all
the live long day.
Speaker 3 (22:54):
Yes, and that's why I'm like, oh, maybe you just
like didn't want to go or didn't have the money
or the like whatever. And so sometimes when I see
people my age and I'm just like, oh, you don't.
Speaker 5 (23:04):
You haven't gotten that fixed. No, it's it's a.
Speaker 3 (23:08):
It's something that you need to continuously do because it's
a muscle you have to whatever. But yeah, wow, okay,
but you now know you cannot ask people those quiet questions.
Speaker 1 (23:20):
It can upset them. Yes, yes, okay.
Speaker 3 (23:23):
So Ali and sam uh they are drinking chai and
she's like, I don't know how to make chai and
he's a girl. It's the same fucking shit, it's the same.
It's the same, it's a different tea bag.
Speaker 1 (23:35):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (23:36):
He keeps it real with her.
Speaker 1 (23:38):
Yeah, it's really direct.
Speaker 3 (23:40):
Yeah, and like here here's the truth. I never even
thought about their sex life. In fact, I guess I
just thought they weren't having sex, and now I know
that they are, and it's loud.
Speaker 1 (23:50):
Well yeah, it's unfortunately everything I know about this couple
obviously against my will. But I think that I don't
want to say I didn't consider it. I want to
say I buried the thought.
Speaker 3 (24:01):
Yeah, no, I didn't think about it at all because
they're so cartoonishly like childlife and weird, Like I just
was like never thinking about it. And it's like and
I'm like, oh, he loves.
Speaker 1 (24:12):
It, like he's late.
Speaker 3 (24:13):
Yeah he's love yeah, yeah, and uh and so good
for them, good for them, Good for them little bunnies
living there, children, Good for them. So then she starts
talking to him about needing their own place, and he's like,
I'm going to show her the worst place in Malatya.
Speaker 1 (24:34):
He's nothing if not consistent, because he's wanting to show
her a horrific time since she arrived, and he's been,
I guess, in her eyes, doing exactly that.
Speaker 5 (24:42):
Yeah, and he's you.
Speaker 3 (24:43):
Know, she's like, well don't you miss Like, well, don't
you want to be together? He's like, yeah, do you
think I like long distance? And I said, you know what,
because I for the whole time, I guess I thought
he secretly was just using her, and that's rude.
Speaker 1 (24:56):
I mean I still think that, But I also thought
that he was enjoying the distance because then he can
game without her breathing down his back.
Speaker 3 (25:03):
And I know that he just wants to get to
the US, and so that's a big part of it.
I just want, I mean the UK. But so I
guess I'm just like, now I need to see him
in the UK and how he treats him the UK.
She's going to consistently be upset with him because obviously
he doesn't dote on her in the way that she requires,
no need to feel comfortable. But she married him, and
they married each other, so I think that at some
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point she's gonna either they're gonna have to both give
a little bit.
Speaker 5 (25:28):
She's gonna have to let him let.
Speaker 3 (25:30):
His leash be long, and he's going to have to
just come home when when he knows he's supposed to
come home, you.
Speaker 1 (25:36):
Know, because she will look for that ass. She's proven
that already.
Speaker 5 (25:40):
She's snatch him up by the nape of his neck
and drags.
Speaker 1 (25:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (25:48):
But so they go to look around at actually talk
about the kind of apartment they want. She's like, well,
when he has this, hes have that, And he's like,
needs to have a game room, and she's like, yeah,
get have a game room. And she's like, you're not
going to be in there, but yeah, you could have one.
And they go around to this apartment that is his friend,
and the apartment didn't look bad to.
Speaker 1 (26:09):
Me, honestly, thank you. Because her reaction you would have
thought that he dug a hole and told her to
stand in it. Yeah. I was like, I what, I
don't know, are you expecting a loft apartment? You're expecting
something with the west wing, Like, babe, this is standard
and it had a balcony and honestly, it looks spacious.
I will say, though the bed looks small for this couple.
(26:31):
Why wasn't she going to buy her own bed exactly?
That's why I was like, but that's not even a problem,
because you should be getting your own mattress and bed anyway. Yeah,
because I don't know that the apartment was going to
come furnished, like nobody talked about that.
Speaker 3 (26:42):
And if it did that furnish and you felt like
the furnishing was inadequate, fair, use it until you can
save up and get your own.
Speaker 2 (26:49):
Shit.
Speaker 4 (26:49):
Now, the bathroom was funky.
Speaker 3 (26:51):
Yes, but a lot of people have not a lot
of people, but there are a lot of cultures that
have bathrooms like that, and I want to know more
about them. I don't understand how you. I don't understand
how you squat into that and not have matter and
stuff all over your ankles and your thighs.
Speaker 1 (27:06):
Like, but what what countries are there where people have
like knees of steel that you can squat that deep.
Speaker 3 (27:15):
I believe that that white foot is squat Yeah, yeah, yeah,
I've seen it.
Speaker 1 (27:19):
I've seen it in Asian countries.
Speaker 3 (27:21):
And hebrahmhad that too.
Speaker 1 (27:24):
He sure did, but I felt like the layout was different, like,
yes it.
Speaker 3 (27:29):
Was, you know, and I but I just have those
that any anybody that does anything that we all do
differently is very interesting to me. It's always very interesting
to me because I'm like this, this civilization has thrived
for thousands of years, like Asian culture and you know
(27:50):
Indian culture, and these cultures are old as fuck and
we don't learn anything about them because you know, Europe,
but they have been doing ship for a very long time,
and so if they got some ship, like the fact
that people use chop six to eat, that to me
is engineering. That's just civil engineering. The fact that somebody
(28:11):
was like, well, how do we fix this issue? They
were like, no, we don't get a little triedent and
stick it. We get two sticks and our figures and
make that ship work and then and the rest of
the world will assimilate. And they have. And I'm like,
you're smarter than me. The fact that you can use
the chops, you're starteder than me.
Speaker 1 (28:29):
I would just use my hands and moved on.
Speaker 3 (28:32):
Yes, So anyways, yeah, so I was I had more
questions about that.
Speaker 5 (28:37):
But she decides that she maybe they can't live him
a lot.
Speaker 3 (28:41):
Yeah, And so how he sets it up is they
go on an Instagram like date. And when she said that,
I was like, girl, I know that. And the fact that,
like the fact that that is your frame of reference
of like, oh, it's like something off of Instagram. I
never even think that, Like I'm like, oh, this is
(29:03):
in fact, I go out of my way to not
take pictures for the great like I don't want anyone
to know my I used to in the beginning like
a Facebook and take pictures of the beautiful plate of food.
But then after that, I was like, you know what, yeah,
I needs to know.
Speaker 1 (29:18):
Yeah, I do that because I like the I'm putting
together coffee table books of like places I've been to
and dishes and stuff that I hope to recreate and
I never will because I love that. But but yeah,
I thought that was an interesting comment.
Speaker 4 (29:33):
It stood out to me. I will say, they look nice.
Speaker 1 (29:37):
I think that's the most presentable I've seen him look
like with you know, it looked like he got a haircut,
he cleaned up.
Speaker 3 (29:43):
She looks like she got her roots done. Yes, she
was wearing a bit of foundation and a bit of
mascare and an eyebrow.
Speaker 1 (29:49):
And it seemed to match. Like all of that seemed
to really gel together. I like that he did did
a little something. Yeah, maybe he was doing his big
one mm hmm. Good for that.
Speaker 3 (30:02):
He ate she did not that that played a chicken
was still. But I was like, ma'am, are you gonna
are you gonna eat that?
Speaker 1 (30:09):
I didn't even see that You're Can I get in there?
Speaker 3 (30:14):
Can I have that.
Speaker 1 (30:20):
Cold? Girl?
Speaker 3 (30:22):
You don't like to eat in front of people?
Speaker 1 (30:24):
Is that was going on?
Speaker 3 (30:24):
Because his plate looked like it had been like.
Speaker 1 (30:29):
Maybe maybe the producers paid for it. Maybe this was
on the budget of the show, because then I can
understand him being like, I'm leaving with something.
Speaker 3 (30:37):
Yeah, or it's just that either she doesn't like to
eat in front of people, or she doesn't like spices.
Speaker 5 (30:42):
And she was like that looks weird.
Speaker 1 (30:44):
Can't eat it.
Speaker 3 (30:44):
It's not McDonald's.
Speaker 4 (30:46):
Yeah, so I'm taking a blanket.
Speaker 3 (30:48):
Yeah. So she's like, yeah, we're gonna have to go
back to the UK. And so then she's like, put,
it costs so much money for you to get your visa.
And he's like, well, if I saved four hundred dollars
and you save some money or whatever, then in six months, bitch,
stop the one. Yeah, stop acting like it's impossible. And
(31:12):
also it's only two thousand dollars. Do you know how
much it costs in the US. These people are paying
upwards to seven thousand.
Speaker 1 (31:18):
Dollars yeah for the king one visa. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (31:21):
And I'm like, you're over here. Yeah, just get back
to Grant together, get a second job and work.
Speaker 1 (31:29):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (31:30):
Fine, it's more though, So the paperwork, that's the hardest
thing to do, and like all that shit.
Speaker 5 (31:34):
So but they're already married.
Speaker 1 (31:35):
So exactly the hardest part is over Just talk, shout
out the paperwork and submit that bitch. And then, like
you said, save up for six months each of them.
You know, he's there. Yeah, but ultimately he said his
plan worked, yeah, and he's like, my plan he thinks
he did something like.
Speaker 3 (31:52):
He really does think he did something. Manipulation at its finest.
All right, so the best couple of this show, honestly,
and we didn't get them till like late too, right,
we got them after like episode four or five.
Speaker 1 (32:06):
H Yes, but can I ask, because it's the last
couple we will cover, isn't it?
Speaker 3 (32:11):
Am I so exciting?
Speaker 1 (32:12):
No?
Speaker 4 (32:13):
This is uh no that this is the last couple.
Speaker 1 (32:15):
But I'm saying I think we missed something quite important
with Sarah and Marco. I say it, well, when he
was speaking to her father and he was struggling at
first to get the words out to ask for, you know,
his approval, I thought it was so so so out
of pocket for him to then tell the father, well,
(32:37):
actually I already asked her, and actually we are already engaged.
Speaker 4 (32:40):
And actually, because that's specifically the.
Speaker 1 (32:43):
Opposite of what she wanted, she knew it was going
to hurt her father's feelings and it was going to
hurt for her to admit that she was already engaged
and that they already like committed to each other and
said yes before he asked, I wrote in capital letters
like then, he says, he already asked her, says he
proposed some time ago, and I put it is not
(33:05):
his place to tell her parents that that shit my spirit.
I'll be if you break some news like that to
my family when the whole time I'm telling you that
I'm trying to spare them from that, and that that's
the reason why we're not building on anything after this,
because I need you to do that first. So and
(33:25):
the dad is surprised. The dad is like, oh, I'm
I'm so shocked to hear this, on top of the
shock of him asking for her hand.
Speaker 3 (33:33):
So okay, So what was Marco supposed to say when
the dad asked, have you talked to Sarah about this?
Speaker 1 (33:41):
Yes, her and I have made plans have discussed getting
married in the future.
Speaker 4 (33:46):
Oh, you don't have to say, like, yes, I actually
have already asked her. We've been engaged for a few
months already.
Speaker 3 (33:51):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (33:51):
I thought there was a better way to land that.
Speaker 1 (33:54):
Okay, okay, yeah, to me, the dad seemed he went
mute after that.
Speaker 3 (33:58):
Well, to me, the dad like, I guess I'm not
understanding the timeline because he's I'm not understanding the timeline
of how long Sarah hasn't known Marco to where it's
a surprise that he's now asking the dad for the
hand in marriage.
Speaker 5 (34:10):
Like, That's where I messed up on the timeline.
Speaker 3 (34:12):
Because the dad asked like as though he wasn't expecting
to be asked, right, And so then he's like, have
you talked to her about it? Like, well, no, if
he was supposed to do that, then he would have
to lie to the dad and be like, no, I
haven't talked to her about it yet. So so I
do see what you're saying now. I wasn't tracking the
nuance of the question because to me, the fact that
(34:33):
the dad asked that means that he wasn't He's probably never.
Speaker 5 (34:37):
Expected a man to ask him for his daughter's hand
in marriage.
Speaker 3 (34:40):
That's what that told me.
Speaker 1 (34:41):
Well, I thought, remember she was married before.
Speaker 5 (34:44):
I didn't know she was married before. I thought she
was just in a relationship.
Speaker 1 (34:48):
I'd probably have to go back and fact check that.
But if I remember she was married before, and yes,
she was married before she miscarried and that created a
wedge in her.
Speaker 3 (34:57):
Yes, and I knew that, I just didn't know she
been married and then on time even that even to
me is like more of why I don't understand she
would want her father to get the blessing. She already
got the blessing the first time she was married.
Speaker 1 (35:10):
That's fair that I can understand, being like, do you
want the blessing for all of them? But yeah, like
I understand that, Yeah, I just I really just felt
that getting too into the detail. That's too Yes, I've
already asked her, we've actually been engaged for quite some
time when you under just because she has repeatedly said
how important it is to get that blessing, and only
(35:33):
to reveal that the blessing is a performative one or
just a bit of a gesture and not really rooted
in what she thought would be meaningful or what her
dad would be. Me, I just put myself in those shoes,
and that would irk me to my soul like I.
Speaker 3 (35:45):
Would to him properly as to what the prexcitation was,
she has not, Well, I.
Speaker 1 (35:52):
Don't know that because I feel like I feel like
he's ignored stuff that she said before. So it wouldn't
surprise me if there's like a hind the scene footage
and it's like, hey, don't tell him that we are
already locked in and then he'd be like okay, okay, okay,
and then doing what he wants anyway, but we don't know.
I just said, yeah, all I can flag is that
that shit. Ooh.
Speaker 4 (36:15):
It was a thorn in my side. Real bad, real bad,
real bad.
Speaker 3 (36:18):
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, okay.
Speaker 5 (36:21):
So I also thought it was weird that he was like.
Speaker 3 (36:27):
I never thought I would do this and like basically
saying I didn't want to do this and she's making
me do it to ask you, and so yeah, like
that was weird to me.
Speaker 5 (36:34):
But again, I got stuck on his tooth.
Speaker 1 (36:36):
And I just was like, you're like, that's it.
Speaker 3 (36:40):
Just back from that, because I would surely tell my father.
I'm like, you you need help? Can that fix? Because
you can't be out here representing me this way. All
growing up my life, my parents have been like, oh,
you can't be in the street's representing us this way.
When you go out, you represent us. And now I'm
like every time they step out and I'm like looking
them up and down, I'm like, when you go out,
you represent me.
Speaker 4 (37:00):
Go change right, go change Jezebel.
Speaker 3 (37:05):
Oh yeah, do you mean to called a what do
you call me?
Speaker 5 (37:07):
My dad called Melzi a flozz.
Speaker 3 (37:13):
You look like a floozie And I was like, great,
that's exactly what I'm going for period.
Speaker 4 (37:17):
I know that's right.
Speaker 3 (37:19):
Yeah. Anyways, so now we've got Aara and Andy. Oh
my god, some of the best TV acting. I still
think the mom was acting really dramatical. Collect I still
think she was acting. I mean, and I mean, I
truly don't understand uh Filipino culture.
Speaker 5 (37:36):
And that's fine, but there was a part of me
that was like, go ahead, Mama, give us that. And
then they were at Tita's.
Speaker 3 (37:42):
Tita choose restaurant or something like that, and I believe
that Tita is like Auntie and so I was like,
I wasn't. I wasn't choose food. So they're at this
nice place and then he reveals whatever he reveals. We
picked back up with the mom leaving the table. She
ends up saying that, you know, she was shocked because
(38:03):
she really wanted Aara to stay, Ara to stay there,
and Aura's like, why did she just leave? She didn't
even get to understand why. And I was like, yeah,
because Andy said it like the decision.
Speaker 1 (38:14):
Was stamped in blood, right.
Speaker 5 (38:17):
So she comes back to the table.
Speaker 3 (38:18):
He explains the issue that they have with needing medical care,
and the mom's like, well, I have no choice but
to accept, And I was like, oh.
Speaker 1 (38:29):
Yeah, I thought I like the words that mom was
using to highlight, like well I don't have a choice,
like you're getting married, Like that's above me now, Like
that's kind of the energy that I got. But I
will say I think Andy, as he was describing it,
even before he mentioned that it was medically related, he
had like a bit of a smirk on his face,
And I think that's just when he's uncomfortable or when
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things are awkward. But I don't think it helps people
who don't know him, you know, in a long term way,
because even when I was watching it, I'm like, why
are you smile? Bro? Like you see she's uncomfortable. You're
not making it better. Yeah, in fact, you're probably like
accelerating the drama of all of this. But yes, yeah,
I'm sure he was just uncomfortable. But yeah, I did
(39:11):
like how the mom was like, there's not much I
can do. You're married now, And I think that is
the correct position to understand. Yes, this is a courtesy
that we're telling you, but you really don't necessarily have
a say I'd like it, and i'd like it to
a line with mine, but it's not going to dictate
how we move.
Speaker 5 (39:31):
So her sister, Erica, was tearful and she was like,
I'm going to miss her.
Speaker 3 (39:35):
I also noticed that she has a sister named Erica
and a friend named Erica, because a friend the friend
was at the wedding, and I remember that friend's name
was Erica. But her sister's so cute with her little
curly black hair, or the sister is so adorable, and
at some point ar throws food at her, throws something
at her, and I was like, oh, this is very sibling.
Speaker 1 (39:54):
Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (39:56):
So then it's the morning of the wedding and Andy
is his vowels and he's just like, yeah, you know,
we're about to do all the things that need to
get done for the wedding. And I'm really sad that
my family's not here. I'm really sad that there's nobody
here from me, but I am happy to be marrying Aara.
And so we see, I mean, the suit is cute
on him, like his family. Her family is like cute,
(40:20):
Like it's just so fucking cute.
Speaker 1 (40:22):
It's adorable, and I thought it was very sweet that
her family became his groomsmen.
Speaker 4 (40:27):
Yeah, I thought that was very very sweet.
Speaker 1 (40:29):
And there's been a few comments in the last several
episodes and even this one where you know, they said,
you know, you're our family now or we're your family now,
that kind of stuff, and even earlier, we know when
they were telling her mom, Aura was like, I'm building
my own family, Like you can tell that. I like
some of the principles that we're kind of seeing from
them too. It seems healthy. And at first I really
(40:49):
didn't buy this couple. I was committed to kind of
that this was not real and that was not going
to become anything. But every episode they sell me more
and more.
Speaker 3 (40:59):
Yep, yep, yep. And I don't feel like she's being
taken advantage of by this, like American sex tourist, I
mean Western sex tourists, Like I, yeah, this feels very real.
This feels very real and very nice. And as long
as she ditches that orange red lipstick.
Speaker 4 (41:19):
It's not it's doing her disservice.
Speaker 5 (41:21):
She needs to do anything, she can do anything. She
gotta let that fucking lipt go.
Speaker 3 (41:26):
But the pictures are beautiful, and then surprise.
Speaker 1 (41:30):
Surprise, she's so quite big this wedding. Yes, like the wedding,
it's looking the space looked huge. There's you know, there's
the photograph for the videographer. There's a lot put into this,
which is not what I expected for something. For some reason,
I expected something a bit more intimate. But she has
apparently a really big family and yeah, you only get
married once.
Speaker 3 (41:50):
And so yep, I thought she looked great. And so
she's been in secret communication with his parents and I'm like,
how did that even come about, because like why would
his dad, Well, I'm not saying dad pretended like he
couldn't go, but I think that like maybe she reached
out and was like, hey, I know you you said
that you can't, but is there any way you can?
It's going to be really important. Like maybe it's because
(42:11):
they never knew Aara and yeah, and they didn't want
to like take the time to go like folly into
this other country for their foolish son. And if Aara
reached out on the side and was like, hey, my
name is Aara.
Speaker 5 (42:25):
I'm going to marry your son.
Speaker 3 (42:26):
I know you don't know me, but I'm telling you
right now that Andy is the love of my life.
Oh you know, that's what I want to know.
Speaker 1 (42:34):
Yeah, I think, you know, I think there his parents
probably didn't want to be part of a charade. Yeah, probably,
like you know, I know, you're on a TV show,
all this stuff. It sounds whatever. Go do your saying.
We're not going to tell you not to, but don't
wrap us into this, right. And I think it's exactly
as you're stating. She probably, you know, whether organically, you know,
going through his phone and getting his parents' number or
(42:54):
email or something like that, or through the show, she
made it a priority to reach out to them and
sin she herself to you know, I think they realized
that there is no language barrier. I think they realized like, oh,
you know, she seems genuine, because even in their vow exchange,
I thought the words shared were quite beautiful. I thought
it was really I cried, oh that's so sweet. I
(43:15):
did not but I but I but I can see
how one could. And maybe that's what sold his parents
where they were like you know what, like yeah, this
even if we're wrong, it's not worth missing this moment.
In case we're we are wrong about this, you know.
Speaker 5 (43:32):
And like mom shows up with her British hat on
I still.
Speaker 4 (43:38):
I both look healthy.
Speaker 1 (43:39):
Yes, somebody don't you too?
Speaker 3 (43:42):
Don't come on with your beach where she had on
a lilac dress and some lilac nails and a wonderful
British hat and a Kentucky Derby hat. I said, miss yes,
she came through and they like popped out and he
saw them and he was just like like certain find
there's like mate, we couldn't miss it. And he said.
Speaker 1 (44:02):
That boot shattered in my heart. I will say this though,
they all look the same age to me, Andy and
his parents, I was like, you all look like triplets,
like you looks the same age? Is this your son?
Speaker 3 (44:16):
Like yeah, that Andy looks like his dad's little brother.
Speaker 5 (44:21):
Like sweet.
Speaker 3 (44:23):
And so then the mom, the way the mom was
hugging him though, was weird. I was like, they don't.
They're not a close knit family because I was like,
how can you raise a child like my nephew?
Speaker 5 (44:32):
I grab him like he's.
Speaker 4 (44:34):
My own exactly.
Speaker 3 (44:37):
Yeah. And so the way that they didn't, the way
they were kind of like oh.
Speaker 4 (44:42):
Felt yeah.
Speaker 3 (44:44):
British mom felt like I was like that girl, that's
your baby. If you don't like you know, she'said, come on,
walking you down the aisle, and they walked his ass
down the eye. I was crying.
Speaker 1 (44:54):
He was the most really, you could tell. It really
meant everything to him. He was at a loss for words.
He was he didn't know which direction to go in.
He yeah, I thought that was so so, so sweet
and just a true testament to her character. Like I
wrote down, it was a top tier moment, like having
them both there, because we can tell how disappointed he
(45:14):
was when the dad on the call said, like, I
have this hospital appointment. I really can't move it, and
he understood as someone who also deals with his own
medical stuff, he recognized that, yeah, that could very well
be true. And he didn't, at least not on TV.
He didn't like, you know, have a pity party about it,
but he would have a rewrite too. Yeah and lie, Yeah,
it was very nice.
Speaker 4 (45:32):
I really liked it.
Speaker 5 (45:33):
I loved it too.
Speaker 3 (45:34):
So they get married, they have wonderful vowels, and then
at the end, we have a wonderful sunset photo of
them kissing with the sun behind them. And I said,
if y'all don't coordinate with mother nature, if y'all don't
get these photos and This was perfect, and so I
love the fact that even though I did see them
on live and that made me speculate that they weren't
(45:54):
in the same place, they probably were and they just
made sure to like keep it, keep it under speculation,
and not blow surprised. But I wish them all the best.
Speaker 4 (46:02):
I forgot about that, right because you have to.
Speaker 1 (46:04):
You can only reveal what the show has revealed to
keep the audience watching.
Speaker 4 (46:08):
I did forget about that, But.
Speaker 1 (46:10):
Can I ask? It looked like she was singing herself
down the aisle. She had a full microphone, and I
know in the culture they love karaoke. Was that happening?
Speaker 3 (46:20):
I just felt like maybe she had the mic to
so that when they got up, she would already have
something in her hand to like, Okay, that's what I assumed,
because at first I thought she's go sing because I'm
here for it. But then they didn't show the songs.
Speaker 1 (46:33):
I was like booed and yeah, okay, because I was
very much like, wow, he's ugly crying and she's singing
herself down the aisle. This was a one of one wedding.
I would love to be there. You know the truth,
you know.
Speaker 3 (46:46):
Yes, the pastor seemed really hype for them. It was
just it seemed like it was a good fucking time.
I want I wanted to know what that was on
the menu. I want to eat whatever the pig.
Speaker 5 (46:57):
That the egg rolls. I want the egg roll.
Speaker 1 (47:00):
Yeah, like pet like yeah me from getting plate number
two and three. Yes.
Speaker 3 (47:06):
When I worked at UH when I was working in
California with my company, the girls we had there was
like a group of like like Filipino, Malaysia and Indonesia,
three little biddies that were best besties at work and
they would bring in food once a month and let
me tell you, girl, I'd be over there.
Speaker 5 (47:24):
Like, hi, hey miss Anne.
Speaker 1 (47:29):
Again.
Speaker 3 (47:30):
Yeah, this is the Asian food I never get to eat.
Speaker 1 (47:34):
I require it in my life. Yeah. Food is Bomba's buds. Yeah,
very well seasoned, Yeah, fantastic. Yeah yeah.
Speaker 3 (47:46):
All right, Well that's the end of this episode. You guys,
thank you so much for joining us. My name is
Wahima and this is sha Shaye. Tell them where uh
you know they can find you.
Speaker 1 (47:55):
Y'all can find me on TikTok, Shyleen says, and on
Instagram sugar she yes, and.
Speaker 3 (48:01):
For me, you can follow us docu Sweets on All
Things Docu Sweety's at Everywhere, but you can also follow
me at just camm me Wah on YouTube. I'm doing
Love After Locker recaps on YouTube as well as I
have a new drag persona which is Black Renaissance, So
you can find me on Instagram for.
Speaker 5 (48:18):
B l k at b l k R E n
E Sance s a U n c E and just
call me Wall everywhere.
Speaker 3 (48:26):
So thank you guys so much for joining us and
we will see you next time. Bye.
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