90 Day Fiancé:Happily Ever After? 0910 “It’s A Dogfight All the Way Home”

Wherein Andrei and Alex get into it at Yara's event. Issues abound on Kara and Guillermo's trip away. Darcey enlists Stacey's help. Matt asks Jasmine a life-changing question and Gino vows to get even. In Miami for the wedding, Brandon, and Julia face parental problems. 
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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Weird do do do do Do Do Do Do Do
Do Do Do Do Do do doo? Sweet do do
do do do do do doo. Sweetee Hey everyone, I'm
wa and I'm Chris, and welcome to Docky Sweeties. We're
too long time friends who discuss the riveting and sometimes
trashy world of reality TV and docuseries. Yes, but through

(00:21):
our own lens which sometimes uh is confused by the
song and title of the show, and sometimes not confused
and can quite honestly sing it. But at the same time,
what's happening with this one? So at this end of
the day, it's mildly confused, and this is what we're
talking about. It's not a day fiance. Happily. Ever, after
its Heason nine, episode ten, this title is called It's

(00:41):
a dog Fight all the Way Home and what no say? Also,
you said you were in a singer song. This is
a song that you'd notice sing. It's like all the
way home? Mm, all the way is that what they're
talking about in this title. I've not heard that song. No,

(01:04):
I know, it's like a child song that I can't
remember any other words too, except obviously the last part.
It might not even be true. But however, goodness gracious,
this doesn't make sense to me. I'm assuming it's a
title or scene from a movie. But what movie. It's
a way dog fight all the way home. It must
be some kind of it's a move. It's a movie

(01:25):
from the Yesteryear that we're all supposed to know, you know,
like Osta La Vista baby. Yeah, but it's not shaken,
not stirred yet. Nobody knows this. I mean not nobody,
just we. So if you out there know what this is, uh,
leave a comment. I doubt anyone does. If we don't,

(01:45):
I doubt anyone does. That's facts. Okay. So first couple
that we have on the chopping block is Julia and Brandon.
I didn't think I would be done with them this
early in the season. Oh I'm opposite. I'm so into them. Yeah,
I'm I'm happy about them. I'm so thankful for them.
Oh thankful. I you know what I see. I see
why you would be. But I guess I just get

(02:07):
so frustrated with Betty just not getting it, you know,
just like not getting it. M Yeah. So yeah, they're
at the farm, and they are there because Julia wants
to show her parents the farm. Obviously it's a it's
a must see, right. Well, I feel it's because she's
talking such shit about it this entire time to her

(02:29):
mom and her dad. She's like, look what I had
a fucking deal with? I mean, even like Betty's like,
how you doing? Feeling better to her to Julia, and
Julia saying, yeah, you felt undercut with tension, like it
was just like to be to like someone that you
had wronged. So obviously to be like, well, how you're feeling?
How are you feeling better after I've wronged you? Are
you feeling like in a better mood after I did

(02:51):
something fucked up to you? Was so shitty? You know?
Did you feel that way about that experience? Yeah? Yeah,
But I don't think Betty thinks that she did anything wrong.
Like I think really Betty is is on her she
has her cape on, and she is just trying to help,
and Julie is being so stubborn and young and silly,
and you know, the only thing I can think of

(03:13):
that she would want to do. But also, do you
do you notice how how Brandon is. Brandon doesn't recognize
that him and his family have things that they do
that are weird, and then when someone else has something
else that they do, he's unable to go. Oh, okay,
me and my family have have you know, transition or
not has traditions. So before they even go to the farm, right,

(03:36):
isn't this where they sit down? Or is that before Miami? No?
This is this before Miami? Okay, Well, anyways, I feel
like Brandon is being a really like about everything her
parents want. He's being very like mm hmm, that's crazy,
that's like wild, you know, like, but we do it
normal here. Yeah, how Betty raised me is the right

(03:59):
normal way. You guys are wild and crazy. I can't
believe I had to deal with it. But dealing with
me is not a problem. This is normal. Yes, yes, yes,
yes exactly. But yeah, no, I think that Betty is
just like she really thinks that she's right, and so,
you know, anything she says is warranted, I guess, and
she's not even really trying. It's almost like she feels

(04:22):
like Julia's mother will side with her. She can just
pantomime enough what she's talking about. Then yeah, it's really
it's really really awkward. Julia's mom didn't bring the right
shoes nor really like enough of fucking you know, enough
wine to deal with this woman. But truly, at one
point they say they're going to this farm to also

(04:42):
bury the hatchet because they all have to go to
the wedding redo in Miami and Julia does not want
tension there. Brandon also says that for Julia, when Julia
lived at the farm, which is why she must to
bring her mom there, Betty and her fucking went at it.
Hence they bumped heads a lo And why Brandon just
fully in the confessionals like, it's because Julia Betty the

(05:04):
same person. And I mean when he said that, I
was like, did you hear yourself? Did you just want
to know if you heard the words coming that we
heard out of your mouth? And also, Julie, did you
hear that? And also what do you feel like? And
what's the next moment from this? Because I'm assuming the
next moment after you say that and after she hears
that is like a full reckoning of what has happened,

(05:27):
which is that he married a Russian version of his mom.
And you know, it's interesting. I do feel like that
way also, But Julia and Brandon also do have a
playful quality, which makes me happy. For them, and it's
one of the reasons why I enjoy watching their segments.
Even though sometimes it feels forced and weird, like the
Betty parts, there are other parts that I don't mind
because it feels at least real enough that I don't mind.

(05:47):
I feel good about. Like, for instance, another real thing
is that one of the things that they bumped heads
about is Julia understanding And I've said this before, how
toilet paper's supposed to go. How it's supposed to go,
and how it's supposed to go is over over. So
it's like a waterfall coming over and the water just

(06:09):
flows down. But like you don't see waterfalls coming out
of weird, Well, maybe you do, but the whole part
of the story is like coming out of the back
feels weird, like you can't even access it, Like if
it was a waterfall coming out of the back of
a rock, you, I mean, I guess you'd have to
walk into the rock or something to get at it.
Even then, it just seems like wouldn't it be nice
if it was coming at you and less work for you?

(06:29):
And the way that you can make that for sure
happen is putting on your toilet paper right. Yeah. I mean,
I honestly never knew that that was a thing until
social media showed me that people actually thought about it.
I don't recall ever being taught either which way, and
so right now currently my toilet paper is waterfall the

(06:51):
right way, right way, But I don't know if I've
ever done it the other way. I can't recall because
I've never thought about it, and like, have I slipped
it around if it was bothersome I have flipped the
toilet paper roll around before, I know, but again it
wasn't like, oh, because this is the right way. It
was more so just because this is inconvenient to me.

(07:12):
But I don't think they're the same person, because I
think that Julia has more sense than Betty could have. Ever,
so for Brandon to say that, I wanted to be
like Brandon. If they are the same person, then side
with your wife. Side with your wife, because you sided
with your mother for thirty years. It's not the time
to switch teams, and she has your dad. Your dad

(07:34):
is siding hard with her anyway. Hard. Ron is a soldier, yes,
and I love that for Betty. I too want to
Ron in my life. I want somebody who's gonna side
with me hard, even if I'm deadpan wrong. Yeah, no,
I know, you know, but yeah, and listen, that's I
guess what marriage is. Now, I will tell you another
marriage we're watching, which is I mean Igor honey and

(07:54):
Julia's mom I forgot her name, God blessed. But one thing,
A funny thing about Egor is that he loves hot sauce.
I mean, and the thing about it is they get
to really enjoy hot sauce on these hot dogs, and
people don't talk about hot dogs enough. And the truth
of the matter is, I fucking do like hot dogs,
like I like a kilbosa, I like a bratwars, like
I do like a caseened sausaged meat, you know, and

(08:17):
it's processed and it's salty, and there's like hopefully relish
good mustard ketchup, perhaps even like peppers and onions involved,
you know, like how lovely and I mean hot sauce
got bless like, I mean, you can really tell how
Julia's morm is. Like this is fucking great, right meaning
right now, I got this farm shitty, but this fucking food.

(08:37):
Listen to barbecue and this I'll tell you, Julia shut
up because Betty, I mean her food slaps. I mean
that's you know, buttmo culture. Yeah. No, I definitely feel
like they had They definitely had some kill boss. The
situation going on with the peppers here. They call them brots,
like Broxbord, they call them brots. I've gotten a street
hot dog here and there, a street broth a hair

(09:00):
in there, and it's been great. So that's the one
thing I did learn to hear. It's like, I call
everything that isn't a hot link a hot dog here though,
because they don't have hot links because it's too spicy
for the folks. They have brought words and they have
brots and they have hot dogs, and you cannot you
cannot use them interchangeably. I've been corrected in many a
time when I'm like, I'll have a hot dog and
they're like, you meana brots. I was like, yep, I

(09:22):
mean a Brot's dog. Yeah. So she's like, we have
hot sauce in Russia, it's just not as hot, and
I was like, then it's not hot sauce because I'm
pretty sure that the hot sauce that's in Ron and
Betty's home is like something real, just regular, Okay, it's
something real, just mid not it's not heat. It's not

(09:42):
the heat that is in my kitchen right now. Everything
in my cabinet right now is hob and arrow. And
you know what's the hottest hobbin arrow. Trader Joe's Hobennarow
is wildly hot. And I'm like, I love Hotbennaro, but
Trader cut it's so, it's so a heat filled. So
Betty wants to know about the wedding plans, and she's like,

(10:02):
I want small wedding on beach, simple small wedding. And
and Betty has something to say. She's like, well, don't
you well and Julia is like, no, in front of
my mom, I and my daddy, get out of my business. Okay,
I'm gonna do it. I'm going to handle it on
my own. It's going to be fine. And then they
have some kind of cheersing to no drama in Miami,

(10:26):
and I was like, what are you drinking? What's that beverage?
Let's tasty? Whoever made that beverage? I feel like it's
you know, it was a good beverage to be to me.
But we know there is going to be drama. So
they cheers the no drama and when then the next
day they're on their way out. And that's where we
have this Russian tradition of just sitting for a second
before I loved it. I loved it. I loved it.

(10:47):
I loved it. So basically, you know, I mean, it's
just like, wait, Julia, we have a Russian tradition. And
she's like, what, Daddy to sit down before a long trip?
Oh what, it's because it's for a good trip and
it's like a healthy situation. She's like, yeah, now we
gotta do it today We're going to Miami, honey, because
they all fucking sit down. And Brandon's face the entire

(11:10):
time is like what is why? M And the thing
about it is, you're right, look at him in this.
He has to do worse than this every day and
has seen worse than this in this moment and will
for the rest of his life. You know what I'm saying,
Like that is the face of someone who has seen things.
And the truth of the matter is, I do love
this tradition. It means to slow down a fucking little bit.

(11:34):
It means to put some time in there. It means
to be like, well, this is the last time I'm
going to see you, you know, like God bless. One
thing I didn't realize is for some reason, I thought
you need to sit down and talk, but no, it's
also like and sit down and just kind of in silence,
like in like a solemn moment, which I do appreciate that,
but I also feel like a little like just everyone
here knows I love them and you should know that

(11:54):
no matter where we are in life, I love you
the rest of my times. Okay, but it you know,
it's like just in case anything ever. You know, it's
a nice gesture, you know. I agree. I agree it
was nice. I think it was weird that Brandon was like, Okay,
I guess we'll do this, like just go sit in
the car then like get out of my face, Brandon. Yeah,
I'm done. So they make it to Miami safely, and

(12:15):
I guess Betty and them got the hotel rooms because
Betty was so happy to give them their keys and
tell them, you know, we'll go rest and have a
good time and then we'll go out and we'll do
sight seating. And Julie is like, sure, we're tired, but
I guess we'll go sightseeing because that's what you want
to do Betty? Huh, didn't do it? Can't Betty? Just

(12:36):
like I mean, doesn't Betty want to go into the
hot tub and drink? Yeah? You know what I'm saying.
There's a hotel bar there, Betty. You know, like you're
also in Miami. This is like the you know, town
of Big Butts. You know that at least knows you
know what I'm saying, like Tan big butts everywhere, you know,
and like this, Betty should be getting it in, you know. Yeah.
They then have a next morning like out by the

(12:56):
beach where they kind of plan what's going to happen,
and the weather is not then great, it looks like
it's gonna rain or whatever. But at the same time,
we've been knowing that Julia wants like a beach wedding
and she doesn't quite have like an option B. And
I mean, listen, Betty wants there to be a full
understanding that when Betty plans something, there's plan A, Plan B,

(13:24):
and fucking plan C. But plan B stands for plan
Betty because she's famous for them. You know what her
Plan B is for her marriage that she marries wrong.
But plan B they swing and that's the bet it's
the Betty plan, and so listen, like when it comes
to planning a wedding, she's like, yeah, yeah, plan a
but you haven't planned anything until you've done the Betty part.
And the Betty part is I guess in this moment

(13:45):
to make sure that there's some sort of covering over there,
or if there's, it's gonna rain what her option is
and Julia wants to hear none of it, and neither
does her mom. Then they're both wearing beautiful pattern colors. Well, yeah,
so I understand that Betty feels like there should be
more planning involved, but she needs to also understand that
there is an opportunity for her to just take a

(14:07):
back seat, Like this is a grand opportunity for her
to just chill and not worry about something. Because she
already planned their wedding. She did it the first time.
So why is it that she feels so such the
need to be involved and like needed. I mean, it's
just that she wants to be needed, you know what
I mean? She because a daughter, so does she I
want you to you know she could you imagine if

(14:28):
she had no I don't want to for that poor child,
and that poor Charle's family, and like Brandon takes it
because he's listless and he needs somebody to just run
him around and tell him what to do. But like
if they had if they had a child that was
even as type A or whatever and half the drunk
and that Betty is, then like that child and Betty
would be fighting consistently and constantly. Now she's like, I

(14:52):
just want it to be known that I'm not going
to be involved, but like there should have been a
plan being it looks like it's going to rain, And
I was like, why do you have to be negative?
Why yogurt? Yeah, why do you have to be negative
about this? And so Julia is just like, well, you know,
there's no way for Jewel, okay, listen, There's no way
for Julia to understand that Miami has weather the way
a lot of Caribbean and or islands do. There are

(15:15):
certain times of the year where rain can just happen
upon you at any moment. And if she doesn't have
brand and who doesn't know anything about this country, so
she doesn't have a frame of reference to understand like
this also happened with Ashley and what's this face when
they try to get married in Florida. It happens. People
don't realize that Florida has a rainy season and you

(15:37):
should not plan anything on the beach and staid rainy season.
But it's an honest mistake. It's a mistake that I get,
especially if you're a foreigner. Yeah, she's straight up confused
California with Florida. Listen, the water might be better in Florida, absolutely,
but the weather is more consistently better in California. And

(15:59):
that's just the way it is. And I'm telling you
that as a professional Californian, you know, like, listen, you
can get married on the beach in California kind of
at least most of the time. Eighty five percent sure
that whatever you think is gonna happen weatherwise, like, and
what's happened for the past twenty years in the season

(16:21):
you're in is gonna be and even that, because you're
in southern California, we're literally saying it never rains. It's
a desert, so like it's gonna be fine, you know, Like,
and that's just you know, Baywatch happened here, it didn't
happen in Miami, you know. Yeah, those boobs bounced here.
Sorry West Coast, West Coast Bounty boobs here, I happened here, yeah,

(16:41):
or not here, but where my mind is all the time, California.
But yeah, So it's just so interesting because I'm like, yeah,
you know, the water's cold, and you might get a
cold wind in California, but you're not gonna have rain.
So she's talking with her parents then on the rooftop
and it's like, hey, guys, so guess what I have
a proposition for you. You want to move here? And

(17:03):
they're like, oh no. And I thought to myself, is
she an only child? I didn't realize if she is
an only child. I didn't realize she was. And also like,
she's an only child with divorced parents who I assume
have their own fucking lives. Just like, because they're divorced,
Igor and her mother, it would seem that asking them
to move to the US wouldn't make any sense because

(17:27):
I assume they have their own lives. I assume they
have their own partners and things they're doing that don't
revolve around Julia, who hasn't lived with them for at
least four years. I don't know. Julia is like trying
to parent trap her parents where she's like, i'might get everything.
I want my parents live right by me, need to
be free of Betty and my parents take it back together.
I'm not quite sure, you know what I'm saying, Like,
I would love a little more information about this, because

(17:49):
definitely we have a flashback to, of course, when they're
on last resort and she makes her promise. She's like,
I will give you child and you help me bring
my parents here, you know, which is true. But then
we thought at that point that I don't know, she
had done some due diligence, like asking them if that
was an option, or maybe they had talked, so in
this moment we think that like she's coming in with
such hot confidence, almost like and she's like I did it,
I sold my uterus and now I get to get

(18:10):
you here. But they're like what no, And so we
were yeah, We're like, Julia, you didn't think that, you
didn't think to have a convo first. Why are you
coming in like you think it's it? Like her mom
was like, I'm old, older now I think in Julia's mind,
she's like, yeah, that's why I have to get you
here now, bitch. Now never Yeah, but it's also like
what kind of healthcare do they have in Russia? Why

(18:31):
would they come here? This is I mean, everyone knows
that it's not the place for the elderly and healthcare wise,
Like if you're in a place where like they take
care of their elderly and there's like you know, Medicaid
or whatever, it is, the version of that like is
like stellar for their folks, Like you don't come here.
I'm like, I've never thought like a Russian person wants
to come to the US if their life in Russia

(18:52):
is fine. And Igor's like, no, I never thought of
this as my homeland. Let me tell it right now.
I'm in my homeland and I love it. It's a
large homeland too, Like there's a lot of different terrain
in Russia. I don't need to be in the US.
And I feel him, I feel him happens. So She's like,
we need to focus on building our own family, or

(19:12):
at least that's what one of them says, right, And
my thought is does that include Ron and Betty because
I think it does. Like She's like, hey, Brandon's like, oh,
my parents would help. They would love to help. And
I'm like, Brandon, we all know that Julia does not
want your family's help, like she, why don't you know that?
Why don't you Why don't you understand that they're not

(19:35):
getting along. Now, if a baby comes in and Betty
tries to baby that baby, Betty is going to be
like I can't even imagine what she's gonna put Julia through.
Julia's like, hey kid, no sugar before bedtime? And here
is Betty just like spoonfuls of sugar shove it in
that baby's mouth just to be spiteful to Julia. No,

(19:55):
I know, like Julia's hail Mary pass was like, I
can only have a child if I have had I
can't have help because I have to have help that's
built into my situation. That is my that I can trust,
and it isn't Betty. And the only reason why I
get Betty's if I had no other option, and the
only option I would have is my mom. And so
I'm just gonna like ask my parents both for them
to move. She should just ask her mom, honestly, but
got us, not her dad. Her dad can just be

(20:15):
eating whatever, you know, boring hot sauce he has there
and he can come visit. But her mom is the
one that probably she can get then I think, is
she the only child? Because what are the other kids?
I don't not so anyways, I'm worried for them, and
she's disappointed that they're pregnant, but you know that should me. Okay,
the trouble that they're trying to have in every the

(20:38):
throuple that they're trying to have in every single Matt
Sharp production, like every single Matt Sharp production. Now, if
they can throw in a throuttle, even if it's loosely related,
they will love after Locke. It is ridiculous with their throupple,
which is not even a thruble. Okay. So we're still
arguing where Libby and Andre are arguing with Alexi about
how we were talking about out Andre at this party

(21:01):
while they weren't there, and Liddy's like, well, I could
talk about you, Alexi, but I don't, and Alexi's like, well,
let's bring Lauren over. So he pulls Lauren in and
she is just going through it right, No, she's going
through there. There's like a tendon going down her neck
that is just constantly reverberating. And because Alexi's like, well,
let's bring my wife in and like, hey, wife, did
you tell these lovely people that I body shamed you?

(21:25):
And she's like, well, I might have used that word
because I felt like at the time and the way
that you were trying to motivate me was body shaming.
And then ANDREI picks up. Andre picks up on the
word body shaming, and like a pit bull, won't let
it go. I mean, he's like, you call me a dick,
but you body shamed your wife. I would never do that,

(21:48):
and he's yelling of course at the top of his lungs.
At Yarra's event, Jovie wants to know what's going on,
so Joey starts to walk over and missus Gwynn is like,
bring your nosytail back here, read then of your business,
come back the fuck up, and Joby's like, I want
to know. I want to know. Jobe's not like, oh,

(22:08):
I need to stop this, no para of it. He's
like watching gladiators fight or whatever. He's just like, let's
watch each other rip up. Like the idea of Alexi
and Andre going at it is like listen tantalizing, and
no one is more tantalized than Jovi. Oh my god,
he's so into it. And then so then Alexi and

(22:32):
Lauren realize that both Libby and Andre are being ridiculous,
and they're like, oh, we're just going to step away
because now it's getting louder than it already was, and
people are people are really watching us, So we're going
to step away. And then Libby and on there like
where are you going? We want to continue the shouting
match in front of an audience, and they walk away.

(22:52):
Yara starts to walk over and she's like, where are
you guys going? And they just started to slowly walk away,
like hey, we're going to go, and Yara is just
starts yelled to Barty, who does at a log Barty,
no drama, you know, like she like, yeah, Yara goes
fucking ape shit over. I guess the scene that has

(23:13):
been created and caused by them, that is being prolonged
by now a crying Yara, you know what I'm saying.
And there's some people watching in the back that are
just like, no, this whole thing is Yara's fault, because
Yura is the one who decided to tell Libby that
they were talking about Andre, Like this whole thing is
Yara's creation so then she's ugly cries, and her ugly

(23:37):
cry is ugly. I was like, girl, you need to
like I'm Then I thought to myself, what's mine like
if I'm by, But even then I covered my face.
I've never seen it, but it can't be as bad
as yours. Well, her face is botoxed. So it's like
that's her cry is not a normal cry. It isn't like,
you know, it's like a darcy cry. You can people

(23:58):
when you have a frozen face. You can only cry
a certain kind of way. Okay okay okay, okay, okay, okay,
okay okay ok Yeah. So she like it, starts to
walk away from the from the drama too, and she
Libby goes up to her and is like, oh my god,
I'm so sorry, and she's like, yeah, you should be
sorry because also we know that your husband lost seventy
five thousand dollars and they'd be said what She's like, yeah,

(24:22):
he told Alexi, and Alexi told us so just and
then then y Area admits to the camera, well, yeah,
I told her. I told her because she needs to
know she ruined my party, so she should feel bad.
That was I can't you can't. Unfortunately, like that's a

(24:43):
that's a petty, petty shitty move for a Yara. I
kind of it was probably the pettiest move I've seen
Yara make and a whole last second. And you know,
at the same time, this launch party is, let's just
be honest, has nothing going for it except for what's
happening in the film crew there for it, so you
are you should be so happy anything is happening. I
wish a Yara was in the back watching all this

(25:04):
rote down and instead of all the theatrics we're seeing now,
I wish we would see a yar being fucking eating popcorn,
being like exactly like I fucking plan now all these
people be talking about the crazy shit that happened at
my launch party, and like, I'll get a lot of
media attention because bad press is still press, and since
I created that, I will just enjoy and marinate in

(25:25):
my winnings instead of now you're right fake or ugly
botox cry and then also be mean to libby people
that you invited at your to your party and are
screaming for not being either professional or not know what
happens at a launch event. I mean, who Yara. I mean,
this is an excusable really she could to me, she
created all of this, So if she has a negative

(25:45):
outcome from it, then it's on it's on her because
she didn't have to tell Libby shit. She also she's
been just telling Libby shit, you know what I mean,
just telling her all the business at piecemeal, giving it,
giving it to her. So it's Lauren. It's like weird.
It's very weird. So Laura a Lexi leave obviously, and
that's the end of there. Whatever. And then Andrea is like,

(26:05):
Libby is like why did you tell them before? He's
like what, and he starts yelling some more and she's
like stop talking. And he's like just stop talking. Yeah,
He's like, you stop talking and relax. And I'm like,
oh god, Libby has made her bed. And I hope
that the sex and the orgasms that she has is
just and and I hope the sex, the orgasm and

(26:25):
the support that she has as a father, how he
takes care of his kids, because I do believe that Andrea,
because of his narcissism and his hubris, is like, I
take care of my son and my daughter like better
than woman. Like I love that its toxicity makes it
so that he will do anything. He'll I changed diaper
better than Libby, you know, it's like great, yeah, you

(26:47):
do change the diaper better than me. Go ahead, show
us how you change the diaper, baby. And so he's
just like arguing with her, and she's just like you
told our frenzy before you told me unforgivable, unforgivable. Yeah,
we forget. Like even when Andre goes up to be
like yao, you know, like you know what's happening, She's like,

(27:08):
you like to fight, go fight to him, you know.
Yara is like she really is, just like here's some
bacon fight over it, you know, like you like mangy dogs,
you know what I'm saying, Like you like and so yeah,
like it's so it is, so yeah, Yara has Yara
hates everyone involved in one fiance, and I think it's
because from top to bottom she thinks she's better than them.

(27:28):
And I'm not saying she is or isn't, but I'm
saying that's what I think she is thinking. So yeah,
that's the end of their nightmare. And I never want
to see Lauren Alexi again. Okay, let's move on to
Matt and Jasmine and Gino. Okay, so Matt and Jasmine
are on some weird fall date or they're just gonna, like,

(27:49):
you know, fucking talk about marriage and talk about rings
and be in some weird chariot, you know, and there's
fallen leaves and go to like this place called post
or proofs I forgot, I mean an a prost post
but it basically just cheers and Russian and he we
get Matt like in I guess, a performance that only

(28:12):
a lifetime movie could love of, like someone who really
cares for the innocent Ophelia that is a Jasmine. Like
the way that they have written the POV of a
Matt in this is so off base of what we

(28:38):
know to be true. It's so confusing. All of this
is so like her weird, very fake relationship with Matt,
but then also this baby, and also her relationship with Gino,
but for some reason, Dana and Michelle's relationship with Jasmine
all and then of course now we'll talk about later
on Geno and relationship with his family. It's also oh

(29:01):
col alluded and weird, and parts feel incredibly real and
parts feel incredibly fake, and I cannot, like, I don't
know what I'm waving in, to be honest, was lying
underneath my feet if you will. Yeah. No. They are
on this carriage ride and he has basically taken off
her ring that you know gave her and is like,

(29:21):
you don't need that anymore. You're with me, and pretends
to throw it out, and she's like, no, at least
let me pawn it. Thrown it out. I think it's
so she's still wearing her cheetah, but cheetah on leopard.
And they get to Proust or Proust or prost and
it means cheers in German, and it means idiot in Romanian,

(29:43):
and it means is the abbreviation for prostitute in Spanish.
And I was like, Matt speaks Romanian. Okay, we have
another Romanian speaker in the he else And now it
made me go, what countries speak Romanian besides Romania, because
it feels like obviously well Over does, as well as
maybe Bulgaria. Hm is Albanian, a different language, like I

(30:07):
now have questions about all all the things. So she says,
you know, matth you do love me so much even
though I'm so grumpy, and you know how I can
be sometimes and they get to they go and sit outside.
She's like, oh, look, it's a chimney and I'm like,
do you mean a fireplace or is there a chimney outside?
Just going to nowhere? How co Manada show us the
chimney or is it the fireplace? She's like, is this

(30:28):
real fire and the server's like yeah, She's like, oh nice,
And I was like, oh, I like that too. I
love a fireplace. I wish that I could have one,
except for the fake one that I have right now.
She tells matth that this is the best sex, that
he is the best sex she's ever had, and I said, wow,
you must really, like he must get on your nerves
outside of this for you to just be with somebody
who's the best sex you've ever had and you don't

(30:50):
have some kind of emotional connection to them, who are
ad Jasmine's fucking is the best sex she's ever had?
Oh okay? Uh. So we we then have Matt who's like,
I have something to tell you, Like I has something
to tell you, and she's like, just get it out.
I need to know. So she ends up telling He
ends up telling her that he's moving to Florida and

(31:13):
that she should come with him, and he's he's She's like, what,
I'm sorry, Florida that, And I'm like the fact that
she's not jumping on this is so weird because that's
where the fuck she wanted to move when she first
got to Michigan. Well, it's maybe because he said that
he has a job opportunity for a business idea. That's
what he said, he has a job opportunity for a

(31:35):
business idea. I just really, those are the words that
came out of that person's mouth. Well, never mind, a
job opportunity for a business idea is like something AI
wrote or I'm not quite sure, but it's just it's
neither here nor there. It's neither up nor down. It's

(31:56):
like saying nothing and something at the same time. It's
like a celet Peri's apology. It's like what, I'm sorry. What.
There is this tendency I guess in language and communication
right now, I guess to be as vague as possible,
so it's not to be like specific enough to offend

(32:16):
or at least like and or lay bare any sort
of goals or vulnerabilities. And it's just a little I
don't know, which is a little funny because I feel like,
in no realm, in other worlds would we accept that
sentence without further elaboration. Oh, I'm sorry, I'm sorry Jasmine? Like,
why would Jasmine not be like, come again, what do

(32:39):
you have, Matt? You have a job opportunity for a
business idea? What business? What job? Just wondering if you'd
ask me to move? Just wondering if you could elaborate,
because I hear job opportunity for business idea and that's like,
what am I even standing on this God's earth? Or
am I in a dream? Like? What? You know what

(33:00):
I'm saying? I don't know? Is that just annoying to me?
I guess so I've talked about it from I mean,
I was livid by that. It's annoying because it doesn't
lay out clearly what it is that he has going on.
But the only thing I can think of is maybe
they're filming and he doesn't want to tell them specifically
what's going on. That's the only thing I could think
of that would say that. But she immediately gets upset.
She's like, when were you going to tell me? He's like, well,

(33:22):
it already happened, and I did it because I didn't
want you to talk me out of it, And I'm like,
but you're not in a relationship with her, Matt, So
as soon as you found out this out, you should
have been like, Hey, you're gonna have to talk with
Gino about some other living arrangements because I have an opportunity.
I have a job opportunity for a business idea in Florida,
and I need to go and my lease is up

(33:43):
next month. Like that's what the comments like, He's trying
to control her by withholding information. That's what it is
to me when I but maybe it's not. You know,
I feel like when someone withholds information, it's controlling whether
or not they believe so or not. It makes it
so that you now rely on the little pieces of

(34:04):
nugget of information that that person is giving you and
then you have to like wait, wait for it. So
he though is like, yeah, I didn't want you to
talk me out of it, but it's like, how would
she be able to talk you out of it? She's
again not your girlfriend, so this is all very very weird.

(34:24):
And she's upset as I think I would be, and
she's like, I need time to think about it, and
he's like how long, And she's like, I don't know.
Just time again, another another controlling tactic. I don't know
how much time. Why can't you just say I'm gonna
need at least a week. I'm gonna need a week
to think about it because I have such and such

(34:45):
happening on this day and this day, and then I'll
be free to really think about it on Wednesday. Like
it's just like it's getting another controlling tactic. So she
tries to use it, and so he's dumb if he
feels any kind of way about it. But he's been
extending his lease. And let me tell you, when you
extend your when you go on month to month after
being an elase, it's at least a thousand dollars more So,

(35:05):
like he's been paying a lot of money to keep
this quiet. And that's the choice that he made because
he didn't have to keep it quiet from her. He
could have told her immediately and then not paid the
extra money. Yeah, for them to go back to Panama
with their kids. So and like, you know what, but things,
you know, those are not that by the way, never
gets talked about ever in her life, just like her

(35:25):
child in Panamam never talked about that man. Never even
a conversation since breaking up a Gina not not brought
up once. Just so interesting just because it was I mean,
even for her to not bring it up or make
the producers, you know, at least address it. It's just
an interesting tactic if everything is fake anyway, you know. Yeah.

(35:49):
So basically after that, we get you know, golf with
Anthony and that's you know, having some indoor golf in Michigan.
It's very cold now, so for them to go to
the dry range, honey and hit them balls, which he
hasn't done a long time, requires this. Now he can't
play golf, he can't drive, he doesn't know how to
do it. Anthony does. And also I don't know if

(36:09):
Anthony's gonna watch this episode, but he if he does,
what a fucking horrible insult and prediction. Do you know?
He's like, I like hanging out with Anthony because Anthony
used to look like me when I was young. That's
what he said. I know he said it, and I
was like, oh no, that's not what. No, if you there,
if you are Anthony and you hear that, then you
think this person thinks that we look alike a B.

(36:31):
We think this person thinks that I'm going to turn
into this person, and I'm going to look like this
person when I get it, when I get old. That's
what I would consider to be what happens from that statement.
And if I'm Anthony listening to that, I mean maybea
turned to data. I'm like, oh, I never talk to
you again. I'm not quite sure, you know, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
So he's lamenting to Anthony how the family has turned

(36:51):
against him and Jasmine is living in the lapse of
luxury while he's there suffering. And I'm like, gin know,
why do you think that Jasmine is living her best life?
She's not. It is clear to anybody that she's not
living her best life right now. You've kicked her out
of her home that legally she is entitled to live
in because she is your lawfully wedded wife. She's now

(37:13):
living piecemeal with some guy that she was just having
sex with, and you dropped off all her shit in
the back of your car. The only reason why Gino
feels like Jasmine is living it up and living her
best life is because he's not. Because he didn't get
Natalie at the end, Because he doesn't know how to
procure a woman who has any amount of common sense
or isn't a foreigner trying to get to the US,

(37:36):
Like that is what Gino's problem is, is that he
cannot date an American because an American will see right
through his cheap Shenanigan bs once they get over the
fact that he's kind of quirky and like awkward, and
that quirky cuteness goes away when they start to realize
that he's dumb cheap and that he's also scared to
say things. He'll just do stuff and then be like

(37:56):
I didn't want to tell you because and you need
to get shit and all that shit, Like he's so silly.
So now because he doesn't get Natalie, he thinks it's
Jasmine fault that he's no longer with Natalie. But then
on National TV he's like, yeah, Dana didn't even come
out and check check on Natalie after she got her
ass whipped, And I was like, did you just what?

(38:17):
You weren't gonna check on her until Dana told you?
Did you? If I were Natalie watching that episode, I'm like,
did that motherfucker just say I got my ass whooped?
Because I didn't because if the producers in security hadn't
stopped me from fucking Jasmine up, I would have beat
her fucking ass. Now I need to redo. I'm gonna
needs you to re edit that shit. I'm already needs

(38:38):
you to re edit to see how hard I tried
to fight her and they pulled me out of the
situation because she's the insured cast mate. Like I just
am like the fact that he said that Natalie was
the one getting her ass whopped. I was like, okay,
ass whooped is like a relative term because that's not
what happened. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah Natalie. I guarantee you

(39:01):
if Natalie had been allowed, she would have beat Jasmine up.
Ain't no way. Oh I wish we had seen it,
you know, like I want to see Alexi and and
Andre fully go at it. And also yes, Natalie and
Jasmine absolutely like that is I mean how much money
we would pay? I mean like it could be like
talk about all that shit that happens on Triller or
fucking all the Paul brothers. I pay so much anyway,

(39:21):
so much money or mad at Gino because you know
has such fucking words from out Sure ugly sure that
I mentioned he didn't eat as a child, there was
no nutrients in his body. He's fucked up, and like,
I mean, like you're just like what do you know?
Do you know? Is so crazy? He's like I hate
everyone now I'm burning the whole fucking house down. My
fuck my family, Dana. He's not a family, he's not

(39:42):
a friend. He's a fucking foe. You're on one side
or you're on that side, and my side is the
better side. You're just like what I mean, Gino, Gino
has been I feel like it's probably right now. Guni
probably has never been hornier in his whole life, and
probably is only sad because there's no one now to
fuck him. My thing is is that this is I

(40:02):
knew Gina was not to be trusted with the way
that he describes things or his words, Like you know,
there's like people who tell the truth, and there's people
who tell their truth. Gina was somebody who tells their truth,
which is not to be trusted. So like he is
a nutball. And you know, they showed a picture of
young Gino and young Dana, and I felt bad that

(40:24):
they weren't. I mean, you see a young picture of
anyone with like some wood paneling back background. You know
it's been a you know they've been friends for a minute,
wood paneling background, and you're not friends anymore. And that's
your actual cousin. It's sad to say, but I took
I did take screenshots actually of the I now have

(40:46):
a memory of taking screenshots of the conversation. I won't
bring it up, but basically, it is just so sad
that Gino can't see that he is what exactly Dana said.
You were the creator of your own demid. You caused this,
but he can't see it. Well, I will say, the
only thing that's messy is the fact that they invited her.

(41:09):
They don't need to invite Why do they need to
invite jasmina. I guess because they really feel like she
has no one here in Michigan. And I feel like, well,
then I don't know, I guess I decide as far
as I know, they invited Jasmine before they knew that
Natalie was coming. That is what. Because I feel like
when Gino says Natalie's coming, Michelle's like, well, you know,

(41:32):
Jasmine's coming, And I think that he knew that. Michelle
and Jasmine still spoke. It's like he wanted his entire
family to shut Jasmine out, and that's that's an unfair
thing for him to want if they don't feel like
she did anything wrong in a relationship, if he did
the things that are wrong, and he yeah, he he

(41:54):
somehow he didn't tell his family what was like. I
don't know, Like he's just he's never I don't know.
He never seemed to really be able to just be
like you guys, she's been emotionally abusive me the entire time,
and when I came and brought her here, like she
screamed at me so much. I mean, then does have
divorced her? I guess or I don't know why he's

(42:14):
been a weird Yeah, he won't shit or get off
the pot. And that's a big he is. He is
kind of like a king of playing limbo or like
the image you could have of him is like one
leg on one sofa and one leg on a chair
and then just trying to like always balance in between
with a fear of ever just landing somewhere and making
a decision. It's really it feels like probably a trauma

(42:36):
response from a childhood power dynamic or dynamic that really
he sits in and like habit loops in such a
way and either doesn't have like the intelligence or emotional
intelligent or kind of like ability to cognively understand and
try and change or at least see a pattern and

(42:58):
then try and actively go against the pattern just for
shits at giggles. Yeah, it's like he doesn't want to
feel bad. He doesn't want to be made to feel bad,
and then with that being the thing he's scared of,
he doesn't isn't always honest with what's going on, like truth, true,
true honesty. Yeah, Dana has to speak to about all this.

(43:18):
I think that Dana was to really like I think
Dana should be like, look, I'll just be honest. His
dad was, he had Gino, had a very intense dad, guys,
and so I think a lot of what you guys
see is honestly like someone who lives in the trauma
of being in a I mean, I don't know these
are not true, by the way, what I just said,
who knows allegedly, But what I'm saying is I would
like Dana to provide context, you know. Yeah, yeah, all right,

(43:41):
So next we have is Darcy and Stacey. We start
Sorry Darcy and Georgie, but a little Stacy. We start
off this episode with them talking about poop again. It's
like I can't get away from the Silver Twins and
them talking about how they have to go to the bathroom,
how they haven't gone to the bathroom, how they need
to go to the bathroom. And so she's like, oh,

(44:01):
I'm pregnant. It's like I have a bloating baby. And
he's like, how long has it been since? And so
then we have this stupid conversation. I don't want to
talk about it. She starts talking about how she's like
had a hot flash and and just all this stuff,
and I'm just like, oh my god. So it's there.
So they she's like, oh, tomorrow is a big day.
What's tomorrow, let's say it together bright She's like anniversary.

(44:27):
He's like yeah, it's waiting for you to say it.
And I was like, wow, that's crazy. Not a good sign, honey,
not a good sign. No. But then I'll tell you
what is a good sign. His parents coming in with
wine time. Honey. It's tick TikTok, it's wine o'clock. Countries
have tea and some have wine. And so it is
wine time and Darcy's into it, and you know, like,

(44:50):
you know, honestly, yeah, George's parents are lovely for this
and they're like, we'll throw you guys a party, and Darcy,
you know, she just has to keep being like, Darcy, you,
I love you just like you were my daughter that
I had when I was negative too, and like, you know,
like I love you so much and thank you so
much being part of the family. La h. You know,
like that's nice. And Darcy does look really really put

(45:13):
together again, like this is the best we've seen in
Darcy look in terms of hair and makeup. Mm. Yeah,
she was great. So I didn't think she didn't say anything,
but I thought to myself, well, weren't you planning on
doing a a private, intimate anniversary thing. And I thought
they were going to make that a big deal. I
thought she was going to be like, well, now your

(45:33):
parents are throwing us a part and we have to
come back because we plan to do something here. And
I'm so glad that she didn't like complain about that,
that she was just like, oh great, I feel that
makes me actually feel really loved. And they haven't seen
you in seventeen years so you know, yeah, so like,
I love that she's excited about that. So, but they
do go to wherever they're going to actually stay, like

(45:54):
whatever hotel, and I was like, yeah, you do need
to get at the parents' house, like you need to
get other parents. So Darcy don's a scarf and I
referred to her as Babushka Darcy. I didn't take a
picture of it, but she don's a scarf and a
furry jacket and then pretends to be like a little
barking dog before getting into the car. After Georgia Alba

(46:15):
pushes her in the car because he's like, if you
don't get your ass in the car so I can
say back to my parents, buy myself in peace without
you staring and glaring at us. Yeah, so she's like okay,
So she gets in the car. He hugs his parents,
and then he gets in the car and uh. At
some point she's left alone, maybe he went to sleep,
and she calls Stacy and she's like, Stacy, guess what, girl,
They're throwing us a party. That means that love me,

(46:37):
so you have to come. And Stacy's like, hmmm, I
don't know if I can come and she's like, I'll
pay for your luggage. And what pay your luggage? What
does that even mean? I want to go by back
because like because it was her luggage as an extra
five hundred dollars. Yeah, but then if you're paying okay,
but here's the thing, paying for your ticket is one thing.
Why would you be like, hell, here's an extra two

(46:59):
hundred dollars just your luggage, you know, like because if
you're paying for someone, if someone's already paying for their ticket,
I want to pay for your ticket then and have
them pay for their luggage extra luggage. I don't know,
It's just like seems I don't know. To me, that
was interesting. Of course, Stacey, you're gonna come. You have
absolutely nothing else happening right now, and there's cameras on you,
and you're living for that. Also, I love the fact
and my love I mean, I want to bring up
the fact that when Darcy starts talking about what it's

(47:21):
been like in Bulgaria, Darcy's basically like kind of positive, like, oh,
it's been this, it's been great, it's been great. We
of course it's been like some sad times. And that
is honestly, when I saw Starcy Starcy, Stacy kind of
go go in and be like, well, it's never been
great between you two. You know, it's been up and
down and more like down. You've broken up twice and
he doesn't respect you. And I almost was like, all right, Stacy,

(47:41):
I can see you trying to like make your sister
feel bad. She's literally in the home country of her
husband who it's through almost your anniversary. They're on camera
and she's got down and telling you how it's mostly
been good. Why can't you just be like, oh good,
if you want to have your little pointed aside, be like,
I'm so happy it's been positive for you. Guys. It
seems like everything is working out. You know what I'm saying,

(48:04):
Like you could still do something without being so shitty
and negative. Yeah, you're right. I mean I'll take a
lesson learned from that, because to me, i'd been like, yeah, no, remember,
I want to remind you that this is not right.
I want to remind you that this that I don't know,
there's a part of me that just like cannot go
into calamity with somebody, and I feel like Stacy's just
been going into calamity with Darcy they've been doing it

(48:27):
to each other, but let's just say we're talking specifically
about Georgie. They have been walking, she has watched Georgie
treat Darcy bad. She's watched them break up twice. She
has watched all kinds of stuff go on. Then they
end up getting married. Then she finds out that the
man won't even tell her about his own finances. Like,

(48:48):
I get why Stacy said it, but good for you
for being like, oh, that's great. By then I would
have already not been friends with Darcy. I can't watch Calamity.
I can't watch people just like make continuously make silly choices.
But so they get there and so then no, So
Darcy and Georgie are taking a walk around Bulgaria. I mean,

(49:11):
this really is Georgie's opportunity to show all of America
why they should travel to Bulgaria. And I thought to myself, Oh,
I would go, but I would need to go with
somebody who's local, because I don't think there's a lot
of black people traveling there. And I'd feel really insafe
with the way that like foreigners think of Black Americans
because of like the negative things that have been pushed

(49:32):
out by our country about us, so like I can't
go to those places, but I want people who can
to go so that I can like take like live
vicariously through them. So they go through some amphitheater part
and just starts to keep saying over and over again
how happy she is and how it's so beautiful and
she loves being there, and I'm like, oh my god, Darcy,

(49:53):
you don't have to talk every moment of this. You
don't have to continuously like we know you think it's beautiful.
We can actually see that it's beautiful and it's very
like old school Europe and it's something that I've never seen,
and I'm happy that we are here so that I
can see bulgarian what it looks like. And so she's like, oh,
I'm the queen and uh no, he says it. He's
someone says God or goddessesn't get it missed up. And

(50:15):
I'm like, why are you guys the same? Why is
one a monarch and one a deity? Very confusing? Oh
I see what you're saying, Queen and God? Uh yeah,
you know you're right. It's like, you know, yeah, monarch
and mark sovereign and sovereign powerful person and powerful person. Okay, no,
powerful person and almighty being. That's what it is, like, Oh,

(50:37):
you're a powerful person and I'm an almighty being. I'm like,
what You're right, I guess because maybe like in like
I'm in the Greek realm of the gods, it felt
like gods and humans were in like kind of pure level.
Sometimes sometimes someone was half in half, which makes no sense,
you know whatever, So maybe I don't know if like
it's so basically when are a beautiful place, you know.
Darcy then gives a bit of information that she is

(51:01):
invited Stacy, and Stacy and Florian are coming to this situation,
and Georgie at first, you know, obviously isn't happy about it,
but then it has to like acquiesce at their family
and also maybe he likes Florian, so he's like, oh,
you know, and the cameras are there. But in the
confessional he's like, look, you know, us just trying to
say sometimes when you guys get together, things go down

(51:27):
sometimes what I'm saying. And Darcy listens to this with
the straightest mouth and absolutely giving nothing, as if we've
never seen these twins fight, nor no that that are
gonna fight in Bulgaria at this party. But literally, Stacey
literally Darcy's like this just like the whole time he's talking,
just like, just like she can neither confirm nor deny

(51:53):
these allegations tight lipped. I mean, yeah, I can either
neither confern or deny this, and we all know that
it's an actual confirmation. So he's like, yeah, I just
don't want to deal with the Silver Twin drama. And
so that's the end of their segment. Stacy and Florian
are on their way. Okay, our last couple. Oh I

(52:15):
love that. Sorry, I love that. Like literally, Darcy's like,
bring something real fucking sexy and a red lip like
for you for you to wear because you've been like
dying to wear something sexy in Bulgaria or I mean like,
you know, are you trying to set up Stacy to
look like the sluttier twin. I was like yeah, yeah, yeah,
because I was like, why would you don't want her
to look better than you ever? You guys are at

(52:36):
odds all the child you wear that red lip. I
love that Carlette lip. I know car a lot. Okay,
so Gearmont and Kara this got sad again. I was like,
oh my God, I thought we were in an upward trajectory,
but it's no, there's honestly far too much hurt. And
Kara does not want to she does not want UH

(52:58):
to be in this relationship. That that's what this tells me,
because she says, what did I ever do to make
you not trust me? And he said you hid the
phone from me? Yeah, and she goes, well, you were
looming over me. And I was like, okay, well, okay,

(53:19):
well you asked a question and he answered you yeah.
And instead of you're taking responsibility for what you did
to make him not trust you, you don't. Maybe it's
you just cheating, my mom told me. And I was like, oh, Granma,
you gotta get this resen ship. And also when her
mom told her was nothing but he came home and

(53:41):
he took a shower. That's what That's what her mom
told him. Sorry, I mean, I were jumping ahead just
because it was so because it's just I'm so sorry.
I just felt like it was like crazy to hear
and I'm I mean, to someone who seems normal and
has like rational intelligence for her to hear herself say it,
I'm like, your mom basically has told you that she
he's cheating on him, on you because he came home

(54:02):
and took a shower, and you have the audacci say
that to him. I have never been more I know
that Kara is cheated on him, And also the parts
where Kara's like, let me ask you this and look
at me right now, you've never fucking fucked anyone else
while you married me. And when she said that and
dared him to say, well, of course or yes, I
was the holdest because she wants an out because she did, Yeah,

(54:28):
come with receipts. If you say it like that, your
receipts cannot be because two days ago my mother told
me that you took a shower. I'm sorry, go ahead,
and I just so I really was mad. Now I
was meant at too, and I think there where I
think that to me, if we're tellying up what's going on,
she was pregnant postpartum, and he doesn't understand and or

(54:52):
respect that. That was very clear in that moment when
she's like, well, I was just going through it because
I was with Nico all day. You would come home
and you and his response was, well, I was tired.
I just came home from work and I was like,
oh yeah, no, no, Germo, you're wrong, Like either no
one explained to you what postpartum is or they did,
and you don't believe it. You feel like the women

(55:15):
you knew all your life never had postpartums, so that
must be some funny American thing and women are weak
or whatever. We're now at a place where nobody comes
at anyone who's post, pre or post. We know that
a lot of shit is happening in a woman's body,
and for a man to not be completely sensitive to that,
like I watched my friends go through it, and I

(55:36):
watch their husbands either step up to the plate or
not step up to the plate. And the ones who
have stepped up to the plate are the ones who
are still married. Like, you have got to understand. You've
got to listen to those doctors, You've got to go
to these classes. You've got to understand that a postpartum
woman is nothing to be played around with for at
least two years after the kid is fucking born. There's
still a lot going on and if you are not

(55:57):
sensitive to that as a partner or a husband or whatever,
then fuck you. And so Giermo's response to that was
wrong and so when she's like, well, then I started
going out to kind of alleviate the stress, and he's like, well,
then you started going out a lot, a lot, and
then she can't admit to the fact that she just
like was like, well, fuck it. If you're gonna live

(56:19):
your life, then I'm gonna live my life. I want
to be happy. I'm gonna do what it takes for
me to be happy. And so to me, it's like, oh,
this needs to go, Like you didn't support her when
she needed the support, and when she's brought it to
your attention, you seemingly have not truly stepped into the
space of like, I fucked up. And then when it's

(56:40):
time for her to step up and be like, yeah,
I fucked up, she's not willing to do so either.
So these are two very proud young people. And the
fact now that he knows that her family is not
for their union, because if her parents were for their union,
they would not have even said that yes, you're right, unless,
of course, something actually happened that they saw yes yes,

(57:01):
and then at that point they should have confronted Gearmo
sure like because they're now all family. So then you're like, hey, Geemo,
it seems to me that this is very fishy that
you came home, and even though you can't even you
can't even say that because it's stupid. But if you
really did think that he was cheating, like you then
need to be able to say to him too, because
at that point you're you know, it's just it's crazy

(57:22):
to me that these people who have family can come
out of country. Don't understand that these folks don't have nobody,
and they can't just be acting up and doing whatever
they want to do. They have to like think about
the foreigner who came to this country, even if it
was for fasies. You're you're family members, and the one
who brought them here. So I yeah, it's just really
sad to see them have a conversation and both not
hear each other and miss the complete point of where

(57:43):
each of them did each other wrong and be able
to go, oh fuck I fucked up, Oh fucking I
fucked up. Okay, sorry, we can move on from here.
The scene ends with her as being like, I don't
think you're my person. Yeah, so that's well, yeah, I
mean heart scene all right, Well, we let's end on

(58:03):
a really horrible note. Okay, yeah, it's great. Okay, so
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(58:25):
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(58:48):
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(59:09):
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(59:31):
alrighty bye bye