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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hey everyone, Logan Cruz here and welcome back to Dopamine
Reset Journal. Ever feel like you're constantly running on empty,
like there just aren't enough hours in the day to
get everything done, and you're always saying yes, even when
your inner voice is screaming no. Well, buckle up, because
today we're diving into something super important. Setting healthy boundaries. Now,
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before you start thinking this sounds like some stuffy self
help seminar, hear me out. This isn't about becoming a
hermit who lives in a cave, although sometimes that does
sound appealing. It's about taking control of your time, energy,
and well being. Think of boundaries as the invisible fences
around your mental and emotional space. They define what's okay
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and what's not okay for you. And let me tell you,
strong boundaries are like superpowers. They give you the freedom
to say yes to the things that truly matter and
know to the things that drain you. So here are
five key takeaways to remember about setting those healthy boundaries. One,
boundaries are a sign of self respect. Seriously, people, when
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you set boundaries, you're saying I value myself, my time,
and my energy. It's not selfish, it's self care. One
oh one. Imagine someone constantly borrowing your favorite sweater without asking.
Wouldn't you feel frustrated? Boundaries work the same way with
your emotions and time. You deserve to be treated with respect,
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just like that beloved sweater. Two different relationships require different boundaries.
Think about it. Your boundaries with your boss will probably
look different than your boundaries with your best friend or
even your family. It's all about understanding the dynamics of
each relationship and finding what works for you. What's acceptable
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in one context might be completely off limits in another. Three.
Learning to say no is a superpower. This is probably
the hardest part for many of us. We're often taught
that saying yes is always better, but that's not true.
Saying no allows you to prioritize your own needs and commitments.
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It can be as simple as saying, I appreciate you asking,
but I'm already swamped right now, or that doesn't quite
fit my schedule. Remember, a polite no is always better
than agreeing to something you can't deliver on. Four. Be
clear and assertive about your boundaries. Vague requests can lead
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to misunderstandings and frustration. When setting a boundary, be direct
and specific. About what you're comfortable with and what you're not.
For example, instead of saying I'm busy, try saying I
have a prior commitment at that time. Clarity is key. Five.
Be consistent. This is where the real magic happens. Once
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you set a boundary, stick to it. Consistency shows others
that you're serious about your needs and expectations. It might
feel awkward at first, but over time people will adjust
and respect your boundaries. Ever find yourself saying yes to
something just to please someone else, even though deep down
you know you don't have the time or energy. That
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nagging feeling of resentment after agreeing yeah, that's a boundary
violation waiting to happen. Picture this. You're invited to a
networking event that sounds super interesting, but it clashes with
your weekly yoga class, something you truly value for your
mental well being. Do you cancel yoga and force yourself
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into a social situation that might leave you drained, or
do you politely decline the invitation and stick to your priorities. Remember,
saying no doesn't make you a bad person. It makes
you someone who prioritizes their own well being. It's about
honoring your commitments to yourself first, so remember these key takeaways.
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Boundaries are signs of self respect. Different relationships require different boundaries.
Saying no is a superpower. Be clear and assertive when
communicating your boundaries, and most importantly, be consistent. Setting healthy
boundaries takes time and practice, but trust me, it's worth it.
You deserve to feel good, energized, and in control of
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your life. And remember, I'm here for you every step
of the way. So go out there, set those boundaries
and reclaim your power. Before you head out, I want
to hear from you. What are some ways you're working
on setting healthy boundaries. Share your thoughts in the comments
below or tag me on social media. Let's keep this
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conversation going until next time. Stay awesome and remember you
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