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Speaker 1 (00:00):
So the podcast where.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
We sip the tea, spell the truth and try not
to lose our minds in this cosmic.
Speaker 3 (00:05):
Group project called life.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
The weekend is gone. The alarm was disrespectful, and if
your coffee didn't hit right this morning, I feel you.
Speaker 3 (00:14):
But we're here. We made it.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Another Monday, another chance to pretend we've got it all together.
Coming up. We've got wild headlines, Reddit mess, some wire
humans like this moment, and of course my hot takes
that nobody asked for. But you're gonna get anyway. So
grab your iced coffee, your green juice, or whatever gets you.
Speaker 4 (00:32):
Through the chaos.
Speaker 2 (00:33):
Let's get into it because Earth is still ghetto, and
I've got the receipts.
Speaker 5 (00:40):
What's up, everybodyday? Happy Monday? Oh my gosh, on bizo
go oh vacation.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Do you hear me?
Speaker 5 (00:52):
I'm ready? Oh man, I'm so excited I've been. When
you go on vacation and you're somebody like me who
constantly worries about everything. I was like out today doing
stuff and driving around, and I was like, I have
to stay alive so I can make it on this
trip to this beach. I got to get to this speech.
(01:12):
But yes, I definitely am ready to roll. I'm ready
to see the beach. I'm ready to smell the ocean.
I'm ready just to do nothing and get blacker and
ever loves of vitamin D and some of my husband's
D playing at fashion exercise. How was y'all weekend? Other
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than that, I went to a comedy show with my
best friend and my sister. Was really fun. It was
little birthday pre birthday gifts for event from them to me.
It was to night we saw d Ray. It was
pretty funny. Other than that, the weekend really really flew by.
Started like packing and getting things together, start of having
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dreams about packing, because you know, when you're on the trip,
like boom, there's like always something I can't find. Like
I had a swimming suit that I wanted to wear,
I have a zero idea where it is and a
skirt that I literally just had on here, Okay, a
zero idea where it is, but also how to find it.
I guess something in the next twenty four hours. But
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other than that, y'all, let's I mean. I went to
the gym today. My stomach was hurting bad on the StairMaster,
but I thugged it. Out.
Speaker 6 (02:28):
What did I watch?
Speaker 5 (02:29):
Oh, we watched the New Superman. It was pretty good.
I had very low expectations, but it was actually really good.
I liked it. I mean, it was action packed, was
stressing me out the dog in a nice touch. I
liked it. You know, it was a lot of dialogue.
But you know, other than that, it was fine. I
(02:50):
wish they'd quit remaking the Supervans and like stick to something.
It was nice to see Christopher Reeves's son in there.
He was on there, he made a cameo appearance, and
I mean it was a nice such But I had
like a lot of expectations. And then the new season
of Dexter is back on, and I feel like it's
gonna be good. I mean, Dexter's getting old, but you
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know he's doing what he do. Like, yeah, that's it. Okay,
Now let's have Chattysha get in the news. All right, y'all.
It was painful, but we got Chattisha to go ahead
and get this news started. So let's get this news started.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
News Politics Roundup.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
Ai impersonates a Trump official. Maybe if the bots are
politicking now we are done. Kentucky's governor might be running
in twenty twenty eight. I guess the presidential lineup just
got messier. Kennedy canceled a panel. The conspiracy theorists are
foaming at the mouth. Trump's threatening tariffs again. He really
treating global trade like it's a petty x ice out here,
(04:01):
snatching folks up with just six hours notice, six pack,
a toothbrush, and your piece. Candice Owens versus Trump over
Epstein file claims, I told y'all, this season of America
is unhinged. Trump talking about deporting Rosy O'Donnell and Elon
Musk like it's America's got deportation news Public Safety and
Health Arizona club thought they were being targeted.
Speaker 7 (04:24):
Not good.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
Wildfire near the Grand Canyon. Nature said she's tired.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
Multiple shootings in Kentucky. This country needs a reset button.
America's jails falling apart. Pennsylvania's nine to one one system
went down. So who we calling ghostbusters? Salt torpedo situation.
Don't ask me what that is, just know it sounds dangerous.
New Hampshire man not allowed back in the US after
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dropping off family in Canada. Homeland Security said keep it rural.
America's heart disease rates are spiking. It's not just food,
it's stress, it's access, it's all of it. Man died
in a hyperbaric chamber in Arizona. Let's investigate, because that's wild.
Russia launched an aerial attack again. Someone died working in
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cannabis fields. The irony Federal judge wipes out medical debt.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
There's hope, y'all.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
News Pop culture and entertainment, Wimbledon crowned a new champ.
Chef's Kiss Love Island is over, and Amaya and Brian
One finally some good decisions. Caitlin Clark hit two hundred points, legendary,
Justin Bieber dropped an album.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
Reviews are mixed like a bad Margarita.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
Uno is coming to Vegas. It's not just a card
game now, it's a lifestyle. Laila Ali versus Claressa Shields.
I love Layla, but Claressa's gonna eat. Clay Thompson and
Meghan Fie Stallion are official. Meg said, I'm.
Speaker 3 (05:46):
Keeping my man this time. Kanye denies all.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
Claims from his assistant.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
Of course he does.
Speaker 2 (05:52):
Shannon Sharp's fifty million dollar lawsuits stalled. Probably too busy
going viral. Coco Jones is engaged to Donovan, Mitchell Sierra
and Russell Wilson playing Matchmaker goals. Drake said London rappers
are better. He's still salty with America. Drake also covered
up his lebron tattoo. The pettiness is tattooed deep Oprah
(06:12):
Gail and Chris Jenner vacationing together. That's a billionaire brunch
if I've ever seen one. Reddit Relationships and Dating Ada
for dating my ex sister.
Speaker 3 (06:23):
Yeah, you the a hole.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
Don't recycle in the same family.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
Guy asks if.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
He should dump his girlfriend after her racist rant. My take,
If you're cool with racism, stay, If not, exit stage left. Dude,
assume they were exclusive after three dates. She's still dating baby.
Exclusivity is a conversation, not a vibe. Relationship killers besides cheating,
financial recklessness, gas lighting, competing with a phone, and not
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letting people have hobbies. Facts fiance mad about revealing outfit.
I say, communicate, don't control, be respectful.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
But be yourself me va Hoo. Wife wants to message
mistress's husband.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
About an affair from three years ago. Girl, either leave
him or let it go. Don't open old cans of worms.
Reddit work boundaries boss invited employee to dinner with his wife.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
Me.
Speaker 2 (07:12):
I'm not dining with people who sign my checks unless
they paying off my student loans too. Reddit attraction talk
most attractive feature for me, it's a smile. Funniest Reddit
comment said if they chew with their mouth closed and
don't FaceTime in public, I'm halfway in love, all right, y'all.
That's the tea, the juice, and the red forty for
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today's episode. Catch me on socials, send your meva moments,
and don't forget. Earth is still ghetto, but at least
we got stories until next time. Stay petty and stay protected.
Speaker 5 (07:47):
That was a pretty good rundown and she was very
very messy with it. Let's go ahead and get any
story times. I don't got much reading for y'all today.
Your girl's time. You damn the girl were all tired,
so we can jump into those storytnes. I say no favor.
Speaker 3 (08:10):
They told me a show this week at work, I
took care.
Speaker 8 (08:14):
Of my patient.
Speaker 5 (08:16):
I missed that. So the question was to ask your
partner does he up in his butt cheeks when he
takes it when he washes his butt in the shower,
and the dude clearly didn't like the question. I also
asked my husband this question, and he also didn't like it.
But he just said, his butt's clean. That's all I
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need to know.
Speaker 8 (08:38):
He masturbated for seven hours and fifteen minutes and it
was actually locking them up.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
But I gave reported seven.
Speaker 3 (08:45):
Fifteen, so then it was no.
Speaker 1 (08:46):
Longer my business.
Speaker 8 (08:47):
But during my shift, his heart rate was like one
fifties to two hundreds for the majority of the shift.
And so at one point the doctor's like, we need
to give him a dentiscene, which is like control all delete,
but for the heart, like you can fly on it.
We have to bring you back. But I was like, yeah, no,
I don't think that's a good idea because the brief
moments that I do make him stop, his heart rate
(09:08):
goes back down to normal. So the doctor's insistent, and
I'm throwing in the second IV and as I'm doing that,
the doctor walks back in and he's like, wait, what's
going on?
Speaker 3 (09:19):
His heart is beecting on I'm like, yeah, I'm holding.
Speaker 8 (09:21):
His dominant hand so we don't get the dentis scene,
and the doctor admits him for meth toxicity and intractable masturbation.
Speaker 5 (09:36):
This girl's tired, So she admitted a man that had
been mastrating for seven hours and fifteen minutes intractable masturbation.
Somebody said, how do you have any skin left? Somebody
said the worst is walking in on the patient and
there's significant other doing what couples do. I'm like, do
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you know how nasty that hospital is? Somebody said, as
a quoter. In my mind, I'm trying to figure out
what one c ten this will be under. Somebody said,
did they order restraints?
Speaker 6 (10:17):
Mm hmmm, Hey, y'all, alont y'all to tell me if
I'm wrong or not.
Speaker 3 (10:25):
I accept it.
Speaker 9 (10:26):
Okay.
Speaker 6 (10:27):
Look, so I have older grandkids fourteen to eleven, then
my older three grandkids. Right, I've been there since day one.
These are my son kids who keep going back and
forth to jail. Okay, so I feel like, okay, Granny
gonna be there for they for her grandkids.
Speaker 4 (10:45):
Right.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
So my birthday come up, I ain't heard from them.
Gang call me, mind you I said, fourteen to eleven, right, okay?
Speaker 6 (10:59):
So they mom text me, as she says, do you
think you got a couple of dollars for the boys
to go to their friends event?
Speaker 3 (11:09):
I said, hell, no, I ain't giving them shit. I
ain't heart from them for my birthday.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
Do you know this?
Speaker 6 (11:18):
Young lady text me and say, mind you these are
these are kids.
Speaker 1 (11:26):
They didn't even remember.
Speaker 3 (11:28):
It was day my birthday, and now'm they mom.
Speaker 5 (11:34):
I looked at the fucking.
Speaker 6 (11:35):
Text and I counted first, because I would have went
there right. I said, these are teenage kids. I don't
give a fuck about what they didn't remember on your day.
But I'm the grandmother and they supposed to remember mine.
Speaker 5 (11:57):
Now, y'all tell me if I'm wrong, you're not wrong, Grannie.
Somebody gotta keep their hands strong with their kids. Some
may say you're not wrong, you're one hundred percent right. No, ma'am.
I bet they don't forget their friend's birthday. So they
said the lesson here is Grannie to Grannie, they are children.
(12:19):
Go get them, Go get them break bread and talk
to them about life. They need your guidance. Em just
don't get them nothing they'll remember.
Speaker 10 (12:34):
Stop abusing your hose, no shade butt. Sex is supposed
to be on occasion. You're not supposed to play in
your ass every fucking day. Do y'all know what y'all show,
look like when you sit and do that shit every day,
they're supposed to be on special occasions. That's why God
didn't make y'all women. Y'all too much in the butt
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every day, too much playing in the butt. Then it's
then the whole turn around, look like what you claim
you don't like? Why would you wear it out? And
stop calling it anything other than what it is. A home,
a whole, a hole, a home in the back.
Speaker 5 (13:13):
Stop playing in your home.
Speaker 3 (13:21):
I'm something you home.
Speaker 5 (13:24):
So I guess this man through his daughter in the pool,
and she was paralyzed for a little bit, but I
guess she's recovering. And they want to know should they
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forgive their husband? Somebody say you forgive him because he
was trying to give her a good childhood. My parents
did that to me all the time.
Speaker 10 (13:57):
It was all lot of fun.
Speaker 5 (13:59):
I'm sure he lanes and she doesn't deserve it. I mean,
this is just an example of some praying saying good.
Speaker 3 (14:11):
Natalie Reynolds has ruined my thirty two year marriage.
Speaker 7 (14:15):
I'm so ashamed to be talking about this online, but
hopefully I can spread awareness. About four nights ago, I
was on my husband's phone and I saw an email
that looked a little suspicious to me.
Speaker 3 (14:29):
I clicked on it and there were three one.
Speaker 7 (14:32):
Hundred and fifty dollars in charges on his credit card
purchasing fans only content. Mind you, guys, I'm older and
I didn't know what it was. But after doing some research,
I found out. I'm so disappointed in the man who
I thought loved me. This Natalie woman is supplying this
type of content to married men. Any woman out there
(14:57):
watching this, I want you to know about these online
girls that are doing these things.
Speaker 3 (15:04):
And if you have dealt with something like this, just.
Speaker 2 (15:07):
Know you're not alone.
Speaker 5 (15:11):
I feel sorry for her, but Natalie is not the problem, ma'am.
It's your husband. Somebody said, I just like Natalie Reynolds alive.
But your husband, the man is the one who were
in your marriage, like to be we send blame your husband. Yeah,
Natalie didn't come to your husband's house and tell him
(15:31):
to purchase her only fans. Honey.
Speaker 9 (15:37):
I just wanna put this out there cause it's a
few people that try to tell my story for me,
but I'm the only one that could tell my story.
So we begin joint Lee Coaston. This videos for you.
This Videos for you, So do whatever you feel you
need to do with this video, cause it's for you.
You gave me her fiech and you know you did,
(15:57):
and you know what you did for your other ex girlfriend.
I don't have put her name or anything.
Speaker 5 (16:00):
Else out there. You know what you did.
Speaker 3 (16:02):
She knows what you did, and I know what you did,
and God knows what you did.
Speaker 5 (16:07):
And I'm not gonna lie. I was quiet for way.
Speaker 9 (16:13):
Too long, but I realized me being quiet isn't doing
anything with protecting you and putting other women in harm's way.
Speaker 5 (16:20):
And I am not trying to protect you at all.
Speaker 1 (16:22):
I can give two fucks about you.
Speaker 9 (16:24):
So you gave me her peace, and I'm gonna give
you karma and I will be telling my story on here.
Speaker 1 (16:30):
I told you every platform.
Speaker 5 (16:34):
There you have it, Crane before you make love is
absolutely the way you go.
Speaker 11 (16:39):
Father God, in the name of Jesus, all I want
to do is a mazoon zoom zoom and a boom boom.
But I pray, Lord, did you give me the strength
of sam said at the logitivity of Methusel, gurd.
Speaker 5 (16:55):
Up my loins, lort, shag get it now, let me
stop playing.
Speaker 4 (17:08):
That's what she.
Speaker 5 (17:24):
Said, she didn't throw her back out in her front.
Speaker 12 (17:26):
Now, don't speak not one negative word out of your mouth.
Speaker 1 (17:31):
I don't care how you feel.
Speaker 6 (17:32):
What you're gonna through.
Speaker 2 (17:34):
Don't let the devil know how you feeling.
Speaker 12 (17:36):
When you open up your mouth, give God the praise.
Speaker 1 (17:39):
Speak positive words.
Speaker 4 (17:41):
Speak the words of God over your life, and your
life will change for the better.
Speaker 7 (17:47):
Y'all.
Speaker 5 (17:47):
What she said, but you can ring out baby word out?
Speaker 3 (17:50):
Why the fuck my dad gonna say, come in the room,
we gotta talk.
Speaker 5 (17:53):
I go in the room.
Speaker 4 (17:53):
You like, sit down.
Speaker 2 (17:54):
It's like, well, just as you know, when we get
back to Michigan, I think it's time we wais.
Speaker 5 (18:00):
We's been clashing head so much.
Speaker 3 (18:02):
Mind you, the whole fucking time we've been in Texas.
Speaker 4 (18:05):
I have not say shit to this nigga.
Speaker 1 (18:07):
He can start on bullshit with me.
Speaker 3 (18:09):
When I say starting.
Speaker 5 (18:10):
Shit with me, I mean, and they listening to.
Speaker 1 (18:13):
My converse like shit, oh my y'all.
Speaker 9 (18:16):
But anyways, and you know what's so fucking funny the fact.
Speaker 4 (18:19):
That I have so much to the point where it's
like I can go.
Speaker 3 (18:23):
Get an apartment in a.
Speaker 13 (18:24):
Car and still have what I wanted to stay afloat,
and I just wanna thank you guys so much for
that opportunity, cause if it was a partic type bitch,
I would have been fucked. My dad has a thing
for liking putting me out when I'm in my lowest,
so right now he kind of think some of my lowest.
Speaker 4 (18:37):
But you would listen, No, bitch, I'm up, I'm up.
Speaker 3 (18:40):
These womenute long video, Bitch, they're doing a lot.
Speaker 13 (18:43):
They are I'm gang, I'm gang, They're healthy.
Speaker 5 (18:46):
I just paid this for her since she can pare
rent and going and get out of her parents' house.
Because I wish y'all would see my kids video, cause
I'd be like you and your little TikTok of money.
Go ahead.
Speaker 10 (19:00):
A quick question for my.
Speaker 4 (19:00):
Fellow mean girls, specifically being mean to men, Beach, I
think I all kind of over need to be said.
Speaker 5 (19:07):
How do we hollerize?
Speaker 3 (19:09):
Comma Connie, you hungry?
Speaker 5 (19:16):
Somebody said, gas like him into thinking it's his fault.
Tell him sorry you made me act like that? Somebody said,
is he actually important enough to deserve an apology? Didn't
think so? Anyway? Where are we in coffee at friend?
I think you asked him, is he hungry. Is he
hungry it's the best strategy, or does he want a
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massage or something? You know, just something, just you know.
Speaker 14 (19:42):
I have been alive long enough to witness a white
woman Rachel Doolas all pretend to be black, and a
black woman, Donna Briggs pretend to be white, and I
feel like I am entitled to some sort of compensations.
Speaker 1 (20:01):
Here's a public service announcement for you.
Speaker 5 (20:04):
If you see that right there, do not top off.
Speaker 15 (20:07):
Do not top off?
Speaker 3 (20:11):
And how many people out here to just trying to
squeeze a.
Speaker 1 (20:14):
Little more gas in here? Let me tell you what happens.
Speaker 14 (20:17):
There's a charcoal breather filter, air filter.
Speaker 7 (20:20):
Whatever you want to call it, and every time you
try to squeeze a little more in there, it backs.
Speaker 3 (20:24):
Up into that and it'll turn that breather filter air breather.
Speaker 5 (20:29):
Thing into.
Speaker 1 (20:34):
A non breathing solid.
Speaker 3 (20:35):
Lump of charcoal, and then you will have hell filling up.
Speaker 2 (20:40):
Your gas tank. It'll kick off constantly because it'll want
to back up and spit back at you, and then
you're gonna have to spend some money to have somebody
replace that little breather on.
Speaker 5 (20:50):
Your gas tank.
Speaker 7 (20:51):
So when it kicks off, just be done.
Speaker 13 (20:54):
I'm telling you this from experience, because my mother was
the worst about squeezing every drop in there that she could.
Speaker 1 (21:00):
And I had a van that would take fifteen minutes to.
Speaker 7 (21:02):
Fill up until finally I spent the money when I
had it to have that replaced.
Speaker 9 (21:08):
It was several hundred dollars.
Speaker 5 (21:12):
So there you I never do this. Somebody said, as
a mechanic, keep talking off cause he wants you to
keep coming back. Somebody said, I shake it because it's
dripping gas. Somebody said, well, my brain does not allowed
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me to stop on even numbers. My mom has done
this for years. She never had an issue. I mean,
I've never heard of this before, but I don't know.
Somebody said, I've done this with every tank of gas
for fifty years with no problems. I also tear the
tags off their mattress. Maybe it was her crow. I've
never heard of it, but I don't know.
Speaker 15 (21:55):
I just left a meeting with HR because I have
a coworker that is constant beg.
Speaker 8 (22:02):
Will not leave me alone.
Speaker 5 (22:02):
I open up a snack, they show up.
Speaker 7 (22:04):
I don't know how to hear about it, so I
figured I would talk to them about it, and I
finally caught them on video today.
Speaker 15 (22:10):
Trying to beat my friend. I'm good.
Speaker 5 (22:19):
You're definitely entitled to some conversation because why are you
all along and do you have to work with him?
Like for real?
Speaker 4 (22:26):
Then put a finger down if you had to go
to your boyfriend's family reunion and you ended up having
to put hands.
Speaker 5 (22:32):
On his mom.
Speaker 4 (22:34):
Me, and I'm gonna look like the bad guy. Let
me So I'm gonna start from the beginning. We just
go to his family reunion. I'm being readed by aunts, uncles, cousins,
everybody except his mom. His mom did not talk to me.
And mind you, I've seen her around like I've seen
her before.
Speaker 3 (22:51):
We've talked briefly before, but we've never really had to
sit down conversation, you know what I mean. So she
don't really know me like that.
Speaker 4 (22:57):
I'm just gonna tell the events to but led up
to me putting my hands on her, which I don't
I did.
Speaker 3 (23:04):
Not want to do that. But the first event, this
was very harmless, very easy mistake.
Speaker 5 (23:09):
Right.
Speaker 4 (23:09):
So his aunt was setting the table outside, bringing all
the food that was cooked outside. So she's asking me
if I could help her bring stuff out I'm like, okay, cool, fine,
I got the deviled eggs.
Speaker 1 (23:22):
I bring them out.
Speaker 4 (23:22):
I'm moving stuff to make room on the table.
Speaker 5 (23:25):
I put the eggs down.
Speaker 3 (23:26):
His mom was like, what are you doing. You're not
supposed to be doing that.
Speaker 4 (23:29):
The eggs are supposed to come out last, because.
Speaker 1 (23:33):
Okay, whoa, calm down, it's just eggs.
Speaker 3 (23:36):
I can put them back inside.
Speaker 1 (23:37):
You don't got it?
Speaker 4 (23:38):
Like she's yelling, like full on yelling, like somebody ran
over her foot, like it was that serious. And his
aunt was like, yeah, she'd be overreacting sometimes we all
used to it.
Speaker 3 (23:50):
Whatever, we just ignore her.
Speaker 4 (23:52):
I'm like, okay, so then I go put the eggs
back inside. I'm not trying to make a big.
Speaker 3 (23:58):
Deal out of it.
Speaker 1 (23:58):
Whatever.
Speaker 3 (23:59):
Next we are playing this trivia game. It's really more
family based questions, not just random questions.
Speaker 1 (24:06):
It's like where did who? And who me?
Speaker 3 (24:08):
Who is this cousin to this person?
Speaker 4 (24:10):
It's just random family questions, which I knew the answer
to some of those because my boyfriend tells me stuff,
so like.
Speaker 3 (24:18):
I forgot the question now because I'm so heated.
Speaker 1 (24:20):
But the question was so simple.
Speaker 3 (24:21):
It was like who is this man to this person?
Speaker 4 (24:24):
I was like, oh, I know, I said the answer,
and she was like looking at me, she was like, no,
that's actually wrong.
Speaker 1 (24:30):
His mama was like this, no, you're actually wrong.
Speaker 4 (24:32):
That's not the right answer. I don't know who this
girl is thinking. She know my family, but that's not
the right answer. And mind you, when I said that,
I got it right right, and everybody was clapping like.
Speaker 1 (24:44):
Ooh, you old girl know her stuff. Okay.
Speaker 5 (24:47):
Period.
Speaker 3 (24:47):
I was like, okay, I know the family.
Speaker 4 (24:50):
And then afterwards she was looking at me like that
she said what she said and everybody was like, she
did get the answer right, Like, what.
Speaker 5 (24:59):
Do you talk about?
Speaker 3 (25:01):
After that, I went we were at a park.
Speaker 4 (25:03):
After that, I went to the park trail and I
walked around to call my nerves because when people keep
pressing the buttons, I don't have much patience. So I
come back and everybody's like, oh, we're taking the family
photo now.
Speaker 3 (25:15):
So I'm like, okay, cool.
Speaker 4 (25:16):
I stand in the front, but on the end, so
like I'm barely in the photo anyway.
Speaker 3 (25:21):
And his mom is barking orders like a drill sarg.
So she's like, you need to go here, you need
to stand here, you come up front. YadA, YadA, YadA.
Speaker 1 (25:29):
So I'm in the photo.
Speaker 4 (25:31):
I'm way on end, like I said, and she's like,
oh no, baby, you're blocking the view.
Speaker 1 (25:36):
You need to move all the way to the back.
Mind you, I'm short, I'm five three, Like I'm not.
Speaker 3 (25:43):
Gonna be in the way of anybody. I'm looking around
like nobody's even behind me.
Speaker 16 (25:49):
What are you?
Speaker 3 (25:50):
What are you talking about?
Speaker 4 (25:52):
So I moved to the back because I'm not trying
to make any more draw up with this lady.
Speaker 3 (25:56):
I'm tired of it. I'm getting to that thin line
point and I just move. And then I moved to
the back. And then why does she stop the photographer
and say hold on?
Speaker 4 (26:08):
She walks up to me and she looks me and
points her finger in my face and she's like, why
are you still not in the right spot? Why can't
you follow simple orders?
Speaker 3 (26:22):
And before I can even stop myself, the words were
already out of my mouth. I was just like, I
see why my man don't like to be around you.
You're controlling, You're controlling, and you're a narcissist.
Speaker 4 (26:32):
Just like he said, I you know, I was trying
to give you the benefit of the doubt, but no,
that's you, for real, and there's nothing wrong with where
the fuck I'm standing.
Speaker 3 (26:41):
And then she walks like right here next to my face,
and she's like, how dare.
Speaker 1 (26:45):
You disrespect me?
Speaker 3 (26:46):
You don't know me, You don't know who the fuck.
Speaker 1 (26:48):
You're talking to. I said, you don't know me either.
Speaker 2 (26:51):
You don't know me either, and.
Speaker 1 (26:52):
You're treating me like a weirdo.
Speaker 3 (26:55):
Before I even knew what was happening, she pushed the
fuck out of me. So my mind is already blacked out.
Speaker 4 (27:02):
Okay, I just get up and I start hitting her,
because you're not just about to put.
Speaker 3 (27:08):
Your hands on me. That's just not what's going to happen.
You can talk to me any type of way, don't
put your hands on me.
Speaker 4 (27:14):
So we ended up on the ground because my mind
went blank. All I seen was red and she falls backwards.
Speaker 3 (27:21):
When I go up to hit her, she falls backwards.
Speaker 4 (27:23):
So now the family members pulling us both up off
the floor, pulling us apart.
Speaker 3 (27:27):
Family reunion over. Honey is overweight. My boyfriend, mind you,
he's with me the whole entire time, Like I never
mentioned him, but he was literally with me the whole.
Speaker 4 (27:37):
Entire time, trying to tell her to calm the fuck down.
But as I'm being pulled away, we're both walking Okay,
we're walking away from her in the situation, we're about to.
Speaker 3 (27:46):
Basically leave, and then my boyfriend he's like, yo.
Speaker 1 (27:50):
Yo yo, I'm turned around.
Speaker 4 (27:52):
So she's running up while he's saying that he's trying
to stop her. She ends up grabbing the back of
my hair and pulling me down backwards, and then we're
fucking fighting again. So my man was in the middle,
but he ain't gonna keep getting hit. He getting hit
from both angles. Everybody else is all the way back
where we first thought at so it's just me and
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him and his mama.
Speaker 3 (28:16):
I'm doing the best I can. Okay, I'm doing the
best I can. And I figured, hell, if you gonna
keep it coming after me after the fight.
Speaker 4 (28:27):
Is we already done it?
Speaker 1 (28:28):
I'm done. I got to kick you. I got to
kick you.
Speaker 4 (28:32):
I gotta use any tool I got I got to,
so I get one last kick in, Okay, right here.
Speaker 3 (28:40):
In her neck. I don't know if she gonna breathe
after that.
Speaker 5 (28:42):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (28:43):
I don't care. But that was that, and now I
can't I can't go back. I can't go back.
Speaker 1 (28:50):
But I don't know. I don't know what it is. Still,
I don't know why she don't like me.
Speaker 3 (28:54):
She hasn't liked me from the beginning. It was something
about what I coast on Instagram go to.
Speaker 4 (29:00):
I don't host nothing, okay, I don't host nothing bad,
nothing all out.
Speaker 1 (29:04):
I'm regular.
Speaker 3 (29:06):
I'm regular.
Speaker 1 (29:07):
I don't know if it was one of those mom's son.
Speaker 4 (29:09):
Jealousy type of relationships. I don't understand, you know how
the mamas be jealous, you know, weird. But yeah, I
can be wrong all I want to, I don't.
Speaker 5 (29:20):
I just I'm I was waiting for her to say
that this is a prank. And I agree with a
lot of the comments. It's not the family you want
to be in. Somebody said you need to leave that
little boy alone. Ain't the reason is should they got
to that point? Somebody said, what was your boyfriend? Then
somebody said, she's in love with her son. Regardless, that's
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not a family you want to be in.
Speaker 12 (29:45):
One thing in life that you're gonna have to accept
is that some people in life are literally professional victims.
That's the only way that they've learned how to survive,
and they don't plan on nor want to find any
other ways of coping, of handling situation, since, etc.
Speaker 5 (30:00):
Etc.
Speaker 12 (30:01):
Because that victim role relieves them of so much accountability
that it's almost like why would I be anything else?
Like why would I want to be healthier or practice
healthier skills if being a victim is working for me?
And the unfortunate reality is that people who call out
these professional victims are often seen as the villain because
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they know how to twist and spind a narrative in
a way that gets people to agree with them, that
gets people to feel bad for them, feel pity for them.
And one thing that professional victims have to make peace
with is the fact that they'll only get by because
people feel pitiful. People literally feel bad for you all
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the time, and that's the only reason you get by.
On certain situations, people feel guilty for holding you accountable,
like they know how to make somebody feel guilty and
like a bad person for calling them out on their bullshit.
They know how to make other people feel like they're
doing something wrong by being honest and by expressing genuine emotion.
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I don't know how many of y'all watch Love Island,
but Hudah is a perfect example of a professional victim.
Speaker 1 (31:15):
Told y'all, I got the onest fucking.
Speaker 2 (31:18):
Love, like I tell me.
Speaker 8 (31:21):
Why the fuck?
Speaker 12 (31:21):
I mean the motherfucker grouch stuff and my moment, I
gotta sell me a motherfucking video on my man.
Speaker 5 (31:36):
Y'all, y'all, that's the show inspirations in a way. Y'all
pray for her, and y'all stay blessed.
Speaker 6 (31:43):
Yes, God, what you do?
Speaker 1 (31:56):
I know what your grandmama taught you. You can't question God? Right,
she can.
Speaker 15 (32:01):
Throughout the Bible. I see scriptures when people ask God questions.
In this story, Job said God.
Speaker 1 (32:10):
What's going on? David said, God, why are you hiding
from me?
Speaker 15 (32:19):
Paul got so frustrated with God, I think he yelled.
He said, take this stuff away. Job is teaching us
that real.
Speaker 1 (32:30):
Faith survives silence. What does that mean, pim jay? Some
of us gonna go through some seasons, but God ain't
saying nothing. Who see, anybody can trust God when you
got the answers on the oh my gun.
Speaker 15 (36:11):
But when I was outdoors living in extended things, having
to roll quarters and pay my rent every Friday so
I can stay another day.
Speaker 1 (36:20):
Me and lady and the dogs and all hear me.
That brought me closer to God. So the reason I
can tell you today I'm in the best place I've
ever been in.
Speaker 15 (36:29):
It's because now watch this, I shout when pain comes,
watch this and pray when blessings come.
Speaker 6 (36:42):
Y'all visited.
Speaker 1 (36:45):
Yeah, So now it's something good happened.
Speaker 5 (36:47):
In my life.
Speaker 15 (36:48):
You know what I say, Father, God keep me ground now, God,
I thank you God. I see the front side, which
is the blessing. I don't know the backside, which is
the problem. But now when all types of lies and
hate and pain hit my life, you know what I say? Now?
Speaker 1 (37:01):
Okay, God, you up to some?
Speaker 15 (37:04):
You're up to some?
Speaker 4 (37:05):
Now?
Speaker 1 (37:06):
Can I free you?
Speaker 4 (37:07):
Can?
Speaker 1 (37:07):
I free you can? I free you can?
Speaker 15 (37:09):
I free you. I don't know how to cook, right,
I'm not the best cook, but I do know how
to cook noodles.
Speaker 1 (37:13):
Okay. I'm from Ansley. I know how to cook noodles. Okay,
I door mat chef cook noodles. Okay. So what you
need to cook the noodle? O? K. You need to
pot okay, and you need some what and then what.
Speaker 15 (37:23):
Else you do?
Speaker 1 (37:23):
You gotta open the noodles and do what put them
in there.
Speaker 15 (37:26):
Do you take that season and now and then what
you do, but then you add all your other seasons
because you're cooking that thing up. Right.
Speaker 1 (37:32):
Then you pull a little hot sauce in your water too, y'all.
Don't do that. Put it lof so it can be kays.
Speaker 15 (37:36):
And spicy, little hot sauce. Okay, And now you're ready, right,
You're ready. That's all you need to cook, right, None
of that matters if you don't turn up the fire.
If some of y'all want to favor the peace, the joy,
the blessings, the family, the children, the money, the house,
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and God like, you know, I gotta cook this though, right,
you know, I gotta turn some hell up in your
life to prove to the devil that if I give
you that, you.
Speaker 1 (38:07):
Wanna turn your back on me. So now give me
a million dollars fake you, Jesus.
Speaker 15 (38:13):
But if I hands up broke, God, I still thank you.
When I'm trying to get my generation to understand that
we have become the most entitled, spoiled shitter racing of
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believers that have.
Speaker 1 (38:35):
Ever walked the face of the earth.
Speaker 15 (38:38):
You pay your tithe one time and think twenty years of.
Speaker 1 (38:41):
Problems and bad decisions gonna get fixed. You expect me
to lay hands on you. You come to the aultar
say pray with me, Pastor I pray you go home.
It ain't nothing changed. And now you give up thinking.
Speaker 15 (38:55):
One prayer gonna fix seven years of bad decisions.
Speaker 1 (39:00):
Wake up. We're fighting a real devil kind of stuff.
You believe in God for you not gonna get for free. God,
it's gonna coast you something. It's gonna cost you something, y'all,
don't hear me. It's gonna coast you something. And what
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I'm telling you is golla hear me.
Speaker 15 (39:23):
The scripture says, one night Joseph had a dream, Confetti.
One night Joseph had a dream Confetti, And when he
told his brothers about it, Confetti.
Speaker 1 (39:38):
They hated him. More conspiracy. I gotta go. Joseph has
a dream. Right, he wakes up from the dream.
Speaker 15 (39:46):
And he's pumped because the dream this can make you run,
is a glimpse of greatness.
Speaker 1 (39:53):
Jim me and he hey, bro, bro, guess what. I
just had a dream and we're gonna do this. And
then God was gonna do this. It was crazy. The
brothers look at him, like you don't lost your mind.
Were gonna work for you. You done lost your mind.
Speaker 15 (40:05):
But here's what meth miil, Please put the scripture on
the screen. It says he had a dream, but they
hated him more. You missed that.
Speaker 1 (40:12):
They didn't hate him because of the dream.
Speaker 15 (40:15):
The dream made them hate him some more, Tutor Mike.
Why did they hate him because he had favor? Joseph's
daddy had a coat of many colors and he put
it on his son.
Speaker 1 (40:29):
So every time Joseph.
Speaker 15 (40:32):
Walked in the room, they had to look at his favor.
Every time they came to dinner, they had to look
at his favor. He would be out there in the field,
and they're gonna.
Speaker 1 (40:43):
Have to look at his favor.
Speaker 15 (40:45):
Because conspiracies don't happen overnight.
Speaker 1 (40:51):
They boil.
Speaker 15 (40:56):
They just started not liking you today, y'all wanted in conversation.
They got mad and all of a sudden just lost it.
Speaker 1 (41:10):
That stuff they had been building and you didn't do nothing.
You didn't do nothing.
Speaker 15 (41:22):
It's stuff that God been blessing you in subtle ways
along the way, and it's been driving them crazy.
Speaker 1 (41:30):
And you know what they do instead of just being
honest about how your favor, make them feel.
Speaker 9 (41:51):
And something.
Speaker 17 (41:51):
You're gonna have to leave and say, I'm so sorry
my success tribute you. We gotta look at your cot
and we gotta work for you.
Speaker 15 (42:07):
So the brothers come together and say, you know what,
we canna kill him, not his enemies, his brothers.
Speaker 1 (42:16):
We gotta kill him. We gotta figure this out. This
is we're gonna do. We gonna kill him. We're gonna
get rid of the body.
Speaker 15 (42:22):
His other brother, Ruben is on the screen, y'all gotta
find that scripture. His other brother, Ruben says, hey, he
our brother.
Speaker 1 (42:29):
We can't kill him. Here's what we'll do. Let's just
throw him.
Speaker 7 (42:34):
Into a pit.
Speaker 15 (42:36):
I'm gonna mess you up. Some of you have assessed
who's for you in the wrong season. Okay, I'm gonna
make this make sense. This one want to kill you.
This one says, I don't want them around. Let's just
get rid of them. You think they love you more
based off of who hates you the most. Technically, ain't
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nobody for Joseph. These brothers, Sam, let's kill him. This
brother says, don't kill him, just throw them away.
Speaker 5 (43:13):
So what do they do?
Speaker 1 (43:14):
They strip them of his paper, look at the scriptures
right on the screen.
Speaker 15 (43:20):
So when josephil Ride his brothers ripped off his beautiful
robe he was wearing.
Speaker 1 (43:24):
I'm gonna ask you a question, and ask you a question,
and ask you a question. Threw him into the cistern.
Speaker 16 (43:30):
Look at the scripture, throw it on the screen. Now
the cistern was empty verse twenty four. The cistern's empty.
Speaker 1 (43:40):
You missed it. They take his coat.
Speaker 15 (43:43):
I'm finna run because people think they can take what
you've got, but don't realize it. It looks better on you,
not because of it, but because of you. No, they
take his coat, throw him into assistance.
Speaker 1 (44:00):
Look at the scripture. Now the cistern was empty.
Speaker 15 (44:03):
Let's see your pastor there was no water in it?
Up in a three year real quickly, it's a whale.
If a well don't have water, what's at the bottom
of it rocks? Semen, if I throw your body in
a whale, what should happen to your body? Something should
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be broken, something should be or you should die.
Speaker 1 (44:30):
But neither happens.
Speaker 15 (44:34):
There are people who can't figure out how you keep surviving.
Speaker 1 (44:41):
What would have broke somebody else?
Speaker 17 (44:48):
And so what am I trying? I'm gonna stop, I'm overtime.
What am I trying to get you to realize? Public winds,
private losses?
Speaker 2 (44:57):
Bro?
Speaker 15 (44:58):
How I get a dream from God only to be
attacked by family? How do I have confessed.
Speaker 1 (45:17):
And conspiracies? And for many of you, do not let
your last loss convince you God not with you.