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Speaker 1 (00:04):
Intro movie phase in We'll be beat a cosmic vibe.

Speaker 2 (00:16):
Welcome back to.

Speaker 3 (00:16):
Urg's ghetto, where the tea is hot, the news is messy, and.

Speaker 4 (00:20):
The universe clearly needs a system updates. It's Wednesday, July ninth,
twenty twenty five, and baby, we are just trying to
make it through the week without spiraling into another existential
crisis or group chat argument on today's episode, political plot twists,
celebrity shenanigans, and whatever Reddit drama the algorithm dragged into

(00:41):
our lives. Grab your tea, your iced coffee, or that
glass of wine you swore you'd wait until five four.
This planet's acting up.

Speaker 3 (00:50):
Again and we need to talk about it. Music phase.

Speaker 5 (01:00):
Love y'all. Happy Wednesday, my favorite day, trash day of course.
Hi y'all living, I'm doing well. I went to the
gym today. I am it was hot today. I've got
me some lemonade at chickil A like I got a
whole jug on then eight. I'm addicted today lemonade because

(01:20):
it has the like pulping, and I've been trying to
find it a star. I can't, so I.

Speaker 6 (01:25):
Need to wink.

Speaker 5 (01:25):
I've already seen how see how much it costs, but
it was worth it because it's just so hot and
I love it since Chick fil A Lemonade. Other than that,
y'all watched Love Island of Chorus again. You know what
else will we do for the next couple of weeks?
And yeah, that's about it for my day. Nothing in

(01:46):
spectacle or exciting, having laundry and trash.

Speaker 6 (01:49):
Day to day love that I lose.

Speaker 5 (01:53):
Let me see if I liked anything on the x
app before I let Tat should do her thing. I
can't remember if I liked anything or not.

Speaker 3 (02:05):
Let's see.

Speaker 5 (02:08):
You don't know why I don't like that. So Nicki
Minaj and jay Z have been beefing or Nicki Minaj
is beefing almost jay Z cares that much. But here's
a little rundown or what's going on with it.

Speaker 7 (02:25):
The super bowld thing.

Speaker 5 (02:26):
I want to get back to that for a second.

Speaker 7 (02:28):
Man, I'm not here to defend anybody. I really don't
like when people who open up doors as black people
get shitted on publicly like that.

Speaker 3 (02:47):
I just don't like it.

Speaker 8 (02:48):
I think in that case what Nicki did was wrong
to bring up title his streaming company that he gave
you equity in you you know, didn't signed the fucking paperwork.
And that's the reason why you left wiens of dollars
on the table.

Speaker 3 (03:07):
That man didn't do nothing to you.

Speaker 7 (03:11):
To be talking about somebody who's putting whether it be
Kendrick or Wayne or Drake or a busher, but he's
putting him on the biggest stage.

Speaker 3 (03:23):
That's what should be applauding. That's growth.

Speaker 5 (03:26):
I really don't know. Nigga men beef and she swear
a jay z or some money. She brung up a
fraternity test and all kind of stuff. She's just been
on the internet all day about this. This is a
mama and sogn rapping. Let's check him out.

Speaker 9 (03:40):
He's on my own, but police seell me, mama, how
did you do.

Speaker 3 (03:43):
This shit all that long?

Speaker 10 (03:43):
It wasn't easy till my mama had a fetch for gears.
That's why stuff for through the gears get shit from
many cheers.

Speaker 3 (03:50):
Hold that long row.

Speaker 10 (03:51):
Mama wore some ewn niggas from Texas to captain spentched
niggas and that, and that's.

Speaker 9 (03:55):
The really shit I ever heard.

Speaker 11 (03:56):
You gave me the game.

Speaker 9 (03:57):
I study every word heavy in trap houses, with every
word smelling herb around the first time I saw you.

Speaker 12 (04:02):
Pick up a mike, you w introduce this music shit to.

Speaker 3 (04:05):
My life home right? I want you to know what
did it all with you?

Speaker 10 (04:08):
Working nine to fives, late nights in.

Speaker 3 (04:10):
The stoop with big dreams.

Speaker 10 (04:12):
So I can take care of you?

Speaker 9 (04:13):
Man, I knew you were special and what I felt
was true.

Speaker 6 (04:16):
Look at you now, My.

Speaker 10 (04:17):
Beautiful sun is the beautiful one. They don't understand how
this unit begun. How was young and your daddy was gone,
but you was my joy. He didn't have plans for
his baby boy, but I.

Speaker 13 (04:27):
Did because she was my kid completed for God.

Speaker 3 (04:30):
We didn't have a lot, but.

Speaker 9 (04:31):
I can see that the round up a glass. I
commend your performance, tripping my fitty dollars. You the reason
I get on my knees and speak to the Lord.
When Granny left to be with the lawd we went destroyed,
but we bounced back. How could you doubt that home
is what a hard is. You showed me where that
house at. Somebody ever put your life, Mitsteak, I'm sitting
out back with big sticks like the man.

Speaker 3 (04:51):
Before my sea lady. He told me not to trust
the soul.

Speaker 9 (04:53):
Barney Street's crazy sleeping on the floor bumping blueprints, Jay
feed that was like O two before.

Speaker 10 (04:59):
Come on, I love my kids more than myself.

Speaker 3 (05:02):
That's a fact.

Speaker 9 (05:03):
It's for the single minds with no one to pick.

Speaker 6 (05:05):
Up the track.

Speaker 10 (05:06):
My nigga, my nerve.

Speaker 9 (05:07):
I always got your back, I got your front mind.
I'm on the front line for the black.

Speaker 3 (05:11):
Line I race.

Speaker 10 (05:11):
You wouldn't stand on your own team.

Speaker 3 (05:13):
You did that ship. I ain't have a choice.

Speaker 9 (05:15):
Your roof is where I lived at. Your woods are
what I lived by. You never spent the rod neither.

Speaker 5 (05:19):
Now.

Speaker 9 (05:19):
I turned my mommy to a hard seat chat.

Speaker 6 (05:21):
Who what what?

Speaker 3 (05:24):
None of these niggas is crying me cold. We tell
you what she did.

Speaker 5 (05:32):
They should have released this on Mother's Day. Hear me out.
My husband's mom wanted to wrap and my husband would
never let his mom rap like this. And I'm just saying,
because I know he's listening, give your mama chance. So
this old man bought a seventy eight Morning Carlo for
twelve hundred.

Speaker 3 (05:49):
You don't know who are y'all?

Speaker 14 (05:52):
Bro y'all y'all call a white white.

Speaker 3 (05:56):
It was just right thrill you in the car. Somebody
have to know good. I'm just saying I used to
be one. I used to be one.

Speaker 13 (06:04):
They was just riding cot Lean. I pulled it up
on the side of him. Gotta watch them, then you
gotta watch him. You gotta watch them. Hey, fellas, stay
out doing almost good.

Speaker 3 (06:14):
I said, Man, what y'all gonna do with that car?

Speaker 5 (06:17):
I don't know?

Speaker 3 (06:18):
So they pulled on over. Then they pulled over.

Speaker 13 (06:21):
Yeah, I said, man, let me let me get that
car from y'all.

Speaker 3 (06:24):
Man, let me give me a number.

Speaker 13 (06:26):
So they gave it, gave it it. I gave him
my number. They said, man, I don't want to get
rid of my car. Not twenty four hours later, Yeah,
they called me. Woh, I don't want to get rid
of And I said okay, And it was right.

Speaker 3 (06:37):
What what pjab did have?

Speaker 5 (06:39):
Oh?

Speaker 13 (06:39):
Man, I'm richinal'd bay whatever cream color that is?

Speaker 3 (06:44):
Yeah whatever, it was all original, original. So I say,
we called me up.

Speaker 13 (06:50):
Not even twenty four hours later, he said, man, I
don't want to go ahead and get rid of it.

Speaker 3 (06:53):
I said, man, you surely.

Speaker 13 (06:54):
Said yeah, my dad gave me this car, but I
don't want this car is over.

Speaker 5 (06:58):
I said, daddy gave you this sign.

Speaker 3 (07:00):
I said, hold no, let me holler at your dad first. Yeah,
we before high by, I get it before I get
it broken. So I got got.

Speaker 13 (07:08):
His dad on the phone and said, Pap, look, man,
young fellow will want this open.

Speaker 5 (07:12):
Man.

Speaker 3 (07:12):
I try to tell him what he got. He don't
know what he got.

Speaker 5 (07:14):
You know what I mean?

Speaker 3 (07:15):
Man, I got the car. You know theyf it's sitting
in the back back.

Speaker 5 (07:18):
Then I got it running.

Speaker 3 (07:19):
From dad drive trucks. I said, Pop, So are you
sure you want to sell it?

Speaker 15 (07:23):
Yep?

Speaker 3 (07:24):
He say, Man, I've been trying to school y'all. Fella,
you don't want listeners. Go ahead on yo, y'all, y'all
make whatever deal. I say, now you showing that Pop
saying he will show.

Speaker 13 (07:32):
So I made the Gim got the cor maybe like
twelve hundred dollars.

Speaker 3 (07:38):
Wow, twelve running? Wow, it was running?

Speaker 13 (07:42):
Yeah, twelve got it and I wanted here I found
taking it all part.

Speaker 3 (07:46):
You know, I get busy. Life get in the way
it does, and this is where it's set. And I
actually took the engine out and I rebuilt him really yeah.

Speaker 5 (08:00):
Literally say this for my husband because he would get
a kick out of this. This story is kind of crazy.
This is a prostituting her daughter. It's kind of crazy.

Speaker 12 (08:14):
Yeah, I've been telling you have to know.

Speaker 16 (08:16):
I've been stopping though, because they keep deleting my instagrams.

Speaker 3 (08:19):
For I just stopped.

Speaker 12 (08:21):
They then made websites of my baby.

Speaker 15 (08:25):
Like way to them.

Speaker 12 (08:30):
It was me, I'm gonna take accountability. This is what
I feel like I motivated her to be just too.

Speaker 3 (08:39):
Okay, let me tell you so what it was.

Speaker 16 (08:41):
It's not taking me my mom that made me like this,
but you know how I'm like, you know, smart and
mature and all that.

Speaker 12 (08:47):
She made me mature because the thing she was telling me, you.

Speaker 16 (08:49):
Know, showing me, but like who was that show hold
on as in me like you know, being a prostitut
and all that. She didn't show me that, Like she
didn't show me that because if that was because you'll
be seeing her, she's not doing nada. She's just taught
me how to be mature. You know, how to hold
my solfa.

Speaker 3 (09:04):
You know, so your mom is getting money from men?

Speaker 5 (09:06):
Yes, chill, pray for the you pray for the you.
Let's let chain you should do her thing with this news.
Yong whoop, you came with.

Speaker 4 (09:21):
The heat today here's your Earth is Ghetto news breakdown
for July ninth, twenty twenty five, and Baby Earth said,
hold my chaos. Flash flood emergency. A state of emergency
has been declared in New Mexico after sudden flash floods
swept through several counties. Roads are washed out, homes damaged,
and evacuation orders issued. Mother Nature is not playing Ice

(09:45):
Center ambush. Ten people have been charged in a coordinated
ambush outside an ice detention facility. Authorities are calling it
a premeditated attack tied.

Speaker 12 (09:54):
To anti government extremism.

Speaker 4 (09:57):
It's giving domestic terrorism, but make it twenty Trump's tariff
tour a Trump is making headlines again with new tariffs,
this time targeting copper imports. He's also planning to end
immigration protections for Hondurans and Nicaraguans. Oh and in case
that wasn't enough, he's reviving tariff.

Speaker 3 (10:17):
Threats on other nations too. Buckle up, global trade.

Speaker 4 (10:22):
Did AI get a right wing update? There's a rising
buzz online about AI platforms possibly reflecting right wing bias.
Baby the streets are asking, Chatisha, have you changed? But
I'm still for the people.

Speaker 5 (10:35):
You already know that type. She didn't really say if
she changed or not. She said she's still for the
people and made a face like a faith like, uh,
I don't know, Jazisha, You're king fallout.

Speaker 4 (10:50):
Remember Doc Antl from Tiger King. He's just been sentenced
to a year in prison. Charges include wildlife trafficking and
money laundering from.

Speaker 3 (10:58):
Zoos to zoomcor dates.

Speaker 4 (11:02):
Teen Mom scandal, a former sixteen and pregnant star has
been charged with involuntary manslaughter in connection to a tragic
incident involving her child. Social media is divided, but it's
a heartbreaking case. Conservative meltdown over Epstein. The newly unsealed
Epstein Associate list has some right wing figures fuming, not

(11:22):
because of who's on it, but who's not now. Elon
Musk is adding fuel to the fire, accusing the government
of cover ups again Liberia and the US.

Speaker 12 (11:33):
It's complicated.

Speaker 3 (11:34):
The US is ending aid and security support in Liberia.

Speaker 4 (11:38):
Prompting questions about diplomatic fallout and regional stability.

Speaker 5 (11:42):
Ban breakup vibes.

Speaker 4 (11:44):
Longtime Pearl Jam drummer Matt Cameron is stepping away from
the band.

Speaker 3 (11:48):
It's giving I'm too old for this tour bus life.

Speaker 4 (11:52):
Kenya protests turn violent.

Speaker 12 (11:55):
Police and Kenya.

Speaker 4 (11:56):
Clashed with protesters amid rising political unrest and anti govern demonstrations.
Multiple injuries reported as tensions flare. Wisconsin bans conversion therapy.

Speaker 12 (12:07):
A win for LGBTQ plus rights.

Speaker 4 (12:10):
Wisconsin officially bans conversion therapy for minors, joining a growing
number of states protecting queer youth. Naomi Osaka reacts to
viral clip. A clip of Osaka being asked if she
still deserves endorsements went viral. Her classy clapback, my worth
isn't tied to performance and that's period. Receptionist gone rogue,

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a Florida receptionist has been arrested for allegedly stealing four
hundred thousand dollars.

Speaker 3 (12:37):
From her employer.

Speaker 4 (12:38):
Cis was embezzling like it was a hobby. Paternity and
Petty Nicki versus jay Z Nicki Minaj is allegedly beefing
with jay Z and Chile.

Speaker 3 (12:48):
It involves a secret paternity case.

Speaker 4 (12:50):
The barbs are activated, the carters are silent, the Internet
is invested. Gary Coleman's widow fails light detector. Over a
decade later, Gary Coleman's widow is still catching heat, this
time for allegedly failing a light detector test on claims
about their relationship.

Speaker 3 (13:08):
It's messy and sad.

Speaker 15 (13:11):
You know.

Speaker 5 (13:11):
The Gary Coleman stuff really never sat right with me
because the way he supposedly hit his head and I mean,
I don't know, it is crazy. Normally I would have
Chattisha read the reddits because I don't be feeling doing
all the reading. But I'm not feeling her reddit rundown,

(13:33):
so I'm gonna have to take it back from her.
My husband will be happy, he likes me to read anyway.
Let's get into this. My neighbor's cheating on his wife
the my mom what so? My neighbor's sixty eight has
been a family friend since before I was born, for
about eight years. My mother forty seven, has been friends
with him, but recently she has gotten too close to him.

(13:54):
About two years ago. I caught them kissing twice. Yesterday
with her phone and found them sending text in I
love you and talking about things they do together. I
wouldn't care, but he's old enough to be her father
and he's married. His wife is bound to a chair,
barely able to walk to the door. She has no
clue what's going on? My mother helps to take care
of their dog. I live with my mom and grandparents.

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Is there anything I can do about this? Then he edited,
saying to all you're saying, how do you know his
wife doesn't know? My mother calls her things like be
and horror, so I know that my mother doesn't want
her to know. And my mother has joked about moving
in with my neighbor. And when his wife passes away,
do what you will with that information, people said, bathly,

(14:37):
how many comment syst whom the neighbor has an agreement
with his wife because she used disabled? Somebody said, I'm
sure I'm the minority, but it bothers you. Then I
would have a talk with your mom if you too
have a good relationship, leave the older man and his
wife out of it. Somebody said, you're sixteen, he's been
a family friend since before you were born. Your mom

(14:59):
has been friends with her friend eight years. Math and
math in here. I don't know a lot of people
saying he should be entitled too because his wife is disabled.
I don't know, sounds messy. Am I the a hole

(15:21):
for breaking up with my new girlfriend because her ex
who is her friend needs to get used to the
idea of us dating. Okay, so my new girlfriend introduced
me to her friend group, including the ex. Admittedly, I
never felt entirely comfortable with my now ex friends being
this guy being with this guy. He acted weird. Would
my ex introduce me? I thought it was me at first. However,

(15:42):
my ex explained that her ex told her he needs
time to adjust to her dating me and told me
she was gonna try to limit our interaction. I asked
her to clarify. I asked her if she's not gonna
see him, but she told me not exactly, but she
was gonna try to keep them apart. To be honest.
When I heard how apparently she's gonna actively make her
friend comfortable like this, I felt a punch in the stomach.

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I told her I do not feel comfortable with her
being friends with a guy who needs to adjust to
us dating, that we weren't going to work out. She
tried to get convince me there's nothing going on between them,
but I didn't believe it. I mean, what the ass
is there to adjust? Clearly she got him a part
of her bench. That's what I think, because why would
she care. I've had male friends and when I started

(16:26):
dating my husband. If they didn't like it, it's just
like too bad. Like I mean, I get you might
be concerned, but who I date romantically has nothing to
do with the platonic friendship. So I think that she
howls her motives will do. Somebody said, obviously her priorities
are a fed up. She's so tied to him, not

(16:49):
the ahole. She's still into him on some level. Yeah, bro,
she into him. Have you ever fell in love with
an unattracted guy? Somebody said, my ex is acting ugly
and I fell in love with him. He left me
for or one other woman. See what happens when you

(17:11):
get an ugly dude a chance. I fell in love
with the guy did not consider physically attractive. We met online,
talked a long time before he met in person, so
it's already head over heels. But he eventually revealed himself
to be a lying coward, and he got really hot,
got really ugly. Then my wife tells me she started
liking me when she discovered I had a good sense

(17:32):
of humor and I was kind to her. I think
I'm average looking. Once we hit it off, the sex
got hot, really mainly handsome, actors, for instance, she's generally
not attracted to and prejudges them to be probably creeps.
Anyone a woman grows so love because more attractive, the
woman has death to be on the surface to very lovable,
so underneath she's not going to think he's ugly. My

(17:55):
thing is hygiene. I mean hygiene, and kay, you know
it's just some things. But yeah, hygiens takes presidents from
me over everything. Am I overreacting to my husband's female
coworker constantly texting him? My husband, Jake, it's thirty one.

(18:17):
He started to New Europ six months ago. He loves
it and he made some friends, which I support. But
one of his coworkers, Sarah, texts him constantly. It started
off work relative and now she's sent some means Jim
Sophie saying out along blah blah blah. She texts evenings, weekends,
even during dinner. Jake always responds right away. Meanwhile, if
I listen, your boyfriend's a problem. Am I about to

(18:38):
read all this? Your boyfriend's a problem. Why does she
even have its personal number? Like I've worked with my
coworkers for years and I do not have their personal number.
Somebody said I would say that most dudes that are
in committed relationships become kind of known to when they
are being flirted with. But as a Mary, dude with
that has been the same that has been with the
same person for fifteen years, Any and all conversation I

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have with the opposite sex I put through the filter.
If my wife was talking to a dude, would she
be mad? It's a matter of respect. Yeah. Somebody said,
if she's sending selfies, she trying to get them. Somebody said, woman,
wake the f up. The woman is clearly after your husband.

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Give your husband an ultimatum to cut it off. Yeah,
your husband's a problem for real men who've grown emotionally.
What helped you step up finally see your partner. My
husband's forty five and I'm forty four. We've been together
for twenty five years, marry young, oldest siblings from broken homes,

(19:43):
looking for stability, And while I've grown emotionally, he stayed
the same. I work full time and always have. I
also do all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, grocery shopping, kids
are planning, taxes, school stuff. Everything he does your work.
That's about it. I've told him I'm burned out. He
wanted me to to meal prep lunches, but gave no input.
I tried factor meals or break He refused to eat

(20:05):
them and said I want your cooking. After I told
him I was struggling, I sat I'm down two months
ago and said I can't live like this for another year.
Let I want another twenty five. He tries to control
how I act in public, tells me to be quiet
if I'm being playful or talkative, then gas likes to
me when I call it out, and may if I
make plans with friends, which is rare, he asks when

(20:26):
I'll be home before I even leave. I gave him
twenty thousand toward a Duali and he told me I
couldn't drive it until I practiced with him in the
parking lot. I'm forty four nine sixteenth. Repairs around the
house go un touch for years, but he'll help others immediately.
When I asked if he treat a future girlfriend the
way he treats me, he instantly said no, follow by

(20:46):
a classic I don't know how to communicate. I am
tired tired of explaining what I need, tired of being
brushed off, tired of being everything. For everyone while no
one shows up for me and before anyone asks, he's
not neglected. Section he gets sex and bloodobs almost daily.
This isn't about that. He's not a bad man. He's
a great father, but he's a crappy partner and I

(21:08):
just want someone to be someone inspirity. You're rewarding him
to be had bad behavior? Why? Because why is he
getting to DJ every day and he ain't send me
some chores around the house? Girl? Like, what is wrong
with you? Somebody said, what you allows? What will continue?
Don't mill proper cook ever again? He'll learn to cook

(21:29):
and go hungry and it doesn't have to be a
screaming fight. Yeah, she's rewarding us. This, boys and girls,
is a divorce happening in real time. Your man needs
to experience significant emotional event given one. Until it happens,
he will continue to take advantage of you, take you
for granted. Then demand counseling if negative responses. If negative

(21:51):
response filed, I say things from a personal experience. Somebody
that what I said? Why is he getting sex and
will jobs daily when he's not preventing your emotional and
mental needs? How are you still even sexually interesting? In right, like,
how could you want to do something with them? And
he ain't even do what he's suposed to do. Most

(22:14):
women in this situation will completely lose their attraction and
they will hold sex naturally because they aren't into the
guy anymore. If you aren't naturally turned off by his behavior,
then you might want to withhold sex just to make
a point and show him how tired and frustrated you are.
Since you don't know how to communicate, maybe there's more
effective communication. Mm mmm mmm. Somebody says, sorry to burst

(22:38):
your bubble, but he isn't a good man, nor is
he a great father. M what's the fastest you've seen
a marriage ending? My coworker married are very controlling. All

(23:00):
the decisions about the wedding were his, including venue, food, restaurant,
blah blah blah. And she had one request, no cake smashing.
Guess what he did. He smashed the cake in her face.
They keep saying if they do that, that the marriage
is going in. Somebody said, maybe six hours after the wedding,
her ex called and said he was out of jail

(23:21):
and eat at a round home. She never came back.
A friend of my uncle left with his wife to
be the woman he met when traveling in Vietnam. They
got married in Vietnam. On the wedding night, the woman's
daughter told everyone she was pregnant with a child. Marriage
was over. He left the country, now just a lonely
man sending money to support a child he would likely
never meet. I managed a restaurant that we would rent

(23:46):
out as an events face. Dude got married at five
and was caught in the bridal suite by nine with
his ex, who was not invited to the wedding. They
got married on a Sunday and the wife had the
marriage an old on Monday. Her dad told me about
it later the week, and he said they tried to
taught her out of the marriage months before the wedding
even happened. I had a friend that got married in college.
After the ceremony, his wife told him he could him

(24:10):
he could was not allowed, So basically the wife told
him she didn't want him seeing his family, and he
filed for un and on with the next morning. My
friend's marriage lasts about twenty four hours. Soon after he
heard that his wife was banging their best friend after
her hands night out. A lot of fast marriages, somebody

(24:34):
said maybe ten or twelve hour's friend realized on the
night of her wedding that the guy was gay. She
left him on the spot. M how do I take

(24:55):
it slow into relationship? All of my past relationships burned
up right in the beginning and burn out within two years.
I recognize I've never taken things slow and want to
learn what does that look like to you. I've been
seeing someone a click with well, but we have already
kissed on our first date and now she's calling me
sweetheart in text. I see myself falling into old habits.

(25:16):
How can I slow things down? We're bout thirty and
just tell her you want to slow things down, Like,
if you feel like you got a solid person, you
can like step through the situation. But being with my
husband for as long as I have like, we definitely like.

(25:38):
I wouldn't say we too. Thinks slow, But it takes
a long time to learn somebody and get to know them,
So I don't even know if taking things slow matter
as to why your relationships keep ending in two years.
It's got to be something else going on. Somebody say, yeah,
but when things burn out quickly, why do you think
taking things slow will prevent it.

Speaker 6 (25:58):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (26:00):
Somebody said, maybe it's better to look at your goals
and check if you really follow your goals.

Speaker 3 (26:04):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (26:04):
I don't think of anything in your relationships and they
have anything to do with taking things slow. Somebody said,
let's address the elephant in the room. You have relationships
that came to an end within two years. You don't
really know why you're already diving into a new one.
You can get into relationship and be fine without without
Without fine, you'll make mistakes. I would suggest you work

(26:26):
on yourself and get therapy for that. And they said communications, kid,
just tell them. Somebody said find a pen sexual dominatrix.

(26:49):
Don't know what that means. All right, let's read one more.
I is Chucchi. She could do these perfectly, because she
just can't. She read them. She don't read the comments.
This is where I've had this step back in somebody
step My ex texted me at two am asking to

(27:09):
get back together. My ex texted me at two am
asking to get back together. Rebroke up like six months ago,
and it was very messy. She said she needed space
to figure herself out and that we wanted different things.
I was pretty hard. I'm broken, but eventually accepted it
and started moving on. I even went on a few
days with other people. Recently, last night, she sends me
this long text how she made a mistake and this

(27:30):
is what we had. She wants to meet up and
talk about giving it another shot. Part of me is
excited because I really did love her, but another part
of me is like, why now, what's changed? I'm worried
she's just lonely or things and work out with whoever
she left me for. I don't want to be someone's
back up plan, but I also don't want to miss
out on getting back together if she's serious about making
it work this time. My friends are split on what

(27:52):
I should do. Some say people could change and others
say children just hurt me again. I know I need
to decipher myself, and honestly I use I mean, one
thing she knows about you is you'll take her back,
So I hope she's being real because you could risk
definitely getting hurt again. I mean, you need to really

(28:13):
just figure out why she left you in the first
place and make her sweat a little bit and make
her work for it, like if she really wants you.
Somebody said could have been a case of drunk test texting.
Somebody said, it's two am. Should be your first clue
if she asked you to go to for coffee or
she explained why she left you. Yeah, she needs to

(28:35):
like explain. People said, don't re engage. Somebody said, never
search for happiness at the same place where you lost
it exactly. You'll always have that fear too that she
might get unhappy and leave you again. It's just a
very It's a gamble. Love is a gamble. Somebody said,
she just couldn't find anyone better than you, so she's back.

(28:59):
Tell her to kick r Yeah, it's a gamble. Let's
get into these story times, y'all, just as a game.

Speaker 3 (29:17):
How y'all.

Speaker 12 (29:20):
I can appreac you say. I'm trying not to be.

Speaker 3 (29:21):
Before you long today.

Speaker 14 (29:25):
I'm gonna work out all day, just all day long, That's.

Speaker 12 (29:28):
What I'm gonna do.

Speaker 3 (29:29):
You know why, because I'm exhausted.

Speaker 14 (29:33):
Remember I told y'all about the h don't don't fall
for the urge that man started calling me. And even
though I had a conversation with the man and told.

Speaker 12 (29:46):
Him, you know what, listen, mm hmmm, I really just
like being by myself.

Speaker 4 (29:52):
I do.

Speaker 3 (29:55):
Then I ain't stopping.

Speaker 12 (29:56):
He called me yesterday.

Speaker 3 (29:58):
It's the fourth of July.

Speaker 11 (30:01):
I'm home alone, and the man invites me over to
He said, I, I, I wanna invite you over to
my friends.

Speaker 14 (30:07):
Now it's the fourth of July and somebody tell you
they wanna invite you over to their friend's house. Let
me aks you something. What would you think on the fourth.

Speaker 3 (30:17):
Of July they invite you over.

Speaker 14 (30:19):
For so I I I, I asks him, I say, well,
do I need to what what type of clothing do
I need to wear?

Speaker 4 (30:26):
He?

Speaker 5 (30:26):
Oh, you you?

Speaker 12 (30:27):
You okayble cause he he had already came over and
he saw me.

Speaker 3 (30:31):
With the what I had on, that lot of dress
I had on.

Speaker 12 (30:33):
So yeah, he said, yeah, that's good right there. Now,
one thing I do like about this man, he's a gentleman.

Speaker 3 (30:43):
He opens the door for me.

Speaker 12 (30:44):
Yuh, yeah, he does all it. He said that he's
he's he's he's dr.

Speaker 3 (30:49):
But he's dry. He's very dry. He doesn't laugh alid
he rarely smiles.

Speaker 4 (30:57):
And I I let him know that too.

Speaker 12 (30:59):
I said, I energy don't match m m mm and uh.

Speaker 3 (31:05):
And I told him about about itself.

Speaker 12 (31:07):
H U, I said, you know, even though I I
don't mind being friends. I say, boy M, my friends
we greet each other in the body.

Speaker 3 (31:16):
We call it a holy kiss.

Speaker 5 (31:18):
They'll greet.

Speaker 12 (31:20):
But that's okay. You ain't got a hubbie M.

Speaker 6 (31:24):
Then he.

Speaker 11 (31:27):
He told me, he said, well, I don't smile a lot,
and and he said, I pretty much, uh don't talk
talk a lot.

Speaker 5 (31:37):
Okay.

Speaker 12 (31:39):
Then I noticed when he was coming up my stairs.
The first thing the stairs to my building. The first
thing he says is, oh, you got this a lot
of stairs? Yeah, and I can walk up.

Speaker 15 (31:54):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (31:55):
Okay.

Speaker 11 (31:58):
We get old to the friends, and when we get
to the friend's house, there are multiple cars.

Speaker 12 (32:05):
So I'm thinking, you know, these are people, these are
people that have come.

Speaker 3 (32:09):
Over for this gathering.

Speaker 14 (32:13):
And then one night it was like it was like
four five, about five cars outside.

Speaker 16 (32:20):
Nice.

Speaker 5 (32:21):
Nice, you hear me.

Speaker 14 (32:22):
They all look brand new, like it was like three carvettes,
another big truck in.

Speaker 3 (32:29):
Okay.

Speaker 5 (32:29):
So then we we the man comes out and.

Speaker 3 (32:37):
We go through the man's garage.

Speaker 12 (32:39):
In his garage, three more cars.

Speaker 5 (32:42):
Okay.

Speaker 12 (32:42):
So the thing of it is this guy, he's an architect.

Speaker 14 (32:46):
And that the house he had, it's about an eight
bedroom house.

Speaker 5 (32:50):
The man is wealthy.

Speaker 3 (32:52):
Okay, yeah, when we get in there, guess guess who
are in there? Just the man.

Speaker 12 (33:02):
Then the man was like, you all hungry.

Speaker 11 (33:06):
I I had some uh lamb chops and stuff that
he had cooked earlier in the day.

Speaker 3 (33:12):
And I.

Speaker 14 (33:17):
At this point, I, y'all, I'm I'm thinking I'm going
to uh uh uh uh uh a a cookout or
something with you know, with a Johnny Gill atmosphere, some
Jeffrey Bond.

Speaker 3 (33:31):
So come on, I was born.

Speaker 12 (33:33):
You think y'all have seen the video of h Johnny Giar.
This is what I'm I'm I'm I'm thinking i'm'aheaded to.

Speaker 14 (33:40):
Sh So after sitting there and listening to them talk about.

Speaker 12 (33:44):
Uh high school, and.

Speaker 3 (33:47):
I yawned, and oh she's sleeping, Yeah she is so
uh you know. On the way back home, he began to.

Speaker 6 (33:57):
Tell me, you know, yeah he he he he he
cheap man.

Speaker 3 (34:01):
He got a lot of money.

Speaker 14 (34:03):
That's his a lot of money business. What about you, sir,
who want to call me all the time?

Speaker 5 (34:09):
What about you?

Speaker 12 (34:11):
So I asked him, I said, so, this truck, this,
this truck that we're in right now, You're truck. Is
it paid for?

Speaker 3 (34:21):
He said, Nah?

Speaker 12 (34:21):
I got a car note. I said, well, what about
that other vehicle that you had, cause he has another.

Speaker 3 (34:29):
Sports car as well. I'm a DZ anyway, I ain't
gonna touch that.

Speaker 12 (34:34):
There's another sports car.

Speaker 3 (34:36):
And I said, that's paid for it.

Speaker 5 (34:38):
He said no.

Speaker 12 (34:40):
And I know y'all probably say or what he.

Speaker 14 (34:42):
Wanna know if the man h vehicle paid for it
because he's seventy two and who in the hell seventy.

Speaker 3 (34:48):
Two years old got car notes?

Speaker 14 (34:53):
If you gonna go buy a new vehicle, you should
have the money at this.

Speaker 12 (34:57):
Point to pay it off.

Speaker 10 (35:00):
Ain't nobody going to get no car?

Speaker 12 (35:01):
No, the no, seventy two years old? If you think
and then listen.

Speaker 3 (35:07):
This man was a bus driver for a metro bus
driver for thirty years.

Speaker 11 (35:15):
And he told me that him and his friend are
are are renting a place.

Speaker 12 (35:20):
What thirty years as a bus driver.

Speaker 3 (35:25):
And you ain't got a pot to piss in or
winner to throw it out.

Speaker 17 (35:29):
But get this, he is still driving part time for
a university and then another part time job because he retired.

Speaker 12 (35:43):
But he's working part time.

Speaker 3 (35:46):
This man told me last night.

Speaker 12 (35:48):
He said, oh yeah, and I applied for applied for
what what applied for he applied for.

Speaker 14 (36:01):
He applied for another driving job. I told him, I say,
if you do know, they're about to change the law,
uh for seventy for seventy and over drivers?

Speaker 3 (36:14):
Right when I tell.

Speaker 12 (36:17):
Y'all that, when that man told me, he said.

Speaker 14 (36:20):
Well, I didn't pass the eye test because I had left.

Speaker 12 (36:25):
My glasses at home and y I had surgery.

Speaker 5 (36:28):
I can't.

Speaker 12 (36:28):
I'm'a I'm just exhausted, y'all.

Speaker 3 (36:30):
I'm'a exhausted.

Speaker 12 (36:31):
I'm about to shut this down so I can exercise.
I just the last part. When he went to drop
me off, he said, can I come in?

Speaker 3 (36:48):
It's nine o'clock for what?

Speaker 12 (36:53):
Ain't no nightcaps, ain't no none of that.

Speaker 3 (36:56):
Sir, good knowledge.

Speaker 5 (36:59):
Now in my braining, mac listen, I know a lot
of seventy to year olds were car paints. Unfortunately, I
don't want to be that over one.

Speaker 3 (37:08):
I could tell you that they how you feeling today?
I'm goodhead, though? So should I call you sir or
mail be us? What's the tag? What's the tag this
you took that you bought that I bought this? Okay?
Here is that the tag out there?

Speaker 12 (37:23):
Okay?

Speaker 3 (37:23):
For fashion?

Speaker 15 (37:23):
For fashion?

Speaker 3 (37:24):
Okay?

Speaker 5 (37:25):
So I gotta tell you something.

Speaker 15 (37:27):
I got a wife at home, a white man, and
I only do this on weekends, Like what's the change?

Speaker 3 (37:34):
So you don't want nobody to see.

Speaker 5 (37:35):
I don't want nobody to know.

Speaker 3 (37:37):
So what happened? If they share the land? I mean,
the lambsn't get a divorce papers.

Speaker 9 (37:43):
Or anybody can say.

Speaker 3 (37:44):
I got the best bussy out here, so I'll be
making my money and I'm gonna continue to make my money. Okay,
you got the best bussy, the best bussy hour. Okay,
these about frootle D.

Speaker 5 (37:56):
Double D and what did you say?

Speaker 12 (37:57):
You got stuff cotton in there?

Speaker 3 (37:59):
I got like some sweaters and.

Speaker 6 (38:01):
Socks and stuff.

Speaker 13 (38:02):
And Tony gave you that sweater that you wanted me
a things doing those you So it's like how old
was she?

Speaker 9 (38:08):
If she fired out there?

Speaker 5 (38:09):
I would get dam I pray he's mentally ill and
he don't really have a wife at home, because this
is terrible. Somebody said I need his wife to see
this for health safety. Somebody said he looked like Tyler Perry.
Somebody said he left it hanging, so can't nobody get
it twisted? Mm hmmm. You know what.

Speaker 6 (38:38):
I'm gonna wake yours up in the morning.

Speaker 3 (38:40):
The party st got nigga like Nick, I don't got.

Speaker 6 (38:46):
Something would have looked like that?

Speaker 5 (39:19):
Why am I incorporating this in my workout? Also, when
I think of California people, this is what comes to
my brain because I just feel like that's how they
be working out for real. Somebody said, I'm not sure
what I just watch, but I like it. Mm hmmm.

Speaker 11 (39:38):
I hope your favorite drink is always miraculously in your refrigerator.
I hope whenever you check your bank account you got
more money in it than you actually expect.

Speaker 3 (39:47):
It to be. In that multipo. I hope every time
you go pay your utilities that shit say zero balance do.

Speaker 12 (39:53):
I hope that every time you crank your car up
it's a full taker guess.

Speaker 5 (39:57):
I hope that every time you reach into your purse,
wallet or how could you have more than enough money
to get what you need.

Speaker 4 (40:02):
I hope your favorite drink is.

Speaker 6 (40:04):
Yes, oh my god, when you doing a thing, lay

(40:51):
out a file. I got myself.

Speaker 5 (41:41):
Listen, Mary's never been a dancer, but I think it's
the boots and the corset that just you know Mary,
She's never been a dancer. Somebody said, Mary needs to
have a seat. Somebody said she's singing like them teeth
about the fall. Somebody say, you could tell what a

(42:03):
singer is in debt. Somebody said I to call my
bank in a bathroom.

Speaker 15 (42:11):
Here's a scientific method to stop overthinking. You're gonna love
this one.

Speaker 3 (42:15):
It's so clear and structured.

Speaker 15 (42:17):
If you're new, here on Michael, I help you master
your energy so you can obspiral your life. If you're
into that, for me and click the link in my bio.
So this method is drawn from cognitive neuroscience and clinical psychology,
and it works by interrupting the rumination loop and rewiring
your brain for clarity and calm.

Speaker 3 (42:33):
Here are the five steps. Step one, label the loop.

Speaker 15 (42:37):
Psychology calls this metacognitive awareness. Say to yourself out loud,
if possible, this is rumination. This is overthinking. It's a
thought loop. It's not truth. It's a part of me,
it doesn't define me. This activates your prefrontal cortex, which
weakens the grip of the default mode network, which is
where rumination lives. Step two, shift your attention to physical sensation.

(43:00):
Psychology calls this embodied interruption, and it moves your attention
from your thoughts to present moment physical sensations. Here's what
you do. Name three sounds that you currently hear. Now
feel the air moving across your face.

Speaker 3 (43:15):
Now clap your hand loud.

Speaker 15 (43:18):
All of these activate the ventral vagel network, and this
resets safety signals in your nervous system.

Speaker 3 (43:24):
Step three change state physically.

Speaker 15 (43:27):
Psychology calls this pattern interrupt and what it means is
move your body to break the cycle. So do ten
jumping jacks, then hop or run up the stairs. Then
finish it off by splashing cold water on your face.
Overthinking is a mental symptom of a stagnant physiological state.

Speaker 3 (43:45):
Change the state, change the mind. Step four rewire with intention.

Speaker 15 (43:50):
Psychology calls this cognitive reframing. So ask yourself, what do
I wish I believed instead? Or what would I do
next if I trusted life? Make this tangible by writing
it down or reading it aloud. This turns rumination into
raw material for growth, and it shifts your neural circuitry
from reactive loops into agency and insight.

Speaker 3 (44:12):
Five. Anchor all of this with a ritual.

Speaker 15 (44:14):
Psychology calls this ritual habit formation.

Speaker 5 (44:18):
Here's what you do.

Speaker 15 (44:18):
Light a candle, then say out loud, group interrupted, I'm
back in choice. Then intentionally blow out the candle to
close the loop. This actually creates a neural endpoint and
reduces recurrence like freedom in the comments to remember this technique.

Speaker 5 (44:34):
To I think it was all perfect, this effort a
candle and blowing. I can't do that. I get too
scared that that messes with me. Anyway, y'all pass this
show inspirations on the way, y'all stay bless.

Speaker 3 (44:58):
They're there to get some part of you the cross
your pride, you're entitlement, you're arrogant something, and you have
to die. So God has chosen for this individual to
help that die, but to not your enemy. They are
an instrument. Number three, Judas comes before. Next level power

(45:18):
is anybody who's experiencing betrayal. Right, now raise your hand.
Y'all got a next level power coming. Thank you forgetting it.
If you don't get pentecost before you get Judas replaced,
I have to heal and handle this right, because if

(45:39):
I don't, I'm not choosing justice or Matthias. All of
y'all fake it's making sense. Number four, acknowledge it hurt.
Acting hard is hard. It is I've tried to act
hard before. I'm one of those dudes. I don't have

(46:00):
no shame addnuting it, acting hard and then you're starting
to cry. You good, Yeah, what's wrong? Nothing, bro Acting
hard is hard. Acknowledge that it hurt. But don't blame
them and say stuck in the hurt, or you'll be
like that dirty filter. Acknowledge God, this disappointed me a

(46:25):
lot of us. You know what's hurting you the most
right now, your idea of what you should be. I
thought by now I would have. I thought by now
you would have. I thought by now it could have,
and so all of these could have would have. All
of these things are having us upset at God, and
God's trying to get us to understand. This is your
ideas that you're mad at, not me. You have projected

(46:48):
your idea on me and expected me to meet your deadline.
And now you're saying that I'm not answering your prayers
when your idea is not my will. I know I
came today to help. I know number five we're gonna
end with this. Praying for them prevents hardness. Matthew Chapter five,

(47:14):
verse forty four, Jesus says, but I say to you,
love your friends. Nobody called it. I'm gonna keep saying it,
but I say to you, love your friends, Love your friends.
Y'all are y'all looking? I'm gonna keep saying to y'all,
get it, love your friends enemies. So I'm gonna say

(47:38):
it again, and y'all correct me, so y'all can get it.
Love your friends. Okay, thank you? Where were y'all at all? Right?
But I say to you, love your enemies. Bless those
who bless you. No, bless those who curse you. So good,
somebody blowed it harning you flip you Off'll bless you,

(48:02):
oh every one, for Jesus, Bless those who curse you. Look,
do good to those who hate you, and pray for
those who spitefully use you and persecute you. Why that
you may be sons of your father in heaven, you

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show yourself off as a son of the Father when
they're cursing you, but you're blessing them. You're showing yourself
off as a Christian when they're doing wrong to you,
and you do right to them. Why is it so difficult?
It's because we've been hearing so much preaching about you.

Speaker 15 (48:45):
You don't take that.

Speaker 3 (48:47):
I love Jesus and all, but I ain't standing for that.
Try Jesus not me, because.

Speaker 1 (48:57):
I find.

Speaker 3 (49:01):
So we hear stuff like, yeah, I could correlate to that,
but that's not what the Bible tells us to be.
Can I tell you something? Nobody can fight for Jerry
like God, nobody. I went to a church a few

(49:22):
weeks ago. Some of y'all may know about it. People
start talking about me because I went there and I
preached what God told me to preach. I prayed, I
got counselor from my elders, and this is something that
God wanted me to do. I don't just take invitations
just because of an opportunity. I really want to be
spirit Land. I know what it feels like to make
a decision that God didn't tell you to do, and
you have to recover from that decision or try to

(49:43):
lie to act like it was God, but that wasn't him.
I don't want to experience that anymore. People start saying
stuff about me, and oh, I can't believe this about you,
and oh I thought you were this, and oh I
thought you were that. I wanted to say, I promised
with my phone because the unredeemed part of me likes

(50:05):
to be petty. Okay, I'm just being honest. The unredeemed
part of me likes so, oh you want to talk
about mother hoo. That's me tell them the truth. I

(50:26):
wanted to say stuff, and then like, if I could
just be transparent, I would click on the profile of
the person who said something. Y'all ever did that? Okay,
I feel like that's some real people know I'm too
safe for that. Pray for y'all. Okay, I would click
on the profile. See them like clubing and stuff, and oh,
I want to I know you not talking in that moment.

(50:56):
Holy Spirit reminds you. If the world hates you, keep
in mind that they hated me first until now. Game changer.
They have a wire churming gads. This universal. It's gonna
fit any weedy er. They have difference. I got called
beels above. How I'm eating with tax collectors. I'm having

(51:24):
a woman washed my feet who has a reputation of
sexual morality. And the church people said he can't be
a prophet because if he was a man of God,
he would know the woman who's touching him is unclean.
They said things about me. I know you not gonna
dis likes misrepresent me because of some comments.

Speaker 5 (51:49):
Who gave you.

Speaker 3 (51:50):
Oxygen on today, who saved your soul from an everlasting hell,
who's being good.

Speaker 2 (51:59):
To you, who gave you a beautiful bride, who's blessing you?
Are you going to misrepresent me.

Speaker 3 (52:11):
Because of a profound picture from somebody who doesn't know you?
And you're gonna set them straight after I just told
you he said it straight. And I was reminded in
that moment, if God before me, I'd be against. So

(52:42):
I say this because I really want us to get it.
When you are a biblical Christian, people will not like you.
Your witness will be offensive. If everybody likes you, you

(53:03):
probably don't because it's hard to become a different version
of you to be accepted by different cliques. And it
was my experience with my judases in twenty eighteen that
kept me in that moment. So'm saying some comments that

(53:26):
didn't represent the kingdom whose sword fights don't work. You
gotta said, the Bible is called a sword, So fighting
scripture with scripture with Christians that doesn't work. It just
causes more division. Sword fights don't work. Who can fight
for me best, my God, and I pray to you

(53:50):
here and see my heart. Whoever it is who has
been hurt, upset, mom X, whatever it is, let it
go today, let it go, Let it go one to day,
Let it go. How do you recover? They're an instrument

(54:15):
that's not your enemy. How do you recover? They fulfilled
an assignment? Peter said, they have gone from us. They're done.
They did what they were supposed to do. And you
have to understand this. All things work together for the
good of those who love the Lord and are called

(54:36):
by his name. As painful as it was for Judas
to kiss Jesus, all of us right now are benefiting
from Judas kiss all of us. So when we get
a larger facility, I'll do it. But right now we're
not large enough. So I just want to do this

(54:58):
because I feel let to where you are. We can't
all come to the altar. I miss crowded altars. But
if you are, if you've been battling with bitterness unforgiveness,
are you just one answers because of what a Judas did.
I just want you to stand so I can pray
for you. That's it. We forget who's looking around.

Speaker 6 (55:20):
It's for you.

Speaker 3 (55:21):
This is your moment. This is your moment, your moment
of putting this before God. Whoever it is, I'm gonna
shift your perspective, whatever their name is, the person, this
is what I want you to hear. Jesus loves them.

(55:42):
You don't have to repeat that to me. I want
you to see them different. Jesus loves them, he died
for them, and if they repent, we're all gonna be
together in heaven. They're gonna be right there next to you.
Same grace you and I got, they're gonna get too.

(56:03):
They could be somebody who molested you, raped you, lied
on you, hurt you, sold you out, ghosted you, whatever
it is. In this moment, look around the room. I
want you to see that you're not the only one
struggling with a judas.

Speaker 1 (56:18):
We're gonna let it go.

Speaker 13 (56:21):
Why are women everywhere choosing Abby X the new Tommy
Talk Alternative My results speak.

Speaker 3 (56:28):
So if if you would just slip your hands, this
is not scripted. It's just a spirit led moment. Hands
are lifted, not out of religion, but just saying I
surrender so God, in this moment, we acknowledge it hurt.
You know the story of the man, of the woman

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whose hands are lifted, who have cried on their pillow case,
who have tried to hide the tears, who feel a
tightness in their yes when they see their name on
social media or called. We don't want to carry that anymore.
We want to be free. All bitterness does is contaminate

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the container. God, we want to let it go. We
want to let it go. We're asking that you shift
our perspective, that you love them just like you love me.
And if you could be nailed on a cross and
why you're dying, if you could say, forgive them, for
they know not what they do, give me the strength

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to forgive whoever it was who hurt me. I don't
want to breathe to go forth before you'll loved us.
I don't want to be a clog come doing anymore.
On this day, the sixth month of this twenty twenty
three calendar year, I want it to be said, I
laid it at the altar on today. It won't It

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won't hunt me anymore, it won't plague me anymore. I
know it takes a process. Sometimes healing is messy, but God,
far be it from me if they don't see me
as a messenger, because I'm still bound by the mess
and God help me to forgive me too, for not

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listening to your warnings, for not seeing your signs, for
disobeying your voice and suffering for it. You promised me
that you restore the years that the canker worm has stolen.
That doesn't mean you're gonna give us more time. It
just means what you can do with the time we

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have left can equal what you were gonna do the
first time you told us. We lay it down on Today,
broken still heard it. We're asking that you heal us
for Jesus' name.

Speaker 5 (58:58):
Amen.