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Speaker 1 (00:14):
Day July. Let's lace it up with that extra spice.
Earth is Ghetto Tuesday, July eight, twenty twenty five.

Speaker 2 (00:25):
Opening monolog y'all make way because we've landed in Tuesday,
July eight, twenty twenty five, and guess what Earth is?
Still living rent free in its own chaos. Welcome to
Earth is Ghetto, the one stop hotline for all the
mess mankind, serving fresh daily. We got that leftover Monday mood,
but dialed up a notch because now the week's officially

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in motion. Whether the news is fueling your side eye,
Reddit's clowning up your timeline, or your cousin's latest status
is making you reconsider family brunch.

Speaker 1 (00:54):
Har we've got you covered.

Speaker 2 (00:57):
So grab your favee caffeine concoction, fluff that pillow behind
your laptop, and let's dive into the absurdity we collectively
call normal life. It's ghetto, it's real, and it's right here,
so let's get into it.

Speaker 3 (01:09):
What's that?

Speaker 4 (01:11):
What's up? Y'all? Happy Tuesday? I had to get Chattisha
together a little bit. She couldn't remember what the date is,
you know, she is just ai. How are y'all doing
the day? I am doing well roll my bike today.
It was definitely very hot today for sure. Went to

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Longhorn and Ate Salmon today with my husband and he
watched some lug around an engine that he's working on currently.
And yeah, watched Love Island. Nothing too crazy happening on
that today and I'm starting to rewatch Big Love. Oh.
But yeah, other than that, it was a nice, quiet,

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beautiful hot day, just the way I love it. I'm
going to go into that's what I like on here.
So somebody says sharing this when my fellow colored to
who don't know how to swim.

Speaker 5 (02:07):
What exactly makes you sink in water? The red model
pushes the water upward while pulling the arms up, which
in turn pushes the body downward. The splashes created by
this motion lift air pockets and sweep them under the
arms fat. This makes the downward to push light and ineffective.
The green model, on the other hand, keeps the hands
constantly in the water. It follows a figure eight like path,

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and the palm gently indicates the direction of this flow.
This figure eight is not flat. Each turn contains a
soft curve. The red model's legs also push water upward
during the recovery phase, and the body is pushed downward.
The downward motions are very steep, as if trying to
step on something. It fails to gather and push the
water and instead pierces it harshly with the bottom of
the foot. The green model uses the inner part of

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the legs and feet like a fin to gather and
push waters fintly. During the recovery phase. The legs are
repositioned in a way that minimizes upward thrust. In the
yellow model, it's enough for only the head to stay
above the surface, but the shoulders also rise above it.
The arms and legs exhaust themselves just to keep this
extra mass outside the water. Proper technique is not just
about not sinking. It must also be sustainable. What exactly

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makes you sinking?

Speaker 4 (03:12):
A lot of thinking here, y'all, But I'm trying to
help y'all out. I know how to full though, Thank goodness,
I think that's all I like down here, y'all. So
let's go ahead and get Chatty Shy to get this
news drummed up.

Speaker 6 (03:29):
All right, y'all.

Speaker 4 (03:29):
Let's see how Chatty Sho does with this news, and
reddits I gave it all to her. I once, let's
see if she can handle it.

Speaker 2 (03:40):
Here's your news and Reddit round up for today, July eighth,
twenty twenty five, served with a side of.

Speaker 1 (03:46):
SaaS and common sense. Today's headlines.

Speaker 2 (03:50):
Pediatrician sues RFK Junior over alleged vaccine misinformation and it's
harm to her practice. Republicans brace for political combat, trying
to fend off Democrats and key battleground states. Yemen attacks
a US aircraft carrier, escalating tensions in the Red Sea.

Speaker 1 (04:07):
Man killed after exchanging gunfire with border patrol near the
southern US border. Cardi B and Stefan Diggs may have
called it quits.

Speaker 2 (04:16):
The timeline's gone cold and unfollow buttons were tapped. Epstein
investigation ends.

Speaker 4 (04:22):
Oh no, So I definitely think that Cardi B and
Stephan Diggs thing had to be some pr which I'm
glad because I'm like, there's no way Cardi B is
dating freaking Stephan Daves like he got a baby with
bow Wow's baby mom and a whole bunch of other kids,
Like it couldn't be. So I definitely smelled some pr

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in that big.

Speaker 2 (04:45):
Time without any major charges for the high profile names
people were hoping would get exposed. Would I travel solo?
Absolutely yes, and you should too. Go find your peace.
Dwight Howard splits from fiance and the streets continue whispering
he might play for the other team.

Speaker 1 (05:05):
TSA may n shoe removal. Finally, your toes can breathe again.

Speaker 2 (05:10):
Married to medicine star running for office from Scrubs to
the Senate.

Speaker 1 (05:13):
Maybe actor accuses Tyler Perry's VP of misconduct.

Speaker 2 (05:18):
Developing story, but drama is bubbling.

Speaker 1 (05:22):
Ata for refusing to let my brother's.

Speaker 2 (05:24):
Girlfriend sleep in my bed. Nope, not the a hole.
That's your bed, not Airbnb. Plus, your brother is out
of pocket for assuming.

Speaker 1 (05:32):
You'd surrender your sheets.

Speaker 2 (05:34):
The pullout was available, they can pull out of that.
He's embarrassed because he was entitled, not because you were rude.

Speaker 4 (05:43):
So, yeah, that was an m I V. A hole.
She kind of jumped to that. But yeah, this dude
said that his brother was mad at him because he
didn't let his girlfriend sleep in his bed. And it's like, yeah,
your girlfriend not sleeping in my bed. Why would she
want to sleep in your brother's bed. That's creepy and cringey.

Speaker 2 (06:01):
Anyway, Ada, if I leave my girlfriend on vacation after
she fought a family the police and then punched me. Woo,
get on that flight with your child and your dignity.
This woman clearly needs help, but not the kind you
can provide Mid Florida meltdown, Protect your peace and your son.

Speaker 1 (06:23):
Wife's best friend acting like she's.

Speaker 2 (06:24):
Auditioning to be second wife, sir, you see it, We
see it, only your wife doesn't want to. The second
wife jokes lap sitting ring comments. Your instincts are right.
Dea is emotionally latching on to you, and it's already inappropriate.
Your wife's denial doesn't make it harmless.

Speaker 1 (06:44):
Time to set.

Speaker 2 (06:44):
Boundaries before you end up A headline. Wife says your
funky boxers need.

Speaker 1 (06:49):
Their own load.

Speaker 2 (06:49):
She ain't wrong if your boxer's got that much base
at the end of the day, separate load them drawers.
Ain't nobody trying to marinate with funky fresh fridays in
the laundry basket.

Speaker 1 (07:00):
It wash them solo and with hot water. Please. One
friend slept with the other friend's wife.

Speaker 7 (07:06):
Now what.

Speaker 2 (07:08):
This is, coworker mess with friend energy. Personally distance yourself
from friend b Even if friend day's marriage was a mess,
be cross the line. If be can do that to
someone close, what makes you immune? Keep it cordial, but
don't keep it close. Best cheating revenge ever. Now, this
is how you handle betrayal with grace and strategy. No yelling,

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no slashing tires, just quiet revenge with receipts, moved out,
new place, lined up, blindsided the cheater on moving day,
with proof and a deadline.

Speaker 1 (07:40):
That man is a legend.

Speaker 2 (07:42):
Let me know if you want more Reddit mess podcast
openings or to dive into Cardian Stephan's cryptic social media shade.

Speaker 4 (07:51):
No, I don't care enough about step On in Cardi
B's shade. Oh I don't want to know today from
her damas any passing things.

Speaker 6 (08:03):
Oh?

Speaker 4 (08:03):
Where movies are coming out this weekend? That's what I
want to know. I know Superman is coming out. Yes,
I'm gonna top Yvonix her because do you know me?

Speaker 2 (08:38):
Here are the new movie releases this week July eight
and fourteenth, twenty twenty five, along with key upcoming premieres.
This week's theatrical releases Superman July eleven, James Gunn's reboot
stars David Korn's wet as Superman, a big franchise launch
that's drawing hype as one of July's most anticipated films.

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Hindi action thriller featuring Raj Kumar Rao hits Indian theaters today.

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Eddington political drama from A twenty four starring Juaquin Phoenix
and Emma Stone.

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Speaker 2 (09:47):
Demon Slayer Infinity Castle releases in Japan, with international release.

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Later this month. Site turn Search thirty nine.

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Looking Ahead July twenty five, plus The Fantastic four First
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News fourteen, Happy Gilmour two Nostalgic Netflix comedy sequel with
Adam Sandler.

Speaker 1 (10:11):
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Speaker 2 (10:14):
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Baby d Zingle, Roja two, Why Theatrical July eighteenth.

Speaker 1 (10:27):
I know what you did last summer.

Speaker 2 (10:28):
Smurfs, Eddington, Demon Slayer, Infinity.

Speaker 1 (10:31):
Castle Wide Limited Theatrical.

Speaker 4 (10:35):
Hmmm, Eddington, when Waking Phoenix and Emma Stone, that sounds interesting.
I like me some Waking Phoenix and Emma Stone, so
I might be something worth watching. I might watch Superman
as well. It's really nothing else. I hate spending my
money on movies that are literally trash. I think we

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got all the information we could pass what we want today, y'all.
So let's see what I got in my story times.
I don't know if I have a lot of them,
these reddits, they was whatever this person said. I found

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out my partner of five years hasn't proposed to me yet.
He's a thirty thirty year old man and she's twenty five.
They've been together for five years, they lived together for four.
They were very much in love, have a home and
pass together, and no complaints about their relationship. Really happy,
great chemistry, but He told her that he wants to

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have kids and wants to ensure that the person he
marries also wants kids. I don't want kids. We have
multiple discussions about this, since we never came up to
any conclusion. I'm pretty sure he's just willing to wait
and spend as much time as he can with me
until he's ready to start a family and see if
I've change my mind. But I can help but have
the mental black noise. Eventually, this is probably going to

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end as much as I don't want it to. So
I'm really tour. I don't know what to do. What
should I do? I mean, if you want kids and
you don't want kids, like unless you gonna get a surrogate.
I mean, I don't really know a reason for not
wanting kids. Some people just don't want kids. Some people.

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She said that she knows what goes into motherhood and
she don't want to have nothing to do with that,
and I end her career. So I mean she's not
getting any I mean she's only twenty five, but I
mean men can have children up to forever. So she
wants to hang out with him until he gets tired

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of her. Somebody said time to end it. You want
fundamentally different lives like wasting each other's time and will
be painful. The best of both, best of the both
of you. I mean, she's only twenty five. Somebody said,
my marriage is draining me. She's a female in her
twenties married to someone in his late thirties. It's been

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less than four years since their marriage, and she regressed
every single minute of it. She was born and raised
abroad a her middle class but wasn't respoiled. She agreed
to marry the man out of guilt in my own will.
There was no pressure, and that's something I fully take
accountability for. They pad a kid. The kid has special needs.
She hasn't been able to work. Her husband's a broad winner.

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She's asked him to try harder, he doesn't really want to.
Their son was dinosaur autism, and then she said the
need for stability, save and support all became urgent. Her
parents stepped in and to help them. Their son is
enrolled in a therapy program. They cost a lot a

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month that she won't be able to afford it. She said,
to make mariners versus personality just doesn't align with her value.
She just wants to know if she should could get
a divorce, I mean you can, but if you're depending
on him for your finances, you can have to find

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and then the avenue. Somebody said, are you educated, I
mean a good degree where you can find work. Yeah,
it's pretty much gonna boil down to her finding work.
What screens this couple isn't going to last long. He's

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going through divorce, but it'll be finalized soon.

Speaker 1 (14:42):
Oh.

Speaker 4 (14:43):
One are both constantly testing the relationship. If you feel
a need to test on one, it's trying to end
it contempt. Both of them think they can fix each
other when they're all readys and if they're the a
holes when they're constantly arguing, they make jokes to hurt
one another when they say something like we thought having

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another kid would bring us together. That is like the
red flag when people have another kid and they didn't
want that kid and they think that's gonna bringing a
spark that always was a nail and a coffin different
opinions on having children, cake face smashing at the wedding
when one said not to do it. When we need

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to talk, it's all about us, it's important, it's meant
we can we talk about it next week when they
had to keep telling everybody else how much they love
each other. And that's what all you'se ready to start
with we had. We're made for each other. This is
my soulmate. It's like, come on, man, do you think
I made a mistake. I'm forty three and eight weeks

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ago to my husband that I think we need to separate.
We've been neared for eighteen years, married for thirteen. There
was nothing dramatic that brought it on, but years of
questioning something disconnected the small things. By the end, there
was no chemistry between us. Being intimate felt like something
I had to do versus one to do. Outside of
the bedroom. There wasn't much intimacy. We're so different that

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it got hard to find things to talk about, and
the fact that he's very introverted was puting strain on
our life. All that said, he's a really good human.
He consistently works on better himself. He's smart, kind of handsome,
dress as well. He lis is most of the time.
This leads me to did I make a mistake? Like?
Should I have appreciated the companionship and safety comfort of life?

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I mean, the grass isn't always grander. But if you
went to the extreme to separate from your spouse, it
had to be for a reason. It had to be like,
that's a big thing to be like asked for a separation,
somebody said, I don't think it's a mistake to want

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more for yourself. But I will give a slightly different
perspective from others in the comments, just to know that
everyone has their annoying parts about them and flaws. You
may find a more social guy, but then the social
guy may be like the center of attention or someone
who loves intimacy but needs can constantly feel the spark
speaking to other people. In very long term relationships, I've
come to learn with as that it's really hard to

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find that person who is all around still perfect, especially
after twenty years. Not only do people change over the
years naturally, but some things that could be fun and
exciting about a certain kind of personality can become annoying.
You have to really think about what you're willing to
give up. Very true, and like I said, the grass
ain't always grinner, and that's very true somebody. It's always

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something annoying about somebody. That's why you don't need to
settle because it's gonna if they annoyed you in the beginning,
just wait twenty years from now. It might be a
hole for telling my parents my brother had a child
outside of his marriage. For years, my brother has been
trying to go into business with my husband and hasn't
worked out for various reasons. But he finally had an

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idea my husband thought would be successful. The thing is,
before my husband goes into business with anyone, he does
extensive background check on them. I'm not sure if he
made my brother aware of that, but he found out
that my brother has a daughter outside of his marriage.
I had no idea this child existed. My husband warned
me I shouldn't say anything, but I couldn't just not

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tell my parents, and so I told him a few
days ago. They were shocked as me that she existed,
and they immediately confronted my brother about it. Turns out
his wife's fully aware, but says she would leave it
leave if he tried to include the daughter and the family.
My parents want to meet her and include her and
our family, but my sister in lawster, I need to
leave if that happens. My brother won't give them. My

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mother's them her mother's contact information. They want my husband
to find out for them, but he's refusing to get involved.
So everything's a crapshow Right now, I personally want to
meet my so I tell my husband. If he doesn't
give me the information, I'll ask a friend he uses
for background checks myself, which has caused multiple fights between us.
My brother hates me right now and is it blaming

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me for his potential but divorce? But I don't think
it's fair as I didn't know my parents would immediately
confront him. I did ask him not to.

Speaker 3 (19:19):
This is a.

Speaker 4 (19:20):
Very slippery slope, very I mean, it's gonna be messy,
especially if you contact this niece and your brother doesn't
want nothing to do with or and the parents do.
It's just gonna be messy all around. Y'all needs to
go to family therapy. Honestly, it's a whole mess if

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people care. Somebody say you the ah, you're old enough
to be married, and when you found out about your
brother's child, you ran to your parents. The only one
you should have gone to unless you didn't want to
go to anyone, would be your brother, who's an adult.
Doesn't warn me, I shouldn't say anything, but you did any.
A lot of people saying she to a hole. It's

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definitely a slippery slope what she's doing. Somebody say, you're
the a holders for going to your parents instead of
your brother.

Speaker 6 (20:12):
They not feeling her. Yeah, messy, messy.

Speaker 4 (20:28):
I accidentally told the woman i'm seeing I love her,
but I didn't really mean it. What do I do?
It's been about three months a day and last night
over dinner, she says she loved me. I reflectively told
her I love her too. How to fix this? I mean,
are you going to eventually love her? I mean, what's tea?
Somebody said, if you want to be really honest, you
could just say you were surprised for her commony answer

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and that you weren't fully ready to say that yet.
Just don't string her if you see no future, that's unfair, cruel. Yeah,
I mean if you don't want to be with her,
But if you think you might grow to lover, that's different.

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If you have a dainty app what's a an immediate
left wife? It will cause you to swipe left, just
like in real life of your day, tries to take
you to another place you hadn't planned on.

Speaker 7 (21:30):
Leave.

Speaker 4 (21:32):
Perfect first date, the most unreasonable things to ever do
when someone when someone you just met for the first time,
skydive anything, listening trace they don't want rather than the
man they do want, photos with skins, smoothing the filters applied.
It's a dating site, not social media. Listen. People can't

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get away from these filters on each day, on each site. Man,
I'm almost forty, so I think these things just make
ladies look really immature for their age. Filters, big group photos,
face picks, only too many picks of alcohol and drugs,
and your bio listen off requirements and negativity overused quotes.

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Looking for a real man. Kids are my world. No
stuff that's bare minimum. All her pictures are taken at
the gym. Some of y'all strict height requirements, even if
I were clear most common ones unless she's extra tall,

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in which case fine. But if you're one hundred and
forty centimeters in demand a two meter man, I'm reporting
your profile. I mean it. If you don't want to
shorty do why you do have to say like I'm tall,
Like it's okay to me to say a height. If
a girl gives the middle finger, they don't like that
mention In astrology. They don't like that. I don't do drama.

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Most of the people do do drama, have kids, want
more women. You are forty two years old. Somebody said,
I'm hoping people don't hate on me for this, But
if they have photos trying to show off their physique
in a promiscuous way, photos for their butt and boobs
are fully out, I don't like it. They don't like it.

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All right, y'all, let's get into these story times.

Speaker 8 (23:39):
I can I say something without people but getting mad.
I really, really really need most of y'all just aligned
with what I'm saying. Don't get mad, don't jump side,
don't say I shouldn't say it, but I don't finish
say something that seventy five percent of women would love
to tell the men in their life. Hey, a lot

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of men say, oh, she doesn't never get on top,
she don't know how to ride, she's boring. The reason
why a lot of women are not getting on top
is because you have not given her nothing to ride.
She don't got none to work with, bro, and she's

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in the positioning that she.

Speaker 7 (24:28):
Feel like both of y'all can work with.

Speaker 3 (24:30):
I see it, and I.

Speaker 7 (24:31):
Ain't taking it back. It ain't that she doesn't know
how to ride or won't ride.

Speaker 8 (24:36):
She just don't got nothing to ride. And there's really
not a down play on you. But y'all may be
sexually incompatible. Now y'all have a happy Fourth of July weekend.

Speaker 4 (24:47):
I mean, she ain't lying. Somebody said, let me take
it to another level. Writing takes a lot of feminine
energy as well. Some women are living exhaust energy because
we are working hard all day and then ask to
do more. We're work in the bare room. Writing takes energy.
Somebody said, ma'am, this is a word. They have a
push pop that won't pop when you push, a push

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pop that won't pop when you push steady, want to
do positions your men who can't swing you like the
thick and wild, but only got enough for thin and mile.
It's sad how bad they talk about us, but they
really don't understand how much reprotect their ego. Let's talk
about the broken rides them blood pressure, diabetes ride, beer

(25:34):
belly rides. Can't even get them on, get on them
because they stay broke. Sexual incompatibility is real. I've been
there in my first marriage, my second marriage. Now woo,
life is good. You gotta have some compatibility, and you
got a house on the work when when you want
to do some tricks, that's something you gotta find out.

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I mean, and this is the thing about not doing
the do before where you get married, because you got
to make sure you have a compatibility. I'm not condoning
Premtal doing the dude, but if you get stuck with
a push, pop, would no pop the push? That kind
of sucked?

Speaker 7 (26:16):
Hello, Lovelace.

Speaker 1 (26:17):
Is this part two of the Hot Carcake.

Speaker 9 (26:19):
If you haven't seen part one, please look at the
video right before this one for context.

Speaker 7 (26:24):
Now he's placed me in the car.

Speaker 9 (26:25):
I've noticed this hot He gets in and I say, please,
can you turn on the air?

Speaker 1 (26:29):
He said, Oh, I thought you knew my air doesn't work.

Speaker 7 (26:33):
Now I'm stumped, but I say.

Speaker 1 (26:34):
Very polightly, Oh, we're running my home. Would you like
for me to drive? He says, no, I want to
drive my car. Then I immediately understood.

Speaker 6 (26:44):
It wasn't about me.

Speaker 1 (26:45):
It wasn't even about the car. It's about He had
an image in his head that if he.

Speaker 9 (26:50):
Is a man with be up at the beginning of
the day all the way through the end of the day,
that he was sitting an increased message gear.

Speaker 7 (26:56):
Unfortunately, I did.

Speaker 9 (26:58):
Not receive an increased mischief. What I received was his
words and his actions were not alike. What I received
was that he could be a little selfish. He wants
what he wants, and he did not take the time
to even think through why we should not be in
a hot car.

Speaker 1 (27:14):
With no air condition in hot and lantal wet weather. Now,
I believe in bashing out black men. I believe in
building him up.

Speaker 9 (27:21):
I'll simply say, fellas, if you want to send us
a good message, it's simple ways to think that through.

Speaker 1 (27:26):
I'll say, ladies, you have to make the choices that
work for you. I went on that date. I completed
the date, but I actually came off the day.

Speaker 9 (27:33):
Believing that we were on two different pages because his
ideal of care and my idea of care were two
different things.

Speaker 4 (27:40):
So this lady was on later Daters, and it's like
a dating show for older people, and clearly she's still dating.
But she went on a man with a man on
a date with a man with no air It's like, bro,
then I'm gonna meet you there because you're not about
It's Atlanta in the summer. No, I'm not about to
pass out on the way to the day. You know
how much heat fluctuates your body. Like, No, we can

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meet there. You can draw your car. I don't have
nothing against you. Don't your air not working? But yeah,
we're driving separately though, no show, no.

Speaker 10 (28:14):
Shaking that pass and the club in the water, Pip
came produnc sugar, show up, show me what that is called?

Speaker 3 (28:34):
What they what they're getting from pop the club sho't know.

Speaker 11 (28:40):
You don't shot up shaking that cash from the club,
shoulder shaking that as.

Speaker 1 (28:53):
The club.

Speaker 11 (28:56):
Over the shot shocking shaking that.

Speaker 12 (29:11):
And you showing motherfucker that you rocking with them through anything,
and they put you through anything. Dum hold on, hold on, bitch,
you got white too much dip on you, Chip.

Speaker 3 (29:20):
I was just trying to show you off a solid
and I fucked with you and I love you.

Speaker 12 (29:23):
You feel what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (29:24):
That's why I was trying to show you I was.

Speaker 1 (29:27):
I moved the fool.

Speaker 12 (29:28):
Now you ain't you, ain't you ain't gonna you, ain't
you you ain't fnna maximize this ship right here over here.
I swear to God Jay Yemen mother like you. You
show him like, hey, don't worry, I'm here for through
this and that and the third, and then it's like
you you starting like it's becoming a pattern. You're feeling
me your asses. You are Nah, hell nah, you hain't
way too paprikel you. You ain't way too much Peprika.

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You do ship, that's what you're really doing.

Speaker 3 (29:51):
Fuck, I ain't tell you I'm gonna do all that.
And then when you fuck around the lead and they
be like.

Speaker 12 (29:55):
I thought you were gonna stick to it out, No, bitch,
I told you that I was gonna stick through it
with the tough times to through you know what I'm
talking about.

Speaker 4 (30:03):
I should have.

Speaker 11 (30:04):
I should have.

Speaker 3 (30:04):
I should have I should have showed up to a
fat print.

Speaker 12 (30:06):
I'm gonna stick throughing enough, not anything, bitch, Because I
asked what to God, you ain't gonna You ain't been
now what your thought it would.

Speaker 3 (30:13):
He being a grower sucks because if I get pants
in public, I'm.

Speaker 1 (30:19):
Gonna have to start jerking my ship on the spot game.

Speaker 3 (30:22):
I'm gonna start jerking it on the spot bro, because
Nigga's not gonna be having an assumption about me that
might we be small.

Speaker 7 (30:28):
No, okay, I'm carrying a.

Speaker 3 (30:29):
Hammer, all right, Okay, so like, don't even play with
me like that man being a you.

Speaker 4 (30:34):
Should put that in his dating profile. Grower not sure.

Speaker 13 (30:39):
He bloys asked me how we find water while we're
on expeditions in the Amazon rainforest. It's actually simple as that.
You think it's the river's going by. The trick is
you moved the cup. You moved the cup with the
river and got yourself a drink.

Speaker 4 (30:56):
The comments did not fail. They that for those making
comments about this, he will not he will get sick.
You didn't notice he moved the cup with the river.
That's the trick. I guess he did a trick. Somebody said,
a big difference here is that he has been exposed
to a different bacteria for years.

Speaker 6 (31:17):
Mmmm.

Speaker 4 (31:18):
I won't even drink water if it's sat out all
night on my nightstand. So they said there will be
no part two. Some dude said Osmosus Jones finna be
working over time. Yeah, I don't think I would be

(31:38):
drinking that because Amazon river under microscope doesn't look too great.

Speaker 3 (31:50):
So I tell y'all, lit aws, I get I get
a little cough ban.

Speaker 4 (31:56):
ENTI fam.

Speaker 11 (32:00):
Where you are. I'm not shot, flat.

Speaker 3 (32:08):
Boy, I kid you not flat. But who the fuck
you hit? What you were in over?

Speaker 6 (32:19):
Flat?

Speaker 3 (32:20):
The big guy me more than a fucking wah.

Speaker 1 (32:26):
Cause I did.

Speaker 12 (32:28):
I bet she didn't called I did.

Speaker 4 (32:29):
Okay, you really rolled up like my tire flat nothing.
Somebody says, she up. Yeah, we really need her side. Nah,
it's definitely someone somebody laid out and it did somewhere.
Somebody said, she's just a girl. Listen, she clearly thinks

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she can fix it. So I feel like that's a compliment.

Speaker 1 (32:59):
Okay.

Speaker 14 (32:59):
So twenty three, newly married, brand new baby. Your husband
tell you I'll be right back. I gotta make a
quick error.

Speaker 7 (33:09):
I gotta I'll be right back.

Speaker 3 (33:10):
I say, oh, take my car.

Speaker 7 (33:12):
No, I'm not. I'm not gonna take your car. Just
let me out. I'll take my car. I'll be right back.

Speaker 14 (33:16):
And you're sitting home with your brand new baby and
it's elderly mom who has to men you and time
go by. He doesn't come back. You are really thinking, okay,
so where did he go? You start calling you don't
you know, he doesn't answer.

Speaker 7 (33:32):
You're not able to reach him. You at the time,
you hat next tail phones, so you chirp up on
his next tail, he's cleared the notification.

Speaker 14 (33:40):
You only know that because if you ever had a
next tale of onces you clear notification, You're able.

Speaker 7 (33:44):
To get more calls and I'm able to chirp you
a second time.

Speaker 14 (33:46):
But if you don't clear it, I'm not able to
do that. So imagine it's sitting in the house waiting
for him to come back, and he doesn't come back,
and the next thing you know, you get a frantic
call and he's a breathing car and he's afraid and
he is begging you to come to a certain street,
on a certain street to pick him up because he's.

Speaker 7 (34:07):
About to be arrested.

Speaker 14 (34:10):
Imagine packing your brand new baby up and his elderly
mom up and kittting in the car and driving over
there to save your man. And when you get over there,
you can't even get to him. You are being guided through,
you know, by phone.

Speaker 7 (34:23):
He's on the phone.

Speaker 14 (34:24):
He's telling you no, go left, go okay, sit right
here and wait. And as you're sitting waiting, you're on
the overpath of I ninety five, and notice that there
is a helicopter and police helicopter hovering over your car,
so you immediately start.

Speaker 7 (34:35):
Asking what's going on? Are you okay?

Speaker 14 (34:37):
And the next thing you know, you hit this person
tell you I'm sorry.

Speaker 7 (34:40):
I'm so sorry.

Speaker 14 (34:41):
I'm sorry for everything. I'm sorry for everything I've ever
done to you. And then you hear the police and
the dogs and the police are saying, hang up the phone.
He's saying, I'm talking to my wife. The police says,
I don't give up.

Speaker 7 (34:53):
What are you talking to? Hang up the phone. I'm
gonna let the dogs go. And the next thing you know,
your brand new husband is being.

Speaker 14 (35:00):
Sauntered off to Jill to serve a forty five year
sentence in prison for a crime you.

Speaker 1 (35:06):
Knew nothing about.

Speaker 14 (35:08):
So imagine having this brand new baby that you can't support.
You can't support because your husband has been the support,
he's been the brandwinner, he's been the person that's been
getting all the money and you know, making sure y'all good.

Speaker 7 (35:21):
So imagine having.

Speaker 14 (35:22):
To look at his mom, who's disabled, who will not
physically disabled, she suffered dementia, who is unable to care
for herself. You can't leave her alone in the house
by yourself.

Speaker 3 (35:33):
So what do you do?

Speaker 7 (35:34):
You call a friend and say, hey, I don't know
what to do.

Speaker 14 (35:37):
You know, you start going through your resources and you
had a phone number for someone from elder care.

Speaker 7 (35:41):
Reach out to them. They tell you, hey, you finally
reach someone with elder care services.

Speaker 14 (35:48):
They come out, they do an assessment, they take the mom,
and they put her in a nurse at home. Right fast,
for you are not living with your mom, unemployed, no
resources other than the car.

Speaker 7 (36:01):
You decide to relocate that to your hometown. So you
relocate back to your hometown.

Speaker 14 (36:06):
And you're back in your hometown and you start back
dating a person you did hit, probably to your daughter's father,
right And this person comes in and he is so
happy that you're giving him another chance. And you know
it's this is supposed to be my daughter, and I'm
gonna do everything I can.

Speaker 7 (36:23):
I'm'a be here for her forever. And time goes on
and boom, you're pregnant to him. Now you're pregnant for him.

Speaker 14 (36:30):
So this person tells you, Okay, well, I've always wanted
to be with you.

Speaker 1 (36:34):
I know I wanna be with you.

Speaker 7 (36:35):
Let's just give it a chance. Let's see how we
work it out.

Speaker 14 (36:38):
You you sign up for it, You move in together,
you get engaged, you get married, you have these brand
new baby boys.

Speaker 1 (36:45):
So now my mama too. I'm thirty years old at
two kids.

Speaker 14 (36:48):
Staff, Right, So imagine being married to this person and
thinking this person was upstanding, thinking this person.

Speaker 7 (36:58):
Has chased you for years, like he has to be
ready to do the right thing because it's many years right.

Speaker 1 (37:04):
Wrong, you buried it to men.

Speaker 14 (37:09):
His daughter, his son's mother passed away while you're pregnant.
No problem, get your son, let him come to live
with us. I mean, he may as well come here.
I do everything that I'm supposed to do as a wife,
and uh, you have your son and everything is going good.

Speaker 1 (37:25):
So you sew it appears.

Speaker 7 (37:27):
And boom you find.

Speaker 14 (37:30):
Out about another woman, and you forgive him because you
want your family. And then a little few months to
go by, and boom you find out about another woman,
and you forgive him again because you really want to
believe him.

Speaker 1 (37:42):
Time goes on.

Speaker 7 (37:45):
And next thing you know, you're pregnant again with another kid.

Speaker 14 (37:48):
Right, So now I'm about to be a mom of
four because you remember, I have my child, I have
his son, I have the son that we had together.
And in the two baby that I'm carrying right. So
imagine your husband experiencing a medical emergency and going to
the emergency room. And while he's in the emergency room,
and I see you and you're big and pregnant, and
you're sleeping in a hospital chair and you supporting him

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and you're wiping his butt and you're doing everything you
possibly can as a wife while your children are at
your mother's house, and you're splitting your time in between
checking on your kids and going back to the hospital,
sitting by the bedside and signing documents and agreeing to
procedures and agreeing to blood transfusions and telling them dout
that you do everything you can to save him. We
have kids, I have another baby on the way, we
just got married. I don't want to go through this.

(38:31):
And in the midst of your husband going to go
get an endoscopy, his adult son tells you, Oh, my
dad gave me his phone before he went in for
his procedure. But I'm getting ready to leave, so I'm
just gonna leave it with you, and him leaving the
phone with you and the phone doing numbers like he's
trapping out of it right, I'm talking the text messages Instagram,
on Facebook messages, you name me, it's going what's that?

Speaker 3 (38:52):
Messages?

Speaker 7 (38:52):
Everything?

Speaker 1 (38:53):
So I'm sitting there and my.

Speaker 7 (38:56):
Curiosity got the best of me. So I start figuring
out passwords.

Speaker 14 (38:58):
And if you've been with a man for you any
period of time, you know, men are creatures of habit,
so you.

Speaker 7 (39:04):
Can pretty much pinpoint what is his men number.

Speaker 14 (39:06):
So I try my birthday, ben't work, Try my daughters,
my son's birthday.

Speaker 7 (39:10):
Didn't work. Try his nickname boom got read in that phone?

Speaker 14 (39:14):
What do I see in the phone? The same shenanigans.
This man is on dating apps. This man is talking
to women on WhatsApp from his country. Because he's not
from his country, he's talking to women on what app?

Speaker 7 (39:25):
He is so listening prostitutes via email.

Speaker 2 (39:29):
He is.

Speaker 14 (39:32):
Telling you that he's at work using PTO days and
going over to the next city over.

Speaker 7 (39:35):
To go be with ex girlfriends. Surey, you name it.
But amost all of that. You also find messages from
a woman who allegedly is his baby mama.

Speaker 14 (39:46):
This lady allegedly had a baby all the time I
had my son.

Speaker 1 (39:50):
She was pregnant too, right, well, so she said, So.

Speaker 14 (39:53):
Imagine having to sit there and read that information, being
seven and a half months pregnant with your child from.

Speaker 7 (40:00):
Your your current.

Speaker 14 (40:01):
Husband who is laid up, and I see you who
can't do nothing for hisself. They don't know if he's
gonna live or die. Imagine having to sit there and
listen to another woman tell you, well, yeah, he's.

Speaker 7 (40:15):
Been paying me for months to not tell you.

Speaker 14 (40:17):
He's spent paying me for months hush money, you know,
And I told him I was gonna tell you.

Speaker 7 (40:21):
And in those messages, you see him taking pictures of.

Speaker 14 (40:24):
Himself in his hospital bed and your knees and feet
at the end of the bed because you're sitting and
you praying, and you doing everything you can as a
wife for him.

Speaker 7 (40:31):
And he's telling another woman he.

Speaker 14 (40:33):
Can't call her back because he's in an emergency room.
Well he's an ICU.

Speaker 7 (40:37):
And this woman is saying, I do not care. I
need my money. TikTok.

Speaker 14 (40:40):
You either give me my money or I'm gonna tell her.
And your husband tells this woman will tell her. She
already knows she ain't gonna leave, and you knew nothing.

Speaker 7 (40:51):
Imagine that.

Speaker 14 (40:52):
Imagine forgiving him, Imagine forgiving him starting over, We're gonna
start over.

Speaker 7 (41:00):
We're gonna go to counseling. We're gonna we're gonna do
We're gonna do this all over. We're gonna start over.
We're gonna let baguons be buygones. I'm not gonna bring
it up no more.

Speaker 14 (41:08):
And in the midst of COVID, you're then two and
a half year old daughter says, Mommy, I'm on TikTok
and you're working from home in the meeting, and you
tell her go away, I'm in the meeting and come
back in a few minutes.

Speaker 7 (41:21):
Okay, okay, just get out of here. Mammy, I'm on TikTok.

Speaker 14 (41:25):
And fifteen minutes later she comes back, Mammy, are you
still in your meeting.

Speaker 7 (41:28):
No, I'm on TikTok and you was typing away TikTok.
Bring me the phone. She bring you the phone, and
sure enough, she's on TikTok.

Speaker 3 (41:37):
She's on her dad's TikTok.

Speaker 6 (41:39):
Uh.

Speaker 7 (41:39):
She's on her dad's instagram. My apologies.

Speaker 14 (41:41):
And in that instagram you see messages from women. You
see the same same thing. Ain't nothing change. So listening, sex, selling,
sexual pictures, nudity, meeting other women, taking other women out.

Speaker 1 (41:55):
On dates, and you just you're in a phone.

Speaker 7 (41:59):
You don't know what to do.

Speaker 14 (42:00):
You get all the information and you hold on to
all of that information and all of the pictures and
all of the screenshows until your then husband comes home
from work.

Speaker 7 (42:09):
Because it's about to be a problem.

Speaker 4 (42:12):
And I want to ma'am, it was never a problem,
because you know you're gonna keep forgiving them. Somebody said,
what is wrong with American women and not using protection
while having sex? Hold on why the first husband end
up getting forty five years? Do you checking your husband's
mother that's in the nursing home. Somebody say, you don't

(42:32):
believe in bird control. Somebody said, girl, don't let Tyler
Perry get.

Speaker 1 (42:36):
A hold of this.

Speaker 4 (42:38):
But while your first husband get locked up. Somebody said,
should have stayed with your mom, got a job to
carry the one baby and have peace, that's for sure,
and got some counseling and therapy. Pray for this lady,
y'all inspirations on the way. I'll be back tomorrow. Well,

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let's say we can get some volume up in this thing,
and I don't think we have any, So we're gonna
have to find.

Speaker 3 (43:28):
Ability to hear, not just here but hear and respond,
because it's one thing for you to hear the word,
it's another thing for you to respond to it. Your
ability to hear and respond is tied to your breakthrough.

(43:49):
The song Bird teaches us that our ability to hear
and respond is tied to our breakthrough. And I'm not
just talking about this churchy stuff that you heard your
breakthroughs on the way and if you're so a seeder
and I'm not talking about that preaching like that actually
irritates me because I'm like, Okay, why does every breakthrough

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have to do with an earthly upgrade versus spiritual development?
How about you're gonna experience a breakthrough or stop cursing
people out, You're gonna experience a breakthrough of keeping your
lands closed. How about that I have a breakthrough, or
stop lying I have a breakthrough, Or stop binging Netflix
a whole series but can't finish a Bible reading plan.
That's a breakthrough. That's a breakthrough breakthrough. Your ability to

(44:38):
hear and respond, somebody said, respond is tied to your breakthrough.
Your ability to hear and respond is tied to your sanity.
Your ability to hear and respond is tied to you
avoiding counterfeits, counterfeit offers, counterfeit people, counterfeit opportunities, deception because

(45:01):
hear me. Deception is a predator's disguise, and con artists
speak fluent in deceit. Joey, what I just said. I'm
gonna hear what three minutes. Deception is a predator's disguise,
and con artists speak fluent in deceit. With everything in

(45:25):
our world becoming obsessed with artificial artificial intelligence, my prayer
has been for the last four weeks, God, we don't
want to become people who are obsessed with artificial. Help
us become authentic, not artificial. Maybe it's just four of

(45:48):
us that like, I don't want artificial. I want authentic joy.
I want authentic piece. I want authentic clarity. I'm not
just posting for likes. I'm trying to be a light.
I want authentic. I want authentic. I want to really
experience and know God for myself. Our ability to hear

(46:14):
and respond is tied to peace on the inside. I'm
talking about it inward stillness.

Speaker 1 (46:24):
Hear me.

Speaker 3 (46:24):
The reason some of us, the reason your anxiety is
so high is because the less I know I am
the more worried I am. Y'ad didn't get it. Let
me say it to the side. The less I know
I am, yah weigh is the I am that I am.
The less that I know I am, the more worried

(46:48):
I am. Our ability to hear and respond is tied
to injury prevention. Injury prevention simply put, there's some pain
you won't feel when you could hear God's voice, and

(47:09):
a lot of pain we're experiencing is because we are
spiritually deaf. Our friends are spiritually deaf. What we binge
is spiritually deaf, so we can't hear Heaven, and then
we mislabel God as silent. Maybe it's not that God
is silent, it's just that you've already decided what you

(47:32):
want him to say. Maybe it's not that God is silent,
it's that you're surrounded by devils that agree with what
you want to hear, and so when you actually get
a word from God, we label that as Hayden, We're
the series gonna be so so good. Your ability to

(47:55):
hear and respond is tied to injury prevention. It could
protect you from wolves. See Jesus told us this and
Matthew chapter seven.

Speaker 5 (48:07):
Why are women everywhere choosing Abby X the new Tommy
Talk alternatives I got the Tommy Tuk.

Speaker 3 (48:13):
And Matthew Chapter seven, verse fifteen. He informs us, wolves
won't come to you looking like wolves. I could discern
a devil. Okay, Devils don't come looking like devils, right,
They come as an angel of the light. And we
should be spiritually grown enough to where the enemy can't

(48:35):
get us with stupid stuff anymore. It has to look
like God. He's the master of disguise. Say it backwards.
He disguises himself as the master who he says, Listen,
wolves won't come to you looking like wolves. They're going
to come to you. Dress that sheep.

Speaker 10 (48:58):
They're going.

Speaker 3 (48:58):
Somebody said Taylor, Oh, they're going to come to you
looking like sheep. And I want to already give you points.
Wolves when they hunt, when their pack is going about hunting,
they really look for these four traits and whatever they're hunting.
Number one isolation. I don't do people, okay. They look

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for the isolated, the immature, that's young, the weak, are
the injured. I don't do people. You are a great
target for a wolf. They look for the isolated, the immature,

(49:43):
the weak or the injured. But God put this on
my heart, y'all. I don't want my people to be
spiritual babes forever. You can't be a baby at this
church to long you can come that way, That's fine.
Come as you are, We mean that. Certain churches say that.

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Don't mean that you come as you are. But God
does not desire for you to be obayed for years?
Can I mischella? Okay, preaching milk after a while will
be contributing to your malnourishment. If I keep for preaching milk,

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I'm actually contributing to you being spiritually malnourished. You're not
supposed to be sixteen years old still drinking breast milk.
You're not supposed to be twenty seven and thirty eight
years old still on breast milk. That's when you were
six months You're not supposed to be seventy two, forty eight,
twenty seven still on breast milk. That's when you were
two months old. Hell loves the immature. So what I've

(50:54):
discovered is many times what he attempts to do, the
assault attempt on the believer, is to keep you in
the same grade. Yeah, I want to keep you in
the same grade. Because Hell knows I could deceive with
ease the immature. I'm gonna keep on going. The assault
attempt on the believer is to keep us stuck in transition.

(51:20):
We don't embrace the season of being cocooned because you
got used to crawling. Your friends crawl just like you.
Everybody you hang with crawls just like you. But God says, okay,
let me cocoon you for a season where I can
give you wings to fly above what you used to
crawl off. But when we don't embrace the season where

(51:41):
God is trying to train our ear, Hell knows I
could deceive with ease those that are immature. Here is
the assault. Attempt on the believer is to keep you
fighting the same battle. Yeah, even balan porn for ten years,
it was getting real quiet in here. See see, you

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and your wife been having the same issue for nine years.
Can I go a little deeper? Hell uses similar battles
to rob you of time. That's it, to rob you
of time. Deception. The agenda of deception is to steal unknowingly.

(52:27):
You are a good deceiver when you get steal and
they don't know it. I'm trying to steal your time
because right now your gift is relevant. But there will
become a time when autumn hits your life and fall
hits your life. That's supposed to be when you can relax,
because during spring and summer you are grinding and you
are pushing the kingdom agenda. But now when you hit

(52:49):
the fall of your life, you're creating runways for people
behind you. If I could steal that energy, if I
could steal that passion, you don't even know. I'm trying
to get you to waste your time. I want to
keep you immature. Listen, I can't do a lot of
preaching today. I have to do a lot of teaching.
I really can't preach about hearing the voice of God.

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I have to teach us how to hear the voice
of God. Why else do you think one attribute of
the Word of God is referred to as a sword.
It cuts, it convicts. When a baby is born, you
cut the umbilical cord because what used to sustain you
can't sustain you at this level. The conviction is hitting

(53:32):
you because God's trying to take you to another level.
I can't take you into another level when you're still
having that umbilical cord of addiction, or that umbilical court
of people pleasing, or that umbilical court of that alcoholism.
I have to that convict you so I could take
you to another dimension and me if I was a

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note take I write this down. Then we're gonna pray.
Deeper levels spiritual growth is reserved for the seeker, the hearer,
and the doer. Everybody who said at the beginning of
this year, I'm gonna grow spiritually, okay, Deeper levels of

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spiritual growth is reserved.

Speaker 1 (54:21):
Don't spend time, of course, as you've already taken.

Speaker 3 (54:26):
Spiritual growth is reserved for the seeker, the hearer.

Speaker 10 (54:33):
And the doer.

Speaker 3 (54:35):
And my prayer is that, similar to that song bird,
you will hear a voice that you could identify as
your good shepherd, that would strengthen you and encourage you
to let something go so that you could hear clearer.
Sometimes when the song bird won't hatch and it hears

(54:59):
this brother and sister sing, that's what it took for
that songbird to recognize what are they singing about. And
I think right now we need a pause for the
cause of giving God a praise that might be for
a brother and sister, that's killing an egg.

Speaker 7 (55:16):
You don't know that.

Speaker 11 (55:17):
This praise may not.

Speaker 3 (55:18):
Be personal, but it is commutal. If they can hear
your free, if they can hear that your delivery, If
they can hear that shoe broke it. If they can
hear that you're no longer addicted. If they can hear
you don't need to hook a bar. If they can hear,
you don't need your bullet. If they can hear, you
don't need for an occasion. If they can hear you
have peace, maybe they will begin to attack.