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Speaker 1 (00:02):
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He said?

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Go get yourself a bottle.

Speaker 2 (05:07):
To my husband. I was gonna buy him.

Speaker 4 (05:09):
This for his birthday.

Speaker 5 (05:11):
He had a few choice words, why.

Speaker 4 (05:27):
I'm not.

Speaker 1 (05:32):
Would you give up social media forever?

Speaker 2 (05:33):
Fem an enerpiece, Yes, it's not even a question. Let's
get into these reddits.

Speaker 1 (05:46):
Mini ahole. My wife went out with a recently single friend.
I'm in a weird situation. I'm beginning to feel like
I was in the room because of my wife's response.
I would lack thereof come in to scam thro this
skim third, this is scene.

Speaker 2 (06:00):
What's up?

Speaker 1 (06:02):
His wife went out with a friend on June twenty
eighth who was recently before they went to a brewery,
so she took the youngest of the.

Speaker 5 (06:14):
House they could play with their kids.

Speaker 1 (06:16):
Around nine, he hadn't hear from her. He wasn't tripping yet.
When it was one am, still nothing, and then he
started to feel weird. Then when he did hear from her,
she said that they went to another bar at when thirty,
and then they went to a random house.

Speaker 2 (06:37):
I guess he has a tracker in a car.

Speaker 1 (06:41):
Then their car didn't leave around two thirty, so he
drove to where her house was at.

Speaker 2 (06:53):
And then he was like.

Speaker 1 (06:54):
Shit, should he confront her or wait? So then he's
still waiting in this three thirty in the morning, he
looks in saw two guys talking with the wife's friend,
and then his wife's friend see him peeking, and his

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wife was sleeping in the day's bed, and then they
I guess he left, and then his wife finally texted
him at seven thirty in the morning. She didn't come
home the next day at two in the morning, at
two pm afternoon, and then he said, am I the

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a hole?

Speaker 2 (07:39):
F or too crazy?

Speaker 1 (07:40):
For con friend? The situation? So they said, am I
be a hole? This is extremely irresponsible for her? She
lied about being with your kid where she was going
to Randa's bar in the state, leaving eighteen to watch
your kid over night without warning in the safe Yeah,

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for they say your wife will soon joined her friend.
It's newly single way she was doing something she wasn't
supposed to. Am I the ale for not going home
with the guy I was sleeping with it. I'm'na scam
through these cause the grammar be so bad and I'll

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be trying to struggle with it, so I'm gonna skim
and read. So she's thirty, she sleeping a fifty year
old dude from onnth and a half, and they're really
good friends at first but them, and they started sleeping together.
She told him she didn't want a date, she was

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only looking for something casual.

Speaker 4 (08:43):
He agreed.

Speaker 2 (08:48):
They both had to make sure a friend together.

Speaker 1 (08:52):
And then the guy that she's sleeping with, they were
all gonna go hang out, went to a bar. The
guy us sleep wouldn't want her to go home. She
tawd him go ahead and go home, and then he
went home, but he started blowing up her phone. Then

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he said that she embarrassed him and rejected him, and
then he also told her she needed to go to
AA and she blocked him.

Speaker 2 (09:26):
Then he said he.

Speaker 1 (09:27):
Overreacted, so she tried to let him back in. Then
found out that she got a feeling. H that's the
thing when people be s acting like that, y'all could
be though casual, somebody's always gonna catch feelings. There's no
such thing as casualing. Really, somebody said, sounds like he
only agrees to be casual to hook him in. He

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tell he wants something more.

Speaker 2 (09:52):
People just don't agree. It's never I've never seen that
work ever.

Speaker 1 (10:00):
Oh, these cookies is taking me out, y'all. I keep
trying drink water, but they just like sitting in my stomach.
So we're gonna have to get a news story time

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because I can't.

Speaker 2 (10:23):
I can't do it. I try to thug it out.

Speaker 6 (10:32):
I will call, yeah, look at them. I can't slamm
the doors.

Speaker 4 (10:44):
This is crazy, and I will call that's really chick
fil a.

Speaker 1 (10:49):
The way he stumped out like that, he was too mad.

Speaker 4 (12:16):
Girl.

Speaker 1 (12:17):
I don't know if she was drunk or not, because
Michelle is just she's a little a bit of a
weird though. I love her though, but I don't know
if she like she's so ditsy when she's sober.

Speaker 7 (12:30):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (12:31):
But it was a lot going on. Somebody said, this
is how it turned my head to negativity.

Speaker 2 (12:47):
Ain't no way, she.

Speaker 4 (12:50):
Said so hard soon to be excess A mistress just

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hit him with a card.

Speaker 7 (13:13):
Yeah, you haven't need to excuse me.

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Speaker 2 (13:32):
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Speaker 1 (13:34):
It's better to give twenty guys a chance than twenty
chances to the same guy.

Speaker 7 (13:39):
You're a player, not a fool. It's better to.

Speaker 10 (13:44):
Bob. You have been wondering why I drink so much alcohol,
and it's because I have a genetic disorder where my
body does not produce its own alcohol, so I'm forced
to drink it because my body doesn't make it on
its own.

Speaker 1 (13:55):
Bove you, it's science.

Speaker 11 (14:05):
In fish.

Speaker 1 (15:18):
I don't know, but I feel like he was dancing
to the right beat on this.

Speaker 12 (15:23):
You are okay, You're okay. Relax, take a deep breath
and chill.

Speaker 7 (15:32):
All right.

Speaker 12 (15:32):
You're more than okay because God is with you. God
is with you, God is.

Speaker 8 (15:37):
On your side at all times.

Speaker 7 (15:40):
All right.

Speaker 12 (15:41):
There's nothing to worry about. There's nothing to be stressed about.
Just relax, Go, take a walk, take a deep breath.
Like I said, do what you need to do. Everything's
working out just how it needs to, all right, And
don't worry, don't be afraid. Whatever the case may be,

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all right, don't get into this space to where you're
constantly even being overwhelmed either. Just give it to the Lord,
pray all right, and come back into a space of
trust and peace and.

Speaker 8 (16:18):
Surrender, surrender control.

Speaker 7 (16:23):
We can only do it.

Speaker 12 (16:24):
We can do, y'all, and outside of that, we can't
do anything else. All right, You're human, I'm human, and
we just got to take it one day at a time.

Speaker 7 (16:36):
That's it.

Speaker 12 (16:37):
Okay, So let's read some scripture y'all really quick. Let's
read I say A forty one ten. So do not fear,
for I am with you. Do not be dismayed, for
I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you.
I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. Okay,

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read one more Joshua one night. Have I not commanded
you be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid, do
not be discouraged, for the Lord of r God will
be with you wherever you go.

Speaker 8 (17:14):
Okay, y'all, I'm not making this up. I'm not making
this up.

Speaker 7 (17:20):
God is with you.

Speaker 1 (17:22):
Okay, her voice, so calm.

Speaker 13 (17:27):
No one talks about the grief of parenting adult kids.
Let's talk about it, y'all. No one talks about how
hard it is. Whenever you've raised a child, you've done
everything in your power, sending to some of the best schools,
you put them in extra activities, you've raised.

Speaker 7 (17:46):
Them in the church.

Speaker 13 (17:47):
You've done everything in your power to help them become
who you thought that they could be, but that didn't happen.
The kid has now became an adult and everything has changed.
They've done none of the things that you taught them
as a child. So what do we do? We blame ourselves.
We blame ourselves. We ask ourselves, what could we have

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done to make this child turn out to be a
veteran adult. Here's here's here's here's the kicker. The kicker
is you couldn't have done anything better. You did the
best that you possibly could. Well, what you have to
do is you have to learn to continue to love
them in their current season. Continue to love them in
their current season, continue to, you know, promote positivity, try

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to tell them things and hopefully some of that stinks.
But do not blame yourself, y'all. Leave me in common.
Let me know what you're thinking.

Speaker 1 (18:43):
Sometimes you just gotta give it to God.

Speaker 14 (18:46):
Who Queen Katie dot At twenty eight fa heart attack
from drinking energy drinks?

Speaker 7 (18:52):
Y'all? What think about me?

Speaker 14 (18:54):
I used to drink energy drinks down thing I just
started on see its red bullets? Okay, all these energy drinks?
Monster you have to like know what you're doing. I
don't even think like you should really drinkle no more.
Like after seeing this, I'm gonna take a break on
them because even though I used to drinkle, I really did.

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Used to have like little like heart like feelings, like
you know, like your heart get the little pain and
I would have that feeling like anytime I would drink it,
I would feel like little pains around my body. So
I'm gonna give them a break too. This is just
a lesson, well not a lesson. Resting piece to her,
but like you can see what happens. Like everybody thinks that,
oh I can handle, let I drink water. I'm pretty

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sure that she drank water too. I'm pretty sure that
she drunk water. I have to get the whole story.
But rest in peace to her, condolecens to her family,
and put these energy drinks down.

Speaker 1 (19:49):
Yeah, I don't know how people can drink them all day.
I mean, I take pre workout, but I get it
because you hate being a little energy. But it's just it,
It is so dangerous.

Speaker 15 (20:00):
Okay, So how I found out my mother was sexually
abusing me in my sleep when I was about eleven
years old, I always slept with my mother, and I
always slept with the nightgowns. On this night, I remember
having on a pink Barbie Doll nightgown and it was
white in the back.

Speaker 8 (20:19):
I don't know if y'all remember, but back.

Speaker 15 (20:21):
In the nineties that was a thing like the way
that the nightgowns were. My mother had a waterbed, and
I always.

Speaker 8 (20:28):
Remember she slept with the TV on.

Speaker 15 (20:31):
So this night I was in her bed, laying down.
I fell asleep and.

Speaker 8 (20:37):
Then I woke up.

Speaker 15 (20:39):
And when I woke up, I woke up to my
mother butt naked.

Speaker 8 (20:45):
In between my legs I had.

Speaker 15 (20:47):
My panties were off, I didn't have those, and there
was pornography on the TV. I actually remember her fingers,
like I remember the entire thing. She was bent over,
her behind was in the.

Speaker 8 (21:04):
Air, she had no clothes on. She was a little
heavy set.

Speaker 15 (21:09):
You all bear with me.

Speaker 4 (21:11):
This is really hard, maybe the wild fire.

Speaker 8 (21:18):
Hard to me to share with you all.

Speaker 15 (21:19):
This is really my first time giving details on exactly
what happened. When I woke up, I was looking at
the TV. I grabbed my legs, like you know, grabbed
them and I sat up so quickly. You all like
so fast, because I literally could not believe that she

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was in between my legs.

Speaker 8 (21:42):
And you know, I already was being sexually abused by
my sister.

Speaker 15 (21:47):
My entire life, and then there were other people.

Speaker 8 (21:49):
Who had sexually abused me to so to see her.

Speaker 15 (21:53):
In between my legs butt naked, and the way that
the bed was up set up, there was two sides.
She when obviously, when I woke up and I gasped
for air, you all like literally like.

Speaker 7 (22:10):
That was my response.

Speaker 15 (22:11):
I gassed for ear and I grabbed my legs and
I sat up at the head of the bed. She
got off of me, y'all got up.

Speaker 8 (22:20):
I mean she had no choice because.

Speaker 7 (22:21):
I grabbed myself.

Speaker 15 (22:23):
She got up and she started walking around the Then
from this side she started walking around, and as she
was walking around, she was like, I was just trying
to see he was having sex. I was just trying
to see he was having sex. And that's all she
kept saying. And I was quiet, you all, I looked
at her.

Speaker 8 (22:42):
Sorry, I looked at her, and I just was like.

Speaker 15 (22:53):
It literally was like at that moment, it felt like
the worst day of my life. I couldn't believe that,
you know, she would fail me like that, she would

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hurt me in that way out of all the physical
abuse that she has caused me, the beatings, I mean
the different objects lamps, Christmas tree lights, hammers, shoes with heels,
Like I.

Speaker 7 (23:27):
Literally was lit with lighters on my skin.

Speaker 15 (23:31):
I was bitten before by her, like I was, like,
out of all those things I would have I would
have rather that had happened to me ten more times
than to see my mother in between my legs and
taking my innocence in that kind of way.

Speaker 8 (23:51):
It literally broke my heart. And you know, I mean
to the point where.

Speaker 15 (24:01):
You know, after she kept saying that, like after she
kept saying, I was.

Speaker 8 (24:06):
Just trying to see Douce having sex. I was just
trying to see us having sex.

Speaker 15 (24:08):
I mean butt naked, y'all, no panties, no bra, no shirt,
no socks, no nothing on, butt naked as she's walking,
I just lay I remember laying down and turning my
back towards her and just like keeping my eyes closed,
and just like I think I wanted it to be
a nightmare.

Speaker 8 (24:30):
I would have preferred it to not be like real,
like I would have preferred it to be a bad dream.

Speaker 15 (24:37):
And then it was never spoken about after that, Like
I just laid down. I cried when I turned to
my side, because at this time, I'm eleven, almost twelve,
Like I knew what she was doing. Like at that age,
I knew exactly what she was doing.

Speaker 8 (24:56):
And I turned over.

Speaker 15 (24:57):
And I cried.

Speaker 8 (24:58):
She didn't see me cry, was super quiet.

Speaker 15 (25:01):
And then I went back to sleep, and we never
talked about it. And then when I was around twenty five,
I finally shared it with someone, and I tell you guys,
I almost lost my mind, literally.

Speaker 8 (25:16):
Like I couldn't even I couldn't even breathe.

Speaker 15 (25:19):
Like I sat, I sat on the porch. I was
twenty five years old, just in shock, disbelief, like ooh ooh,
like I thought I was losing my mind.

Speaker 8 (25:30):
I thought that was it for me.

Speaker 15 (25:32):
Because my own mother, my own mother, the woman that
I loved, the woman that I would do anything for,
that I would care for, that I would I would
do anything, couldn't violate me in that way. I just
couldn't believe it. I couldn't believe it. I mean, I

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was raped. I was touched by my sister. My entire
life beat.

Speaker 8 (26:04):
On by both of my mother and my sister.

Speaker 15 (26:08):
And still can't believe what my mother has done. I mean,
this isn't everything. This is just a piece of how
I found out she was sexually abusing me. There's more
to my story.

Speaker 10 (26:21):
There's more.

Speaker 8 (26:23):
There's so much that I.

Speaker 15 (26:24):
Could never tell you all within ten minutes, all that
I've gone through.

Speaker 8 (26:32):
Yeah, but she violated me. She destroyed my trush, like.

Speaker 15 (26:39):
I don't trust anyone, and you know, like this is
helping me share this with you all, so I don't
have any shame that I don't hold the guilt. I've
been processing this since the age of twenty five, since
it's happened, but really twenty because my entire life I

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blocked it out.

Speaker 8 (27:03):
That was my way.

Speaker 15 (27:04):
That was God's way of protecting me, and shielding me
is by allowing me not to remember until later, and.

Speaker 8 (27:13):
Not in a way of not remembering, because I always
had flashbacks. But I always would be like, well, she
was just trying to see if I was having sex.
Like I wanted to believe her.

Speaker 15 (27:24):
I wanted to believe her excuse, But to see someone
that you trust so much, like violate you in that
way in.

Speaker 8 (27:33):
Between your legs, it's just Yeah, I still can't.

Speaker 15 (27:40):
Believe that she would do that because I would never
in my life violate my kids in that kind of way. Ever,
if I wanted to know if my child was having sex,
I would take them to the doctors.

Speaker 8 (27:50):
And I know that's not what it was. Because she
was molesting my sister.

Speaker 15 (27:54):
She was molesting other kids, like I actually know somebody
who she was molesting.

Speaker 8 (27:59):
I still have a relationship with them, thank God. But
I think it's hard for me to accept that she
is a child, that she was a child my lester
because I lost her.

Speaker 15 (28:14):
That's another video for another day. But this is how
my mother sexually beused me. And if you guys have
any questions, please leave it below.

Speaker 8 (28:24):
I do have a sexual a sexual.

Speaker 15 (28:29):
Abuse support group that I'm holding April twenty eighth. If
you are interested, please the link is inside the bio.
You have to copy and paste it into your web browser.

Speaker 7 (28:40):
You know, I am weird.

Speaker 1 (28:42):
Yeah, this is very sad and prayerfully for healing on her.
I was wondering if the mama was in jail, but
I guess she's no longer here.

Speaker 2 (28:50):
That's just so sad.

Speaker 1 (28:53):
This is Thanksgiving, Wow, y'all, I didn't already made it
through my oh playlists, I guess I ain't been download
as much as I thought, But that's okay.

Speaker 4 (29:09):
Oh. This is me and my husband frolicking in the
pool the other day.

Speaker 7 (29:12):
Y'all.

Speaker 4 (29:14):
It was a chilling It was so nice, very nice,
very cute to very demure. All right, y'all, inspirations on
the way. Let's get some applause going. I hate to
end on that last story, but that's all I got left.
Y'all stay blessed, and we need some inspiration after that
hitting up.

Speaker 7 (29:44):
Have you heard reading glasses are outdated? A new technology
for the elderly? Nothing?

Speaker 9 (29:48):
This is here, excellent chapter fourteen.

Speaker 2 (29:54):
For you.

Speaker 7 (29:55):
I have my own bills.

Speaker 9 (29:56):
I'm starting to grab are I pay my own bills.
I know how to do my own things. If you're
trying to tell me I can't get gas, excuse me,
you show bingistic, narcissistic, manipulating this. I'm so on, but
y'all trying to tell me, see, this is my problem.

Speaker 7 (30:10):
This is my problem now.

Speaker 9 (30:13):
Looked though, if Daddy was in the home and Daddy
told you I don't want you to go get gas tonight, you.

Speaker 7 (30:20):
Would be used to what it feels like to be protected. Okay,
all right?

Speaker 9 (30:27):
So now, since I grew up in a home with
no protection, when I meet him protected, it feels like control.
But if Daddy was in the home, he would ask,
who's that calling you? Daddy be going the football game?

Speaker 11 (30:43):
Well?

Speaker 7 (30:43):
Who? It's me and just me and Jamison. I haven't
met Jamison. Tell her come over. I need to meet him. Well, Daddy,
why you gotta do all that?

Speaker 9 (30:52):
And even though you may not like him doing all that, it.

Speaker 7 (30:55):
Feels good to know a man cares for you.

Speaker 9 (30:58):
And so now I'm not looking for daddy and James
saying because I got Daddy at home.

Speaker 7 (31:05):
All right? Are y'all seeing this? Once again? This is
not Jerry's opinions. This is Bible. So I recognize something
as flowers. As I was studying, I said, there's this tactic.
There's this tactic, and I want us to see this.
Mark ten, verse nine.

Speaker 9 (31:25):
It says, therefore, what God has joined together?

Speaker 7 (31:30):
Can I get somebody say God? Man, I'll got to
say it convinced somebody say.

Speaker 9 (31:33):
God, Therefore, what God has joined together?

Speaker 7 (31:39):
Letting no man separate.

Speaker 9 (31:42):
A lot of us are joining stuff together and then
asking God to bless what.

Speaker 7 (31:47):
He didn't sin.

Speaker 9 (31:51):
Really, who am about to mess y'all up? God is
not obligated to keep together what he didn't send.

Speaker 7 (32:00):
Nobody wants to talk to me.

Speaker 9 (32:02):
This is why I'm so intentional with trying to get
us to understand how to do things the King's way,
so you won't experience yourself in covenant, recognizing I don't
think he knows the king, and I don't know the
king either. There's some pain you don't have to feel, y'all.
I'm telling you we're all gonna experience pain, but don't

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experience unnecessary pain.

Speaker 7 (32:28):
I just thought God would do this. God is not
obligated to keep together what he didn't put together. So
there's this tactic that I'm recognizing.

Speaker 9 (32:37):
There's this strategy that I'm observing on how Hell is causing.

Speaker 7 (32:44):
For this woman to be discouraged.

Speaker 9 (32:48):
It's an attack a military science, if you will, And
it's not due from a devil, it's not due from
a demon, it's not due from a stronghold.

Speaker 7 (32:59):
But causing for her to get tired.

Speaker 9 (33:03):
You know why she's so tired because he's so out
of position.

Speaker 7 (33:08):
Okay, now look look, look listen.

Speaker 9 (33:12):
Single mothers doing the best that they can. I mean,
you are killing it. No gas, I am blown away
how strong some of.

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My sisters are.

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I mean, you put your babies through school, you going
back to school, You there for her gymnastics, you there
for his football.

Speaker 7 (33:29):
Games, you bought the uniform.

Speaker 9 (33:31):
You're doing everything you know how to do. You're being
intentional with your growth, You're being intentional with your evolutions.

Speaker 7 (33:37):
You're even being intentional.

Speaker 9 (33:38):
With your healing because you recognize the people who hurt
you are not going to come back and heal you.

Speaker 7 (33:44):
There's no blame. There's no healing in blaming.

Speaker 9 (33:48):
Blaming is not the fertilizer for your healing, but rather
it is the umbilical cord for your bitterness. And you
recognize that and you're doing the best you can.

Speaker 7 (33:57):
But if you be honest, you're tired.

Speaker 9 (34:02):
You're working hard, and I understand you got the grace
for it. God has given you the grace and he's
given you the mercy to be it. But you're handling
weights that you will never design to carry. I know
that this is not popular, but the Kingdom agenda is
for that to be Kingdom man, and for that to
be Kingdom woman in the home, to raise kingdom children.

Speaker 7 (34:23):
And now I get it.

Speaker 9 (34:24):
When more of us are out of position, it causes
for them to be tired, tired.

Speaker 7 (34:32):
Listen, if we keep on addressing.

Speaker 9 (34:35):
How to prepare her, but we never address a underprepared him,
y'all want.

Speaker 7 (34:42):
To talk to me. I know this stuff don't sell.
This is gonna get a lot of thumbs down. And
that's okay.

Speaker 9 (34:46):
If we keep on addressing or prepared her, but we're
never addressing an underprepared him, we'll have a generation of
women waiting for a man that doesn't exist because we're
not having conversations about the kingdom agenda. We don't have
biblically saturated sermons. Besides, on Father's Day, we don't have

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biblically saturated services that are telling Kingdom in. You are
a warrior, you are a king, You are a chief,
and God needs for you to be in the home.

Speaker 7 (35:18):
He called for you to be the head. He called
for you to be a servant. He called for you
to be the president of your domain.

Speaker 9 (35:24):
Nothing can get in this house without first getting through me.

Speaker 7 (35:27):
You can ask some gangster to it. You can add
a little hard to it.

Speaker 9 (35:30):
Because I'm a kingdom man and nons get into my pride,
and nons get to my family without first getting through me.

Speaker 7 (35:36):
That is biblical manhood.

Speaker 9 (35:38):
We don't have conversations like that. They'll be a wife
wanting to change to hit her husband's heart, but it
will never happen because we don't hear sermons like this
except on Father's Day.

Speaker 7 (35:53):
Except on Father's Day. So now, even my.

Speaker 9 (35:56):
Unmarried sisters, you looking at this, say to him and
you like, God, is this all you got? I know
y'all ain't feeling me right now, Lady Joes is coming.

Speaker 7 (36:08):
I promise about two minutes. God, what you got in
the back? For real? You have another shipment coming through.

Speaker 9 (36:19):
Because you know our sisters are. I know I'm called
for marriage. I know i'm called. I've seen it no candidate,
but i know I'm called.

Speaker 7 (36:27):
But when I'm looking at these brothers, God, is this
all you've got? It's funny, but I'm serious. I'm serious.
So we need to get the men back. I'm on
fire for God.

Speaker 9 (36:46):
I'm just convinced we need men who fight to come back.
But look, I'm not fighting with this. I know how
to fight on this. I know how to fight. Right here,
I'm talking about fight for purity, fight for my home,
fight for my marriage, fight for my mind, fight for
my integrity, fight for holiness.

Speaker 7 (37:09):
That's not old school, y'all's that's biblical. That's how you
love like a king. So I need I need my
king in the earth.

Speaker 9 (37:19):
Because remember, God is always gonna call Adam first, because
you are called to be the head. That's why I
addressed you first. Now for ladies, ladies, I want us
to understand. I want us to look at the scripture.
I want to show you the original lie of the enemies.
It's good so far, I promise.

Speaker 7 (37:38):
I'm almost done. Genesis chapter three, verse four.

Speaker 9 (37:44):
It says, then the serpent said to the woman, you
will not surely die.

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You ain't gonna die.

Speaker 8 (37:51):
To Nishan, when choosing the Internet shouldn't be confusing.

Speaker 1 (37:55):
It should be based on how you win, whether you're
a casual streamer, a tech for super us.

Speaker 9 (38:01):
For God knows, if you eat this fruit, you gonna
be like him, knowing good and evil.

Speaker 7 (38:09):
Now, my wife is gonna represent Eve.

Speaker 9 (38:13):
She is the baddest woman on the planet. He don't
get any more finer than Eve. She is the only
woman to ever walk this earth that was perfect.

Speaker 7 (38:26):
No flaw like.

Speaker 9 (38:28):
Her hair is on fleek, eyebrows on fleek, no wrinkle.

Speaker 7 (38:33):
Her body is heavenly.

Speaker 9 (38:37):
But then, what does the enemy do when a woman
gets in a place where everything seems to be just right.
As soon as you get your mind right, as soon
as you get.

Speaker 7 (38:49):
Your emotions right, as soon as you get your sensitivity right,
he always tries to tell you this lie, you not enough.
That's what he did with Eve. You won't surely die.

Speaker 9 (39:04):
God knows if you eat this fruit, you're gonna be
like him, knowing the good and evil.

Speaker 7 (39:08):
What is he telling Eve? You not enough? You not enough.

Speaker 9 (39:13):
You're not good enough, You're not pretty enough, You're not
smart enough, you're not definitely not saved enough. You not
clean enough, you not godly enough, you are not holy enough.

Speaker 7 (39:24):
You are not enough.

Speaker 9 (39:26):
And so what she ends up doing is climbing this
invisible ladder to try to find this fruit.

Speaker 7 (39:31):
And she bites into the fruit.

Speaker 9 (39:33):
She bites into the relationship, She bites into the lesbianism,
she bites into the cheap sex, she bites into the
cheap thrills, she bites into being a stripper. She bites
into all this stuff, only to find out it does
not cure me for my insecurity, but rather it separates
me from the one that gives me security.

Speaker 7 (39:54):
So now you know what happens.

Speaker 9 (39:57):
This man right here can be on fire God, he
could be like me on fire for God love the
Lord with his whole heart. I'm loving her like Christ
loves the Church. But since she feels she's never enough,
everything I do is not enough.

Speaker 7 (40:15):
I can get flowers, that's not enough. I can clean
that's not enough. I could compliment, that's not enough. I
could share images on social media. That's not enough.

Speaker 9 (40:22):
I could try to do everything. We could book a
trip to Bahamas.

Speaker 7 (40:24):
That's not enough. I could have your mama come and
move with us. That's not enough. That's not enough.

Speaker 9 (40:28):
And so now the man feels tired and he feels
like d ain't nothing I could do right.

Speaker 7 (40:32):
And then you have to.

Speaker 9 (40:33):
Know the devil always has a Delia loh for Samson.

Speaker 7 (40:39):
You do that, you do that.

Speaker 9 (40:41):
If I had a man like this, or if I
had girl, you girl, you lucky, That's how it start.
They start with the girl You're so lucky. Ladies, notice
that you so lucky.

Speaker 7 (40:48):
You just he do that. It's because I'm not used
to that type of treatment.

Speaker 9 (40:54):
But there's nothing I could do, nothing that I could
do because her feeling not enough is not my fault.
Her feeling not enough is because she believes a liar.
A y'all kidding this, She believes a liar. Now watch this.
When you believe lies, you'll keep on biting fruit that's

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been handed to you by snakes.

Speaker 7 (41:20):
Y'all see that, y'all see how the ladies, y'all see that.
I told you fellas, y'all can chill. It's lady's turn.

Speaker 9 (41:27):
So now you can always tell when a woman has
eaten for being fruit because her mouth is venomous.

Speaker 7 (41:35):
Yes, it's she'll turn, She'll turn, she'll turn. Come on,
is your ured, kings, is your turn? Her mouth is venomous.
Now watch this. Look. The mouth of a woman is
an activator. Does y'all hear me? The mouth of a
woman is an activator. What's the condition of your tongue? Sis?

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Is it a grim reaper? Or is it a king producer?

Speaker 9 (42:00):
There's a king and there's a fool inside every man. Listen,
there's a king and there's a fool inside every man.

Speaker 7 (42:09):
Which one do you speak?

Speaker 9 (42:11):
Fluent?

Speaker 7 (42:11):
In kingdom?

Speaker 9 (42:12):
Are foolish, foolish, So you talk to him out of venom.

Speaker 7 (42:21):
Let me give you bible. See he got quiet. I
like this, I promise you. We rail around it. Let's
give you Bible.

Speaker 9 (42:26):
Let's go ahead and go to these familiar passive scripture,
and then we're gonna be done. Proverbs, chapter twenty one,
verse nine, it says, better to live on a corner.

Speaker 7 (42:34):
Let me go way over here to niche. Somebody say,
I knew that was coming. You shall right.

Speaker 9 (42:39):
It's better to live on a corner of a roof than.

Speaker 7 (42:44):
To share a house with a quarrelsome wife. Now, look,
the quarlsal state is in herself.

Speaker 9 (42:50):
She doesn't even like herself because she herself is not enough.

Speaker 7 (42:55):
She doesn't even view herself pretty. I'm like, good lord,
he says, it's better to be on the roof.

Speaker 9 (42:59):
I'm like, what if it is winter, what if, like
last week, Hurricane Nicholas is coming through.

Speaker 7 (43:05):
It's better for you to be blowing brouh. It's better
for you to be.

Speaker 9 (43:12):
Blowing then for you to be in the house with
her venomous mouth.

Speaker 7 (43:18):
This is Bible, y'all.

Speaker 9 (43:20):
Verse nineteen Saint verse it says it's better to live
in a desert.

Speaker 7 (43:26):
How many times have you prayed for a financial miracle?
Here's the thing, though, that miracle won't happen unless you
take action.

Speaker 9 (43:36):
You know, desert's got cactus and sand and rattlesnakes and
all types of stuff.

Speaker 7 (43:42):
It's better for you to be out there getting sun burned.

Speaker 15 (43:45):
Bruh.

Speaker 9 (43:47):
It's better for you to be getting sun burnt and
freezing at night, then to you to be dealing with
a quarrelsome and a nagging wife.

Speaker 7 (43:57):
Now I want to give you more Bible.

Speaker 9 (43:58):
All right, Look, most of us don't know this, but
I studied this, and this really blessed me. When Satan
was about to go tempt job, first he had this
conversation with God. He had this conversation with God, and
then he told, man, listen, if you let me touch him,
he gonna curse you to your face.

Speaker 7 (44:17):
Now I want us to look at this.

Speaker 15 (44:20):
Job.

Speaker 9 (44:20):
Chapter two, verse three, it says, then the Lord said
to Satan, have you considered my servant job? There is
no one on earth like him. He is blameless and
the upright. I pray God never does this with me,
just being real, a man who fears God and shuns
evil and he still.

Speaker 7 (44:41):
Maintains his integrity, though.

Speaker 9 (44:43):
It enticed me against him to ruin without any reason.
And look at this verse four. Skin for skin, Satan replied,
a man will give all he has for his own life.
But now stretch out your hand and strike his flesh
and bone, and he will surely curse you to your face.

Speaker 7 (45:03):
Okay, everybody said, curse you to your face. So Satan
goes and afflicts Job.

Speaker 9 (45:09):
Look at verse nine. Verse nine says, is who is who?
Where y'all talk us off? Now, y'all, Oh, yes, preach
is who? His wife's might say.

Speaker 7 (45:20):
I can't see that word.

Speaker 9 (45:20):
Okay his wife His wife said to him, are you
still maintaining your integrity?

Speaker 7 (45:28):
Curse God? And die?

Speaker 9 (45:33):
I want to know how did she know to say
the exact same statement that Satan told God that Job
would say after I get afflicted? Could it be because
the enemy knows how I get to him?

Speaker 7 (45:49):
It's by talking to you. I'm standing in your ear,
and I'm gonna tell you stuff that you need to
tell him. Tell him he's sorry, Tell him he's no good,
tell him he's trifling, good for nothing type of brother.
Tell him, tell him he's so sorry. Tell him. You
don't need no man. Tell him.

Speaker 9 (46:09):
This is why you don't even put it down the
bedroom anyway. Tell him stuff to hurt his ego. Tell him.

Speaker 7 (46:15):
And when she can't discern when a snake is talking to.

Speaker 9 (46:18):
Her, she tells him all those things that he's been
wrestling with already.

Speaker 7 (46:23):
Because remember it always happens in the spirit before the natural.

Speaker 9 (46:27):
So now her mouth is used to assassinate things in
him that he was trying to build. Bobbi Wan a
kingdom home. Proverbs, chapter four, verse seven. It says, wisdom
is the principal thing. Therefore get wisdom. Somebody say, get wisdom,

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and all you're getting get understanding one point one point, get.

Speaker 7 (46:58):
Under the principle. That's it.

Speaker 9 (47:03):
Get under the principles and all that getting get understanding.

Speaker 7 (47:09):
Camembus flowers. So when we give.

Speaker 9 (47:12):
Teachings like this about kingdom, the goal pop yours open.
Why I got the feminine one, you get the feminine one.

Speaker 7 (47:26):
It's raggedy too. The goal is for me to get
under a principle.

Speaker 9 (47:34):
For you to get understanding, there must be something you
stand under. Okay, So now I lift yours up. So
while we're meeting, let's meet. I stand under purity? Is
that something you understand? I stand under holiness? Is that
something you understand? I stand under righteousness? Is that something

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you understand I stand under For me and my house,
we will serve the Lord. Is that what you understand?
I stand under honesty? Is that something you understand? So
now if we understand the same thing, come on over here.

Speaker 7 (48:15):
I have my home around your purpose. Keep coming, keep coming,
keep coming.

Speaker 9 (48:19):
Now we can stand under the principles of the King together.

Speaker 7 (48:25):
Does this make sense?

Speaker 9 (48:30):
So a lot of people want to get here to
the doubt, but there's nothing they're standing under. So we're
getting wet by everything. The world rains on us, every storm,
every trial. We're getting soaked because.

Speaker 7 (48:47):
We're not standing on nothing. But when we stand under.

Speaker 9 (48:50):
God's will, I'm not saying that we won't get wet,
but I am saying God, God has covered.

Speaker 7 (48:58):
This makes sense.

Speaker 9 (49:01):
God has us covered because we're standing under a principle. So,
Father God, in this moment, we recognize that you have
a design, and you have.

Speaker 7 (49:13):
A blueprint for the home. For that brother to know
you to have.

Speaker 9 (49:18):
A garden season before she ever takes interest in him,
recognize his garden because unmowed gardens, give room for snakes. God,
help us to redeem the original kingdom agenda because you
told us in your word you desire godly offspring, and

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that requires godly kingdom parents and kingdom covenants.

Speaker 7 (49:44):
We love you so much. Of God and Jesus name
me prayer Amen,