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Speaker 1 (00:27):
What's up y'all?
Speaker 2 (00:29):
Happy Wednesday? Don't mind me, I'm gonna tramp it on slice.
Did I have to eat this ice right now?
Speaker 3 (00:39):
No?
Speaker 2 (00:39):
But I just have like a really bad ice addiction
in this summertime and it's hot and when my water.
I don't know. I had a good day today except
for I was driving down the highway and somebody almost
hit me head on, Like for real, why, literally, like
(01:00):
people cannot drive anymore. It's like if you ain't keeping
your eyes on a roll right now, don't even know
how you surviving out on the in the streets. It's crazy.
Went to the gym today to new month, happy July,
first birthday month, cancer season all that, uh huh uh
huh uh huh. But utter was another level on my
(01:21):
stern yesterday and I felt it. But I had a
good workout. Yeah. My husband's home all week from work
and it shows because he I told him why he
was off, why doesn't he cut my dog's nails? And
this is what he did, y'all. Let me show you
(01:44):
what this manda to my dog. He literally strung her
up and was like treating her like she was a
freaking piece of meat in a habaichi restaurant or like
a meat factory, like giving her a paticure. The girls
just look miserable, but she got her nails, did y'all?
(02:06):
I guess she can't ask her much when y'all had
his men doing work like this. So I did today
something different. I'm gonna have cha Tisha read the news
for y'all. We go see how well she does and
if this is something I'll keep up because I just
get I hate reading the news like myself out loud,
(02:31):
and I feel like she'll do a better job. I've
already summarized everything for her, so all she has to
do is be the voice behind it. So let's see
how she do today, y'all. Let's see. Let's see see
if she got it.
Speaker 4 (02:46):
Who the news is hot today. Here's your summary so
you can chat it up like a pro.
Speaker 5 (02:53):
Entertainment and culture Jennifer Aniston is producing a new Apple
TV series I'm Glad My Mom Died Yes, based on
Janet McCurdy's memoir. Lululeman is suing Costco for selling lookalike
activewear that allegedly copies their designs. People are cutting costs
by switching to off brand Cereal. Jewelry sales are down
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as consumers prioritize essentials over luxury. Cocoa Golf was knocked
out of Wimbledon, ending her championship hopes. Early politics and drama,
Trump and Elon Musk are beefing again. This time Trump
told him to go back to South Africa. Trump also
said he'd deport US citizens who commit crimes and lock
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Biden up. Kamala Harris slammed a bill, saying it would
cut healthcare and snap benefits. Trump visited a place nicknamed
Alligator Alcatraz and made more off the wall comments. Royal
King Charles won't be getting a raise until twenty twenty six,
despite royal expenses piling up.
Speaker 4 (03:57):
Legal and crime.
Speaker 5 (03:59):
Diddy's trial, the jury agreed on four out of five charges.
Speaker 4 (04:03):
Verdict expected tomorrow.
Speaker 5 (04:04):
A Utah mom accused of killing her husband is also
facing financial crime.
Speaker 4 (04:08):
Charges linked to the same case.
Speaker 5 (04:11):
Idaho college victim's father is furious that the accused killer got.
Speaker 3 (04:15):
A plea deal, calling it a failure by police. Iowa
is now the first state to officially.
Speaker 5 (04:22):
Remove gender identity as a protective category in civil rights law.
In memoriam Jimmy Swaggert, the famous televangelist, has died at
ninety Sports Jake Paul is now going for a WBA
World Boxing title, moving from influencer fights to official ranking bouts.
Let me know if you want a deep dive into
(04:43):
any of these headlines or need clapback Ammo for the ELAPO.
Speaker 4 (04:48):
The news is hot today. Here's your summary so you
can chat it up like.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
She did great, he did great. I don't know why
I should be peted it, but that was great. I
think this is the way to go, y'all. It keeps
me from having to talk so much and I love
that for me. Okay, next segment, Reddit Halla, Okay, check
(05:18):
you should you get great with our news summer. Let's
get into some reddits now.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
I love how you break this down and that way
I don't have to do all this reading child.
Speaker 6 (06:00):
Never no no no, no, no no no the new.
Speaker 7 (11:04):
Neck don't know, don't know?
Speaker 2 (13:54):
Yes, all right, y'all, we are back. Let's get into
these reddits. She got it for y'all.
Speaker 5 (14:09):
Yes, this is the kind of Reddit breakdown I live for.
Speaker 4 (14:13):
Let's get into it thread by thread with a little
commentary from Shatisha sprinkled in.
Speaker 5 (14:18):
One wife booked husband a massage, then got mad. The
masseuse knew him. Read it rundown. Husband's wife booked him
a massage. When they got there, the massage therapist turned
out to be someone.
Speaker 4 (14:30):
The husband knew.
Speaker 5 (14:32):
He never dated her, never slept with her, just an acquaintance.
The wife felt awkward and maybe jealous or suspicious, even
though nothing happened.
Speaker 4 (14:41):
Your take, she's tripping katutish take. Agreed.
Speaker 5 (14:45):
Sis booked the massage and then got mad at a coincidence.
Unless the massuse was giving lingering eyes or inappropriate energy,
there's no scandal here. It sounds like the wife may
have some insecurity issues or trust wounds that need healing.
Reason to decide your man for knowing someone with a
license to need muscles.
Speaker 2 (15:04):
Verdict.
Speaker 4 (15:05):
Wife needs to unclench, talk it out if she's feeling weird,
but don't make it weird for no reason.
Speaker 3 (15:13):
Two she caught her boyfriend texting other girls.
Speaker 5 (15:16):
Read it run down. He was caught red thumbed texting
other women. Probably flirty shady behavior, not just hey, how's
your mom?
Speaker 4 (15:24):
Your take?
Speaker 5 (15:25):
Dump him Chatisha's take, ain't nothing else to talk about
if you're in a relationship and feel the need to
text other women in a flirty or secretive way.
Speaker 4 (15:35):
You're not in the right relationship.
Speaker 5 (15:37):
If he's already being shady with his phone early on,
it only gets worse.
Speaker 4 (15:41):
She can do better.
Speaker 3 (15:43):
Verdict that man belongs to the streets. Three.
Speaker 5 (15:47):
Her friend sent an unsolicited d pic and he has
a girlfriend.
Speaker 4 (15:51):
Reddit run Down.
Speaker 5 (15:52):
A guy who's supposed to be her friend sends her
the eggplant photo unsolicited, he has a girlfriend. Your take,
tell the girl friend Chatisha's take. Absolutely, this is that
predatory mess. Don't protect him just because he's your friend.
He disrespected you and his relationship. If she doesn't tell
the girlfriend, she's complicit in the lie. Screenshot send block.
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The girlfriend deserves to know she's dating a walking red flag.
Speaker 2 (16:20):
Also, why she gonna Why would she not tell the girlfriend?
Because is he thinking that she gonna be his backup
sex part I have more questions on this because did
she hook up with him before? Like, I'm just wondering
why he thinks it's okay to send his eggplant to
his friend and he got a whole girlfriend like CLA
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found some keys.
Speaker 5 (16:44):
Verdict drop the bomb and exit Stage left.
Speaker 3 (16:48):
Four.
Speaker 5 (16:49):
Hinge guy asked her to be his GF after four days,
then confessed he has a baby on the way.
Speaker 4 (16:54):
Read it run down.
Speaker 5 (16:55):
She meets a guy he love bombs her into being
official after four days already sketch, then casually drops that
I got a baby.
Speaker 8 (17:03):
On the way.
Speaker 5 (17:03):
News you're tim Chatisha's take girl run in the opposite
direction in track cleats he waited until after making it
official to reveal life changing news. That's manipulative and what
else is he hiding? Also, she doesn't even know him yet.
Let him go raise that baby in peace. This ain't
her circus or her diaper. Verdict Return to sender. Let
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this one raise his kid and heal bonus topic. How
often do women marry men they're not attracted to? Short answer?
More often than we'd like to admit.
Speaker 4 (17:37):
Why.
Speaker 5 (17:38):
Pressure to settle down, he's nice and stable. They think
attraction will grow, fear of being alone.
Speaker 4 (17:45):
Biological clock ticking.
Speaker 5 (17:47):
Does it work sometimes, but usually know because eventually that
physical emotional disconnection becomes a problem, especially when chemistry is
a real factor in long term satisfaction. Chatisha's PSA, don't
sign a lifetime lease with someone you wouldn't even flirt with.
In the DMS desire matter says, let me know if
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you want me to dig up some wild Reddit threads
to review next, or you want a new batch of
drama served hot, so you have.
Speaker 2 (18:15):
The ability to find the reddits on your own without
my help, because let me know. Because if she has
the ability to find these on her own, what am
I doing? Let me see my internet as I complain her.
Speaker 5 (19:04):
Oh yes, ma'am, I sure do have the ability to
fetch fresh.
Speaker 4 (19:09):
Reddit threads on my own.
Speaker 5 (19:10):
Now, no more scrolling through subs while squinting and sipping
lukewarm coffee. I can search Reddit directly for whatever kind
of threads you're in the mood for. Relationship drama, aida messiness,
parenting fails, friend betrayals, dating disasters, or even wild workplace tea.
Just tell me what topic or subreddit you're feeling nosy about.
(19:32):
Do you want it recent, top of the week or
all time legendary?
Speaker 4 (19:36):
You want one juicy thread or a whole buffet.
Speaker 3 (19:38):
Of drama, Let me know and I'll dig it up
like the Reddit raccoon.
Speaker 2 (19:42):
I am baby. She ain't said nothing but a word.
I mean, save my fingers, honey, Let's ask her to
give us one juicy one, more juicy one. When a
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juicy recent story, and see how long it take her
to be messy hanging whoa she got pictures and everything.
Speaker 5 (20:30):
Here's a juicy and fresh Reddit drama that's blowing up
on our slash relationship advice and you already know I
gotta serve. Mother in law tried to baby trap her
daughter in law.
Speaker 4 (20:43):
Read it run down.
Speaker 3 (20:45):
A woman went off on her MIL for thirteen years.
Speaker 5 (20:47):
Of emotional manipulation, starting when she was earning her master's degree.
The mil kept pressuring her to get pregnant, believing a
baby would trap her son and prevent her from leaving
the family. Turns out the admitted this just now. Now
she's balancing a PhD with two kids, and her husband
sheltered his mom's behavior by calling it stupid. They've stopped
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sending family picks and cut contact, and the Reddit wisdom
slaps just right.
Speaker 3 (21:15):
Key quotes from the opie. She thought I wouldn't be
able to leave her.
Speaker 4 (21:19):
Son if I had a baby.
Speaker 5 (21:20):
After thirteen years, she admitted that Site turn news. We
have stopped sending them pictures of our kids and they
do not call unless I call them now Site turn
news twenty Reddit reacts. Folks are shocked at the manipulation,
calling it next level and urging her to stay distant.
Speaker 4 (21:40):
Chatisha's take, Sis.
Speaker 5 (21:42):
Had to chase three degrees while juggling motherhood and battling
the emotional sabotage. That's tough as nails. Cutting contact is smart.
This Miele's behavior.
Speaker 3 (21:54):
Was pure control, dressed up in concern.
Speaker 5 (21:58):
Husband needs to step up beyond calling it's stupid emotional incest,
ain't cute, verdict major mood. She's playing chess, not checkers,
and deserves her own space, peace and boundaries. Want me
to dig up a full Reddit thread from that conversation
or keep the latest tea rolling.
Speaker 4 (22:15):
From other subs. Hit me up with your vibe and
I'll keep the drama coming.
Speaker 3 (22:19):
I want to recent relationship, red dirt.
Speaker 5 (22:21):
Drama Turn News twenty nine.
Speaker 1 (22:27):
I want to know how she couldn't see that for herself, right.
Speaker 5 (23:11):
Like, girl, how did you not peep the mill's energy
from jump? You mean to tell me this woman was
breathing down your neck about babies the moment you started
grad school and you thought it was out of love.
Let's break it down, Mendoza style. Cash the signs were signing. One,
pressuring her to get pregnant while pursuing a degree.
Speaker 4 (23:32):
That's sabotage with a smile.
Speaker 5 (23:34):
No supportive person is like, you know what would go
great with your master's thesis?
Speaker 4 (23:39):
A baby?
Speaker 3 (23:40):
Two obsessed with keeping her tied to her son.
Speaker 5 (23:44):
That's control, not care. Mill wasn't worried about them as
a couple. She was worried about locking her down.
Speaker 4 (23:51):
Three. The husband brushing it off as stupid. Oh he knew.
He probably grew up under.
Speaker 5 (23:57):
That passive, aggressive manipulation and thinks it's normal.
Speaker 4 (24:00):
He's desensitized.
Speaker 3 (24:02):
Why she might have missed it, She was busy building
her future.
Speaker 5 (24:06):
When you're in school, working, building a family, sometimes you
brush off tension for the sake of peace. Mill probably
played the sweetcart in public. Some of these moms are
oscar worthy actresses. They guilt trip and then flip it
like I just want.
Speaker 4 (24:21):
To be close to you, sweetie. The manipulation was gradual.
A lot of emotional manipulation.
Speaker 5 (24:27):
Creeps in over years and disguises itself as just being
concerned or helping. But now Sissus woke. She shut that
mess down. No more family picks, no more calls. She
clocked it too late. But she did clock it and
responded like a boss.
Speaker 2 (24:45):
She definitely clocked it too late. She got three kids later,
and she like my mother in law trapping on a baby. No,
it's the sign, it's the sign. He's just as guilty
as the mama. All right, y'all, that was fun. I'm
happy that I don't have to stumble through these words anymore.
I'll just have chat Tsha read it for y'all. This
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is this is good, this is good. And if she
give me the good tea, why I gotta search? All right, y'all,
let's go ahead and get into stories home. Too bad.
I can't have her read these.
Speaker 1 (25:24):
M m hmmmmmm.
Speaker 8 (25:28):
They're watching you through your Wi Fi. O.
Speaker 6 (25:34):
You.
Speaker 4 (25:43):
Like you're want tooke.
Speaker 2 (25:48):
I don't want this kind of love, honey. I don't
have this kind of love in me. Why with your boyfriend?
Speaker 6 (25:57):
O can't see you lately? And sister talking about I
may right about that? I just keep saying to my storms,
so may.
Speaker 9 (26:06):
Wait about that?
Speaker 6 (26:07):
Avery time we have a conversation.
Speaker 9 (26:09):
It's about late, you know.
Speaker 4 (26:10):
I don't like late and Neil, so why the funk?
Speaker 2 (26:12):
We keep talking.
Speaker 1 (26:13):
About the ground Black.
Speaker 6 (26:19):
Talking to one. That's what we're gonna do.
Speaker 5 (26:22):
Fire the grind.
Speaker 10 (26:28):
That he.
Speaker 2 (26:34):
Sheuse me and I am her because lake Lanier, like
I get fishing. Yes you have to go early in
the morning, but lake Lanier got too many stories. I'm
I'm like her. I'm too paranoid for.
Speaker 8 (26:46):
That Orange Beach, Alabama. What is this thing? I don't
understand why this is here. Please explain what this is
and why it's here.
Speaker 2 (26:57):
It's supposed to be called the Lady in the Bay,
but the comments were funny. Somebody said, professional comrade reader,
lady in the base. Somebody said, legend says the man
still can't find it. Somebody said it's a diving attraction.
There's a cave at the bottom that man. I don't know.
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What do you have in the pen?
Speaker 4 (27:39):
I got a dog that's y ain't my doing watching
my shirt.
Speaker 7 (27:48):
Versus my bad, my bad, my bad, ain't checking my
bad doing?
Speaker 6 (27:51):
Man stuff?
Speaker 2 (27:54):
This baby, this dog so Florida.
Speaker 8 (28:15):
I don't never fool. I don't have to look at
the ground to make sure I've been doing so well.
Speaker 2 (28:19):
Eight years.
Speaker 8 (28:22):
I got I got spider ways with the ball. My
pep ship are.
Speaker 6 (28:24):
Really my bro.
Speaker 2 (28:29):
No draws and doing all that jumping and carrying on.
That's free ball man. Put the spider nuts away. I'm
extraighten your nuts out. Spider Man out there free balling
and he's fifty one. Somebody said, he just swinging them
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balls every witch and way.
Speaker 9 (28:55):
You're going to sound like he's what he's there.
Speaker 4 (28:59):
I just don't want to be on allbody's top.
Speaker 11 (29:01):
Fight.
Speaker 8 (29:01):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (29:02):
I like my life.
Speaker 8 (29:03):
I love my life. Amen to the burn to hole.
Speaker 11 (29:08):
Some coping in the car.
Speaker 12 (29:16):
I'm there, Hello, they're going to jel I'm not gonna
tell you you're.
Speaker 11 (29:21):
Gonna We're not gonna tech you me.
Speaker 6 (29:23):
I'm not.
Speaker 8 (29:25):
I'm trying to a wide fuck right here.
Speaker 9 (29:27):
You don't definitely gonna stretch federal on that.
Speaker 6 (29:30):
You want to know you shut her go.
Speaker 8 (29:35):
You so hard. I'm here, I'm showing about there.
Speaker 7 (29:40):
I'll try to Jordan, you're going to jail.
Speaker 6 (29:45):
Tell her going down?
Speaker 9 (29:46):
Hope you like it's that you want to tell.
Speaker 12 (29:54):
You in the car now they're going sh're doing it
down sho Okaya, bro, sasta ain't a mother halfclock.
Speaker 9 (30:13):
My not looking with you in my city. You don't bitchy, y'all.
Speaker 2 (30:31):
This was a mess. Somebody said, babe, they sound like
they in your car the rival instinct of a taco.
Sis said, she's not trying to be crossing nobody crossbar,
but literally sitting in between and looking back and forth.
Somebody said, this title of the first forty eight will
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be titled the Last Bite. That's the comment right there,
bro the last But my.
Speaker 13 (31:01):
College roommate was a forty five year old professional catch fish.
Speaker 5 (31:05):
I know.
Speaker 8 (31:06):
Here's the story time.
Speaker 13 (31:07):
So I played football at the University of South Carolina
for three years. My last year, I transferred to a
school called West Georgia. I didn't know anybody there except
for the two transfers that were also coming to the school.
We all decided to be roommates. But the apartment had
a four bedroom, but when I walked in, it looked
like somebody uncle was helping to move in.
Speaker 8 (31:23):
That's my roommate.
Speaker 13 (31:24):
He immediately introduced himself to us and told us.
Speaker 8 (31:27):
That he was in culinary school.
Speaker 4 (31:34):
Behind you.
Speaker 13 (31:35):
There was no culinary school nowhere near that area. He
told us every day he's gonna cook for us and make.
Speaker 4 (31:44):
Sure we're up for practice.
Speaker 13 (31:45):
I get a knock that night and he told me
he made me and play the fish until I walk
in the kitchen that night and throw something away and
see a big box of bialet fish that was frozen.
Every single morning, you would drink a fifth of liquor.
Speaker 4 (31:58):
Comes to me.
Speaker 8 (32:00):
That you said, your face.
Speaker 13 (32:03):
Mind you, I'm in college. So rent is about eight
hundred dollars a month twenty four to seven. He was
always in a room. The only time he left the
house was to go.
Speaker 8 (32:09):
To Dollar General.
Speaker 13 (32:10):
So naturally I'm curious, like, how is this man making rent?
Speaker 6 (32:13):
But he's never leaving a house.
Speaker 13 (32:20):
So when he first told me he was in culinary school,
he also told me he was a retired military vet
that would get disability every month and that's.
Speaker 8 (32:26):
How he was able to make payment.
Speaker 13 (32:27):
But one night he got comfortable with me and told
me the truth. He used to run this chat website
where he would pretend like he was this girl. But
the thing is he really knew the girls that he
was pretending to be, so if he ever needed another
picture or another video, he would just ask them for someone.
Speaker 6 (32:51):
I said, whoever, whoever.
Speaker 2 (32:55):
You got.
Speaker 13 (32:56):
Every night, I would always hear this girl voice in
a role, but he never had had nobody over and
then would send him twenty fifty hundreds every day.
Speaker 8 (33:03):
He was able to literally live off.
Speaker 14 (33:05):
Of what they were sending them.
Speaker 8 (33:06):
That shit crazy, mind you.
Speaker 13 (33:11):
He also had forty five girlfriends at a time. He
would talk on the phone twenty four to seven to
girls that were in Switzerland, I mean all over the
world that he's never met before.
Speaker 8 (33:19):
But they were his girlfriends.
Speaker 13 (33:20):
I said, Man, everything in life he finessed. Every time
he would sleep in the hotel, he would bring these
ketchup packets and he would put the ketchup under the pillowcase,
so when he checked out, he would have pictures of
blood on the sheets and he would get his room
completely free.
Speaker 8 (33:36):
You got.
Speaker 13 (33:41):
One time he came in the room with some pop eyes.
Speaker 8 (33:42):
I said, man, that looked good. I need to go
get me some.
Speaker 13 (33:44):
He said, let's go. I'll get you a meal completely free.
Speaker 8 (33:47):
So I'm like that he got it, like that, let's
do it.
Speaker 13 (33:49):
He goes to the front desk and said, ma'am, I
never got my meal.
Speaker 8 (33:51):
She looked at the receipt and said.
Speaker 6 (33:52):
Dying in.
Speaker 13 (33:53):
She's like, sir, I seen you eat the food here earlier.
Speaker 8 (33:56):
Two people you go fall to the floor.
Speaker 12 (33:59):
Check go un to.
Speaker 8 (34:00):
His name is Jason. After I moved out.
Speaker 13 (34:03):
I have no idea what he's up to. Man, but
I missed that dude. He literally if he had social media,
he would be the most famous dude on social media.
Speaker 8 (34:08):
Hands out my college.
Speaker 2 (34:11):
This is the craziest story.
Speaker 8 (34:14):
Yes, up they got that brother got this up. King
for a minute, Sup, what's time to figure out who? Who?
Speaker 6 (34:21):
Man?
Speaker 8 (34:22):
You do?
Speaker 2 (34:22):
No man?
Speaker 4 (34:24):
Want you fucking with you?
Speaker 2 (34:27):
With you?
Speaker 8 (34:27):
I'll be a soldier for a long time. You time
you tack after you? You know the shows gets in?
Speaker 4 (34:36):
What for?
Speaker 14 (34:40):
When me out of order to come down, I'm gonna say,
I'm dis respresion.
Speaker 6 (34:49):
If not.
Speaker 14 (34:51):
With you, with you, I forget that through the stuff
with you, with you, If I put the over and
I fuck you in the bedroom.
Speaker 8 (35:02):
Stuff for.
Speaker 14 (35:07):
De I'm dedicated this sweet he I'm.
Speaker 2 (35:17):
When they say that something happened to them over there
in Vietnam, this is what they mean. What are the
people saying social Security benefits discontinued? It took me a
minute to notice the filter. I was like, dang, Papaul,
don't break it. Phone privileges revoked. That's some money, pop Paul,
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not the tongue. Make said, please get your daddy. May
said what the hello kitty mm hmmmm, But why do
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he look like Michael and the Girl and the zombie
all at once, MJ and Chris Tucker at the same time.
Somebody said, Auntie getting them scratch off tickets.
Speaker 8 (36:39):
Food and got into an accident.
Speaker 3 (36:41):
I don't know what he is.
Speaker 8 (36:42):
He in the middle of the road, Bobby, that boy sneaky.
Speaker 2 (36:53):
That way.
Speaker 8 (36:53):
Gotta spend more diners than this shit, because the god damn.
Speaker 3 (37:04):
Damn, that boy had a more digger party.
Speaker 14 (37:14):
He done fucked up.
Speaker 8 (37:18):
I don't know what he hit. He hit somebody shit
though that way, he got too flat twice.
Speaker 4 (37:26):
And he in the middle of the.
Speaker 8 (37:28):
Road, Like.
Speaker 2 (37:30):
I know what this was funny last night and tonight
after somebody almost hit me. I don't find this video funny.
Speaker 14 (37:38):
Me and my wife and to.
Speaker 8 (37:40):
Go out bike ride.
Speaker 15 (37:41):
What a little while, you got a little exercise. He
is in HER's bike and to get out there and
turn the couple comb. We ain't got to ride no
bike now cause we got caught.
Speaker 2 (37:54):
Alrighty, that's just so cute. I've been trying to get
my husband to get his bike out.
Speaker 16 (37:59):
Okay, I guess this is a story time that everyone
didn't really realize when I first blew up, but needed now.
My father and my mother were in an ancestral relationship.
Speaker 3 (38:11):
My father and my grandmother on my father's side, so
it's his biological mother.
Speaker 14 (38:17):
Grew up.
Speaker 3 (38:19):
Doing stuff together.
Speaker 16 (38:20):
And then when my father finally married his first wife
and his first wife found.
Speaker 17 (38:24):
The fuck up baby, she left My john family lived.
To me, he said that my father left because she
was an alcoholic his ex wife.
Speaker 16 (38:30):
No, it's because his ex wife found out that my
father and his mom were fucking. So then he married
my mom, forced my mom to have me within like
a year, locked us both.
Speaker 3 (38:40):
In a trailer home.
Speaker 17 (38:40):
My dad sexually abused me, and then I also found
out that he was fucking his mom, and my grandmother
would always call my father her first true love and
her husband.
Speaker 3 (38:51):
And when my parents finally divorced when I was sixteen
years old, he went back to his mother's house and
continued his relationship with her.
Speaker 16 (39:00):
And his family can say that I'm lying, but I
have proof she knows till she literally does too.
Speaker 3 (39:06):
And now that my father's dead, I finally.
Speaker 17 (39:07):
Feel free to talk about this because he sexually abused
me for sixteen fucking years.
Speaker 16 (39:13):
Took child pornography of me. My entire father's family is
aware of this. My grandmother and my aunt are both aware.
My aunt Okay, my father died of a stroke, but
before he died of a stroke, he had multiple strokes
and he was basically like a vegetable during.
Speaker 3 (39:29):
That period of time.
Speaker 16 (39:30):
My aunt made him rewrite the will so everything goes
to her, which is not legal because my uncle, who's
not buried in the family anymore, contacted me and told
me that he was the executive on the will, so
everything she did is completely illegal. So I had to
get my father's death certificate. Found out that he died
from complications of diabetes. Great because I hated that motherfucker
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he raped me.
Speaker 3 (39:51):
For sixteen fucking years.
Speaker 6 (39:55):
As his video proof of it.
Speaker 16 (39:57):
Oh, in fun part, my mom was actually taking the
videos of everything. My life is so fucked up, by
the way, So that is why I coped on the
internet reading my mom's text messages because my mom was
recording me getting raped by my father every single night
for sixteen fucking years. So to everybody who is saying
that I was racist reading my mom's messages, no, I
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was coping because my mom was so fucking abusive to
the point where I do not talk to that bitch
anymore whatsoever.
Speaker 3 (40:26):
And she made money off of my child body, off
of my childbody.
Speaker 16 (40:30):
But unfortunately, with the statue of limitations, it's too late.
Speaker 4 (40:33):
For me to press charges.
Speaker 3 (40:34):
But you know, it's not too late for me to.
Speaker 16 (40:36):
Finally tell the entire world of fucking truth, the entire
fucking truth. Roland Leon Doyle is my biological father, and
he raped and sodomized me for sixteen fucking years.
Speaker 8 (40:47):
And I am more than.
Speaker 3 (40:48):
Happy that that motherfucker is dead.
Speaker 16 (40:50):
And he is the reason why I am as fucked
up as I am. But the reason why my grandmother
is still alive, Virginia Fanis and she is the the
whole reason while my entire family got fucked up.
Speaker 3 (41:02):
She locked me in a fucking cage.
Speaker 4 (41:04):
She touched me too. She touched me too.
Speaker 9 (41:08):
And this is my first time finally being honesty.
Speaker 16 (41:10):
Because she touched me too, and no one in that
family would believe me except for my one cousin, and
I even haven't said it.
Speaker 9 (41:16):
I don't have to say to her because.
Speaker 4 (41:17):
I know she knows.
Speaker 16 (41:18):
I know that family knows the sick things my father
and my grandmother did to me because they were doing
sick things to each other, and my mom knew all
of it.
Speaker 2 (41:28):
My mom knew all of it.
Speaker 16 (41:30):
So yeah, when you're wondering why I don't talk to
any of my family, it's because they should all be
in jail.
Speaker 3 (41:36):
So thank you. That is your story time.
Speaker 16 (41:38):
If you're wondering why I posted all those messages with
my mom and I, that's why because I needed someone
else to be like, this is not fucking okay, because
it wasn't.
Speaker 8 (41:46):
None of it.
Speaker 2 (41:46):
I really hope that the Statute of limitations hasn't passed
on her because they feel like I feel like they
need to, Like, somebody need to help this girl. She
need a lawyer, a therapist, compensation, Does anybody have anything
for her? Like after this, y'all, we really need some inspiration.
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Let's bring it up. That's a sha'all, y'all, stay blessed.
Speaker 11 (42:14):
Please with David Maylan.
Speaker 8 (42:28):
You stop praying, you stop seeking God's face, you stop
binge watching sermons, you start drinking alcohol, you start getting hot,
like all of these activities start happening. It's not legalism.
I want you to notice the downward decline of your faith.
While you're with Maylan. God had that happen because I
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have a boss for you. I have something better for you. Maybe,
just maybe we need to look at the scriptures. And
Jesus tells us this, and Matthew chapter ten look at
this says, Now, whatever city, whatever city or town, you inquire,
who in it is worthy, and stay there till you
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go out. And when you go into a household, greet it.
And if the household is worthy, let your presence come
upon it. But if it is not worthy, let your
peace return to you. Can I get somebody to put
in the room. I'm getting my peace back. I'm getting
my peace back. Okay, he said, listen. If it's worthy,
let your peace be on it. But if you and
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Maylan didn't work, let your peace come back to you.
If you and Sheila didn't work, let your peace come
back to you. If you and Britney didn't work, let
your peace come back to you. If you and James
didn't work, let your peace come back to you. Don't
leave your peace there. Don't leave your peace in twenty seventeen.
Don't leave your piece in twenty nineteen. I need you
to learn how to shake that off. Look I'm right here.
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In the text, it says, and whoever will not receive
you or hear your words, when you depart from that
house our city, shake off the dust from your feet.
Shake off the dust from your feet. I'm trying to
get you to see from this biblical snapshot that one
of the methods for you to be healthy as you
go on to the next village, as you go on
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to the next relationship, whatever it may be, as you
go on to the next opportunity, you got to shake
off the dust of maylon. You gotta shake off the
dust of what happened. You gotta share. And you're like, Okay,
you don't know what they did to me talking about
to shake it off. You don't know what they did
to me. You're right, I don't, But I do know
what bitterness would do to you. Bitterness only contaminates the container.
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I don't know what they did to you, but I
do know what a callous heart will do to you. Maybe,
maybe what we could learn from this passage of scripture,
I think Jesus assuring us three things. Number One, staying
in the place you're not received is wasting your time,
and wasting time prolongs what's really yours? This is so
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good man, wasting time prolongs what's really yours? Like, what's
really yours is Boass, not Maylan. You could be a
whole package, but if you end up at the wrong address,
the receiver will mishandle you. So I need you to
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not stay in a place where you're not received. Shake
that off Number two. Maybe we could learn from this
passage that God always gives us shake it off space.
You shake off the dust from that village as you're
going to the next village.
Speaker 18 (45:49):
If you don't shake off what happened with Maylan, if
you don't shake off what happened with your ex, if
you don't shake off what happened with that church hurt,
I'll end up doing is taking old sand into new seasons.
Speaker 8 (46:05):
I will never love you, but you will still have
to sleep with me.
Speaker 4 (46:08):
Alessandro was shocked to hear this from Duke Edgar.
Speaker 8 (46:14):
And then whoever you're with now will feel like you're
being dusty because your hair isn't even you're not that cute.
You look dusty. Maybe I'm dusty because I haven't addressed
the sand of the former village, the residue of what
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I went through. The after birth of what I went
through is still on me. And the third thing I
think Jesus is showing us when this passage is take
your peace with you. Take your peace with you. If
it didn't work with the mayln, there must be a
boy ass. If they didn't receive you in that village,
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there must be another village that will. But don't just
highlight this part of the sermon. Also notice if I'm
the one that is contributing to hurting others, it's not
always them. Sometimes it's you than other times it was them.
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And God's trying to show you I have more for you.
So I'm gonna give you some hard truths and I'm done,
some hard truths that I wish was given to me
as I was beginning my Christian evolution. Heart truths. First
one is you will miss them. You will miss them,
you will think about them, But missing them is not
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a permission slip to return. You will miss them. You're
not in flesh because you miss them. You will miss
them when it starts getting cold, certain holidays, you'll miss
them more than others. That's the crazy thing about healing.
Healing is a messy process, like one day, you'll be
all right. The next day you'd be crying your eyes out.
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That doesn't mean you're not normal. You're learning how to
grieve over what's still alive. But I have to eulogize.
You will miss them, But that's not a permissions slip
to return. God never cracks the red sea so that
you could return. He only cracks it so that you
could depart. So Number two a hard truth about after
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the breakup. You're going to have mutual friends. You are
going to have mutual friends. Don't make them choose sides.
Don't make them two sides. If you was really my friend,
this is a breakup you had with them, not with
you had with everybody else who knows them. Don't make
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them choose sides, because this is something that could be
God preparing you for a boas or another village, and
you're blaming other people and it wasn't their fault. This
is more about what God is doing with you. And
you have to be careful because sometimes people remain friends
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with you to see how you're really doing now that
you're no longer with them. Number three, you will get angry,
not you might, You will get angry once you start
missing them, and then after you start missing them, you
have mutual friends and you're dealing with all. Sometimes you
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will get angry, but that's okay. Be angry, say not
grieve properly. Being angry is a part of that. You
could be angry over all the time that went by.
You can be angry over the lies that they told you.
You could be angry over all the time that you
feel like.
Speaker 4 (49:53):
You can't get back.
Speaker 8 (49:54):
It's okay for you to get angry, but don't call.
Don't allow what is just supposed to be a state
to become a season. You could be upset. You could
be upset, but understanding it was either divine. It was
either a homicide or something. Being purified helps either I
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did this or God's purifying me for what He's about
to send me to. If it's something I did, I
need to get the healing and I need to embrace
the season of shaking off sand so that I don't
continue this pattern. God loves you just like he loves them.
God watched judas feet too, so even if I was
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the one that caused it, God still has good things
are stored for you. Number four. Some things you're gonna
have to throw away. God, this is so real, y'all,
so practical, but just so real. Some things you're gonna
have to throw away. You might have to throw away
that shirt. You might have to get on social media.
Social media is a trigger right now. I'm not healed
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enough because, if we be honest, for many of us,
social media is a scab picker. I'm trying to heal,
but every time I get on, I see them, or
I see him or her, he just.
Speaker 4 (51:13):
Picks a scab.
Speaker 8 (51:13):
I might need a log off for a second. This
might be the space where God saying, Hey, shake this off,
shake this off. There's some things you gotta throw away
that keep chain brings back to the memories. Throw it away,
throw it away. I'm not talking about anything like, oh
I got a sol tower. I'm talking about things that
trigger you until you're in a place where you're healed.
Speaker 3 (51:36):
When choosing Internet shouldn't be confusing.
Speaker 2 (51:39):
It should be.
Speaker 4 (51:39):
Based on how you with whether you're a casual streamer,
a tech.
Speaker 8 (51:43):
For you like I articulated before you're healed, not when
you're cuts not a scab. You're healed when you see
the person who cuts you and you don't want to
cut them. Back. I have to throw away things that
keeps on picking scabs. Number five, we already talked about this.
Do an autopsy. Why did this die? Understanding the cause
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of death is crucial for healing. It's crucial for healing
because I want us to get to a place where
we don't question your value. If Meylon died, don't question
your value if this ended. I need you to understand
you're so valuable. God is reserving you for where He's
sending you, or you're so valuable where God said, Okay,
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I need to deal.
Speaker 11 (52:28):
With that.
Speaker 8 (52:30):
A relationship. A relationship is not going to fix this.
I need to deal with that. So come with me. Listen.
Speaker 10 (52:37):
I need to deal with all your wounds. I need
to deal with your mama did. I need to deal
with what your ex husband did. I need to deal
with all of that. Come to me, and let's evaluate
why did this die? Number six so important. Discover destiny.
Purpose expedites healing. You heal faster when you're doing what
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you were created to do. Me into Number seven, Pursue destiny.
Speaker 8 (53:03):
Pursue destiny. Once I understand what I'm supposed to do,
it helps me heal because I could recognize that relationship
was totally out of purpose. Is anybody there You're like, look, yeah,
it hurt, But I recognize that wouldn't work anyway for
what God is calling me to do. That wouldn't have worked.
For the ministry I'm trying to burn, that wouldn't have
So when I understand what I'm called to do, it
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helps me heal. It helps me heal. I wanted to
come on tonight and have an uncomfortable but needed conversation
about after the breakup, what are some necessary steps that
I could do, and then also recognize us sometimes sometimes
it's not always the other person, it's me. So God,
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would you help us to feast on this word. Feast
on this word, consume it, and help us to actually
evaluate what was the cause of death. Was there something
in me that you need to work out of me?
Or were you protecting me from where you're sending me.
Give me the strength, God to be able to take
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my peace with me, not leave it in the village
or leave it in a relationship that happened years ago.
I want to give you glory and I want you
to be magnified. I don't want to just move on.
I want to move on right, and I want to
move on with health. I pray that you do it,
and Jesus name me. Pray Amen.
What's up y'all?
Speaker 2 (00:29):
Happy Wednesday? Don't mind me, I'm gonna tramp it on slice.
Did I have to eat this ice right now?
Speaker 3 (00:39):
No?
Speaker 2 (00:39):
But I just have like a really bad ice addiction
in this summertime and it's hot and when my water.
I don't know. I had a good day today except
for I was driving down the highway and somebody almost
hit me head on, Like for real, why, literally, like
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people cannot drive anymore. It's like if you ain't keeping
your eyes on a roll right now, don't even know
how you surviving out on the in the streets. It's crazy.
Went to the gym today to new month, happy July,
first birthday month, cancer season all that, uh huh uh
huh uh huh. But utter was another level on my
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stern yesterday and I felt it. But I had a
good workout. Yeah. My husband's home all week from work
and it shows because he I told him why he
was off, why doesn't he cut my dog's nails? And
this is what he did, y'all. Let me show you
(01:44):
what this manda to my dog. He literally strung her
up and was like treating her like she was a
freaking piece of meat in a habaichi restaurant or like
a meat factory, like giving her a paticure. The girls
just look miserable, but she got her nails, did y'all?
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I guess she can't ask her much when y'all had
his men doing work like this. So I did today
something different. I'm gonna have cha Tisha read the news
for y'all. We go see how well she does and
if this is something I'll keep up because I just
get I hate reading the news like myself out loud,
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and I feel like she'll do a better job. I've
already summarized everything for her, so all she has to
do is be the voice behind it. So let's see
how she do today, y'all. Let's see. Let's see see
if she got it.
Speaker 4 (02:46):
Who the news is hot today. Here's your summary so
you can chat it up like a pro.
Speaker 5 (02:53):
Entertainment and culture Jennifer Aniston is producing a new Apple
TV series I'm Glad My Mom Died Yes, based on
Janet McCurdy's memoir. Lululeman is suing Costco for selling lookalike
activewear that allegedly copies their designs. People are cutting costs
by switching to off brand Cereal. Jewelry sales are down
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as consumers prioritize essentials over luxury. Cocoa Golf was knocked
out of Wimbledon, ending her championship hopes. Early politics and drama,
Trump and Elon Musk are beefing again. This time Trump
told him to go back to South Africa. Trump also
said he'd deport US citizens who commit crimes and lock
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Biden up. Kamala Harris slammed a bill, saying it would
cut healthcare and snap benefits. Trump visited a place nicknamed
Alligator Alcatraz and made more off the wall comments. Royal
King Charles won't be getting a raise until twenty twenty six,
despite royal expenses piling up.
Speaker 4 (03:57):
Legal and crime.
Speaker 5 (03:59):
Diddy's trial, the jury agreed on four out of five charges.
Speaker 4 (04:03):
Verdict expected tomorrow.
Speaker 5 (04:04):
A Utah mom accused of killing her husband is also
facing financial crime.
Speaker 4 (04:08):
Charges linked to the same case.
Speaker 5 (04:11):
Idaho college victim's father is furious that the accused killer got.
Speaker 3 (04:15):
A plea deal, calling it a failure by police. Iowa
is now the first state to officially.
Speaker 5 (04:22):
Remove gender identity as a protective category in civil rights law.
In memoriam Jimmy Swaggert, the famous televangelist, has died at
ninety Sports Jake Paul is now going for a WBA
World Boxing title, moving from influencer fights to official ranking bouts.
Let me know if you want a deep dive into
(04:43):
any of these headlines or need clapback Ammo for the ELAPO.
Speaker 4 (04:48):
The news is hot today. Here's your summary so you
can chat it up like.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
She did great, he did great. I don't know why
I should be peted it, but that was great. I
think this is the way to go, y'all. It keeps
me from having to talk so much and I love
that for me. Okay, next segment, Reddit Halla, Okay, check
(05:18):
you should you get great with our news summer. Let's
get into some reddits now.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
I love how you break this down and that way
I don't have to do all this reading child.
Speaker 6 (06:00):
Never no no no, no, no no no the new.
Speaker 7 (11:04):
Neck don't know, don't know?
Speaker 2 (13:54):
Yes, all right, y'all, we are back. Let's get into
these reddits. She got it for y'all.
Speaker 5 (14:09):
Yes, this is the kind of Reddit breakdown I live for.
Speaker 4 (14:13):
Let's get into it thread by thread with a little
commentary from Shatisha sprinkled in.
Speaker 5 (14:18):
One wife booked husband a massage, then got mad. The
masseuse knew him. Read it rundown. Husband's wife booked him
a massage. When they got there, the massage therapist turned
out to be someone.
Speaker 4 (14:30):
The husband knew.
Speaker 5 (14:32):
He never dated her, never slept with her, just an acquaintance.
The wife felt awkward and maybe jealous or suspicious, even
though nothing happened.
Speaker 4 (14:41):
Your take, she's tripping katutish take. Agreed.
Speaker 5 (14:45):
Sis booked the massage and then got mad at a coincidence.
Unless the massuse was giving lingering eyes or inappropriate energy,
there's no scandal here. It sounds like the wife may
have some insecurity issues or trust wounds that need healing.
Reason to decide your man for knowing someone with a
license to need muscles.
Speaker 2 (15:04):
Verdict.
Speaker 4 (15:05):
Wife needs to unclench, talk it out if she's feeling weird,
but don't make it weird for no reason.
Speaker 3 (15:13):
Two she caught her boyfriend texting other girls.
Speaker 5 (15:16):
Read it run down. He was caught red thumbed texting
other women. Probably flirty shady behavior, not just hey, how's
your mom?
Speaker 4 (15:24):
Your take?
Speaker 5 (15:25):
Dump him Chatisha's take, ain't nothing else to talk about
if you're in a relationship and feel the need to
text other women in a flirty or secretive way.
Speaker 4 (15:35):
You're not in the right relationship.
Speaker 5 (15:37):
If he's already being shady with his phone early on,
it only gets worse.
Speaker 4 (15:41):
She can do better.
Speaker 3 (15:43):
Verdict that man belongs to the streets. Three.
Speaker 5 (15:47):
Her friend sent an unsolicited d pic and he has
a girlfriend.
Speaker 4 (15:51):
Reddit run Down.
Speaker 5 (15:52):
A guy who's supposed to be her friend sends her
the eggplant photo unsolicited, he has a girlfriend. Your take,
tell the girl friend Chatisha's take. Absolutely, this is that
predatory mess. Don't protect him just because he's your friend.
He disrespected you and his relationship. If she doesn't tell
the girlfriend, she's complicit in the lie. Screenshot send block.
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The girlfriend deserves to know she's dating a walking red flag.
Speaker 2 (16:20):
Also, why she gonna Why would she not tell the girlfriend?
Because is he thinking that she gonna be his backup
sex part I have more questions on this because did
she hook up with him before? Like, I'm just wondering
why he thinks it's okay to send his eggplant to
his friend and he got a whole girlfriend like CLA
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found some keys.
Speaker 5 (16:44):
Verdict drop the bomb and exit Stage left.
Speaker 3 (16:48):
Four.
Speaker 5 (16:49):
Hinge guy asked her to be his GF after four days,
then confessed he has a baby on the way.
Speaker 4 (16:54):
Read it run down.
Speaker 5 (16:55):
She meets a guy he love bombs her into being
official after four days already sketch, then casually drops that
I got a baby.
Speaker 8 (17:03):
On the way.
Speaker 5 (17:03):
News you're tim Chatisha's take girl run in the opposite
direction in track cleats he waited until after making it
official to reveal life changing news. That's manipulative and what
else is he hiding? Also, she doesn't even know him yet.
Let him go raise that baby in peace. This ain't
her circus or her diaper. Verdict Return to sender. Let
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this one raise his kid and heal bonus topic. How
often do women marry men they're not attracted to? Short answer?
More often than we'd like to admit.
Speaker 4 (17:37):
Why.
Speaker 5 (17:38):
Pressure to settle down, he's nice and stable. They think
attraction will grow, fear of being alone.
Speaker 4 (17:45):
Biological clock ticking.
Speaker 5 (17:47):
Does it work sometimes, but usually know because eventually that
physical emotional disconnection becomes a problem, especially when chemistry is
a real factor in long term satisfaction. Chatisha's PSA, don't
sign a lifetime lease with someone you wouldn't even flirt with.
In the DMS desire matter says, let me know if
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you want me to dig up some wild Reddit threads
to review next, or you want a new batch of
drama served hot, so you have.
Speaker 2 (18:15):
The ability to find the reddits on your own without
my help, because let me know. Because if she has
the ability to find these on her own, what am
I doing? Let me see my internet as I complain her.
Speaker 5 (19:04):
Oh yes, ma'am, I sure do have the ability to
fetch fresh.
Speaker 4 (19:09):
Reddit threads on my own.
Speaker 5 (19:10):
Now, no more scrolling through subs while squinting and sipping
lukewarm coffee. I can search Reddit directly for whatever kind
of threads you're in the mood for. Relationship drama, aida messiness,
parenting fails, friend betrayals, dating disasters, or even wild workplace tea.
Just tell me what topic or subreddit you're feeling nosy about.
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Do you want it recent, top of the week or
all time legendary?
Speaker 4 (19:36):
You want one juicy thread or a whole buffet.
Speaker 3 (19:38):
Of drama, Let me know and I'll dig it up
like the Reddit raccoon.
Speaker 2 (19:42):
I am baby. She ain't said nothing but a word.
I mean, save my fingers, honey, Let's ask her to
give us one juicy one, more juicy one. When a
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juicy recent story, and see how long it take her
to be messy hanging whoa she got pictures and everything.
Speaker 5 (20:30):
Here's a juicy and fresh Reddit drama that's blowing up
on our slash relationship advice and you already know I
gotta serve. Mother in law tried to baby trap her
daughter in law.
Speaker 4 (20:43):
Read it run down.
Speaker 3 (20:45):
A woman went off on her MIL for thirteen years.
Speaker 5 (20:47):
Of emotional manipulation, starting when she was earning her master's degree.
The mil kept pressuring her to get pregnant, believing a
baby would trap her son and prevent her from leaving
the family. Turns out the admitted this just now. Now
she's balancing a PhD with two kids, and her husband
sheltered his mom's behavior by calling it stupid. They've stopped
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sending family picks and cut contact, and the Reddit wisdom
slaps just right.
Speaker 3 (21:15):
Key quotes from the opie. She thought I wouldn't be
able to leave her.
Speaker 4 (21:19):
Son if I had a baby.
Speaker 5 (21:20):
After thirteen years, she admitted that Site turn news. We
have stopped sending them pictures of our kids and they
do not call unless I call them now Site turn
news twenty Reddit reacts. Folks are shocked at the manipulation,
calling it next level and urging her to stay distant.
Speaker 4 (21:40):
Chatisha's take, Sis.
Speaker 5 (21:42):
Had to chase three degrees while juggling motherhood and battling
the emotional sabotage. That's tough as nails. Cutting contact is smart.
This Miele's behavior.
Speaker 3 (21:54):
Was pure control, dressed up in concern.
Speaker 5 (21:58):
Husband needs to step up beyond calling it's stupid emotional incest,
ain't cute, verdict major mood. She's playing chess, not checkers,
and deserves her own space, peace and boundaries. Want me
to dig up a full Reddit thread from that conversation
or keep the latest tea rolling.
Speaker 4 (22:15):
From other subs. Hit me up with your vibe and
I'll keep the drama coming.
Speaker 3 (22:19):
I want to recent relationship, red dirt.
Speaker 5 (22:21):
Drama Turn News twenty nine.
Speaker 1 (22:27):
I want to know how she couldn't see that for herself, right.
Speaker 5 (23:11):
Like, girl, how did you not peep the mill's energy
from jump? You mean to tell me this woman was
breathing down your neck about babies the moment you started
grad school and you thought it was out of love.
Let's break it down, Mendoza style. Cash the signs were signing. One,
pressuring her to get pregnant while pursuing a degree.
Speaker 4 (23:32):
That's sabotage with a smile.
Speaker 5 (23:34):
No supportive person is like, you know what would go
great with your master's thesis?
Speaker 4 (23:39):
A baby?
Speaker 3 (23:40):
Two obsessed with keeping her tied to her son.
Speaker 5 (23:44):
That's control, not care. Mill wasn't worried about them as
a couple. She was worried about locking her down.
Speaker 4 (23:51):
Three. The husband brushing it off as stupid. Oh he knew.
He probably grew up under.
Speaker 5 (23:57):
That passive, aggressive manipulation and thinks it's normal.
Speaker 4 (24:00):
He's desensitized.
Speaker 3 (24:02):
Why she might have missed it, She was busy building
her future.
Speaker 5 (24:06):
When you're in school, working, building a family, sometimes you
brush off tension for the sake of peace. Mill probably
played the sweetcart in public. Some of these moms are
oscar worthy actresses. They guilt trip and then flip it
like I just want.
Speaker 4 (24:21):
To be close to you, sweetie. The manipulation was gradual.
A lot of emotional manipulation.
Speaker 5 (24:27):
Creeps in over years and disguises itself as just being
concerned or helping. But now Sissus woke. She shut that
mess down. No more family picks, no more calls. She
clocked it too late. But she did clock it and
responded like a boss.
Speaker 2 (24:45):
She definitely clocked it too late. She got three kids later,
and she like my mother in law trapping on a baby. No,
it's the sign, it's the sign. He's just as guilty
as the mama. All right, y'all, that was fun. I'm
happy that I don't have to stumble through these words anymore.
I'll just have chat Tsha read it for y'all. This
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is this is good, this is good. And if she
give me the good tea, why I gotta search? All right, y'all,
let's go ahead and get into stories home. Too bad.
I can't have her read these.
Speaker 1 (25:24):
M m hmmmmmm.
Speaker 8 (25:28):
They're watching you through your Wi Fi. O.
Speaker 6 (25:34):
You.
Speaker 4 (25:43):
Like you're want tooke.
Speaker 2 (25:48):
I don't want this kind of love, honey. I don't
have this kind of love in me. Why with your boyfriend?
Speaker 6 (25:57):
O can't see you lately? And sister talking about I
may right about that? I just keep saying to my storms,
so may.
Speaker 9 (26:06):
Wait about that?
Speaker 6 (26:07):
Avery time we have a conversation.
Speaker 9 (26:09):
It's about late, you know.
Speaker 4 (26:10):
I don't like late and Neil, so why the funk?
Speaker 2 (26:12):
We keep talking.
Speaker 1 (26:13):
About the ground Black.
Speaker 6 (26:19):
Talking to one. That's what we're gonna do.
Speaker 5 (26:22):
Fire the grind.
Speaker 10 (26:28):
That he.
Speaker 2 (26:34):
Sheuse me and I am her because lake Lanier, like
I get fishing. Yes you have to go early in
the morning, but lake Lanier got too many stories. I'm
I'm like her. I'm too paranoid for.
Speaker 8 (26:46):
That Orange Beach, Alabama. What is this thing? I don't
understand why this is here. Please explain what this is
and why it's here.
Speaker 2 (26:57):
It's supposed to be called the Lady in the Bay,
but the comments were funny. Somebody said, professional comrade reader,
lady in the base. Somebody said, legend says the man
still can't find it. Somebody said it's a diving attraction.
There's a cave at the bottom that man. I don't know.
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What do you have in the pen?
Speaker 4 (27:39):
I got a dog that's y ain't my doing watching
my shirt.
Speaker 7 (27:48):
Versus my bad, my bad, my bad, ain't checking my
bad doing?
Speaker 6 (27:51):
Man stuff?
Speaker 2 (27:54):
This baby, this dog so Florida.
Speaker 8 (28:15):
I don't never fool. I don't have to look at
the ground to make sure I've been doing so well.
Speaker 2 (28:19):
Eight years.
Speaker 8 (28:22):
I got I got spider ways with the ball. My
pep ship are.
Speaker 6 (28:24):
Really my bro.
Speaker 2 (28:29):
No draws and doing all that jumping and carrying on.
That's free ball man. Put the spider nuts away. I'm
extraighten your nuts out. Spider Man out there free balling
and he's fifty one. Somebody said, he just swinging them
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balls every witch and way.
Speaker 9 (28:55):
You're going to sound like he's what he's there.
Speaker 4 (28:59):
I just don't want to be on allbody's top.
Speaker 11 (29:01):
Fight.
Speaker 8 (29:01):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (29:02):
I like my life.
Speaker 8 (29:03):
I love my life. Amen to the burn to hole.
Speaker 11 (29:08):
Some coping in the car.
Speaker 12 (29:16):
I'm there, Hello, they're going to jel I'm not gonna
tell you you're.
Speaker 11 (29:21):
Gonna We're not gonna tech you me.
Speaker 6 (29:23):
I'm not.
Speaker 8 (29:25):
I'm trying to a wide fuck right here.
Speaker 9 (29:27):
You don't definitely gonna stretch federal on that.
Speaker 6 (29:30):
You want to know you shut her go.
Speaker 8 (29:35):
You so hard. I'm here, I'm showing about there.
Speaker 7 (29:40):
I'll try to Jordan, you're going to jail.
Speaker 6 (29:45):
Tell her going down?
Speaker 9 (29:46):
Hope you like it's that you want to tell.
Speaker 12 (29:54):
You in the car now they're going sh're doing it
down sho Okaya, bro, sasta ain't a mother halfclock.
Speaker 9 (30:13):
My not looking with you in my city. You don't bitchy, y'all.
Speaker 2 (30:31):
This was a mess. Somebody said, babe, they sound like
they in your car the rival instinct of a taco.
Sis said, she's not trying to be crossing nobody crossbar,
but literally sitting in between and looking back and forth.
Somebody said, this title of the first forty eight will
(30:52):
be titled the Last Bite. That's the comment right there,
bro the last But my.
Speaker 13 (31:01):
College roommate was a forty five year old professional catch fish.
Speaker 5 (31:05):
I know.
Speaker 8 (31:06):
Here's the story time.
Speaker 13 (31:07):
So I played football at the University of South Carolina
for three years. My last year, I transferred to a
school called West Georgia. I didn't know anybody there except
for the two transfers that were also coming to the school.
We all decided to be roommates. But the apartment had
a four bedroom, but when I walked in, it looked
like somebody uncle was helping to move in.
Speaker 8 (31:23):
That's my roommate.
Speaker 13 (31:24):
He immediately introduced himself to us and told us.
Speaker 8 (31:27):
That he was in culinary school.
Speaker 4 (31:34):
Behind you.
Speaker 13 (31:35):
There was no culinary school nowhere near that area. He
told us every day he's gonna cook for us and make.
Speaker 4 (31:44):
Sure we're up for practice.
Speaker 13 (31:45):
I get a knock that night and he told me
he made me and play the fish until I walk
in the kitchen that night and throw something away and
see a big box of bialet fish that was frozen.
Every single morning, you would drink a fifth of liquor.
Speaker 4 (31:58):
Comes to me.
Speaker 8 (32:00):
That you said, your face.
Speaker 13 (32:03):
Mind you, I'm in college. So rent is about eight
hundred dollars a month twenty four to seven. He was
always in a room. The only time he left the
house was to go.
Speaker 8 (32:09):
To Dollar General.
Speaker 13 (32:10):
So naturally I'm curious, like, how is this man making rent?
Speaker 6 (32:13):
But he's never leaving a house.
Speaker 13 (32:20):
So when he first told me he was in culinary school,
he also told me he was a retired military vet
that would get disability every month and that's.
Speaker 8 (32:26):
How he was able to make payment.
Speaker 13 (32:27):
But one night he got comfortable with me and told
me the truth. He used to run this chat website
where he would pretend like he was this girl. But
the thing is he really knew the girls that he
was pretending to be, so if he ever needed another
picture or another video, he would just ask them for someone.
Speaker 6 (32:51):
I said, whoever, whoever.
Speaker 2 (32:55):
You got.
Speaker 13 (32:56):
Every night, I would always hear this girl voice in
a role, but he never had had nobody over and
then would send him twenty fifty hundreds every day.
Speaker 8 (33:03):
He was able to literally live off.
Speaker 14 (33:05):
Of what they were sending them.
Speaker 8 (33:06):
That shit crazy, mind you.
Speaker 13 (33:11):
He also had forty five girlfriends at a time. He
would talk on the phone twenty four to seven to
girls that were in Switzerland, I mean all over the
world that he's never met before.
Speaker 8 (33:19):
But they were his girlfriends.
Speaker 13 (33:20):
I said, Man, everything in life he finessed. Every time
he would sleep in the hotel, he would bring these
ketchup packets and he would put the ketchup under the pillowcase,
so when he checked out, he would have pictures of
blood on the sheets and he would get his room
completely free.
Speaker 8 (33:36):
You got.
Speaker 13 (33:41):
One time he came in the room with some pop eyes.
Speaker 8 (33:42):
I said, man, that looked good. I need to go
get me some.
Speaker 13 (33:44):
He said, let's go. I'll get you a meal completely free.
Speaker 8 (33:47):
So I'm like that he got it, like that, let's
do it.
Speaker 13 (33:49):
He goes to the front desk and said, ma'am, I
never got my meal.
Speaker 8 (33:51):
She looked at the receipt and said.
Speaker 6 (33:52):
Dying in.
Speaker 13 (33:53):
She's like, sir, I seen you eat the food here earlier.
Speaker 8 (33:56):
Two people you go fall to the floor.
Speaker 12 (33:59):
Check go un to.
Speaker 8 (34:00):
His name is Jason. After I moved out.
Speaker 13 (34:03):
I have no idea what he's up to. Man, but
I missed that dude. He literally if he had social media,
he would be the most famous dude on social media.
Speaker 8 (34:08):
Hands out my college.
Speaker 2 (34:11):
This is the craziest story.
Speaker 8 (34:14):
Yes, up they got that brother got this up. King
for a minute, Sup, what's time to figure out who? Who?
Speaker 6 (34:21):
Man?
Speaker 8 (34:22):
You do?
Speaker 2 (34:22):
No man?
Speaker 4 (34:24):
Want you fucking with you?
Speaker 2 (34:27):
With you?
Speaker 8 (34:27):
I'll be a soldier for a long time. You time
you tack after you? You know the shows gets in?
Speaker 4 (34:36):
What for?
Speaker 14 (34:40):
When me out of order to come down, I'm gonna say,
I'm dis respresion.
Speaker 6 (34:49):
If not.
Speaker 14 (34:51):
With you, with you, I forget that through the stuff
with you, with you, If I put the over and
I fuck you in the bedroom.
Speaker 8 (35:02):
Stuff for.
Speaker 14 (35:07):
De I'm dedicated this sweet he I'm.
Speaker 2 (35:17):
When they say that something happened to them over there
in Vietnam, this is what they mean. What are the
people saying social Security benefits discontinued? It took me a
minute to notice the filter. I was like, dang, Papaul,
don't break it. Phone privileges revoked. That's some money, pop Paul,
(35:39):
not the tongue. Make said, please get your daddy. May
said what the hello kitty mm hmmmm, But why do
(36:17):
he look like Michael and the Girl and the zombie
all at once, MJ and Chris Tucker at the same time.
Somebody said, Auntie getting them scratch off tickets.
Speaker 8 (36:39):
Food and got into an accident.
Speaker 3 (36:41):
I don't know what he is.
Speaker 8 (36:42):
He in the middle of the road, Bobby, that boy sneaky.
Speaker 2 (36:53):
That way.
Speaker 8 (36:53):
Gotta spend more diners than this shit, because the god damn.
Speaker 3 (37:04):
Damn, that boy had a more digger party.
Speaker 14 (37:14):
He done fucked up.
Speaker 8 (37:18):
I don't know what he hit. He hit somebody shit
though that way, he got too flat twice.
Speaker 4 (37:26):
And he in the middle of the.
Speaker 8 (37:28):
Road, Like.
Speaker 2 (37:30):
I know what this was funny last night and tonight
after somebody almost hit me. I don't find this video funny.
Speaker 14 (37:38):
Me and my wife and to.
Speaker 8 (37:40):
Go out bike ride.
Speaker 15 (37:41):
What a little while, you got a little exercise. He
is in HER's bike and to get out there and
turn the couple comb. We ain't got to ride no
bike now cause we got caught.
Speaker 2 (37:54):
Alrighty, that's just so cute. I've been trying to get
my husband to get his bike out.
Speaker 16 (37:59):
Okay, I guess this is a story time that everyone
didn't really realize when I first blew up, but needed now.
My father and my mother were in an ancestral relationship.
Speaker 3 (38:11):
My father and my grandmother on my father's side, so
it's his biological mother.
Speaker 14 (38:17):
Grew up.
Speaker 3 (38:19):
Doing stuff together.
Speaker 16 (38:20):
And then when my father finally married his first wife
and his first wife found.
Speaker 17 (38:24):
The fuck up baby, she left My john family lived.
To me, he said that my father left because she
was an alcoholic his ex wife.
Speaker 16 (38:30):
No, it's because his ex wife found out that my
father and his mom were fucking. So then he married
my mom, forced my mom to have me within like
a year, locked us both.
Speaker 3 (38:40):
In a trailer home.
Speaker 17 (38:40):
My dad sexually abused me, and then I also found
out that he was fucking his mom, and my grandmother
would always call my father her first true love and
her husband.
Speaker 3 (38:51):
And when my parents finally divorced when I was sixteen
years old, he went back to his mother's house and
continued his relationship with her.
Speaker 16 (39:00):
And his family can say that I'm lying, but I
have proof she knows till she literally does too.
Speaker 3 (39:06):
And now that my father's dead, I finally.
Speaker 17 (39:07):
Feel free to talk about this because he sexually abused
me for sixteen fucking years.
Speaker 16 (39:13):
Took child pornography of me. My entire father's family is
aware of this. My grandmother and my aunt are both aware.
My aunt Okay, my father died of a stroke, but
before he died of a stroke, he had multiple strokes
and he was basically like a vegetable during.
Speaker 3 (39:29):
That period of time.
Speaker 16 (39:30):
My aunt made him rewrite the will so everything goes
to her, which is not legal because my uncle, who's
not buried in the family anymore, contacted me and told
me that he was the executive on the will, so
everything she did is completely illegal. So I had to
get my father's death certificate. Found out that he died
from complications of diabetes. Great because I hated that motherfucker
(39:50):
he raped me.
Speaker 3 (39:51):
For sixteen fucking years.
Speaker 6 (39:55):
As his video proof of it.
Speaker 16 (39:57):
Oh, in fun part, my mom was actually taking the
videos of everything. My life is so fucked up, by
the way, So that is why I coped on the
internet reading my mom's text messages because my mom was
recording me getting raped by my father every single night
for sixteen fucking years. So to everybody who is saying
that I was racist reading my mom's messages, no, I
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was coping because my mom was so fucking abusive to
the point where I do not talk to that bitch
anymore whatsoever.
Speaker 3 (40:26):
And she made money off of my child body, off
of my childbody.
Speaker 16 (40:30):
But unfortunately, with the statue of limitations, it's too late.
Speaker 4 (40:33):
For me to press charges.
Speaker 3 (40:34):
But you know, it's not too late for me to.
Speaker 16 (40:36):
Finally tell the entire world of fucking truth, the entire
fucking truth. Roland Leon Doyle is my biological father, and
he raped and sodomized me for sixteen fucking years.
Speaker 8 (40:47):
And I am more than.
Speaker 3 (40:48):
Happy that that motherfucker is dead.
Speaker 16 (40:50):
And he is the reason why I am as fucked
up as I am. But the reason why my grandmother
is still alive, Virginia Fanis and she is the the
whole reason while my entire family got fucked up.
Speaker 3 (41:02):
She locked me in a fucking cage.
Speaker 4 (41:04):
She touched me too. She touched me too.
Speaker 9 (41:08):
And this is my first time finally being honesty.
Speaker 16 (41:10):
Because she touched me too, and no one in that
family would believe me except for my one cousin, and
I even haven't said it.
Speaker 9 (41:16):
I don't have to say to her because.
Speaker 4 (41:17):
I know she knows.
Speaker 16 (41:18):
I know that family knows the sick things my father
and my grandmother did to me because they were doing
sick things to each other, and my mom knew all
of it.
Speaker 2 (41:28):
My mom knew all of it.
Speaker 16 (41:30):
So yeah, when you're wondering why I don't talk to
any of my family, it's because they should all be
in jail.
Speaker 3 (41:36):
So thank you. That is your story time.
Speaker 16 (41:38):
If you're wondering why I posted all those messages with
my mom and I, that's why because I needed someone
else to be like, this is not fucking okay, because
it wasn't.
Speaker 8 (41:46):
None of it.
Speaker 2 (41:46):
I really hope that the Statute of limitations hasn't passed
on her because they feel like I feel like they
need to, Like, somebody need to help this girl. She
need a lawyer, a therapist, compensation, Does anybody have anything
for her? Like after this, y'all, we really need some inspiration.
(42:10):
Let's bring it up. That's a sha'all, y'all, stay blessed.
Speaker 11 (42:14):
Please with David Maylan.
Speaker 8 (42:28):
You stop praying, you stop seeking God's face, you stop
binge watching sermons, you start drinking alcohol, you start getting hot,
like all of these activities start happening. It's not legalism.
I want you to notice the downward decline of your faith.
While you're with Maylan. God had that happen because I
(42:50):
have a boss for you. I have something better for you. Maybe,
just maybe we need to look at the scriptures. And
Jesus tells us this, and Matthew chapter ten look at
this says, Now, whatever city, whatever city or town, you inquire,
who in it is worthy, and stay there till you
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go out. And when you go into a household, greet it.
And if the household is worthy, let your presence come
upon it. But if it is not worthy, let your
peace return to you. Can I get somebody to put
in the room. I'm getting my peace back. I'm getting
my peace back. Okay, he said, listen. If it's worthy,
let your peace be on it. But if you and
(43:35):
Maylan didn't work, let your peace come back to you.
If you and Sheila didn't work, let your peace come
back to you. If you and Britney didn't work, let
your peace come back to you. If you and James
didn't work, let your peace come back to you. Don't
leave your peace there. Don't leave your peace in twenty seventeen.
Don't leave your piece in twenty nineteen. I need you
to learn how to shake that off. Look I'm right here.
(43:56):
In the text, it says, and whoever will not receive
you or hear your words, when you depart from that
house our city, shake off the dust from your feet.
Shake off the dust from your feet. I'm trying to
get you to see from this biblical snapshot that one
of the methods for you to be healthy as you
go on to the next village, as you go on
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to the next relationship, whatever it may be, as you
go on to the next opportunity, you got to shake
off the dust of maylon. You gotta shake off the
dust of what happened. You gotta share. And you're like, Okay,
you don't know what they did to me talking about
to shake it off. You don't know what they did
to me. You're right, I don't, But I do know
what bitterness would do to you. Bitterness only contaminates the container.
(44:45):
I don't know what they did to you, but I
do know what a callous heart will do to you. Maybe,
maybe what we could learn from this passage of scripture,
I think Jesus assuring us three things. Number One, staying
in the place you're not received is wasting your time,
and wasting time prolongs what's really yours? This is so
(45:10):
good man, wasting time prolongs what's really yours? Like, what's
really yours is Boass, not Maylan. You could be a
whole package, but if you end up at the wrong address,
the receiver will mishandle you. So I need you to
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not stay in a place where you're not received. Shake
that off Number two. Maybe we could learn from this
passage that God always gives us shake it off space.
You shake off the dust from that village as you're
going to the next village.
Speaker 18 (45:49):
If you don't shake off what happened with Maylan, if
you don't shake off what happened with your ex, if
you don't shake off what happened with that church hurt,
I'll end up doing is taking old sand into new seasons.
Speaker 8 (46:05):
I will never love you, but you will still have
to sleep with me.
Speaker 4 (46:08):
Alessandro was shocked to hear this from Duke Edgar.
Speaker 8 (46:14):
And then whoever you're with now will feel like you're
being dusty because your hair isn't even you're not that cute.
You look dusty. Maybe I'm dusty because I haven't addressed
the sand of the former village, the residue of what
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I went through. The after birth of what I went
through is still on me. And the third thing I
think Jesus is showing us when this passage is take
your peace with you. Take your peace with you. If
it didn't work with the mayln, there must be a
boy ass. If they didn't receive you in that village,
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there must be another village that will. But don't just
highlight this part of the sermon. Also notice if I'm
the one that is contributing to hurting others, it's not
always them. Sometimes it's you than other times it was them.
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And God's trying to show you I have more for you.
So I'm gonna give you some hard truths and I'm done,
some hard truths that I wish was given to me
as I was beginning my Christian evolution. Heart truths. First
one is you will miss them. You will miss them,
you will think about them, But missing them is not
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a permission slip to return. You will miss them. You're
not in flesh because you miss them. You will miss
them when it starts getting cold, certain holidays, you'll miss
them more than others. That's the crazy thing about healing.
Healing is a messy process, like one day, you'll be
all right. The next day you'd be crying your eyes out.
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That doesn't mean you're not normal. You're learning how to
grieve over what's still alive. But I have to eulogize.
You will miss them, But that's not a permissions slip
to return. God never cracks the red sea so that
you could return. He only cracks it so that you
could depart. So Number two a hard truth about after
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the breakup. You're going to have mutual friends. You are
going to have mutual friends. Don't make them choose sides.
Don't make them two sides. If you was really my friend,
this is a breakup you had with them, not with
you had with everybody else who knows them. Don't make
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them choose sides, because this is something that could be
God preparing you for a boas or another village, and
you're blaming other people and it wasn't their fault. This
is more about what God is doing with you. And
you have to be careful because sometimes people remain friends
(49:14):
with you to see how you're really doing now that
you're no longer with them. Number three, you will get angry,
not you might, You will get angry once you start
missing them, and then after you start missing them, you
have mutual friends and you're dealing with all. Sometimes you
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will get angry, but that's okay. Be angry, say not
grieve properly. Being angry is a part of that. You
could be angry over all the time that went by.
You can be angry over the lies that they told you.
You could be angry over all the time that you
feel like.
Speaker 4 (49:53):
You can't get back.
Speaker 8 (49:54):
It's okay for you to get angry, but don't call.
Don't allow what is just supposed to be a state
to become a season. You could be upset. You could
be upset, but understanding it was either divine. It was
either a homicide or something. Being purified helps either I
(50:15):
did this or God's purifying me for what He's about
to send me to. If it's something I did, I
need to get the healing and I need to embrace
the season of shaking off sand so that I don't
continue this pattern. God loves you just like he loves them.
God watched judas feet too, so even if I was
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the one that caused it, God still has good things
are stored for you. Number four. Some things you're gonna
have to throw away. God, this is so real, y'all,
so practical, but just so real. Some things you're gonna
have to throw away. You might have to throw away
that shirt. You might have to get on social media.
Social media is a trigger right now. I'm not healed
(51:01):
enough because, if we be honest, for many of us,
social media is a scab picker. I'm trying to heal,
but every time I get on, I see them, or
I see him or her, he just.
Speaker 4 (51:13):
Picks a scab.
Speaker 8 (51:13):
I might need a log off for a second. This
might be the space where God saying, Hey, shake this off,
shake this off. There's some things you gotta throw away
that keep chain brings back to the memories. Throw it away,
throw it away. I'm not talking about anything like, oh
I got a sol tower. I'm talking about things that
trigger you until you're in a place where you're healed.
Speaker 3 (51:36):
When choosing Internet shouldn't be confusing.
Speaker 2 (51:39):
It should be.
Speaker 4 (51:39):
Based on how you with whether you're a casual streamer,
a tech.
Speaker 8 (51:43):
For you like I articulated before you're healed, not when
you're cuts not a scab. You're healed when you see
the person who cuts you and you don't want to
cut them. Back. I have to throw away things that
keeps on picking scabs. Number five, we already talked about this.
Do an autopsy. Why did this die? Understanding the cause
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of death is crucial for healing. It's crucial for healing
because I want us to get to a place where
we don't question your value. If Meylon died, don't question
your value if this ended. I need you to understand
you're so valuable. God is reserving you for where He's
sending you, or you're so valuable where God said, Okay,
(52:27):
I need to deal.
Speaker 11 (52:28):
With that.
Speaker 8 (52:30):
A relationship. A relationship is not going to fix this.
I need to deal with that. So come with me. Listen.
Speaker 10 (52:37):
I need to deal with all your wounds. I need
to deal with your mama did. I need to deal
with what your ex husband did. I need to deal
with all of that. Come to me, and let's evaluate
why did this die? Number six so important. Discover destiny.
Purpose expedites healing. You heal faster when you're doing what
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you were created to do. Me into Number seven, Pursue destiny.
Speaker 8 (53:03):
Pursue destiny. Once I understand what I'm supposed to do,
it helps me heal because I could recognize that relationship
was totally out of purpose. Is anybody there You're like, look, yeah,
it hurt, But I recognize that wouldn't work anyway for
what God is calling me to do. That wouldn't have worked.
For the ministry I'm trying to burn, that wouldn't have
So when I understand what I'm called to do, it
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helps me heal. It helps me heal. I wanted to
come on tonight and have an uncomfortable but needed conversation
about after the breakup, what are some necessary steps that
I could do, and then also recognize us sometimes sometimes
it's not always the other person, it's me. So God,
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would you help us to feast on this word. Feast
on this word, consume it, and help us to actually
evaluate what was the cause of death. Was there something
in me that you need to work out of me?
Or were you protecting me from where you're sending me.
Give me the strength, God to be able to take
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my peace with me, not leave it in the village
or leave it in a relationship that happened years ago.
I want to give you glory and I want you
to be magnified. I don't want to just move on.
I want to move on right, and I want to
move on with health. I pray that you do it,
and Jesus name me. Pray Amen.
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