How Can We Gain a Sense of Belonging?

We all have a God-given need to belong, but does that mean finding a sphere in which we consistently feel affirmed? We also all long, at some level, to be fully known, but does that mean we must unveil our deepest and most shameful secrets? In this episode, guest Dr. Sandra Dalton-Smith discusses these issues along with uncomfortable but necessary set-up seasons, how our trust in God impacts our journeys, how that trust deepens over time, and the most important step we can take in our growth and confidence in ourselves and our calling.

Resource referenced: Being Fully Known: The Joyful Satisfaction of Beholding, Becoming, and Belonging by Sandra Dalton-Smith

Topics covered:

• The difference between being known and being exposed
• The best way to respond to long "set-up" seasons
• Biblical characters God intentionally trained for greatness
• How "Beholding" God leads to increased belonging

1. Where in your life do you feel safe to be emotionally honest—and where do you feel the need to hide?
2. Are there signs of emotional fatigue showing up in your body, relationships, or spiritual life? How might God be inviting you to rest?
3. What fears or past experiences might be holding you back from letting others—or God—truly know you?
4. Have you experienced a “set apart” season? Looking back, how did God use that time to shape or strengthen you?
5. How does the idea of “belonging” resonate with you right now? Do you feel like you’re striving to fit in, or are you resting in God’s acceptance?
6. What might it look like for you to intentionally behold God this week—and how could that impact how you see yourself and others?
7. What is one action step God might be inviting you to take having listened to this episode?

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