Femme On The Spectrum - Autism- High functioning female neurodivergent minds

Femme On The Spectrum - Autism- High functioning female neurodivergent minds

Welcome to Femme on the Spectrum, where we dive deep into the lived experiences of adult autism while tackling the pressing issues of our time. Hosted by Elizabeth, a proud autistic advocate and mother, this podcast covers everything from navigating politics and motherhood to exploring feminism and breaking stereotypes. Join us for candid, unfiltered conversations that highlight the unique challenges and triumphs of living life on the spectrum. Whether you're neurodivergent or simply curious, this is a space for real talk and fresh perspectives.

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April 26, 2025 41 mins
The podcast script is an intense account of host Elizabeth's life journey, particularly her struggles in a toxic and manipulative relationship while also dealing with neurodivergence, specifically autism and ADHD. She also recounts experiencing cancer and the emotional impact this had compounded by a lack of support. The podcast is an unflinching exploration of themes such as love, trust, betrayal, and resilience. It provides a can...
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Femme On The Spectrum, a podcast by Elizabeth, focuses on uncovering the behavioral similarities between people-pleasers and covert narcissists in a particular episode. The episode starts by unraveling the different strategies, though aimed at the subjective manipulation of people's perceptions, adopted by grandiose narcissists, people-pleasers, and covert narcissists. Next, it delves into the reasons why such manipulative characte...
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In this episode of Femme on the Spectrum, host Elizabeth explores a paradox in society's attitude towards truth-telling; while honesty is publicly championed, those who expose inconvenient truths often face pushback. This behavior is linked to maintaining the social status quo, as well as an instinctive aversion to discomfort. Elizabeth further delves into the psychological reasonings behind this, highlighting the inclination of gr...
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In this episode of Femme on the Spectrum, host Elizabeth discusses manipulation, social dynamics, and the implications when trust in close relationships starts to erode. The discussion begins with an analysis of the two types of people most vulnerable to manipulation: those who lack knowledge and those who seek approval. Elizabeth shares a personal story of betrayal within her family, shedding light on the painful experience of fam...
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In the episode "The Power of Neurodivergence: Recognizing the Glitches in Society’s Codes" of podcast "Femme on the Spectrum," hosted by Elizabeth, discussions around the theme of the neurodivergent individuals' resistance to societal programming are explored. Elizabeth discusses how people with autism or ADHD often see patterns and hypocrisies with their unique perspectives that others may miss. The episode further covered the way...
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In the latest installment of "Femme on the Spectrum," hosted by Elizabeth, the podcast explores the turbulent developments related to President Trump's administration and their impact on the neurodivergent community. Elizabeth delves into discussions about the President's perceived constitutional violations, the implications for the neurodivergent community and how to survive amidst the chaos. She unpacks the overwhelming constant ...
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In this episode of "Femme on the Spectrum," host Elizabeth discusses a range of issues that impact neurodivergent women. She begins with a critique on the binary approach to gender recognition in a recent executive order, which she points out can be particularly harmful to autistic women who do not fit neatly into male/female categories. This theme continues with a deep dive into currently threatened reproductive rights and the imp...
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The podcast episode titled "Femme on the Spectrum" is hosted by Elizabeth and focuses on understanding and spreading awareness about reactive abuse and how it disproportionately affects neurodivergent and autistic women. Reactive abuse is a scenario where the victim of ongoing mistreatment reacts, only for the abuser to manipulate this response to appear as the aggressor. Elizabeth explores how the emotional intensity of autistic w...
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In the latest episode of the podcast 'Femme on the Spectrum,' Elizabeth discusses the challenging family dynamics and social manipulation primarily experienced by neurodivergent individuals. This episode offers an in-depth look into the difficulties of being an autistic truth-teller in a family environment often full of unspoken rules and hidden agendas. Elizabeth shares her personal experiences of family strife, particularly her t...
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In this episode of Femme on the Spectrum, host Elizabeth discusses the prevalent issue of enablers of narcissistic abuse, particularly in the context of neurodivergent individuals. She defines enablers as those who lend overt or covert support to narcissists, often posing as helpful people, which makes them as toxic as the narcissists themselves. She further explains that neurodivergent people often have the discerning ability to s...
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In the podcast episode of "Femme on the Spectrum," Elizabeth addresses the sensitive topic of naivety and manipulation. With a significant percentage of autistic adults reporting victimization by manipulation, she embarks on a deep-dive into how the natural, transparent disposition common among neurodivergent individuals can sometimes be exploited. Sharing personal anecdotes about exploitative friendships, she underscores the need ...
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In this episode of Femme on the Spectrum, host Elizabeth discusses the increased susceptibility of autistic women to various forms of abuse, including emotional, financial, social, and physical. The conversation explores why autistic women are more likely to become targets, emphasizing potential challenges with interpreting social cues and the complexity of their natural transparency and honesty. Elizabeth also examines family dyna...
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In this episode of Femme on the Spectrum, Elizabeth debunks some prevalent misconceptions about autism, celebrating it as a unique and valuable way of processing information, rather than a deficit. She explores the practice of 'masking'—the ability of autistic individuals to blend into their surroundings by mimicking social behaviors. While highlighting the strengths such as hyperfocus and pattern recognition that often accompany a...
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In this episode of Femme on the Spectrum, Elizabeth delves into the complex and often misunderstood dynamic between autistic women and narcissists. She discusses how these women, despite their innate ability to detect deception, frequently fall for the manipulative tactics of narcissists due to their hyper-empathy and challenges with setting boundaries. Drawing from personal experiences and recent research, she explains how autisti...
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Welcome to the summary of Femme on the Spectrum, an enlightening podcast where the host, Elizabeth, critically examines societal expectations and norms, focusing on the lens of autism and feminism. She discusses the traditional narratives that gaslight women, and particularly autistic women, into conforming to a skewed societal checklist. From her personal experiences, Elizabeth articulates upon the painful process of questioning t...
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The podcast script for "Femme on the Spectrum" is hosted by Elizabeth, an autistic adult who was diagnosed later in life. She explores different aspects of autism while sharing personal experiences, aiming to raise awareness and understanding about day-to-day challenges faced by autistic adults. She delves into the concept of "masking," the act of conforming to neurotypical behaviors to fit in socially, and its emotional and physic...
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In the podcast "Femme on the Spectrum," Elizabeth dives into issues ranging from abuse recognition to the value of autistic integrity. She discusses 'flying monkeys,' enablers of abuse, explaining how understanding this dynamic can help individuals set boundaries and protect their truths. Elizabeth then talks about the social struggles autistic people face due to their literal interpretation of information, highlighting this trait ...
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In this episode of "Femme on the Spectrum", Elizabeth discusses the challenges and emotional exhaustion neurodivergent moms face. She explains the concept of 'masking', a facade neurodivergent individuals display to blend into neurotypical society, and how it impacts everyday tasks and social interactions. She also shares her personal experiences, unraveling the realities behind the seemingly perfect facade, and expresses the strug...
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The podcast discusses the intriguing life of Martha Stewart, highlighting her rise from a modest upbringing to becoming the queen of DIY projects, her Wall Street career, her infamous insider trading scandal, and her time behind bars. It scrutinizes the double standards powerful women come up against, noting how Martha's driven personality was seen as 'controlling' whereas men with similar traits are often praised. The podcast expl...
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In this episode of "Femme on the Spectrum", host Elizabeth shares her deeply personal tale of domestic violence, gaslighting, and emotional abuse within her family, framing her experiences through the lens of having autism. She discusses how her neurodivergency compounded these challenges, making social dynamics trickier to navigate, and how they were manipulated against her. Elizabeth also reveals how society's patriarchal values ...
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