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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hey everyone, Jake Carter here, your friendly neighborhood purpose guru,
Welcome back to find your why again. Today we're diving
into something super important, especially with everything going on in
the world, self compassion. Ever, feel like you're being constantly
judged by yourself, by others, or maybe even by that
inner critic who just won't shut up. Yeah, I hear you.
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Life can be tough, and it's easy to get caught
in a cycle of self criticism when things don't go
our way. But guess what, it doesn't have to be
that way. Cultivating self compassion is like giving yourself a
giant hug when you need it most, a warm, comforting
reminder that you're worthy of love and kindness even when
you mess up. Think about it like this, would you
treat your best friend the way you sometimes treat yourself?
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Probably not. You'd offer words of encouragement, understanding, and maybe
even a slice of their favorite cake. So why wouldn't
you extend that same level of kindness to yourself. It's
time to ditch the harsh inner critic and embrace a kinder,
more compassionate approach to life, because, let's face it, we
all deserve it. Now. I know what you might be thinking.
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Easier said than done, Jake, trust me, I get it.
But even small changes can make a huge difference. Here
are five key takeaways that can help you cultivate self
compassion in challenging times. One. Recognize your humanity. You're not
a superhero. You're human, and that means making mistakes, feeling emotions,
and experiencing setbacks. It's all part of the journey. Instead
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of beating yourself up over those moments, acknowledge them with
kindness and understanding. Say to yourself, Okay, this didn't go
as planned, but it's okay. I'm learning and growing from it.
Remember everyone stumbles sometimes, even the most successful people you admire.
Two practice mindfulness. Ever, notice how our thoughts can spiral
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out of control. That's when self compassion becomes super important.
When you catch yourself in a negative thought pattern, take
a moment to pause and observe it without judgment. Just
acknowledge the thought, Breathe deeply, and jem guide your attention
back to the present moment. This simple practice can help
you create space between your thoughts and your emotions, allowing
you to respond with more kindness and understanding. Three. Treat
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yourself like you treat a friend. Remember that friend who
always knows how to cheer you up. Imagine treating yourself
with that same level of care and compassion when you're
feeling down. Instead of berating yourself, offer words of encouragement
and support, just like you would a friend. And don't
forget about those self care rituals. Taking a warm bath,
reading a good book, or spending time in nature can
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work wonders for your mental well being. Four. Seek support
when you need it. You're not alone on this journey.
Talk to a trusted friend, family member, therapist, or mentor
when you need support. Sharing your feelings and experiences with
others can help you process them more effectively and feel
less overwhelmed. Five. Celebrate your small wins. Give yourself credit
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for the things you do well, even the seemingly insignificant ones.
Finishing that to do list woo who making it through
a challenging day high. Five. Celebrating your accomplishments, no matter
how small, can help boost your self esteem and remind
you of your strengths. Okay, let's talk about this in
real life for a second. Imagine this You're at work
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and you made a mistake that costs the team. Some time,
your heart sinks and you instantly start berating yourself. I'm
so stupid. I should have known better. Now hold on
a second. Instead of spiraling into self criticism, try this.
Acknowledge the mistake. Okay, yeah, that wasn't my best work.
Learn from it. What can I do differently next time?
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And offer yourself some kindness. It happens to everyone. I'm
going to learn from this and move on. Remember, self
compassion isn't about being perfect or avoiding mistakes. It's about
treating yourself with kindness and understanding even when things don't
go your way. It's a journey, not a destination, so
be patient with yourself and celebrate every step in the
right direction. So how are you going to practice more
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self compassion today? Maybe you write yourself a little note
of encouragement, take a few minutes to meditate, or simply
treat yourself to something you enjoy. Remember you're worthy of
love and kindness. Start with yourself, and don't forget to
share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below. Until
next time, Keep finding your why again. This podcast is
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