Finding Common Ground

Finding Common Ground

Many families feel like they're treading water, especially those living with autism and other developmental differences. As your hosts, we get it, and we know this frustration all too well. In response, we've created tried-and-true strategies that help everyday people achieve extraordinary things. Even those who might have doubted themselves can borrow our confidence, follow one of our "blueprints," and with a supportive community cheering them on, make the impossible happen. Each success inspires those coming up behind us, creating a ripple effect of positive change—Which is why we'll never run out of content!Our podcast tackles tough issues head-on with unfiltered conversations focused on solutions. We won't avoid "the elephant in the room"—in fact, we'll invite it to dinner! Our unique format appeals to people from across the globe, offering strategies that turn efforts for one into advocacy for the greater good. We breakdown topics like innovative housing, effective self-advocacy, and healthcare complexities, guided by our audience on what to cover next. Each episode offers fresh perspectives, featuring many guests you won't find on mainstream platforms. We intentionally invite differing viewpoints because finding common ground with those we see as obstacles is the surest way to create new and innovative solutions. Join our Supporter's Club and check out our merch. Let’s ensure the A/I/DD community's voice is heard. If you want to dig deeper, schedule a session with us. We happily work one-on-one, develop trainings, and offer public speaking engagements to assist individuals and organizations in promoting things like inclusivity and equity. Join our community, plant seeds of positive change, and before you know it, you'll be moving mountains with us! Want to support our mission and access exclusive content? Join our Supporter's Club and check out our merch. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/finding-common-ground--6199849/support.

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May 7, 2025 61 mins
Today, as the perpetrator (Garnet Collins) is sentenced for his crimes, we release this episode to stand in solidarity with Anil and Shalini Babbar’s family and amplify their fight for justice and protection. 

Their journey from heartbreak to hope explains the development of Guardian Watch AI and how technology—combined with community involvement—can not only hold perpetrators accountable but also prevent future abuse.Impactful Quot...
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Pull up a virtual backstage chair—this episode is just Heather & Steve, nearly one year in the making. No guests, no scripts, just two advocates who refuse to let the conversation end at “cut.” We revisit our most powerful moments, unpack the “quiet parts” that echo long after the camera stops rolling, and give you the inside scoop on what’s coming next.  A heartfelt thank you to everyone for rallying around CDPAP topics lately...
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    This is the episode where we say the quiet parts out loud.Heather and Steve sit down with powerhouse advocate Jackie Ceonzo, founder of SNACK and co-founder of Families for Disability Rights, for a raw, fearless conversation about the side of parenting and disability advocacy that rarely gets airtime—but absolutely needs to.Jackie has been featured on Good Morning America, built inclusive programs from scratch, and helped launch th...
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    Don’t expect transparency. That’s what you have to dig for.” – Eamonn Scanlon, The Children's Agenda
    What happens when over 140,000 students are suspended from school each year in New York? When families can’t get basic developmental services until it’s too late? When the people in power act like the system is working just fine? This week on Finding Common Ground, Heather and Steve are joined by Eamonn Scanlon from The Children’s Ag...
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    In this powerful episode, Heather and Steve sit down with Jackie Kancir, Executive Director of the National Council on Severe Autism (NCSA), and Tammy Snyder, New York State Chair for NCSA—two incredible women who live the reality of severe autism every single day and fight to make a difference far beyond their own families.

     “We didn’t choose this path—but we’re choosing to walk it with purpose, for every family who feels unseen.” ...
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    What does it really mean to belong? How can embracing radical self-honesty and internal security transform our relationships and the communities we live in?
    In this episode of Finding Common Ground, Heather and Steve sit down with Fayna Claire Pearlman, a community-building expert, to explore these profound questions.




    Fayna shares powerful insights into how authentic connections start from within. Reflecting on the buzzword "safety,"...
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    March 12, 2025 46 mins
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    In this episode of  @FindingCommonGroundPodca-hm2ku   Heather and Steve dive into the vital role recreation centers play for adults with autism and developmental disabilities. Kathy Caruso, founder of the Better Together Recreation Center, shares her journey as a parent advocate and how she’s addressing the service gaps many families face.

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    In this episode of Finding Common Ground, Heather and Steve sit down with the powerhouse leadership team of the Kelberman Center: Maria Cappoletti (CEO), Kelly Carinci (Chief Development and Communications Officer), and Bethany Wendt (Director of Community Relations). Serving over 1,000 families in Central New York, Kelberman is a beacon of hope, offering a “true north” for families navigating their autism journey.

    From sensory-frie...
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    In this episode of Finding Common Ground, Heather and Steve sit down with Jennifer Everett, a seasoned first responder, to discuss the crucial role of emergency responders when supporting individuals with intellectual and developmental disabilities (IDD). Jennifer’s journey into the field began with a simple flyer in college—and the rest is history. She opens up about her early experiences supporting people with disabilities and th...
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    In this eye-opening episode, we sit down with Brad Hansen, Director of Public Policy at Families Together in New York State, to discuss the alarming crisis in youth mental health services and the game-changing solutions that could make all the difference.
    Brad pulls no punches as he reveals how systemic failures—such as endless waitlists, a critical shortage of mental health providers, and an overly complicated system—are leaving ou...
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    On this episode of Finding Common Ground, our guest Vincent Scalise, a decorated Marine veteran, shares his inspiring journey from serving on the battlefield to transforming his community. After returning from Iraq, Vin made it his mission to help his fellow veterans and neighbors by turning local challenges into opportunities.

    As Executive Director of the Utica Center for Development, Vin embodies the philosophy he shared on the po...
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    Join hosts Heather and Steve on Finding Common Ground as they sit down with two powerful voices for the IDD community: dedicated social worker Carrie Corby and university expert Dr. John Keesler. Despite not having a personal connection to IDD, both have chosen to devote their careers to supporting those with autism and other developmental differences, bringing fresh perspectives on systemic gaps that often go unnoticed.

    This candid...
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    In this episode, we sit down with Dr. Mai Pham, CEO and President of IEC, as she shares her personal and professional journey in transforming a healthcare system that often leaves people with disabilities behind. Despite years of medical experience, it wasn’t until her own child was diagnosed that Dr. Pham faced the frustrations families experience navigating a broken system. If she struggled, what about those without her inside kn...
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    Have you ever watched someone you care about spiral down a dark path, struggling with addiction and searching for a way out? If so, you will want to tune into this episode of Finding Common Ground.

    In this compelling episode, we delve into a reality that is often hidden behind closed doors with our guest, Theresa Bolos. She courageously shares her journey of hitting rock bottom when her drinking escalated to a crisis, culminating in...
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    In this must-see episode, we sit down with Regina Conti, a Colgate professor, renowned researcher, and proud mom to a neurodivergent child. Regina’s groundbreaking work in motivation, resilience, and social inclusion for individuals with IDD is deeply informed by her personal journey as a mother. She brings a wealth of expertise and heart to this conversation, making her a guest you won't want to miss. Together, we discuss her earl...
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    Join us on an inspiring episode, where we explore the transformative power of presuming competence in nontraditional communicators. In this episode, we feature Otto Lana, an exceptional advocate, poet, entrepreneur, and award-winning self-advocate who considers himself a "multi-modal communicator." 

    Otto is more than just resilient. While many become bitter when it feels like society has written them off due to their inability to ef...
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    This episode dives deep into the harsh realities facing home care in New York State while dispelling common misconceptions about those who need caregiving. You'll meet Jose, a resilient individual whose life changed forever just before his 15th birthday when a tragic swimming accident left him with a broken neck. His recovery was grueling, but the tougher lesson was discovering how people who need care are often treated as "less th...
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    In this powerful episode of Finding Common Ground, Steve and Heather sit down with Tristian, a young man whose journey through foster care is both heart-wrenching and inspiring. Tristian opens up about the abuse he endured early in life, the struggles of being shuffled between family members, and the challenges of navigating the foster care system. He shares how he "admitted himself into foster care" and, by "owning" his experience...
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     In this captivating episode, we sit down with Teena, an adult with Cerebral Palsy, who shares her journey of resilience and determination. Placed in an institution as a child, Teena did everything she could to get kicked out and succeeded. Listen to her powerful story of breaking free from institutionalization, navigating life with disabilities, and achieving milestones like marriage and motherhood. Teena's story is a testament to...
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