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From the bob. Which one willsend you running faster? From a relationship,
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constant arguing, no quality of time, no sex, boring relationship.
Mm hmmm. I think the arguing. I think that would be one,
because if it's boring, you canalways spice it up and figure out how
to do it. But if you'reconstantly arguing, oh man, I can't
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do that. Constant arguing, constantarguing. It's like, you know,
especially like be arguing about every littledang It makes no life too short,
Like y'all spend like two hours arguingover which way the toilet paper go in
he's supposed to go this, orthe toilet sea though, or you drunk
the lads of the orange juice you'resupposed to change this diapering or the grass
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not one in child as you cutit? Yeah? Are you watch ESPN
one not ESPN two? Hey,Simple arguments like something that can be fixed,
like that should be fixed like that. You know it shouldn't blow up
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because when you blow up over somethinglike that, Yo, it makes the
other person like, yo, that'spenny. Don't do that. Yeah,
you think about it, because kidsdo shit like that. I'm excusing my
leg I'm sorry, y'all, MyMoMA just potted the day. Excuse me,
but kids do stuff like that.They big, Oh you got you
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got march balls than me and it'sonly two. Whoa dad? He he
told me that, Oh no,you're in a relationship though. It's like
yeah, I mean you're grown.You know, you figure out we addults.
We should be smooth, you know, like, okay, no quality
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to time. I don't know,they'll send me running. That just made
both of y'all got stuff. Y'alltry and get done. Yeah, you
know you work, then she worked. It's not really considered like as long
as when y'all dude gets Sometimes y'allenjoy each other's that's it, you know,
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because no quality of time and thisday and age, a lot of
couple don't have quality. But Iwasn't considered. I was just about to
say that me honestly, it islike watching the movie or something like what
is considered quality quality time? AndI always tell making it shout out to
my baby. Quality time to meis when we're sitting amongst each other and
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we vibing, you know, likey'all can shit, y'all can just be
fresh out the shower. Just youknow, ain't doing nothing, ain't doing
you know, ain't doing nothing sexually. But you're just sitting there. She
can be sitting a certain way,you rubbing shoulders or whatnot, rubbing her
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feet and talking how your thing itwas? Hey, what you think about
such and such? You know,let me tell you about this idea,
sharing funny stories, having moments,you know, just sitting each other time,
the interaction, the conversation. Youknow, to me, that's quality
time, because think about it,there's couples that half quality times and the
first thing to do is getting ontheir phones. Quality time at a restaurant
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is what's eating or what you're gettingBabe, I'm gonna get this put out
your phone. People look at thatas being that's that's not quality time.
Quality time is when you're amongst eachother and you you know, you you're
bouncing off each other's vibe. Youknow it's but if you don't get that,
what you go running. You know, I ain't gonna say I'll go
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running. I wish you're not beinga relationship u Um. That would be
that, you know what, that'sthat's something that's important, just that because
you won't you can't come to apoint where you understand how that person's feeling.
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You know, that's that's very importantquality time. Just even having that
hour or that forty five minutes arejust talk time, because that forty five
minutes are just talking and um ineach other's spirit, in the same spirit.
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That's better than spending a whole daywith each other of just literally doing.
Okay, y'all going all these places, but not once have y'all interacted
to see how y'all you know howeach other's doing, no feeling? You
know what I'm saying, you all, well, y'all have fun with the
kids, because you're interacting with thekids. What about the wife? What
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are y'all? I'm saying, Well, but if you don't get it,
I'm saying a relationship. If youdon't get it, I'll say, that's
one thing that can be one ofthose factors of you leave. Are you
saying what I run in particular?All right? So yeah, because I'm
I'm gonna type two. I liketo talk, Okay, I like to
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understand, you know about to thosesex no sex, like how much is
no sakes? Because that's a that'slike it depends. I met number two
on mind of this number one,I'll be gone, You'll be gone.
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M hmm, yeah, because it'llget it'll get boring because after after you
didn't did all that talking. Nownot only your your mind is into it
now you like, oh snip homeand and woke up and then she like
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man not homing, Like damn,Yeah, that'd be one thing. Yeah,
I guess everything everything falls and youknow, fall into place. That's
number two us and me running.Yeah, oh yeah I can, I'll
be gone. I guess it'd bedifferent depending on your relationship status what you
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mean, like versus marriage and beingin a relationship. So you're in a
relationship with you'd be gone or nosex? Yeah, so so wamen because
the whole said no call to timetoo, you'll be gone and constant alre
you be gone. Oh you're gonnabe so. I ain't no no everything,
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no, no, no, no. I didn't know that we was
putting it in the list. Iain't know it's putting in order. You
just said, what would it beone of the things that will make you
said one will send you. That'swhat I asked. Relationship Okay, okay,
I ain't know what. You ain'tgonna be in no relationship, I
ain't I ain't know. It's puttingthem in order. But like I said,
it go it depends on the statusof the relationship, because if it's
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a marriage, you can always workon that. But if it's just one
of those we've been together for sevenmonths seven months type deal and she know
yeah, I mean yeah, it'dbe a little different because within the first
couple of months, man, youknow, you know, like that's the
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one. I don't know about thatbecause some people have been there. Yeah,
they think it's the one to comeback to bid them or they'd be
like, I don't know what happened, I don't know where happened. Yeah,
yeah, no, that's how itis. So yeah, I mean
yeah, that's a hard right there. Y, Yeah, that's but I
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say that's one of the ones,man, because at some point, man,
a conversation can get them drown quick. Well. Yeah, you're right,
you're right here, you know,especially if you're the one of those
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relationships with where it's uh, it'snot happening man, and start coming seating.
Yeah, you're right, from thebottom, from the bottom